Whether you are a longtime member of the kink world or a newbie just exploring, you may have noticed something a bit concerning. Kink often has an issue with elitism. In the kink community, there is often a sense of hierarchy: what kinks are the best kinks... and the kinkier, the better. But this competition is unhealthy for you and your partners. We discuss why and how to avoid falling into the trap of comparing yourself. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for...
Aug 27, 2021•56 min•Season 1Ep. 28
TW: CNC/Rape Play It is sometimes hard to understand why we enjoy some of the kinks we have. Whether it's being a sadist and wanting to hurt someone, dress up diapers and using a bottle and pacifier, or even wanting to participate in rape role play, some of our kinks are a little more difficult to wrap our heads around. We tell our stories of acceptance and share the stories our listeners were brave enough to share. Thank you to everyone who wrote in, called in and commented on our posts asking ...
Aug 20, 2021•1 hr 22 min•Season 1Ep. 27
Hypnosis has been used for centuries to induce dreams, recall memories, and transform habits. So it makes sense that it could also be used to elicit pleasure. We speak with Mr. Taqtiks, a certified hypnotist, to learn all about how to use hynposis in your BDSM play. Follow Mr. Taqtiks on Fetlife at https://fetlife.com/users/110316 Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Af...
Aug 13, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Season 1Ep. 26
Consent. It is the foundation of BDSM. Without consent, what we do is nothing more than abuse. We discuss how best to ensure you have consent in a scene. But there are multiple ways to consent so we also talk about which ways are more effective than others. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order)...
Aug 06, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 25
Many people believe that long distance D/s relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. But if you communicate and work together, you can have a successful relationship. We discuss all the questions you need answered before beginning the relationship and ideas on how to keep things fun a...
Jul 30, 2021•1 hr 10 min•Season 1Ep. 24
Kink within polyamory relationships provide extra challenges. How do you incorporate D/s rules into your other relationships? What do you do if one partner doesn't like bruises and another does? We talk about all this and more as we try to navigate the challenge of meshing two lifestyles together. Polyamory resource - Tik Tok: Two good resources are Polyammering and Polypages Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can...
Jul 23, 2021•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 23
Rope bondage has gained in popularity as more people have come to admire the artistry that can be created with rope. But rope is considered edge play because of the risks involved. We speak with Simple_Beauty, an accomplished rope top, and Rara's rigger. We talk about why Simple Beauty loves rope, the different kinds of rope, the risks involved and more. Follow Simple_Beauty on FetLife at www.fetlife.com/simple_beauty See some of Simple_Beauty and Princess Rara's rope work on Fetlife at www.fetl...
Jul 16, 2021•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 22
Kink has dangers. Dangers to our social standing, to our health, to our sanity. Anyone who tells you that BDSM is “totally safe” is probably lying, or is too ignorant to play with. But something being risky doesn’t automatically make it bad. After all, people bungee jump and sky dive and swim with sharks. It all comes down to what activities you are willing to do, even when knowing all the risks involved, which is what we refer to as your Risk Profile. We talk about why you should set up a risk ...
Jul 09, 2021•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 21
People in leashes in grocery stores. Kink at Pride. So much has been in the news lately about whether kink is appropriate in public and if so, how much? We discuss our thoughts on the matter, which not surprisingly, are very different. We don't have answers but hopefully we will get a discussion started on a very hot button topic. Let us know your thoughts. Contact us through our website or through our social media accounts. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use co...
Jul 02, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 20
We are absolutely fascinated by pet play and furries so we talked to experts to learn more about this kink. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Sponsor - www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact Jae at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help...
Jun 25, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 19
We talk all about our favorite toys. Photos and videos of the toys can be seen on Instagram and Tik Tok. Links for Rara's favorites - Leather Claw Gloves, Fire Hose Paddle, & Slapper - SireDonLeather.com Heart Shaped Spiked Paddle - Tiny Terror Toys on Etsy Boxing Hand Wrapping Inner Gloves - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B079JYMXKT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_JJFDTYSC18GWS22T78DD?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 Stapler - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LWC10SL/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_5CQHDY92MSQMCYAQ...
Jun 18, 2021•1 hr 25 min•Season 1Ep. 18
Many kinksters began to utilize social media apps to educate and inform about a variety of standard kink concepts such as negotiations, safety and consent. Tik Tok in particular really exploded with what kinksters call Kink Tok. We have even started our own Tik Tok account - thepinkkinkpodcast. Several Kink Tok content creators have really established themselves as kink influencers and we wanted to find out how they have been able to use social media to educate and relate kink to the masses. We ...
Jun 11, 2021•1 hr 29 min•Season 1Ep. 17
There is a lot of disagreement about how fiction portrays BDSM. Fifty Shades is one of the most talked about fictional portrayals and probably the most controversial. Some people recommend watching the movie Secretary instead. Even Netflix has jumped on the BDSM bandwagon with their series Bonding. We decided to explore all three to see how well they did in showcasing the reality of kink. You may be surprised by our thoughts and we are sure that you will have your own thoughts. Support us at Pat...
Jun 04, 2021•1 hr 42 min•Season 1Ep. 16
Rara gets on her soapbox to discuss the assumption that BDSM is only about sex and sexual things. Hint - It's not. Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Sponsored by www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact Jae at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us out on Instagram, Twitter, and Fetlife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at the pinkkinkpodcast.com Join our Facebookbook group - Pi...
May 28, 2021•51 min•Season 1Ep. 15
When Rara turned her back to Top in an impact scene, Dara saw her opportunity to convert more kinksters to "TeamLightning." This bonus episode features interviews with experienced electro participants and first time electro participants. In addition, eavesdrop during an electro scene with Dara and one of her favorite electro bottoms.
May 25, 2021•39 min
This episode is all about Caregivers and littles. This topic is near and dear to our hearts because we both identify in the little category. Caregiver/littles are very misunderstand, even within the BDSM lifestyle. So it's important for us to explain what the dynamic is, destigmatize this dynamic, bust all the negative myths about it and showcase all the wonderful parts. Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Sponsored by www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanil...
May 21, 2021•59 min•Season 1Ep. 14
Whether you are a new or experienced kinkster, you have probably run into a lot of assumptions about the lifestyle. Some may be true, but there are also a lot of myths. In this episode we debunk myths about the lifestyle in general as well as those specific to Doms and subs. We can't tackle all of them, but we bust our way through quite a lot of myths. Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kink...
May 14, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 13
FemDomme, or Female Dominance, refers to a BDSM scene or relationship in which a female-identifying person is a dominant partner or top partner. While there are many similarities to a male dominated D/s, there are also differences and plenty of misconceptions. We talk about what it's like being a FemDomme, the difficulties we run into, and why we love this type of dynamic. Affiliates: SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us out on...
May 07, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 12
Domination and submission. It's what everybody thinks about when you think about BDSM. Many people have preconceived notions about how D/s works. They get an idea in their head of what is right and what is wrong. And we’re here to tell you that probably a lot of what you think and believe about D/s is wrong. We explain what D/s really is versus the myths and discuss different types of Doms and subs as well as take a peek into D/s relationships. Thank you to galenstarbound.com for your generous d...
Apr 30, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 11
A rare Pink Moon has made an appearance and we couldn't let it slip by without celebrating. Therefore we offer this special bonus episode offering a glimpse inside a private BDSM play party. Enjoy listening to interviews with kinksters ranging from new to experienced. We even have recorded a needle scene with Rara bottoming for a new top. We hope you enjoy this fun and memorable episode. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us out at Instagram, Twitter, Tik Tok and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast. J...
Apr 27, 2021•41 min
In order to maintain a healthy relationship, especially within the BDSM community, you need to be aware of signs of unhealthy behavior. Of course, these red flags can appear in any kind of relationship–but it’s extra important when you’re in a power exchange relationship or picking a play partner and risking injury. Whether you are a submissive looking for a Dom, a Dom looking for a submissive, or are already in a relationship, there are some obvious and subtle red flags that you should be looki...
Apr 23, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Aftercare is, very simply, the time you and your partner take after play time to recover and also to see to each other’s emotional and physical needs. It is doing whatever those participating in the scene need to get back to baseline or better. Learn what it is, why you need it and the different ways you can do it. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us out at Instagram, Twitter, Tik Tok and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast. Join our Facebook group Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/pi...
Apr 16, 2021•51 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Negotiation is a cornerstone of successful BDSM play. It is the process of working out what each of you enthusiastically agrees to do or to avoid when you play together. Negotiation can be fun -- and even hot. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us out at Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Support us patreon.com/pinkkinkpodcast
Apr 09, 2021•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 8
We challenged our listeners in Episode 7 to melt Dara with their best Scottish accents. Listen as she hears them for the first time and how easily she melts. If you wish to send us your best Scottish accent (or a British accent for Rara) then go to http://pinkkinkpodcast.com/contact-us/ and click on the link to to leave a voice mail message. Please include your name so that we can feature you in another bonus episode. pinkkinkpodcast.com
Apr 05, 2021•3 min•Season 1Ep. 7
BDSM Dungeon. Those words cause many a kinkster to shiver; some out of excitement and some out of fear. Listen as we talk about what actually happens at a dungeon and make it less intimidating. Learn about what you might see, what you should wear and how you should act whether you are at a public dungeon or a private play party. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us out at Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Support us patreon.com/pinkkinkpodcast
Apr 02, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 7
You need to go to a munch. That’s almost always the first piece of advice given to someone when they begin exploring BDSM. Munches are a great way to meet people, ask questions, and be yourself without worrying about keeping your desires a secret any longer. Munches are also a great way to get your foot in the door of the kinky community. Learn about what a munch is, what to expect, how to behave and so much more. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us at on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at p...
Mar 26, 2021•44 min•Season 1Ep. 6
If you are into kink, you've probably heard about FetLife. They call themselves the Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community. Like Facebook, but run by kinksters like you and me. Some people love Fet, some people hate it, but everyone has an opinion. Especially us, so listen to our opinions and advice on the good, bad and ugly sides of FetLife. Connect with us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast...
Mar 19, 2021•51 min•Season 1Ep. 5
Scenes. A common BDSM term. But what kind of scenes? What sorts of kinky fun can you get into? Listen and learn about a wide variety of scenes that many kinksters enjoy. Check out our social media accounts: Pinkkinkpodcast at Instagram, Twitter, FetLife and Facebook Contact us: Pinkkinkpodcast@gmail.com
Mar 12, 2021•59 min•Season 1Ep. 4
We continue discussing common terms used in the BDSM lifestyle. Check out our social media accounts: Pinkkinkpodcast at Instagram, Twitter and Fetlife Contact us: Pinkkinkpodcast@gmail.com
Mar 05, 2021•54 min•Season 1Ep. 3
Curious about BDSM? Here's part one of a glossary of terms that will give you the vocabulary you need to ask questions and understand the kink lifestyle. _______________________________________Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Twitter - PinkKinkPodcast Instagram - PinkKinkPodcast FetLife - Pink KinkPodcast
Feb 26, 2021•49 min•Season 1Ep. 2
