Join Mark Gregston as he reflects on 1 Corinthians 2:4-5 and the lasting impact of wise mentors and intentional relationships throughout his life. He shares a story about his granddaughter simply wanting to feel valued, illustrating the power of showing up and listening. Mark honors the voices of encouragement and godly wisdom that shaped his journey from pastors to teachers to friends — reminding listeners that even simple, ongoing conversations can influence a life deeply. He encourages us to ...
Jul 02, 2025•15 min•Ep. 1313
Teens who struggle with fitting in, rejection or betrayal often build tough walls to protect themselves — but what's really hiding behind those defenses? On today’s episode, Mark sits down with two young women at Heartlight who share how feeling misunderstood and losing trust in others shaped their choices and attitudes. Meredith, who has been on the show before, shares about navigating big life traumas, feeling like an outsider and her struggle for acceptance, which led her down a tough path. T...
Jul 01, 2025•22 min•Ep. 1312
Mark Gregston, Courtney LaFleur and Wayne Shepherd discuss why teens may use harsh or offensive language, explaining that such words often reflect deeper emotional pain or frustration. Rather than reacting immediately, parents are encouraged to listen for the heart behind the words and provide a safe space for open communication. The three emphasize the value of setting respectful boundaries, having restorative follow-up conversations and practicing self-reflection. By leading with empathy, you ...
Jun 30, 2025•26 min
In today’s episode, Mark Gregston discusses some of the most pressing questions parents are facing with their teens today. From dealing with chronic disrespect and dishonesty to navigating substance abuse and supporting struggling adopted teens, Mark provides practical advice grounded in both personal experience and biblical wisdom. He discusses strategies for building respectful relationships, encourages parents to look deeper into underlying issues and shares resources for getting professional...
Jun 27, 2025•22 min•Ep. 1310
Join Mark Gregston, Courtney Lafleur and Wayne Shepherd as they discuss your teen and their faith. Stressing the importance of modeling integrity and faith through everyday actions rather than just words, and creating a safe, open environment for honest questions and doubts. They encourage parents to shift from teaching to training during the teen years, allowing their children to wrestle with faith and develop their own convictions. Join Mark in July for our Families in Crisis Conference. Visit...
Jun 26, 2025•26 min•Ep. 1309
In this episode, Mark Gregston emphasizes the power of truly listening within families. Drawing from decades of experience working with teens and parents, he explains how active, empathetic listening can open the door to connection, healing and lasting relationships. Mark outlines common habits that hinder listening — like interrupting, always teaching or trying to fix things — and urges self-reflection to remove these barriers. He encourages listeners to ask their family members how well they f...
Jun 25, 2025•12 min•Ep. 1308
Learning how to deal with stress and difficult emotions doesn't always come naturally — especially for teens who've already endured a lot in their young lives. Today, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens who explain what they've learned in the program so far. Adopted as a young teen after living in multiple homes, 16-year-old Whitney describes the struggle to fit in, the aftermath of trauma and the difficulty of learning a new family’s rules. She speaks candidly about the poor choices she ma...
Jun 24, 2025•23 min•Ep. 1307
In this episode, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur explore how parents can help teens take ownership of their faith as they grow more independent. With many teens leaving the church after high school, it's important to gradually shift from teaching to training to transferring responsibility for faith while teens are still at home. They encourage parents to create space for questions, avoid controlling or critical attitudes, and maintain open, judgment-free conversations about ch...
Jun 23, 2025•26 min•Ep. 1306
In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses real-life scenarios drawing directly from listener-submitted questions. He discusses everything from dealing with mean texts and peer behavior, guiding adopted teens with anger issues, navigating interfaith friendships, supporting a sexually active teen and encouraging open communication with quiet adolescents. With practical wisdom and heartfelt encouragement, this episode offers fresh perspectives and actionable advice to help strengthen your connect...
Jun 20, 2025•22 min•Ep. 1305
Join Mark Gregston, Courtney Lefleur and Wayne Shepherd as they explore how parents can effectively engage their teens in conversations about hot-button topics like gender, politics and morality. They emphasize the importance of listening without interrupting, respecting differing opinions and recognizing that teens are forming their own beliefs. Their goal for parents? Maintain connection and influence through love, patience and wisdom — rather than control or correction. Join Mark for one of o...
Jun 19, 2025•26 min•Ep. 1304
Today, Mark Gregston reflects on the painful experience of initially rejecting his son during a difficult season and how that taught him the importance of prioritizing relationships over rigid expectations. He shares stories from his ministry and personal life, urging parents and grandparents to lead with love, understanding and presence — especially when their children make choices that hurt or differ from their values. Using a passage from 1 Timothy, Mark encourages us to let the Holy Spirit d...
Jun 18, 2025•23 min•Ep. 1303
Every troubled teen has a story behind their struggles — often rooted in pain, loss or broken trust. We hear a couple more of those stories today when Mark sits down with two teens from Heartlight, including Jared, who reflects on arriving in a tough place with depression, anxiety and substance abuse — but six months later, sees real change in himself and his family. Together, they are working toward rebuilding trust and moving into a brand new chapter. For more info about the Heartlight residen...
Jun 17, 2025•21 min•Ep. 1302
Join Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lefleur as they explore how parents can earn the respect of their teens. The three emphasize the power of tone, empathy and understanding the world your teen is navigating. Tune in as they share six practical steps you can take today to build mutual respect and strengthen your relationship. To download the Marriage Simplified guide Mark mentioned today, visit cpgive.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. ...
Jun 16, 2025•26 min•Ep. 1301
In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses real-life dilemmas sent in by listeners — ranging from navigating technology boundaries, handling grief and loss, and dealing with issues around sexuality and gender identity, to those classic struggles over clothing choices and R-rated movies at home. He offers practical wisdom on tackling everything from enforcing household standards and addressing power struggles to supporting LGBTQ+ kids while staying true to one’s beliefs. Whether you're facing di...
Jun 13, 2025•36 min•Ep. 1300
In this episode, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lefleur explore the powerful and unique role grandparents play in the lives of teenagers. Mark shares a heartfelt story about how becoming a grandfather unexpectedly softened his heart and prepared him to be a source of love and rest for his grandchildren. The three emphasize that grandparents shouldn't act as second parents, but rather provide a judgment-free space filled with emotional and physical rest, where teens feel safe and valu...
Jun 12, 2025•24 min•Ep. 1299
Today, Mark Gregston reflects on a heartfelt story about a moment with his daughter and granddaughter at a concert that offered him a powerful lesson in perspective. His granddaughter’s simple insight shifted the way he saw the situation. Mark uses this experience to highlight the value of perspective in parenting. He encourages parents to focus on sharing their perspective — not just their opinions — with their teens to foster deeper connection and understanding. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org ...
Jun 11, 2025•17 min•Ep. 1298
Almost every teen’s story holds a search for acceptance, even if that journey is sometimes disguised by rebellion or pain. In today's episode, Mark talks with two more Heartlight students who open up about the challenges they’ve faced. Jacob, who had only recently arrived at Heartlight, reflects on growing up with divorced parents, feeling disconnected from his father and the personal revelations that followed his time in a wilderness program. Want to learn more about the Heartlight residential ...
Jun 10, 2025•23 min•Ep. 1297
Today, Mark Gregston, Courtney Lafleur and Wayne Shepherd remind parents that it’s normal for teens to wrestle with identity and appear different in various settings as they try to figure out who they are. They encourage parents to show patience and empathy, remembering their own journeys through adolescence. The hosts explore how this season of discovery can differ between boys and girls, and stress the importance of non-judgmental conversations to help teens build deeper relationships and a st...
Jun 09, 2025•26 min•Ep. 1296
Are you struggling to connect with your teens or set boundaries that really work? In today’s session, Mark Gregston shares practical advice on shifting from just teaching to truly training your teens — owning mistakes, building trust through genuine conversations and setting healthy boundaries around things like screen time and independence. He addresses what to do when teens don't respond to your invitations for feedback, and how to manage structure and discipline as your child grows. Packed wi...
Jun 06, 2025•18 min•Ep. 1295
In this episode, Mark Gregston shares a personal story about recovering from a kidney transplant and how it gave him insight into the appeal of pain-relieving drugs — especially for teens. Wayne Shepherd, Courtney Lefleur and Mark discuss the deeper reasons behind teen drug use, such as a desire to escape emotional pain, fit in socially or simply feel “normal.” They encourage parents to build a safe, judgment-free environment where teens feel comfortable opening up about difficult topics. They a...
Jun 05, 2025•24 min•Ep. 1294
Today, Mark Gregston reflects on psychologist Jonathan Haidt’s article about how smartphones have “rewired” childhood. Though initially skeptical, Mark was struck by the evidence linking phone use to rising anxiety, depression and isolation in teens. He encourages parents to rethink screen time, set healthy boundaries and consider how technology is shaping their family relationships. Is your family struggling right now? We encourage you to come to our next Families In Crisis Conference, July 24-...
Jun 04, 2025•23 min•Ep. 1293
When teens act out or pull away, there’s often a deeper struggle beneath the surface — a longing for connection and a search for identity. In today’s episode, Mark sits down with two young women from Heartlight who share how feelings of isolation, whether from a sheltered upbringing or broken relationships, led them down challenging paths. For Megan, being surrounded by other teens working through similar issues created authentic friendships and a support system unlike anything she had at home. ...
Jun 03, 2025•26 min•Ep. 1292
Today, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur share their list of 10 characteristics that show a teen may need intervention, addressing the questions many parents ask: "When should we act? How do we confront the issues? And what happens if we don’t?" Mark emphasizes that it takes boldness and strength to address these challenges head-on — but doing so can lead to healing and restoration in your home. Listen in as they share practical advice on how to help your teen when they need you...
Jun 02, 2025•24 min•Ep. 1291
In today’s heartfelt episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the most complex and pressing questions submitted by listeners. From grandparents concerned about estranged grandchildren and families navigating grief after the loss of a loved one to teens facing ADHD, gender identity questions and substance abuse — Mark offers practical wisdom and compassionate advice. Drawing from decades of experience, Mark emphasizes the importance of affirming relationships, setting healthy boundaries and loving ...
May 30, 2025•22 min•Ep. 1290
In this episode, Mark Gregston, Courtney LeFleur and Wayne Shepherd discuss a parent's role in navigating the often difficult topic of sex. Mark encourages creating a home atmosphere where teens feel free to talk openly. They share how and when to have these conversations, along with key cultural issues parents should be aware of. Listen in for practical advice on approaching this subject with your children. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org for more practical and effective resources for parents an...
May 29, 2025•24 min•Ep. 1289
Mark shares a personal devotion from Hebrews 10:24, encouraging parents to focus less on correcting and more on connecting with their teens. He reminds parents to build in breaks from correction to allow teens space to rest. While correction may change behavior, connection reaches the heart. Tune in as Mark offers practical insights to help strengthen your relationship with your teen. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Mark's past podcasts, articles, books and more designed to supp...
May 28, 2025•22 min•Ep. 1288
Loss can turn a teen’s world upside down — and sometimes, all that pain comes out in unexpected ways. On today’s show, Mark sits down with two Heartlight residents who share how the loss of their fathers shaped their choices, relationships and self-image. Both struggled to connect with their moms, acted out or withdrew, yet underneath it all was deep grief they didn’t know how to express. This episode explores how facing heartache — and learning to understand it — is the first step toward real h...
May 27, 2025•19 min•Ep. 1287
Mark Gregston, Courtney LeFleur and Wayne Shepherd explore the power of authenticity in parenting, and why it’s essential for building strong connections at home. As teens long for genuine relationships, the hosts challenge parents to let go of pretense and be real. By modeling authenticity, parents can foster deeper trust, stronger communication and healthier family dynamics. Are you struggling with your teen? Our next Families in Crisis Conference is coming up July 24-26! Learn more at familyc...
May 26, 2025•25 min•Ep. 1286
In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the most pressing — and often tricky — questions parents are asking about their teenagers. He discusses how to navigate the shift in communication with increasingly independent 17- and 18-year-olds, as well as how to handle privacy and GPS tracking issues. Mark also dives into how to introduce godly sexuality to preteens, offering compassionate, practical advice drawn from his years of experience. You'll hear insights on when to let consequences ...
May 23, 2025•21 min•Ep. 1285
On this episode, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney LaFleur debunk five common parenting myths that often mislead moms and dads during the teen years. They stress that teens don’t need perfect parents or best friends — they need relational, trustworthy guides who are willing to be vulnerable and adapt their approach. They encourage parents to remain teachable, relational and flexible as they raise their teens in a rapidly changing culture. If your family is struggling, see if Mark's mini...
May 22, 2025•23 min•Ep. 1284
