This week we sat down with JimJam to talk about the Dallas leather community and being a 24/7 dominant with depression. We discussed what drew him to the leather community, what leather means beyond shoes/pieces of clothing, and how leather is typically much less intimidating than it might seem. Finally, we covered how he manages a 24/7 lifestyle as a dominant with depression, and how he makes the role work for him in times of low mental health. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon)...
Jul 05, 2023•1 hr 17 min•Season 365Ep. 8
Struggling with how to celebrate Pride Month when many “celebrations” feel rife with corporate lip service, over-sanitization, and police? After a brief intro from Dick and Gwen, enjoy this bonus conversation in which Gwen, Coco Paige, friend of the show Rhapsody in Blue, and upcoming guest Rosie grapple with remembering queer and trans history, censorship/sanitization, and finding queer joy in a time where our people’s lives are in danger. Listen to more of our recent conversations with queer, ...
Jun 14, 2023•46 min
This week we sat down with Auntie Vice, author, host of the Fat Chicks on Top Podcast, and creator of the Love Letters to a Unicorn BDSM blog. We talked about body positivity and disability activism in and out of kink/sexuality, body hair and grooming in D/s, and her journey to becoming a sex educator. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find all of Auntie Vice’s projects at https://www.loveletterstoaunicorn.com/ Listen to the Fat Chicks on Top Podcast Dick and Gwen’s guest appear...
Jun 07, 2023•1 hr 17 min•Season 8Ep. 364
This week we sat down with Lulabelle, a bratty, subby masochist. We talked about how her D/s dynamic has helped with her mental health, such as being able to comfortably express her bratty side during times of lower mental health. We also discussed what it’s like working through therapy as a kinky person, the importance of building safe connections after trauma, and kink after CSA. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find Lulabelle on FetLife Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn...
May 31, 2023•1 hr 21 min•Season 8Ep. 363
This week we sat down with Violet Kitten to talk about her interests in asylum fantasies, monsterfucking, petplay, and bondage. We also discussed how she’s been exploring her toppy side through sex work lately, and how she’s been dabbling in mouth/throat fetish roleplays since getting an endoscope dildo. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find Violet’s content! Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. ...
May 24, 2023•1 hr 10 min•Season 8Ep. 362
This week we’re back for part two of our conversation with Billy Lore. We talked more about his porn creations, rebranding himself as a trans man in the public eye, and how that affects his relationship to the queer community. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find Billy’s porn and more about his workshops on his website. The porn Billy made in an ambulance! Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. Yo...
May 17, 2023•1 hr 31 min•Season 8Ep. 361
This week we sat down with returning guest Billy Lore: sex educator, porn maker, and co-host of The Dildorks! We caught up on what he’s been up to since the last time we talked, got the scoop on his Better Bottoming for Submissives class, and learned what it’s like to shoot porn in an ambulance. We had so much to talk about that it turned into a two-part episode—look forward to that next week. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find Billy’s porn and more about his workshops on hi...
May 10, 2023•1 hr 30 min•Season 8Ep. 360
This week we sat down to give some updates about the show, how Off the Cuffs almost went off the air recently, and how to support us going forward. We also talked about a solo scene Gwen did at The Gallery, her first collaboration with another sex worker, and Dick’s new relationship updates! OUR NEW LINKTREE (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) All the videos from Gwen’s first porn collaboration with Dahlia Lark are out! Use the Lovely Listeners discount on our store for 25% off: OCP82028 Spellboun...
May 03, 2023•1 hr•Season 8Ep. 359
This week we sat down with Lord Allen, an indigenous queer nonbinary hellhound leatherboi who co-hosts The Kinky Tavern podcast! We talked about their involvement in the leather community, neurodivergence in kink, ways they advocate for themself at events, and the class they teach called How to Talk to Your Autistic Submissive. Find Lord Allen on Fetlife Check out and support The Kinky Tavern! Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, T...
Apr 26, 2023•54 min•Season 8Ep. 358
This week we sat down with RhapsodyinBlue to talk about The Gallery, the community space she started in Michigan for play parties, classes, and social events. We also talked about the importance of not pouring from an empty cup as a community leader, as well as the class she teaches on relationship de-escalation. Find Rhapsody on Fetlife Instagram: @rhapsody_in_blue4 Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsors for this week, Lucky Kitten Collars and Te...
Apr 19, 2023•1 hr 39 min•Season 7Ep. 357
This week we sat down with Scruff to talk about inclusion in the pet play community. We talked about BarkAgainst, a campaign she started to support inclusion at kink and pet play events. Support and learn more about BarkAgainst Scruff’s Twitter Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Pussy Trap here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of ...
Apr 12, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Season 7Ep. 356
This week we sat down with Femme Fatale, representative of Arousr, an adult entertainment/kink education platform that connects people to verified women to explore their kinks, fetishes, and sexuality in a safe/anonymous space. We talk about what the platform is like for sex workers and customers, as well as the efforts Arousr is making to revolutionize and improve online sex work. Check out Arousr Instagram Twitter TikTok Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check ou...
Apr 05, 2023•1 hr 12 min•Season 7Ep. 355
This week we sat down with Mon Loup (Wolfie), submissive, wolfdog, and masochist of Crow, our guest from last week! We got their perspective on their 24/7 D/s relationship, how seeing indie wrestling matches with Crow has made them want to get beaten with fluorescent light tubes, and how their primal identities as Crow and Wolfdog play out in their dynamic. We also talked about the delightful symphony of Dick and Wolfie’s combined screams while getting beaten at the dungeon, their experiences at...
Mar 29, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Season 7Ep. 354
This week we sat down with Crow, dominant, daddy, handler, and sadist of Mon Loup, who happens to be next week’s guest! We asked him about his role in their 24/7 D/s relationship, which includes all things impact, rough body play, wrestling, and primal play. He also tells us about their shared pro wrestling kink, and how attending indie wrestling shows inspired lots of their impact/wrestling play (for example, incorporating metal folding chairs into their impact scenes). Find Crow on FetLife Cro...
Mar 22, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Season 7Ep. 353
This week we had technical issues with our interview, so instead, we’re releasing an intro with Dick and max, then airing Dick and Gwen’s kinky movie review of The VVitch (2015). Follow max on Twitter and Fetlife Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsors for this week, Fettish and Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Stinger here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early,...
Mar 08, 2023•1 hr 4 min•Season 7Ep. 351
This week we sat down with returning guest NookieNotes from the DatingKinky podcast. This time around we talked about non-monogamy, such as what asymmetrical non-monogamy is and how to keep things ethical, as well as uphold healthy boundaries in partnerships. We also talked about the challenges and rewards of growing and shifting in your identity over time. Find Nookie on FetLife Find Dating Kinky Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsors for this we...
Feb 22, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Season 7Ep. 349
This week we sat down with Noa, creator of The Replicock, a studio where she makes (mainly) penises into art by turning them into dildos, candles, jewelry, chandeliers… pretty much any type of art/home decor you could think of. We discussed differences between visiting a pro cock replicator versus doing it yourself, her experiences and perspective gained through the sheer amount of cocks she’s worked with, and whether or not Big Dick Energy exists. Read more about The Replicock, and/or find deta...
Feb 14, 2023•1 hr 13 min•Season 7Ep. 348
This week we sat down without a guest to talk about Gwen’s first professional fetish shoot, in which she tried out heavy bondage, Michael Myers horror takedown play, and extreme tickling! We also talk about a day trip we took recently in which Gwen bestowed Dick with the honor of becoming the Mayor of Hell for a day. Watch the vlog of our trip to Hell! Available to all tiers on our Patreon. Check out the videos from Gwen’s extreme tickle bondage shoot. Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on M...
Feb 08, 2023•1 hr 10 min•Season 7Ep. 347
This week we sat down with kinky blogger and journalist Podopheleus. He is a submissive who writes about normalization of kink & BDSM, how to visit/approach professional dominatrices, and submissive men’s mental health. He’s also a kinky author focusing on erotic fiction, and he even gives us some impressive BDSM-related rap verses from his newest novel! Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our blog Check out our sponsors for this week, Securing Sexuality and Terrible Toys...
Feb 01, 2023•1 hr 19 min•Season 7Ep. 346
It’s part two of our call/write-in Radioactive Spider Bites from listeners! We hope you enjoy this beautiful medley of kinky memories. Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Securing Sexuality and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Pussy Trap here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus cont...
Jan 25, 2023•57 min•Season 7Ep. 345
It’s been awhile since we’ve taken call-in Radioactive Spider Bites from listeners, so we thought it would be fun to hear from you kinky folks this week! As we know some of you want to remain extra anonymous, we took write-ins from our Discord server as well. Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Securing Sexuality and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Nipple Traps here! You can also check out the Nipple Clamp Showdown, a guide comparing all of...
Jan 18, 2023•59 min•Season 7Ep. 344
This week we sat down with Emerson Karsh, also known on social media as The Kink Educator. We talked about her background studying kink in academia, how the pandemic led her to teach through social media, and the personal play she enjoys, such as humiliation, degradation, and masochism. Find Emerson on Instagram or Twitter Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Securing Sexuality and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Devil’s Lotus Clit Clamp her...
Jan 11, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Season 7Ep. 343
This week Gwen and Dick sat down for the annual New Year’s day wrap up episode. We discuss the end of 2022, Dick’s first play party since the pandemic started, and answer some end-of-year listener questions! Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Just E and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Rigger’s Delight Nipple Stretcher here! You can also check out the Nipple Clamp Showdown, a guide comparing all of the nipple clamps they offer. Keep us on t...
Jan 04, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Season 7Ep. 342
This week Dick, Gwen, and max sat down for their final episode before holiday vacation to answer all of your burning questions! Dick’s links Gwen’s links max’s Twitter Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Securing Sexuality and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Para-hell-ograms Nipple Clamps here! You can also check out the Nipple Clamp Showdown, a guide comparing all of the nipple clamps they offer. Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can ...
Dec 14, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Season 7Ep. 341
This week we sat down with Russian professional dominatrix, Mistress Smash, who tells us all about how she came into being a Pro Domme, as well as unpacking the influences of capitalism, patriarchy, homophobia, and ableism. Finally, we cover sadism, personal versus professional play, and how the patriarchy colors people’s kink experiences. Mistress Smash’s website Find her on all socials as @schmooshed (Twitter, TikTok, Instagram, FetLife, OnlyFans, Fansly) Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn...
Dec 07, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Season 7Ep. 340
This week we sat down once again with fetish performer Princess Kira! We asked her about her recent ventures into diaper fetish and boy/girl videos, as well as the scoop on why she left OnlyFans awhile back due to their heavy (and often confusing) content restrictions. Additionally, we discussed how to stay creative while making porn, as well as her time at FetishCon2022! Princess Kira’s links: https://linktr.ee/thefapfolder Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponso...
Nov 30, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Season 7Ep. 339
This week we sat down with Innana Justice, Paris professional dominatrix and editor of the book “The Heart of the Dominatrix: Portraits and Interviews with Exceptional Mistresses,” which features 21 dommes from throughout the world. In her book, she features a wide range of dommes, not just the latex-wearing, whip-wielding domme you might imagine. We also talked about the dinner she hosts for local dommes, starting her career at the start of the pandemic, and the kinky board game she invented! F...
Nov 23, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Season 7Ep. 338
This week we sat down once again with Divina - Goddess of Secrets to talk more about her findom escapades, such as trying to find balance between self-care and sex work, navigating relationships with finsubs, and all the different ways you can approach findom. We also talked about accepting when your sex life changes over time, and the struggles of dealing with societal pressures of how often we “should” be having sex—as well as how you can shape your sex life around things like mental illnesses...
Nov 16, 2022•1 hr 24 min•Season 7Ep. 337
This week we’re sitting down with Mr. Gatsby, a dominant who enjoys playing with high protocol and kinky rituals. We talked about his love for M/s dynamics, predicaments, stress positions, punishment, and how fun it can be to set someone up for failure. Find Mr. Gatsby on Fetlife! Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Fettish and Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Snapper 2.0 here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You...
Nov 09, 2022•1 hr•Season 7Ep. 336
This week we were excited to welcome back Ms. Chloe Mars on the show! We talked about wrestling porn and her wrestling dynamic with friend of the show Erin Pim. We also talked about topping with medical and dental fet, and utilizing kink to heal from various forms of trauma throughout her life. Find Chloe Dick’s links Gwen’s links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Fettish , Just E, and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Breast Traps here! Keep us on the air by donati...
Nov 02, 2022•1 hr 50 min•Season 7Ep. 335
