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Parenting and Personalities

Kate Mason, Stories and Strategieskatemasonauthor.com

One thing about being a parent – there’s no shortage of personalities to be surrounded by. Our kids, our partners, our family, our friends. They keep us laughing, growing, loving, and crying. If only they understood us. Like the musician Van Morrison once sang “When people understand what I mean, mama said there will be days like this.” Adelaide Australia’s Kate Mason is an author, wife, and mother who has spent her career studying personality and relationships. In this podcast she looks at why relationships work, and why some don't. She also looks at how our personalities impact our relationships and examines what compels our children, husbands, wives and others to behave the way they do. This podcast is designed to help you understand those you love. A half hour listening on your own, will connect you with the ones you care about the most.

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Episodes

What Did Our Parents Teach Us About Modern Parenting?

From discipline to communication. Have you ever stopped to think about how your childhood shapes the way you parent today? Steph Noon, an experienced life coach and trauma specialist, and her daughter Kate Thorn, a busy mom join Kate. Together, they discuss the evolution of parenting styles across generations, the challenges of modern-day information overload, and the wisdom gained from blending tradition with cutting-edge psychological insights. Listen For: 09:22 - The Impact of Being Seen and ...

Nov 26, 202432 minSeason 3Ep. 132

Adult Kids Living at Home: Is This the NEW NORMAL?

Are you tired of living with your adult kids? The phenomenon of adult children living at home with their parents has become increasingly common, leaving many to wonder: is this the new normal? Kate looks at the realities of adults living with their parents, whether due to economic challenges or shifting cultural norms. Joined by life coach Jeanine Mouchawar, they discuss how to navigate this complex dynamic with grace and mutual respect. From reshaping communication styles to setting boundaries ...

Nov 19, 202430 minSeason 3Ep. 131

Are You SECRETLY Superstitious? Unravelling our superstitions

Are you a little superstitious, or maybe just a little "stitious?" Kate Mason dives deep into the world of superstitions, from quirky wedding traditions and curious rituals to their psychological roots and cultural origins. With stories from her daughter's recent wedding, Kate explores how superstitions shape our lives, whether it's crossing fingers, tossing salt, or athletes' game-day routines. She even relates these habits to Myers-Briggs personality types, showing how our natural inclinations...

Nov 12, 202429 minSeason 3Ep. 130

Repairing Personality Clashes With Your Child

Are you tired of feeling frustrated and helpless when dealing with your child's temperament clashes? Do you wish you could understand and respond to their emotional needs more effectively? Kate explores how our unique temperaments—sanguine, choleric, phlegmatic, and melancholic—affect our responses to conflict and shape the ways we repair relationships. She shares insights and practical techniques to handle arguments with empathy, resilience, and emotional intelligence. It’s never too late to re...

Nov 05, 202426 minSeason 3Ep. 129

Managing Big Events Without Burning Out

Are you energized by lively conversations or do big social events drain your batteries? Kate examines the intriguing dynamics between extroverts and introverts, exploring how each personality type navigates big gatherings. Whether you thrive in social settings or need solitude to recharge, Kate discusses the impact of these preferences on relationships, mental well-being, and self-awareness. Through relatable stories—including how she balanced her own extroverted excitement with her husband’s in...

Oct 28, 202418 minSeason 3Ep. 128

Puberty 2.0: Understanding Perimenopause’s Impacts

Is perimenopause just the “second puberty” we never saw coming? In this episode of, host Kate Mason and guest Unna Goldsworthy dive deep into perimenopause, breaking down what it really is, how it impacts women’s physical and emotional health, and how understanding it can improve relationships at home and at work. From managing symptoms to societal shifts like corporate policies supporting menopausal women, this conversation sheds light on navigating this transition with self-awareness, lifestyl...

Oct 22, 202442 minSeason 3Ep. 127

Weddings: Magic or Family Madness?

Weddings: magical, stressful, and full of surprises—would you relive your big day? In this episode, Kate dives into all things wedding-related as her daughter Cassie prepares to walk down the aisle. From the curveballs that can throw off wedding plans to how personality types like MBTI shape the process, Kate shares personal anecdotes and explores wedding traditions around the globe. Whether you’ve had your own perfect or not-so-perfect day, this episode will resonate with anyone who has navigat...

Oct 15, 202417 minSeason 3Ep. 126

Beyond Burnout: Reclaiming Your Energy as Parent

Feeling burnt out? This episode dives into the sneaky ways burnout can take over our lives. Kate speaks with Unna Goldsworthy, founder of Unna Movement, to explore burnout’s telltale signs, its impact on the body and mind, and the strategies to combat it. Unna shares her personal journey of burnout, from pushing through physical and emotional exhaustion to finding balance by redefining her career and life goals. They discuss how to spot burnout early, the power of self-compassion, and actionable...

Oct 08, 202438 minSeason 3Ep. 125

Nurturing Creativity: A Bridge to Learning Differences

What happens when a child dreams of becoming a hazmat worker? In this episode, Kate and Dr. Victoria Waller dives into the fascinating ways creativity can become a bridge to success for children with learning differences. Dr. Victoria E. Waller shares her incredible experiences in nurturing children's passions and helping them find their unique strengths. She emphasizes how thinking outside the box – sometimes quite literally with cardboard – can lead to academic and personal growth. Get ready t...

Oct 01, 202431 minSeason 3Ep. 123

From Arguments to Understanding: Using Personality Insights to Improve Relationships

Do you feel like you're arguing more than connecting with your partner lately? In this episode, Kate dives into listener questions about relationships and communication, focusing on how understanding personality types can help couples reconnect. Whether it's the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), temperament theories, or love languages, Kate shares actionable insights to strengthen bonds and reduce conflict. She also explores how understanding these frameworks can assist in parenting challenges...

Sep 24, 202421 minSeason 3Ep. 123

Navigating Arguments: A Personality-Based Approach to Parenting

Why do we argue, and how can understanding our personalities help us navigate conflicts? In this episode, Kate looks at the root causes of arguments, exploring how personality types, emotional triggers, and even hormonal fluctuations play a crucial role in our disagreements. With a mix of humour and practical advice, Kate offers strategies to defuse tensions and maintain harmony in relationships, especially within families. Whether you're a peacekeeper or a debater, this episode provides valuabl...

Sep 17, 202425 minSeason 3Ep. 122

Money Talks: What Your Personality Says About Your Wallet

Ever wondered how your personality influences your financial habits? In this episode, host Kate chats with financial coach Lexi Smith about the fascinating connection between MBTI profiles and money management. Lexi, an ENTP, shares how understanding your personality can be a game-changer for managing finances—whether you're a spender or a saver. The conversation delves into practical tips for parents on how to teach their kids about money, the importance of using positive language, and how to m...

Sep 10, 202435 minSeason 3Ep. 121

Traveling with the Three F's: Fear, Frustration, Fun

How do you handle the big three F-words of travel: fear, frustration, and fun? In this episode, Kate Mason delves into her personal experiences of traveling as an ESFP, from the anxieties of flying and taking taxis to the challenges of planning trips with family. Despite the stress and unpredictability, she highlights the importance of embracing the chaos and finding joy in every moment. Whether you're the organized planner or the spontaneous go-with-the-flow type, Kate’s stories remind us that ...

Sep 03, 202424 minSeason 3Ep. 120

The Personality Behind the Mess: How MBTI Shapes Your Clutter

How does your personality shape the way you deal with clutter? This episode explores the fascinating intersection of personality types, love languages, and our relationship with the stuff we accumulate. Kate Mason chats with Bridget Johns, founder of Be Simply Free, about how understanding ourselves and our loved ones can transform the often-overwhelming task of decluttering into a meaningful, even harmonious process. They explore everything from MBTI types to love languages, offering insights a...

Aug 27, 202442 minSeason 3Ep. 119

Clear Space, Clear Mind: Time to Declutter

Is your life overflowing with clutter? From physical messes in your home to the digital chaos on your phone and even the mental overload that keeps you up at night, clutter can be overwhelming. In this episode, Kate chats with Bridget Johns, founder of "Be Simply Free," about her journey from a chaotic life to one of organized serenity. Bridget shares her expertise in decluttering not just your space, but your mind and schedule too. Bridget shares practical tips and inspiration to reclaim your t...

Aug 20, 202436 minSeason 3Ep. 118

The Resilience Revolution: Raising Strong Kids

Are you raising resilient children? In this episode, Kate Mason and Tania Johnson dive into the importance of building resilience and emotional strength in both parents and children. From the benefits of play to the power of independent problem-solving, they explore how cultural differences impact our approach to parenting. Discover practical strategies for fostering resilience and learn why it's crucial to let kids experience failure and take risks. Listen For: 05:03 - Teaching Conflict Resolut...

Aug 13, 202439 minSeason 4Ep. 117

Empowering Parents: Tools for Raising Resilient Kids

Have you ever wondered what builds resilience in us and our children? In this episode, Kate chats with Tania Johnson, co-founder of the Institute of Child Psychology. Tania shares her journey, from fostering four First Nations children to her academic accomplishments and her profound insights into attachment theory and resilience. Together, they explore the power of purposeful parenting, the importance of allowing children to fail and learn, and practical strategies to foster resilience in our y...

Aug 06, 202439 minSeason 4Ep. 116

Traveling with Personalities: A Guide to Harmonious Group Trips

Ever wondered how to keep the peace while traveling with a diverse group of personalities? In this episode, Kate shares her experiences and insights from a recent family trip to the USA and Canada. She discusses the importance of understanding and respecting different personality types to ensure a harmonious travel experience. From pre-trip planning and balancing activities to maintaining open communication and embracing individual differences, Kate provides practical tips for making group trave...

Jul 30, 202417 minSeason 4Ep. 115

From Ouch to Okay: Helping Kids Cope With Pain

In this episode we explore effective strategies to help children understand and manage pain. How to comfort your child. The role empathy plays. And practical tips for you as a parent to make these difficult moments more manageable. Listen For: 3:50 The Impact of Media on Children’s Empathy and Pain Perception 19:26 The Role of Parental Reactions in Children’s Pain Management 30:27 Encouraging Empathy Through Shared Reading 21:43 Practical Tips for Managing Pain in Children Guest: Sarah Wallwork,...

Jul 23, 202439 minSeason 4Ep. 114

REPLAY - The Four Personality Temperaments

This is a REPLAY of episode 81 first published in November 2023. Kate discusses the four personality temperaments of children: choleric, sanguine, melancholic, and phlegmatic. She explains these temperaments are innate and can greatly influence a child's behaviour. Understanding these temperaments can help parents tailor their approach to their child's unique needs and strengths, fostering a more positive and effective parenting experience. Listen For 4:38 The Choleric Temperament 8:17 The Sangu...

Jul 16, 202422 min

REPLAY - Unlocking Effective Communication Between Teens and Parents

This is a REPLAY from episode 77 first published in October 2023. It’s so important for parents to have effective communication with their teenagers and using the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) can help. Kate and guest Jeanine Mouchawar discuss how understanding your own and your teen's personality type can improve communication and reduce conflict. Jeanine shares a five-step process for effective communication: calming oneself before a conversation, stating observations without judgement, g...

Jul 09, 202442 min

REPLAY - ME/CFS – The Forgotten Disease

This is a REPLAY of episode 51 from April 2023. Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome ME/CFS as it’s known. The World Health Organisation classified ME/CFS as a disease, not a psychological issue, back in the 1960’s but we still know so little about it. It’s a complex disabling disease affecting the brain, the muscles, and digestive, immune and cardiac systems. About 60,000 people in Australia are housebound or bed bound from ME/CFS. It’s become the forgotten disease, costing the he...

Jul 02, 202435 min

From Silence to Strength: How Family Secrets Shape Us

Can uncovering family secrets transform your life? In this episode, Kate dives deep with TEDx speaker and author Michelle Scheibner, uncovering the profound impact of identity and family secrets. Michelle shares her journey of loss, grief, and the quest for self-understanding, inspired by her memoir "Hush." Through personal anecdotes and scientific insights, they explore how our hidden histories influence our present, providing listeners with a thought-provoking exploration of the forces that sh...

Jun 25, 202434 minSeason 3Ep. 113

Who Am I? Understanding Identity Activation

Who are you really? What an intriguing and thought-provoking question. In this episode, Kate speaks with Michelle Scheibner, a TEDx speaker and author of the memoir "Hush." Michelle shares her journey from a secondary school teacher to a renowned identity activator, emphasizing the profound impact of personal branding. She explains how her exploration of narrative coaching, conversational IQ, and inherited family trauma shaped her unique approach to helping clients discover and leverage their tr...

Jun 18, 202434 minSeason 3Ep. 112

A Strength-Based Approach to Introversion

Being quietly confident is powerful. In this episode, host Kate and guest Kate James explore the strength-based approach to introversion, emphasizing the importance of leveraging natural strengths over fixing weaknesses. They discuss the significance of growth mindset, highlighting how adopting this perspective can lead to continuous improvement and resilience. The conversation also delves into the concept of Highly Sensitive Persons (HSP) and their connection to introversion, offering insights ...

Jun 11, 202431 minSeason 3Ep. 111

The Silent Strength: Confidence for Introverts

Shhh. In this episode of Parenting and Personalities, Kate Mason explores the world of introversion with guest Kate James. They explore the unique strengths and challenges of introverts, debunking common myths and highlighting the importance of self-awareness and confidence. Kate James shares her journey of embracing her introverted nature and offers practical advice for introverts to thrive in an extroverted world. Listen For: 7:58 - Introverts in Social Settings 15:55 - The Role of Confidence ...

Jun 04, 202431 minSeason 3Ep. 110

How Your Personality Impacts Your Exercise Routine

Ready to transform your fitness routine? It starts with understanding your unique personality. In this episode, Kate delves into the unique ways introverts and extroverts, intuitives and sensors, thinkers and feelers, and judgers and perceivers approach exercise. Whether you thrive on the camaraderie of group classes or find peace in solitary runs, understanding these tendencies can unlock a more enjoyable and effective fitness routine. With anecdotes, research, and practical tips, this episode ...

May 21, 202426 minSeason 3Ep. 108

Laughing Matters: How Humour is Wired in Us

Laughter truly is the best medicine! In this episode, Kate dives into the fascinating world of humour and its effects on our mental and physical health. She explores various types of humour—from slapstick to satire—and how they resonate differently depending on our personality types, as described by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. Kate illustrates how humour not only enhances our personal well-being and social bonds but also boosts our immune system and pain tolerance. Listen For: 3:02 - Humour...

May 14, 202420 minSeason 3Ep. 107

Beyond the Brain: Personality Insights in Neurodivergent Lives

What happens when neurodiversity intersects with the MBTI? In this episode, Kate and guest Sam Young explore the relationship between MBTI personality types and neurodiversity. They explore how understanding traits like extroversion and introversion can impact the interactions and development of neurodiverse individuals, particularly children. Kate and Sam highlight the importance of acknowledging and respecting unique brain functions, as they unpack the challenges and opportunities presented by...

May 07, 202432 minSeason 3Ep. 106

Understanding Neurodiversity

Neurodiversity reshapes our world. In this episode, Kate explores the world of neurodiversity with guest Sam Young, a growth-minded educator and advocate for twice-exceptional learners. They unravel the challenges and gifts that come with being neurodivergent—such as ADHD, autism, and dyslexia—shedding light on the importance of understanding, embracing, and supporting diverse minds. Sam’s own journey as a neurodivergent individual and his work with Young Scholars Academy brings insights into fo...

Apr 30, 202444 minSeason 3Ep. 105
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