Practicing presence has brought me to a deeper appreciation of life's simple yet beautiful moments. From observing a stunning rainbow after days of rain, to engaging in heartfelt conversations, sharing moments with pets, and being moved by art and nature, I explore the essence of being present. These reflections highlight the transformative power of truly immersing oneself in the present, revealing the beauty and gratitude within everyday experiences. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at ...
Dec 05, 2024•8 min
I am learning more about the significance of small acts of kindness in our lives. My personal journey towards understanding the impact of silent support and genuine care during times of stress or sorrow is a work in process and I still struggle with wanting to take action rather than simply 'being' with others. But now I see the value in slowing down and seizing opportunities to offer sincere, heartfelt support to both friends and strangers alike. It's a beautiful thing. Now That You Ask is a po...
Nov 28, 2024•8 min
I have an abundance of mirrors and Buddha statues in my house, most of them in the literal sense, but I'd like to tell you about another pair of mirrors in my life - my elderly cats, Sid and Nancy. Their habits, challenges, and personality changes really mirror my own experiences of aging, solitude, and preference for certain routines. My cats and I share a mutual understanding and acceptance of our current stages in life. I can learn a lot about myself through what they show me. Now That You As...
Nov 21, 2024•8 min
"The past, present, and future walk into a bar. It was tense." It's so interesting to me how a joke like this prompts me to think about how these three periods interact within my life. You just never know what will spark reflection I guess. Yet here I am pondering the significance and interconnection of past memories, future hopes, and the importance of living in the present moment. Through this exploration, I discover how each time period supports and shapes who I am, emphasizing the need to ap...
Nov 14, 2024•8 min
Do you ever ponder the fleeting nature of existence? I sure do. Throughout different stages of my life—from my thirties to my seventies—I grapple with the realization that time passes more quickly than expected, like a shadow approaching a sunset. For this reason, I like to focus on cultivating kindness and discernment in my choices. I also strive to connect deeply with people and leave a legacy of beauty and a fulfilled life, even as I face the inevitability of my own sunset. Now That You Ask i...
Nov 07, 2024•7 min
I am still struggling with lingering COVID symptoms and it is really taking an emotional toll on me. Feeling exhausted, in pain, and a bit depressed, I come across an inspiring quote by Maya Angelou that prompts a transformative shift from self-pity to a feeling of openness and gratitude. This episode explores how a simple message can uplift our spirits and reminds us to embrace the beauty and radiance of new beginnings, even when life gets tough. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topi...
Oct 31, 2024•8 min
I admit I have an inclination towards whining about minor discomforts. Not only that, I tend to downplay serious issues. In this episode, I share about my experience with COVID-19, detailing the symptoms and frustrations of being sick and isolated. And yet despite the misery, I find small moments of relief and realization about my body's resilience. Listen in to hear how I cope with both physical and emotional discomfort. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death t...
Oct 24, 2024•8 min
The difference between hurried procrastination and trusting that things will be accomplished in good time is a matter of quieting the mind, trusting the process, and not allowing the overwhelming number of tasks there are in a day to induce anxiety. While it sounds simple enough, is not always an easy endeavor. We humans like to complicate things. But this new approach has shifted my perspective towards daily challenges, leading me to welcome trust and calmness into my routine. Like the Lao Tzu ...
Oct 15, 2024•8 min
This episode features two short pieces reflecting on the my adventurous life and evolving sense of beauty. Inspired by a childhood admiration for fearless characters like Nancy Drew and the free spirit of wild horses, I share experiences of traveling and exploring diverse cultures in the Middle East during the 70s and 80s. Despite not viewing myself as particularly brave, my willingness to embrace new experiences paints a picture of a life led by intuition and a belief in inherent goodness. Next...
Oct 10, 2024•8 min
On this poignant Friday the 13th, I find myself consumed by a sense of melancholy. Despite years of therapy, the sadness resurfaces, prompting me to look back on past regrets and unfulfilled desires. Yet, amidst the heaviness, I recognize the countless blessings and dreams I have realized, offering immense satisfaction and fulfillment. I am learning to embrace and integrate melancholy, using it as a guide toward self-compassion, gratitude, and a profound sense of hope for the future. Now That Yo...
Oct 03, 2024•8 min
In this episode, I share my journey of landing my first "real" job and navigating the challenges of working as a woman in the 1970s South. From a nerve-racking typewriter test to becoming a successful TV ad buyer for the Coca Cola account, I recount the obstacles I faced, including an awkward lunch meeting and a difficult medical emergency. With determination and resilience, I proved myself in a male-dominated industry and even gained the respect of my intimidating bosses. Now That You Ask is a ...
Sep 26, 2024•8 min
Synchronicity led me to create a one woman show titled 'Made of Cotton.' From the initial suggestion in a writing class to meeting a director by chance, and ultimately performing on stage, I experienced the challenges, surprises, and joys of stepping out of my comfort zone. This transformative experience not only boosted my confidence but also helped me connect deeply with my writing and the audience, proving that synchronicity can lead to remarkable personal growth and fulfillment. Now That You...
Sep 19, 2024•8 min
I have a deep-rooted love for Alabama football, a tradition handed down from my daddy (who would have celebrated his 104th birthday today). Growing up in the South, Saturdays were marked by football gatherings, food, and camaraderie. Listen as I share fond memories of these gatherings, the joy and anguish of being an Alabama fan, and how this passion was rekindled in my 40s. Now, as a diehard fan, I follow not only my college team but also Alabama alumni in the NFL. Football remains a cherished ...
Sep 12, 2024•8 min
As in Rumi's words "Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray." I can attest that my strange pulls have lead me through various phases in life, each with their own unique joys and lessons. In this episode, I reflect on the shifts in my passions and how they have shaped my path towards comfort, spirituality, and fulfillment. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downrig...
Sep 05, 2024•8 min
The universe often throws unexpected changes our way, disrupting our plans and shaking our expectations. These moments have shaped my perspective on trust and adaptability and I've learned to view these disruptions as opportunities for growth and discovery. One of the bigger lessons I've learned is that we must let go of rigid expectations and remain open to the new possibilities that come our way. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondr...
Aug 29, 2024•8 min
Like many people of the world, I recently watched a bit of the Olympics and found myself somewhat awestruck. After seeing those inspiring athletes and, believe it nor not, as a result of my own experience working with a trainer at the gym, I am reminded of the significance of perseverance and recalibration in achieving fitness goals. There is great value of self-belief, adapting to challenges, and achieving personal victories in both physical fitness and life. Reset and finish strong. Now That Y...
Aug 22, 2024•8 min
It is not uncommon in life to have mixed emotions brought by unexpected events both joyful and sorrowful. While I realize change is inevitable, I also know that embracing our feelings and finding strength and gratitude in the face of impermanence is a crucial part of being alive. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey through her writing and experience ...
Aug 16, 2024•8 min
Finding and sharing our unique gifts freely, for the pure joy it, is one of the best things in life. In this episode, I reflect the importance of what we scatter in life. From cooking for friends to surprising a stranger with an unexpected gift, these acts have brought immense joy to both others and myself. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey through...
Aug 08, 2024•8 min
I like to explore various interpretations of light, from the physical illumination of morning and evening to the metaphorical guidance it provides in my life. And if you're open to it, I highly encourage you also embrace the universe's light in all its forms as a source of fun, fulfillment, and personal growth. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey thr...
Aug 01, 2024•8 min
I have a deep connection with a specific oak tree near my home. Despite its inaccessibility across a creek, I regularly visit this stately tree, which offers me comfort and solace. This tree, standing tall through the years, has become a touchstone of peace and strength in my life, offering a unique and intimate form of reassurance. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes list...
Jul 25, 2024•8 min
I love a good quote. Quotes provide me with wisdom and humor for navigating life. In this episode, I share a few of my favorite quotes and reflections on the importance of manners, uniqueness, and the balance between desire and practicality. What is your favorite quote? Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey through her writing and experience with life’...
Jul 18, 2024•7 min
Food is one way I stay anchored to my sense of home, despite living in California. A recent visit to a barbecue restaurant rekindled memories of authentic Southern fish and hush puppies, and invoked nostalgia for the tastes of my childhood. From the unique flavor of fried catfish to the treasured tradition of homemade dishes during winter holidays, the rich and comforting food heritage of the South will always be a part of me. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from de...
Jul 11, 2024•8 min
I am struggling with getting older. Perhaps you can relate? These days physical limitations along with an erosion of patience have really impacted my daily life and my ability to enjoy activities. Travel has become a challenge, and finding comfort has shifted from exploring new places to staying home. Lately, I find comfort in the stability and peace of home. I think maybe it’s what I sought all along. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from w...
Jul 04, 2024•8 min
Maintaining a sense of humor and a positive outlook can help alleviate anxiety over everyday forgetfulness and mishaps, especially as we age. From misplacing objects to embracing overcooked food, I share how finding the silver lining in life's little challenges keeps my spirits up and contributes to a more fulfilling life. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a...
Jun 27, 2024•8 min
I recently visited Homeboy Industries, the world's largest gang rehabilitation and reentry program. It was a deeply impactful experience journeying through their facilities in downtown Los Angeles and seeing firsthand the remarkable transformations and supportive atmosphere cultivated by Father Gregory Boyle. From the exceptional service at Homegirl Cafe to the heartwarming stories of resilience and change, in this episode I reflect on the broader themes of love, respect, and hope that permeate ...
Jun 20, 2024•9 min
Keeping up with technology is a challenge, isn't it? Just when I think I am understanding the world of tech (and my iPhone), I'm blindsided by something new like artificial intelligence. I will get to the bottom of A.I. eventually but for now it has me stumped. Listen in as I reflect on the rapid pace of technological change and the importance of staying connected in the modern world. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downrig...
Jun 13, 2024•8 min
Highfalutin words have the uncanny ability to draw us in. They can serve both to educate and occasionally to obfuscate. My love for reading and sophisticated phrasing takes me through historical romances and even into the realms of vampire fiction when history becomes too bleak. Listen in as I muse on my fascination with words and the impact vocabulary has on personal enrichment. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright wh...
Jun 06, 2024•8 min
Life has recently showered me with unexpected beauty and grace, with experiences that felt like pure gifts from the universe. From meaningful conversations with loved ones to spontaneous moments of connection and memory, each event has deepened my gratitude and love for the world around me. These beautiful occurrences have reminded me to savor each moment and to hold onto the wonder and kindness that fills my heart, creating a softer and more joyful space in my life. Now That You Ask is a podcas...
May 30, 2024•8 min
Horse people are a community unto their own. My dear friend Nancy, a passionate horsewoman, is the one introduced me to the world of horses and riding about 20 years ago. It's quite remarkable how much there is to learn and master when it comes to riding and Nancy loved every aspect of it. Despite my initial apprehension towards horses due to a childhood incident, I have found joy in witnessing Nancy's daughter, Kate, and her granddaughter, Carter, embrace their love for horses. In fact, it was ...
May 23, 2024•8 min
Memorials are a beautiful way to honor and remember loved ones. They come in various forms like statues, gardens, or services, each holding a special place in our hearts. Attending a recent memorial service for a dear friend brought unexpected comfort and uplifted my spirits. Witnessing the love and memories shared by family members and friends painted a vivid picture of a life well-lived. Despite the sadness of loss, the celebration of a life filled with love, joy, and meaningful connections le...
May 16, 2024•8 min
