Perspectives: 10 Min Talks With Dom

Dissatisfaction with being wanted

Boundaries during the Holidays

In this sequel to “you don’t get to misuse boundaries” Dom and T discuss past and potential boundary issues during the holiday season and how to prep for them.

You don’t get to misuse boundaries

Boundaries…. In a boundary hyper culture we are all too quick to use this word without actually clarity behind its purpose. A boundary has a clear start and end point. It is not a cop out to hard conversations or courage. Actually, I might even say that boundaries take courage. Courage to understand ones self courage to understand the capacity of another. This episode is an introduction to a 3 part series . We hope yal enjoy Fam !

It’s Not what said but what you didn’t say

A lot of times we are frustrated with how life’s difficulties are arising. Whether it be at our job, in our families, or romantic involvements, we feel like we have said soooo much and often times ask ourself why aren’t people doing what we want?! Why aren’t people tending to our true desires. We would like to suggest that it’s not about what you are saying but it’s about what you aren’t saying.

Discovering what we need even when we know the Solution

Have you ever thought of a time in your life when you needed something different than what was offered by society. Tune in as Dom and T talk about how we as people settle for certain things instead of things we actually need. They also explain why choosing ourselves in that moment can be very liberating.

Allowing your partner to be there for you

Allowing your partner to be there for you is extremely scary because honestly so many fears can set in “ do I owe them, will they ever stop doing this, can I trust them, or will they throw this back in my face later?” T and Dom share their own struggles with the vulnerability of allowing each other to be there.

What does this action tell me about myself ?

What gets in the way of our consistency?

Consistency, at times, can be hard. But, why?! What gets in the way of the things we desire to do? Does discovering ourself or even just simply being filled with courage help? Tune in to see!

Am I suspicious of My Partner because of my Past?

An Instagram poll turned into a podcast. Ha! Check it out Fam

What does real love look like ?

Dom and T delve into this episode ,and talk about what real love looks like from their perspective. Real love is understanding and growing with someone. Sacrifice and patience are REAL. Yet, it’s something we are struggling to commit to? Why ?

Am I lying to myself to avoid pain?

Sometimes the truth is painful. So painful that we will try to soothe our minds with a lie to avoid the pain of that truth. Listen as Dom and T discuss how this might later on be more damaging than the initial pain we are trying to avoid

Dang, I can’t follow, I gotta be Creative

When we can’t do a thing like those who have gone before us it pushes us to be creative and start something new. Sometimes creativity is birthed through our inability to follow.

Our Attachment to Failure

Failure is an event but as humans sometimes we allow it to become who we are. In this episode we learn that failure doesn’t mean you are failing, but instead it’s the beginning of success.

Q&A You asked we delivered

Yal asked; we delivered! In this episode we answer questions from our listeners. See if your question made the episode!

Becoming a Reassuring Partner

Being a great partner doesn’t come naturally to everyone. Sometimes you have to dig deep to get the happiness you desire. Dom and T discuss how being vulnerable , and communicating with your partner can bring a sense of appreciation to your relationship.

Forgiving and Loving our Parents

Acknowledging the pain of unmet desires by our caretakers can be ruff, simply because we are aware how much they love us. Yet, Dom and T discuss how acknowledge the pain of our parents despite their love can actually shape us into more healthier human beings

The Mirror Of our Offenses

Dom and T discuss how our offenses often mirror unaddressed pain from our past. The two explain how observing the mirror of our offenses prevent us from damaging our relationships.

The Little Things

Season 2 starts off with a bang! Dom And her new co-host T delve into a meaningful topic titled “the little things.” The little things make up the big picture. But perhaps, culture has made the little things seem insignificant. So, we ignore them. When, in fact they can actually matter more than the big things.

The intimacy of Silence

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Not allowing Disappointments to become Distractions

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Not adopting other people’s offense

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Giving healthy Disappointment

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Will and Jada’s entanglement

Jae and Dom sit and discuss their perspectives of Will and Jada’s story of Jada’s “entanglement with August .

Practical ways to fight Depression

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What’s the rock in your shoe?

Small things affect the larger scheme of things but do we know what small things are affecting us?

Asking yourself “Why”

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The dangers of putting up walls

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Safe places in people

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Hearing to Here

No typo ! Just listen

How to give and receive help

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