Happy New Year! 2020 is upon us so Justin is joined by friend Mia Price to recap what they've learned in 2019 as well as what they want to keep in the past decade! Whether that be the Kardashians, clout chasing, zodiac signs or cancel culture; there's plenty that we don't want to take into 2020! What are you looking to change going into the new year and what toxic mess are you looking to get rid of? Get into the conversation! Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justin_alzi/ Follow ...
Jan 01, 2020•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 47
Being sick sucks...Listen to me ramble anyway! Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justin_alzi/ Follow the Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polaroppositespod/ SEND US QUESTIONS! If you would like a question answered on air, email us! We want to hear your feedback and offer advice on your situation! Ask away! polaropposites.pod@gmail.com If you like what you hear, leave us a 5-star rating and a review on Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE and tell ...
Dec 19, 2019•25 min•Ep. 46
This week has stirred some controversy when it comes to self-expression and body positivity! I'm joined by D'Andre to discuss the fallout regarding Lizzo and her choice to make a bold fashion statement at a Lakers game. Why do people have an issue with big bodies? Should people express themselves in any way they choose or is there a time and place for everything? What do you think? The fatphobia almost jumped out in this episode! Hot Takes/Off My Chest (07:44) In the News: (26:11) Main Topic: (3...
Dec 11, 2019•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 45
Don't text me, tell it straight to my face! This week, D'andre and I are back to discuss honesty and what that means in 2019. Why is it so hard for people to tell the truth? Are African parents too harsh? Sometimes we lie so others don't get hurt but sometimes you can't escape the truth and we need to be served a dose of reality! Hot Topics: The homophobia almost jumped out in this episode regarding Dwyane Wade's son Zion! (42:24) We also discussed what we consider cheating towards the end! It's...
Dec 04, 2019•1 hr 33 min•Ep. 44
You read the title correctly. Prejudiced or not, Nigerian parents fear their children will marry white people. As first-generation Americans, the loss of Nigerian identity is a concept that worries many. This week I'm joined by my friend D'Andre as we discuss the implications of interracial marriage, cultural preservation, and whether or not its racist to only want to marry someone of your own race. We're not allowed to marry white people so let's discuss why! In the News: Drake got booed at Tyl...
Nov 20, 2019•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 42
Why are men afraid to identify as feminists? These days the word 'feminist' has been heavily scrutinized even by women. On this episode, I'm joined by my friend Alexis Idjagboro as she breaks down what feminism means to her as well as some talk about gender identity, sex talk with Nigerian parents, and allowing women to express their sexuality freely. Its a good one! We also discuss Instagram hiding likes, people killing others for Popeyes chicken sandwiches, Solange's separation from her husban...
Nov 13, 2019•1 hr 27 min•Ep. 41
If you got cheated on, would you forgive and forget or end a relationship? This week Justin is joined by friend Aisha Smalley as they discuss forgiveness and moving on from people you once cared about. Why do people have a hard time letting go and forgiving others? Sometimes its best to just cut it and keep it moving. They also discuss Always removing the female symbol from period pads to include transgender people, Kanye's 'Jesus Is King' album, Tank's take on what makes someone gay, Popeyes sa...
Oct 30, 2019•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 39
Rise & Shiine! This week, Justin and Melanie talk all about hookup culture, sex on the first date, slut-shaming, STD's, and the lack of condom sense people seem to have when it comes to being safe. When is the last time you've been tested? Off My Chest (7:18) In the News: (25:22) Main Topic: (30:22) Not too much happened in the news this week but if you're not black do NOT say the N-word. I'm talking to you Gina Rodriguez... Unpopular Opinion: People on dating apps should be required to post...
Oct 23, 2019•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 38
Please don't kill my vibe or my self-esteem! Confidence is everything but sometimes people in our lives can bring us down and make us feel like trash. Self-esteem is important and has a huge impact on success and how YOU see yourself. You don't have to take a DNA test to realize that you're 100% that bitch! Yeah, I said it... This week Justin is joined by friend Seun Omoba to discuss Ellen DeGeneres and her hypocrisy, Lizzo and whether or not she's a rapper, Bernie Sanders' heart attack, and our...
Oct 16, 2019•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 37
Blessing you with a surprise episode! This time Justin & Kendal discuss "canceled culture." What does it mean to be "canceled" and how much are we willing to forgive? Can a racist be redeemed? Is Twitter the devil? Where do you draw the line when it comes to unsubscribing from artists that offend you? We answer all of these questions and more! This episode is much more than canceled culture. This episode was published because many of you can likely relate to some of what we discussed. Hope y...
Oct 12, 2019•59 min•Ep. 36
Our parents have taught us many lessons and we've learned from the good and bad examples they've shown us! This week Justin & Kendal take a look into the future to predict how they would parent their future children and what new issues they'll have to grapple with in the coming generation. Basically we learned that parenting is HARD! In the News: Tyler Perry opened a new studio and Twitter found something to hate about, Amber Guyger....yeah Main Topic: (10:50) "Off My Chest" is a segment whe...
Oct 09, 2019•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 35
Let's face it. We're ALL problematic. Whether its using the N-word, calling a tank top a "wifebeater," or reinforcing colorism; we've come a long way but we still have a ways to go! This week Justin & Melisa discuss their problematic past and how they hold those around them accountable for their questionable behavior. In the News: We discuss Trump's impeachment drama, Jennifer Lopez & Shakira headlining the Super Bowl, Kanye West's gospel album, ABC's new show Mixed-ish, and people conti...
Oct 02, 2019•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 34
Justin & Malik reflect on their experiences growing up in white spaces. They also explore black fraternities and the Greek experience as Malik debunks stereotypes and misconceptions associated with pledging. Hot Take: (12:52) Main Topic: (28:42) Listener letter (59:30) "Off My Chest" is a segment where I rant about something that's been bothering me. What are the things you'd like to get off YOUR chest? I'd like to read some on air! DM us on Instagram @polaroppositespod or email us: polaropp...
Sep 25, 2019•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 33
Reaching a conclusion without knowing the facts is dangerous! This week we get into judgment and how it affects us every day. People judge the clothes we wear, cheaters in a relationship, what we post on social media, and even trivial things like receiving green texts from people with Androids. Regardless of what people are judged about, WE all do it so let's talk about WHY. (2:07) Off My Chest (17:08) In the News (30:30) Main Topic I introduced a new segment called "Off My Chest" where I rant a...
Sep 18, 2019•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 32
Don't go to college! You work so hard for a piece of paper only to end up unemployed and in hella debt...Let's discuss! College isn't for everyone but on this episode Justin & Aisha dive into their college experiences and whether they think college was worth the investment. Get into it! (30:14) Stick around till the end where we answer a VERY interesting listener letter! Follow Aisha on Instagram: @aishaasmalleyy In the News: (9:35) We discuss Chick-fil-a and their homophobia, gay conversion...
Sep 11, 2019•1 hr 36 min•Ep. 31
Stop being so sensitive! Instead of reacting negatively towards something that upsets you, think BEFORE you type! (timestamps at the bottom of the description) This week, Justin is joined by friend Seun Omoba to discuss emotional maturity and how our generation needs more of it. Relationships are important and the way we treat others has a ripple effect. When situations don’t go our way, our initial approach means everything but your response means just as much! They discuss the annoying Popeyes...
Sep 04, 2019•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 30
There's no need for tears! Change is just a part of life. This week, Justin & Nicky reflect on their podcasting journey together and reveal the highs and lows of their experience thus far. They discuss their most and least favorite episodes as well as what they've learned throughout the process. Most importantly, they vocalize their love for the listeners and how much it means to have the podcast resonate with so many people. We love you guys! Main Topic: (7:00) You can support the podcast o...
Aug 28, 2019•36 min•Ep. 29
Yes, it's true. We all have fears whether they're rational or not. What do you fear? How does fear impact your life and where do our fears come from? Hot Take: (1:00) In the News: (7:26) Main Topic (24:25) You can support the podcast on Patreon! With as little as $2 a month, you can help keep the podcast going! You'll also get perks! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=21710344 SEND US QUESTIONS! If you would like a question answered on air, email us! We want to hear your feedback or suggestions for ...
Aug 21, 2019•57 min•Ep. 28
Would you end a relationship if you found out your man is trans? Is it okay to Facetime someone of the opposite sex when you're in a relationship? Would you help cover up a murder to help your friend or family member? What's your opinion on this week's Hot Take? (5:32) What an episode! This week Justin & Nicky reveal how they would handle some of the most interesting hypothetical situations. Many of the answers may surprise you! If there's a line, we may have crossed it in this episode! (17:...
Aug 14, 2019•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 27
Viruses are like STD's but for your computer. Gotta protect it! This week Justin is joined by friend Jared Smith to discuss what life was like before social media and the pop culture trends that defined our generation. Do you remember what it was like to download music on Limewire or text without smartphones? Tip of the Week: Don't message strangers on MySpace... (12:05) What's your opinion on this week's Hot Take? (2:35) In the News: We have to talk about it (El Paso and Ohio shooting over the ...
Aug 07, 2019•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 25
Whether its eating Tide pods, pretending to be white, setting yourself on fire, or pretending to be in a gang, people are willing to do anything for attention or clout...Let's talk about it! This week Justin & Nicky discuss viral culture and our society's obsession with instant fame. What lengths will people go to achieve some sense of notoriety? They discuss how viral culture started and some of the internet challenges that have come and gone. (26:06) What's your opinion on this week's Hot ...
Jul 31, 2019•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 24
We've all heard the fable that men are trash, but we're here to shed some light on the other perspective. This week Justin & Nicky are joined by Faith Effanga as they discuss male/female privilege and the double standards that define our lives. Justin learns about the trash women deal with every day and the crew raise some interesting questions. Should women also be drafted into war? Should men take their wives last name? What does it mean to "write like a girl?" What is the meaning of equal...
Jul 24, 2019•1 hr 31 min•Ep. 23
Are white people the REAL loud ones in a movie theatre? Is The Office overrated? This week Justin & Nicky do an episode full of just HOT TAKES! See if you agree or disagree with our takes. In the News: Scarlett Johanssen makes a controversial statement about whitewashing and Jermaine Dupri makes a dumb comment about the state of female rappers in the industry. Support the podcast on Patreon! With as little as $2 a month, you can help keep the podcast going! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=217...
Jul 17, 2019•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 22
They say the future is bright but based on our discussion today, that may not be true... This week Justin & Nicky are joined by Nathan Vu as they take 30+ year glance into the future to make predictions about what the world will look like. Will black people finally get reparations? Will our environmental practices ruin the Earth? Will student loans still exist? Will transgender people get to play sports with the gender they identify with? In the News: Lil Nas X is gay (we don’t care). People...
Jul 10, 2019•1 hr 29 min•Ep. 21
What's the point of living life if you're not evolving and growing? When we go through life we learn and hopefully gain an understanding about who we are, how we've changed, and the painful steps it took to get there. In the News: The Democratic debates was...interesting, Kim Kardashian's 'Kimono' stirs controversy, the 2019 BET Awards and more! Hot Take: Rihanna is NOT a good singer and the process of grocery shopping sucks... As always we answer some interesting listener letters. If you would ...
Jul 03, 2019•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 20
Only the lucky ones are blessed with great roommates but the rest of us deal with trash...(literally). This week Justin & Nicky tackle the issue of living with roommates. Whether its leaving dishes in the sink, causing drama or stealing food, you never know what mess you'll be dealing with when living with strangers! They discuss the premiere episode of the new season of Black Mirror called 'Striking Vipers' and the interesting discussion it prompts dealing with black masculinity, sexuality,...
Jun 26, 2019•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 19
Is it true that black people can't swim? Are Asians truly good at math? Can someone look gay? We answer all of these questions and more! This week Justin & Nicky dive into negative and positive stereotypes and their effect on our society. Find out how Justin almost DIED and gave into a stereotype... In the News: The BeyHIVE attacks the wife of the Golden State Warriors owner and Justin issues a statement to those who participate in stan culture. They discuss the Netflix series 'When They See...
Jun 12, 2019•59 min•Ep. 17
We’re baaaccckkk! What do you consider attractive? Why aren’t fat people seen as desirable? Why do people bleach their skin? At what length will you go to achieve the look you desire? This week Justin & Nicky tackle the subject of desirability and how our society goes about determining what is attractive based on western standards. They get into topics such as skin bleaching, plastic surgery, fat phobia, short people shaming, colorism, self hate, and more! In The News: They give their opinio...
Jun 05, 2019•59 min•Ep. 16
We just want the money, the cars, and the clothes...At the end of the day we just want to be successful and most importantly HAPPY. (Drake reference intended). We all have dreams and aspirations and as we continue going through life we begin to question whether our careers will make us happy at the end of the day. This week Justin is joined by friend Heidi Shay as they discuss everything from double eyelid surgery (blepharoplasty), Asian parenting, and the pursuit of personal fulfillment. They a...
May 29, 2019•51 min•Ep. 15
Say your prayers cause this country needs some help! We're taking you to church this week and we're blessing you with a new episode focusing on religion and why our millennial generation doesn't seem religious! Justin & Nicky are joined by friend Bomi as they discuss everything from being possessed by demons, the existence of God, Scientology being a cult, and whether or not catching the holy ghost is fake. They get into the controversy surrounding the Alabama Abortion Bill, Disney owning Hu...
May 22, 2019•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 14
