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Conversations About Relationships

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On this episode of No Ceilings, Glass Malone have a very intense discussion about Peter Bas' apprehension about being in a relationship.

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Watch up and welcome back to another episode and no Sellers podcast with your host, now funk that with your low glasses, Malone. Burden is created by the sense of entitlement. Yes, and I did say there are certain qualities and people I don't like and then title it okay, so again, So what if you were in a relationship with the woman who has feel entitled? That's a fascinating case. Dog

my man handing dog. Nothing, just trying to find that wealthy big girl pad these pockets wealthy man, They're gonna kill you as soon as they can't you. I won't even schedule like a live like a live uh podcast, because I know they're gonna put a hit out on the dog. Like literally, it's like Malcolm Eggs like in a movie where they some some girl or how about get your hand on my purse, bits, get your hand on my purse. They still you know you're gonna be

like sisters. Sister, They're gonna run up and knock your ass there. Yeah, why why are you? Why are you so hard on women? Man? What is that really about? Like? I straight up like, what's that about them? You don't think you hard on them? I just spend a lovely day with one's lovely day for her. But you know, so women just don't have no value. No, they have value to society, to the universe, to the people who need them in their lives. Of course, it's not one

of those people. Have you ever thought that you might have been gay? No, I could ask you because we ask real questions, like you might nig it. So I gotta ask you real questions. So, wow, it's not your sexual part. That's the only that's the only work a while part. So what makes your relationship with a male friend and a female friend different? At that point, I used to have a lot of female friends, especially coming out of like let's try and feel that things a

coe sport. So my, you know, mid twenties to late twenties, I have a lot of female friends. Okay, So I'm saying, so you don't think of a relationship as a thing where like females and males like, right, So like a relationship where it's a friend that you have certain benefits with. I don't know, and I guess that's probably what it is.

But that dynamics different. That's a that's a lot of um, that's a big role, you know, like a girl, Like if I had a girlfriend or a wife, they would take up more of my time and energy and resources, et cetera than like all my guy friends combined ever could or would you know? But do you feel so at that point it just bothers you that they absorbed so much at a time. Well, it's kind of like this. People used to ask me, like why don't look, which is actually kind of funny the way it would happen.

But people used to ask, like why I didn't like the day white girls, And I'm like, I get people who do I totally do, and people who like I'm even like black guys like I would never date a black woman that I believe me. I get that sympathetic to that talking point. It's just to me the cool things, like the benefits the pluses of day, like a white lady versus black lady. They're not it's not real valuable currency.

And as I've gotten older now, like I've been by myself a long time now, just just in general, but all the costs, effort, energy, etcetera. That goes into the sustaining a relationship and keeping person happy, all the other kind of things versus what I get back from it. I'm trading out dollars for pace. So it's just it's not a good currency trade for me. So you're saying emotionally,

they don't provide that value worth everything that's going on. Yes, absolutely, it's a it's a cost belt as a cost uh benefit catastrophe to me. So what would she need to do to provide said value? When you feel like she you're getting a deal on the time you're putting into it, the resources you're putting into it, everything that she absorbed from you, what would she have to do to make that of equal or greater value become a strange Yeah, honestly,

like give me tangible things I did. I mean, it's it's impossible. I mean, that's that's the Just give me something, just use your use your monetary mind, right and give me a fair trade. It wouldn't It wouldn't be what could she do to up her value? It would be how much mhm less what I have to contribute to match her value? Becausely not gonna go up. Okay, So let's say this woman specifically, right, is she pays the mortgage some time you come home, she pays the mortgage

m right, and she's not. She's not trying to see. She got her own home girl. She got her own home girls, right, and they do they thing. So she's not in your face all the time. Yeah, right, but she makes sure she left me. She leaves your plate in the microwave. Right, you come home, the house is clean. What if her demands of your time and energy? This is all obviously impossible, but let's say, let's say in a weird science type of universe, right, weird science type

of universe, that this was possible. What if I was a kept man with the ultimate autonomy? No, not not kept man. Right, you're you. You pay the mortgage. Sometimes she pays the mortgage. Sometimes. She always makes sure you have food to eat. So even if she's going out with her friends, she still comes in at a reasonable hour. Your plate is in the microwave, right, she's not sweating you about time she comes. She comes with the fresh Cuban cigars, hand wrapped, hand road. Right, she knows what

you like. She got your favorite you know, your favorite scots poured up, and she's not in your way because that type of stuff can't happen, can Yes, that's not impossible. So to me, what would be impossible. Is a woman paying the mortgage sometimes and still feeling like, I mean, it's not impossible. I take that back, especially with the sisters, because you know, sisters come from you know, it's a

different in America. Most of the sisters have to work and still be what you call the proverbial you know, wife or mother right where they're cooking and working. So it's not insane and thinks so, but usually they start to demand your time in exchange for so much of the stuff that comes with a certain amount of patience which is limited in a certain amount of presentment which

is accruing. Yeah, so at some point, it's like you have to be a unique individual to just take take, take, take, take, take take, while the other parties becoming more and more and more and more and more and more just satisfied and for it to not even phasing in the least.

But is a relationship really like she's are you really just taking from her at that point even if like let's say six months, I be she paid the mortgage and not really like on paying the morrigage, but really just paid the morrigors like I'm I got it, and then you paid the six months she's still providing a level of um, we got the right word for it. But where she's around the house doing things that we

think women should do around the house. Right, she still cooking, cleaning, achieving the spot, You still taking the trash are, You're still doing the masculine things. She's not demanding all your attention. She's not actually making you compromise and do things you don't like to do to spend time with you. She's doing things that you want to do. See, but that's the thing I don't want that I want to do. No, No, I'm not saying. I'm not saying she's going to go

through the cigar loans with you. Right. She still let you have your own space. But the things that when it is time to spend time with her and it's time to spend time, there are things that you like to do. She's not trying to break you down and make you do this, you know, because that's all really compromising is for women. Like I used to tell women, is like I don't believe in compromises, Like if if I funk with you, I will do what it takes

to make you happy. Right. So there's very few things like time, example, right, Like a compromise would be something I hate to do or I'm unwilling to do to make you happy. So let's say, like paulse for the for for crying out allowed, you meet a girl who is super kinky and she's like into deal. Does that's her thing? Like, yo, I'm not into you know, like having deal? Does you know it's not my things? Like like that ain't my thing now, I'm not going to

compromise on that, and she shouldn't. Like to me, that's a compromise where you have to do something that you absolutely don't funk with for somebody else to be happy. But at that point, if somebody funk with you, you you know why what they want you to do, how could they be happy what you're doing something you hate to do or that you aren't willing to do. Like, it's different if like it's certain foods I don't want to

eat because I haven't ate them, right, that's ignorance. I've never tasted them to even dislike them, right, But that's not the equivalent Like if she says, hey, let's go to a restaurant, I'm going to go to the restaurant because it will make her happy, whether not I want to go or not. Now something I totally don't want to do is different. Okay, when you say go to the restaurant, do you mean with her? Yes? With her? She will accompany you to say a restaurant. You don't

want to go to a restaurant with a girl. Not? Okay, So you're not gay, but you don't really favor women. I know you're not gotta been around you know. If you was guy, you hit it the greatest I've ever seen. So I definitely don't and I don't get homosexual. Listen, I don't get a homosexual vibe from you, even a look like you're still a man's man like you're not extra to your confident in your masculinity. So how could

you just hate women? That's I don't hate women? Well, why would you not want to go to the restaurant with the woman? Why would she annoy you? This just what it's, This is what's gonna happen. How what because like, for example, that's a couple of hours all told, you know, including traveling to and from being there, all that kind of ship you know, but you do that all the time by yourself. Yeah, but I'm looking at ship, focusing on ship that I'm have a active interest and attention span,

whereas otherwise I'm just like ship. When this again, I listen to this ship again, You're gonna go on? Do you have to listen to again? Her voice, words, sentences. So women just talk annoys you. You don't think at something, you don't think at someplace you might have to be worried like about actually hating women, Like how does somebody

voice annoy you just because of her gender? Look a lot of those voices and know any regardless, Okay, agreed, But what I'm saying you have pretty much well like I was. Okay, that's like I was spent all day with a girl from Trinidad. Today she's super cool, gorgeous girl, but I also know, oh today she kind of she did Alright today, I'm not gonna lie. Ten years ago, I would have been like I got about this, like yeah,

but is it the sheer active of her voice? Like if it was a girl with a so then what exactly would be so annoying about riding with the woman? Let's say to apple bees. It's the fact that, like the conversational topic catalog is so so far from my personal interests they're so far apart. So what if you lead the conversations and she talked about the things you wanted to talk about, and she's gonna be feeling the same way as I am, or she's just playing simply

not gonna understand what I'm talking about? Can you mask the female gender or the female sex in that, you know what I mean? Like, no woman is gonna understand or no woman is gonna get it? Is that really where you want to be when Jesus comes back? But that's where you that's the hell right there. You no woman be into the same things that Pete could be. You don have to be one ugly bitch. Why would she be? I would like to believe me. I would like to believe Pete likes I like to believe all

kinds of things. Yeah, I'd like to believe. You're a handsome guy, so you're not an ugly white man for me, Like, you're not a horrible looking white guy, and you into us. So why would a woman You're saying she couldn't be cute and into the same things you went too? Yeah, I'm I'm I'm on a weird like intellectual journey, you know, in my life, and I enjoy it and it's interesting

to me. So like I would rather listen to some I would have put on an earpiece and listen to some expert dissect market trends in Southeast Asia in the textile supply chain system, then listen to this lady talk about any of the first fifteen things she's gonna want to talk about. It's just a more interesting thought exuccessful. Now, while I agree with you, nine of women are okay. First off, no sailings, gl they don't know at this point. Yeah, my nets going crazy? Um okay, Now I get that.

It's like a funny. It's not likely, it's it's it's it's improbable, but it's not impossible. What if she likes to listen to the same thing. Can also speculate, No, no, don't expect it. I'm saying, for example, let's let's live in this universe where she wants to hear the market trends of the things going on in some country in Asia as well, and she's probably all boring and squared and needed being cheated on with a younger side ship. I'm saying, what if she's young, What if she's three

years younger than you. She wants all the same things you're listening to. I'm pretty fucking old. I say she's three years younger. She's not that far three years younger, still pretty, I mean, but she loves what you listened to. She could be a hottie for me. And I know you funk with the sisters, so she could have went to you know, spell minute somewhere. Ever, she really into it.

Her her mind may be on economics, because she may be a wizard or like a savant and math, and she loves listening to the numbers and giving you advice. And she's gave you great advice about the numbers. Sure, sure, that becomes very much you know, a pin in a in a haystack, but it's not impossible. Here's here's another issue to your brother's gonna create more of a wrinkle

a person like that, because that's rare. I agree, that's that was definitely going to be very few sisters, because you see, once you made his sisters, now you didn't nail it down to just you know one. Choosing a Supreme Court justice is what it is. We found a system, found one easier than you find one that likes to listen to the market trends in some country now it is more willing to compromise on standards and Supreme Court justices than I am. And wives, I don't think he

has a standard on Supreme Court justices. I know that's the problem. Well, well that's the tricky part, right, because standards is a questionable thing. So I would buy the out of anybody have standards. Doesn't just take everything? Why didn't she take everything he could get? He had two standards,

gender ethics, those are the only standards. And working as a judge, well it opinions, right, So then it goes into the if the ladies qualified for the job, and I don't want to get into that because it becomes you tearing down sister, and I don't need to be kicking nobody as because it's a lot of the subjective. But there there are a lot of questions. There's a lot of questions in the space he did what made

people feel good? I would imagine I'm sure hound girls qualified for the position, you know, based off whatever the

qualifications are. Um, I definitely believe there's always an underlying motive of how you want to be presented, especially somebody like Biden, who has, you know, historically a horrible mark when it comes to you know, how he wants to do justice, and he wants to literally separate exactly how cocaine is prosecuted and and you know, the the ability to create three strikes and all of these simple things where you get life, which is somebody convicting you on

your past, you know, offenses, which is probably should have not even been legal. It's a another story. But that's before we get carried away, because that's some whole other ship. Right, Let's say that woman is exactly that, and she's young, and she's three years younger than you, but she's pretty hot. I mean, obviously she's not going to be hot sister hot is Ah, she's not gil and the best. She's not going to be Um. You know how hot she could be. She could be knee a long hot, prime

n a long hot and Friday. You know what's funny, Yeah, that that that could happen now personally A long hot and Friday now prime ne a long hot is not prime Magan good hot. About ten years ago, Huh, I had a traffic ticket and I got sent to like the Newport Beach Superior Court and I was delinquent on this ship and whatever else, and the judge in there was probably forty. I was about to ask for her number on the batter. She knocked that ship from like down to like four fifty, and I was like, I

can spend all this money on you. I just saved at least a couple with extra hundred budget. Hold up, Hold up, So let's say I sped around that town for five years trying to get back in the court. But I'm saying, so let's say she's knee a long, she's me alone, because you can get a lady that's into finances and economics a system that's near alone hot for sure. Now Megan Good hot, probably not. Magan Good is a different kind of hot. Um. You could probably get a knee a Long hot. You can get a

Primes to not Lathan hot. Mh. I'm sure she's not Latan. Probably studied economics at one time. She looked like it. So primes are not Latan hot. Can't get a prime Janet Jackson hot. She's definitely studying economics. What I'm saying, so you're telling me a prime me alone hot, right is she's in the economicy that's possible. Here's the challenge that person probably also in the event, And this is a super far fetched idea. Steven addressed, Let's suppose that

lady could even so much to stand my company. She's gonna be able to stay in my company because I'm so different, and she's like, wow, this guy is so fucking different. Obviously, that's, you know, pretty cut and dry. She's gonna want more of my time than I'm gonna wanna. But what if she doesn't. That's a that's almost borderline ridiculous than that, then, right, what's the point. So you're saving to answer to somebody that I see once every two weeks. So so you're saying you don't want to

spend time with the woman. Not like that? Okay, So let's say on a physical level, you're married. How often, right, do you want to ask sex with your wife? What's your wife? Who you've been sleeping with for years? Sleeping in the next room. I don't like sleep next people. I need you need a therapist because I don't like sleeping next people. I don't like that. I think you shorten nothing specifically, all grew up and watches out here like a month ago, I don't sleep the next I

just don't. But nonetheless, yeah, I don't know, three or four times a week is cool. But so you're gonna walk into her room from you, I'm gonna walk to the other room in my house that she's in. I'm saying, let's say she's paying the mortgage sometimes, so it's your house, but she's paying it. Anyways, I know women like that. I addressed last week my little bro. My little bro, my bro mo has a woman who used to pay

the mortgage at his property. No problem. Mhm. So again she it was never their property, was never the thought. So I'm asking you, so you're gonna walk to the room that she's in to have sex with her, and then walk back into your room after sex his own? Yeah, that's what you don't wanna. My my my one girlfriend I had back in the day, her parents were like that. I just think you've never been in love, Pete. I have. Maybe you've never been in love like I've been in love,

but when you've never been to live like I don't. Okay, So because the way you talk about women, right, you talk about them, You talk about women a way like of women have been in my life where you don't

want to. It's like as soon as you feel like what you're about to do, right, sure, but there's always that small micro percentage to to one percent of women where you like, you've never slept with a woman that you didn't want to leave when it was over, that you didn't want to be with women that I didn't want to leave the address. But I still want to go sleep where I have some space. If I had a giant, asked master sweep, I don't need you to leave the property or I don't need to like leave

wherever and go getting a card bounce. I need to space to sleep. I don't like. Have you ever hugged the woman? Yeah all the time? Okay, have you ever hugged a woman when you were sleeping? I don't know, probably not. Did you get molested as a kid, No, So you you never found a woman who you wanted to hug when y'all went to sleep together, as you wanted to cuddle. They say cuddle. That's the word that's

women say all time, cuddle. You've never found a woman you wanted to cuddle with in life, not into a sleep, not like sleep like a No, I mean obviously right, you you. Let's say you push off for you know eventually once you sleep because you need your space. But you never found a woman you wanted to hug while dozing off. I mean, I'll hugged her and hold all the her she fall asleep. Where do you think Megan the Stallion is lying when she says the bullets fired out,

then by Tory Lanes hit her feet, so that she's lying. Yes, I think you're shotting the feet. Yeah, I think that. Sure, Okay I've been saying and people get mad at me. I'm like, I know what happened because I would have did the same ship and I don't drink where like a woman is popping it loud, right, she popping and she popping and talking crazy whatever she's saying. And I got my piece and I'm like, you mean my piece?

And I get the popping at the ground dance bitch, this pop right, and one of the bullet fragments the pullet bragman and broke off and hit her in the feet, which still means you shot in the foot. And the way I feel about it, even with tor Is, I would have respected it on some GHI if he came out, Yeah, I shot at the ground and she was talking crazy. I told the bitch dance and popped at her feet.

You're still not really going to go to jail. You're gonna get in trouble, but you're not gonna go to jail. But I think it's weird for him to sit around and make this bitch look crazy and and no disrespect to Meg, like no, but like and my niggas is like, yeah, you know, you know she lined. And I'm like, why would somebody lie about shooting somebody. I've heard people say, oh, well, well she did get shot in the foot. She didn't lie about that. They think she never got the feld.

That's but that's what I'm saying. She they never They don't think she got shot in the foot of like yo, her medical records because it's right there. Just crazy because he established But I think what's funny is right, I get I've heard this right a sense of like like I am a chauvinist or I have a dis thing for women personally. I'm like, that's silly, just because I accurately describe women that I've came into contact with or

that frequent mob my room. I mean, whether it's pop but that's also in that same space where, oh, if you like Kanye, then you can never be critical over his decisions. You can never say I don't agree like we in this kind of real lay mass puss he as soft, fast space where you can't, you know, be honest if you funk with somebody. And I don't know how to exist in that space. But I have a problem with a lot of qualities of people in general.

Some of those happened to be borderline, like foundational cornerstones of life being a woman like. I don't like a lot of the entitlement, the anti like, the rejection of like, you know, consequences and responsibility, accountability, all that kind of ship. I don't like. I don't like people do that ship.

I don't. I don't like grown as men who like happens every seventeen ft driving through Fort Lauderdale, who stopped traffic in the left lane to zero in the forty five because they want to turn right in thirty five. I hate that ship. I wish somebody would just fucking straight tebow their asses right out of this world. So we agree in a lot of sense, but I'm just trying to get down to exactly why don't you think there's somebody in this world that's a female that would

be well, I guess that does sound crazy. Somebody that's like a perfect compliment that they have to do something you don't like sucking the human beings a human being. It's it's pretty challenging, and I think a lot of just the fact that, look at this point, I don't have a a space void like a lot of people. When there's nobody there, they feel the impis. I do not. But somebody's there, I feel the presence, you know what I mean. It's that kind of thing. I don't like

having to be accountable to somebody on that level. I just don't like it. It's a little it's heavy, don't you know. If I'm with somebody relationship with that, I owe them answers to whatever questions they have about whatever what I'm doing my time, where I'm doing with my money. I don't want to work here anymore. I want to go through this or I want to sell this and violence or anything. Yeah, I don't want to. I don't know what. Every woman is going to be worried about

what you do with your money. They're gonna be worried that they have the right to be worried mine. But I don't think every woman really wants to be worried about what you do with your money. Sure, I've met women who are not worried about what you do with your money. As long as they have their suspect, they're fine. Well, it's not even there's to spend. That's true too, But it's not just that. It's also as long as you're gonna make sure right that that's not always true. That's

not always true. That's that's that altbundy, and that's not always that's pretty close. You're not you're not really taking the max value of the word always there. You've got that smirk on your face, Noice Jill, you are too. I don't you got that troll smirk treating it right now? That's just not true, though, p every woman is not always trying to take your money. There. Every woman wants somebody to pay for them to take care of you. Sure, but they also but you also will meet women who

want to take care of you. Yeah, because that is a personality type end of its own that comes with it a desire to kind of like be controlling. They want to pet man, not a pet Man, bro goddamn Pete. I've met women in my life where I'm not there, pet Man. Now, do they do some things that's questionable? Sure, like every other human being breathing. You might be the only person that I don't that you don't do a

ton of stuff that I don't think it's questionable. I mean, whether you know, male or female when it comes to gender right or sex whatever they want to call it, same ship. But every woman does not want to control your economics and have part in it. And they are the ones who want to pay your bills. They want to control other areas. You're like, that's they are buying equity, They're they're like China, just gobbling up pieces of Russian assets all over the place for control to be had later.

Oh man, So if a woman is invested in you economically or or being responsible, right, you're saying, it's done with a hidden motive of wanting to turn you into a woman or control you. They want to have a lot of sex. They want to know where you are, who you're with, what you're doing. When you're coming back. You know, I'll tell you we're going here on frontay, And no, I want to go here, Who the funk you are? You betta go find someplace to stay. I

pay the bills around here. We're going to my aunties dinner where we're going, right, So with a woman who is decently responsible for a nice portion of the economics, where she feel like she controls everything, that's not impossible. Obviously, that's probably responsible. I've seen that before. But yeah, I can't argue with that. That could be true. I mean, there, it's always gonna be one person, but that's not the

majority of it. So yeah, I'm in okay. So but I'm saying, let's say you guys are going Dutch most of the time, not like purposely, it's just sometimes she picks up the tab. Sometimes she pays the mortgage. Let's say she's an attorney that has a great job, and it looks like prime me alone, not not twenty year on the alone, prime thirty nia me alone. Mhm, right, And she does want you to spend time with her sometimes even at times sometimes you don't want to spend times.

You're saying that type of economic dedication to y'all situation is not worthy of you saying, Hey, you know what, that's why I think you've never been in love, bro, because when you love somebody, you love to spend time with them. Yeah, you know, maybe you haven't been in love. I think I'm coming closer to that realization that maybe

you've never been in love. That's not to say you haven't loved a woman, but you've never been in a situation where you and that person loved each other enough to where it's not a burden to spend time with them outside of the time you want to spend with them.

Here's here's the difference between those two questions. Like, you know, people to very degrees, you know, to myself to a degree I can define, but of peoples are a constant evolution to say, of being you know, year old me, three year you're only different people very Yeah, But I'm saying even this version of you, right, even this version, I think you haven't been in love. Maybe the younger version was, but this version isn't. That isn't that old

this versus maybe four, four or five years old? This face right, That's what I'm saying. So maybe you haven't been in love to to where spending time with someone is not a burden. Yeah, that's fair, But the itself, well, eventually it has its moments where it's a burden. Yes, why is another question, you know, why is it a burden if you love somebody to spend time with them, It's a whole another issue. Right, But I'm saying, there's people I know like this's this, there's girls I see

occasion and I'm like, I love that genuinely. I don't think you don't think you love sleeping with them or you love you like qualities about them. But if it's still a burden to be around them, I can't be loved. Of course it can. Hell, no, no way. You could love someone and it's a bird. Well, yeah, that's not true. You could definitely love somebody and it's a burden to be around him. Yeah, And here's the issue. I can love somebody and it can be a burden to be

around them some of the time. But the fulfillment and gratification I get from the love does not outweigh the cause of the burden. And I know that, and I'm final Maybe that's because you haven't really been in love. You're asking, You're saying, you know how the mass Uh and Adam's precisely what prevents it from traveling the speed of light. It's that same conundrum. You haven't you haven't been in love, so you don't appreciate the burden. It's

the burden itself. It keeps from being in love. You know, that's the you know, of course the atoms. So the thought of you having to spend time with someone when you don't want to spend time with someone you love is what keeps you from being in love. You know, the burden as it because yeah, but the burden is the thought. The burden really is the time, So the thought because because you're not actually spending the time, it's

the thought of spending time. If you were to propel matter it was accelerating up to the speed of light, its own mass would slow it down, so we can get close and then decelerate. Sure, that's the same thing. So if it takes you, so you said, you start

the journey of falling in us. And then as she's saying, hey, let's spend time on those times that you don't want to, which creates the burden, right, or they're wanting to talk or text or call or whatever the hell the other the fact that she's speaking with you is a burden. It's not the fact that there's an expectation that I have to fucking respond and participate. So the expectation that she is she deserves, say a conversation, becomes another type

of burning. Yeah, it's all burden. It's all burden goes so it goes into It's like like that TV show with a Ninja Warrior. I can't even get through the first half of the obstacle course, stop falling into the fucking water. All right, that's what it is. We can talk about all the obstacles. It's great, but I thought we're gonna get to that third one. I'm gonna be on the water because the burden is too great. Sign in the water. Huh. So it's a specific word. I'm

looking for. The entitlement because you have entered into a relationship. The entitlement completely is what creates the burden. The sense of entitlement women have entering into what we call romantic relationships creates the burden. Yes, it was a pairing of the entitlement along with the integrity of the responsibility that I have to appreciate that it's actually warranted in that particular context. So you appreciate the sense of entitlement that

they have. Yeah, I don't think it's I think in that scenario because once you're in a relationship, right, because you're saying you would like a relationship where there's no sense of entitlement. That's that's not a relationship. That's what I'm saying. That that point. So then you're saying you don't want a relationship. That's what I've said for forty one and a half minutes. I'm saying, that's that's the

point I'm saying. I'm saying, And then you're saying you don't want a relationship, and I'm getting down to the reason is because of the sense of entitlement that comes with it. Yeah, that and the burden. So what if you But that's what I'm saying, that the burden is created by the sense of entitlement. Yes, and I did say there are certain qualities and people I don't like and entitle it. Okay, So again, so what if you were in a relationship with the woman who hast does

feel entitled. That's a fascinating case that should genuinely diggle me good going up for six months, I don't care. Yeah, So a woman who enters into a relationship without a sense of entitle me. Oh, that might be impossible. It's legally impossible without a specific contract in place. We I

think we've mentioned this before. One of the most nauseating phrases to me in all of like jurisprudence in this country is in a divorce settlement when a wife divorce is a guy who's got a lot of money, and she cites the i'm accustomed to this lifestyle clause to prop up her. Alamo, Oh, you can't just tell me I can't live in a tendent dollar house anymore. I'm accustomed to this lifestyle. I need enough money to live in that same kind of goddamn house, even though I

don't make any money. I never did and never will. I'm accustomed to the lifestyle. So you don't agree with that, No, not even a little bit. Oh man, yeah, that's probably not fair. So what if this person has suffered with you while she was building while you were let's say y'all had kids, and she was building, right, she was maintaining the household, right while you was off to turn your fortune from a hundred thousand into a hundred million.

Knowledge right, so you didn't have to deal with certain aspects of the household. This person cooked for you every night. I kept your food done. You know the equivalent of a maid in a nanny in a prostitute giving you pussy when you desire. What would that combines about if Peter bo is the judge in court. Yeah, two million bucks for ten years, two million bucks for ten years. Just think the nanny and maiden, the prostitute, constra crisis.

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