Welcome everybody back to another episode of the oh Face Podcast. I'm Chris Minks, your Co host here today with Mr. Mocha as usual. Hello, We have some guests in the studio with us today. First off, we'll start with the ladies. We have the ever present and beautiful Mrs. Splash Mocha, AKA Tina Lady, who is in charge of it. All. Followed up by Mr. Craig McKinney, one of our regular guests is rejoining us today for
another episode. And then very, very special guest Mr. J Perez, very popular on Instagram and other social media outlets. He's joining us today live from the Mocha studio as well. Welcome Mr. Perez. You want to introduce yourself, please? I'm say president. Say I'm from Atlanta. It's my very first splash, Mocha. All right, So what what do you you you got all kind of stuff. Tell the people what you do prez and tell them what made you decide to try splash mocha. I do a lot of things.
I'm into most of media, so music production, artist management, just a little bit everything, but my main one is management. Inspirational speaker and motivational speaker. I think it's another one that needs to be added to this title because if you follow his social media you will find all kinds of uplifting messages, images and photos. He's regular about uplifting his community and his people. So it's it's a he's a really fun one to follow.
You know, sometimes I have to put stuff out so I can put some good energy out, some good energy to come here that same time. Everybody don't going to have inspiration or you go when they pay. There's nothing but some bulls. So let me know what I'm saying. I might go to my page just to inspire me to do it, you know what I'm saying? So that's how I am. You're going to have to go to my page and just see dogs. That's. Good. That makes you happy. It might inspire me to buy the
birds, not the birds. Yeah, you'll see dogs and birds, animals. I'm probably going to die one day by petting something I shouldn't. Alligator. If it wouldn't bite. Me better, right? You better believe. It I'd be petting that alligator. And let me say for the viewers. I know they. Can't even Not for the viewers because they can't see, but for for everybody listening. My man press. Got on a pair of fly ass gazelles taking it back. Old school. Loving it.
And when you when you pose with a picture with him, the lens covers that he has the coatings on that flashes up like these googly cartoon eyes. The Minx and I had a picture, a picture with him in the photo booth last night and he looks like these crazy comic guys on his lens. I'm like, how did you do that? He goes. It's the codings man. He got fly with It's the codecs, man. Very nice, very nice. So you know how was, how's everybody's flash going? You know, I better start with myself.
Mine hasn't been particularly exciting yet. I've had fun, but it's not been exciting. So I love, I love Splash. I like, I I enjoy the setup, believe it or not. Like I have fun with the setup process because with the setup, you know, we just kind of get, we we, we come in, you get to work and I'm a sense of accomplishment kind of person. I like, I like, we come in, you know, Tuesday, Wednesday we set up and Thursday we finish everything up for the most part Thursday morning.
Like I like to be able to sit back and go ah, man, we did all of that, you know. And then you know we're up there and I'm. I'm there. And you know I usually eat multiple times a day. You know, I, I eat all day long. So usually what we'll do is we will missus, missus, Mocha will go, and you know she'll bring oatmeal she'll bring. Protein bars. Protein bars, sandwiches, lunch, meat. Because even though we will eat out, I always have like three other meals in between. I forgot to do that.
So yesterday I'm up at the the desk checking people in and I shook somebody's hand and like, my hand was shaking and I'm like, oh, that's odd. And then I'm standing there and I just kind of started trilling. I was like, man, I feel like I felt the way I feel when I go to the gym and work all real hard without eating. I'm like, damn. I haven't eaten. So I run upstairs and I grab a protein bar and some little carb bar that misses.
Mocha has, and I'm running down, running back downstairs to the desk, like eating both of them one time and like, it still took me a minute to balance out. So while everybody's downstairs fucking and partying, I went upstairs and took a nap. That's that's what I did. He was out. Yeah, I was out. I was all the way out. Nap is 30 minutes. Going out for three hours? No. No, no, I was. I was only out for about an hour.
I went to sleep for about an hour, but then I got up and I showered, you know, like you get in the hot shower to kind of wake yourself. So I was like out of the game for like 2 hours. So I come back downstairs and it's like everybody's like, looks like everybody's done. So I walked around for a little bit and then I was like, all right, OK, I'm going back to bed. He rolls in like 11:00 into the play area. Yeah, like they're like, man, they've been done 1/2, three
times. Exactly this three. This is this Three nuts already gone. And you showing up, You know what I mean? So that was my night. So tonight I put the day I plan on rectifying that. How about you, gentlemen? How are your nights? I saw Mr. McKinney working his. His. With style last night in the in the BDSM room, I mean he was he had some some willing participants and he was in the zone. I've been told the mix I go, go over and say hi.
She goes, Oh no, no, he said. Don't mess with him when he's in the zone. I didn't know that about you ever. That's. Good. Well, that's not a, that's just a. That's the etiquette thing for for BDSM type of stuff. You know when you're flogging someone, you don't want to interrupt the scene and and and have them because because your focus is on what you're doing. You know you don't want to break that focus and and then who knows what could happen what? If you're creating an energy and
you don't. Want that energy? You don't want that. Energy to be broken. There's times where someone will come over and they've done something and I kind of get angry because I'm like, yo, don't, don't do that, you know? Don't. Disturb that, yeah. You in your zone and then that person. Focus. You kind of focus because I've I've told plenty people, you know when you flogging somebody, you doing certain things, certain tools that you have, it can cause a lot of damage.
You hit them in the wrong place. You can scar somebody emotionally and physically with that, so you know you, you want to, you want to always keep your focus on that so you don't disturb seeing when you when you have somebody singing, you know. I think that's a key, important point that we're going to bring up in this because I wasn't necessarily aware of that. That's not my scene and I'm not paid a lot of attention to it.
The minx has talked with you and watched that kind of stuff go on. But again, you get the amateur people like, oh man, I'm going to go beat this girl, right? And that's bad situations, right? So there's people need to understand if you want to explore this, make sure you explore with somebody who is trained or has experience and does it the right way so that you don't create this long term potential scarring damage. That's. Yeah, learn.
You gotta learn first word not to hit like you don't want to be whacking somebody in the fucking kidneys, you know? Like. They're right there and you know, with somebody hard on the spine and you know it caused some damage in this. You know, and then, like, even with the, I think that, you know, a lot of people don't understand, Like, you'll see the people who and they're just, you know, whacking away, OK, Like the people were like, oh, you know, let me try this. And they're in it.
Like, no, that's not, that's not how this works. That's not. And you want a crescendo. You bring it up, you work them up, you know? And like you said, Chris, man, I've, I've talked to people where they've had a bad experience, where someone has walked up to them and hit them or they, you know, without permission they hit them or they're they're they're there and there's no warm up or they'll do something. And they're like, no, they're physically scarred.
Not not physically, but they're emotionally scarred because of, you know, something that somebody else has done to them. You know, you already have the perception that being flogged. A lot of people think that that's all about pain and and and it's not. I I can do very, very sensual flogging with people. And then I talk to somebody and I'm like, hey, can I flog you later? They're like, Nah, because it hurts. And I'm like, no, it doesn't hurt.
Well, this person did this to me and I'm like, so now I got to talk them down from that and get them comfortable with everything. And then they try and they're like, wow, you know, I that's great. I I enjoy that. Yeah, it only takes one bad experience to be like, no, I'm good, I'm good, I'm flogging. So how long you been doing it? I picked up. Somebody just asked me this the other day, just earlier today actually. The the first flogger I picked up was, it's between 10 and 15 years ago.
It was, it was, it was, it was a very interesting it was what it was, was it was a flogger that had brass knuckles on the end. It didn't have a handle. It had brass knuckles. And seeing the girl who did it, seeing the attention that she got from it, and seeing how people reacted to it, I picked that up and I started, you know, and it just kind of. Grew and grew and grew and. Thankfully I tell people,
thankfully I'm kind. I kind of got, I was kind of a natural at it, the movements and everything. Like I watched certain people in this a struggle for them to get the falls to go and everything is not rhythmic and you know, so thankfully it came easily to me. But it's been 10 to 15 years I've been. It's when I first picked up my flogger. So it's like King Arthur and Excalibur. I have the. Flogger. I got before, you know, Mrs. Moke. And I like, I still, I mean I
still have my tools. But you know we had a a big period of time where once the kids got to a certain age, there's certain things we had to kind of, you know, certain shit, we just had to stop doing it. The house, you know, like especially when you hear like, like you know, you hear certain stuff. So but like, I think like when I first got into like floggers, crops, canes, for me it was a natural progression of the way I would do things, you know,
essentially like during sex. You know, I I was a massage therapist. So to me touch was a big thing. So you know I would always people would always laugh at my nails being long but my nails were it was it was a tool you know running down my you know your back you know squeezing whether I'm putting my nails into her breast. Put my nails in her ass cheeks put my nails in her thighs.
Not to interrupt but I bet it was the women that were jealous of your long nails because because they have to go get theirs done and yours just grows naturally. You know I do you know I do have the the long nail beds and you know the the girls at the the salon are always whenever I when I would come in and I would go get my nails done. When I would take my, my, my daughters in and you know, the ladies would always use speaking in a different language, talking
about my nail beds. So all all of the ladies would come down and look at my nail beds talking a different language, you know, doing like this, and then they leave the one. The one who's showing up, you got to come see it. This is the kind of one you've never seen. It I was. So here's here's a fun fact about Mr. Mocha. Growing up, I was super self-conscious about my nails and my nails, my eyebrows, because I got sisters. So they would always fuck with me and say, oh, you got girl
nails or you got girl eyebrows. So like, no shit until Missus mocha, I shit you not. I would fuck up my eyebrows like I would always like, ruffle my eyebrows and then they look. Fucked up because I. Wanted them to look manly, you know, because my sisters would always fuck with me about my eyebrows and my fingernails like I was always just just because the girls like, oh, your nail beds are so pretty. And I'm I'm like that's not the goal it's not what I'm doing
like I don't want. So you know that was fun fact about you know my personal self consciousness but as the reason I got into like using floggers and crops and things like that because it was kind of natural for me. As you're you're learning sexual pleasure when you're playing with a woman to see that there is that those different thresholds when do you introduce pain and when when do you
introduce pleasure. And especially, like when you're watching somebody the first time you know you accidentally stick your nails in them, they go OK. That's the thing, I don't do that more so that's. Really, how I got into the The next Level, My first My first tool for spanking. It was a wooden spoon. Remember the first thing? Parking back to your channel. Well, no, not, not the first thing I got. No, no, no two. When I was 10. I. Mean when she was in the. Kitchen and I had it in my
pleasure and and I kept that. I I used that wooden spoon for for a while, like I that was like one of my, in fact, at home in my tool kit where I have the flogger and the crop, I have fucking laundry pins. Yeah, those are those are lethal, man. Those of those, but see if you if you use them right you use well, I mean, you know, I got laundry pins. I got a wooden spoon I got. I would use a fork. I would like because. All of these different things create weird ass sensation like
a brush fucking feathers. Mr. Mocha's Kitchen Experience. Oh yeah, Dungeon. It's the kitchen in the house. You're making a scrambled eggs or something? I'll make it something, Dad, but you're. Right though man. I know the girl who had the the the the flogger that I spoke of is she had that same type of thing. She had all sorts of stuff from the kitchen up in there because I she, you know what she used. One time I seen her use, she had in her thing a meat tenderizer.
Because, I mean, she would, you know, you get those girls that like pain and everything, but she had a fucking meat tenderizer that she hit and she hit people with it. Hey, listen, don't yuck somebody else's yuck. There's. People that sat there and took it, man. And you know, one of my most popular tools that I have are my gloves. People, I can't tell you how many times. People ask me, they say I have to get a pair of those because
after I have AI don't evaporate. On these gloves, I've not seen them. All right, so I have a pair of gloves. They're made, they're made out of rabbit fur. It's real rabbit fur, but in the end of each one there's a little steel claw. So after, so after I flog somebody, I get them all warmed up and get them good and we have a really good session. I use these for cooldown and I rub them with the with the rabbit fur get them all warmed up and you know rub them down a
little bit. And then I take that claw down the back and put the claw in there and you can see women just and and I'm telling you, I've had, I can't tell you how many people have asked me be like, hey, I need the website for this because those are absolutely incredible. But it goes back to like you saying you know the nails I don't have, but even when flogging I don't have. I have very very very very brittle nails. My nails can't grow. So. But. But mine won't fucking break.
But I flog people and I'll have my flogger in my one hand and I'll crab, you know, slightly dig my nails, what are left of them into their back and you can see them just kind of tense up and. But you know, it's all about that sensation, man. And when you said that about the nails, I wish I had longer nails that could dig a little bit harder into them, but that's why I got them blood. Craig, have you. Done this to the minks. I have not. She's. I don't think I've ever even flogged her.
I. Don't think you've flogged her either, but I have. I didn't know what they were. They're sitting on the night stand in our bedroom. I'm like where this It looks like somebody killed a rabbit. Somebody killed a. Rabbit. And they have a short they have those claws on, like, what are these? She goes. I don't know where those came from. What Now I know what those are. They are, they are. They are the the the one, I mean out people ask me to hear. They're like, I need you to flog me.
Did you bring the gloves? Yeah, I got the gloves. It happens. I can't flog anybody and not use the gloves afterwards now. You know, my problem is, is whenever I do things like that, the amount of mental energy that I put into it. It's your pain. So close attention to the person you're touching. Like the at least me like the level because I'm looking for every sound, every move, because you're learning, especially someone who's new and you're trying to figure out where your
thresholds are. You know, you have those people. And I'm always opposite. Like I've I've played with women who were really into pain and so then I deny them. I tell you, you can't have it. If like you're really into pain, I'll reward you with it. But I like to like to me it's exciting to to change their their thresholds. Like the people who are used to the pain make them crave something different, but the amount of attention you have to put in there, So what tool am I going to use?
And then like when you start playing with the different sensory things, like I like to put like you start with like headphones on. Like I used to make a playlist of music and I would put that in their ear and it's loud enough to where you can't hear anything but that. So every time you hear those songs, I want you to think of me like I like I would get the text message, like, Oh my God, I was at work and I heard the song and I got wet.
And I'm like, ah, got her right. Yeah, but I'm a perfect, so yeah. What's one of the songs that you? Did one of them was the hold on do I have it on here Wait I'll I'll play it for you because it was the the original intro for oh face oh Faces as the original intro and that song. I remember that song. I can't think of what the name of it is. Can you hear playing you? Don't hear. Him playing now? Yeah. I don't hear him. Yeah. OK, OK. Moments of. Love. Moments of love.
Yeah, yeah, my. God, who's, who's and like that whole CD with weird as shit all these different sounds art of. Noise. Art of noise Art of noise. That one there's a song from What's This? Wait a minute. Now I can no, what's the fucking? It's it's like one of those because I was a massage therapist, so they were different massage songs. Is it Enya? Yeah, they had a song. I can't think of what it was, but yes, they did have a very so so. I'll have to like, I know the songs.
I'll have to put the playlist together. But and then another one was Usher Let it burn. Like that was one of my favorite ones. Like I had just random songs that it would depend and then the female it would also depend on the playlist. That's why I would have to put so much mental energy into it. And then I like to do restraints with I would like to do restraints with no restraints, where it's like, OK, I make her put her hands in the position and I pleasure her until she
moved her. If you move, if you move your hands, not a pleasure stops, all right. And with Missus Mocha, like I I tortured my wife. I just feel like I. Tortured Miss Ismoka like I would make her like stand in like a certain position until, like she shook. And then, as soon as her muscles are ready to give out, then I'd hit her with the fucking wand. Like. She likes me shaking, you know.
I've got pictures of her, like in the basement, which would always be good because I'll wait till the kids would go to bed and I'll make sure, like, you can't make noise because the kids are. You can't make noise because the kids are upstairs and so like the level of torture that she because she would she you fuck my wife.
She's noisy. When my wife is in her zone, she can't help herself and there would be times where she would be like in tears because the she would hit that place where she wants to make noise. But she's a good mom, so she don't want her to the kids. The kids know that she's in the basement being a slut. I don't want the kids to know more. And me being a terrible parent, I'm like. I want to do it. Harder now. So yeah, so I misses Mocha.
Like, she's definitely had every aspect of my ridiculousness. So, like, there's things that I can still do to her. Like if I pull the flogger out, I can just walk out with the flogger and she'll get this look in her eyes. Like, is it time? I was just going to put it back. So yeah, that's just mean. I know, I know. I. Know so, so we were going around, we started the show talking about how everybody's
night was first night, right. And we kind of got hooked up with Craig and we took it out the BDS. There's a lot more that goes on at Moco events other than just the BDS Dunger Room and Mr. Craig with his Blogger. Well, so. So let me expound on what happened to me last night, Tina. You don't say nothing, Tina. Earmuffs. So last night I was standing outside of outside of the ballroom, finished dancing and
everything like that. And my man Marty was standing there and some girl, not going to say, but she walked up. She knew him. She walked up, just started giving him a blowjob right there in the hallway. And every day and I was standing next to her and somebody started giving me a blowjob. And then another girl came over and was giving me a blowjob. So the two of them were staying. I've been. Standing in the wrong spot? Yes. You is. So wait, what? About you, was that I didn't?
Hold on, Mr. Walker. So while the two of them was giving me a blowjob, this third girl walked up and said you're not doing it right. Let me show you you're. Supposed to do this? You just got to do this. And they were like, well, why don't you show us? So I had three girls in the hallway giving me a blowjob. And you could be in the demo. Yes, with the demo. Dummy, it would be more like a blow up doll, yeah. It was shit. So I I'm about to. Start dressing like Craig in. My head.
You just got to wake up a little earlier. OK. OK. So Splash was was a good kickoff last last night for me? Mr. Perez. I'm going to say my first day was was, was good. It was slow. It's a slow start, but it was good. I'm waiting until today. This day too. I'm will. I'm will be outside. As a first timer, did you find the first day to be overwhelming? Did you control your pace at a good pace? You can see where you can just run right into this thing and be like.
Deep into the pool. It's a Sprint. I don't know what they tell my what they my first. Like I said, it's my first time. I don't know about no no Sprint, but it's. Training for a marathon. You training because it's really overwhelming. You turn around, you see this, you see, you see 333 women. You want to do the blowjob. Be like, oh shit, wait a minute. Yeah. So let.
Me ask you something as a first timer because maybe this could help us. For people who our first timers, you know, we talked about this previously before we came last week, talking about people who were new and how do we get couples to feel more comfortable? What was it about coming to splash your first time that made it overwhelming? Because if you can give us some insight as to what you thought was overwhelming, we could take that and maybe put it out to the next.
Because I meet a lot of couples and a lot of people that are interested in coming, and I'm just like, listen, the only thing I can say is, listen, once you come, I'm telling you, you won't feel overwhelmed. You won't feel out of place. So is there something that you can say that that actually made you feel overwhelmed? Well, I would. I would never feel out of place. Everywhere I go I feel comfortable, but it just a whole lot, a whole lot going on. Like a lot of visuals. Yeah, a lot of.
Visuals going on, but yeah, the costumes. The the women, the different outfits, just the whole dynamic. Of everything. Just the the women in general, like, OK, the different type, the different, the how to say the different types of women I'm not good at. I think. I think I get it because I get. I get overwhelmed still, but I'm comfortable. I'm not splash. Mocha is the most comfortable lifestyle that I've ever been to. But I get overwhelmed personally because I I will walk in and I
know there are I'm. I'm standing in one spot and I'm looking at seven women that I want to play with. And like I'm the guy who I'll be at home and I will want to play with somebody. And I have, like, I'm trying to figure out who I want to play with. And then I'll fall asleep on the sofa And like, my wife will probably be like, OK, why don't you play with this person? Because otherwise I'm like, like, I'm looking like like I'm staring here and by the time I decide who I want to play with,
she's already walked away. So that's what overwhelms me is just me trying to. Prioritize. Yeah. Prioritize. And make a decision. That is Mrs. Minx Angel last night. She's like that's a new guy. That's a new guy that's. I mean, she got just like this checklist and I'm like. Gives a whole new meaning to the word To Do List. But I'm like it's 10:00 and you haven't touched. One thing on your to do. List here, right? So and then all of a sudden that
was. All of A to do To Do List to get in trouble for for not going through with the. I tell her I didn't pay you. I didn't pay for this. For you to come and talk. Oh yeah. That's but that's that's one bit of advice I always tell anybody that's coming, if you see somebody you better act because you think about it they're gone and and at this event is not as prominent as as like Fort Lauderdale where is if you see somebody you may not see them again at all.
So if you see somebody you interested in it or whatever you you need to act on it because you sitting there and and just waiting for something to happen, somebody else is going to talk to. Them. So if you like her, twelve other guys like her, You. Talk to them. Act on it. Because if you don't, you may not have that. Chance again. That's how this is the vanilla life, too. If you see a girl, you want to talk to her, You better do it now or she's going to be gone.
So that's how I bring that to the to the lifestyle, too. When I see the women, I'm like, I got to say, hey, and then they're going to introduce myself. So, so we have, we have an audience. Is there anybody who wants to? Oh hey, I didn't let. Anybody. Tell us how how you're feeling about your experience. Anyone feeling brave back there?
So we got a this is a new couple and they actually, they actually came, they listened to a different podcast that I and Mike were on and they listened to it and heard us talking about Splash and everything and they were like, OK, so let's jump in and try. This. And so this is their first splash, mocha. And it was. Actually a year ago we did the podcast here so and then they jumped in so they've only been. So your first splash? Okay, okay. OK, 30 years of. So you've been talking about it
for 30 years. Wow. And and was it the podcast that was the the final link in the in the in the sequence that put the ignition together? It was listening to those two on that podcast was like, oh, they're actually normal guys. That. Do this. Yeah, everybody hears no. Great. It's a. Great experience. This is just way to correct. Like, I don't think, Craig, you are correct. You are correct. Superman. So we were we were talking. So then, when she met me, Well,
apparently she. Did some research and was like oh. God, he scares me. So then she met me a lie. And I'm telling I'm yelling at Goliath. Come on, Goliath. Come on, come on, let's sit him down. A lie. And she's like, no, you scare me from this nice relatable guide. To this, this, David, that she's afraid. So, so first, first, I think I checked. Didn't I give you guys your bags when you came in? Do you have a skirt on when we came? In today, yes, yes. Yeah, OK. I remember that.
That was ours. It was good. It was a good skirt. It was a good skirt. But but yeah, so your first time, and as far as the energy, how do you feel about the energy, I think? It's great. I think it's the women. The way they treat each other is like, yes, yeah, and just everybody is kind. Yeah, and. And the one thing that you're going to find about Splash Mocha is then everyone is genuinely happy to see you, yeah? Absolutely. And it's it's more like a
family. If you'll notice, everybody knows everybody and I'm going to apologize to you now because this will not be your last one. Yeah. Yeah, this is this is the Minxes, the Angels and Eyes 9th in 2 1/2 years. Our first one was Atlanta in 2022 and she wasn't through the first night of it and she looked at me and she goes I want to go to the next one and said yes, the next one's sold out, we'll go next year she goes no no I
want to go to the next one. And we did day passes and drove to Florida and stayed 15 miles away and came with our bags every day so that she could attend the second one. Now it is like homecoming week. Every time we show up one of the parties, you just come in and open arms. New friends, old friends, everybody. Just like Hey, hi. Welcome back. And everybody's engaging. If you'll notice when you walk around the lobby, normally you go to a restaurant, what do you
see? You see people, husbands and wives, sitting there at the table, looking at their phones and not talking to each other. This restaurant, you walk around there, what do you see? Husbands and wives sitting at the table and their phones are not out. They are engaged with each other and around with everybody around. So we, I call it the splash mocha bubble. So everybody comes in to splash mocha. They get trapped in the splash mocha bubble. So you walk through those doors.
I bet you you have thought very little about what happened yesterday, what's going to happen tomorrow or what's happening next week. You are living in the moment and exactly not many of us in nowadays they our lives go at 100 miles an hour. Not many people live in the moment. Even I, you know this is my job. I get. I forget about outside of here and what I'm going to do next week. I'm solely focused on this event and the people that's in it.
So I mean, I get trapped in that splash milk, a bubble, and it gives your brain a break. And. So we've got another couple. Is this your first time? I'm not trying to warm up these good people that. Means he's about to warm up. You guys, we we've been married, coming up on 39 years. Not even. In the lifestyle, never been to anything, so this decided to jump into the middle of it. That's going in like the 20 foot deep end of the pool. No kidding, but it's like it's.
Like we we want him to be excited. We don't have to do anything. We don't have to be anybody, right? Be us. And we want to see what the energy is. We want. To feel the energy and very good energy there was. Fucking eye opening. Not the bad way, don't get me wrong. It's just like I didn't know that somebody could do that. How? How did you guys hear about Splash Mocha? Podcast and everything else go, yeah, I can see both faces and then Venus, the dot, chocolate,
all those different things. I mean, they just all kind of. Roll into one. Was talking about the other and you can't go this way, that way, this way, that way. And she was scared to death. Not going to lie, I was concerned. Listen, it's my job and I'm scared to death before every single one of them, so it's OK. But. It was just like. You know this way outside of our box, right? And relish a member of the podcast and hearing how everyone
had spoke about how safe it was. And Tina, you you talking about a lot. You've been on a lot of different ones and you come at it from a different angle. Most of the same time you can give the same answers. It was very helpful. Mr. and Miss Boca, they they helped a lot too. Thank you. Thank you. So it's a pleasure meeting you and thank you for being here and I would tell you guys. Welcome to the family. Thanks for having us.
Yeah, I'm going to tell you guys something like you hear the this is the thing that you're going to hear. Like you hear the whole It's like family. It's like family. There's a lot of bullshit places that you go to. You hear that that thing, it's, it's a thing that people use. But when I say it's like family, I can. I can cite examples.
Yesterday, me and Mr. Minks had a conversation about my summer plans with my daughter, who's coming in to coming in from overseas, which is going to be him taking us us out. We're. Going to put him on some fish. His daughter loves to fish, and so we're now hatched a plan to put her on some special big fish this summer. Yeah, and and you know, they've all been to my home. Everyone here has been to my home.
You know, these the people who are sitting here can literally be at my home when I'm not there. I met these people in the lifestyle. These are people who I, I trust on a different level. So you can go to work and go, oh, we're like family. But now how many of your coworkers would you give the alarm code to your home and say I'll be out of town? Go ahead as that. That's not, that's not family,
you know. But here, the level of trust that we have, because we're on a different level, literally, we can talk about things that you can't talk to people you've known for the last 40 years. Facts. Facts about that. So, so now, and that's why even in that seminar where I came into, the concept of trust is huge. Trust is, is a major thing. And so when we say it's family, we really, these are our friends, like everybody that we're, we're really friends.
So that that's the thing that you're going to find. So as you take your journey, if you go into it, the same attitude, the same smile. Walk in there like you're the fucking mayor. Say hi to people. Smile at people. No one here is going to bite you, especially if you got a partnership with one of your one of you guys. Have an outgoing personality. Walk up to people and talk to them, say hi. One of the things that new people where they fail at is they kind of going to the corner.
And just look around. And they look around and so if if I, if I see you and your wife, OK, I'm not can I come say hi to him. So the guys here want to be respectful. So even if they want to come and approach your wife, they're going to like, look at you and if you're sitting here with the. The rigid look like All right, let me go talk to somebody who. Looks like they're not about a shit, a brick, you know? Because that guy is just.
As nervous as you are, you know so, So make sure just what. Get to know it. Say hi to everybody. Learn names and you're going to the the doors that are going to open up for you. It's it's it's forever. It's not you're going to you're going to you're going to make meet friends. You're going to meet people here. It's going to be main. You're going to maintain those friendships outside of here.
Oh yeah. And you know it's it's, I don't know, it's just a great, it's a great mix of people and with you being with you guys, being new introduce when you introduce yourselves, let them know this is your first Splash Mocha One, our Splash Mocha veterans love meeting new people. And two, it's a great conversation starter. That's your segue into the outgoing one. Well, you can tell people you're new and introduce you.
And now you've got your segue into a fantastic conversation of meeting new people, conversations with a couple. Of people with that. We bought the whole 7. 3rd. Pole package for Tuesday to Tuesday, just so we can kind of come in low and flow, get a grip grasp of the whole thing. Give an idea of what the layouts going to be and. So. Yeah, last night was I opening. Tonight will be probably the same I opening, just on a greater scale. You have a little more comfort.
Level and you're like, OK, let's. Let's step it up. So let me let me let me just kind of address as as the white husband on the panel here. Right. And the the mocha guy that comes. I I literally I've been trying to convince my wife to come to one of these for a while and we met on a swinger cruise a couple and said you are you guys are mocha people you need to come to this party. So we've been a lifestyle a long time, but my big joke was like, yeah, we're going to do this party.
I'm going to be invisible. I I will be around as the support husband, all that. But nobody's going to care about me and I'm just going to be, you know? That that back I can be invisible. That was the that was the furthest thing from the truth when we got here. What I found and you especially brand new starting out and you just five months in what you guys was, the husbands can get from this is that kinsmanship and that opportunity to share and be with brothers, right.
Literally guys who think and and act and and and are turned on by the same things that we all are, but we're further down that path And so you're angst, right? Relish those feelings because that dulls over time. You know? And it's like, honey, I'm just going to go over here and get something to eat. You go, you go play. Let me know when you're done, right? Wears off. Enjoy that feeling now, and when you have concerns, talk to all of the husbands because that's
the best part about this. I feel the most normal in my life when I am at events like this and when I'm hanging around my other hot wife husbands, you know, or whatever, or stag husbands or cuckold husbands, whatever the husbands of these
incredible women who have. And we've talked about this in past podcasts, Transcended Societies, Rules of Females, and said I want to be my sexual being and I want to experience all that I can And I have a partner who is supportive, lovely and trust enough to let that experience happen, right. So here we can be nervous and quiet on that but you are amongst friends and you are amongst trusted people who will.
I will talk to you to your blue in the I'm blue in the face and your ears are melting off your head about the journey, right and the experiences and how we do. We've done podcasts about the male emotion and how that is not really accepted or talked about in general. We're trying to pull all that back and and acknowledge that the guy's role in this is critical in that partnership.
So yeah, that's the benefit of you being here too, as they're being all hot and sexy and all that kind of stuff. When you have those feelings, don't hold them in. Talk to somebody about them, because we've all been there that. Was that was his. Biggest thing is I don't know what I'm I don't. Know what? I'm supposed. To do Yeah. What's? My role What's my? Role. But listen, no one here will be freaked out because anything that you think or wonder, like it's so open here, like for us
now. Like we'll talk to people and the guy's like, hey, you know, they'll, I want to ask this question, but I don't want to be weird. And they'll ask you a question and we'll like look at each other like that was it. That was nothing. Like, bro, I'm, I'm cracking jokes earlier because my wife takes a guy to the room and gets fucked and she's we're going through this whole thing and she's like, yeah, and I gave him some of your good bourbon. I'm like you gave him the good
one. With the Dick.