Encouraging the Pastor's Wife

In this podcast Anneke Fesko talks about how ruling elders can encourage a pastor’s wife. Anneke was hired a little over two years ago for the newly created position of Care Coordinator for Ministers’ Wives and works for the OPC Committee on Ministerial Care. (Committee of Walking Hugs)

Anneke is the wife to John, an ordained OPC minister and theology professor at Reformed Theological Seminary in Jackson, Mississippi. They were married 22 years ago while John was a church planter for the OPC. They have three children, two sons in high school and a daughter in elementary school, and live in Madison, Mississippi.

Ginger Dennison, wife of the late OPC pastor Charlie Dennison says,
“Pastors' wives…will sometimes agree on one thing: they are no different than anyone else in the congregation. They have no special responsibilities, no different obligations, no uniqueness. In fact, when asked what it's like to be a pastor's wife, they will reply, "I'm NOT a pastor's wife! I'm just a wife, no matter what my husband does for a living.” The Uniqueness and Challenges of the Minister's Wife, Ordained Servant Online, May 2010. Available here.

More Resources

• New Horizons, mailed to every OPC member and available online here.
• OPC, Committee on Ministerial Care.

Anneke’s three recommendations for every Ruling Elder.

• Patricia E. Clawson and Diane L. Olinger, eds., Choosing the Good Portion: Women of the Orthodox Presbyterian Church, 2016. Available here. 
• Megan Hill, A Place to Belong: Learning to Love the Local Church, Crossway, 2020.
• Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People. First published 1936, Simon & Schuster.

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