Join your new besties Matty McLean, Chris Henry and Brad Christensen for a weekly catch up!
Nothing is off the table with these three delightfully hilarious Kiwi men who will offer a slice of life through an LGBTQ+ lens.
It's that time of the year where the boys leave their loved ones at home, sneak into the podcast studio on Christmas morning, pop open a bottle and swap gifts. There are some doozies under the tree, and the boys are very merry and VERY gay. Plus we look forward to 2026 and share our hopes and dreams for the new year. Merry Christmas, Gaytors! Follow the podcast on Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Welcome to the final main pod of 2026 - and there's so much to cover off! First up, has anyone else ever put the metal cage from a champagne bottle over their private parts? No?! Just Brad?! Chris has a warning for anyone using Facebook Marketplace after he was scammed trying to buy a trailer. The boys are now all deep in the world of Heated Rivalry, and Matty wants to know if the horniest show on TV would appeal to straight men because of, you know, the sports. We look back at some of the stand...
Christmas is here and the boys have cracked open a cold one for the penultimate episode of 2025. We go full boomer this week with our gripes - including loud BYOs, bad drivers, and escalator hogs. Matty had some transport dramas trying to get to a wedding in Canterbury last week - enter his hero Leanne. We talk erections (Christmas tree edition), and the importance of balls in the erection process. The boys are deeply invested in the horniest show of 2025 - the gay ice hockey love story that has...
There is a big discussion to kick off this week's pod about wheelie bins, tow bars, and why Brad thinks Matty needs to get an engineer in to weld together a rig - it'll all make sense! Turns out we were lead astray and you actually can have peacocks on a residential property! There are gay sheep overseas and the boys are outraged on their behalf - BLATANT sheep homophobia is at play, and Out The Gayte won't stand for it. Why was Chris trying to take a photo of a stranger's hair at a concert over...
The Bumuda Triangle is no more - with Matty moved, it’s more of a squiggly line. But boy oh boy do we have some stories from Matty’s move to the “farm”. He’s a cowboy now, don’t you know?! There are winners and losers in sport this week - first the NZ Breakers who have refused to wear a Pride flag. We're not happy, Jan. But there's a gorgeous story worth celebrating about a rugby game in Wales with a team of fierce queens competing in FULL drag. We award our Hottie of the Week to bisexual AFL pl...
Come crack open a cold one with the boys this week as the summer vibes are ON. First thing's first, we discuss the (not so) breaking news of the first openly gay Sexiest Man Alive - and we are here for him and his slutty little glasses. We told you about the Olympic athlete in hot water over his OnlyFans account, but he has now given the middle finger to his haters by revealing how much he's actually made. Brad needs to confront Matty about yet another driving offence in the neighbourhood. Chris...
The sun is shining and the boys are ready to declare - summer is here! There was only one way this episode was ever going to start, though, and that is with a deep dive into Matty and Brad's Tunnel Tour '25. Hear all about the bus nicknamed Black Beauty, the gorgeous guide named Ezra, the slight hiccup which resulted in a bout of hitchhiking, and the copious amounts of wine consumed. There's also a new Prime Minister in the Netherlands, and he's GAY! And he has a BOYFRIEND! And he's HOT! A forme...
The Doc is full and the boys are energised this week - but first thing's first, what the hell happened at the big gay Halloween party?! Brad brings this week's Hottie of the Week via the new hit show Boots - and it has us reminiscing about our foray into male erotica. We have managed to get our hands on an advanced copy of the upcoming Kiwi Firefighters' calendar, so for the good of the Gaytors we naturally dissect each month. There's been an update on the Gay Games, and the next location is ver...
Did you miss us?! We are BACK! It’s been a hot minute and there is so much to catch up on, including, but not limited to: Chris' European adventures, which involved him having to come out all over again Matty's bad boy reputation now that he's got a tattoo Brad's new TV show obsession, which includes a peen count that you'll be very impressed by Plus Matty has a proposition for the boys as he puts a list together of 40 things to do before he turns 40. And we discuss the top who's set to take on ...
Once again Pockets and Brad have knocked one out of the park and come together for a record without fearless leader Chris on board to handle logistics this week. Straight out the gate (no pun intended) Brad needs to confront Matty about something his partner Karl witnessed this weekend - it involves a stop sign and a sprinkling of road rage. There's a couple of Hotties to discuss - first up are we about to see ALL of Kiwi actor KJ Apa in his upcoming movie? And are there nude photos of a former ...
The boys had to start this week's episode with a gentle ribbing of Pockets who found himself the lead story on two major news publications after his disastrous weekend! One of us is about to go to Disneyland for the first time, one of us has been EIGHT times, and one swears he’ll never ever go - can you guess who’s who?! We discuss the news of Charlie Kirk's death, and the complicated feelings surrounding the whole event. There was a deep dive into the gay and inclusive rugby tournament - the Pu...
There's a lot in the doc this week for the boys to get through - and first thing's first, did Chris follow through with the challenge set for him to talk to his gym crush? You know we can't resist talking about The White Lotus - and with the news that the next season will be filmed in France, we start building our dream cast. We also have a few TV recommendations for you this week, including something for both the lesbians and the gays. Matty has a big dilemma involving an invite to a 30th birth...
Move over Sticky Bishops - there's a new fast food item taking the boys by the horns, so to speak. None of us are immune to a cheeky perv from time to time, but it turns Chris has been checking out someone he actually knows! So the boys have set him a challenge. There's not one, not two, but THREE hotties of the week - including the son of a very famous couple. Brad's been investigating elephants in Sri Lanka, and it turns out they're not opposed to a bit of man on man action in the animal kingd...
You know it’s a good week on Out The Gayte when there’s not one, but two, Hotties of the Week, and we likey. We run through a list of things that just feel gay - like lying on your stomach on the phone. We toss around a few ideas for the title of ep, and of course one of them is Jonathan Bailey related. We’ve got two new words to add to your vocabulary - get ready to use dwerking and jelging in everyday conversations. Plus we reminisce about the early days of our relationships after one of Matty...
There is a LOT to catch up on this week - our Papi Chris is back from Mexico with everything that went down with his surrogacy journey. Firstly, how was the clinic's cuck chair, and what visual aids were available? But secondly, why a sea turtle felt like a message from on high. Brad, the master of words, teaches the boys about the phrase "crutch cruise", after he swung past the local skate park for a perv. There might be Swandris and Red Bands in Matty's future, but he needs advice from our rur...
A very proud moment this week, as the pairing most likely to pull pin on a podcast record manage to get together! Chris is away in Mexico kickstarting his journey to daddyhood, and we were excited to get a voice message from him! It was a stressful morning for Pockets, with his dog Otis going missing - find out where he ended up! Plus is Brad a lifesaver?! He was a first responder to an incident over the weekend, and it’s a pretty crazy story. We're obsessed with the very clever way a drag queen...
There is big news on the pod this week - Chris has his bags packed ready to jet off to Mexico for the start of his journey to fatherhood! We get the full low down on what's involved, and the part that's already making him emotional. Matty had a big mix-up with his Uber Eats delivery while hungover on the couch - but if there's a silver lining, at least it didn't involve a Sticky Bishop. There's a new Hottie of the Week courtesy of Brad - all thanks to the new Happy Gilmore movie. Please welcome ...
The boys are strapped in, but it turns out Brad and Matty have been seeing a lot of each other recently. First there was the birthday dinner where Brad learnt something about Pockets that he's been hiding, and it got him very hot and bothered. Then the two of them had a date night Saturday night at Brad's house - and yes, it did involve a Sticky Bishop - but Matty needs to confess something. Chris brings a brand-new term to the table - soft swapping - but we think it might be more intimate than ...
The boys, perhaps for the first time in Out The Gayte history, have followed through with something! The plans made it out of the group chat and the fellas headed along to the Falcons strip show fundraiser. But before that, there were pre-drinks at Brad's, and Chris found something in his bathroom that he's never mentioned to us before now. Speaking of bathrooms, you will not believe what was found in the locker rooms after swim club last week - it is shocking, and Brad SWEARS it's not his. Plus...
Never heard the phrase “sticky bishop” before?! Don't stress - by the end of this episode, you'll have heard it 100 times. Matty watched the rugby on the weekend as was suddenly very interested in the commentary after some wildly sexual innuendo. Speaking of rugby, we were very invested in Brad's story about the straight team mates who got a little...umm...gay in the locker rooms. The baby journey is continuing at light speed for Chris - so much so that he's off to Mexico in a matter of weeks to...
It's a raspy start to the pod with Pockets losing his voice over the weekend at a queer party - but wait til you hear about the despicable behaviour by new podcast villain "Shitty Little Twink". We had a Gaytor slide into our DMs with an update for Chris on the Shawn Mendes/Robert Irwin rumours and it is JUICY. Budapest Pride was cancelled, but you try telling the hungry gays of Hungary that they can't party, and you'd best believe they're putting up a fight. Our Brad continues on from last week...
We've got a full house this week with the boys back together and the internal flirting is at an all-time high. Chris has been duped by AI and the deception really stings - why did he think Robert Irwin had fallen in love with a male pop star?! Not usually one for decisiveness, Pockets took control of the group ordering at a restaurant, but a rogue dish tipped him over the edge. Matariki has us all reflecting on our highs and lows of the year so far, and it's given Brad a push to be really open a...
Brad's back! And the boys are begging him to show off his Speedo tan line. There was a mid-winter Christmas gathering at Pockets' house this weekend, and his story swings wildly from wholesome slow cooker chat to debaucherous gay clubbing in a matter of minutes! Chris was so overwhelmed by all your beautiful feedback about his journey to fatherhood, and there's an update this week - he has been *ahem* delivering samples to the clinic. The real world MAFS experiment across the ditch has officiall...
Brad's back on Naked Attraction: All Stars but Chris and Matty have SO much to discuss. First up, Pockets roped in his husband to reluctantly take part in a running race - so did their marriage survive? There is HUGE news in Chris' household involving the potential pitter-patter of little feet - you're not going to want to miss this. We're still obsessed with the real-world MAFS experiment, but we're nervous about where it's heading. We discuss the idea that you're either a girl's gay or a guy's...
The boys are pumped to welcome a special guest to the pod this week - and it's someone they've been talking about for the past few weeks! Josh Fox is a gay British man living in Australia who has been deeply invested in Married at First Sight - even hosting his own podcast on the topic, slagging off the so-called "experts" and questioning whether the experiment actually works. So Josh decided to put his money where his mouth is, and recently married a stranger himself, documenting the process in...
The boys are back, but this time they've added a fourth - and my god does it feel good. Sexologist Morgan Penn, the host of the hit iHeart Radio podcast Sex.Life joins the boys to answer their - and your - questions about sex and relationships. Like how often should long term couples be having sex? Or what happens if your libido is shot to pieces because of medication? Is it normal to feel shame after sex? And how do we grow our confidence in the bedroom? This episode, more than any other, is te...
The boys are all back together with the return of prodigal son Brad, and you will not BELIEVE what treats he has brought in for the team. Chris has been getting into a TV recommendation given on the pod recently, but he really has a bone to pick with Pockets. We do a whip around of interesting news from the internet - including an update on the gay version of MAFS, a selection of Broadway-related thirst traps, and a coming out story that may or may not be four years old (we're talking to our res...
It’s been a big week as Chris hit the big 4-0. So what’s he learnt, and why has he all of a sudden started crying?! It’s got Matty thinking about his own 40th next year, and he’s wondering whether he should be putting together a to-do list of things to tick off before the milestone. We’ve found our Hottie of the Week in the form of a Spanish football star (si Papi) who accidentally revealed more than he meant to in a recent game. There’s a gay version of Married at First Sight that the boys are ...
It is all go on the podcast this week, with a heartfelt and long overdue apology straight out the GAYTE from one of the boys. We thought we knew what the gays were into until Chris turned up somewhere unexpected and found our community en masse! Why was Pockets crying in a show about zombies, and more importantly why is he insisting we all put ourselves through it?! One of us is having a significant birthday this week, and it got us thinking about our old man habits. Plus all the goss from the s...
The boys are back after an Easter Break, although they're still blissfully unaware of what happened to Jesus after he came out of the cave. We whip through a quick fire round of updates on previous podcast mentions, including Tiger King Joe Exotic, our favourite Australian photographer Mitchell Burns, and that Senate Twink. Brad's been sassed over a recent home appliance purchase - but a debate ensued between the fellas. We discussed the art of complaining after Matty wasn't happy with his hotel...
