Pegging Dating

welcome to the pegging room And it's me, your intergalactical guide, Pixtras. And we're back with another episode of The Pegging Bird. And I am so happy that you've decided to join me here where we discuss pelvic pleasure and all of those fun and kinky things. Floating around the pegging verse I am happy that we're here in the second month of twenty twenty five, February, the month of

And I got my own little love story to tell y'all, but we'll dig into that later. This month we had the strapped for love event on Friday. the fourteenth Valentine's Day and I just wanna give a big Thank you to everyone that came out and participated in both the Strap for Love event. And the couples cleanse class. We had a lot of fun making enemas sexy and romantic. And afterwards, we got our thing on. We got our freak on.

So if you were not in the building for that event, make sure you're staying tuned and you look out for the next event, which is actually like six weeks away. So yeah, like six or seven weeks away. So yeah, let's let's let's get on the list, get onboarded, get your tickets, because like the last event, we are capping it out.

at thirty to thirty five guests. We like a little small soiree, you know? N not no big, big event, just a little small soiree. You know, as I Slowly dip my dick back into the pelvic pond. So, Strap for Love was a big success. Can't wait for the next event. Make sure you're staying tuned for the dates of the next event, which is actually called

spring fling and strap-on things. We'll be having that in April and I'll make sure I drop the details for that later on at the end of the show. But this year we're showing up with a whole bunch of pegging events. So you want to definitely keep your ear to the wire and make sure you keep those details. very close, very close by. And when they and when the tickets open, you make sure you get your ticket because

Last event, I got so many messages from all of y'all like oh I'm trying to get a ticket. I know it's two days before. Oh, I know it's the day of can I get onboarded? And uh maybe like a week and a half before we were already sold out. Thirty. The 35 spot? Go quick. So you make sure you're on your P's and Q's. And you get your ticket as soon as they become available. So that's strap on. Oops, that's spring fling and strap on things. We're gonna have some fun.

Make that we're gonna bloom lots of rosebuds this spring. Those of y'all that have been listening to the show, y'all know what that means. Y'all know what a rosebud is. We're gonna bloom some rosebuds. The rosebuds are blooming. They're blooming and they're blooming at the spring fling and strap on things, so pff don't miss that, okay? What else? Oh, I want to shout out my thoroughbreds because I know that you've noticed that my newsletter has been quiet.

And you know, we have several things happening this month in February. I went to Canada. We'll talk about that in a minute. Um, I had the part the the event which we just talked about, um, Strap for Love. And I've been planning a new event. I even have a new business venture that I'm actually working on. So yeah.

February and January were quite the months for me. Very busy. I am happy though that I did get c uh I did create podcasts and th those will be released. But um what I am What I am disappointed is, is that I did not follow up with the newsletter so. Month of March, women's month, next month. I got y'all. I got y'all. I got y'all on the post. I got y'all on the engagement. I'm coming back.

I just had to, you know, I just had to manage everything that's on my plate. As far as events, as far as workshops. And it got a bit hectic on my schedule. Also playing with slaves and, you know, yeah, getting that in that one on one engagement with my with my stable. Yeah. So Woo, it was a lot, it was a lot. And my newsletter took the brunt of all of, you know, the loss of my engagement. So

I want to sincerely apologize. I will be doubly active for the month of March and April. Oh yeah. We about to pop off. Because I got some things for y'all. But yeah. I do acknowledge that the newsletter was dry. It was dry. Y'all didn't get nothing. No enlightenment. No education. But We will be back on point in March. I got you. I got you my thoroughbreds. Petrus is always here. Just sometimes she gets a little inundated. Just a little. Just a lickle. Wow. We covered the event.

We oh, oh, oh, I'm just coming back from Canada. Oh, I almost forgot. Let's talk about Canada. Shout out to Taboo. who brought your your your guide, your intergalactic guide out. Across the US border into Vancouver for the first show of 2025. And I have to tell you, it was a phenomenal experience. Thank you very much. for the opportunity taboo. I will definitely be returning taboo.

And I just wanted to, you know, personally say it was a wonderful, phenomenal first experience. So shout out to you and your show, you guys in your show, and keep up the good work. We'll be in touch soon. I have to tell all of you out there that Taboo was unlike any other of the conventions that I've gone to in the past.

Uh, there has not been a convention in the US that I have attended where I have not at least gotten one to five people giving me pushback on my primary message about pelvic pleasure. Specifically penis owners. Specifically my heteronormans. Yeah, I said it. I call y'all heteronormans. Y'all heteronormans wanna come to my booth, wanna talk to me after a class and tell me.

how what I'm teaching goes against the Bible. What I'm teaching goes against God. What I'm teaching is unnatural for men. Yeah. Keep that to yourself. Especially when you're coming to a sex convention or a sexual wellness convention. You want to discuss to me your biblical sexual Opinion? No thank you. Pass hard pass.

So I normally get, like I said, at least one to five. This was the first show that I got no pushback, zero pushback. And I loved it. In fact, I had an excess of like thirty to forty five minute l waits on my line. Just for people to ask me questions after my workshop. Just for people to acquaint themselves with Jason. Because if you come to my show, y'all know who Jason is. Jason is my bottom, my demo bottom.

In one of these shows, you know, you come out, you get to meet Jason too, and I bring Jason to the booth. And then Jason is there for anyone who wants to locate the prostate. That's Jason's purpose to demonstrate. Um for for me to use Jason as demonstration purposes for pegging and velvet pleasure and also it allows my attendees to use Jason as a bottom as well. Yes, Jason is my big, nice, plump booty. Sex toy.

And if you ever get a chance to come out and see me at a workshop or come and see me at a class or a convention, you will have the lovely opportunity to put your hands in or on Jason. And meet Jason yourself. Anywho, Jason was a huge hit, a huge success. so many i want to just give a kudos to the penis owners and the males in canada who were curious about the location of the prostate and where it is in their own body and

actually came to me and had conversations and put their fingers in Jason with curiosity and wonder and I was like, oh my God, I love this. I am so here for this. So the reception on my content that I was delivering was very, very welcome and very well received. In fact, I've never had my class with no seeds. Zero seats. Zero seats in the house. People standing in the sides and the back.

Like, yeah, it was like that. And I never had my I've never appeared or given my workshops a presentation where they've been on a projection monitor. So shout out. To again taboo. Cause y'all have y'all A V, y'all A V department. Y'all are on point. Y'all are on point. Had it had me hooked up, had me with a a wireless mic, a headset mic. I was able to move. Do

I'm just give you just just give you some some some clues on that tablet. Y'all did that. Y'all did And um as someone who has been giving presentations in on the circuit of different sexual wellness shows, I uh I have to tell you, you and your platform you guys have that piece under locking here, you have that on point. So that was a and and for me to be able to have

you know, that type of reach and have all these people like looking at the the the projection monitor, people walking past, my voice blaring over the DJ. What? It was it was ethereal. I loved it. I loved every minute of it. I was living my best life while I was giving my workshops at to at Taboo. And also I was able to release My new latest workshop, which is called Handy Capable and Kinky. how to be a supportive ally to someone who's recently found themselves with physical limitations.

It's inspired by my own story and the things that I went through with my accident in 2023. And it really opened my eyes and it really helped me understand what differences able body people versus those on the mobility spectrum go through in order to seek out pleasure and how

insurmountable the difference is for those on the mobility spectrum to get the same interest, the same respect, courtesy, understanding, and the class and the accident and the class and delivering the workshop Made me realize I was supposed to have that accident. I was supposed to be delivering that content in Vancouver. I was supposed to get that welcoming, warm reception.

and all of the opportunities that are coming out of me delivering that workshop, man, Vancouver, y'all did, y'all took the cake. I loved it. I love my hotel. I love downtown Vancouver. My only regret was is that I linked up with Damasonia. Shout out to Damasonia. I didn't link up with her until the final day. And by then, um, you know, I should have reached out sooner so we could have linked in potentially, you know, linked off of the taboo.

convention floor. So that would be my only regret about Vancouver. But I love the slaves. I love the bottoms. I love the people. I love the show. I loved everything. I love, love, love, love, love. So Big heart shout out to Taboo. Can't wait to come back and deliver another or multiple workshops. At multiple shows. Look for my message. I'll be in touch. And I anyone who is in Canada and and if you haven't attended

A taboo, I definitely suggest you make your way to the next show coming to your area. Wow. Shout out to Canada. Y'all really welcomed your guide.

I'm telling you, your intergalactical guide was very happy. Very, very pleased. Very, very pleased. And I will be back next year, Vancouver. Guarantee that. Woo! Okay, so the month of love, February. I got a little story to tell you. But we'll be back in the next segment after this break. One to five. Check me out. This month we're in February, the month of love. And yes, yes, yes, yes, we are gonna be talking about pegging and dating.

Because a lot of you out there have contacted me about the difficulty that you've been having finding your mate, finding your pegging partner. And I being a dominant in maneuvering this space, I've really had never had a problem finding a partner. That's never been my issue.

Um, but this year, you know, I had I got time on my hands, got a little bit of time working on stuff, but you know, I'm present so I'm able to actually like start a search. So, you know, I'm thinking to myself, like, okay Let's get into it. Alright. I'm thinking to myself, okay, you know what? I like pegging and I don't necessarily date y'all. Like I fuck.

I have my kink and then dating is just like shelled. It's been shelled for a while because I've been dating myself but Um, you know, with the the accident and recouping and everything, the it further got shelved and now, you know, in my recovery Now entering back into the space, you know, um a little bit more healthy than I was after the accident.

I'm like, okay, you know what? I'm gonna start looking. I'm gonna start looking for someone to date. It would be nice to have someone that, you know, that I'm dating that likes pegging too. Like, why do I have to, you know, have slaves or bottoms or people in the king space as my only partners. Like it would be dope. If I had someone that I was dating, right, right, right, and also shares the love of pelvic pleasure. I was like, you know what?

I am gonna go out here. I'm gonna set some intention. I am going to be here consistently and I am going to show up and put out the positive energy and see what comes back. Well, to my surprise, I actually did put out the right energy and I guess, you know, that energy drew someone back to me. And I was so elated. I was so happy. I'm like, okay.

And I was really like, all right, this could this could be. Let's see what's going on. Check'em out. And, you know, just um so you have the background and the details. This is a sis mail. And I'm open, you know, y'all know, pextress fucks people. Ok, so you know I It could have been an um a uh a male, a female, a trans. uh alien. It could have been as long as the being and I are compatible and the things that I'm seeking.

It could have been boom, you know, chop chop, we there. Energy that I put out did not yield um anything but a sis male. Not that I'm talking down on cis males. I could, but I'm not. So it yielded as this dude. And um I I like this individual because they were they gave me the impression of being very transparent. One of the first things that they told me. is that they like a finger in their asshole. They like their asshole played with. They have never been penetrated by a toy or phallus or dick.

And they are curious to know about more. So boom! You already know my antenna went up. Lady Bona went boom. I was like, okay, I like that. That in my opinion was very sexy because The person just like, you know, came in and immediately let me know that this is what they like. They want to further explore it. And they were confident about it. Like They didn't tell it to me like they were afraid.

to s you know, be to see if I was gonna judge them. They didn't tell it to me like they were c even concerned about my judgment. They just told it to me like, huh, huh, this is what I like. Huh. Get rid of or get moving. And I was just like, ah Like shit like that is very attractive. If you can own your proclivities and you walk in your own authenticity, what Peg will be all over that shit. All over it. Okay. I was like, yeah. Okay, I'm feeling that. The next thing was

He explained his the end or the demise of his last relationship. I love this. I love that he was transparent and told me that yes, I was married. I cheated on my wife. I got caught and she divorced my ass. She left me. And I was just like, what? And that is something that also just made the antennas raise even higher. The lady boner went boong woong woo like up two meters, you know, it's like standing. straight at attention. I was like stole my heart. You are so honest.

Yes. An old antebellum southern white woman came out of me. A bitch was like clutching her imaginary pearls, like, bestow my heart. Yes, that happened. That really happened. Like internally, it that would be the best like visual and audible explanation I could give you as to what my feelings were at that time as this person is

revealing themselves. And I love that they were you know, they were just so honest and transparent. So You're telling me confidently what you're sexually into and what you want to explore more. We're on the same page. You're telling me you know, honestly you were a b you were the cause of the failure of your last relationship and you realize that, you know, you fucked up and, you know, you own it.

And then you telling me you have you you you d you gone through therapy, talked it through, helped understand yourself. Like I am really like as I'm talking to this person and they're just telling me all this, I just wanna know more. I wanna spend more time around them. I wanna talk. I wanna engage more because they are literally checking on my boxes, l making everything on the board light up and I'm like, Oh my god and then Let me throw this at you.

And this is so responsible. I've never heard another sismail, I've never heard another penis owner actually say this to me. He told me that when I asked, you know, about last time you had sex or last time you were playing or whatever, he's like, Oh yeah, you know, I haven't had sex. with, you know, a partner in a minute but, you know, when I get horny, um, I take care of that. I will go to you know, I will book some time and get a massage and get a happy ending.

And I have no problem, you know, sp spending my money on sex workers because I realize that I wanna I wanna say it exactly how he said it. He said that I realize that you make poor choices when you're horny. So to keep myself out of trouble. I will go pay. that escort, that Masseuse, that that sex worker, I will go subscribe to OnlyFans or, you know, a fan platform. He was like, I'm currently have a couple of sub subscriptions now. He was like, I will do that.

So I can not make stupid decisions with my dick. And that was it. I was like I love that for you. I love that you said that. Why aren't Mormon doing the same thing and why aren't more men transparent about it? Like we know like y'all are out there you know, purchasing the services of sex workers because sex working sex work industry is thriving. So someone is spending this money and we know who that is.

So who's in that demographic? We know who the buyers, we know who the sellers are. And there's nothing wrong with with with being a patron of the sex work industry. And even though it is stigmatized, you know, we call'em tricks and giants and we you know, and like that has a derogatory con connotation. still it is a healthy solution then you you know potentially violating someone's consent, you making reckless or irresponsible decisions.

that could cause your health or someone else's health to be in jeopardy or you causing someone to be in trauma or yourself to be in trauma. Like going to a sex worker and paying for the services. is such a much better solution than where we find individuals who don't do that and what they decide to do in in lieu of that. So I just want to commend and give him give him a round of applause for being so modern. And being so in touch with themselves that saying like, you know what?

Alright. I know I tend to make some reckless choices. With the ding dong when I am not when I'm horny, when I'm not thinking straight. So I will Go ahead and take care of that. Find me a partner. Pay for services with a partner. Therefore I don't have to make stupid decisions when it comes to the the individuals that I'm dating in my personal life. I love that.

So with all that being said, you can imagine the feelings that I'm having. I am thinking, wow. I like this person. I am thinking, wow. I wanna know more about this person. I am thinking, wow. Could there be something with this person? Like all of the things that happen when you really, really like someone, that's happening with me. And I'm looking forward to talking. I'm looking forward to when I get messages.

or calls from them. I am when I'm not speaking with them, thinking about them and wondering like when the next time we're gonna be talking or see each other. So yeah. everything was there. I was riding this wave, so to speak. And I was really, really looking forward to our very first date. And our very first date just so happened to be The day after V Day. There is no wonder. All of those things happening, all of those feelings, all of those good positive things that I just told you about. Wow.

It was no surprise that, of course, I fell into extreme like of this person. And our first date was really A good start and then a bad finish. It was a great start because it was the first opportunity. that I got a chance to see this person face to face because prior to that it had only been text chat and um FaceTime.

And we did a lot of FaceTime. That was one of the things that I enjoyed much that brought us closer together at the beginning and helped build those anti those feelings of anticipation and those feelings of like because when you have a FaceTime conversation with someone versus a phone conversation

It's A like you're right in front of them because you are. And B, you can read all of their language, not just the language that's coming out of their mouth, not what they're just verbally communicating. You can read their body language, you can read their face. you can see their physical actions and response. So the FaceTime helped me read more of the authenticity because when someone's telling you

When someone is telling you that they are a trick or that you know, I'm joking. I'm being funny. But when someone tells you that I buy the services of sex workers and with a straight face, like Like uh you have you know they own it. So yeah, though the visual of having the engagement helps. bolster and flame the the the feelings of like that I was developing. Uh yeah, I was developing big like feelings. Big big like feelings. So, we go out on a date now.

Uh, the day after Valentine's Day was a fucking shit show as far as the weather. I had this this outfit planned out. I was gonna wear some I was gonna wear some high heels. I was going to be snatched in the corset. I was going to wear something short, revealing, yet, you know. fun and tasteful and because of the weather that was not the case. So I had to go with sporty casual. You know, you got when you have ice

Ice rain and snow, yeah, it is not the move, especially for someone like me who had an accident not too long ago and definitely does not need to be involved in another. Uh it's not the best. look for me to be out and about walking around in heels in that type of weather anything happened I could slip a fall and then it's a wrap

So I chose to go sporty casual and we changed, you know, prior to the date, we had a conversation, like, Hey, look at the weather, still wanna go out. Yeah, let's go out. Okay, let's change, you know, I'm gonna be sporty casual and I loved his response when I told him I was going sporty casual. He replies, I'm going to also be sporty casual, so we look like we're going to the same place.

Ah just another just another check mark another check in the box of all the right things that this person is saying to me. Boom, picks me up. We proceed to go out to dinner. And let's dive into this dinner baby. The restaurant was a wonderful restaurant in Pennsylvania. It was one of the top it is one of the top vegan restaurants in PA. So kudos for My date. trying to find a restaurant or find not trying, finding a good restaurant.

In the area that serves like top of the line vegan cuisine. I had no idea what was planned for me. But when we get to the restaurant First of all, there's like drinks and like appetizers when we get there. And when we get there, I find out it's a Valentine's Day themed dinner for couples. Seven-course meal. I'm like, ooh. Oh woo I like it. So when I get there, it is like cocktail out.

And all the couples are around the bar chatting. There are mocktails and there are cocktails. Uh, and you can add, you know, sh you can get order a mocktail and just add a shooter to your drink. And that night Um, I don't you you guys know I'm not a drinker. I am a head. But that night I was going to the dispensary later on in the evening or that was part of the later evening in the dinner plans or in the date plans.

is to go to to the dispensary. You cause, you know, hello, I'm ahead. I'm not really a drinker. And, you know, that is the type of libation that I want. And the fact that he was he was on board with going to the dispensary, I was like, okay, come. So but when I got there and had a drink at a mock at a mocktail, it wasn't that tasty. It was it was alright. It was the mocktails were not bad. They were just not great.

So I he my dade grabbed a shooter and was like, Do you want one? I was like, you know what? Go ahead. So I figure, you know what, I'm not smoking any weed right now and um'cause I didn't want to smell like that before the date. So didn't engage, didn't smoke any. And I was just pretty much vaping. And um Yeah, so I decided to have one drink. And the appetizers were delicious and we're chatting and

I am finding this person good company. The body language is good. Meaning that they're not far away from me. Like the date doesn't feel disjointed. I felt very connected. Oh, I love that feeling. I did. I love the fact that there were deeper connections that did not that did not stop or did not that wasn't at the extent of the physical at the surface. the connections were I like the way this person thinks, I like their confidence, I like

you know, I like their assurity, I like their authenticity, I like the the the things that I would that were resonating with me were very deep. So I felt connected and in person for the first time You know, it could be awkward for certain individuals, not me. I'm, you know, never awkward. I am a I am a maverick of all situations.

Yeah, there are some so some situations that are not pleasant, but I can maneuver the fuck out of that shit. I don't care how unpleasant it is. I don't care how how awkward it is.

I will ride and maneuver through that shit like you will not know that I am awkward. You will not know that it's making me feel because I am I have a good poker face. And that was one of the things that he kept commenting on like I really can't read you, you know, you have like this great like poker face and, you know, I can't like make it out and that and I realize, you know, as I'm telling you this story and also I've thought about this too.

it and and it's becoming more apparent as I tell the story is that that was one of the things that may potentially have bothered this individual is that they could not read me that was a consistent thing that they were saying throughout the course of the night. It's like I can't read you and I can't place you know you're so good at because like I said I am a maverick of all situations. You put me in any type of situation and you're going to if I want

positive, happy, good vibes, that's all you're gonna get from me. Even if I can't fucking stand you. That's what you're gonna get. If that's what I'm putting out, that's what you that's what I'm laying down. That's what you're gonna get. That's what you're gonna feel. And you're gonna be like, oh, okay, okay. But meanwhile, inside, my gut is rutch retching, and I'm like, I fucking hate your gods. Like that's the type of individual I am.

Um you I I intentionally move and through and maneuver this way because I it doing that helps me see people's true intentions, feelings, and motive. So it's one of the tools that I have in my repertoire that I also often pull out and utilize. And that is my poker phase.

So another thing that, you know, I remember the person, you know,'cause we were talking about history, we were talking about, you know, our background. And the person mentioned that their mother is ginger. And the reference ginger is from casino Sharon Stone. Hello. I'm a I won I fucking love casinos one of my favorite fucking movies I watch it at least once a month no lies I love love love casino Second, I also consider myself to be very ginger.

And what I mean by that is I'm very vicarious. I'm very I'm very much the life of the party. I'm very much the social butterfly. I'm very much the person who, you know appearances gets along with everyone. You'll never know if I don't like you unless I want it to be known. But you won't know that I don't like you unless I want it to be known. Other than that, you know, I am very ginger darling.

Sam Rothstein, Ginger Rothstein out this bitch, okay? And um yeah. So you know in retrospect as I'm telling the story, thinking back, I am very much That persona, even though I heard them when they said that, I was like, Oh, let me tone my ginger down. Let's let let's let me let me bring my ginger back in the closet a little bit. Because

after sharing hit his mother's personality type, then he also dropped a bomb that they're not in a good place and he doesn't have any conversation with her. So I'm like, oh, okay. So Got a little bit of mommy issues. We okay to you know, all right. But he's in therapy and he understands that he's got mommy issues and he actually articulated to me that there is an issue with him. So yes. Yes, okay. This this is still not a red flag or a problem for me because

This is someone who's open and who's honest and who's who is actually, you know, verbalizing. And to me, that's progress. We all have shit that's going on with us in you know, in inside. And we all have interpersonal issues with other individuals. But not all of us can actually, you know, articulate what those issues are, speak to other people about them, you know, and talk about their feelings around them. And I felt that that was like

For a penis owner. Oh, yeah, that was a that was another checkbox. So back to the day. And the the energy, we're close. You know, his arm his hand is on my arm, his hand is on my waist, his hand is on my hip. Again, nothing inappropriate and also nothing unwelcome. We're reading each other's body language. Everything is good. And then I decide, you know what? Before we go sit down for dinner, I want to go out and have a couple of puffs on my vape. And I'll do that now.

So I wanted to go have a couple of puffs on my vape. And I said, I'm gonna go outside. I'm gonna leave my my jacket or my coat, you know, and I wanna come out I wanna go outside and have a couple of puffs. Come outside and keep me warm. Hello. I'm smart. I like the body language and the body um and the body um oh my god, I forgot the word. Contact. I like the body contact. So um yeah, I want more of it. Let's go outside and you can keep me warm. I'm gonna leave my coat inside. Just gives this.

individual opportunity to now use their body heat to keep me warm. I'm a smart I'm a smart guide. I know what's up. So yeah, um outside, I'm having my little puffs and they're behind me and their arms are wrapped around my shoulders, wrapped around my waist, keeping me warm And that is when it happened. That is when I first felt You know when you haven't had a drink in a long time, you get that little tingle.

And those of us who are vagina owners, that little tingle happens on the inside. But if you're around someone that you like or attracted to, extremely attractive, a little tingle happens. Somewhere else too. Happens on the inside in two places. On the inside, like you know, in the in the in the chest respiratory area, right, right, right. And then, you know, inside as in inside between your legs. So the tingle was happening. The tingle was on 10. The tingle was on ten.

And when the tingle is on tin, the the heavenly waters of Mount Fiji open up. And this is where we're at right now. while this person is hugging me, using their body heat to keep me warm, standing behind me, and the heavenly holy waters of Mount Fiji are opened up and they are Screaming down the the hillside of my thighs. Ha ha ha. Whoa. Mm. It's just so you can have a visual.

You know, I did mention I changed, you know, my outfit from, you know, sexy chic revealing to sporty casual because of the weather. And I give you a visual of my sporty casual I have on some spandex black spandex that are mesh so the entire side from my ankle all the way up to my hip is revealed in mesh you can completely see through And I have on a long sleeve bodysuit that is completely mesh and also see-through and having a bras

and I have um a faha. Now, I know y'all laughing because yes, I did put on up I did put it on some tummy control.'Cause you know, I wanted to when I was sitting down I wanted, you know Sucked up, right? You know, you want it looking you know. So yes, I had on the body control. I didn't all black. I have on, you know, I have on my black leather sneakers, black leather car lockerfell sneakers, black leather car lockerfill sports jacket. And yeah, I am looking

Cute, very cute. I must say makeup beat. Beat is on, beat is on a million, like the mugshot is. is killing it. So Um yeah, just to give you a visual, you know, while we're standing in this moment and the waters are flowing from Mount Fiji, uh Yeah, that is what I have on. So as you know, he like kind of like starts like kissing me on my cheek and like right above my ear and uh the waters just start flowing even more. Damn Mount Fiji. So I thought it would be

sexy and a hot idea, you know, I just kind of like reached in to m the front of my spandex, right? And moved the faha and the bodysuit crotch to the side. Dipped my fingers in the waters of Mount Theeji, pulled it out of my spandex, and wiped it all on his mouth. And immediately I felt a physical response. You know that physical response. It was like I was like, oh okay. Now even though I have

I'm gonna state this and which is which is uh you must some of you might find kind of strange. I had no interest in his penis. Like seriously, even though I knew that what I did got this person erect. And I was like, you know, kinda patting myself on the shoulder like yeah you I still had no interest in it. Like I didn't want to touch it. I didn't want it on me. Like the interest the entire night was really about my penis.

It really was. It it I'm being one hundred percent honest with you. It was about I because the person was interested in pelvic pleasure my lady boner and my lady penis was activated. And that was the interest, that was sexual energy that I was moving on. Yes, there were other components you know, the body language, the connection, uh, with, you know, being revealed and, you know, communication, like and me really liking this person, all that is true.

But the sexual energy and interest I was moving on was definitely penis driven and driven by my penis. You know, that could I realize As I'm telling you this story in my head, that may have been a contributing factor to why, you know, we talked about things, how they went left. How I alluded earlier, how things will go left later. So that could that that potentially could be a big uh issue'cause maybe, you know. Just maybe.

I'm moving on my penis energy, right? Because I am the penetrator. I'm seeking to penetrate. And this individual is also seeking to penetrate. So now that I'm talking this through with y'all audience, that could very well contributed to the end result, which we'll get to as I continue the story. So

Finish my smokes, finish my little puffs, and we go back inside. And the first course comes. I'm very opinionated when it comes to food. I consider myself to be a foodie. So everything that came out, I was definitely giving my feedback. vocally to the preparers, to the wait staff, to anyone that was gonna listen, like, oh and this and oh and that and and

And on that note, we're gonna put a pin in that. And we're gonna go into our next segment, West Pegging and Pop Culture. Okay. This man. What's pegging in pop culture comes from my journey and my experiences and what I find this month is pegging in pop culture is that I actually after giving my class in Vancouver and really looking at the industry, what I realized is that there is nothing, I mean zero. marketing or content or advertising or services available to people on the mobility spectrum.

So I'm talking about like across the board, like soft w uh soft touch, erotic touch, intimate touch workers, sex workers. What's good? I spoke about this in Vancouver. And I'm gonna speak about it here. We Definitely need to make our services available to everyone on the spectrum, including those who have physical limitations or mobility limitations.

One of the things that I notice is that it's really absent. We're not talking about it. No one's no one's saying, hey, I offer this service. No one's trying to train. And What really opened my eyes to this is me creating this workshop and bringing this to the public light and having many, many conversations. I realized that

After ha bringing this conversation forth, people were coming to me saying, I've never heard anyone talk about this. Why is no one else talking about this? Like I've never heard any and it clicked for me, you know, this Is why I went through my experience, why I had my accident. Is maybe I'm to be a bridge to help. people on the mobility spectrum connect and have experiences that able bodied people are easily able to, you know,

find themselves in. And it's really sad, you know, the insurmountable link. that people with mobility issues have to go to have the same experiences that able bodied people really take for granted. Like we really take for granted going to a bar and being able to pick up someone and take them home and have sex with them.

This is the same thing that a lot of people on the mobility spectrum want and desire to do because of limitations, because of of there not being awareness and knowledge and understanding and and empathy. we sympathize, we we give sympathy to these individuals, but we don't empathize with them and place ourselves in their shoes and And and imagine what it would be what it would be that we would want if that were us. So what's pegging in pop culture this month is for me to bring awareness.

To everybody out there, that we need to make strides and way better effort. to make ourselves available to those on the mobility spectrum so they can have the experiences that we have. And one of the things that came out of me having this epiphany is I also realized that. Maybe the reason why individuals aren't offering these services or providing these services or marketing and advertising that this is available is because they lack the confidence.

Feel that they can deliver a good experience to someone on the mobility spectrum. So We have a great demand, a large demographic of individuals who are with need. And we have a larger demographic of individuals who can fulfill that need, but because one group doesn't understand how to confidently service or confidently engage with the other group. There's nothing happening between the two groups.

And I realized, you know what? I'm here to be a bridge for that. I'm here to connect those pieces. I'm here to be a bridge for that. So what's pegging in pop culture? So, this month and every month going forward, that is something that I am going to dedicate myself. to and dedicate helping educate and bring awareness and discussion around this subject matter. So let's start thinking about everybody. my body, your body, their body, bodies that aren't fully mobile.

And let's start thinking about how those of you that are sex workers, those of you that are intimate touch and soft worker, soft touch workers, let's start thinking about how we can make a difference. for those individuals. This month and every month going forward, we're going to make strides, we're going to make efforts, we're going to bring oh I am going to bring awareness. to the subject matter and I want to impact change.

And you know and you know this even includes me. I'm gonna hold my feet to the fire and I'm going to be the first one to step out there and start providing. Education. start providing engagement with those on the mobility spectrum. So who am I to actually say what everybody else should be doing or want others to do and I'm not doing myself? So that's what's pegging in pop culture. I'm gonna step forward. I'll be the first. I'll start, I'll start at ground zero and I'm inviting others to join me.

Want more details come message me at pegstress.com or message me at thepeggingverse.com and yeah let's listen let's change the world That's what's pegging this month in pop culture. Yeah I got to the point after like the first co appetizers and first course that the wait staff was actually just coming to me asking me what do I think like I was some type of food critic low key filling myself And at that point.

our waitress began hitting on me. Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful Dominican. woman and she told me she was Dominican and she told me that she found me so beautiful and she wanted to know what we Oh now that I'm telling you this, that might have also contributed to Why we have the end result. So I was being hit on by our waitress. Right in front of my date. But my date. was enjoying it. My date was really enjoying like, oh wow.

I'm with someone who is pulling other bitches in here. I'm with someone who's pulling other more pussy into the into the mix. So I don't think it was a negative, but now in retrospect, talking it through, telling you the story. That could be a very likely situation. You know, my my penile penetration energy. Was directed at him, but I'm telling you, this waitress, she was trying to get in front of it and get it from him. Like if my if my penetration energy was a gun, loaded gun.

And I was aiming it at my date. This waitress was literally stepping in front of my date with her legs wide open, like, hit me with that bullet, please. So and and while it was happening

one of the drinks that he put the shooter in. I decided to have a second one, so now I'm on the second one at course number one. So now the drinks are happening. I'm on drink two. I have the waitress like literally throwing herself like and it was not a it was not a you know, like a desperate thing, but she was very overtly open that she wanted to see me more and afterwards she started

touching my hair and touching my shoulder and my arm. It was very trust. I know when motherfuckers is feeling me. And that one Oh, she was feeling the god big time. She was feeling pegs big time. Like I said, she wanted that penile energy bullet right in her pussy. See what it is. And while this is happening, I am, of course, not shunning her affections. I am flirting back. And I'm also reading that he's enjoying that.

Whew, this is a lot to unpack. I did not think I I like really going into this episode. I thought I was just gonna tell the story. you know, and it was gonna be A B C but now as I'm going and replaying it through my mind, I am realizing, you know, there were occurrences that could have you know, tipped or deterred the trajectory on, you know, where this was or where where I thought it was gonna go versus where it ended. Yeah.

And um yeah, this could have been one of those things to, you know, totally sh you know, knock it off its trajectory. We're a course two. And now the live music starts and it's a singer and she has her little speaker, microphone, and guitar. In her phone. And she actually has a really, really beautiful voice, very talented. I even recorded. ha some of her performance because it was so good.

And so now we have live music and like the vibe is really set. The lights are dim. Second chorus is coming out. Food is delicious, like absolutely exquisite. Some of it is like, you know, there I think um We had Oysters Rockefeller, we had uh vegan French onion soup, um, then there was like a like a s like a um Hat. Oh not a Hatachi. Ooh.

There's like this wonton with avocado wasabi uh that was delicious. Um there was This uh hibachi that's what I meant to say, not hatachi, hibachi uh grilled mushrooms that were supposed to be like uh little pieces of steak. It was delicious. Like the meal was five star. It was fucking phenomenal. And the music and my date, everything is going good. And then I'm on drink number three.

And at this point I'm like, well fuck it. I am just having little drinks with little shooters and it's not really a big deal. Well By the time the fifth course comes, I'm on drink number five. And I'm not drunk. I don't I'm not a drinker anymore. Like I don't like how it makes me feel after drinking, which is one of the reasons why I don't drink and I much rather smoke weed. But back in the day, I was known to get my drink on.

So it's not that I can't handle it, it is that I just prefer not to handle it. But anyway, I'm on drink number five. I'm feeling it, having a good time. Conversation is flowing, smiling, laughing. music and then the couple next to us. There is a couple next to us and they are in our age group. Meanwhile everyone else in the restaurant is probably about fifteen to twenty five years older than us.

So we're like, oh god, we're so happy. We actually I actually comment to the couple next to us that I'm really happy that we're seated next to you. I feel like this is the the youth section, the young section, because everyone in here is so old. And they were like, Yeah, ditto. And, you know, we introduced ourselves and we did a little bit of chatting.

and, you know, they were talking about, you know, what dating site they met on and you know and and then they asked what dating site we met on and and it was just like, Yeah. It was it was pretty cool'cause it sounded like kind of like a double date for a short period. We are in a great conversation. We are, you know, ha we've got heavy banter going on back and forth. So the engagement was on high with this couple next to us.

even to the point where we kinda inquired what were each other's plans after dinner. Not that I was planning on going with that couple or anything, but they had good energy, very nice, very positive. Um and you know, it was just a question, it was just conversation. So So I am Just having a great time. The engagement all around me is so positive, so upbeat. I am feeling the drink. the heavenly waters of Mount Fiji are still aflow

And oh, did I mention that I brought a tiny little vibrator, a little pocket vibrator with me. And I was going to put it on myself. And then I actually the initial thought of me bringing the little pocket vibrator was for him. Right? But then I was like, mm-hm

I wouldn't want this back and it is mine and it's brand new. You know what? If anybody gon have some pelvic pleasure from this, it's gonna be me. So Kept it for myself, but he but my date was aware that I did have a little pocket vibrator with me and actually asked, you know, oh do you have a remote? Are you giving it to me? Like, uh and I looked at them like, uh, like I would ever give you the remote to my pussy on date one? Hell no, hell to the no no no hell to the na. So

Not that I have control issues. Maybe I do. I would be willing to give that. That would be fun, like a little fun little, you know, tease and denial type of situation. Predicament play is what we call it. That would be nice little predicament play, but not my not my thing. not really what I would want to do. If anything, it would be the reverse situation.

So I just thought I'd throw that little bit of spice in there. You know, don't wanna leave out any details. Want you to really imagine you know, really I really want to paint the picture of what is going on between me and this other human being. Whew. Okay, so date's going great.

Engagement is phenomenal. Engagement with the couple, engagement with the waitress, engagement with my date. Everything is on cloud nine. I really could not um have a better date. It was a really great date. I even told Tip it was a great date. And Just to give you a little history about your guide. I have limits. Like most people, my limits are not the average limits that other humans put out there and convey to people. One of my hard limits is kissing.

You will not put your mouth on my mouth. I do not want your saliva, no type of fluid exchange in that way. That in my opinion is disgusting unless I like you. If I like you, then it's like, uh, gimme what I spin in my mouth a little right? But if I don't like you And when I'm say like you, I mean like you in the sense that I like you like romantically. I like you sexually. I it doesn't have to be traditional P I V penis and vagina like I like you like that. Like I want you to, you know

fuck me so hard. It just has to be a like that is more than the surface like how I like most humans. So If I don't like you, if you haven't penetrated that that inner level of adoration for me, heh heh heh, your lips will never touch the lips on my face.

Can touch the lips between my legs all day, but the lips on my face mm mm, no bueno, no mass, no mass. So That was actually one of the things that, you know, uh when I get to know someone, I let them know what my limits are and I express that, you know, very, very straightforward. So this individual is well aware that, you know, there was n I have no intention on kissing. I don't like People like that. I have not liked anyone or any other human like that in some years, and it's unlikely that.

I'll like you like that, so please don't anticipate or try to kiss me because I won't reciprocate. I'll pull away and I don't want you to feel it away. I just want you to know that kissing is not my thing. I don't want it. I don't want to do it. No, no, flag on the play. So that was already, you know, negotiated or already discussed. prior to our first date.

So while sitting at the table, everything is going so well. The alcohol is flowing through my system and the waters of Mount Fiji are flowing between my thighs. I was like, I like this person. And they did a great job, a really great job on this date. And I want to show them how much I like them. And I want to show them how much of a good job they did. I actually got up from my seat at the dinner table.

And walked over to his side, bent over, and put my lips on his and Oh my god, let me tell you the last time I kissed someone was like over a year ago, maybe two years ago. And the time before that was six years ago. So we talk about two motherfuckers in ten years. Hello. Now, when I say motherfuckers, I want you to be specific. Penis owner. penis owners. This is like this r females, I have slid in some kisses. I have some Volva drivers. I have slid in some kisses. I ain't gonna lie.

So there's some kisses. 'Cause I l I honestly like all females. I I honestly like all f like all females in that way. So all females can receive A kiss from my mouth and put their mouth on mine. But men, uh, penis owners, eh, no, no, no, no. So two dudes, two penis owners, in ten years. I'm just giving you a visual. Just giving you a visual. That's how many I've kissed. And it I was just like, no, flag and a flag. No, no, no. But him I got up, gave him a kiss, bent over, and gave the first kiss.

Bye. And the restaurant was like looking like, oh, and a couple of people were clapping. And the singer which was right in front of us was like, Oh, and the waitress. who was flirting with me was like, aww. And it was really sweet, really romantic, a really, really great moment. I would say one of the highlights of the day.

And when I sat down and returned to my seat at the table I said to him, now I want you to know how important that was, because I'd much rather put my mouth on your dick any day than put my mouth on your mouth. Hehehe when I said this to her.

The couple next to us, both their heads kind of turned and looked at me. And I'm like, yeah, I'm not a big kisser. I am not a kisser. Like I would much rather suck someone's dick than actually have them put their tongue in my mouth or put my mouth on their mouth. And they started chuckling and he started laughing. But I'm like saying this with a straight face and a smile and there's no laughter coming from me because it's not a joke. I I I really do mean this.

Like n yeah, I'll suck your dick before I kiss you, so just know that. And um I doubled down on that. I doubled down. I said, you know what? Yeah. So I think everything went well. Dessert came. The final courts came. and I ate a little bit of the dessert and the waitress came over and she wanted to make sure that she I had her name and that, you know, um, that I enjoyed the food and

She wants me she expressed that she wants me to come back. She also expressed where she was going after her shift, which was o some type of a local bar that wasn't far from the restaurant. And she was suggesting that that be our next stop. as well and I'm sure because she wanted to see me after work. But you know, my interests, my, my, my Penile penetration energy is pointed. That bullet is meant for this guy.

Now don't get me wrong, I got another bullet. I got enough bullets for everybody, first of all. But I definitely got a bullet for Mr. Minekana. Mm-mm. I certainly do. So but but that is not the priority tonight. I I cannot let the alcohol and all the good feelings and heavenly waters of Mount Fiji flowing. I can't let that deter me from my motive, my agenda, which is to further connect with this other human being that took me out on a date, a wonderful date, and to see what else can happen.

So dinner is concluded, the check comes, and we proceed to say our goodbyes to the wait staff, the couple next to us, and we head out.

Whew! Well, the story does not end here. And the story will continue in the next episode. And I cannot wait wait wait wait I can you you will want to hear what happens next. Also, I can't wait to tell you what happens next because as I'm realizing, as I'm talking this out to you, as I'm painting this picture, there are pieces. Details that in my alcohol haze I did not process and am now only processing as I am conversing with you. So who

How about that? And I have definitely processed the situation. Meaning I've I've I've spent I've spent days thinking about what happened, replaying it in my mind. But this is the first time that I'm verbally articulating. what happened and as I'm doing that there are certain things that are clicking in my head that are making me be like, hmm, wonder if that was a contributing factor. Hmm, wonder if that was.

So I can't wait to continue this conversation and put my truth out there in the pegging verse. Because yes, your guide is also on the same path that many of you are on where you're seeking to find a romantic partner with your pegging. See me, I have partners regardless, so I'ma always get this dick. I'm gonna brush the dirt off my shoulders. I'ma always get this dick wet. That's never gonna be a problem for me. But I want to wet it in someone that makes me wet and I like them romantic.

This was the first Of this type of exploration. And we've only got halfway through the story. So that means you gotta come back next week. You gotta come back on the next episode. You gotta come back. Shit, whenever I publish this motherfucker, you got to come back. to hear the conclusion because I've already alluded it did not go well but I could not have surmised How bad it was going to go. Mm- That was a lot to unpack. But yes, I'm out here on this journey with you guys.

I am I am also seeking So I know my journey is gonna help a lot. of those out there that are on a similar or the same journey and I look forward to sharing my experiences. So that you don't have to have the same experiences, yours can be better. And on that note, This is your guide, Pextress, and I am out on this episode, episode two, season two. The Peggingverse Podcast. I'll see y'all beings. I will see y'all sentient beings out there in the Peggingverse.

Make sure you say hello. Come check me out. Peggingverse.com, pextras.com. Oh yeah.