More Conversations About Body Counts

asking a question, I'm listening for man. So are you saying there shouldn't be double standards? You're saying so like if a woman takes care of a man, and a man is at home and he's cooking and cleaning, we should look at him as a success to like we were looking. That's what. That's not a double standard. I'm just saying, what's wrong with having a guy this at home being a stay at home? That's nothing wrong. He just wanted to know who You still feel that that's

look at him differently? Yes, yes she would. She's not gonna tell the truth, but yes you would see the way out. You would look at your man differently, or you would look at the other like looking from the outside of someone's relationship different, you look at your man different If you had to take care of you and he just cooked and clip the house clean. You just paid all the bills, you got the car, you got the oil change done. No, I don't want to do

none of that. If that's happening, then there had to be some type of conversation like Okay, I'm doing you know what I'm saying, Like but no, not taking here and no like but like bums, like oh yeah, I'm just got to be a bump if he does the same thing the way you were making it, like, oh, he's just cooking clean. Those are jobs. Those are important things at home. Those are very important things. I agree. I never would. I would never disrespect a woman's job,

you know, I mean as a housewife. I don't think that's an easy job. I totally disagree with this whole sentiment that is nothing. There's no big deal that ship make That ship is some work. No, it's definitely work. But I wouldn't look. I just wouldn't prefer that. I'm not gonna like disrespect him or anything or talk to him or belittle him because if he's no, I am not going to belittle him because if I'm with him, why why am I with him? That? No? Why not?

Because that's not what I want. So then back to the double standards of body count? Okay, what about it? You don't think it should be a woman should be a lot more responsible for her body because her body contributes, should be responsible for their body? Why does it? Why does it? Why is it that a man count? You can't pick the double standards when they're beneficial. You would have to literally go across the board who said those rules? You know, I'm just saying, why would you not if

you want fairness? I know you don't want to know you want to be fair. I do want to be fair, but I just feel like at that point, everybody should. You should always respect your body where whether you are a man or a woman. But the respect of a body is different, right, like men don't. Man's body are not as valuable as women. Like you can't develop a child right inside of a man's body. You can't nourish a child inside of a man's body. So you have to be a lot more protective over your body than

I would have mined. Is that fair, especially when it comes to the matters of sex and things like that. Your body is a lot more temperamental and like dangerous. You know, I'm saying, that's a good ship that could happen with your body, like it's more valuable in society. Okay, I can understand that one. But like, if you needed to repopulate the earth, right, would you rather have ten men and one women or would you either have one

man and ten women? Damn? You know why you would have to have ten, williament because their bodies are more valuable at that extreme when you have them in mass you can make tons of children with ten women. If you have ten men and one woman, it's gonna take a long time, and it's gonna be some gay ship going on, gonna be super empty v gm as happening. Man. But I do think that. I mean, as a woman, I wouldn't want to have like a stupid body count no ship like that. But I also feel like some

women they're okay with that. I don't think no woman is okay with it because nobody's proud of it. So you don't think like porn stars are proud of their No, they really talk about being married. They talk about being respectable women stars. I'm not saying they aren't. I'm saying they talk about being respectable women. That's why they want to eventually get married. Why would you be taking all these dicks if you want to get married? Feel me

so again, that's that that lack of accountability. I'm not knocking a porn star. I just I'm just saying they're still in the line where they're getting all the penis they want and they still be dreaming of being married. Like porn stars usually ain't. Like the belief is that porn stars are like, uh, freaky or like they're super promiscuous. It's not true. Most porn stars I've ever met, what I'm saying, are not like that. They usually pretty much

be cool women. They just that's what they do. They have found the space in their mind where they can operate and just have sex as a profession. I don't mean they like fucking sound crazy right, sound like you like fucking right. But people think that were about strippers too. They but oh they got to be like they like the funk was selling the dream. So a porn star, the most of the porn stars I know considering themselves actresses,

not prostitutes. Right. I can definitely agree with the part of like, um, liking to fuck, because when I was younger, I would have sex, but it wasn't because I liked you to make somebody else happy. I just yeah, I was just having tex And I told you I had sex because everybody else was having sex. I didn't want to have sex. Then I started enjoying sex in my thirties. That's when I wasn't like I could agree with that. I didn't really enjoy sex that I was in my

mia thirties. Sex was like a horrible experience for me for a long time. Really, man. I literally was with a girl that I trusted and she gave me clamidia when I was twenty. So I don't have sex without a condom probably for like twelve years. Right, So I pretty much ruined everything I thought about sex for a long time. Yeah, because it's like I trusted the person,

So that was tough. But um, this is no Sillings gel bread red in the spot on what we do back to these body camps that you keep trying to avoid. Nobody's awaiting in um. If a woman is thirty four and she started having sex at fourteen? How many men is too many penises? How many penises is too many penises from a woman's perspective. And I know, obviously y'all have to keepe and put on and act like you know,

you have to speak up for women. I think you'll have some kind of silent agreement to where y'all all alive for each other. But I would prefer if you were being honest, but honestly, how could you calculate how many dicks someone should have? Like I don't know, like you're saying from fourteen? I mean, what's a lot of penises? From fourteen to thirty four? Have you been working for twenty years? What's a lot of penises? Damn? Well, as a woman, you'll be like, damn, that's a lot of penises.

I just saw what just saw something word woman said if you had more than five that you know he was out there? But five over how much time? Though? Because that matter? Five? Maybe like twenty five penis is penis is from sixth Have you been for twenty years? Twenty five penises is a fair amount of penises to have? Damn penis and dangerous topic. You don't listen as a penis and a quarter of years, so what could happen is right? Is right? You could be in a relation

lation two years and that's one opinions. But when you get free again, you go catch up for lost time. So you get there four dudes that you thought could have been something in a new dude and then you kind of slow down because you got that four foot in and you're like, damn, this is a lot. But

I'm not are you? But I'm not thinking about like when I'm having like when I decided to have sex with him, Man, I'm not saying, oh, funk, I can't fuck him because my body count, Like I'm not thinking that, Like you don't ever think sometimes that maybe you're being

a bit easy? No, I don't. I don't think like okay, Like I've had situations where I'm like, I'm like, fun, why that The only difference is I'm telling you ahead of time to think that you're saying you wait to after you get the PI and raise the body count. Now that's just what happened. But then I got smarter and I'm like, okay, bitch, you're tripping, Like if you didn't want to like Kim, why did you fuck him,

because sometimes it be investigative journalism. You're investigating and you're like, well maybe it could be something let me see, or it could be that you just curious, you just wanted to know. Because no, because typically if I'm gonna have sex sex with you, we're gonna talk like your mind makes me want to have sex with you more so so, but my whole thing is like okay, probably like a couple of times, that's where I'm like, damn, why did I Why did I suck him? Like but I'm not

thinking like, oh, well, now I sucked him. I can't go have sex or suck him because they him don't have too many bodies, Like you never felt slutty at the sex. That's a lie. Slutty after sex, slutty after sex, like you slept with somebody and then how everything came Yeah, yeah, yeah, I had a Yeah, I had really take it easy for me because this should not be happening like this.

That never happens to y'all. You never feel sl Have you ever slept with a dude and once it was over, like he was like not if it was bad or nothing, but you just thought about the person. You really didn't funk with the person enough, and now you're kind of like,

what the yeah, like what the hell. That's why I'll be saying sex it's such a powerful weapon that we try to reduce, damn like abortions, Like we try to make abortions a woman's body discussion, when it really is how we deal with unborn children who haven't came out the womb. So we reduced the conversation now, right, so we could make it more tolerable. Really, But that's the point of having it at the highest level is so

you could actually make better decisions. If you actually really focus on how responsible it is to have sex, or to get pregnant or have sex in general, it becomes a much more quality decision you make. But if you keep treating it like it's nothing, that's why we always

feel like that. And I'm not gonna say always, but I felt like that a lot of times where I was like, damn, man, I would never funk with this person, I would never be with this person like I've with girls to where yeah, and it's like so at that point, what am I really sucking you for? Like what if you got pregnant? But what if this condom bust then and then I got you pregnant. Then I'm stuck with somebody I would never funk with. And I think that's

what's happening. More times than not, feel me two people they fucking people they would never be with. I haven't. I've had that a couple and it's worse for gods. And I think girls are a little bit more optimistic about love and relationships versus gods. Gods you pretty much no, you're not working with her like that. I mean, you just wanted something that you got. However, but more times than not, I slept with somebody I knew for sure I would never be with. I'm talking about nine out

of ten girls. Damn yeh, that's not I can say that's happened to me at least three times. At least three times it was like like whoa, yeah, never we touch this ever again? What the hell was I thinking? I think I was just more naive and I would just really be like the funk, like I can't be this naive, like I have to like you still and being naive after and that ship sucked me up, Like what body count matters? Right, Because that's what makes it

hard when you struggle. When you finally find somebody worthy of pursuing a relationship, you start comparing things that you shouldn't compare. You start referencing things you shouldn't reference because every journey is individual. You feel me when it comes to like a real relationship, like it becomes really independent. So you said over twenty years is probably and you now you're thinking about you like, that's not that many dicks, right when you really do you think about dicks over

twenty years, because that's not that many dicks. That's a dick in a quarter a year. She got a little bit of something that's a dick in a quarter a year, and you think about it. So really take your time and think about twenty years what would be a lot of dicks? And the difference between how we see it and how y'all said it's gonna be night and day,

you know, versus me. I don't see it that way because I'll be thinking that should I'd be like, oh, she niggas she could have been a relationship every year. I don't think nobody going a year without penis Like I think I have to make conscious efforts to do that about Like that's not true. Some people can go he said, a conscious effort. So that was something where it was like, Okay, I'm not. I'm not because you

had a bad situation that happened. That usually makes you not. Yeah, that's true because when I when I was like, you know what this ship it was, I didn't have sex for like years, almost two years. Oh god. She was the worst. She was like, you just need to get you penis. I was a snappy. The first year was okay. The second year I was just like, hi, hain't everybody everybody everybody, But like you said, it was a decision.

It happened because damn, some sh it happened. It was just not traumatizing, like where I was just like damn, like I need to rethink who are thinking. So it was just a lot of constant, I want to say, like cheating. But then it turned into where it was like not it was like verbally like abusive, you know what I mean, where I would start getting people I'm calling my name, calling me out my name and just it was a lot of ship and I just I'm just like what what the women really go through a

lot of relationships. I think men go through stuff, but it's nothing like women because men women are like always a run a crocier ride. You'll never find a woman as a fair as will most likely ever in life. Women have to figure out how the way to make it exciting. They figured, you're gonna make a problem. It's just kind of what you'll do as human beings. I can't make a problem with your eye last years. You make a problem with your skin. You make a problem

with your eyebrows, I'll make a problem with you. It's what y'all do, Like, y'all have to find a problem. It's almost unbelievably weird for somebody as incredible as women to find things that is always wrong with them, Like y'all just do that ship great, y'all will find some ship that's fucked up, Like but my ears, you know what I'm saying, And then motherfucker's be wearing weeds covering their ears. You just watch women go through all kinds

of ships. You get what I'm saying, to like deal with ship, like I gotta wear a gird or I gotta wear a way trainer. I gotta wear heels to get my cusps. So I gotta like y'all just fuck yourself up. So crazy. But that society though, like that makes you makes you feel you need to be a certain way, like if you if you're happy with yourself, like none of that's just gonna matter, Like you're gonna carry yourself the way you want. No woman is happy

with it's virtually usible. But like men will be happy. Men are happy. There was something men are happy. No, they're not. A lot of men are really happy with you. I'm telling you. Niggas will look at themselves like they are like the crackers said the cat's pajamas. They'd be like,

I am awesome. Niggas really think they're awesome because on everything, niggas could be crazy looking, fat and all that be Like when I get bitches, as long as you get bitches, it's not that bad, Like you have to feel special and y'all don't feel that way. Like if guys are attracted to you still be like, I don't know, I don't like this. Men. Longest you could tell the nigga anything, you'd be like, Nigga, you ain't got no team. They

gotta get bitches. Nigga your hairline, they gotta get bitches, Like nigga, they are validated in life That's why the body count conversation is unique for both of us. We pride ourselves off how many women we can sleep with. That is the The nigga who can get the most women for me is the guy he's king like for years right oh at the Playboy mat his old ass had on him to young girls. For me, he was the man every nigga wanted to be him. Don't nobody want to be Barack Obama? Don't know, man want to

be broder? You've got a wife. Niggas do not celebrate wives. They're trying to, like, you know, make that a thing now, but please, nobody want to be Everybody want to be Hugh Hefning. But don't nobody want to be Superherd. Everybody want to be Michelle Obama. From a woman's perspective, you don't want to be Superherd. I don't know how many dicks you want to suck. I don't think you really be like I want to suck all these rappers dicks to write a book about it. Definitely don't want to

do that. What you really want to be? I'm no, you definitely don't want to be super Head. I mean, you don't be known for super as being super Head. You don't want to That's my point. Even though that's literally a compliment about her sexual escapades and talents, you still don't pride yourself of wanting to be hurt. You may want to suck opinions like her Black I want to be that good at head, but you don't want all the rappers to know it, but all of them.

Maybe you know one or two somebody, But you don't want to definitely write a book and let everybody but every nigga. There is no nigger that would turn down being Hugh Heffner. We thank you Heffner, and fu everybody in the Playboy mansion. You have eighty seven years old. Bitches seventeen Nicky still didn't say nothing. He's sucking thirty seven to seven team. That's crazy. Yeah, so body counts it is. It's not a double standards. Standards are separate

based off of genders. Excuse your sex. That's just life. Like if if if I take care of you right you and you take care of the home, we both are champions and our respective lifestyles and our respective fields. But if it's the exact opposite, I'm frowned upon. In the community straight frowned upon. If I'm if I'm waiting on you to rub your feet when you get home, I'm getting my girl dinner ready. I tell my nigga that you think you're gonna be like, oh, that's cool.

I don't know. I'm calling you Mrmorrow. If you came and told Britt right now, I'm just kidding. If you're told Red So the crazy part is right, I believe there is a small part because that's missing. When y'all talk to us about how y'all talk about sex. I think y'all lied to us to some degree. Y'all are a little bit more liberal than you lead on to us. What do you mean when we talk about sex? Like to me, you're not gonna tell me all the guys you slept with, but you may tell Britt more of

the guys you slept with. Well, I mean, are we Why am I telling you any guy that I said? Are we having that conversation? Then? Yeah? I mean you're gonna run down to this. Would you give you're a guy a body county like, oh, this is the number on man? If he asked you, if he asked the truth? Yeah, really, you wouldn't listen. I don't give a funk if you fucked. I know how men think if you fucked more if they just don't there anyway, Okay, they just want to

think about their penis entering you. They don't want to know. I don't ask you. I don't care if you had sex with one or sixty dicks. They only want to know how their dick feels. They don't want to know about none of that. But they asked if they know I've never I've never had I've never had a man asked me that I'm not courageous enough. No, it's not even I mean if he sit down and talking about if you really want to sit on and talk about it.

But I'm gonna be very fucking honest with you. I've never had a man says here, yeah, right down, everybody you have sex with, because you know why, because we don't want to think of the worst fittings in the world. The worst fittings in the world is when you walk in the room with somebody and you know this person slept with your girl. Yeah, like immediately pigs out your ego, Like your ego lowers definitely don't matter. She's it's your

worst is she's your wife. Yeah, this nigga leftover. He knocked her down, but someone is and he walks with his shoulders a little broader. Yeah, I had that nigger wife. But this is the thing, though, you're you're somebody's like, what do you mean, Like you've had an ex. She's had an ex, like everybody is. Then with someone people if you're walking in the same room, there's you're that

circle or there's some type of something where you're gonna bump. Logically, the reason I'm having this conversation which I had this conversation with Pete, and I couldn't figure out what bothers me the most about it. Right, um, Like now some guys, I've seen stuff on Internet with some guys because they will say like, oh, the lining is wear it out. Now,

I know that's not true. I didn't have sex with some really serious sluts like I always wondered about that because they say, oh, yeah, I felt like I had sex with a girl who I'm talking about this motherfucker dey plouring before. This motherfucker did prostitute to some degree before, like a call girl and a straight hoard. I mean, this motherfucker gotta count and that pussy might have been

some of the greatest pussy in life. WAM, so you will be thinking like there's no way, like I live to really, most of the girl, most of the girls that funk a lot, they'd be having the best pussy. They say, it can't be a physical So why the fund do they say that? Why y'all know, y'all gonna y'all know that the ship right there. We don't think about a baby. Come out that motherfucker. What the dicks, dude, it's a baby, come out that motherfucker the baby like that?

Why And they try to say after she has a kid, it's not the same, that's what they say. I didn't have some great pussy from people to have. I actually don't have a bad story of having sex with somebody who had kids and it was like that. It was pretty awesome. So I don't quite know if the physical thing is right. I don't believe that's true. I had sex with a virgin before in my life. I had sex with two versions. One was the most horrible experience

in my life. The second one wasn't so bad, but it was like this girl didn't feel like no virgin and it was her first time. That's how time I trusted her and I believe her. I really did, and I know she's not lying to me. But it didn't feel like how you would imagine it's supposed to feel, right, you know what I'm saying, Like it didn't feel like the first time the other first time. I mean, but

women are designed different. It don't have to work. If they lubricate correctly and ship it just you know, it could change everything. So I don't think having sex, you know, puts wear and tear on the vagoon. I'm sure to some degree it has to, but not anywhere substantially noticeable. I would imagine if I guess, if your penis is a reasonable size, then you don't notice it. If that's I don't, I don't know. I don't want to believe that's true. I think that goes back I think people

I don't. I mean, I've had sex with the guys that had small ass dicks, and I'm like, if really like all of this, like I can't feeling, what are you feel to come back and come back and come this is what it was? Are you serious? No? They really really? Yeah? Like little and really that's when you're like fucking I'm just got to take a body count. This was what was this? That's where it's like, why did I have fun? That's the one. It's listen, it's well I've had I was in a relationship with you

know what you're talking about? The air and the stick all right now, but listen, you didn't let me finish. That knew exactly what he was doing, you know what I'm saying. So if you're I'm listening, if you're not with somebody that knows what they're doing, big or small or yeah, I had one, right if they know what they're doing, I didn't one, you know, a little little something. But his mouth did wonders. So I didn't really trip because I had got made it work every time. I

was the first. That was great. But then he started sucking up what is happening? Now? That's where I'm like, this is not what is happening. This is not I just I just don't believe that it wears. I don't believe that. And maybe that's just me because some guys can't believe that. I don't believe it wears. I've heard from other men that that's there's no such thing is bad I'm talking about this mother, this girl I knew I'm talking about. She was fucking like I went out

of my way to not sleep with her. I swear on Olivia Soul like I did everything in my power to not suck her. She wanted to give me pussy so bad, and I didn't understand why the fund would you want to give me pussy after I'm telling you I don't really want the pussy. She bought me birthday presents, Christmas gifts, like she really worked me for three years,

so why did you give in? Because and it still was like some crazy ship that happened, Like it took her to physically advance and me to be in such a weird space at that time to want to even do it, and I ain't gonnae it actually end up being one of the greatest things I ever did, was one of the greatest, like not mentally but physically one of the greatest things I ever did for me. But this motherfucker, for sure, if pussy was warning her ship would have had like men don't care, Men don't care

about the body count. I care now, I'm not saying every guy because I think they don't care when it comes to just having sex. I care when it comes to just having sex that ship works with me. I don't want to do that right, not even think I think something bad will happen or virus disease. Is just I just feel like I don't want to be on that list of niggers. I kind of prode myself cousin not doing what everybody do as a man, like I

don't like that. Um so a woman included, This motherfucker worked on me for a long time and then end up being top three, like top five for sure ship I ever had, And so I knew physically that wasn't true. So I just started investigating, and I was talking to Pete about it, like what really bothers me? If a girl is if her body count is high, why won't I really, you know, be with her? And it's because at that point I started to question her character. See

this is something personally me. Now I can't say for all men, right, I'm saying for me. If you like fucking, you like fucking, You're not fucking because you're single, you're like fucking, so you would like sucking Mary. What if you got was someone that okay, like how you described the other the woman that you said was good or whatever, what if you got was somebody that was like that, And I mean she changed her life around like she made mistakes and she told you like, look, you can't

make mistakes, but how you what you mean? She made me? She was young, she proba didn't have nobody have to be on fu Fi six seven hunt dicks, man, Oh, it's crazy. Maybe not that, but I need to ask her because that's what I think. But it got to be somewhere near in my mind for five hundred dicks. So that ain't no mistake for it was it might have been mistake. Okay, maybe not hurt, but someone that may have had, you know, wild time. And then she was just like you know what, I don't know people

do that. People go through something, might have lost, somebody, might have did some things and just was just like you know what, I'm not saying all the time. She just might have just put herself in situations like I'm saying. So let's say the number is twenty five over twenty years. To me, now, the way my mental, my male mind worked, that's a lot of penises, my my rational, my rational, my intellect. I'm going to calculate, like, I get it.

I know there's ont to be some ship, but not get it that that could happen twenty five days and twenty years. Okay, fifty dicks in twenty years, two dicks a year, it's a lot of dicks. But okay, now you get to seventy five and a hundred dicks in twenty years. Five dicks. She like, it's been in relationships. There's no there's no way if she had that many, she couldn't have or she's been in relationships, go out.

She just went wild. Sometimes that's if you start fucking crazy like they're being a relationship because for like like a year or two and then they don't work out, and then to get the nick off their mind, they just start sucking. You get dating not fun. But yeah, I guess some women get they fuck, especially if they have some kind of physical attachment to something, you know what I mean. You're trying to lose that attachment to that person, so you think another penis will get that

out the way. It's almost ridiculous, but it has. I've only been digmatized, like two times I had I was like, whoa, I don't care what I was just thinking. So so once you get to a hundred dicks. Now, if you get to a hundred dicks right over twenty years, that's five dicks a year. Right now, I'm starting to not starting, I'm fully questioning your five dicks a year. That's a lot of dicks. Give me a hundred dicks twenty years. You know, you meet a girl at thirty six thirty seven.

Now as you grow up, she's seventeen thirty seven, twenty that's a hundred dicks. Now you gotta start questioning her morale as a person, like do she like fucking? And she like like if she got five a year, but but she made not tho. That's the I didn't start. I didn't start liking having sex until I started having sex every day when I was in a relationship with someone I never had did that I was so I really started to get more into like, Okay, wow, this is like us, like we're you know m um. Before

I was just fucking. Yeah, I was the same way. I did not enjoy. And I'm still learning, you know, like not to be like yeah, let's do it. I'm just saying I'm learning to make more love than well because women, women naturally. I think we talked about this before. Women a relationship is intimate. It's a lot more intimate moments like see when you like single or you dating.

Intimacy for the most part is only through sex. We don't really take the other close moments as serious because we're quite not sure what's going on in other people's life or we're optimistic of what could be going on

in our lives. But when you're in a relationship, then at that point you formed that bond of now you have a set like trust trust that thing thing, So now you start I realized that men find more intimacy faster, like you start really fucking with your old leady because and like you know what I mean, like other things start to matter that really you didn't even take serious before, like a girl laying her head on my shoulder before you know, I was in a relationship that might have

been UM. When I'm single, I'm just setting up to get the pussy. I'm not even taking in this moment, that moment of the closeness that's happening, that is null and void because it is literally like it. But it's crazy because men they don't they don't give an it takes time to figure out true intimacy. It's not as simple because even during sex, you're not even looking for intimacy. But you do respect that is happening. Now. How you

respect it after it different. I mean a lot of niggas won't respect it after, but you respect that this person gave you that pussy like you, you know, you are aware that this is an intimate moment and once you step off, you feel me you could be a piece of ship after. But you know, at that point, y'all a little more closer. If this bings got hit by a car, you would care, right, I can she

left your house. What I'm saying you, you'll be like even if you didn't want to care, because you would be like damn, you know what I mean, you would feel it. But as you become, as you get in a relationship, like those intimate moments change, so as you grow closer, right, you don't look at sex the same way. Mind you. Sex was never a tool for us to get closer. It was just a tool to get a

nut and feel like accomplished. Like if one minute, like I'm telling you, That's why I'm telling you, Like, it's always gonna be a double standard because we hold women in a different value. If a woman give you her pussy, it makes you feel better about yourself. You feel like you have to be something. She just gave you some pussy. It's niggas. I hadn't been around niggas because that's been around me that try to sleep with girls I sleep with to try to pick up my accomplishments, like oh,

I'm just as good as that nigga. She gave me some pussy. Funck the fact that I didn't went to jail all these times and never told the police. I want all these fights. I made this money to me, I'll build my repute, all the ship that I did to become me. He like, well, if she given me some pussy, we have to be the same like that.

That's why that's why real nigga's tripped for me, Like it's a it's a movement going on, like oh if she fucked, if you're if your girl cheat on you, then just leave, you know, because you know I ain't no girl. I'm killing both of them. You mean you're feeling you're trying to embarrass me, fear me. That's where I'm at with it. I told Joe moses this in the studios, like, geez, so you're killing nigga your bitch, I'm gonna blow his motherfucker heir off. Why would you

do that? Why would you steal my car? Or it's a person. It's my person, nigga, and you now, if you know it's my person, I'm gonna blow your head off. If you don't know it's my person, it's different. But if you fucking my bitch because you think it's available to you, I'm gonna make sure you never could do that again. You're gonna respect my mind. Oh well, she gave me the pussy, my key could have a car. I'm jumping that motherfucker started up. Bro, it's not yours.

I don't give a funk how much you think she wants you to drive it. Don't drive my ship because that's mine. It's a thousand other cards that on the head because you can drive all these cars, because don't drive this one, right, I don't give fun what you see. Don't drive this one. So I'm I feel all the mac and the playing niggas is doing. I'm not with that. I don't even play because I and I'm not trying to sleep with nobody. Girl, I'm not playing, so it's different.

That's why body counts is always gonna be different. The way we hold y'all. Do you feel accomplished because somebody you slept with Noah like you ever just got a regular nigga ship and you bragged the bretain like that, nigga. Yes, say we met at the boat and natty bitch, I'm the I'm the one. Niggas feel like that. We talk like that. You meet me and the hommy, meet somebody because at a spot and she cute and she give me some pussy that night, she decides that I am

worthy of giving pussy to that night night guy. Now, she might be game a whole bunch of other nigga's pussy on the first night, but that night, brit, I'm the motherfucking man, and it ain't nothing you could tell me. That's how much we value women. That's how much we value women. Now you asking niggas how they handle their valuables, It's different. Most niggas don't know to take care of nothing. To me, so they don't know to take care of woman.

They're gonna do everything wrong under the sun, just like they would do to the fucking card or to they place, or to anything else they own, because niggas ain't used to have it ship, so you think that's I just this is just weird to me because this whole I just know. Okay, for me, I would I would tell if, Like I said, if if my man asked me, if he said, you know, I want to know, then I would tell him. But I just feel like, would you be able to write down every name? Yeah? You remember

every name? Yes, last name? Probably not last name, I said, every single last one I've had. Listen, don't you meet every nigga? Did you know every nigga last name you ever slept with? Not every oh you guy puts on first day basis? Listen, I would have to know everything. They even know your credit school for you? This this is this is the person. Let me tell you why keeping one d I really, I really this guy had a crush on him, okay around Yeah, so I guess

that's that was accomplishment. We had sex, and that's gonna be honest. I wanted That's all I want. I like you wanted more, but for sure you wanted this, yea for sure wanted that last night. So you like it so much, and you can learn his last name. No, I didn't care. That's a woman ship. I'm gonna tell you why. Some woman ship women to tell you they love a car and don't know shit about the car. That's true, baby, Like I want this is my dream car.

I remember I was talking to this girl. She was telling me, you understand, last is my dream cars a Bailey And at that time I had a Bailly, right, I had a Bailly and a low Right and some mother, but I had a Bailly. And she's like, this is my dream cars. Like, oh, what engine, isn't it? I don't know? Then you ain't it dreaming about this car? But she might be like maybe she was like, you

know that car. That's the thing when we when when men are into something, we learned everything about this something. When women are into something, y'all don't know ship except I want it. And that's right. That's how it is. We wanted it's mine. That's why we're the brats. That's why we get spoiled because we want it. It's mine. Give it to me. You know that's not cool as an adult to say that I'm a brat. I've been on bratt it's okay. Yeah, you know every dude name

you slept with a last name. You don't have to answer this because just in case you because he might be looking like hold that because you don't know the nigga last name. Um. Yeah, there's well, there's one guy. I know his face. I remember it was like I was in high school and we were together man um universal, and I remember we would hang out and stuff, like his parents had a big gass house. You don't know. I think a last name I can't remember. I can't

remember his name. Okay, did you know every guy's name that you slept with? Yes, but I just can't remember everybody. You know everything name you slept with, every dude's last name when you slept with him and set the one guy that she was feeding for. No, that was it, just the one guy I was seeing for. I don't know at least more than half. Really, I can believe it more than half. I'm very I ask a lot of questions. Yeah, I don't really ask nothing. I asked him.

I don't like I like to know people for some reason. Things I like to talk until they actually really get to know me, and you realize I don't really like to talk. That's the tricky part. If you really know me, you know I really don't got a lot to say. I'm really more just chill, like I'm not tripping for me. But most people think I like to talk, so I'll be talking to people and it's like, no, I'm here from purpose most of the time, and I don't give a funk about no name. I don't want to know

nothing about your daddy. I listened to you tell me everything, but I really don't. I'm not you're not listening just because when we like, when I'm asking, I'm like, you know, that's what I'm saying, you're not hearing, because hearing is a bodily function, right, It's it's a feeling thing, right, But to hear is to acknowledge sam Like everybody like, if you're not deaf, you can hear. I have a skill of listening. So I listened to what you say, like I listed and ended in my mind. So that

don't mean I'm always going to respond back. I'm not going to react to how it made me feel. Me and head got that bad. We listen really well, but we don't hear great Like I don't hear a lot of ship. So if you're talking to me and you trying to get another message to me and you're not telling me what you want, yea, I might have didn't. I for sure didn't hear you that. You know what I'm saying, Like, if a girl likes me and ship that you don't say, hey, I like your only some pussy,

I will act like you don't totally. You can't give me no vibes. You can't give me that I might like you, uys, I won't pick up on none of that ship. Let you. You gotta tell me, nigga, what's happening with that ship? I don't like that the worst with flirting. You know that you seent me how that home? Yeah? I don't know where? She literally tell me like this is what it is. I feel like it was like it was like a nigger, like what are you go ahead?

You always say this. I'm just saying like you didn't care. You didn't talk yet ask questions because I wasn't caring about none of that ship at that point. I really just didn't care, Like I just felt like a lot of ship was coming out their mouths, was feeling ship like at that time, somebody I I was bitter. Who made you better? Who ruined your flavor? You don't gotta tell me to do that? What did he do to ruin it? It was just like a bad situation. It's

a bad situation. Like you know, Um, I felt like I gave my all and I just felt like he was just a big old hole no matter what. Like I I did everything I as a woman like I was supposed to do. But you know, some people, it just doesn't matter. If that's what that's what they want to do, they're gonna do it, and it's not gonna be about whether they're thinking about your feelings or anything. They're gonna do it. And then it was kind of like, um,

it was just a lot. Honestly, you know what's funny, women, I think this is the funniest ship. It's kind of the most selfish and selfless thing y'all. Do. What I'm saying is y'all think everything is about you. You think if a nigga cheated, it really got something to do with you, And it never do. If a nigga ever told you it did he lie. It ain't never gotten to do what you want to. Nigga cheat, It's only for personal selfish reasons. If you've got something to do with,

you're gonna let you catch him. That's because then he'm trying to make you feel something, but me and cheat because it makes them feel good. Not cheating makes them feel good. Getting pussy makes them feel good, and not just any pussy. Like if you sleep with the same woman, you don't feel better about yourself. It's like, Okay, she

gave me some pussy. I've taken care of her. They don't have the same lord somebody choosing to like, Hey, you're so special, I want to give you some pussy, even though that's really not what it is, but that's how you feel. You really feel like that because like I am specially, she want to give me some pussy. You probably the one and thirteen niggas. You still feel like she ain't never gave me no pussy, so I gotta be special and she wants to give me some pussy.

You really feel that way. So as a man, when you're getting a relationship right, you have to start finding other things that give you a feeling of confidence, like like that's why I'm into cars, That's why I'm into all of these other things that I can accomplish to make myself feel accomplished, because the number one thing you do to feel accomplished as a man, right is get

some pussy. You get some pussy when your mama die, you know the worst days of your life, you get pussy to celebrate the best thing to happen to you. Pussy becomes the all around self abration, know what I'm saying. It becomes it's go to so you start to feel accomplished when somebody wants to give you pussy. That don't give you pussy all the time, But when somebody give you pussy all the time, you have to look at it for something different. You have to realize like it's

a different function at that point for real. That's there's because I'll be thinking about this ship. We're thinking about this ship. So I want to agree with the number that's too much? Seventeen and thirty seven, twenty years of fucking? What is too many dicks? All you like? Gee? Okay, if I was coming to your offul relationship advice, I'm going to choose a wife, and I'm like, man, I really like her. I love her. She makes me feel special. Bread.

She makes me feel special Bread. I'm gonna marry her. I love this girl, and I'm gonna ask him how many? And I'm like, I'm like, I know how many men she slept with? What would be the number over twenty years that you would tell me, oh, that's too many dicks? G or no, because you wouldn't tell because you probably wouldn't want to ruin my happiness. What would be the number in your mind that you would call read about it, be like, oh this best that that what's that number? Girl? Oh?

What's that number? Oh? Ship? Okay, so seventeen tell me the truth. That number that you would call brandy like this this nigga, this nigga, fel's but she didn't fuck blah blah blah, this many niggas over twenty years? What was that number? Honestly, I don't even fuck. I don't even I gave my number, but I don't know if what's your number twenty years? Said? She said, So if it's thirty, you'll be like, gee, I say like dirty, I say no, fifty is like yeah, that's what I'm saying.

Five is like okay, But I want to say fifty dicks over twenty years, that's a lot. That's what you gotta sit me down and be like, look, bro, that's what what what's the conversation? You gotta look bro, conversation look bro like you never talked to me about nothing ever I'm doing with no bra. But this is the look bro. I mean see now that the fifty might be you called brick, I'm gonna call red and be like,

fifty business made fifty dick? What's the what's the number that made you be like, look, bro, we need to talk. It'll be anything over like I would say anything over forty five, forty and so a hundred what's the conversation? Sound like the are you tripping? You can? You might

have to really just a hundred. But it's crazy because I kind of feel like probably the average a year woman American one, they have probably a hundred dicks many years average American woman, I don't okay, maybe maybe not average, but a year that's the average. It's live they get they get that probably that's twelve hundred dicks here. I don't think it's because they're prone to cheat. You just think that like they are a little too liberal with

their vagina. So what do you think? So what do you think if you get with a woman who likes to have sex, likes to have sex with you, would you think that, okay, this is her winning to have sex with other people too. No, no, no, you know what, I honestly would think. I would honestly think that this is her way of making sure I don't cheat. I would be thinking it selfish, just fuck. I'll be thinking it's like, oh, like me, she she must think I pusses.

She's trying to because nobody want to suck me this much to please you. No. But I'm saying if, if, if a guy is not always asking for pussy is different, I'm saying, somebody always offering you pussy. I always. I think I've told you this before on your podcast back in the day. Like I think women don't use hand

jobs enough. I think hand jobs and sandwiches are the most underused tools and a woman's art sandwich go back sandwiches, hand jobs and sandwiches sand like a real sad because I'm saying, so, you're not cooking four meals like he's fed. So yeah, like hand job like right if if I don't, I don't like no, like so I'm assuming that you don't want to funk all the time. Now I could be wrong. Some women be hot and hot the pants they're like, look whatever you got, I can take it.

This goes many times you want to go. But I would imagine women, I would like to think of women on a petstol at times to where they're not quite that way all the time. So I was saying, a hand job is a really swift tool that women don't use to me for me, like a hand job is super super duper like help for a woman, and they

don't use it enough. In sandwiches when you can't make them for meals, get off the sandwich a real sandwich and you gotta grill it and cut it in for you do any of that ship niggas is like, oh this motherfucker, this bitch loved me hand job. A sandwich is really a love food, like somebody make you a sandwich, somebody loves you. That's not like a you know what I mean. Like a sandwich is made with love. It's not like other ship. It's not like top Ramen, top

Rahmen ain't made with love. Sandwich is made would love it, especially if she started hating lettuce and tomatoes and how you like put the little to pick with the olive it shold up this motherfucker, Mike really love me? You know what I'm saying? Like that ship? True? Oh but yeah, no, I I do agree with the hand drive because I definitely could have given you know, think about that. I've

done it before. But um man, it is Listen, there's nothing hotter than a girl who you funk with just rubbing one out, kissing you and rubbing one out on you. That ship sucks you up, especially if you got the nigga mastered. Because if you got the nigga mastered, you feel me? Then you you know what I mean, you understand exactly how to make this ship. Your arm aint gonna be fucking tired. But so so your number is twenty five, and your number is I'm gonna say forty

forty over twenty years. Two dicks A yeah, two dicks here. That's just like, okay, fifty. You gotta be gonna look bro, well, I mean when you well, That's what I'm saying. What's it look? Bro? Okay? Forty and fifty might make y'all talk to each other. What's't looked? Bro? I don't think God, what if I tell you I was like, man, she's been with three hundred dudes. That's the only thing bothering me. What if he say, like, well, she was a prostitute, sure,

and what she's been with three hundred dudes? Do you think a prostitute can be with a low amount of Most prostitutes are in relationships with pimps. What I'm saying, so, but do you think they can have a low body count? A prostitute can have a low body count? She's unsuccessful? Was she working one time a week? What's crazy? Don't look? What's crazy is right? A call girl, like a call girl, is different than a regular process because I think all

call girls don't have sex all the time. I think call girls can meet people who just really be wanting company. And a call girl, now I'm obviously gonna think she's sucking. But in reality, they told me that this niggas who really just older. But it's it's girls that are escorts of call girls that have pimps. But I think they'd be in relationships. I think pimps and prostitutes being a relationship. Well, I yeah, because really you think about it, the pimp

taking care of her. M hmm, Like that's really your broad They end up. I know, I know a lot of pimps that end up getting them on, pregnant and having Yeah, I know, yeah, I don't love to friends that they're they're actually the dad pipe one of them is one of our both our good friends. Yeah, yeah, that's crazy. That's not crazy because pimps be prostitutes being relationship with pimps. So what's the number that you got to sit me down and be like, hey, bro, we

need to talk. What's that number? Or would y'all just let me burn in flames at that point? Now I have to sit you down, like, what's the number that you got me? Like, look, I'm not getting in the middle of nobody needs loves. So if it was three d people, you're just gonna let me do that. If he if it was over, if it was doing love, you know what you got into. More than likely you already felt it, you know it. So three hundred dudes, you don't love me enough. The three hundred she slept with.

Three hundred dudes, you're gonna be like, hey, bro, this is not cool. You're not gonna tell me nothing. I'm gonna let you know it's not cool. But you already made up your mind because I'm saying which one you're not? Which one you're gonna let me know? It's not cool if it was like if it was like three hundred or at least over a hundred, for sure. If there's a hundred and two, I'm like, she told me a hundred two dudes, I'm having a problem. I'm thinking about it.

Are you gonna be like that's too many dudes? I mean I'm gonna be like, are you sure you want to do that? Man? You know she got I don't believe you office reason. I think y'all let it go

down in flames. I would not jump out, no pair, honestly, And then after you get a divorce, be like, man, bro, I want to tell you, Well, what if you don't, You're not really you know, really want like she said, you really don't want to, like you're happy, like say, we're coming here, you all smiling and ship, We're like it's ever been. What if y'all found out and I didn't know, would y'all tell me? I'll tell you everything else. I would tell you that, but I don't know how

I would know that. But if I didn't know that, I mean, I would tell what if you knew she was a porn star and I didn't know, I definitely I feel like, Okay, I feel like you know everything. I don't know ship. I only know about five porn stars total, and I know two of them personally. That's how I found out there a porn star. I just feel like you would know if you're gonna be with somebody and you're gonna this is this is it. You're gonna do your research. You don't know. I don't know.

I don't think guys not research, but like you're gonna you've been with her long enough to where it's gonna come out right, like not if it's like but if it's a porn star like that did something before, and if she was a porn star in Puerto Rico or she was a porn star in Africa. I mean the videos you knew and I didn't know, then I'm sucked up. You're not gonna tell me. I'm gonna tell you, but I'm would you want me to tell you if I knew if you're dude was a property, it would matter

to no girl read. You know you're not gonna tell me if you knew the girl I was gonna Mary was a prostitute. I would tell you. I would. That's fucked up. I would tell you if you didn't know before I didn't know, I'm like, man, don't let this girl see me. I let his girl and you knew she was a prop to. But I'm like, I'm pumping her. I'm like, I'm telling you she's the best motherfucker. I'm gonna saying, I'll let you know. How would that conversation?

But if I don't know how the conversation would go? But I would definitely be like, hey, we gotta talk like hey, like, I don't think why would Why would we not tell you? So you think we'll sit there and laugh at you the whole time. If I knew before, I would tell you. I definitely would let you know. But if I don't know anything about her, you know what I'm saying, you know something about her mother ship? You know? Let me know. Why don't nobody listening believe y'all?

Why what do you mean? Don't nobody relieve people? They wouldn't even tell you. I would tell you that though, honestly, like I really would if I knew you did not know. If I sat here and you pumped up, like found out the day I'm gonna get married? Are you sure to the way? And I invited y'all and she was like a super duper porn star, Like I just didn't know, but she was in Europe and somebody get you. She like she got a hundred tell you. I'm gonna tell you.

I'm gonna tell you. And it's the wedding that you just didn't find out too. Now you saw and then you was like, holy sh it, Now you know I'm being honest on your wedding day. You didn't already went that far, like the serious I don't know if I would tell you then, like you're happy you're about to And I'm like the one that gives you this news, Like if you fresh into it, that's different because now, I mean, what difference is it gonna make for you?

What it would that make it difference? And she had a porn and she was a porn with over a hundred videos. Care, Yeah, you definitely would care, but you don't think it would make a difference. Like about me marrying her at this point if I had no idea, damn, And I'm raving about how great of a woman is she? How did that slip through the crash. That's hard. No, it's not. You have to look for things if you I don't look. That's like guys don't normally most guys don't.

I'm not google. I know some women who google nigga name girls were definitely doing the research. But I'm doing the research. I needn't know. So you wouldn't tell me that day. I don't know if I could tell you that day. G i'na be honest. I don't know. If I could tell you that day, you ain't ship. I just want to be shipped. But I could not just sunk your day up like that. So are you're gonna let me sunk up my own day? You don't know?

I think I don't think that you would, Okay, So if I told you that day, you would you would just and you would just be like the wedding. D takes good looking out for tuning into the No Sellers podcast. Please do us a favorite, subscribe, rate, comment, and share. This episode was recorded right here on the West coast of the USA and produced by my homeboy A King for the Black Effect Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Yeah