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Conversations About The 3P's

Mar 05, 20241 hr 1 minSeason 3Ep. 52
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Glasses Malone joined by Peter Bas and Joey Westside (1/2 of LA Giantz) unpack the wild and ridiculous dating narrative seen on social media. Are the wants and needs of relationships from men and women on social media a realistic norm or have folks lost their minds? Tune in and join the conversation in the socials below. 

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Speaker 1

Watch up and welcome back to another episode of No Sealers Podcast with your hosts now fuck that with your low glasses alone.

Speaker 2

You and you know what the content's for. I'll tell you what the contest for the content is to market the pussy price point. That's what it's for, the three p's baby pussy price points. Well, I really appreciate it.

Speaker 3

Should I cover my half for be sure?

Speaker 2

Oh?

Speaker 1

Thank you so much?

Speaker 3

Those delicious But I'm gonna probably head up because it's late and I have to get up early in the morning. I don't know if they allow if you're not staying there, it'd just be easier for you.

Speaker 2

But I appreciate dinner and I do. No, no, no, it's not like that, is it?

Speaker 3

You know?

Speaker 1

I mean, I just I don't know. I don't funk on the first day.

Speaker 3

And I feel like you've been kind of like that.

Speaker 1

You've been acting like this entire time, like you just wanted to free free meal. No.

Speaker 3

No, first off, I have no problem paying for my own bill to avoid something like this.

Speaker 2

Are you serious with him?

Speaker 3

You're fucking asshole, and I have no problem.

Speaker 2

Okay, then pay for it.

Speaker 1

What I thought you to have a problem well, my asshole, I thought it wasn't a problem. You clearly got problems. You're a fucking asshole. You were just talking all nice.

Speaker 4

I don't think they allow or your fucking asshole that you is a demon.

Speaker 2

This is like, this is why there needs to be a federal holiday for that guy who left that bitch with all those crab legs or whatever the fuck it was, with the clams, that's.

Speaker 1

What it was.

Speaker 2

Whatever the hell she sang on a happy hour, she ran up about three hundred, two hundred pounds a woman and three hundred pounds of fish products.

Speaker 1

Good lord, Yeah, she was burnt out. She was sucking in motherfuckers up to a big greedy dish.

Speaker 2

Oh yeah, that was all the oysters.

Speaker 1

She was motherfuckers up. She was.

Speaker 2

She was like, I'm gonna let you hear what what what some other guy is gonna get later tonight? S seventy five of them down fuck out of here?

Speaker 1

Look like, how is that your favorite dish? Anyway? It ain't even that.

Speaker 2

That bitch ain't so many fucking oysters. She was gonna end up with a pearl necklace just off the.

Speaker 1

Oysters out of her lips. It's a lot of it's a lot to unpacked on this conversation. There's a lot to unpack, is it? Is it? Really?

Speaker 3

Yeah?

Speaker 1

You know Glass, I know Glass. She's got some points to no, no, nothing to unpack.

Speaker 2

Women live in a university consequences, guy said, some real ship. Woman resented the idea of accountability. Sounds like an opening case to me.

Speaker 1

Where's the where does she resist accountability at?

Speaker 2

Uh? That would be the end. He's where she was at where she said she'd be down to pay, and he said put your many where your mouth is and she.

Speaker 1

Smashed out and then he was an asshole. Okay, what about the beginning part? Is there anything to talk about at that point?

Speaker 2

What the part where he said I'll pay it's fine and she and she lied about not what non non room whatever the patrons, yeah, wow upstairs or some nonsense. I mean, I don't know whatever. Women never have to make excuses, so you're really bad at it.

Speaker 4

My thing is this, look you said, like women are man, Women are amazing man. Look, she said that she obviously been peeping his whatever he been saying, Right, she's been peeping his game and all that, so.

Speaker 1

You know, he like, you know, can I walk you to your room.

Speaker 4

He was polite, dude, and its seat her just saying no, thank you, I got it. She said that I don't think they allow it, so it'll be better if you.

Speaker 1

Just like chill, who don't allow you to be walked to your room that you're paying for it? You don't even know how to lie. Yeah, he's made that point. But does he have any accountability at all him? Yeah?

Speaker 2

Well it depends. I mean, like, if he pays the check, then his accountability is in the check that he paid for the whole thing. If he doesn't pay for the whole thing, then his accountability is the fact that he bought himself a meal.

Speaker 1

Yeah, he seemed pretty confident in his decision he made. He really didn't care, like he was like he was a bit irritated for sure, Like okay, yeah, yeah, the guy take you out, you know, and now you go on you acting like you got something to do. I would like to know, like where they met, how they met. Let's say they met there. Let's say they met on an app. Well, let's say they met there. Let's say they both were staying at this hotel or at this place,

and he's seeing her. He's like Hey, man, you're beautiful. Let's have dinner to night. She's like, okay, for sure, and then they go sit at the table to have dinner where they meet up at and the whole time he's pushing his a gym the right to get to the draws, right, she's picking it up, but she's enjoying the meal, the company, so forth, a song. But maybe her intentions is not to put out.

Speaker 2

Can we rewind it a little bit?

Speaker 1

Sure?

Speaker 2

Sure, let's let's cut back to a very integral moment in the in this timeline in which we're gonna focus on him saying you're beautiful or whatever the fuck you want to pretend that you are. As the woman, can I take you to dinner? And she says sure? What is the rationale then behind that decision in her quote unquote mind?

Speaker 1

So part of me believes with women and me go out right, women are going out to get to know a man, and to be honest, to get you know, a meal, right, But I think women are going out to get to know somebody, which I struggle to believe that sometimes because the places that they go to, you know what I mean, you really can't get to know somebody.

Speaker 2

Sure, I would say that that theory is true less than fifteen percent.

Speaker 1

Of the time.

Speaker 4

Yeah, because the places where you can get to know someone and communicate those are beneath them exactly.

Speaker 2

And the conversations by on behalf of women usually revolve around make some plans, plan a thing, entertain me, take me somewhere, you know where the where it's I had this conversation last week with a girl. I was like, I don't give a shit if we go sit on a rock. I'm just here to interface with you. You're you're you're in it for the thing we do, and you no, no, no, no, no, no no no. I'm in

it to like get to know you. And because of the thing that we're trying to do, I go, yeah, that that latter part doesn't even exist for me, and I'm the one paying for it.

Speaker 1

So why do y'all think women decide to go on dates with men that ask them or that that that man that ask.

Speaker 2

Them out, he's so frightoused in the titles, That's.

Speaker 1

Not why they would go on a date. They want to us what they.

Speaker 2

Think, they think they are entitled to any guy spending money on earth for them to go out on a thing that that there looks and that they're being entitles them to be entertained on someone else's dime.

Speaker 1

So you're saying they are going out with men to be entertained, they have no true desire as a mask to get to know the person. It depends on who the.

Speaker 2

Guy is, it certainly does, but by and large, I think it's a I think that I think that the integrity of the process is a I think the process with integrity exists in a minority of cases.

Speaker 1

No Sillings, g L and the House. My brother's Pete, my brother Pete.

Speaker 3

Uh.

Speaker 1

We got Joey Westside back because people like him, and my job is to market him as well. So I think he has a really interesting perspective, especially on this particular topic. Yo, So we're gonna.

Speaker 2

Give people what they want.

Speaker 1

Get what they want, so load up.

Speaker 2

So and what they want is Joey Westside.

Speaker 1

So you're saying, what's the core what's the core motto of why women go out on dates with men that ask them out on dates. You're saying, it's just to be entertained, that's the core mottol.

Speaker 2

Yes, I think yes, And I think that you can separate it to the degree of the degree of where it is at, Like, what do you think the mis rate is on guys offering women an extraordinarily expensive, high end experience? What do you think the mis rate is on that? Now?

Speaker 1

One in a thousand miss rate? Give me further further that what do you mean the miss rate? Yeah? I never heard that. I should ask the same thing.

Speaker 2

What percentage? If you were to ask one hundred women in la Hey, you're really cute, I have reservations. Let me make reservations for eight o'clock tonight at mastros will have a lovely time well or whatever it is.

Speaker 1

Some how many women out of one out of how many.

Speaker 2

Women out of one hundred are going to say no to an extraordinarily high end dining experience invitation?

Speaker 1

And this is to someone and this is someone they're already communicating with, not me at the law?

Speaker 2

Isn't is?

Speaker 1

Or isn't so? If you come to a girl and you.

Speaker 2

Offer a girl a five hundred dollars experience, what do you think the decline rate is? It's gonna be extremely low.

Speaker 1

If you said how many a hundred out of one hundred? Maybe ten percent?

Speaker 2

Maybe ten Okay, I think that's ambitious, but sure even ten. So okay them, we're just gonna say, yeah, sure you're I can have a five hundred dollars meal with cocktails and entrees and surf and turf and all the above. Yeah, I'll go, I'll go. They're gonna go.

Speaker 1

Whether or not they're interested in the God, yeah, they're definitely go out on a date. They know they're not interested in. They brag about it all the time, do they Yeah, like a lot. Maybe I'm not giving women for no reason.

Speaker 2

How many women did you see that look good? That post pictures from private charter jets? How many guys, if you're a twenty four year old, attractive, young, fit woman, how many men in your peer group are chartering flights for the weekend for you, like NBA players. Okay, that'll cover one percent of the women in that target group. The rest of them, it's some older guy with a bunch of money, who's fat and works seventy five hours

a week who's putting them on a private jet. And when they're on there, believe me, selfies are being taken.

Speaker 1

How often are most women getting on a private That's still a one percentile of women even that's true. I believe that.

Speaker 3

Sure.

Speaker 2

Sure, in a nice car with a headrest decal behind them, or stand in front.

Speaker 1

Of a restaurant, you're saying, really nice entrance. So you're saying culturally of so again culturally we back to that same point where where it's like, uh, man, women go on dates for pictures. I don't even be knowing if they really like the food. Like that, it seemed like they always got a lot of food on their plate when they post a picture too, like did you eat?

Speaker 2

That's another thing I'll tell you now from it.

Speaker 1

It's only three.

Speaker 4

Men, and it's always only three and it's only like it's the same foods all the time.

Speaker 2

Because they because they're idiots, they only know three foods.

Speaker 1

Nobody eats stream beans no more.

Speaker 2

No, they know crab legs, they know lobster, and they know steak. Maybe that's total.

Speaker 1

Like they don't eat ice cream sandwiches no more and shit like.

Speaker 2

Not when you're taking him out, they don't. They eat them at the house.

Speaker 1

Yeah, like it probably got the great value brand toy ship man, y'all think y'all going hard? Gee, they only eat asparagus and Brussels sprouts. Bro they don't eat no other vegetables, no more.

Speaker 2

No, no, no, no no, they don't. They'll order a lot of things, they won't eat them though they're ordering it for the picture.

Speaker 1

It's a picture. This is content, Nigga. Content is people.

Speaker 2

God mm hmm. You and you know what the content's for. I'll tell you what the contents for the content is to market the pussy price point. That's what it's for. The three p's baby pussy price point. That's all women care about. Let me, let me, let me put some proof of concept down to set the market. I'm gonna prove to you that this here is crab leggs and lobster pussy, and I'm gonna post it on my story

so you see the proof. Don't come hollering at me over some nice chicken dinner ship because this ain't chicken dinner pussy. I'm gonna show you that. And I'm gonna show you the head rest of the guy's car I'm sitting in so you know I don't get picked up in no regular car. This ain't regular car chicken pussy. This is European import seafood dinner pussy. And you're gonna see it. Because I'm gonna post it here and fucking now, and that's what it is.

Speaker 1

Okay, So while I get it, how long you been drinking?

Speaker 2

Six minutes? I'm not drunk?

Speaker 1

Okay, cool, because you you are preaching and you gotta let it like a half ounce. You know, women, you're articulate. I'm just saying you are going all the way. So I'm I'm so now, I'm sure you just passionate.

Speaker 2

Since I've been on the stage, I've been doing a lot of writing, so my delivery is more prime.

Speaker 1

Sure, Okay, okay, yeah, yeah yo. But yeah, man, that that that that's funny. That's actually funny. Man. You know what, man, women, you want to go to all these restaurants. I think that the rules should be. Look, if you don't know how to cook the ship you want, we should be you shouldn't even want to go there. You don't even know how to cook it.

Speaker 2

I got one. Here's another personal experience anecdote. If you don't know how to pronounce the ship you want, don't go there.

Speaker 4

You should actually spell horders write it though she got to writing. If she can't spell it, she can't go.

Speaker 1

She can't sho. Yeah, you know what okay, let's peel back a little bit, let's pack.

Speaker 2

If you can't match the appropriate wine to your entree, you're in over your head, honey, and you go home.

Speaker 1

It's amazing.

Speaker 4

It's uh at this point in my life, like I'm choosing to like laugh at it, like it's just funny now, like I find joy and laughing at the ridiculousness, Like it'd be like wow, like this is funny, Like it's comedy. Every now and then something get a little extreme, like the overweight lady that said, uh, the overweight lady that said, if you if you only make fifty thousand, you shouldn't be dating.

Speaker 1

And I'm like, damn, like it's crazy because you you like you heavy too.

Speaker 2

Maybe she meant, if you don't make fifty thousand calories, then you shouldn't be dating. Right, well, she specify what the medium of valuarie.

Speaker 1

I don't know, man, But it was funny, man, it was funny.

Speaker 4

And I and I and I had commented, right, and I had commented and put, if you're a woman that's twenty twenty five plus, don't eat, and and I'm getting cussed out a week later.

Speaker 2

I believe if you're the standard for the bench press of the combine. Pay for your own dinner.

Speaker 1

Yeah, but I think at this point though, they really get on there to just say wild stuff.

Speaker 4

And she may have believed it, you know, they people believe what they believe man, and and it's and it's always amazing. And then if you really start asking him like why do you think that? Like why should it be that way? Why why is it that way? They just so let me be asked a question, let me cut some other ship. So let's rewind back to the beginning of that date, right to this.

Speaker 1

All right, you don't think it's weird that he was willing to pay until he realized okay, was it wasn't he realized he wasn't getting no vagina, you know what I mean? Or did he get offended at the way she lied to him? Yes, yeah he didn't because.

Speaker 2

He he shot that down and I don't think he tripped until.

Speaker 1

That lie was so ridiculous, bro, Like, you didn't you could have easily just been like, look, I'm cool, like or you know, no, thank you, I got it, you know what I'm saying. But when you say they don't allow they don't allow people to walk a woman to her room. But isn't that the same way A more a more let him down? Different? That was crazy, sure, let down to where it was with like some level of care or you think the lie was so so she basically I'm never talking to you again.

Speaker 2

She did that. I don't think that. It wasn't until she came off on her pedestal of I don't have any problem paying for my own and he goes, oh, well okay, if that's the case.

Speaker 1

Yeah, he did say fuck it though, like fuck it. Yeah, And she at first she was lost, like, well, yeah, pay for it, like go ahead, immediately change mm hmm. She was. She she was her whole energy change.

Speaker 2

She did the t rex arm for the check at first, just just to play polite. But when it really came down to.

Speaker 4

It right now, And I don't know where they was eating at either, so it probably was some if they was at some ship, you feel me. She probably liked, hey, man, I mean, we.

Speaker 1

See she alive. She probably was lying about really having like having the money to pay it.

Speaker 2

It was the restaurant in the lobby of the hotel. I have to assume unless they're going on one hell of a walk.

Speaker 1

Sure, sure, So like I'm trying. I wish we had a woman on here, because I am literally trying to present a perspective. And this is probably why men can't speak for women, because I am looking for a perspective to, like if I was in the court of law, to defend that woman's position. But it's weird that you initiated the conversation because you felt pressure, like you felt like he was leading you in this direction, so you said, well, you know what, I'll pay for my own meal. He's like, no,

I got it. You're like you sure, You're like, yeah, I got it, and whatever. The conversation happened until it got to the point to where it was like he said, can I walk you to your womb? Right? And I do think dating is a weird game. You know what

I'm saying between men and women. Where I was expressing this earlier that men are looking, you know, you find somebody attractive, and you're looking for somebody to sleep Very rarely are men looking for somebody to marry when you first see somebody, right, you're looking for somebody to sleep with. So you take women out to sleep with them, right, that's to go. The more a player you are. You know, you don't mind waiting, right, It's cool, like you're player

about it, so you don't mind. And now that I'm asking the woman's perspective, you feel like the woman's perspective is to be entertained, So it's not about her getting to know the guy, which I can understand because I had that thought to myself where I was like, well, wait a minute, if if women were trying to get to know somebody, why would you go to the movies?

Speaker 2

Yeah?

Speaker 1

Absolutely, why would you go somewhere where you get the least? Well, I mean do people really go to first dates to movies? I mean they used to go to restaurants right where you can talk to that.

Speaker 2

Personally. I get all sorts so you can you can tell what's bullshit was not, you know, like it's not hard to spot the one from the other in real time. You know which is which. But yeah, people want to go first date movies off and I'm like, hey, I don't give a shit go to the movies in general, but secondly, what are we doing, especially after funny story.

I did do that once several years ago. Some girl wanted to hang out and we weren't supposed to go to the movies, but she wanted to go see that movie get Out, and I was like, I don't think we should go see that movie. No, I really want to see it. And she like, and I'm like, all right, if you want to see it, that's whatever we can. I don't give a shit. Fine, So I pick up

we go see the movie. Were in the car back and she's like, yeah, I mean, I don't know if it's just the movie, but like I just I'm just way turned off by you being white.

Speaker 1

Now.

Speaker 2

I'm like, I'm like, all right. I was like, I told old you two and a half hours ago, I don't want to go see this fucking movie. It's not the right movie right now for this reason. Whatever, fuck I Now, she.

Speaker 1

Just got you. She just painted you as a whole in the movie You Will, You Will, You want her part.

Speaker 2

I should have saw her brain out and threw her on the side of the road.

Speaker 4

You know what, man, when you when when I hear women talk about date now, they be really wanting to be like they feel like the more you go out your way with the day, the more you care about them, or the more you try to like the more you go out there impress them.

Speaker 1

They want to be impressed, which is see I said the same thing. I think women are trying they want to be impressed they do.

Speaker 2

I interpret that that. You can interpret that one of two ways. I think I face value short. I think what that really is is they want their ego strupsy. They want their self esteem is tied to the three piece. So the more willing you are to inflate their pussy price point, the better they feel about themselves. The better you make, the better you make them feel about themselves, the more they like you because you make them feel good about themselves.

Speaker 1

Women need their ego boosted whip all the time. They they say they men. The men need their ego boost Is that a human?

Speaker 2

Yeah, that's why we fuck women.

Speaker 1

That's fair. Yeah, niggas, You know, niggas just don't admit it like whatever sounds like it may not be cool. People don't like to admit it. Like people don't like the mid that they got insecurities. People don't like the they admit their egotistical. People don't like to admit that they selfish. They don't like to admit none of these words that all humans. You know what I'm saying, go through. We all have these characteristics at times now, some more

than others. But don't nobody like him in it? And women help men? Come on, look how women take pictures. They can't even take a picture standing us. They they they.

Speaker 4

Can't even look how they stand. They all got the same stands.

Speaker 1

Mm h, what's the what's the relevant point of the same stands to the conversation? What do you mean they like we're talking about they ego. They trying to look a certain way.

Speaker 4

They have to always look a certain way because they want people to see them in a certain light. And the more attention they get, the more they feel better about themselves. Like women think that they like remember, I will tell you all women like like women, women try to brag on and pressing men that with money, like I got niggas, I got a but like she got a basketball player or whatever she had, feel like, oh, she's she's top tier because she got a basketball player.

It's like this, nigga's rich and men don't really want much like it don't take much to impress us.

Speaker 2

The only reason that she wants the rich guy is because everybody wants a guy with Women want a guy with money because they're gonna.

Speaker 1

Get free shit.

Speaker 2

So you get a guy, a super rich he's the top one percenter of men you pull him, that that implies you're a top one percenter of women by association, so that juice is up their ego because everybody wants my guy, and I'm in the top one percent of women that can actually get him.

Speaker 1

So I'm better at nine and nine percent of you grimy bitches like the niggas is owning like you a girl glasses, you could stop me when I'm wrong at any time, I'm trying to find positions in the conversation.

Speaker 2

Like they don't exist her.

Speaker 1

I would never advocate for sake, so you never hear me playing the devil's advocate, right. But what I do appreciate about no feelings, right, is we try to exploit, We try to explore all the intellectual stances in the conversation, and this one just feels like I'm lacking information. And maybe that's because I'm not a woman. So it's just okay when you take a woman out, Joey, if you ask a woman out, are you expected to pay?

Speaker 3

Yes?

Speaker 1

You never had these conversations, And that's a really general engineered conversation. Yes, if I take a woman out, yeah, seek where are you at with that?

Speaker 2

I would never let a woman spend a red scent in my presence.

Speaker 1

Okay, so that's fair. If I can't, I and I'm gonna go somewhere where I can handle it. And if and if I can't afford to take out on the date, hey shit, pull up to the crib or what are we're doing something that?

Speaker 4

You know what I'm saying, like, we're gonna figure it out, don't. But I don't take women. I never took a woman a woman on a date that I didn't like.

Speaker 1

I mean, do you ever take a woman out on the date that you knew you wasn't gonna be with, but you thought you would sleep with her? That's a different woman out on the date that I knew I wouldn't go be She was like, yeah, I couldn't, she couldn't be. A long term solution would definitely be a short yes, selfishly, yes, yes, So that's that's the griming portion of it, for sure. For sure. I don't have to ask Pete, so I know this. I already knew. Yeah, right.

Speaker 2

Some would to find that borderline offensive. I'm not one of them, but some.

Speaker 1

No, no, right because so, but I'm saying that to me, that makes up the dating game, right, The dating game is so based off of us and our desires. Right for somebody's you know, their body or blah blah blah and then their desire to be entertained and to show their So our value is based off will you give yourself to me? Right? Am I that valuable to you that you like you would choose me to give your self too. And a woman's value come from the heights men will go to to entertain them, you know, in

the same situation. Right. That's that's that's the ego game we're playing, right, Yeah, that's it. I'm that guy she would give it to me after tonight because you know, I mean, I'm that guy, right whatever. I've never been that way. I've always been special. When a girl gave

you vagina, have I felt special? It was something more than you started with before that date happened, Like I've always said this, right, So yeah, the first time you get some vagina, right, you be always like the whole time.

Speaker 3

Now.

Speaker 1

I don't know about people, but for us, right, the first time you get some vagina, you being sheer disbelief, like the whole time is happening, like I cannot believe she is given and me you know vagina?

Speaker 2

Right that you be like that, you're running out the place like like that Mick Mill meme, like you really call.

Speaker 1

Over, right, so you be you be, you be pumped up like yeah, like right, but while you doing it, you still be hella on it. But then, no matter how many times you have sex after that, right, there's always now that that that moment gets slighter and slighter. Right, it might have the first time, it might have started the whole time he was doing it, even after it was over, like you couldn't believe it happened. And then now you know you you you, you know you sexed

in where you done sex this many times. Now it's still that time when a new woman gives you some vagina, and even if it lasts two seconds, you're like, yep, I can't believe this happening. I'm the guy, like you still convince yourself, you still have that feeling of like you actually accomplished something because somebody knew gave you some pussy.

You know, I'm saying, I don't know, I don't know if it's like that every time I get some new But I've never not felt like that because every time out here fucking it's like, well, yeah, at this point, I've realized, like I've definitely put one women on a ridiculous pedestal. Like but I've been saying this for the last ten years that I realized as a man, you can't judge yourself based off who gives you some vagina because no wanting to have no. Yeah, you know what

I mean. If you judged it based off that and you've seen exactly what they were doing, they're not in the in the choosiest position. How about that, they're not. Yes, a woman that didn't did her thing and continue to do her thing, and you feel like you special because she didn't did it with you this time? Yeah, yeah, it's not yours, it's your turn. That's that's the expression for sure. It's like you ain't fitna do nothing nobody else didn't do, so she was a virgin. Maybe you

would feel special. I don't even know what that's I'm saying. Maybe right if if somebody said, Joey, I've been waiting all this time for you, I'll probably be flattered. I will probably be flattered, probably be on another level, I'll probably be like, I don't even know if that's that's the responsibility. Yeah, you probably wouldn't even believe her, Joe.

Speaker 2

We haven't waited fourteen whole years for this.

Speaker 1

Yeah, yeah, that's true. It's hard to believe certain shit for sure.

Speaker 3

Man.

Speaker 4

It's like, like, damn, I don't even believe you when you could be telling the truth and I don't even believe you.

Speaker 1

What I think initially that was kind of the point of marriage, right, where a person gave you themselves and you're the only person that had them right, and now we're trying to we're trying to Now that's you know, that's one hundred years ago. Yes, I mean fast forward a hundred years later. You're trying to do the same kind of standard things around it, but without that being the catalyst the premise.

Speaker 2

You know what it's turned into. Pussy has turned into the car market in Cuba. You're just recycling the same used cars from pre embargo for fifty fucking years.

Speaker 1

Oh man, you never see that.

Speaker 5

Mean when they got all the guys standing up behind the girl and then it'd be one dude in the middle with the flowers and the tucks on like he's gonna marry it, but he behind like ten other niggas that's beating it up from the back.

Speaker 1

That's a cold meme.

Speaker 2

But it all like, but it's.

Speaker 1

Obviously when you get married, you ain't tripping off that type of shit. That's a lie. No, you are. But you like if you don't know, you know they didnt did something, Yeah, but you don't know. As soon as you realize it, it takes a little chunk at you. Oh you oh, you mean, like just naturally, just like damn, somebody didn't did all this, Like yeah, she just said it was she did have told another nigga it was

his too. I don't know if I would go that far, but sure I would imagine that's possibly, man, he told you it was yours. She definitely. That's a lot that's been told, more than what But I'm saying, how do you operate in old spaces with you know, like with new, with with new, with new, with new data, you know what I mean with new data? Like like if marriage is built on the premise that the thing, the one thing she's supposed to give you is herself, right outside of

love and blah blah blah. That's supposed to be the thing she presents you with on the night that you guys decide to marry. But you realize you're not the only one, right, how do you still exist in that space? You know what I'm saying, Like, like, you get what I'm saying. It's like judging, like it's trying to play today with yesterday's rules.

Speaker 2

Well, culture has created a mutually depreciative.

Speaker 1

You know, spiral.

Speaker 2

So while women have been with numerous men and have depreciated that asset, you're now paying for with used inflated money in the sense that like, yeah, but by the time you get around to getting married to somebody, you've already marginalized your moral compass to the degree that it's like, you know, back in the day, you might have had probably none to one girl, and you're getting married at twenty you know, now you're getting married twenty five, twenty eight,

thirty five, whatever it is, You've had dozens of women. So that's kind of the trade you got to. You got to live a wild lifestyle for a period or life, and the resulting environment from enabling that lifestyle to exist is the fact that the end of game asset is now you know, not.

Speaker 1

What it once was. So how do you play by old rules at that point? Why are you still doing the same exact thing you would do when the stakes were hired. As far as like getting married, yeah, people got a lot of reasons why they get married. Most of the time it be because it'd be for the woman. But then some people really rarely do I see like it'd be an image, a social status, like it'd be all type of things you care about a woman. You know that's what you want, so you honor it, and a.

Speaker 2

Lot of people like the no people, now are you have to be more established now? I feel in general from expectation standpoint to get married then you know in yesteryear where you could get married and then begin your growth and development process as a as a unit. So I think at this point in time, like if you're older and established and you've already hit critical mass, you just just probably just want company, you know.

Speaker 1

So you're saying you're not even getting married for the same thing at that point.

Speaker 2

I think, yeah, you probably cross the bridge word through time. Depending on when you're getting married and the circumstances of your own life, you're getting married for different.

Speaker 1

Reasons, different times in your life.

Speaker 2

Your life looks different in different times.

Speaker 1

But I'm saying now it would have to be completely different than it was one hundred years ago, right for sure?

Speaker 2

Yeah, I mean if you, if you, I mean, I don't know, if you get married, like like say, you're the type of person like you graduated high school, you go into the military or whatever, you get married at twenty to some girl that's twenty and you have your

whole life ahead of you. It's probably not that different. Sure, But if you get married at thirty eight or something like that, and you're already got it all together, and she's assimilating into your foundation, solid lifestyle that you've built for yourself, you don't need a right hand to get it done. You already got it done. You just kind of want somebody around.

Speaker 1

Yeah, but you're saying, I'm saying thirty eight, one hundred years ago, you feel like a man thirty eight in nineteen twenty four had the same access to vagina that a man thirty eight years old has in twenty twenty four.

Speaker 2

No way, certainly not. But that person if you're trying to get married at thirty eight and nineteen oh five, nineteen twenty four, nineteen twenty four, whatever, I mean, that's all that those two errors are probably about the same. You're probably at that point not in your first marriage.

Speaker 1

That's fair, that's fair.

Speaker 2

Or if you are your life living some great gaspy lifestyle and you know.

Speaker 1

So, I'm saying as a woman at twenty years oh in nineteen twenty four, the same as a woman at twenty in twenty twenty four, even her experiences. Now we haven't a cultural conversation because there's obviously some women. Obviously you just thought Serena me Venus, you know Talbot, she's a virgin at forty and at forties, so you missed the Senate planer. Yeah, she's a virgin. She's like girls, No, she just been waiting to have sex. Syce she got married.

That's kind of dope, right, which is kind of was a standard one hundred years ago. Now I'm sure with girls who was breaking the standard. But I'm saying most people that's impressive. Well it is you know what, you know, what's sure? Sure?

Speaker 4

You walking around like that, and that's the truth I'm telling you, because if the woman walk in and that's the truth, they all talking and all that, and she say that some people may try to shame her, but it's gonna be like she's gonna be the only one in there that could say that.

Speaker 1

She's always the only one that could say that. All the rooms she'd go to, it's only her that could say that. See the only version in there that's fourteen all the time. Sure, so she don't always stand out. I mean, you would have to answer her personal business. But yeah, I get it. Well.

Speaker 2

I mean like if you were in your thirties and single, you know, as a woman back in the day, you would you'd be like, you know, like a spinster or something like that.

Speaker 1

You know, the fuck is the spinster?

Speaker 2

It's like what there was like an old single woman, right.

Speaker 1

That'd be at them at that, be at them little lounges and all that, just singing with a cigarette. Man.

Speaker 2

No, no, no, like like I shouldn't you know, Oh I don't know. Okay, we'll leave it, we'll leave it, we'll leave it. But I think that the lifestyle expectations are so have changed dramatically for women. So if you're twenty one hundred years ago versus today, I mean, there's a whole there's a large number of women that are going into college and postgraduate and have a career driven agenda. There's a lot of women the other ones, you know.

I feel like if they don't want to be professionals, there's a lot of women who just want to life, live life, and experience life and then settle down. Yes, after they've been warned out, I mean, after they've traveled something.

Speaker 1

Yeah, let me go, let me go live my life. It would lead so traveling, let me go experience different men, eating different men. Really, but they never want to say nothing that make them feel or look like, oh, of course not.

Speaker 2

They're not a holder. They're living their life.

Speaker 1

They're not going to say, yeah, I want to go experience and date a lot of men and and and see what kind of sex.

Speaker 3

I like.

Speaker 1

Sure that can't be their goal going into it. Bro No, I will, I will.

Speaker 2

I will put women on the line right now. Bruh, come on, Now, what do you think happens on them girls' trips to Jamaica? Fuck, they're going down there.

Speaker 1

I still don't believe that. I make that joke, but I don't believe that. But the niggas gotta be rubbing on the soap lotion on they ass yeah, but I don't think they're taking them down. I don't think they sleep with them Jamaican men. I didn't want to get down. There a lot of more.

Speaker 2

Even aside from that, even when they get down, they think a lot of the more, not the guys doing the massages, but just like they go to the dance hall club or whatever, but like being inside, like even in general speak like you don't know lots and lots and lots and lots of girls that have like I just wanted to explore different personality types and different types and whatever.

Speaker 1

Are we seeing that women like to explore different penises? I think they. I think that's a long way of saying they don't like to say it because anything that when they feel something into that connects them into what holes? Do they they like, we're not saying that mm hmm. Or they gonna tell you admit you a hole just for them to get it out like okay, I'm a hold too, and they'll be like, okay, then why are

you judge it? Oh? So you as a whole. They're always more comfortable with many things when you when you admitted to if they feel like Okay, Oh I got company like Major we loved company, or maybe they think you're gonna judge them for sure, they think that, and we are sure we are. We all judge though. That's why I hate when people say, don't judge, Like who don't judge idiots?

Speaker 2

Don't judge. If you're not judging, you're preparing yourself to make a very bad mistake. You're preparing yourself to make a poor judgment.

Speaker 1

Call We judge animals, we judge people. You judge the way buildings look restaurants. Yeah, so back to the meucker looking like that shit nasty in there, Like men ain't even went in there.

Speaker 3

Hum.

Speaker 1

No, I'm just saying the way we judged it. He's like, you can look at something like that shit look like it's nasty, Like I look like it's nasty. You ain't seeming fool you just look at the building. Okay. So so what we're saying is, man, this is a crazy conversation. We need a woman, man, because we're definitely gonna have to probably do a part two and let her just get hers off.

Speaker 2

We need some lies and horseship in this conversation.

Speaker 1

Is it all lies?

Speaker 3

Man?

Speaker 1

She's gonna lie. You gotta get a woman, you know, a woman that's willing to like that's okay with like being honest.

Speaker 2

I'll put it this way. What we'll say, what we would call the evolution of the position would be a lie. What they'll call it is a redefinition of truth.

Speaker 1

Their truth. My truth. Yeah, famous, my truth. This is a hell of a way to end the season.

Speaker 2

We're ending a season.

Speaker 1

Yeah, this is the end of the third season.

Speaker 2

That was a fast season. We would do this season about a month and a half.

Speaker 1

No, we've been doing this the whole season for a long time.

Speaker 2

I thought we ended I started a new one like two months ago.

Speaker 1

No, we're not gonna start the new one until I think the first week at April. I wow, we just got ahead, like we had a lot of podcasts ahead. I just y'all said season. I thought niggas were just saying that. So it's a real thing. Yes, fifty two episodes of the season, right, So this is the conclusion of the third season of no Ceilings. We're going into the fourth season.

Speaker 2

This is a good beat.

Speaker 1

I'm in the top. No Ceilings is in the top seventy podcast out of over two hundred good. So they think the fourth season is probably the season that it should happen. But I've just been thinking about it, like, like what I don't want to do, man, is start having a bunch of guests, Like I do think that's a very simple way to market a pot by having

a bunch of guests. But you know what's funny, man, When I first started, when I first found out what the podcast was was in twenty fifteen and I did the Brilliant Idiots podcast with See with Charlotte Maine and with superstar comedian at this point Andrew Schoultz. You know you were a guest, big, I was a guest, but I didn't even know what it was. But what I liked about it was it wasn't really contingent on who walked in, like it went, the show went on no

matter what. And I like that. I like the fact that they had really intelligent and dynamic conversations. And you know, no matter what, that's no ceilings is built the same way. It's built on like this really multicultural dynamics of intelligence right where Pete, who is more scholarly than I am, you know what I mean. Yet you know my street ability to articulate what he's saying, you know, to myself and to other people, and then to even offer him

a perspective that you know, from the street. I would like to believe that that even gives more layers to it than maybe most people who don't say yeah, one thousand. So it's just you know, going from you know, seventy or sixty nine to eight or nine. You know, it's going to be important this year. So I've been just thinking about it over and over again, and now like I'm starting to notice you know, Instagram, on Twitter, on Facebook,

people hit me about the podcast. They're like, yo, I really like it, and so forth and so on, and just really going to another level. But I don't want to turn it into the proverbial you know podcast where people are all talking about day or people you know are interviewing rappers. Like one thing we don't do on those syllinges, we don't interview people. That's not what it is, like, it's just kind of shit. You want to.

Speaker 4

Communicate with people, I can add to the conversation like a in a real authentic, genuine way, not like oh I'll put your face on the thumbnail. You're gonna watch it now because this this podcast is built on people who listen on audio.

Speaker 1

Sure. Yeah, and it's no visual component because like I still have yet to find a true worthy visual component. So that that that so outside of not having a bunch of guests, right and then not having a visual component, it gives us less marketing weeds because you know, people go to YouTube. A huge audience goes to YouTube. More people go to YouTube to discover content, then they go to Apple podcasts.

Speaker 2

I just got an email from one of my investment mailer lists entitled YouTube dominates streaming.

Speaker 4

Right right, Yeah, it's just they used to it. It's like it's like dopamine, like YouTube.

Speaker 1

Because I'd rather a lot of times when I'd rather listen to podcasts own like either Spotify or Apple, you know what i mean, Because when it's on YouTube, you can get interrupted unless you're paying for the premium, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, I just like the audio portion because it gives you give people a chance to focus on me and Pete, you know, really getting into these deep conversations me Red Britt, you know, really digging past you know, where everybody else is at surface wise. M h.

Speaker 2

It's a sixty one percent of gen Z prefer user created videos over traditional TV shows sixty.

Speaker 1

One percent of a whole generation gen Z.

Speaker 2

I believe it.

Speaker 1

I feel like sounds. I've been having this conversation since we had the podcast, you know, the three part series where I'm like, your marketing would fuck like we are, you know, back to that point, We're fucking up, bro. Even when I was looking at that Instagram with that audio between that date and I'm like, Yo, this is real content. These are these are people want real flavor, you know what I mean. They don't want you to

be fucking with them. They don't want that. Sometimes they get lost, like I look at like a blue face and a Krashean and people don't haven't realized that that's entertainment. They really are vested in it, and it hasn't It's only hitting them at different times like oh, this is a show that's just happening, you know what I mean, without the television And now she heard tattoo cubs face on her face. They're like, oh, this motherfucker playing with us.

But then there's a huge population that also believes like, oh, well she's forgiving him versus this is the TV show we're watching in real life, you know, without the television. We're watching it on Instagram. We're watching it play out like it has true you know, true wings of like that. They're on the news, you know, got out out this that and the third versus us understanding that they're method acting at this point, they're totally committed to the role

any time people can see them. So you know, I'm trying to avoid that on those sailings. You know, I'm trying to make sure we constantly market intellect and intellect only you know what I mean. It doesn't mean we're marketing education, or it doesn't mean we're marketing emotions, but the ability to really listen to each other and listen to what we're talking about as far as the topic, and then you know, respond to those things. We don't

have a ton of emotional conversations. And even when we're talking about some of the most buzzworded you know topics the race, you know, racism, we don't rely on our mosts. We decide to use intellect and right and real dedication to exploring said topic. And it comes off that way because you know the difference, It comes off that way when y'all had them conversations. Man, it's it's it's it's definitely for a mature audience.

Speaker 2

Now I agree we should we should do a segment called Empirical Off Imperial.

Speaker 1

Why should we do that segment?

Speaker 2

We'll just we'll just talk about like a controversial topic that people get wound up about, but will just be as empirical and non emotional about it as possible in pursuit of the truth.

Speaker 1

I'd be down with that. I'll be down Empirical.

Speaker 2

Off Imperial because you're off Imperial.

Speaker 1

You know, definitely off Imperial. So they're gonna want us to go down for a couple episodes. But I don't want to go down because I feel we got way behind. Remember when my leg was healing at the beginning of twenty twenty three, So I feel like we're getting so much momentum. People shout out to bowls or or boys. I don't know how you pronounce his name, but he's

a guy on Twitter that always supports no ceilings. It's so many different dudes, you know, Mark, different people who I talk to who are really fellowship with on Instagram that I know are vested in his podcast. So I really want to know what everybody wants from us, and then Pete, I want us to really push the envelope this season, Like I don't want us to get caught

up in any comfortable places. No, for real, Like I don't want to be comfortable, Like I want to push to see how far we can explore places that everybody else scared to explore. Because it ain't no motherfucking roof on the conversation, it ain't no, you know, we're gonna really get into.

Speaker 4

It right right, shout out Tommie g Rod too. He'd be tapping in too, he'd be letting me know, bro, I appreciate that.

Speaker 1

Man. I know we don't talk, and and and this kind of has been you know, my support. You know, this has been the story of people that support me my whole career. It's not you know, people ain't over the top with that. But I know they fuck with me. I know it because when I had a conversation with them and I come across, I can see what it means to people. Yeah sure, yeah, this ain't No, this ain't this is this is this, This is not a place goofies don't sit here. No, no, that is not

what that is yet you don't be thinking. If your ads don't want to read, this is probably not the place. This is not like you don't want to go do no research on these conversations. Shock value. We don't support. Yeah, I'm knocking none of that ship. You know, we just do it just you get here.

Speaker 4

We might have some fun and you know you're gonna get some jokes and but he's serious.

Speaker 1

But he'd be serious. It don't even be like like, I'm not trying to be funny. So this is what I'm thinking, Pete. So, because this is the last episode of the season, and I think they're gonna make us take three weeks off, three weeks or four weeks off, I think we should take one day and do a three or four part series. You could do it with us, Joey, like you know what I mean, Like where we discussed something special, we really peel back some shit and break

it up into three or four episode. So while we're off and figuring out what we're gonna do for the new season special. You know, people that support no Ceilings still have content. They don't got to go listen to No Bullshit A's podcast. You know, if they don't want to and.

Speaker 2

I'll be out on the West coast end of March, start of April, so we can do a season jump off thing and stuff that'll happen. And I think we got three weeks, really chink, no w. I think we got three weeks, and we need to really really dedicate it to tinkering with and workshopping, really dialing in the visual component that has to happen.

Speaker 1

We have to get that acount so much figured out. Also, so you'll be here at the end of March and April. Don't forget, we come to Atlanta. We got to meet in Atlanta, you know, in the me in April's for the little convention. They ain't really announced it, but the convention like late April. I think it's like April twenty six, twenty seven, okay, and then I'll be in Georgia from the nineteenth till probably the twenty seven.

Speaker 2

Quick question totally unrelated. It seems like there's a lot of value in you being in Atlanta. Sure, I got a lease up, and I was thinking I've never really spent any time, like any time time there, but it it might be easy for me. I kind of wanted to go.

Speaker 1

To it.

Speaker 2

Let's stay for a month in Atlanta in the month of July when it's warm, because I don't want to be there when it's cold but Hotlanta in July. I could I might just do the whole damn month of July if there's need value to being over there doing stuff.

Speaker 1

If you if you want to get around, you want to do something right now, I'm planning Australia for the album. I'm planning England for the album, and I'm planning to be paying for the album. So you know, we really push it, you know what I mean, we could do

some shit. I just feel like, like I think No Ceilings is at a really dope place to where we're almost dialed in, but we just need to have a couple more conversations without the podcast on and say, Okay, this is what it's going to be like, and then you scope it and then you just keep hitting the bulls over and over again. Sure that makes sense, all right, So thank you for the other season of No Ceilings. This is season three, and thank y'all for supporting us

for over roughly two hundred episodes. Because we did, we gave so many excell ones. You know, we're not gonna We're gonna we we we may not be recording live, but we're not gonna take no off weeks. We're gonna develop something that's gonna give y'all three or four weeks of time just to enjoy why we figuring out how

we're gonna come back for season four. Make sure y'all tell anybody you know, you know what I mean, anybody you know that fuck with podcasts, or anybody you know that even got a half of a brain that you know that wants to hear intelligent conversation but still be raw and transparent, you know what I mean, not you know, trying to present it in this kind of richy way y'all telling them to check out No Seilings, you know what I mean, and it's like that good looking out.

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Speaker 2

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