Speed-Round Sunday: Reality Check
On Speed-Round Sunday, we share a mini episode from our past for your weekend listening pleasure. We cop to those experiences that sound like a great idea, but kinda suck in reality.

On Speed-Round Sunday, we share a mini episode from our past for your weekend listening pleasure. We cop to those experiences that sound like a great idea, but kinda suck in reality.
On Second-Listen Saturday, we share moments from past episodes for your weekend listening pleasure. This discussion is from June 2019. We revisit a past complaint target in a new way: First it was dental insurance . Now we complain about dentists themselves, as Nicole deals with a belittling one and Terri finally resolves to have her tooth pulled already (it's been six years).
On this week’s Roundabout Roundup, Catherine suggests fun sock Advent calendars from Target , Nicole is enjoying a new card game called Deep Shinola , and Terri makes it meaningful by recommending the Liturgy of the Hours subscription from Word on Fire . Thanks as always to Jon Morin for our fun in-and-out music, which you hear on every episode....
After reading Grown & Flown's list of " nine things NOT to say to your teen when they're home from college ," we obsessed about this tough transition time (for parents and kids!), as well as what our mothers may have said to us.
A Buzzfeed listicle on parenting trends did its job, getting us to talk about it by way of complaining about what's included and what's not. Join us for the gentle snark.
On this week's entertainment-themed Round 2, we flew to Bali for Ticket to Paradise, the George Clooney-Julia Roberts vehicle that was utterly enjoyable and also utterly forgettable. We also hit the Walker family ranch in Ojai, California, for a few more rounds of "people having sex in inappropriate places" and "extremely awkward dinner-table talk." No Round 2 next week, but on January 3, we'll discuss the next two episodes of Brothers and Sisters: "Mistakes Were Made," parts 1 and 2.
Today, we're talking about a Wall Street Journal article called Even university presidents lose their minds when their teens apply to college . It resonated with Catherine and Nicole, who may not be university presidents, but who are definitely losing their grip on their sanity as three of their kids apply to college and grad school.
During a series of "Would You Rather?" Speed Rounds, we take on WYR questions about how we approach life (and chocolate).
Terri's still obsessing over a years-old situation, while Nicole and Catherine have more recent experience: What do you do when you're in a position to bust a kid for bad behavior? Do you tattle, or no? And if so, how?
On this week’s Roundabout Roundup, Terri recommends another Dancing with the Stars side-hustle project: online workouts and dance classes with lots of the DWTS pros at Dance & Co. [ https://www.danceand.co/ ]. Nicole has a trusty new Lapacker backpack so she can comfortably travel with her laptop [ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B595K1KS?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details ]. And Catherine's eyeing Hugimals weighted stuffed animals as a weighted-blanket alternative [ https://www.hugima...
Terri's at her wit's end with minor family bickering, and trying to come up with a way to either stop it, or at least make it more fun for her to referee. So we obsessed about ways to gamify frequent family fights.
In response to a Scary Mommy post called "9 Toys I Can Unequivocally Say Were a Total Waste of Money" [ https://www.scarymommy.com/parenting/9-toys-i-can-unequivocally-say-were-a-total-waste-of-money ], we complained about toys our kids had that didn't stand the test of time (and mentioned some that actually did).
On this week's entertainment-themed Round 2, we checked in on Love Actually, the Christmas movie that's celebrating its 20th anniversary this year. Take or leave the anniversary special (it's on Hulu), but do revisit the movie for a little Christmas cheer. We also continued with our Brothers and Sisters watch, with season 1's "For the Children." The Walker siblings don't stand a chance against Nora's powerful guilt trip, so they all have to attend her annual benefit. Next: S1E8, "Northern Exposu...
In response to a Grown & Flown article [ https://grownandflown.com/christmas-is-for-mothers-also/ ] (which is a response to this SNL skit from 2021 [ https://youtu.be/FOVCtUdaMCU ]), we talked about all the holiday obligations society places on moms, plus the ones we place on ourselves--and how to just opt out.
If you peek in our closets, will you find quality or quantity? Flats or heels? Navy or black? Mentioned: Sherry from Young House Love and her minimalist wardrobe [ https://www.younghouselove.com/minimal-closet-wardrobe/ ].
It's another paperwork complaint: Choosing an emergency contact person to list on various and sundry forms. Turns out it's even harder to select that person when they'd have to be responsible for our pets. Mentioned: Petego Pet Tube Kennel [ https://amzn.to/2WiokmF ].
On this week’s Roundabout Roundup, Nicole's shouting out a new-to-her airline, American, after a smooth and as-comfortable-as-possible cross-country flight [ https://www.aa.com/ ]. Catherine discovered a handy hair-care product: Garnier Fructis Curl Refresher Spray [ https://www.garnierusa.com/about-our-brands/fructis/curl-nourish/curl-refresher-spray ]. And Terri discovered Coach Lisle, a handy source of dad jokes [ https://www.instagram.com/coachlisle/ ]....
Last week, Catherine told a story [ https://www.parentingroundaboutpodcast.com/blog/teaching-conversation-skills ] about her son asking a group of her husband's colleagues what their dream job would be, which prompted us today to obsess about what our aspirations once were [ https://www.parentingroundaboutpodcast.com/blog/speed-round-what-did-you-want-to-be-when-you-grew-up ], and how our current careers stack up against the ideal....
A complaint session on bad habits quickly became a discussion about how to handle flatulence in public (specifically, in church): Hold it in, or let it rip? But there's also more to this episode than toot talk, so stick with it.
On this week's entertainment-themed Round 2, we caved to the relentless promotion of the movie The People We Hate at the Wedding (Amazon Prime), mostly because we have a big soft spot for Allison Janney, Kristen Bell, and even Dustin Milligan (known to us mostly as Rutherford Falls Podcast Guy). And while we enjoyed seeing them all, we wouldn't RSVP yes to a second viewing. In Brothers and Sisters, another dysfunctional family comedy, many Walkers go on many disastrous dates (and one that turns ...
We're not taking credit, but sometimes our kids really impress us with their skills and strengths, from book smarts to memory and recall to coordination and creativity.
Our discussion of sundae toppings leads Terri on a walk down SoCal memory lane.
Our kids aren't obsessed with the K-pop boy band BTS, but Terri went to the concert anyway—twice! And that got us talking about our kids' concert experiences, and our own.
On this week’s Roundabout Roundup, Terri's Walker Hayes Minute returns with a recommendation for Hayes's new song "Face in the Crowd" (and its video [ https://youtu.be/SZ523NEhnhM ]). Nicole is embracing the practicality of a sturdy rolling crate [ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0798J37V7?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details ], and Catherine appreciates the reassuring messages from @bigtimeadulting on Instagram [ https://www.instagram.com/bigtimeadulting/ ]....
Watching Dancing with the Stars has brought Terri and Catherine into the world of pro dancers who also work as influencers. That led us to obsess about all the ways that we could try to influence our vast audience. Mentioned: Dancing Pizza [ https://dancing-pizza.com/ ], Nicole's son's TikTok-famous cat [ https://www.tiktok.com/ @speaking_of_cats], and our Amazon shop [ https://www.amazon.com/shop/mamatude ]....
An article in the Wall Street Journal about a trend in playdates [ https://www.wsj.com/articles/when-parents-live-text-the-playdate-endearing-or-annoying-11668205916?st=8zr8ah02k3i8dyb&reflink=desktopwebshare_permalink&fbclid=IwAR3TiY0fiui0JmRRZXW3o9NZ8O0yVGrmPv1thY4Ej8IIacOTyXZn4ZKRSek ] got us complaining about the expectation to document every moment of kids' lives, including when they're visiting another child's home....
On this week's entertainment-themed Round 2, we stepped into the holiday season with the Apple TV+ original movie, Spirited, starring Ryan Reynolds, Will Ferrell, Octavia Spencer, and many other familiar faces. While most of the songs let us down, everyone seemed to be having a grand time and we can appreciate that. On Brothers and Sisters, no one has a grand time, of course; they're dealing with chronic illness in a kid, their passive-aggressive mother, and other drama. Next: S1 E5, "Date Night...
An Instagram post from the University of British Columbia [ https://www.instagram.com/p/ClBsgVMtxrw/ ] got us talking about social and conversation skills, and how necessary it is to really teach kids how to have both polite and meaningful conversations with friends, family, colleagues, and strangers.
Inspired by a post at Go Fug Yourself [ https://www.gofugyourself.com/unclaimed-baggage-by-jen-doll-09-2018 ], we tell our tales of finding weird (sometimes disturbing!) items.
Today's episode is not for the weak of stomach. Skip this one if you don't want to join us in recalling and complaining about all the disgusting ways we've had to show love and care for our dogs.