Conversations With Psychologists

I ain't got no more food. I want some motherfucker food. Stop bitching. Really, yes, So a nigga that can't provide the food is a bit too, right, not at all. No, he's a bomb. Listen what he just said. He's a bumb a penis and a vagina. No, what's the difference between a bit in a bum. There're two different things. A woman is not expected to provide a meal? Really? Why not? Because it was not We were expected to raise children by ourselves. No you're not, Yes, we are,

because that is not the expectation. That's not the natural expectation. No, no, no, no, you're talking about what happens versus what's expected. Yeah, So what's the difference, because it's what most of everybody does know. That's that's because I'm gonna tell you the problem with that, that's because you think you can. I think you can't raise a kid by yourself. Most women think they can, you can, and you do, and they usually do a horrible job at it, most definitely, And what's the evidence

of that. All the bitch ass niggas that you be talking about, that you're referring to, most of them was raised by mama, by a single mama. I was raised by a single mom. And I don't think I'm you ain't a one, You ain't a nigga, You ain't a nigger. You're not only talking about I don't know. I don't think they do a good job either on women neither. My mom was a single mom. I think I got Well, that's not your Yeah, I'm gonna say that they have a harder job to raise a man, because you can't

teach a man if you're not a man. And just because you're you're a man either, that's two different things too. Just because you're a male doesn't mean that you are a man. Valid point. Maybe maybe differently that might be pushing, hold on, hold on, what is the net? Okay, y'all just jumped right off with some bullshit. What is the name of your podcast? First off, I was gonna be Muddy Waters, Muddy Waters with Uncle Buck yea and Dr Hudson. Yeah. Dr Hudson walked in on fire. This is glasses alone,

no ceilings. So what is your podcast about? Exactly? It's gonna be about everything. It's gonna be about the situations that men and women and deal with daily. It's going to be about hood ship, it's gonna be about good ship, and it's gonna be about bad Ship's gonna be about sad. It's gonna be about everything. So it's gonna be somebody with the masters in psychology, psychology and doctor Hudson who has a doctorate in psychology. Oh my god. Yeah, but

this is not like a competition. This is obviously you would be the winner. I mean it was a competition across the finish line long time ago. I take a different perspective on that. I think the man should always take the lead, always be the heads. And that's what just want us to get shot first. We're walking to the door. Whoever we'll go to the door first, get a shot. I'm hoping you you have nine lives, but

that's not the point. The point a cat. That's a cat, right, you like that it don've got nine lives, you can just beat the beat the ship up. Honestly, they kill it all the time, so it got to have more than I love the way Nigga said, somebody lying. Either they're killing it and they got a ton of lize or Nigga's lyne they actually ain't killed it still, and they didn't had more than nine niggas. Oh yeah, who's here taking count He's here to count y'all. Ship is

funny already. We get to stop this ship now and put this ship out. You want crazy, okay, okay, I'm here for it. Yeah. Yeah, she wanted to touch on some ship. But how your week being going? Pretty good? Pretty good? But I wanted to touch on I had mentioned to you I wanted to talk about the question of our women too strong or men just too weak women, I said when I came in here this cycle, and actually I didn't want to talk about the vicious cycle.

I wanted to go a little bit more historical. But I'm like, this ship is all set up for some other ship like m it's set up for everything. I feel like right now, I'm in a I'm in a chair right now, and you just analyzing my mind. So I have no idea what exactly to thing that cost too much? How much does it cost? How much it called for your first hour? What the why? What do you mean? Why? Why would you charge somebody who needs help that kind of money? The same difference? Why are

you sucking in their recording songs? I don't charge them two hundred fifty dollars. I don't let other people record here. What do you charge? Nothing? It's free walk away with hold on, hold on, hold up. So Rod is right here. I need to get Rod a microphone, I think. Uh, he said, what what are they paying two hundred and fifty dollars an hour for? Well, first of all, what do they walk away? You pay for the two for me to tell you what that comes with. So that's

part some let's get back. I brought her, That's what I brought her for. I think she ain't to play with it. She ain't sound like the Mason's. Yeah, you got to be a part of it to know what's going on with this ship. The game is not gonna be free. It is the sold not told you can get some free shot out there. I went to school my whole life. You need that money back. I don't validation from nobody else, but you need that money back. Of course, everyone needs that money. You know, that money

back because all of them hours of education. That's no, I don't think I'll ever get that money back all that ship lord and mercer. So let me ask you a question. Sitting it so, do you have a discount if it's black people? Knowing every come from discount, we come from a different trauma for grant, and that is the goal. I get a grant to provide services to underprivileged whatever it is. I think you should take black people once a day. I'm black exactly, so I think

once once one in a week. You should figure out the time to know to black people because you know we can't afford it. No, that's not that's not true. For Jordan's Nika, they paid. That's one our exactly can change your life change Wait a minute, nothing, Dr Hudson. You could change the nigger life and work. Yeah, I can't if you're willing to put in the fork, yes, listen, I staying corrected. That's true life. Right now. I haven't been here for twenty minutes. I did not know. I

have walked in here to a life altering event. I am prepared for it. I'm with it. Yeah, I'm glad, I'm happy. I'm heavy to provide man gradual. That's it, right there. So back to the what you wanted to talk about coming in, right? You want to talk about our men? Are women too hard and our men too self? Are women too strong? Are men too weak? Yeah? Hard?

So yeah, okay, strong and weak? So I've historically thought women are more are stronger than me, and right, not in a traditional way you marry you, you measure strength rather, but like durability is the most underrated strength of all strengths. And there's nothing more durable than a woman. Why I don't know why you're so durable? Y'all can stretch the ungoly proportions and deliver children and dilating and diameters and

ship and spread apart and bring to you. You know what type of strength has got to be to deliver another human being into Earth. That's got to be different to bring them onto the planet. But that's kind of force though, So that it's strength determined by force. Hell, A lot of times it is what have you been forced to do? Me? I've been forced to fight. Shoot, Um, are you strong because of those events? No? I'm strong because I was able to endure the the emotional stress

that something with those events. So who taught you how to endure those events? Probably God and Scarface the rapper who was God's same person, same person, So what makes him different? Scar facing God? They're the same person. To me, Scarface is God. Like if God was a rapper, he'd be Scarface out of Houston. Yes, that's Scarface. Say who oh, so Rod is saying? Is the message? When I listened

to him, it's biblical? M that's how great. Like the first time I ever had to put in work, I remember playing the Untouchables album and different ideas getting me through it, Like listening to I've Never seen a Man Die? Like, No, it made me so I had listened to it after, Like I've heard the song right a hundred times. Mind you, I've seen a man dies? What inspired tupacs um share so many tears? It's the same kind of idea. But I love to parts baby Daddy. Yeah, So with scar

Face it really came down to um. Hearing that song after it was different. It kind of helped me. It like touched my soul. It gave me like this blues field to to help me bear it without having to go get drunk or go get high with him. I identified with the feel Some of the things he was saying was very identifiable. What did you feel? I felt like it was okay to what to have to shoot the nigger? And after that, what did you feel? I felt less regret? And now how do you feel even

less regret? So now you're able to do with that regret? I don't have it anymore now. I felt like that nigger had it coming. Because if you if you start to threaten people lives and if I feel like you're trying to extinguish my life for me, I'm gonna do everything in my power to make sure that doesn't happen. So you don't feel bad about that, not at all, I even a little bit anymore. What do you feel

about bad about in life? Personally me selling drugs? Why? Well, initially it was just the economic thing and morale, like mo morale. Part of it that helped me deal with it was people were making a conscious choice, like you know, like the liquor store selling liquor, you know, fat people, McDonald's, you know um things that I thought. Compare drugs to eating McDonald's addiction, same type of addiction. Yeah, well, I'm not saying it's the same type of the end of

the day. I'm saying this an addiction. It is anything that's compulsive that you don't have any control over can become an addiction. You can be ad digit to nicotine. The motherfucking frauds that make donald You said, addicting the pussy. I heard that. I want to make sure that the listeners hurt it. She did bring that up, she said, addicted the pussy. Now we weren't we weren't even on the subject of fucking but addicted the pussy. I'm just trying to tell you that we weren't even in that area.

We were talking about foods. And I regret selling drugs is because I thought people were making a conscious choice, and then I learned people wasn't making a conscious choice. You don't think people that decide to use drugs aren't making a conscious decision. Say that again. You don't think people that are choosing to use drugs or making a conscious decision. No. Well, so at that time I did, right,

that was my thing. Like, um, honestly, as a hustler, I used to have pride, like, well, you're gonna get the best quality from me. I got a time when everybody was cutting their like PCP. You know that sure they was cutting, would break fluids and embombing fluids, and you know as a as a cut to stretch it, I would only use and drops and all ether andy. Right, so I was using all high quality stuff. I never took shorts whether I was selling the crack, whether I

was selling may be like two three years versus somebody else. Sure, just so that was how I pacified myself. But um, a couple of times, two separate times, somebody pregnant came and brought drugs to me, and I really understood at that point there's no way a conscious mother would put their child in danger, like obviously, no, that's not obvious. There's there's mothers that are pregnant that still would put their addiction, uh in front of the unburned baby. That's

that is, that's what addiction is. And so that's when I realized that they weren't making a conscious short Now it's conscious, so you believe that if well, hold on, man, yeah, you say, of course, I don't even finish the SHO got that you already. She did just got you, she did already got you therapy for free. I don't feel therapeutic.

But okay, so you're saying it's right, right, So you're saying you're saying that a motherfucker that can't control something is still making a conscious choice to do it, because that's what an addiction is. An addiction is something you can't control. It's like because if you had control over it, it wouldn't be addiction, it wouldn't be considered an addiction. So you can control an addiction the same thing. It's anonymous. I'm telling you from my perspective, it won't be an

addiction if I can control it. It's that simple in my brain because at the end of the day, addiction, in my brain, it is something you can't control. So we're who who holds a responsibility and all this. Then it's like this, if if I'm addicted to drinking liquor, I'm willing to steal liquor. I'm willing to go to the liquor store, jump over the counter, grab the fucking liquor, do whatever is necessary for it. If I don't have money or funds to you to support that, but you're

still conscious of that? Not really, how are you not conscious of that? I'm conscious you're conscious of it. I think I think something else starts to control the equipment. So there's a neurological component. I am very privy to understanding how the brain works. Of course, just like a sex act, I'm gonna use that just make it just very clear. Back to that. Dopemans, serotonin, all these new transmitters that are transmitting the brain that makes you feel good,

the same thing that you get from a drug addiction. Right, doesn't mean the person is unconscious of what they're doing. They like the feeling, They enjoy the feeling. So that's where But I can't control it now. You can if you wanted to. You can't. If you can't, just like right now, there's impulses that disagree and you know what that is, fine, that's what makes it worse. You can't know. There's some ship that I've done that I know that I could have controlled. I didn't want to because I

like how it feel. I'm saying like, you can't say that for everybody, but most human beings, most human beings that I know, do make choices because it makes them feel good. They could have made a different choice, choice wouldn't have made them feel good. Are they addicted to the feeling same thing? Well, so it's like imagine something kind of getting your body to control your money. You already know if you do certain things to get that money, you might end up here that I might only to

talk about where you might end up whatever. But still you know that you're conscious of those two choices. That's I'm not I'm not judging either one. All I'm saying is you are aware. You are aware to a certain point, but but how you feel text precedence. Being aware doesn't mean I can control this ship, though yes it does. It gives you a choice. I don't know why not, because there's no way a sane or conscious person would hurt their child. If if I'm I know plenty, I've

been around plenty. I worked at a level four for five years. I know plenty. They were very conscious. They were different. I'm not judging why they did it, but they were conscious and they made their reasons, validated conscious validated reason to murder your child, give me one. They thought their lives would be better without the person who was taking care of them, like the mother. They thought the lives of the child would be better because they

weren't able to be there. They thought if the child was gone, their lives will be better. That's that's that's one. I don't know if that's sanity at that point, you're not saying and that's still not on the addiction categories. We were talking about it consciously. But you can't judge this is this is where you can't judge the reasons why certain people make their decisions. People are conscious most of the time, are conscious of what they do. It's

what makes them feel good. But again this goes into the same sense of addicted to the feeling itself. Addiction is just another level of ship conscious. A nigga addicted to killing just totally different than the nigga. That nigga that said I'm just gonna kill because I think I'm gonna be better off. He didn't continue killing motherfucker's So that's a different nigga. That's different. Okay, no, no, So

it's another nigga that's addicted to killing. Though. It's another nigga that that that that when he wakes up, got to kill because because if you don't kill him and they're gonna kill him. Ain't talking about him. I'm talking about him either that I'm talking about the nigga that when he woke up, he really is saying, I don't want to kill nobody. Listen, you know, listen, are you

gonna or are you gonna keep talking? We're talking about addiction though, when you addict me like a serial killer, I can't stop this ship in my brain, A nigga is saying, I don't want to I don't want to pick this bottle up. I don't want to test this side. It's calling me, man, but it's doing so much real nigga niggas be laughing at acting like that came out. Honestly, so many people what you're talking about, the same ship you're talking about. I didn't seen people that couldn't control

not wanting this fucking bottom. I don't seen mothers that, no matter what they like, I need something to drink right now, period. And then so look we do this, we say, hey, man, you're not having them to drink so here's what we're gonna do. We didn't isolated all the liquor. We didn't lock it all up. We didn't done this and done that, and the nigg you know what, the niggett done. I don't seen the nigga walk in the freezing cold and the snow and say, Nigga, y'all

niggas ain't gonna let me get no liquor. That's here, nig I'm gonna walk in the freezing snow to fold five blocks. I'm gonna go and spend my last pholt dollars just on the shot, just so we could. I could feel the taste of that, just so's it ain't in them faded. It ain't getting them to this, uh, this state of mind where they ought to control. They just needed the taste. So you're saying, um, so you're done now, No, I wasn't. Go ahead. I'll be done

whenever you wanted to be done. Anybody whatever you want. Anybody that can articulate all that what you just said, I didn't say they could do that. I'm doing that for them right now. So now now you're jumping again. You just you just articulately what I saw so I hope that if you paid attention what I said, I said, what I saw. I just say they did all that. Want go ahead, I'll wait for you. Go ahead. I wait for you. Go ahead. Anybody are here, anybody drinking

in articulate? All those steps are conscious. I'm all I'm talking about is being conscious. Being conscious is the power you have the even though it might be hard, even though it might not feel good, even though this person is done forever. But if you're able to make those conscious fucking decisions, that is different. When you are truly addicted, you cannot even talk about those things. You can't even

ask is not an alcoholic? No, not talking about What's about what I'm saying, Because he's you're talking about the president. That's articulate. Now, ideas he's talking about other people he's talking about he's giving you steps of how what I'm saying. But that's what you guys have given me. The examples of people that can articulate themselves. You say they can articulate. Just that's not what I'm no. I did not so

articulated it for them. Yeah, I said, literally what I say, Come on, doctor, come on, now, that's really the truth. People here for that rewind, I can wind you will do that. That's why we got it. It's recorded mental rewind telling you what I've seen a ny could do. So I just say he sat here and told me and at me and said this is what I'm gonna do. I said, I've seen what he did. He seen I

saw him do that. He articulated what he went through. Please, Okay, So you don't believe in the power of addiction, of course, I believe in the power of addiction. Have you ever been addicted to some? Of course? What have you been addicted to? I don't think I want to talk about that. I can not want to share. You can not want to share. God for a minute, you can't get to fifty You might get me two fifty hours might get good. No, no, wait a minute, keep this perspective. I appreciates this too.

It's too goody ready, I'll be I needed to fifty down. We're gonna sit you right down for real. I'm my god, I would do. Have ever been a therapy? No, I've been a therapy. Somebody did it for free? Yeah. I had to work out, I mean it worn. It wasn't as good as if it came to somebody actually that you didn't keep going back. Probably has somebody actually told me something that I feel it is worth two hundred and fifty an hour. Yeah, somebody taught me how to

make sure. Somebody taught me how to taught me how to make rocks, taught me how to cook hard that was worth two fifty. No, I'm just thinking of information. Think what have I got that's worth two fifty hours? He did. Oh yeah, that's not what I'm saying. I'm just thinking, what is what what I consider worth two fifty an hour? And I just think about it is that you're like your your expectation is of the professionals

you're getting from. You got to think about if people when they're buying like packages to maybe like do business, you know deals, you're not even thinking about how much it costs. You already know that if they're providing something that's gonna help you to get to where you need to go, you're not even thinking about like ship, I got studio time, I got these men many hours whatever,

this is gonna give me this, this, and this. We minimize the emotional impact of our needs to minimize it consistently. We minimize I muna say I literally have the Ralph app and I buy what's on sale. Now, I'm saying, emotionally, we minimize how much that that value is to our lives daily. What that means, how that actually actually can help you to motivate you to do with you? I don't. But that's not my point. I'm not saying what you charge,

it's not where it could be worth a thousand dollars hour. Yeah, I'm not disagreeing. I'm just saying, personally to glasses loke was have I felt it's worth two fifty. Now, I'm not saying other human beings could really I think I'm sure you would have been able to help me, you know, through certain things, is worth fifty? Why do you think that because you study the mind? You study thoughts? Right? But still this because I study something doesn't mean that

I'm gonna be able to help you. Don't talk yourself out this two fifty. Now, I'm just saying. I'm not talking to I'm saying because I only want people that actually want help. That's it. I want help. I want to be a more productive I'm just trying to figure out what I'm paying to fifty outside of what I know for what am I trying to fix? What am

I trying to fix? What's broken? If you don't get something out of my sessions because you don't want to get something out of it, that is a called pyramid scheme. I'm serious, because I don't need you to come to me. I just don't. If you come to me, it's because you want something that you want help with. I'm not trying to tell you what you need help with. I'm hoping that when you come to me what I need help with. But I'm not exactly sure exactly how to

go about it. You have like a diagnosis period, like when you take a car to get diagnosed if it's having problems. Is it the same dollar per hour? Of course that's tough, worse of course, yes, I mean that's I mean if you can repair. So what would I think is broke in my mind? What's broken in my mind? It's never broken in the mind. Always begins in the spirit, in the heart. What's broken in my spirit, never in the mind. The mind is only controlled by the heart.

Remember that the mind is only controlled by the heart. What's something broken in my spirit? Is my spit? No, I think it's the mind only it's like a computer. We didn't ben we didn't bounce around so cold, we didn't got off the topic of the week. You got to say, what was it? Weak men and strong women and the fast bitches and are women too strong? But that's my point. I think women are adorable versus the way we typically measure strength. I think that you can't

measure women's strength that way. Right, it's durable, Um, women are durable? Orself? What? What? What? What's the reason you asked that question? When you ask that question, you're saying, you know, are women too strong? Or women or men too weak? I just brought that up because it's a what's the scenario like like for me? Yeah, because because if I asked a question, it's a specific scenario makes me ask the questions because a lot of friends that I've had a lot of men spoken about saying so

fast is what she's saying. No, I didn't say that, No, I'm throwing it in there. I'm just trying to cry agree. Sometimes too, they say that a lot of women are so strong minded that they say they don't need a man. Right, that's just a lot of them. This is where it comes. This is where the foundation of what I'm saying comes from that. A lot of women say that, right, women and men. Right, I've never heard of a man, or I don't think. I've never heard of man. They're too strong.

I never heard a man said I don't need a woman. I have always heard women say they don't need a man. So is that not true that kind of woman, because either they're too strong, or they're they talk too much, or they think they know too much, they don't need that. I've heard both sides like that. Don't know. I think he said he don't need that woman, that type of woman. Women, women say that's not wrong. So you think that's a

sign of strength a woman? All right, Okay, all right, we gotta dissect this little part though, right before we get there. Before we get there, they'll say they don't need that type of woman, right, they won't say I've never heard a man. I've heard one rap song that's like I don't need no bitch in my life. Ever, I've never heard like like sugar free won't give you away for free heat, would at least need to trade you for a joint. So is that where you get

your definition of a strong woman from? Sugar free. I don't again strength right, So so that's a great question, right, you gotta be strong to be a prostitute. But that's a whole another question that's I want to know I no, no, go ahead, jay z uh strength Right. My idea of strength is the durability of women. But what does that mean? Durability the ability to take everything the world is dishing

out and still persevere. That's strength. That's strength. That's durability. Right, to stretch your body, to stress, to deliver a child and then proportion back to a shape is strength. Who taught you that? It's just natural humans? I said, who taught you that? Nothing? I've seen it on YouTube. I was like, how did they do that? No, the strength of a woman your perspective? Where'd you? Where'd you learn there? From watching? Watching, listening to Mary J. Blinde? She she

taught you what the strength of woman is. No, again, I've seen strong women. I asked you, where did you learn about the definition of a the strength of a woman? That the definition, right of strength? I learned it from Webster and then watching women. Right, It's how I'm able to equate strength and women. So who who in your mind? Right? Now, would you just find as a strong woman in your life? Every woman in my life is strong, uh ship my mom's um if I every woman, I don't think I

know weak women. I don't think of personally. I don't think weak women exist. But that's just my where where I'm at. I gotta go back. I'm sorry, man, I can't keep I can't keep getting Yeah, I can't keep going forward at this moment. So we're talking about this. This is what I want to know. What makes a woman that says they don't need a man and don't need this and that, what even makes that strong? Because I'm gonna tell you that sounds like an idiot to me.

You just you, I didn't say that. Let me let me tell you, all right, I'm going I'm going to the microphone. Let me go back to what you said. What you said was that you got dudes that have been saying, right that women say they don't need this and they don't need that, they don't need that type of woman. Right. You did say that, all right, So it's nothing wrong with them saying they don't need that type of woman because guess what you're saying now, You're

saying they're saying they don't need a strong woman. I didn't say that. Okay, so if they don't need that type of woman, that don't mean that woman is strong? I said, does that mean that woman is strong? I'm asking a question. Let me answer no answer this question. Does that mean that woman is strong that they were referring to? Does that mean? Yes? You you're doing a woman. You're doing a woman. You're doing right now. We don't let you woman the way out of this. I didn't

say that. Trust me, I know what I'm doing here. I got some hold hold thank you do hold on? Hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up, go ahead, go ahead, Please ask ask her the question and answer the question. Ain't answering the question all of you're doing it again. I'm asking a question. Brought hold up, and you're gonna let her woman her way out of this? Ask her the question again? The question because I didn't say that. I didn't tell you woman you hold up.

You can allow her the woman her way out of this. You're going to allow her to woman her way out of this. Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, let's rewind that one two seconds. What does that mean now, we're scooting again. Ask the question, and she's going to ask you the question. No, no, no, no, no no, listen that I'm not even going for the right. Yeah, asked her the question back to ask her the questions. Can her way out of it? Doctor asked Doctor Hutson

the question we're trying. I'm trying to get back to the The question is Dr Hudson, is you can't warm me your way out of this? Listen? Women, women not see what happens. Answer you coming here? It's like the terror. Don't you can do all the jokes? All right? Listen? Are you so as a strong woman answer the question? Yeah? All right, First let me get I gotta go to the point that she may don't go to that point. Just ask you the question. So as a woman strong?

Because she states that she doesn't need all these I don't need a man to do this. I don't need a man to do that. I don't need a man to do this and do that. Does that make a woman strong? Okay, so now congratulate. This is what you said earlier when you were addressing the dudes. Okay, your fingers something wrong with her fingers? She flicked my guy off guys, I just want everybody, all our viewers and know she just like my guy off. Okay, this is

all love in the room. So look all right. The thing what you said was that the men are saying that they don't want to deal with a woman that is talking that way. You said that. They said that, right, they said, Okay, listen, that's not a strong man a strong woman that you just you just said that doesn't make her a strong woman, right. You literally just said that. Literally. I did not say that. I did not say that. Oh that's the one thing I love about recording. I

did not say that. No, you didn't. I never said that. You said that was the definition of a strong woman. But you just said you said that there wasn't the definition of a strong woman. You said that doesn't make a woman a strong woman because she said but I was. I gave you the perspective of other people prior to that, right, and you guys want to put their perspectives onto me. So I'm gonna tell you what I'm thinking right now, and I'm gonna say this out loud, and that's definitely

gonna get me in trouble. You need to separate those they must be passing out doctrine. So, um, so you need to take your ass to my room and get my motherfucking I'm working with you. This is my look what we got going. Look, guys, go ahead. I finished. You said everybody had one. I said if it was passing the mouth and everybody would have one. But they all right, listen down to minimize that motherfucking struggle. That journey was a whole motherfucker. Look, that was a whole motherfucker.

So you might well telling them white girl some something else. That ship was a whole other struggle. Kids and all married and all the whole other struggle. You took care of business. Now I took care of business time ten times ten? Okay, Now why is it times ten? So seeing working full time for the county. That's how to protective service. Listen up, guys and three kids married, going

three o'clock in the morning, doing my internship. Get my ass up, going to Palm Delle, from Palm Delle to passaging and from passing to Pomonaig for two years straight. Don't ever minimize my degree. There you go? Does that strength? Did y'all hear? That? Is that not strength? That's perseverance? Is that strength both in perseverance. Okay, so here's my question again. Now she just woman this whole conversation. Yeah,

she keeping we gotta go back every time. Now look, so look, we're not gonna let you wom your way again. So again, so again you said, don't here another day. You think you are really woman your way out? It is she really thinks that's women. Right. Women will throw diversion, They will divert you from your ship. You fire yourselves up. No, no, look and no, this is what happens in the real

household to facts. I'm glad you know this movie. I've been saying this forever that them woman, they were Oh man, they like boxes. So you've never seen a boxer do this. A boxer will throw like women throw feints so they can hit you with the right because they know you're about the punch. So they I'm telling you, man, they the best boxes in the duck this way. No, we ain't trying to get to the next topic. We're trying to get to this answer. All right, you're really interested, Yeah,

because you're skipping it. Hug, you said, all right, a woman saying yes, they don't need a man to do this. Pay this bill. I didn't say that. I said that asking I'm down before we just just calm down and listen. She got you. Okay, listen, a woman, a woman saying they don't need a man for this, that in the third does that automatically make them strong? Okay, that's your answer to me. Okay, okay, okay, okay. Now we're gonna

move into the next phase. The next phase, is this a man that has stayed it they don't want to deal with that type of woman? Has a man told you that that they don't want to deal with that type of woman? Because you just said earlier that men have told you they don't want to deal with that type of woman, told me like me dealing with me? But that I didn't say they told you about you. No, I'm saying a man has told you I don't want to So I'm asking you this, Has a man done

this to you? Hey, gee, I don't want to deal with them type of women that's talking they don't need a man for this. They have told you that, right? Okay, So that's a yes to that, right? Yes, Okay, we gotta yes. And then the first one was no, that don't make them strong? So this one was, yes, you have had this conversation with a male. So what I'm trying to ask you is what is wrong with the

man that doesn't want to deal with that woman. I'm not saying that there's something wrong with him dealing with that type of woman because because you earlier, I'm gonna tell you is what you said earlier. What you said earlier was you equated that woman to strength. Did it we will go back and rewind to take strong or a men weak? I know you said that was a question. And then you said and here was your example. That was the question. Your question was are women strong or

are men weak? Right? Two weeks right then your examples of this was that because I hear this is what you said. This is what you said. I didn't say this. I only brought that up because of what I hear that question. I'm just because I'm just Jaz saying you listen when I'm telling you, I'm just showing you what you did. All I'm trying to do is show you what you did, what I did. You think you know what you did. But this is why we asked to keep That's the truth. She knows exactly what she's doing.

I believe her. I believe her because that's why she charges two fifty. She is running you into amaze. You have to come back because you're not gonna have all the information show. Here's what you did. You said that that are are are women too strong? On? So you already put that on the pedestal. That was the reason you said that, or are men too weak? Then your

example you went into this. You said, because I hear men say that they don't want to deal with a woman that states that they don't need a man for this, this, this and that so. But just because they don't want to deal with a woman that says that you yourself as a woman just said that doesn't make her a strong woman, so he don't gotta want to deal with her. There's nothing wrong with in all actuality, she's for aughty

a weak woman because of it. Dude, to say you don't need a man, I'm gonna tell you the truth. You're an idiot because we all need companionship. So you're an idiot if you say that. In my mind, once you come in here to me, it's say if you come in here and say if I said that, if I say I don't need if I say I don't need a woman, I'm an idiot. But most people because every man in here that we all need a woman.

You need a fucking man, but need period. I don't give a funk what might be your reason, your reasoning. I don't know your reason why. I don't know your reasoning, and I don't need to know your reasoning. My reason is different than your. I do know mine is going to be totally different from his, his and his. Yes, okay, so why so that's it at the end of the day. The idiot, at the end of the day, the idiot

is a person that says you don't need it. You're an idiot to me, you're already an idiot, an idiot or ignorance, ignorance. You don't know the reason behind you're saying why you need or don't need a woman. Idiot? Why do you? I'm telling you that's what we were already. We were, we were, we were put on the earth. We can't even reproduce without you. We can't reproduce, we can't. It doesn't matter. Let's say that was how about this, That's how cold I'm gonna get. Let's say the only

reason I need let's listen. Are you gonna be quiet if the only reason I need a woman is huh, strong man, because I'm quiet. No, I don't know what you are. You you you're strong because I know you, and I know you outside of here, and I know you're real. Get down, So all that all the ship you you, you are listed. I know what you get down, so I know what you really do behind the scenes.

But what I'm getting to is this. If a man states, any man in the world, if his reason and for needing a woman is only to reproduce, there's nothing wrong with that. That's his reason in That's one person that ain't ten million people. That's one person that says, you know why I need a woman. I need a woman to reproduce that. So what we don't worry about my reason is so both of y'all just did the same thing. I'm gonna do it. You don't want to tell I did it on person and you so, yeah, I did

it on purpose. But y'all don't even playing fields. We well, we gotta even it because she already got you was conscious. She did it on accident. I did it on purpose, you did I did I definitely did motherfucker. Let me tell you. Oh no, I know every could be different. And what's said is anybody reason and could be different is everybody's reason. Everybody's reading could be to get to the truth. No, no, no, no, what we're trying to

get to is you ain't them dudes right now? So far, it's okay for them not to funk with them bitches that you were just talking about, that your reference. No one even knows about the bitches you talking about. You know that you're talking about because you said you said they were strong women. I didn't say they were strong women.

I said they were strong women. Listen, you said, the niggas that you've been speaking with or have spoke to, you have referenced women that state, oh, I don't I don't need a man for this, I don't need a man for that. And they said I don't want to funk with them. And you said out of your mouth that you don't even believe that's a strong woman. That doesn't make her automatically a strong woman. Exactly exactly. I said that just because that happens doesn't make them a

strong woman. And it is vice versas for what I'm telling you, Either exactly. That is where I want to get. But what I'm telling you is that man is not weak because he don't want to fuck with abroad. That says something. Okay, right you, I'm gonna tell you what it makes you want to know what? It makes him smart? Really how because he's smart enough to know not the funk with a dumbass bitch that believes she doesn't need a man with her in the first place. He was

that smart. That's why he didn't funk with her. He did, No, he didn't. You just said that he had a conversation and said, I don't need to do this. No, he did know that. So what makes he made a great suggestion what makes a strong woman? On what makes a strong man? It wants solutions. Brother, It's gonna always look different. It's gonna always look different. That that's what I do know. It's gonna always look different because another another. That man's

strength is gonna look different than my strength. I'll give you an example of even Granddad. He has strength in areas that I you know, I consider it strong when he he he used to deal with my grandmother in a certain manner that I have not reached. I'm gonna I'm gonna tell you, right, I'm gonna wanna tell you

I'm gonna give you an example. Okay. An example is her walking around cackling and talking crazy and telling motherfucker's oh, y'all need to be doing this around the house, not even including him, just everybody from grandkids to whoever is. They're just yelling, you know, yeah, it picked this up, dude, that dude that got got got got go, right, And I sat there and I'll be looking at my granddad like, nigga, you're just gonna let her be yelling around the house

like that. He ain't tripping each chilling, right, Right, So that's a that's an example of strength because he's knowing that he don't need to always address every fucking thing and make it an issue. He doesn't need to sit here and pinpoint and say, hey, you don't tell my grandkids what they need to be doing in my house that I'm paying all the rent for that, right, So that's a that's an example. That's an example of strength.

You might not believe that because you know it is what it is, but at the end of the day, that's an example of strength because at the end of the day. If he's paying for everything and he's not tripping on his grandkids, and he's making sure that everything is getting paid for and done, he's the one that could be He's the one that really could be dictating what's going on in his house, and he's choosing not to. He's choosing to allow her to just rip and run

and do whatever the funk she wants to do. But what I also saw was when she was about to do things that he didn't agree with and that he wasn't going to allow in his house, I saw him step in and make sure that he gave his opinion and make sure that it did not happen. So what I old this was through my granddad was Okay, you don't trip on everything that you don't even agree with, because you might not agree with everything that's going on, but you only trip on stuff that you might feel

is a certain level. It's a certain level of hold on. I'm the one that runs this, so when ship is getting out of order, he only decided to use his voice when necessary instead of at every little You don't tell my grand because he could have done that and and any And it's numerous times that I talked to my granddad about it, and he's like, man, you don't have to do that, or this ain't that big of a deal, this, that, and the other. But at the end of the day, he didn't check my grandmother and

make it an issue in front of nobody. He didn't do ship like that. So when I say that was a symbol of strength in my eyes, animal, because guess what, because guess what that's in my eyes. Guess what it might not be a symbolist strength in your eyes. And guess what, I'm not her. I'm not you. I'm not you, And I got my own perspective. So just so, here's what you gotta understand is your perspective. It ain't always then, it's not always the only prospect Animal Kingdom. Now, now,

now let me show you what women do. I'm glad you said. You know. Here's what I'm glad that she did. No, I'm glad. I'm glad. This was perfect. You know why this is perfect because what I just did. What I did was say that everybody's individuals, right. I just said that everybody's gonna think differently. I just said your opinion might be different than my opinion, right, guess what she

just did. She tried to minimize and the Great my opinion, She just tried to minimize and the Great my perspective, Yes you did. You That sounds like the animal Kingdom. If you don't believe that, you must don't know. You don't believe that type of talk, But you must don't know the hierarchy of the animal kingdom that I do know the hierarchy, but understand compliment. I'm actually accomplished. Listen, this is listen. The thing is whether I understand the

hierarchy or not. Right, it's a lot of people that don't understand the hierarchy. It's a lot of people that don't get what you're going to So what it could look like is a disrespectful term. That's all I'm saying now me myself. You gotta remember something here. I know you. I know that you're not going what I just said with just respected. I'm trying to teach you something that it wasn't. You wasn't disrespectful to me. You weren't disrespectful to me to at all at all. She was not

disrespectful to me at all. Go ahead, go ahead, say your side. She got you, so your side, and now she's saying her side, and this is what we hear, guys in silence. This is like the most awkward silence on the podcast and podcasts in history. This is fucking awesome, fucking awesome. I'm just waiting on the countdown for somebody to talk. I think we're done. She's done talking about that. Good looking out for tuning into the No Sellers Podcast.

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