It's a raspy start to the pod with Pockets losing his voice over the weekend at a queer party - but wait til you hear about the despicable behaviour by new podcast villain "Shitty Little Twink". We had a Gaytor slide into our DMs with an update for Chris on the Shawn Mendes/Robert Irwin rumours and it is JUICY. Budapest Pride was cancelled, but you try telling the hungry gays of Hungary that they can't party, and you'd best believe they're putting up a fight. Our Brad continues on from last week...
Jul 01, 2025•43 min
We've got a full house this week with the boys back together and the internal flirting is at an all-time high. Chris has been duped by AI and the deception really stings - why did he think Robert Irwin had fallen in love with a male pop star?! Not usually one for decisiveness, Pockets took control of the group ordering at a restaurant, but a rogue dish tipped him over the edge. Matariki has us all reflecting on our highs and lows of the year so far, and it's given Brad a push to be really open a...
Jun 24, 2025•41 min
Brad's back! And the boys are begging him to show off his Speedo tan line. There was a mid-winter Christmas gathering at Pockets' house this weekend, and his story swings wildly from wholesome slow cooker chat to debaucherous gay clubbing in a matter of minutes! Chris was so overwhelmed by all your beautiful feedback about his journey to fatherhood, and there's an update this week - he has been *ahem* delivering samples to the clinic. The real world MAFS experiment across the ditch has officiall...
Jun 17, 2025•38 min
Brad's back on Naked Attraction: All Stars but Chris and Matty have SO much to discuss. First up, Pockets roped in his husband to reluctantly take part in a running race - so did their marriage survive? There is HUGE news in Chris' household involving the potential pitter-patter of little feet - you're not going to want to miss this. We're still obsessed with the real-world MAFS experiment, but we're nervous about where it's heading. We discuss the idea that you're either a girl's gay or a guy's...
Jun 10, 2025•40 min
The boys are pumped to welcome a special guest to the pod this week - and it's someone they've been talking about for the past few weeks! Josh Fox is a gay British man living in Australia who has been deeply invested in Married at First Sight - even hosting his own podcast on the topic, slagging off the so-called "experts" and questioning whether the experiment actually works. So Josh decided to put his money where his mouth is, and recently married a stranger himself, documenting the process in...
Jun 03, 2025•42 min
The boys are back, but this time they've added a fourth - and my god does it feel good. Sexologist Morgan Penn, the host of the hit iHeart Radio podcast Sex.Life joins the boys to answer their - and your - questions about sex and relationships. Like how often should long term couples be having sex? Or what happens if your libido is shot to pieces because of medication? Is it normal to feel shame after sex? And how do we grow our confidence in the bedroom? This episode, more than any other, is te...
May 27, 2025•48 min
The boys are all back together with the return of prodigal son Brad, and you will not BELIEVE what treats he has brought in for the team. Chris has been getting into a TV recommendation given on the pod recently, but he really has a bone to pick with Pockets. We do a whip around of interesting news from the internet - including an update on the gay version of MAFS, a selection of Broadway-related thirst traps, and a coming out story that may or may not be four years old (we're talking to our res...
May 20, 2025•45 min
It’s been a big week as Chris hit the big 4-0. So what’s he learnt, and why has he all of a sudden started crying?! It’s got Matty thinking about his own 40th next year, and he’s wondering whether he should be putting together a to-do list of things to tick off before the milestone. We’ve found our Hottie of the Week in the form of a Spanish football star (si Papi) who accidentally revealed more than he meant to in a recent game. There’s a gay version of Married at First Sight that the boys are ...
May 13, 2025•37 min
It is all go on the podcast this week, with a heartfelt and long overdue apology straight out the GAYTE from one of the boys. We thought we knew what the gays were into until Chris turned up somewhere unexpected and found our community en masse! Why was Pockets crying in a show about zombies, and more importantly why is he insisting we all put ourselves through it?! One of us is having a significant birthday this week, and it got us thinking about our old man habits. Plus all the goss from the s...
May 06, 2025•41 min
The boys are back after an Easter Break, although they're still blissfully unaware of what happened to Jesus after he came out of the cave. We whip through a quick fire round of updates on previous podcast mentions, including Tiger King Joe Exotic, our favourite Australian photographer Mitchell Burns, and that Senate Twink. Brad's been sassed over a recent home appliance purchase - but a debate ensued between the fellas. We discussed the art of complaining after Matty wasn't happy with his hotel...
Apr 29, 2025•42 min
The boys are back for another killer episode, although Brad's in the regions - specifically returning to the scene of the crime where he was recently caught on security camera by his in-laws. So is there any residual awkwardness?! There's some new research out around pheromones, and Chris reckons the gays love sweat more than the average person. Matty went out over the weekend, and was very surprised by what he got up to with his husband Ryan in da clubs. One of the boys is furious at straight b...
Apr 15, 2025•43 min
The boys are back together after Brad's jaunt to the regions last week, and he returns with a Hot Apple Pie review! It looks like Pockets might be a model now?! He hit the runway in Dunedin and is ready for his Naomi Campbell diva-ship What fun little walk down memory lane put Chris in the dog box with his partner, and what's it going to take to get out?! We have to talk about those steamy new Robert Irwin underwear pictures. Plus by the time you listen to this you'll already know, but we make o...
Apr 08, 2025•41 min
Our boy Brad is away this week in Palmerston North, so we expect a full review of the Hot Apple Pie from the mall food court when he returns next week. But Matty and Chris had a big weekend attending the Synthony Festival - although why did Pockets wake up with excruciating thighs the next day?! We've had some feedback from Chris' fiancé that maybe last week we spent too long talking about The White Lotus, so strap in for the quickest of recaps (but, honestly, we had to talk about the brothers)....
Apr 01, 2025•40 min
Our boy Chris threw one heck of an engagement party, and there was a lot to discuss. Firstly, were the rumours that the engagement party might double as a secret wedding true?! Also who was the very unlikely Gaytor the boys met at the event? Plus why is Brad ordering drinks from the bar like a boomer? There's a lot going on in the LGBT+ community at the moment, and we really do need your support and love more than ever. Plus, to finish off on a note of levity, the peen count on The White Lotus h...
Mar 25, 2025•43 min
It's a big week on Out The Gayte as we discuss everything going down (and we mean down) on The White Lotus - including your official peen count. The boys all agree that comedian Pete Davidson has BDE, but should he have gotten rid of his tattoos?! It's nearly time for Chris' engagement party, but he has a dilemma regarding gifts! With the weather getting warmer, Brad decided to take a dip in the pool, but his in-laws got more than they bargained for when they checked the security cameras. Plus w...
Mar 18, 2025•45 min
We've upgraded to a big boy studio this week, but honestly something happened that meant Brad was nearly ready to walk! There were some nerves from Chris who wondered whether he might've overstepped the mark by enthusiastically talking about the steamy scene between two brothers on The White Lotus. Matty was out for dinner on the weekend and a stranger divulged way too much information involving a trip from Whangarei for a swingers party! Plus a press release dropped in the boys' inbox - there's...
Mar 05, 2025•45 min
There is one man on the boys' minds this week and his name is Teeks. Did one of our most talented musicians just drop a bombshell?! Chris went to see Irish Drag superstar Panti Bliss, and we get a review from one of our Gaytors. It was reunion time for Matty and Chris, who both went back to their old university...but surprise surprise, Matty put his foot in it. Plus Brad caught up with an old friend of the pod while sunning his buns at the the beach. All that and so much more on this week's epis...
Feb 26, 2025•47 min
Look, she was a big episode this week, team. First up, 'tis the bloody season because there's been another proposal in the team! Find out all the juicy details of Brad's dirty knee. It was clearly the week for romance because Matty had an anniversary dinner, but it got slightly derailed by a Portugese hottie. We had to speak up after the events over the weekend at the Pride Festival - and there's a lot to say about the misinformation and fear being spread. Plus Headmaster Chris set the boys some...
Feb 18, 2025•41 min
The boys are BACK, BABY! And you'd best believe there's a lot to catch up on. There were some very exciting summer adventures to discuss - but none more so than the bloody marriage proposal from our man Chris! We get all the deets on how he got his knee dirty, and the potential roles for Pockets and Brad at the upcoming nuptials. Brad's jumped in the deep end - literally - and joined the gay swimming team, but one of us has the inside word on why that's ruffled some feathers. Plus Matty's well a...
Feb 11, 2025•40 min
It's your favourite Out The Gayte tradition - the annual Christmas episode! Unlike the King's Speech, this is not something to gather the family around to listen to...although, Nan might be into it, the kinky little minx. The boys have gathered Christmas morning to exchange gifts, and there are some great throwbacks amongst the unwrappings! Plus we discuss our summer plans, and give you an update on our return in 2025. Merry Christmas! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Dec 24, 2024•17 min
It's the last full pod of 2024 and there are some things the boys need to discuss. Like the brand new gay tennis player who we'd honestly never heard of but are now absolutely rooting for - no, not Matty. Or Chris' collation of the gayest neighbourhoods in New Zealand thanks to the latest census data (we love stats). And the very unrelated pairing of Brad gorging on pineapple ahead of his partner Karl's return home. Plus we have a lot of loose ends to tie up - like did the aphrodisiac chocolate ...
Dec 17, 2024•49 min
Literally seconds into this week’s podcast record and the boys get an accidental spray in the face. Big day on the tools this week for Matty and Chris who worked together on the new Lord of the Rings premiere - but Matty snuck in somewhere he probably wasn’t meant to be. Some very exciting news off the back of Brad’s recent trip to America - we’ve made the top 3 in something pretty cool! Who’s the Christmas Grinch who hasn’t put their tree up yet?! And forget Spotify Wrapped - Grindr has all the...
Dec 12, 2024•43 min
On this week's episode the boys run over the poddy's founding document - the pillars of the pod, if you will - just to make sure we're all on the same page. Our favourite twinky top Troye Sivan was in town and Chris gives us all the goss on his Auckland gig - plus, what was on his face at the gay bar later that night?! Pockets loves the boys, but according to Instagram, the boys do not love him, so we need your help.There's subtle and then there's Brad, who hit us with some absolute zingers this...
Dec 03, 2024•42 min
We’re calling it - palaver is the word of the season. Tell your friends, it’s here to stay. The silly season has well and truly got us - Chris is aiming for Gold in the Busy Olympics. Not usually one for labels, Brad is now a Gucci man with his new accessories, which really make us think - is Brad, you know, *gay*?! Pockets has been cheating on his barber, but it’s getting serious with the one-night-stand. Plus we’ve laid out the welcome mat and organised drinks and nibbles to formally introduce...
Nov 26, 2024•44 min
Honestly, one beer and the boys were loosey goosey tonight - Google Doc be damned. There are receipts after last week's assertion from Brad that he told his partner Karl the correct times of his international flights. Buckle in for something you never thought you'd hear. Chris is ready to jump on the Chris Martin caboose (literally and figuratively) after a spiritual experience at Coldplay. Despite a debut fraught with emotions, Pockets persisted and went back to tennis - so how did he fare with...
Nov 19, 2024•43 min
The band's back together! Prodigal Son Brad has returned to the studio and there's so much to catch up on. First thing's first, Brad has a confession to make and it's about his temporary replacement. Butch athlete Pockets has joined the tennis world, but ironically his ball skills are lacking. The new Wicked movie is all anyone's talking about, but Chris has news about why some of the merch is accidentally x-rated. Plus, Gaytors, there's a new celeb dick pic in the mix. See omnystudio.com/listen...
Nov 13, 2024•43 min
In the most Boomer Brad move ever, he misread his flight times and missed the podcast record. But thank god for our now regular third Cam Mansel, who jumped in at the last minute. Matty ran the half marathon over the weekend and won't shut up about it - but something he did in preparation for the run has his husband excited. There's a bunch of new Hallmark movies about to drop in time for the holiday season, but Chris reckons some of them sound like *ahem* other films. Taylor Swift's brother in ...
Nov 06, 2024•46 min
Boomer Brad is still away - and clearly we put on a good show last week because Cam Mansel is back for round two in the throuple! Although Brad did send us a voice note to share, and we did not listen to it ahead of time, so it was a real roll of the dice pressing play. Pockets got a DM this week - you will not believe who was listening to last week's episode! There's a new Shawn Mendes song out where he talks about those rumours about his sexuality, so Cam shares his thoughts on the whole thing...
Oct 29, 2024•46 min
WE FOUND A THIRD! Brad's away so Matty and Chris welcomed a new man into their relationship - none other than the incredible Cam Mansel! It's not even Christmas yet and Chris is already delivering us gifts - and this one has us hot under the collar. Jocktober is almost behind us, so it's time to get ready for next month - No Nut November. But there are warnings from a doctor for anyone looking to take part. Cam is in a long distance relationship so the Fagony Aunts are back to impart some (quest...
Oct 22, 2024•48 min
Missed us?! We missed you too. But we're back after a two week hiatus. Chris realised the month of October is very special, but we forgot to celebrate - well, Pockets did a little bit. Is it too late to play catch up?! Matty went to Uluṟu and met some fellow travellers that had the team saying "oh my GOD!" Brad is about to pack up and leave his Mum's house - how's Dons feeling about her baby empty nesting her again? Plus how old is too old to attend a Gen Z house party? One of us certainly put t...
Oct 15, 2024•41 min
