Send us a text This week on SNDSW we are joined once again by our dear friend Carrie. Bobby and the Jim discuss what they're most grateful for and it sounds like it's.....getting tip-saaaay. Surprise! They share stories that we can all relate to when we gather with family and friends. They talk about the food, they try to discover whatever the fuck ambrosia is, they talk about the dreaded Black Friday. On a more serious note, we are so grateful to you, our listeners. Thank you for joining us thr...
Nov 27, 2019•49 min•Ep. 17
Send us a text This week the guys speak to such a kindhearted fun person, Alex Copeland aka Plenty O' Smiles. Alex is a Columbus drag queen (Plenty O' Smiles) who is known for her amazing huge smile. He took his drag talents and became a baking sensation and hosts parties in drag. Most recently appeared on Food Network Christmas Cookie Challenge 1st episode (on Hulu) only 3 years into baking cookies for a living. This episode is full of fun one liners and just some good honest talk (with Alex). ...
Nov 20, 2019•50 min•Ep. 16
Send us a text The time has finally come for our studio interview with Manjii. The insightful, spiritual, free two spirit Manjii gives us everything we want and more. We talk about standing up for how you feel, human intuition, soul mates, love and much more. You can Find Manjii at https://www.instagram.com/indagolden/ Music throughout the episode: http://www.soundcloud.com/TheFuturewizard The Future Wizard is Legit good and you should listen to their stuff Our Info: shesnotdoingsowell.com Suppo...
Nov 13, 2019•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 15
Send us a text " Death is like a mirror in which the true meaning of life is reflected" - Sogyal Rinpoche "You needn’t die happy when your time comes, but you must die satisfied, for you have lived your life from the beginning to the end." - Stephen King "No one here gets out alive." Jim Morrison In this episode Jim and Bobby speak with Tracie Santos, a death positive community member, who offers her services as a volunteer hospice nurse. Bobby is afraid of death and Tracie answers all of Bobby'...
Nov 05, 2019•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 14
Send us a text O...you want to know what this week is about? It's all Canada and all good! The guys travel to Montreal to visit and also meet with one of the most genuine amazing humans Tranna Wintour. "Tranna Wintour is a spiritual, pop-culture-obsessed, fashion-hungry, transgender comedian, singer, producer, and writer. She’s basically Barbra Streisand minus the fame, fortune, and cloned dogs. With her unique brand of humour (and glamour!) Tranna has taken the comedy world by storm. She was se...
Oct 29, 2019•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 13
Send us a text In this episode the boys talk about a bunch of random topics. Bobby and Mike got their hot tub and Jim just got back from Portland. Grilled cheese becomes a hot topic with a caller upset at the jam on the grilled cheese. We then meet Tim Boyer, a good looking "A" list gay who tells his coming out story and what his childhood was like. We get into perception and how it might not be what you think. Listen along and make sure you follow us and subscribe. The boys are off to Montreal ...
Oct 23, 2019•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 12
Send us a text Autumn, also known as fall in North American English, is one of the four temperate seasons. Autumn marks the transition from summer to winter. This week, Bobby is forced to apologize for his excessive use of the “F” word. The boys talk about what is at stake in the Supreme Court battle for LGBT equal rights. Jim rips on Mike Pence for calling his wife mother. Bobby reveals why he gets laser hair removal and more importantly where. In the constant push for a sponsor, Bobby has reac...
Oct 15, 2019•51 min•Ep. 11
Send us a text In this long awaited episode we finally tell you about our coming out stories. First, we recap the weekend and more importantly how Bobby ended up in the back of a police car. We talk about Jims trip to Portland and Bon Iver concert. Jim was a hit at the bar with his White Claw Outlaw shirt so make sure you get them asap (link below). The guys go into coming out and then we hear from Jims sister and Bobby's friend Courtney who is the first person Bobby told. Coming out is hard and...
Oct 08, 2019•57 min•Ep. 10
Send us a text Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR), sometimes Auto Sensory Meridian Response,is an experience characterized by a static-like or tingling sensation on the skin that typically begins on the scalp and moves down the back of the neck and upper spine . It has been compared with auditory-tactile synesthesia [ and may overlap with frisson . In this episode, the Bobby & Jim let loose and sort of catch up on life. They also dive into many topics such as whispering, Hawaii wedd...
Oct 01, 2019•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 9
Send us a text A parent is a caregiver of the offspring in their own species. In this episode we dig into learning about what it's like to become a foster parent. We welcome Carrie from Mission Market in studio for her experiences on becoming a foster-parent but also a biological parent. If you want to hear some really good information sprinkled in with Bobby and Jim's antics this episode is for you. The unreal experience in just trying becoming a parent leaves Bobby and Jim stunned. This episod...
Sep 24, 2019•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 8
Send us a text For they gave me respite from labor and rested me and refreshed my spirit as well as yours. Deeply appreciate and thoroughly know and fully recognize such men. - 1 Corinthians 16:18 Community is a feeling of fellowship with others, as a result of sharing common attitudes, interests, and goals. Sometimes it takes us until we are adults to find our community and sometimes it comes easy. For LGBT members the community can give us respite from the glare of society and everyday trouble...
Sep 17, 2019•46 min•Ep. 7
Send us a text Could this be the best worst episode in SNDSW history (all 5 episodes worth of history). Hold on tight for a real roller coaster of information and back and forth banter and laughter. In this week's episode we meet Dave, a fellow LGBT member who grew up in small town America. How did he come out? What was his town like? Find out the answers to these and more. This week's episode also has its first phone question. The boys explain how they got their name while they went on their sk...
Sep 11, 2019•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 6
Send us a text Have you ever felt anxious or depressed? What about feeling pressure from society and family to be what they want you to be? Join us this week as we discuss what triggers our anxiety and how we have gotten through some of the harder times. We will then sit down with Ryan West to discuss his upbringing, what issues he has had with his church and community and what he did about it. This one is a bit heavy but also has some really good information. See below for more information on R...
Sep 03, 2019•52 min•Ep. 5
Send us a text Heartbreak hurts and you don’t even know why sometimes. Bobby & Jim decide to dive into the world of heartbreak, because why not. Looking back on breaking up and feeling sad, sometimes it's needed to grow. The universe has funny ways of telling us something, even if at the time it's killing us on the inside. Tune in for the usual shenanigans and also listen to an interview with Bobby’s friend Michelle who decided to end her wedding. Introduction Serious matters First a street ...
Aug 27, 2019•44 min•Ep. 4
Send us a text Twink? Bear? Otter? Chubby Chaser? U-Haul Lesbian? Queer? Are you as confused as we are? Bobby and Jim look into the world of specific gay cultures and terminology. What do they mean? Tune in to find out how not so familiar they are with the terms and actually how bad the list really is. Hot tub shopping Blake the sales man Getting sold to Laying in a dry hot tub Street interview Whale calls Fucked in front of Jesus He was so fucking big Twink Bear Otter Bo...
Aug 27, 2019•43 min•Ep. 3
Send us a text Everybody dates and everybody hates it for the most part. In this episode Bobby and Jim dive in and talk about their experiences dating. As you know the conversation goes in many different directions.Tune in to listen to the hilarious, random, anxiety ridden, banter between Bobby & Jim. Cousin weekend update Cousins festival Street interview preformed outside a gay bar He had his own home Power Bottom Poppers Date Rape Horrible transition into regular datin...
Aug 27, 2019•49 min•Ep. 2
Send us a text Meet Bobby and his best bud Jim. A recipe for disaster stemming from an unexpected encounter in a Denver Panera, She’s Not Doing So Well is an irreverent yet empathetic look at everyday life through an LGBTQ+ lens. Co-hosts Bobby and Jim, both gay, provide insightful discussions on topics ranging from allyship to mental health while incorporating edgy humor to leave their listeners begging for more. These hour-long episodes delve into commentary and experiences that inspire their ...
Aug 21, 2019•25 min•Ep. 1
Send us a text Hilarious and unique to put it nicely. When we launched the comedy-oriented “She’s Not Doing So Well” podcast in summer of 2019, we wanted to bring to light unpopular opinions and obscure takes on what it means to be queer. We initially began as a Columbus-based duo (Bobby Griffith and Jim the Unicorn), but became a trio after meeting NYC’s “The Miz” (Anthony Villiotti) through his personal podcast, “Miz the Podcast.” We knew there was something special between all three of us, an...
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