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Apr 07, 2025•1 min
Open Ah Peslama? ( Tamil Podcast )
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Sometimes we walk across too many different people in our life but yet our stories have similar elements. All of us have similar problems and challenges in our lives. But what makes us stronger and weaker depends upon how we react to those problems and challenges.
What is the right way to handle these problems and challenges? Are there any right ways? Can anyone else help you with handling those problems? Can I help you? But for sure we can talk about it? Open Ah Pesalama?
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Shorts: This question can make your life 100X Better!
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Apr 02, 2025•42 sec
Shorts: If you don't make a choice, someone else will!
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Mar 31, 2025•57 sec
Shorts: Feeling drained lately? Listen to this!
Every broken promise to yourself is a silent energy drain. #vshouldtalk Follow me on ig - https://www.instagram.com/vshouldtalk/
Mar 29, 2025•49 sec
Shorts: Catch the light theory!
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Mar 28, 2025•1 min
Shorts: You are good enough ALREADY!
You are good enough ALREADY! 🌻🤍 #vshouldtalk #reminder #goodenough Follow me on my new ig page - https://www.instagram.com/vshouldtalk/
Mar 27, 2025•55 sec
Shorts: If I have to ‘win’ attention, it’s not worth having.
Follow my new ig page - https://www.instagram.com/vshouldtalk/ A healthy relationship doesn’t leave room for doubts, strategies, or second-guessing. If I have to ‘win’ attention, it’s not worth having. Time to say tata, bye-bye! ✨ Agreed? #vshouldtalk #relationship #vpov
Mar 25, 2025•1 min
Shorts: Feeling Insecure? Try this and thank me later 👍🏻?
Consider following me on my new IG Page - https://www.instagram.com/vshouldtalk/ Feeling Insecure? Try this and thank me later 👍🏻?
Mar 24, 2025•50 sec
Shorts: No sign is a 'SIGN' too
I have started a new instagram page do consider following it: https://www.instagram.com/vshouldtalk/ No sign is a signnnn girliessss, RUN! 🤷🏻♀️😅
Mar 24, 2025•54 sec
Shorts: An underrated green flag in a relationship!
Hey I have started a new IG page exclusively for reels - Do consider following it: https://www.instagram.com/vshouldtalk/ Pushing you to grow, calling out your blind spots, and making you see what you never did—that’s an underrated love language. Only those who truly care put in that level of effort. if you have 'such' person in life, never let them go! #Vshouldtalk #LifesLessons #Relationship #GreenFlag #Lovelanguage
Mar 21, 2025•2 min
Shorts: Are you a People's Princess or a Palace Princess?
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama Thoughts for the day! and my very first video on spotify!
Jan 14, 2025•1 min
Episode 91: What 2024 Taught Me About Goals, Failures, and Self-Love?
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama Hey folks! How was 2024 for you? For me, it’s been a whirlwind of realizations, challenges, and growth. Here are three major takeaways to set us up for a fulfilling 2025: 💡 GRIT over Results : Navigate the "valley of disappointment" with resilience. Big dreams take time—focus on the process, not just the outcome! 💡 Progress Over Perfection : Stop waitin...
Dec 29, 2024•12 min
Episode 90: Do I Want Closure, or Am I Holding Onto Hope?
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama In this episode, let’s dive into the confusing emotions that come after a painful breakup. Let’s ask ourselves—are we really seeking closure, or are we holding onto hope for a reunion? Let’s explore the psychological reasons behind this craving for closure, like the Zeigarnik Effect, and how our minds seek completion. Let’s talk about how we often mistake...
Dec 15, 2024•12 min
Episode 89: How to become the most Confident Person in the Room?
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama Confidence isn’t about being the smartest, most talented, or even the most attractive person in the room. It’s about how we feel about ourselves when no one else is around. In this episode, we’ll explore: The difference between confidence and arrogance How self-reflection and acceptance are the foundations of confidence Why treating ourselves right change...
Dec 01, 2024•10 min
Episode 88: Why don’t someone see the value in us?
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama In this episode, we dive into a relatable and emotional topic: Why do some people fail to see our worth, even when we give them our all? Through the story of Nithya, who called off her wedding after a decade-long relationship, we explore questions that will make you reflect: Do you know your own value? Does your value system align with others'? Discover w...
Nov 24, 2024•14 min
Episode 87: What Makes You Truly Powerful?
In this episode of Openah Peslama , we dive deep into a question that many of us ponder — what does it truly mean to be powerful? Power is often associated with positions and titles, but does that really define true strength? Join me as I explore four essential traits that make a person genuinely powerful: knowing oneself, possessing things that can't be taken away, having the courage to walk away from what doesn't serve you, and choosing grace over conflict. Listen in to understand how these tr...
Nov 18, 2024•8 min
Episode 86: 4 Strong Signs Your Relationship Is Built to Last
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama Hey, everyone! Hope you’re all doing well. Today’s episode dives deep into a question I often get: “How do I know if my relationship is going to work out?” Whether it’s love stories, breakups, or patch-ups, one question always stays the same — Will we last? Time may be the best answer, but today I’m sharing four solid signs that show your relationship is ...
Oct 27, 2024•10 min
Episode 85: 4 Beautiful Realisations from Meyyazhagan Movie
Have you all watched Meiazhagan ? It’s a movie that impacted me so much, and in this episode, I’m sharing 4 key takeaways that really stuck with me. From realising that we’ll never have life fully figured out, to seeing how love goes beyond conventions, this movie hit differently. Sometimes, thinking about the past is actually good – it gives us perspective and helps us grow. And finally, letting go of grudges can bring so much peace. Let me know if these resonated with you or if you had other m...
Oct 13, 2024•11 min
Episode 84: Are We Losing Ourselves to Social Media?
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama In this episode of Openah Peslama, we’re tackling the impact of social media on our lives. Ever felt overwhelmed by comparisons or afraid to show your true self online? You’re not alone! We’ll explore key points like how social media decreases our attention span, leads to overexposure burnout, and the struggle between creativity and trends. Join me as we ...
Oct 06, 2024•12 min
Episode 83: Want a Stronger Mind? This 10-Minute Episode Will Transform You Forever!
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama In this episode of Openah Peslama, we're diving into 4 powerful techniques to strengthen your mind and take control of your thoughts. Ever wondered how top athletes break mental barriers or how you can manage stress better? It all starts in the mind! From the inspiring story of Roger Bannister to techniques like visualization, acknowledging thoughts, self...
Sep 29, 2024•12 min
Episode 82: 4 Powerful Ways to Stop Obsessing Over That One Person!
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama In today’s episode of Openah Peslama, we’re diving into something many of us struggle with—obsessing over that one person who doesn’t love us back. If you've found yourself stuck thinking about someone who isn’t reciprocating your love or interest, this one's for you. I’m sharing 4 simple but powerful steps to help you break free from this obsessive cycle...
Sep 22, 2024•11 min
Episode 81: Why We Obsess Over that 'One Person' Who Didn’t Love Us Back?
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama We’ve all been there – obsessed with that one person who didn’t really love us back. Why? Indha episode la nama adha pathi open ah pesalama?? Why do we get stuck in this obsessive loop, even when we know they’re not good for us? From relatable stories to real-life insights, I’m breaking down the reasons behind it. Whether it's denial, childhood patterns, ...
Sep 15, 2024•14 min
Episode 80: Feeling These 6 Signs? Maybe It's Time to Step Back and Take a Break!
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama In today’s episode, we're breaking the myth that taking breaks makes you a loser! Whether you're hustling hard at work, juggling studies, or chasing your dreams 24/7, I’ve got a question for you—when was the last time you truly felt like yourself ? 😌 Let’s dive into the small signs your body and mind are screaming for a timeout, and why hitting reset mig...
Sep 08, 2024•11 min
SHORTS: One Big Sorry and 2 Bigggg Thankyous!
mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/@OpenAhPeslama Kekudhuuu… kekudhu unga mind voice enaku kekudhu… I just wanted to take a small break… small break ah nu therila.. A break from this podcast for some time nu solalam…ena personal ah vum professional aavum, neraya vishayangal good and bad indha 5 months la en life la nadanthuchu, and I wanted focus on them, inum konjam adhigama….adhunala dhaan.. But now we...
Aug 27, 2024•4 min
Episode 79: Letting Go is Sometimes Good!
'ஒருபோதும் கைவிடாதே' என்ற பொதுவான கூற்றை இந்த எபிசோட் கேள்வி கேட்கிறது. அங்கீகாரம் இல்லாத வேலை, பதிலளிக்கப்படாத அன்பு அல்லது பயனற்ற உறவுகள் போன்ற சூழ்நிலைகளில் ஒரு விஷயத்தை விட்டுக்கொடுப்பதற்கும், கைவிடுவதற்கும் உள்ள வித்தியாசத்தை இது விளக்குகிறது. விட்டுக்கொடுப்பது என்பது ஒரு பலவீனம் அல்ல, ஆனால் மன அமைதி மற்றும் தனிப்பட்ட வளர்ச்சிக்கான ஒரு வலிமையான முடிவு என்பதைப் பற்றியும், அதை எப்படி அறிந்துகொள்வது என்பதற்கான மூன்று அறிகுறிகளையும் இந்த எபிசோட் விவாதிக்கிறது.
Mar 24, 2024•9 min•Season 1Ep. 79
Episode 78: 4 Things that 'Manjummel Boys' made me Realise!
Mail me @vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ listen to MIK - https://open.spotify.com/show/5D5C5T7OnhjiCaWeMmMiHE?si=PM1Ccw9kQ-eflRHWlk4pjA sela nerangala, namake nama life ah pathi neraya questions irukum… nama enna panitu irukom… where am I going towards… nu ethanayo doubts irukum… but tharcheyala, oru padam pakum bodho, oru book padikum bodho, nama life ah pakra perspective eh maridum….apdi oru padam dhan enaku Manjummal boys…wow what a movie….. indh...
Mar 03, 2024•8 min•Season 1Ep. 78
Episode 77: Let go of the Fear and Take a Chance Today!
mail me @Vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Nama life la, nama thavara vita, oru sila opportunities ah list down pani parthom apdina, namaku adhu theriyadhu apdeengurathunala nama adha miss panom ngratha vida, adha epdi pandrathu? Will I be able to do it? What if i fail? What will other people think about me? Apdinu mukkavaasi, namaloda theva iladha bayathunala dhan, nama life la pala opportunities ah miss panirpom… miss panitum irukom…. Ana idhe oru 1...
Feb 25, 2024•6 min•Season 1Ep. 77
Episode 76: Being Rude is Easy; Being Kind is an Effort!
https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com Listen to madly in kaadhal - https://open.spotify.com/show/5D5C5T7OnhjiCaWeMmMiHE?si=PM1Ccw9kQ-eflRHWlk4pjA Therinjo, theriyamalo, namaloda generation la neraya per, being rude is cool nu thappa purinjukitu irukangalo nu thonudhu… nama pakra movies la irundhu songs varaikum, inoruthara asinga paduthrathu, mean ah comment pass pandrathu idhella dha oru mass nu oru thappana perception build aairuku… needless to say, Arj...
Feb 18, 2024•9 min•Season 1Ep. 76
Episode 75: Not Feeling Heard By Your Loved Ones?
vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ Have you ever been in this situation… namale edho oru kashthathula irupom.. Edho oru confusion.. Edho oru problem, seri oru emotional support irundha nalla irukume nu poi nama friends kitayo, parents kitayo, partner kitayo share panlamnu pona…. Idhellam oru prechanaya…? Apdinu orae line la mudichiruvanga… apdi matu yarachu namakita solita, namaku iruka problem ah vida, ivanga kita poi en sonom ngradhu dhan adhigama pr...
Feb 11, 2024•9 min•Season 1Ep. 75
Episode 74: Why do we always find other people better than us?
listen to madly in kaadhal - https://open.spotify.com/show/5D5C5T7OnhjiCaWeMmMiHE?si=PM1Ccw9kQ-eflRHWlk4pjA vardhinipadmanaban19@gmail.com https://www.instagram.com/vardhini_padmanaban_/ En?? En…? Enga parthalum, yara pathalum, namala vidave better ah veh theriyudhe…? Indha ponnu namaloda azahaga iruke… ivanga namala vida fast ah vela pakrangale… ivanga family life namala vida happy ah iruku…. Indha ponukellam insta la ithana followers… avanoda salary package theriyuma, eni vecha kuda ettadhu… i...
Jan 28, 2024•8 min
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