Conversations About Social Media Pt.2

a guy take the punto your mouth. You got your mouth phone for we're not going to do what it's standing right next to me, do it. Yeah, But that's the problem. So so no, they're not. That's because y'all lie to them. They're not a competition. Y'all lie so goddamn much. Y'all act like, first off, publicly, your back the l g B t Q movement. Privately, y'all really don't funk with it because you would be mad if yo nigga was gay, your nigga was by that wouldn't

be acceptable. So y'are really a fraud. Why we got to be fraud because because this is the truth. The truth is y'all are frauds. Y'all live your life fraudulently. Base That's why social media is the most successful place for women. I think social media is very I mean, it's not just women, just women. It's not men too. That's not there's gay couples right now. They're doing any things. They are men, both men and they Why do you

do that? Every time we're gonna talk, were gonna talk about a hundred people, you gonna have one person, it doesn't matter. You're saying that it's just us and it's not. No, you're missing the point when you do that. It is disingenuous and it's really ridiculous. Oh my god, should we go to the big words? Okay, this is not a big word. It's disingenuous meaning you're not being honest. I am being no. You're just trying to find one thing

to change the narrative instead of really focusing. That's like saying megas, focus, stop doing the one. Don't find a cranny, don't find a nicker cranny. Hoo that that guy, because that's where you're in the find man place. Yeah, what about you? That's what's the boy that got the ads and ship the boy that got the abs. Oh yes, he got the plans and if we didn't got the abs and did the whole bad Man bad Man the first. But you know the problem, it's not cool. We know

it's not. No, it's not but but but that's why y'all don't respect it. So don't try to act like that's culturally something we're down with. That's culturally y'all thing. Y'all don't speak against b bls. If my partner got if my partner win got a b A, you think we cool. Do you think if bad Man care was my partner, we'll be cool? Man, I'll be looking at that nigga crazy. It is crazy. But I mean one of my homies, one of my homies, win't got lightbot

nigg I don't. I ain't talk to that sense. Why not? He probably couldn't get rid of that fat you know what I'm saying. Then he's gonna go work out. He ain't gotta go around saying that he got lifeboat though. So you're saying that classic say is strictly for women. It shouldn't be for nobody, but for sure it will be for y'all because y'all vain No for sure, y'all VALI so with a man. Yeah, because they are getting

classic surgery and everything. I was just about to say, they're doing them cut your fucking hall hair thing that cuts your fucking hair. Man hitting calves and cut your fucking hair. They're getting bends. Don't think it's cool. Glasses, don't think it's cool. Put in there. Know how the funk would I do any of that? I used to cut my hair into my twenties, my whole twenties, damn there. Half my thirties, I cut all my hair off. The fund does hair mean people are going to you? You bless?

You got a get hair line? Bit's what the fund is hair gonna do for me? Because people don't want they don't want to go ball. That's because they're fucking immature and siling. The fund? Does hair mean the fund is hair? The fuck the Fund's hair gonna do for me? You know know what it is is it caters to an insecurity that hair they need that they don't. That's all it really big insecurity even here line, you're here, lone, go to the front bits cut your hair and then

it's gonna be shiny? What's wrong with that bitch? Just like ball hair's too not on everybody, on everybody at first off, there's nobody that ain't gonna get no puss. Everybody can't do a ball, you know it, every last person. Michael Jordan did a ball here through his twenties and became a cultural global icon. Stop doing that. It's Michael Jordan. Don't even that's totally different. Everybody do not have some as we haven't done some. This is what's wrong with

this is what's wrong with nia? What are you talking about with niggas? Man? Y'all? What's wrong with niggas? And then social media makes it worse because they see y'all lying so goddamn much. Y'all get on there with these ridiculous poses to look like you got asked and ain't no ask You got to know how to do that ship and you gotta straight now the angles are real. Why would you want to lie to something you don't have me? I mean, it's just like I guess I

don't know, So you don't care that it's lying. Nothing about you cares that it's authentic or real. You just like as long as I could make it look like that you don't even care. I mean again, like okay, all right, why would you suck your some of you? It's wrong, it's picture. Why why would you? Why not just be yourself? You're not you're trying to be so then something gets you when you're fat and he looked stupid. Oh when that happens, you know. So, so y'all cool

with nigga. So y'all, so y'all cool with nigger and their pictures and they're looking different, So y'all cool with nigga's lines. So nigga's written cards, written houses, act like it's there. That's cool too, but you like, so you're good with that. That the weekend? Yeah, but the turo? What if it's your nigga though, bam bar barb what is your nigga? Bark? What is it your nigga park? What is it if it's your nigga? What if it's

the nigga? You think this your nigga and y'all living in this rented house and he's like, well, I was written it. I didn't know, And now you're like, wait a minute, you don't go to where to go? And he you don't have nowhere to go, you know, why to stop line, get out the fucking habit of being a fucking liar. But at this point, at this point, yeah, you've been with them for a while. You so you're cool with Nigga line to get you because it was a lot of whole time to get you. And I've

been bamboos. That's cool, feel good. So then why the funk would you bamboo for somebody? With that ship? You is your lastinate that longe. You look like a cancer pation probably whatever. No, I don't actually got eyelashes. Long you keep wearing the ships. If you're not, you keep wearing the apply and the women. You got to know how to lie. If you know how to lie to be fine. I lost all my eyelashes, so that was

horrible because I never wore them. And then I was like, oh, your lashes look so pretty, and I started wearing them, and yeah, I don't have any why. I just feel like, what's wrong with you? I think the lashes. I'm like, oh, I feel like they don't. But that's a whole another story. Because what you said, I bet you look like a cancer patient. That's because you sucked your eyelashes off. Adding them, everybody will set that you said it didn't make it.

Tommy was talking to me about Sweetie Project. It's not about do it look good that it don't matter if it looks good, that's your problem. It ain't everything just because it looks good. It looks it's not the cornerstone everything, Like when do you have debt to your thought? I'm telling you that I don't want to walk around with no eyelashes, so that's why I put them on because I like the way it look Then why did you put them on the first time because I like the

way it looks. Before you want to tell my daughter, I say, don't do it. Your lashes are beautiful the where they are. Now, I'm in a situation where it's like, fuck, I don't have no lashes. So yes, I get it, But now where I'm at right now, yeah, I could walk around like cancer patient, but I don't want to look like I want to wear my lashes. Sometimes I wear them sometimes, but don't do it in the beginning. You're absolutely shouldn't wear them at all. Sometimes maybe they

don't have that grow. Why when when did this lion thing become a thing? Was talking about social media but why, but why are you on the eye lashes? He always want to go to because it's not it's not the eye last. The eyelashes come up because they're the immediate first. Lie, y'all start telling. But this is what I'm said exactly. That's my last ship. Yeah, that's Sweetie, drop the project right, Sweetie came out with album. Sweetie came out with album right,

and Sweetie came out with album Now. Album did two thousand copies first week. Shout out to Sweedie, Shout out to the project that cover that covers fire. I know what you got, um, but they was my nigga was asking me. He was like, gee, do you think it's um? You know, do you think a lot of the numbers is fluff like her Instagram? And I'm like, sure, it's some promotion, but that's not what's wrong. He's like, well,

why she only did two thousand. I'm like, because when you followed somebody on social media, you already did the work. If you got a fat ask and I like your picture, that's it. I'm not buying your fucking apron because you got a fat ass. And there's a confusion that's going on, right, And Sweetie did two thousand. That's not horrible. She didn't have nothing really current right now on the radio. She

wasn't really killing with a single. But I think people feel like because her reach was bigger, And I'm like, well, most people don't fu Sweete because she rapped. She just happened to wrap. She just happens to wrap. She just happens to have some good jams, right, But you don't really But but but but the majority of person because I like the icy life. Yeah, but I don't think she's even a good personality. I don't know nothing about um um episodes on a reality show on YouTube that's

watched it in a season. But y'all also watched Kim Kardashian. Y'all, y'all don't actually have forgive me for Sammy. You have horrible tastes and human beings y'all have, y'all like, no, for real. We talked about this before where y'all will follow somebody because they fucking somebody that's just the dumbest ship in the world. And that's how y'all follow them all. They fucking this nigger. So this has become a celebrity. That's how y'all created, y'all creating all y'all celebrities on

social media with women. No, seriously, it's honestly, we're just being nosy. We want to see what the fun is going on and what then it's just what it really is. We're being nosy. We want to see what's going on. We in doing so, Yeah, we are. We are bringing like look at Chris Sean. That's all. Look, I loved it, but that's I didn't get to watch it, but I heard about it, and from what I heard, like it was he looked embarrassed for her, like he really was,

Like damn, but why But this is my point. It got to that, why the fuck do we so again? Because I like her as a person, but she's not really talented. She don't really have no personality. She's a really she's a person with a lot of trauma that don't know how to articulate it into art. That's why we start following people in hip hop, because they have a trauma and they articulated into art. She doesn't have that.

She really is just somebody that's going through a lot right in front of us, and somehow you find it in her fucking taming. She's going through a lot, she's she's entertaining any more, And be honest with you, it's quite sad. And it really like bothers me because I just see and I'm like, damn, like, who's there to really you know, tell her like dude, like chill, like

this ain't a good look. Like I just feel like there's no one in her corner like making her like see like and I know it's for entertainment them, it's like she's sinking and no one's like but it was crazy that when I heard the blue Face had caught the case that I thought it was getting her Like that was crazy that even thought that. But that's where I'm like, it's too much. No sellers, Gail Ray, what's happening? Um? But but back to the sweetie thing. So, is she's

selling burgers, you just go buy a burger. If she has a picture with a fat ass on Internet, you actually just like the picture. If she is doing this, that's it. But that ship don't convert into music. Like, So social media is a skill in itself. Being good at social media is a skill in itself. Right, So somebody like her is like sweetie is really good she's

a she's a she's a pretty young lady. She wouldn't got the little surgeries got lit stuff on her for me, So so she is she attracted, right, and she walked out. But it's like, if you like the picture, I don't care. You make records what I'm saying. And if in her records that she do have that are hit records, because she got some really good records. They're not personal. Anybody could have made Tapping, anybody could have made um the first song, Uh no, no, not I see I see

as a late bloomer. That's her first song, but it's not the one that popped off. The second one popped off right before tapping. Uh my type. So like, that's a song that anybody can make. There's no personality in the song. These are really and forgive me if you listen, and I'm not dissing you, queen, I'm just trying to put you up on signature, right versus a glow really where you hear something and you're like, who the fund is that it's not just the tone of her voice,

it's everything about her stuff becomes signature, her style. And that's the thing about hip hop and when I was just talking to bis. Even through social media, you have to figure out how to make your ship signature. And I think social media takes a lot of the quality away from things like so now you have so somebody could have a huge social following. You're like, you know, well, she she should do better. I'm like, why should she

do better? Why? Like they're gonna like her next picture she bent over, she walked up to the dodging mound and her ass out. Nigga, she gonna get two hundred thousand likes. That's how nigga's like her ship. That's what niggas support. So it's it's a it's a weird place. And again sometimes I feel like y'all feel like I

give y'all stick, but it really is. It is so especially Instagram is y'all ship because women like literally don't have to have no talent and just look a certain way and niggas is following them, and then they'll start trying to sell ship to people that's following them. They do. That's what it is, but that it's not really But that's what I'm trying to show. The point I'm proving to you is it's not what you think it is like even the numbers that they saying, you think these

people selling means a dollar war product. They're full of ship. Yeah, I kinda feel that. I think some people are. They are selling um, but a lot of these numbers, especially because you just know from just the Instagram numbers and then when it transfers like you don't match up and it's like it just doesn't match and Sweetie ship is

matching up. But you also that's what it is. That don't mean that she put out music and niggas fun with it, but that's also what I'm saying, Like now, Sweetie, Sweetie should probably sell something that caters to her strengths as whatever people think of her. That's like me, what I realized as a brand was I had to make a certain type of gangster rap and had to fit

my polarizing as thoughts um, that's how people think. People think without Like if we talk right now and I'm telling Bars, he like, man, this nigga hard as a rapper, and I'm like that nigga not hard like because because we're so used it, but no, but also because culturally we're so used to we we talked about this and it's social media's fault that we start using street turns, in turn and ways they don't fit to accomplish something

I got was saying to you. Social media is the reason nigga who like I'm looking at nigga like, oh they're nigga too, cares kids, that's gangster. No, that's not that's nothing to do with me. Can make your life whatever you wanted to be. It's a highlight reel. It's ESPN. It's not the actual game. We need to drill with the ball. It's the slam dump making you did you had, you went one for thirteen, but you got that three

citty dumb. I liked it when it was more organic, like when social media, especially like when Instagram, when like Black Planet, Hey my space was actually my space was actually done, Yeah, website. I don't even funk with my Space because Tita Tahila got popular, so I knew that was a bullshit. Oh yeah, when people when people, when people with no talent could get popular, like Black Planet.

That was the one I like because Black Planet you really got niggas in the regular as closest to regular stage. By the time we got the Instagram, niggas had mastered to fake. Yeah, that was real. Now we had Snapchat that ship is the super forty two fake and Instagram. Know what I'm saying, I mean uh TikTok or something. So all I'm saying is that's the problem on This is an extension of the same vanity that we've been talking about. All this stuff is just an extension of that.

This kind of lazy thing of not want to take care of your hair so I'm put somebody else hare in my head. It's all the same extension. You could literally give people. It sounds like crazy, but just listen. You can give people highlights. Your hair ain't gotta be done at all. But if you post a picture and you do that picture right, your hair is done. Everybody very true, and you or just put on they put that makeup on, you ain't gonna make it on, Like I don't. I don't get that, bar I don't get

that because I don't get that. How do you live with yourself? How you be a fraud? So fucking out loud and and and it's what's crazy, It's like, that's my point. They need to go to a sense and you right now are going to a sense of defense instead of thinking and stuff like, damn, it is kind of frauds and you're like, well, it's the fraud that we all used to. That's like if a white person walking around call you a nigger, it was like, what's

the racism we all used to that. It's not cool. Listen, Look now it's like now I'm forcing you to think. So it's like, now I got just going through a defense four days. Oh really, why would you encourage her? Don't let you get into your Why not just take care of your skin? Take care of you can take care of you can't listen. Just like you're talking about here and stuff, there's people that need to have that for a reason. They could be having alopecia. Yes it is.

You don't need hair bro so you want her to just go bald. But if she didn't, it's people fucking ball bitches every day. There's okay, there's people with people that's having kids with ball bitches. There's people that's loving ball bitches. So the only time you're trippings the only just listen. The only reason you're tripping off not being bald is because you're looking at what somebody else got. Yes, you know you love your that's like if they lose

their breasts, it's a part of them. Their hair is a part of them. It's not the same a breastfeeds children. It hasn't has a possible purpose them know it's some part of them. His hair is a part of them. How is it a part of them? If they're not going it? Why they don't have no more? What it's not that? If if they have no more? Do you understand what I'm saying appreciating cancer patient I'm talking about there's people that need to that use that because they don't.

They didn't like that. So why do you always go to the one percent of conversations don't matter? Why do you always go to all the bullshit? So we're talking about all the regular people who don't have cancer, and you're gonna name the one person with cans don't do that? Why not? Because that's because you don't got fucking cancer. Because you don't have cancer. See that, you don't fucking got cancer. That's why are you but the cancer patients you don't got cancer, don't, so stop doing what cancer

patients have to do. You don't have to. That's my point with social media, everything about it is And then y'all encourage women to do that, but encourage women to be do you understand listen what it does. It encourages people to be unhappy with themselves. And you don't think it does. You're not thinking that deep. By the time you look up. You didn't like the whole social media wave is convincing people to not be happy what they

like that part. But it's not just one part. So you agree with the part that you don't fall responsible for the parts that you do. It is because I'm telling you right now, if you're getting happy to wearing makeup and wigs, you are convincing yourself to social media. It's not what you're talking about. It was bad then, it don't matter they and it's not and it wasn't a culture. It's a culture now. It's a culture now. So if you're like a girl gonna for what, why

why not just be happy with what it is? But but you know what, though like um my daughter she's nineteen, A lot of her friends like they don't and her like they don't worry about wearing makeup all the time. I know they don't, you know, things like that, Like they're okay with that. They're like this is how I am like, if you don't like it, you know, But and they're really about their studies and just really like, okay, we don't care about have the people that I look

at they don't know nothing about. They're like, who who is that? I'm like, Oh, I'm not how could I be showing them? But that's my point. That's because that's because people. But that's because people are in a fucked up place that somebody would say that to her. Yeah, think about this ship. I'm telling you, y'all, don't look at the long term implications, the long term implications of a culture that we created at this point. But I mean, no, I feel like, I mean, you know, shout out to steal.

He said, make sure y'all have y'all hair. Then I don't want talking about talking about hair, right, you know what I'm saying. So I meanwhile, he's walking around with the ballhead a mother. That's what it is. But that's what it is. It's not how it is. You can't just you just can't be worried about being talked about. That's your problem. That's your number two problems. Worried about

being talked about. Everybody niggas is talking about sweetie, this motherfucking little bit making all converter, Yo, broke ass broken you talked about So it's her fault. Is she worried about what they're saying? She is, trust me because if she concerned, she concerned. It was an interview that happened. It was an interview that happened on No Jumper where this little dude called this grown man a bit. I was like, but see, this is the this is a

part of another culture that we've been too. This. Oh I should be to say what I want to say if nobody you know, as long as I'll put my hands on you. And that's another thing. And it's this life of social for media that they create. It. It's real in social media when you send them, they're just

talking ship, but you know you're behind. I mean no, I mean that's just like he was saying, he got bitches, oh you know, but he he got bitches in the social media world, and so they you know, he like, you're not really out here doing that, but but they are doing it. Though I'm not. I'm not going to disagree on what type on his pimping, Like that's not

what I don't I don't know. I'm just saying social media creates the space to where we don't know how to talk to people like we're so But this, this is all in the same space, right, This isn't that same space to where makeup creates where you don't have to take care of your skin correctly. We create where you don't have to take care of your hair correctly. All these things create bbs create where you don't have to really remember. Remember, this ship is about being healthy living.

It ain't about a look like we just cater to the the short sighted thing because of all the ship were getting right to it, like you know, you're hungry, so let me just eat McDonald's. Yeah. So what I'm saying is based off this whole thing. That's why all this ship is happening. This nigga really thought he could call a grown man a bit and it went too far. When the nigga called him a clown. That's the thing

becaus called the little dude of clown. He should immediately say, hey, hold up, bro, like I'm not no clown, but instead him thinking like, well, I'm gonna match your intensity, like he ain't going for it the same way. But this is the space we live in, though, bis motherfucker's it's crazy and we're so loose with all of these ideas because we're so desperate to have some social currency. Because we funk with something, We funk with something, that's what it is. We want to be able to say we

funk with something. What we funk with is the ship that don't mean you. Sometimes it could just be your ship. There's a lot of rappers niggas tell me it's hard. I'm mean that nigga is regular, but that's your ship. You don't gotta make your ship that ship, nigga. I don't give a funk who else listen to scar Face nigga. Scar Face is my ship. I don't need no social currency to listen to Rick James right now, I'm not

posting about it. I'm not telling y'a because I'm not looking for you motherfucker's approval on what I listened to. And that's the problem I'm saying with the whole thing. You're right every time we had these conversations because they go to make up ship like that, because it's the same insecurity route of not dealing with who you are. Social media like social media is in a weird space.

I watch people say ship to me, Britt, you haven't been around me in some really crazy rooms, it's niggas who really probably is super really on some ship and they're not gonna talk to me like that because they're thinking themselves like I don't really want to squabble with this nigga or this nigga on some ship. But it's a nigga some geek in some weird place that think he could call me a bit. And I'm the type of nigga on Olivia like, I'm going to look at

your picture. I'm gonna blow it up and see who your friends is, because if it's anybody, I'm getting to you, I'm gonna teach you that lesson right off the rip, right, I'm gonna come see you. I don't see about that, but yeah, like you said, twitterings be like they just talk like they know that or they feel that they're never going to run into you or whatever, so they feel like they can say whatever. They they do run into you, it's like, oh, I'm just trying exactly slap you.

And I saw a brother, it was a brother today on the internet and it was like she won't even know, white lady, she was something else and she was calling him nigger. He was like, yeah, yeah, I'm gonna put your internet and you're racist in front of everybody. You know what, did you call me again to make her say nigger again? I'm like, you don't let this bitch call you a nigger three times talking about you recorded that in the circle. Yeah, that's that's lost. I'm not

gonna slap your head off. That's I never get to It's like as soon as you see something happening, then they just pick up the phone and everybody's filming it. But there's like you don't see anyone like really taking action. It's just like socially and time, you gotta come a little closer, man, come closer, Come closer, you're gonna say something. I mean, I ain't gonna act you jump up all

the time, but you're saying some real Ship. We grew up in the coach where the streets taught you how to not talk to somebody, how to talk to him exactly like ship, I got my head knocked off. Oh shoot, I've seen him get down days. You're learning how to socialize with people through the Internet, which means you're not learning how to socialize because what you might have said to him face to face. You you're not gonna stay on the internet if you don't know that. Some people

is really cut from that. How you talk to me, how you address today fast? And I never let it go? Me and j you me and how many ja you and Manny a boy. Manny was talking today right and we were talking about like them niggas having children and like growing up. And they was like, we're having a conversation and they was like, yeah, you know this nigga said something to me, but I let it go because I'm grown. I'm like, I don't even how grown I am.

If you say the wrong thing to me, I'm gonna give you a liva boot your moment feel me, I said, I don't given because some people feel like if I'm with my kids. Still told me this one day. He was like, well, if I'm with my kids and the nigga called me a nigger and bitch as niggas I'm with my kids, I'm gonna just keep walking. Man. We FeelA fun us up. I'm not gonna miss this teachable

moment for this man. I'm gonna change his life. So he never thinked this cool, you know, would come with this every time, and if he didn't, if he learned the first time, he needs to be reminded. And it's crazy because I tell my dude, like, if I'd be like, okay, just chill, like, you know, calm them so, you know, because he if somebody called Joe nigga nigger and you just talk about some be cool. No no, no, I ain't gonna say be cool, but it'd be it be.

It's been in a situation where it's like okay, damn, like this this kid get heated, but you know he did the right thing or whatever, and it's like, okay, yeah, because we do have the baby, So I ain't nothing worse than your kids seeing you get marked out, you know. So yeah yeah, And see I'm a hot head too. And I'm not saying the right solution is. I'm not saying that right solution is always to kick ass, right, but I'm also saying being grown at being a bitch

as nigga. If if people are trying to disrespect you, to allow them to stand up, eventually, you have to stand up. Now, it depends on where they want to proceed. You can give them everything they want, but you have to stand up to people. But social media conditions people to really think they could go out and just say crazy ship anything, son, turn up, roll up on some real quick. I don't get it. Yeah, you gotta let them know sometimes, but but yeah, we this is a

society now where you don't have to socialize. And then with COVID that really just shut everything down. So it's like people and then with an oh, yeah they don't want to come, like you don't know how to enter and whatever. Dude, do I give him a pound? Do I give him a hug? Like you know a video game? You're sitting there at home, you socializing, hanging out with your boys. You you in the same room with people, you on the phone? You not socializing? Said, I talked

to my friends all the time. Like what yeah, on the computer. I go in there. He got everybody on the computer on they on their little head sets and they all talking to all in the different room whatever, And I'm like, what the hell? And what's crazy to me is I've said this to y'all before, but convenience is the killer of quality, right, So, like, um, I watched younger people like I got younger people around me. That's eighteen nineteen twenty. And I look at how they

talk when they play in the game. Like when I used to play the video game when I was younger, it was just ninteno you played the computer, or if somebody can't your house, it's two controllers. But now nigg is really meet up and they'll make friends, don't think so. I do enjoy that it gives the idea of it's fantastic. It should give more of a connectible base to human beings to connect. But what happened is we don't follow

through with the connection. Like the microwave oven is not a horrible idea, social media is not a horrible idea. It's our It's are not even the usage. It's our desire to to cheapen or to to to speed up the experience. I would believe now with social media, women have never in their life been asked the funk as much as they have now. What I'm saying like more accessible too. Though. Think about it, y'all, when we go out, niggas don't got to ask you for that number, your number,

if you tag where you were, hashtag or whatever. Let them be finding they find media volumes like what's up? Like what what's going on? And then they talked to you and then they're mad when you don't up to say like you owe them something like I don't have to meet you, I don't have to talk to you. I don't have to But that's because y'all really did. That's the problem with social media. It gives you the

mistake of how life is. So nigga could be doing this and that right and you like he like, I'll be talking to you like this is different right right now. See that's my point. I bet you you bar couldn't have more motherfucking niggas like what's up? Can I get to put? Like niggas don't even like nigga skip getting past or they will get at you like they got six Instagram wife, I'll be like check it Instagram wife, Instagram. So think about it right now, and nigga like it

went from the phone's right. The phone was a necessary thing. But as we create more passage ways to talk to somebody, a nigga might just see you a dick pick and the scary party is and the scary party is. That ship had to work because if if, if niggas was just in the Dick Picks round and it never worked out. But I had to work for a lot of people for sure, exactly exactly, Yeah, I see what I'm saying. So so, I mean, it's nice when it comes from

you know, the right person. Man, don't know that. It's never nice when the random penis is and you opened that ship and you're like, what the funk that you like, Hey, it's sounds nasty, somebody like disappointed if it's a nick. I'm kind of feeling I'm like, this is a nice apprise, right, Well, yeah, because but that, but that, But so Barb just said, y'all not hear that she's backing away from the mic, but she's said, I do genuinely think that it makes

relationships hard. No, I agree with that. You gotta understand, comparison is the thief of gratitude. Comparison Comparison destroys gratitude. You start compared ships and then you only comparing it to the highlights of a nigger life. Social media didn't do that right and then got all the rows what you're doing for me today? And they didn't lie like and got thirteen business pregnant. This is a whole makeup ship got thirteen pregnant? Was the jail all that answer?

Hey man on everything, that's like if you don't post, I didn't get a chance to post my my like, oh whoa my Valentine's statement, my Valentine's No, my Valentine's didn't went to jail. Remember this? Wait, yes, you want but but but our genuinely, but I genuinely am concerned because I think women's issue is they're okay with personal embarrassment, but they're not okay with public embarrassment. Like it takes them a long time. That's why some niggas who like

punch out their old ladies. It lasts so long because they treat them cool in public and then probably be fucking them up. But maybe girl, I don't know why you leave him. And then so once a girl like once the lady get beat up like ten for ten years, and she'd be like, I don't think you don't know what? Well, we won't say anything, like honestly, like most of the time, women, we know we're not really gonna tell our friends every

single thing. When when a when a woman starts telling their friends everything that happened, y'all know that they have to tell him their ship. They almost they done because now they don't give a funk about the friends or what how they feel, because you know your friends gonna be like then they can leave him, or they'll or whatever it could be, any kind of advice and they don't want to hear it. Some some girls is definitely at the end, they're tired. They leave me because they're

mad that everybody else knows and that. But that's what I'm saying. But when we get the information, we're gonna have it before. So once we get it now it's like a push more like, oh now everybody's pushing me. Now I got help to get out of this ship before we still by ourselves. Like now we're just in here dealing with this ship and we don't have anyone in the circle in the in the everybody knows that oh you black. Yeah, it's different, I see you said,

so Barb. So Barb said, it's different when you somebody beat your ass and don't nobody knows you got yours. Now you gotta walk around with a shiner black. But but that's women Women's worst ship is embarrassment. Women's women's number one most hated emotion because it is embarrassment. They don't A woman does not want to be embarrassed. Bro, that's her. Great, it's fucking fear. You don't think guys. I thought guys would do you like that too? No? No,

it's women changed. Women now like the show because Internet has made them like the show of being You gotta you come say right here if you don't keep talking, yeah, yeah, yeah, because you you're gonna talk about Barb actually works on the show, so she overre talking shop. You got a lot to say, nig, you've got to get closer any people like who is this? They just here? It's like God screaming down at him and you motherfucker's get your like this guy right here in the background. No, bar so,

no listen. What I'm saying is but but social media festers that more because if you make your life look fantastic, you have people encouraging you to stay, to stay the girl you got it good? Or why why would you leave? Like you stupid? And like I said, she ain't saying. She's not saying, well, well he's slapping me or calling bitches at home. That's what y'all don't know. But she's not gonna say that right away. It's just like a girl that got a baby. Daddn't know he keeps having

kids and he with her. We all know it, but it's not you know, her baby daddy ain't ship. But when the kids start popping out, now you're mad because everybody in the hood, no, he ain't ship. It was okay when you knew he wasn't ship. Now when everybody else. That's what I respect about the most school niggas before social media. What I respect about the most nigga folks social media. You didn't know they had kids to the funeral. They just showed him to the kids. I don't think

that nigga is the right particular nigga. I'm just saying I respect that more than your old lady finding out on the streets you got babies and she I mean nigga. Them women back then just didn't say nothing. He didn't say nothing, and then when he died, he was like, why this nigga? Like my guy? Right, That's what it was. I mean, it was more of a protect for you to be embarrassed. That's the thing like before social media,

people protected you from being embarrassed. One thing like the more as I started dating, and then I got with somebody and all this crazy shit. When I cared about when I cared about her being embarrassed, bears, I knew I was serious because before that, you don't care what she thinks. I'm doing my thing. You embarrassed me. It wasn't about you. But now you think about protecting somebody from being embarrassed, and that it has somebody having one up on me. Yeah, that's how I feel about it.

I'm not doing one else. If you like, oh I men sleep with the girls, I'm this is her fault. I ain't saying nothing, and I'm killing you if you sleep with minds not not now. If you don't know I exist, fine, I I mean, if I caught you, it's different. But I'm not gonna look for you if you didn't know exist. But if you knew I exist, if you've seen a picture and me and she'd been talking to you about me and you slap with my bitch,

I'm gonna clap you. But that goes back to social media right where now complete it is hard for relationships because there's access to add anything. She going naked, she got this on her story and then you can see a man or a woman in their relationship on their social media, but women don't. People don't care about that no more. It's just the same thing. And it's just like people woul jumping people in box, like, hey, how was that wedding? Right? So it's not no respect levels

no more. Where you waited untill nig was in the club, and if he was cheating on this bitch and that's what he wanted to do, you funk with it. But nowadays you don't matter if people. People ain't gotta wait to they walk off their door to cheat. No more. On your phone, she said, what I'm doing today because I ain't gonna lie. Homies do that? Homies do that? Just be weird. Now maybe in your inbox you'd be having a block on know what blow me or what?

Like what sucked me up? Blow me off? Motherfucker. Ship is when people be tweeting about their relationship and it's niggas who like I'll see social media completely different. I'm not about to be following no bunch of bitches. I'm not feeling confused my little mind. I got y'all know, my mind strong as a motherfucker. I'm not following no bitches like not no bitches that unless we're doing some kind of business. I'm not following no bits because they

look good. I'm talking about the negat any bit pass. He's only a man. You're seeing all these bitches? You mean? Tell me know all these bitches. Some of my homies the way they do, what they marry this ship like one of my homies like, well you that's why I just she don't care. I'm like, yes, she care, Yes, she care. What you say? If yo, Nigga, like if y'are nigga na just liking bitches pictures. You can't start thinking that. That's what he's not like like not knowing.

Nigga's like everything hard eye. Oh no that is no nig you ain't hard eyeing that end what And I'm like you, I watched this hold up Brita, Yo, Nigga, follow somebody. You can follow whevery there you want to. I better not see no hard on you though. If you like it. What if you go to a page he liked the picture. There's things you can look. It's a look and then there's looking like you need to. What if you go there and the first thing you see is his like I'll be like, for real, nigga,

youa today, sweetheart? Now you're making conversation? Are you? This is my thing? You know it's gotta be some type of etiquete. Bro, You can't feeling that women are petty for doing that, doing what tripping off out of me interact. That's what they're tricking me, trying. They know they're tripping. They know they're tripping. Don't let these niggas like because niggas be like, well if nobody will be, they lie. Niggas.

Anybody on your homie page talking about right say no, yeah you go, but does it but doesn't make it different, But doesn't make it different because they don't know the person. Same for us women. We don't get you know or not you what if you don't know? What if it's somebody like what if your nigga is under Rihanna's picture, Yeah that's okay, Well I like but he like hard eyed Rihanna's pictures if he get a bringer to activity

ligether I say that hard eye. So if your nigga, if your husband heart eyed Rihanna, you're not tripping every picture. He can't be doing he can't not every I'm gonna be all on Chris Brown ship bamp up, being hard, eye hearty. We're gonna we're gonna do it like okay, like this is what we're doing. That's what if your guy like he like Beyonce hard, I bet I'm not gonna be bothered. You know what I'm saying, all him emojis on heart picture to talk too much time. Yeah,

that's what I'm saying. From the motorcycle click, that's a problem. So does that? Does that come from when you start comparing yourself? You know what I'm saying, Think about that. Now, tell the truth? Is it? Because at that point he's like, well, I can understand you. Listen, let me tell you something. Keep it, keep it? Would you would you break up with him if like Beyonce game Pussy he had you looked at his phone it was him and Beyonce, Beyonce, he had the phone up. Oh my god, I'd be

like maybe question. I think Daddy was being a bodyguard for Beyonce and Kelly Brother, and I said you better get your dick, So think hard, indeed, think hard, indeed. I want you all to all independent. Okay. If Beyonce was on your man phone, you looked on his phone and he got beyoncet he Beyonce. He fucking Beyonce on his phone. Do y'all break up? Think about the hurt, right, because I'm sure you've seen me and cheat ones, but it's Beyonce. To be honest with you, I would understand,

and I ain't gonna lie. It's a weird space, right, it would be a weird space because like, how do you how do you ask him? Like what do you really say? Like how does that think about what you say? You better not come back broke, Like that's you fussed that about time million dollar bitch and you still brought me back the same problems we had. It better be life changing. You better have him? Great that now what

if after that? Now he's like in every photo and heart iron every photo that got a house for both of us. Okay, far Greg, okay, okay, n Yo guy, right man, yo guy. You looked through his phone and he had he had Rihanna and the low Rider on the front of it. He just whacking her. Are you looking at it's really Rihanna? Though? Think about going to that space. Close your eyes, close your eyes closed, your eyes right, close your eyes and focus you look in this nigga phone and he got Rihanna laid on the

hood of the low roder. It's Rihanna. You can see it's Rihanna and he just nailing Rihanna. What do you say when you see him when when he come out of the bathroom after you just looked in his phone. Damn you what do you I mean to be honest, no, no joke. Is your feelings hurt? They have to be heard a little right where you like, what the fuck? I love Rihanna? So I'm like, damn, like, but I'm saying, he like, he like what And You're like, you gotta really deal with do you leave him for that? Like

this was a week ago. It was a week ago. Damn it's Rihanna. It's Rihanna though, But I'm saying, but we just go to your pain of a woman like it's Rihanna. It's not the same. Don't understand. We don't get her because you lie about it. You definitely her

because we cheating. It's a combo. It's burgos, fross and a drink hard Okay, Okay, So you're nigga liking all the pictures your nigga brit likeing all the pictures and you look at this Niga phone and he Nicki Minah just giving him head And this happened two weeks ago. You're looking at the day he was like he was what you was calling him? And he didn't pick up your call. He's like, damn, ni you called me, Like

how was that work late? But you see he was at the room and Nicki Minah, she said, get the blaky. He'd been liking Nicki Mina's pictures and all this the whole time, and Nicki Minaj joh man, I'm a jealous lover. But it's Nicki Mina, Like how does that argument go? I'm not saying you shouldn't trip, I'm saying I'm not saying you shouldn't. I'm saying how far do you really? Okay? Like how would you cheat on me? Like it's Nicki Mana. I would literally I would have said why you didn't

tell me? I would have liked watched. I don't like Nikki like that, so we want to do like do her, but I at least let me watch and let me see what's going on, Like what the fuck? Like I'd be worn like it was Nicki man so you wanted him to tell you before. I wanted him to tell me, Like, I got Nikki right here, she with it cool. I'm about to come watch that. But what if he like, I'm not about to watch, you can't watch. I'm a

little different. So so if Beyonce gave you five thousand to sleep with your nigga, five thousand barbs, IM be honest with you. Ship my sisters lift with my nigga for free. So at this point I take the jack. Oh h honestly, I got this five thousand for you. She's d M in you this real Rihanna, check mark everything. I'm excuse me. I met your guy. I really like him. I think he's attractive. He ain't I g d M. It's really from her, and she like, I really want

to sleep with him. M Okay, now we talk about Rihanna and you want to offer me five thousand dollars you really liked him. No, we we're gonna negotiation. It does not to be sleeping. You can have that negotiation. Yes, and then I'll be like fuck it. I'm good. Said, do you think you could have the negotiation? Ye? Have the negotiation. Yeah, it's hot. So you wouldn't trip, No, we would. I need more money, that's not enough. What

is the number? What's the number in your DM? And really own it though, and you want to Yeah, let's do. Let's let's do you want to buy his ass? Let's do. Let's let Netflix like that. Okay, So let's okay. Now you're a jealous lover, nicky, like I want to buy this nigga for the weekend. I mean, just think about really, I know it's hard to think about it, don't because most of nigga deal with probably ain't Bible. But you say,

she just wants them. They don't want to watch. But he put the phone down so you can see it, and he wanted and she wanted bear. Oh no, she like in your DM, look girl in your DM and she wanted Bear. She want that thing raw? And he like, man, I really don't want to do it, but you know, like, man, we can use the money. Man if we need the money, babes, gonna do what you gotta do. I'm gonna watch it though, I gotta watch. What are you looking for? I just

want to see for his protection? Would you you would be the person later and be like you get all this to her. You ain't doing't know, we're gonna be like, we're gonna do this positions y'all think y'all can live with yourself after that after having them, like these situations where you guys, y'all can be with dudes that cheated, Like you know what, I don't think about it. I'm gonna tell you why it is big. It's because you won't be embarrassed if your nigga cheated with Rihanna. You're right,

you are right. You broke down so happy that they fund it like damn, well he'll be my friends. He still want you, right, I can't think about that because you be excited, Like how would you call Britt, Like, how would you call brit about it? Like Rihanna is like this this nigga camera, Well, no, she hit me up girl. She wanted to suck this nigga had to

know that asked for five thousand dollars. That wasn't gonna work, man, Like we need more money, so you know, I'll be like, I'm like, wait, a girl tried to pay me for sex on social media. It's the first time I haven't made it that Wow was enough. It wasn't the money It's just I never felt so like up damn she It wasn't the money. It was like, but I'm like, why the funk would somebody pay me to sleep with me? That was just And the girl wasn't even a bad

looking girl. But I never told nobody that kind of sucked me up. It was weird. So it was like she just was a fan and she thought my ship was just that, and she like, believe No, I didn't feel like that at first. I thought it was a lie till she just she called me because I thought it was. I was just bushing with her and she faced time and she's like, yeah, I'm serious. She's like, it don't got to be nothing serious. I just wanted one time, so I know I did it, and I

just couldn't answer back, Like I couldn't really get into it. Yeah, if bade me feel like, I didn't know how to feel like. It almost seemed like it was a joke experience. I asked. The weirdest thing that somebody ever said to me was if I sucked they dick in their car, they would give me the car. Wow, you well, you know, women and men it is different. Like I had a prostitute trying to take care of me, like like I had certified on the radio. Heater's on the radio. This mother, look,

I'm gonna just take care of you. Could do your music thing. First off, I remember feeling so like less than like as a guy, like like take care of me? What I look like? What is going on? But yeah, that actually happened. A girl offering me sex, this money to sleep with me. It made me feel It was one of the most confusing things that ever happened to me. One of the top five things. The girl sent me flowers that was up in the top five. I was confused. Girl trying to pay me for sex. Girl wanted you

for a birthday? That's actually yeah. And I thought about you on my birthday because I was out working right, and I was like, damn, what we motivated? It should be like, yeah, I I won't show dick for my birthday. But if you know, this ain't somebody I never talked to us. Oh no, no, no, no, that somebody like a sneaky link like my old sneaky link. And I you know, because this is some people through false perception through social media. So you giving yourself to somebody through

social media that you never even met. That's that's the thing. Sometimes you don't even have to give yourself to nobody. I don't even Sometimes I just look at that ship. There's a man on Facebook, and I promise you all every day he says, good morning, sweetheart, help you have an amazing day. I look at that ship and never say nothing. He does it every day. I don't give him ship. And I bet you if I've seen him out for me, he would come up to me like he knew me. You know what I'm saying. And I've

never said ship to this man ever. I don't even know if I my nigga, Pun had the coldest scheme in the world. Pun used to tell me it puns out of pocket talking with Pun told me on social media he hit all his bitches at the same time. When a mass messenger like good morning, sweetheart, and he said, by the end of the night, you know, I mean he's gonna figure out it's gonna be at least four of the five bitches he could funk with you one of them. M hmm. That was wifty dollars and see

how they could come up got that game. That's okay right there, we're just doing that right now for herself, phone Bill. Social media and changed the games. Social media has changed the game. Good looking out for tuning into the No Sellers Podcast. Please do us your favorite, subscribe, rate, comment, and share. This episode was recorded right here on the West coast of the USA and produced by my homeboy A King for the Black Effect Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Yeah.