That “Be a Sub First” Advice? Not So Fast - Episode 267
Apr 17, 2026•1 hr 5 min•Season 5Ep. 267
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Episode description
“If you want to be a good Dom, you should be a sub first.”
You’ve heard it. A lot.
In this episode, we’re unpacking where that advice comes from, what it gets right, and where it completely misses the mark. Because understanding your partner matters—but forcing yourself into a role that isn’t yours isn’t the answer.
Let’s talk about what actually makes someone a better Dom.
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