In this episode of the Over the Bridge podcast, the hosts engage in a profound and expansive discussion with Ben Hurst, Director of Facilitation at Beyond Equality and TEDx speaker, on the complex themes surrounding masculinity and the societal constructs that shape male behaviour. The conversation explores the impact of toxic masculinity, the educational challenges in addressing these issues in schools, and the nuances of everyday sexism. The group also delves into parenthood, particularly the ...
Apr 11, 2025•1 hr 34 min
In this dynamic and interactive live podcast recording, the guys delve into alternative ways to build community in 2025. They invite two inspiring guests who share their unique experiences and perspectives on community building through sport and fitness. Tanita Blackstock, a seasoned supporter of underrepresented groups in the charity sector, talks about her involvement in the running community and empowering women. Aram Akom, founder of Black Tennis Mentors UK, elaborates on his efforts to grow...
Mar 13, 2025•39 min
In the first part of our recorded live show, we have an engaging discussion on trauma and healing with guest speaker Whitney Iles, founder of Project 507. The conversation explores the definition of trauma, the importance of being trauma-informed, and the various ways to manage and heal from traumatic experiences. Whitney shares insights from her extensive experience in youth and community development, emphasizing the significance of relationships, community, and self-care in healing. .00:00 Int...
Feb 28, 2025•45 min
In this episode of the Over the Bridge Podcast, Kalil and Baker share a special two-person discussion focusing on their careers in the public sector. Kalil elaborates on his current role as a safeguarding and attendance specialist leader of education, detailing his journey from studying law at Cambridge to finding fulfillment in teaching. Meanwhile, Baker, a foundation year doctor, shares his path to medicine, discussing the early influences, challenges, and his desire to contribute to communiti...
Feb 21, 2025•54 min
In this episode of Over the Bridge Podcast, Kalil, Bilal, and Baker dive into a discussion inspired by recent personal conversations about the concept of professionalism. They explore the influence of hair, dress code, and the way they speak, especially as black and mixed-race men. The conversation covers personal anecdotes, cultural influences, and how professional norms can differ across various environments like hospitals, schools, and freelance settings. The episode also delves into the subc...
Feb 14, 2025•1 hr 6 min
In this episode of the Over the Bridge Podcast, Kwaku and the squad explore counseling and therapy. They share personal experiences with therapy, discuss the importance of relatable therapists, and tackle the stigma around mental health for Black men. They also address the different modalities of therapy and the financial challenges of accessing mental health services before addressing the question -- do we all need therapy? 00:00 Welcome and Introductions 02:54 Personal Experiences with Counsel...
Jan 27, 2025•56 min
In this episode of the Over The Bridge Podcast, the full cast reunites in the studio to discuss Kalil's recent vasectomy. The cast discuss myths and shed light on common misconceptions with Kalil sharing his journey from preparing for the procedure to the aftermath. They detail everything from the surgical process to post-op recovery and family planning to educate listeners and emphasise the significance of informed decision-making. 00:00 Welcome to Over The Bridge Podcast 01:35 Reunion and Refl...
Jan 17, 2025•55 min
In this episode of Over The Bridge Podcast, hosts Patrick, Baker, and Bilal discuss the challenges and dynamics of maintaining extended family ties in contemporary society. They explore how generational shifts, social media, and changing social norms affect the way Millennials and Gen Z engage with their families. The conversation delves into personal anecdotes about holiday traditions, the burden of family responsibilities, and the balance between individualism and community. Through contrastin...
Dec 18, 2024•1 hr 11 min
In this episode of Over The Bridge Podcast, Kalil opens up about his decision to get a vasectomy. The discussion covers a wide range of topics including the stigma surrounding vasectomies, men's health behaviors, emotional intelligence, and responsibility in family planning. The hosts also explore the implications of hormonal contraception for men, the biological and social pressures on male virility, and the societal expectations that contribute to men's reluctance to prioritize their reproduct...
Dec 09, 2024•1 hr 8 min
In this episode of Over The Bridge Podcast, Patrick is joined by Kalil and Baker to discuss the responsibilities that come with podcasting. They touch on the negative perception of black male podcasts, examining the influence and impact these platforms can have on their communities. They reflect on their personal motivations for being part of the podcast and how they navigate balancing authenticity with the scrutiny of a public platform. The conversation delves into the digital representation of...
Nov 25, 2024•1 hr 8 min
In this episode of the Over The Bridge Podcast, hosts Bilal, Patrick, and guest Kalil reconnect to discuss various aspects of male friendships. They delve into the dynamics of their relationships, reflecting on how life changes have affected their bonds. The conversation covers topics such as the importance of intentionality in maintaining friendships, the challenges of making new friends as men get older, and the need for accountability and honesty. The episode also highlights personal anecdote...
Nov 18, 2024•58 min
In this episode of the Over The Bridge podcast, hosts Bilal, Kwaku, and Patrick dive into the complex topic of Black British identity. They discuss personal experiences, generational changes, cultural expressions, and the broader factors shaping what it means to be Black and British today. The conversation spans shared cultural markers like music, food, and common experiences, while also touching on how the British environment—including issues like gentrification and globalization—impacts this e...
Nov 11, 2024•1 hr 23 min
In this episode of the Over the Bridge Podcast, Bilal and Patrick engage in a candid discussion about personal experiences, cultural identities, and childhood memories. Patrick, back from his travels, shares his experiences about visiting Thailand and reconnecting with a long-time friend. The conversation covers the influence of West Indian culture in the UK, the importance of family connections, and the dynamics of transitioning these familial traditions to future generations. They also explore...
Oct 14, 2024•1 hr 9 min
It's Black History Month in the UK and in this week we re-release a throwback episode from the 2018 archives where we discuss - do we need a Black History Month?
Oct 07, 2024•1 hr 1 min
In this special episode of the Over the Bridge Podcast, Thomas Swift joins us to discuss lessons learned from the past and valuable advice for the future. Covering experiences from dating to professional achievements and the importance of community, this heartfelt conversation dives deep into life advice for both younger and older selves. We also touch on themes of vulnerability, resilience, and the significance of having a supportive network. Plus, get a peek into the hosts' personal lives, inc...
Sep 30, 2024•1 hr 7 min
In this episode of the Over the Bridge Podcast, hosts Bilal and Kwaku share intimate discussions on their personal journeys with religion and spirituality. They examine the impact of major life events, like the birth of a child, on their religious beliefs and the challenges of practicing faith amidst cultural and familial expectations. Their conversation also explores the complexities of organized religion, the inner struggle of self-perception, and the evolving role of religion in modern societ...
Sep 23, 2024•1 hr 40 min
In this episode, Bilal and Kwaku have an open and candid discussion about men's healthcare. They delve into their personal experiences with the healthcare system, discussing startling statistics about men's reluctance to seek medical help and the stigmas attached. The conversation covers both physical and mental health, touching on societal norms and the importance of being proactive about health. They also explore the gender disparities in healthcare and the impact of upbringing and socioeconom...
Sep 16, 2024•52 min
In this episode, Bilal, Patrick and Kwaku dive deep into the question, 'What does a successful life look like?' They discuss their personal experiences and perspectives on success, contentment, and the ever-changing priorities in life. From navigating professional and family life to understanding self-worth and combating the pressures of social media, this episode offers a thoughtful and introspective exploration of what it means to live a fulfilling life today. Tune in for a conversation that p...
Sep 09, 2024•55 min
In this episode Bilal, Kwaku, and Patrick delve deep into the subject of community. The conversation kicks off with some light-hearted introductions and personal stories, but quickly evolves into a profound discussion on what it truly means to belong to a community. If you've ever felt the pang of loneliness in a bustling city or wondered how you could make a more significant impact in your local community, this episode offers invaluable insights and practical advice. Join us for a rich dialogue...
Sep 02, 2024•1 hr 11 min
In this thought-provoking episode, Bilal, Patrick and Kwaku are joined by special guest Busayo Twins, a passionate political commentator, as they dive deep into the crucial issues facing the UK today. From the recent rise in far-right activity to the underlying socio-political dynamics, they leave no stone unturned. The conversation spans across various topics including the impact of misinformation on social media, the role of capitalism in societal unrest, and the interconnectedness of our glob...
Aug 26, 2024•1 hr 24 min
In this episode, Bilal, Patrick and Kwaku discuss their feelings of political homelessness following the recent UK general election. They explore disillusionment with mainstream parties such as Labour and Conservative, as well as the allure and challenges of smaller parties and independent candidates. The conversation delves into the failures of the current political system, the impact of media narratives, and the role of community and activism in finding political identity and purpose. They als...
Aug 19, 2024•57 min
After a three-year hiatus, the boys are back in the studio. In this episode we discuss our time away from the podcast, some big life updates and what we envision for Over The Bridge moving forward. 00:00 Introduction and Catching Up 01:05 Life Updates and Changes 03:48 Fatherhood Journey 09:24 Health Challenges and Recovery 16:36 Community and Belonging 21:55 Parenting and Socializing 22:40 The Impact of Having a Child on Social Perception 22:58 Comparing Parenting to Pet Ownership 23:57 Men and...
Aug 12, 2024•52 min
In this episode we are joined by Mags Abraha, editor of A Quick Ting On, the first ever book series on Black British culture. We discuss the growth of black voices in UK publishing and media, Black-Britishness as an identity and some of the themes covered in the upcoming anthology; including Black British music, fashion and politics. https://twitter.com/AQuickTingOn https://twitter.com/JacarandaBooks
Jun 13, 2021•1 hr 17 min
In this episode we are joined by our friend, Presenter/Broadcaster and Host of the Brave Conversations Podcast on BBC 1Xtra, Richie Brave. We discuss what makes a "good" conversation; reflect on our favourite Black British platforms and discuss the dangers of identity politics and singular narratives when it comes to talking about our experiences. We also touch on the benefits of podcasts as a medium vs. TV/radio, as well as the importance of cultivating environments for authenticity. Enjoy....
May 10, 2021•1 hr 12 min
In this episode we are joined by Dr Jerelle Joseph, a Research Fellow in Physical & Chemical Sciences at King's College, Cambridge and Founder of carischolar.com . We learn about her journey into the world of scientific academia from her upbringing in Dominica and discuss her comparative experience living and studying in the UK, navigating the space as a Black Caribbean woman and the fundamental importance of mentorship and guidance for students to realise their full potential academically a...
May 03, 2021•1 hr 5 min
In this episode we are joined by Alexina Anatole, a fellow Cambridge grad and finalist in the Master Chef 2021. We talk about what inspires Alexina's love for cooking, the realities of filming on the BBC One hit show, as well as how working on the trading floor prepared her for her new journey as a chef. We also find out her top 5 cuisines and her big plans for the future. Enjoy.
Apr 18, 2021•1 hr 3 min
In this episode we are joined by Chine McDonald, a broadcaster, Head of Community Fundraising and Public Engagement at Christian Aid , and author of book God Is Not a White Man: And Other Revelations . We discusss colonialism, development, navigating Cambridge University as a Black Woman and the conventional depictions of God as White & Male. Chine's book is available NOW to pre-order and we hope you enjoy our conversation as much as we did....
Apr 11, 2021•1 hr 5 min
In this episode we are joined by Bhishma Asare (aka Proph), an independent artist from South London and founder of Rap Therapy. Join us as we discuss the work his team are doing in school across the UK, using rap as a therapeutic tool for young people to express their feelings. We also explore some of the flaws in the education system and how creative initiatives like Rap Therapy can positively impact children's behaviour, wellbeing and learning. Follow their work: https://www.raptherapy.co.uk h...
Apr 04, 2021•58 min
In this episode we are joined by Alex Holmes, writer, podcaster and the author of book "Time to Talk". We discuss love, belonging & connection as well as how men can show up for each other and hold space for vulnerability and experiencing grief.
Mar 24, 2021•1 hr 35 min
In the second episode of our Bridging the Gap series, we are joined by two very specials special guests - Bilal's parents, Colleen and Asif Khan. Join us as we discuss the education system in the UK compared to Jamaica; the initial resistance they experienced as an inter-racial/inter-faith couple; and the question of whether they want to stay in NW London or maybe venture 'back home' one day. Enjoy!
Mar 14, 2021•1 hr 20 min
