Are BDSM Contracts a requirement for a dynamic? Why should I have a contract? What should be included in a contract? We answer these questions and much more in this episode. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkink...
Oct 21, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 87
We finally devote an entire episode to the subject of subspace. What is it? What does it look like? How can I achieve it? We answer all these questions and more in our deep dive into subspace. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and ...
Oct 14, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 86
In this episode we answer questions that we received from listeners and found on social media. If you would like to ask us a question, send us a message through our email or through social media. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter a...
Oct 07, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 85
Being a submissive is an amazing and wonderful thing but sometimes it can be difficult to explain just why it is amazing and wonderful. In this episode we go through all the benefits of being a submissive. We also talk about some of the potential pitfalls of your submission. Even if you are not a submissive, you should listen because it will give you a better understanding. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.co...
Sep 30, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Season 1Ep. 84
It's Rara's birthday episode so she chose to discuss Praise Kink. Also known as affirmation play, praise kink is growing in popularity. You may think that it's an easy thing to include praise in your scenes or dynamic, but Praise Kink is so much more than just saying thank your or complimenting your partner. We discuss the psychology behind this kink, how to determine if you have it, and how to get the most out of your praise kink. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com ...
Sep 23, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 83
This week we are talking about Fear Play - what it is, why do we enjoy this type of play, and we give you ideas on how to incorporate fear into your scenes. Because fear play falls into the category called "edge play” because of the high physical or psychological risk, we also go over ways to minimize the risk and how to handle things if trouble arises. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK ...
Sep 16, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 82
It's Dara's birthday episode so she got to chose the topic and she picked Humiliation. It is one of the kinks she has and wants to explore more. We talk about exactly what a humiliation kink, the importance of boundaries and consent when doing humiliation scenes, and what Dara has agreed to do if we meet our Patreon Membership campaign goal. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% ...
Sep 09, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 81
The term "in service" is something kinksters are very familiar with. But did you know you can Top or bottom in service to someone? In this episode we explain exactly what service Topping and bottoming is and how it differs from typical Topping and bottoming. We also set off our Patreon Membership Drive in honor of our September birthdays. For more information about our Patreon, check out http://pinkkinkpodcast.com/support-us/ Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use c...
Sep 02, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 80
We talk about why your reputation is everything within the BDSM community. We discuss how having a bad reputation can hurt you and how a good reputation can benefit you. We even give tips on how to get that good reputation. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us...
Aug 26, 2022•57 min•Season 1Ep. 79
When we saw that Netflix had a new show titled "How to Build a Sex Room" we knew that we would have to watch. And since we have opinions, we knew we would have to share our thoughts, good and bad, on the show. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instag...
Aug 19, 2022•1 hr 24 min
The recent popularity of things like 50 Shades and 365 has created more interest in kink. Helping people understand what we do is great, but these works of fiction have created another problem by blurring the lines between fantasy and reality. In this episode, we talk about the differences between what the media portrays BDSM as and what the reality is. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK ...
Aug 12, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 77
Exhibitionism and voyeurism are two sides of the same coin. Without someone to watch them, exhibitionists have nothing. And without someone willing to be watched, voyeurs are left with nothing to do. Rara, the exhibitionist and Dara, the voyeur, talk about how these kinks work for them and ways to include them in a D/s dynamic. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order ...
Aug 05, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 76
It had been a super long time since either of us had gone through the BDSM Checklist and updated it with our current likes and dislikes. We used the checklist that is available at pinkkinkpodcast.com on the Resources page. Join us as we go through the list, share stories, and see once again how different we are from where we started and from each other. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK ...
Jul 29, 2022•1 hr 10 min
When does masochism in BDSM become harmful for your mental health? We spoke to AJ, a kink and sexuality educator and therapist to answer this important question. To reach AJ - Ajcheyfitz@tamarapincus.com Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, T...
Jul 22, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 74
Frenzy is an experience that affects many new kinksters. You are finally getting to dip your toes into this kinky world that you have learned about and you are overwhelmed. You become consumed by your desire to do it all, even to the point of neglecting all other concerns, even safety concerns. We share stories of frenzy, ours and friends, as we discuss why frenzy can happen and how best to deal with it. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 1...
Jul 15, 2022•1 hr 17 min•Season 1Ep. 73
Controlling orgasms is a fun way to add heat to your sex life and it's a very common practice in D/s relationships. We talk about different ways to incorporate orgasm control into your life and the many surprising benefits of orgasm control. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on yo...
Jul 08, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 72
BDSM is a lot of fun but it comes with risks. If you are smart and experienced, then you have identified ways to minimize risks. But there is always the chance that things can go wrong. They can be small things or really big things and everyone, Top or bottom, should be prepared to deal with mistakes. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders...
Jul 01, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Season 1Ep. 71
Wax play is a form of temperature play in which wax is dripped onto your partner's body. It may seem like a simple way to add some fun to your kinky play. However, before engaging in wax play you need to know what you are doing. We talk about how to play with wax safely and offer different creative ways to expand on your wax play. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your ord...
Jun 24, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 70
Drop is a term we hear a lot in BDSM. Technically drop is what happens to your body after you've drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during your scenes. It's a term typically associated with submissives but anyone can experience drop after a scene, including Tops. How exactly does drop work? What is happening to your body when you drop? Can you prevent it? Is it only scenes that cause drop? Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use cod...
Jun 17, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 69
High protocol is, in the BDSM community, is a code prescribing strict adherence to a pre-determined set of rules or etiquette that determines acceptable behavior for a submissive. Many romanticize high protocol as the thing to aim for in D/s relationships. So what is it exactly and how does it differ from other types? Is it really a better way to do D/s? We answer these questions and more. The Restrained Elegance lexicon of slavegirl positions - https://www.restrainedelegance.com/preview/lexicon...
Jun 10, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 68
Breakups are painful no matter what brings them about. When it's a D/s relationship that ends it can add to the pain. Your routine is altered, you need to unlearn habits, and you may have to deal with seeing your partner at an event and possibly with a new partner. We discuss the process of grieving and give tips on what you can do to allow healing to happen. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PIN...
Jun 03, 2022•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 67
Common questions we hear include "how can I make my scenes last longer?" and "how can I take more pain in my scenes?" There are things that you can do to work on your bottoming skills which will definitely improve your scenes. We talk about scene communication and body awareness and others things you can do to become the play partner who others seek out. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK...
May 27, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 66
Medical roleplay involving medical scenarios, procedures and practices is a very common and popular kink. We see it everywhere from the "sexy nurse" outfits to playing doctor. No experience is necessary and neither is elaborate equipment. Your imagination is your only limit. We offer ideas for ways to incorporate medical roleplay into your kink life and even share some of our own medical fantasies. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on ...
May 20, 2022•58 min•Season 1Ep. 65
A common label in the lifestyle is service sub. But what is a service sub? What does it mean to serve? Service submission is a lot more complicated than people realize. We discuss exactly what is meant by service, the different types of service and why people would want to serve. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPoly...
May 13, 2022•1 hr 13 min•Season 1Ep. 64
DISCLAIMER: The information provided in this episode does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal advice; instead, all information and content in this episode is for general informational purposes only. Millions of adults participate in consensual, mutually agreed upon kink. But is any of what we do actually legal? Can you consent to a beating or whipping? This is a very serious subject so we brought in two legal experts. We speak with Attorney Lady Steele, a licensed lawyer from Atlanta a...
May 06, 2022•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 63
We thought we would introduce our new Pink Kink subreddit by answering some more questions from Reddit. Check us out at r/PinkKinkPodcast. Ask questions, share stories, and don't forget to send questions our way to be included in future Answer Reddit Questions episodes. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (us...
Apr 29, 2022•1 hr 17 min•Season 1Ep. 62
Honorifics are an important part of many people's identity and relationship. But when it comes to honorifics in the lifestyle, there are as many different possibilities as there are opinions on when and how to use honorifics. There has even been debate on social media as to the proper use of honorifics. Join us as we share our opinions on the subject. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to...
Apr 22, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 61
Dara and Rara both identify as switches. But as with everything else, their switch personas are different. That is because switching is a spectrum and there are a multitude of ways to incorporate switching into your play. We talk about what switching means to us and different ways to bring out your inner switch. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shippin...
Apr 15, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 60
You probably have heard about breeding fetishes but did you know about pregnancy fetishes? Or lactation fetishes? Have you heard about hucows? We cover the whole spectrum of these often misunderstood fetishes.
Apr 08, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Season 1Ep. 59
Within BDSM, the label brat has become associated with being rebellious, an antagonist, refusing, whining and many other negative stereotypes. But the reality is that bratting is actually a spectrum ranging from sassy to fighting back. Many kinksters like a little extra attitude in their partner and bratting ethically can add extra fun to your scenes and dynamic. We brought in special guest Katrina who teaches classes on ethical bratting to talk with us about the misconceptions surrounding being...
Apr 01, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Season 1Ep. 58
