Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

Michelle Kenney, M. Ed•redcircle.com

Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits?

Welcome to Peace and Parenting! Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, you’ll learn the how behind having kids who are entirely UNPUNISHED but who are also successful, kind, loving, and know how to follow directions.

Twice a week, Michelle shares her insights and expertise on connective parenting through solo episodes and interviews with experts and other struggling parents. If you have exhausted all other options and don't know what to do next, this could be the parenting strategy you've been searching for.

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Episodes

Helicopterism

There's a very fine line when it comes to helping our kids through things and doing everything for them. Letting them explore and learn on their own can have so many benefits. We're discussing all things helicopter-y and how to let go so our kids can find their own path and build confidence and resilience along the way. If you haven't checked out the special time guide , make sure to do that and also these journal prompts from Michelle for our own self exploration. Michelle's no yelling workshop...

Nov 01, 2019•22 min•Season 1Ep. 12

Self Care Part Two

Part Two is here and we are so excited for you to listen and give us your feedback! We go more in depth on journaling and tackling the bigger issues within yourself, in addition to the yoga and time away, of course. We set up our Patreon page and would so love your support to keep our podcast ad free; its the best way to get more involved with us and gain access to some fun freebies: linked here . Check out these journaling prompts from Michelle, Dr. Shefali , Dr. Dan Siegel and don't forget to ...

Oct 25, 2019•24 min•Season 1Ep. 11

Self Care Part One

Self care feels selfish sometimes, right?? It's truly anything but. You might be surprised at our take on this topic; we finished recording this episode and felt like we had so much more to address, hence part two coming next week. For now here are a couple links to check out: listening partnerships , ennegram , our patreon. We love your feedback, please leave a review, rate and subscribe! Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on Apr...

Oct 18, 2019•21 min•Season 1Ep. 10

Changing Behaviors with Play

Let's talk about playing with our children and why it is such a great tool. Children at play are in their natural state and when we can meet them there, we can guide them to connect, think more clearly and cooperate more easily. Play definitely did not come naturally to the two of us, listen to how we integrated it into our lives and check out Michelle's list of games here . This book is also very helpful for finding fun ways to get physical with your kids. Let us know what you think by leaving ...

Oct 11, 2019•28 min•Season 1Ep. 9

Rewards

How do you motivate kids and guide them to choose to do the right thing without rewards and manipulation? Sticker charts, bribery, grades, allowance, saying good job, you name it, we’ve tried it all. This week, we discuss how to internally motivate your kids with connection. Congrats to our drawing winner, Katy T!! Please please rate, review and subscribe. Click here for Alfie Kohn's book all about rewards and find Michelle and more information at her website. Interested in learning how to balan...

Oct 04, 2019•18 min•Season 1Ep. 8

Empathy

When our children have big feelings, they crave a listening ear. In this episode, we discuss having empathy in the toughest moments, when our natural instinct may be to do anything to make it stop. Listen as we break down why our kids need us most when they appear to be at their worst. And check out Michelle's guide with even more tips on meeting your children's upsets with empathy: click here . Rate, review and subscribe so you never miss an episode!! Interested in learning how to balance paren...

Sep 27, 2019•20 min•Season 1Ep. 7

Punishments

Time out. Spanking. Taking toys and activities away. Grounding. What is your go to punishment? Is it working? Let's talk about why we choose not to use punishments and how we manage "misbehavior." If you like what you hear, rate, review and subscribe!! We appreciate you so much! Check out two books we love: Art of Roughhousing and No Drama Discipline . Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla....

Sep 20, 2019•21 min•Season 1Ep. 6

Aggression

Let's talk about hitting, kicking, biting, spitting, throwing, all of it. If you have a child acting aggressively, you are not alone!! Click here for Michelle's special time guide, our favorite tool to get connected. Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammo...

Sep 13, 2019•23 min•Season 1Ep. 5

Sibling Rivalry

Sibling relationships are so important for a peaceful home, join us as we discuss how to create just that. And check out Michelle's 12 step sibling protocol guide: click here ! Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe; we appreciate it so much!! Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a...

Sep 06, 2019•19 min•Season 1Ep. 4

Defiance

Michelle and Gemma talk tips and tools when managing defiance in children of all ages. In response to several questions on this topic, we dive into not listening, taking detours to avoid upsets and much more. Don't forget to subscribe, rate and review! Click here for the special time guide. Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology Our Sponsors: * Check o...

Aug 29, 2019•19 min•Season 1Ep. 3

Special Time

Join Michelle and Gemma to explore one of their favorite tools to connect with your children: special time. Learn how to manage off-track behaviors in 20 minutes a day. Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Click here for the special time guide! Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my ...

Aug 29, 2019•16 min•Season 1Ep. 2

Connection

You can visit peaceandparentingla.com to find more information and also click here for a special connection plan Michelle created just for listeners! Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review in iTunes! Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Adve...

Aug 07, 2019•21 min•Season 1Ep. 1

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