Conversations About Relationship Roles

I'll talk back. Is so, Look, Bret Red was explaining to me why she felt she had a right to cook the food for the house and not make the plates. Okay, so that's required when you could to make the plates. Look, I said, I was tired. I said I make plates, But I said, I made an announcement that I'm not making. Sometimes you just don't want to make a damn plate. Sometimes women take on more than that. And she cooked, she prepared the meal, all the food on the middle

of the table. And people can make their own plates, because then what they're gonna expect you to also wash the dishes and put them. Yea, that's what they spect and then one second sometimes like you and I and I get caught up because I do like I do like to to do that. But I'm like, I didn't get a chance to sit down, like I'm tired, Like, let me sit down, you don't if you don't, So is it that you're tired of you just tired of them? And now no, really I'm tired and I have a

seven month old baby. Wow, what excuse me? Can you have a baby? Okay? No, no, but I'm glad you brought that up. So Sia Sylvia are part of their two members of a group I am producing. The group is called forsome. I say folsome because that's just how I talked about it. It's forsome. Yes, and this is two of them right here. So sorry, now that you said there are, I can ask you, so, are you like a like a team player, like in a relationship like fifty fifty, or you like a rose person? What's

a rose person? Like? You expect a man to do manly things? Um? I think the history of me dating people, I think I've dated people for potential, seeing the best in them and doing so much in a relationship hoping that they would get to a place where I wanted them to be, like, become fully who I thought they were when I met them or something like that, and then that kind of never happens. But you know, you never met that person. Obviously, I was creating this fantasy

in my head that doesn't really exist. So I'm are you a much a compromising person and I'm ruling to accept people for who they are and then over time if I just can't accept who you are, then goodbye. So you're like a fifty fifty person, right, Okay, yeah, Sylvia, are your fifty fifty person or your relationship roles person one hunting on his end period? So so that's to your relationship roles person because I'm not putting in ship.

And if I'm gonna put in and I'm gonna be by myself, this ain't no, I'm not a roommate, okay, So your relationship roles person men should do I feel like man should do everything. I'm going to do the womanly things as far as cook, clean and make love to you, all that ship, but as far as take care of the household, that's all you. And that's how they used to do with old school, I mean, at one point. At one point, men didn't even women didn't even have rights, you know what I mean. And it

wasn't women stayed at home. So I'm bad. I'm not okay, I'm just listening. I'm not gonna argue with anybody. I don't care about your potential. You already gotta come with it. You already gotta have it. I've already I've already experienced potential when I was younger. So at this age, I'm already a point where you already have to be together. Don't agree that it shouldn't be fifty fifty. We should

change the term to a hundred. A hundred people should be complete before they because we're already at that age to where you already gave that a shot as far as you know. Well, let me see, I feel like you have potential. I did that when I was young and it didn't work, So I'm not gonna keep doing that now that I'm at this age. Just like, no, you gotta have your ship together when you come to me.

Just period. That's just what it is. So you're okay a person, Yeah, I would like a person to say the same thing to the table, but she got it. So your relationship. Your fifty fifty person signed, Sylvia's a role person. You're person, britt Wood. Are you a rose person or are you a fifty fifty person? So see, I have some issues here. So see I can only

go off of my previous experience. And for me, like the dude that I was dealing with, he didn't want me to like really, so you say I'm going there, Hold on, you didn't want me to do all that, So I'm ready to tell you. But I wanted to put into the household. So I would just pay pay with the bills and I would pay for like the grocery shops like that, and I would could clean do all the girls. Ship. But he took care of home,

so I could say fifty fifty. But he has to have his own ship because I come with my own ship, like I have a good job and confusing. So for you start doing a woman thing, you know, women things like the quiet noise, and it's not quite noise to you. It's quiet noise because you're not really giving me an answer. What you're doing is telling me a bunch of random ship that don't go together. Okay, So I would just say this then as a human being as a woman.

Do you want to be in a partnership relationship right where you guys split things fifty fifty or do you want the relationship roles type of situation where men do traditional men that dude, what the you're supposed to Okay? And then I'm gonna do what I'm supposed to do? So were don't be all right? Got it? So roles are not necessarily No, no, that's not it's no, it's not, but we don't. I'm just learning. I'm so so um.

I like the roles. So you like the roles, okay, Joey, are you more of a partnership with a woman or are your roles partnership roles? And I played the position that I make adjustments. Okay, I like that because because yeah, you know what I'm saying, I'll do what I can when I can do it that ship, and I'm willing to keep learning and trying to be better at whatever it is I need to be better at. That's how

I look at it. Ain't nobody about to pull up and tell me what ain't about to happen, and all hell, if I need you to put something on something, you're gonna do it. I need you to put something. Listen here and listen to that lady what you got on this because and if she don't have it, then we I mean, it's it's going just gonna have to have to have to happen, like I make that happen. But that's right, I'm only I'm only willing to do that if it's uh, like I've been with this person for

a while and understand there's ups and there's down. So yeah, I'll participate, you know, here and there, but like just some guy just coming in. Yeah, but like if it's like a real relationship and and then you just haven't you know, some bad times, Yeah, of course I'm gonna be there. So that's not what sure I understand. Yeah, if if he failed that, But but for the most part, you expect to do things that I'm not taking the trash out does not and it's stability. I'm not taking

the trash, So you're not taking the trash. I'm not Oh no, I never. I'm not taking the trash. So if he ain't at the house in the trash four, you're gonna wait till they get home. Yes, that trash is heavy. That's stupid though, because guess what, let me tell you gonna cook if exactly, if I don't cook, he ain't gonna eat. Yep, exactly, he's not gonna eat. So therefore this trash here. So it's like my trash. Clearly, I'm not gonna let it, you know, flow over, so

it's closed. I'm not touching it. But exactly I will get another bag and started, but I'm not taking I don't want to take the trash out, and I'm not. I don't, So you're taking out, leave it by the door, didn't put a new bag in. I don't even want to take it out the bag because it might have wet ship in it, and I don't want to trash. I don't do it right. I won't take it. I don't want to. I'm not saying that I've never taken off the trash. Give by yourself. So you have, so

you do understand the concept of rods. Okay, So no sailings glasses low. My co host one half of the week, The Cousin's Britt and read I got my man Joey west Side from l A Giants, and I got my partners feel Me from folks from Sylvia. J Sorry, so This is the reason I asked you this because I sent Britt and read a video. And in this video, this guy, you know, he has his erie Kevin Samuel's

thing going on. But he was talking to another dude that said he had been married for twenty years and had a kid, and the question was why are women not cooking? I'm gonna tell you exactly what he says right here. It was so it became such a own conversation. She was funny, and it was I thought it was really funny to me. I just it says why women don't want to cook or clean for me anymore? I have a question, why do men categorize women that's not all women? Because yes, you are a women, so that's

a category. I think that's the women are not it's that didn't do a lot of the times they're the same and experiences, well, so what they meant in the twenties, I feel like, sure they don't do it. It's because they don't know how and they haven't been taught that. Okay, So it says why women don't want to cook a clean for men anymore? And the guy says, because she's tired. He said she had been at work all day and she was tired, tired, so you asked me, You said,

what what do you like? Do you like rolls? I love rolls. I would love roles, but I have to work too. So therefore, because I have to work, I'm tired today. Do you change this is not happening. Do you change your oil? So? Then how tired are you? Really? Forget? Wait? What? First of all, I'm tired because I should expect him to change your oil? Why are you You don't think he's trying. You don't think he could be tired? But did he cook me a whole meal? He took your oil? Okay?

So so then as I let me rewind, so I sent the information to Pete to bread into red and Asia, right, who's red? Is telling me? I just was saying that to my household, like I cooked. I don't want to make the plates like I'm tired, I don't want to

make the play. I'm done making plates. And I asked her, I said, well, imagine to like your tires on flat and the man goes right, he takes your tires off, take your tired take it to the tire shop, old Jiffy Lui or Micheley and you get your new tire, and he comes and he's sitting next to your car, like hew, here it is, and this sitting next to your car, and now you have to put the tire. Why the fun would you tell me to make your fucking plate because you're tired to plate? Because so why

can't you put on your tire? I think it depends on if you know what do you know how to do? Nine times out of ten a woman doesn't know how to change the tire. So do you think that makes it okay? It's literally simple. You hold up, listen. You literally said it is simple. It's not. It's not simple. It's the hard work is done. When you cook the food, it's done. You did the cooking, the seasoning, you did all that. That's the labor. So you're asking her to

do the labor. Put the time. No, we're asking her to mount, to get up and make up, and expect her to the labor. No. I said, I'm going to take the tire off of your car, the flat tire, because off your car. I'm will take it to Michilean, have them put the new tire. Room filling up with the air, make sure it's right, bring it back to you and sit it next to your car and allow

you to put it back on at you. I need getting up to make my plate is labor, So I have something to say that it should be split labor work more than splitting money. Because people make more money than each other. Whatever, split the labor, like okay, I'll make your play, but can't get the baby tonight, So then why not split? Why do you not split the money? I'm saying, because some people make more, some people make less. But I'm saying, why are you counting other people's money?

It should be just man o your man? So so so term man write, the possession of term of this is not a man, this is my man. I think he do or not doing? So the why are you counting your man's money if you don't feel like you should do the same type of thing. I'm saying. If we're both working, and I come home and I'm cooking

and I'm cleaning, and you can make your plate. But so then so then if he goes and he actually if he's working and he's paying mortgage and doing stuff, he's doing that he could actually put a new tire on your flat rim and then you can mind it on your car. Some men do everything. Some man cook took So since I'm the one, I'm the one that made the announcement to the house. I like making the plates, but I made the announcement because I take care of

my father. I have my man, I have my baby, my daughter's home for the don't take care of your father? What you mean, I don't take your father? Grown up? Um, listen, I take care of my father. So that stands was for me to be like dad, Like you can make your plate, I'm washing your clothes. I'm so you don't want to make your dad the reason you're on fucking planet Earth, the greatest gift that you can give to any human being beside your mother. Let me get this right, Yeah,

that d of those days. I don't cut breakfast before we go into the three meals a day with your plate. Hold up, hold up, hold up everything she said, hold up because because you finished the job. It's like if you make a song, right and you can relate to this silvia. If you make a song and you don't mix the fucking song, you finish the fucking job, you master it. Let me ask you a question, right, was your dad a dead beat dad. Then how the funk dare you tell? Cause you can't make his plate? I

told you years this is what held up. This is what I do. Was he there all eighteen years? Yes, he was nigger. Listen, do you mean to tell me you can't? Man? I make no. He can make his plate most time, not even most times. This is years I make his plate. Now you should be to make his plate. Listen, I do. But at the same time, my dad there's certain things that he likes, a certain way whatever, even everybody. I have to remember everybody's everybody's

ordering this. Man don't like this, My daddy don't like this. I'm tired, y'all gonna make your all late tonight Christmas palms. All the waste the money on wasted strong his daughter, He didn't waste any money because guess what I'm taking care of. Expect you to be strong. I think he just say, consider you should be honest. I love consosed to make you selfless so you could be quiet selfless Joey, you know what, I am selfless. But guess what I'm like.

You know what I'm not. I'm setting the food out. I make a beautiful presentation. It's always beautiful. It's buffets. Now make your plates. So let me ask you a question. Get would you be okay if your dad I'm asking, would you be okay? If your dad right? He's hard days at work, all these paying for these proms and fucked up ship you got going on and get you out of trouble. Clothes every day on your back, and heat for the house that you lived in your whole life,

and air conditioning and all the wonderful things. The gas he took you to shoot you quit on that. He probably wasted money on. All the cheerleading stuff you probably stopped the second day. Hold up, hold up. The fact that you don't hold it over your head makes you a piece of ship. Yes, if you do not hold your parents and make point, hold up, and make my point. If you don't hold your parents, who were there for you in the highest regards, you are a piece of ship.

Father absent. But when he broke down and he had a mid life crisis and everybody turned his back on him, I nursed him back to health, and I thank god that he's back to health. But I didn't hold none of I'm not I'm not saying it. This ain't about you. Though, but it's a mini I'm not saying that you're an awesome woman, so I just not your point. The point I'm making is read father said, I want, I want to. But remember I grew up in the eighties, so yeah,

I went through shipped too. But that's my father. He's been, he's there. He's with me because he's not married, he has no one. I'm his daughter to make sure he's good. Guess what, I have a seven month old. Probably had I not had my baby, I can cater to everyone, but she's my number one priority. I'm tired. So yes, I went back and forth with myself, like, you know, what do I do because I get stressed out because I'm trying to make everybody in the house happy. I'm

trying to make every body good. You don't think everybody in the house tries to make you happy. You're a damn lie. That's why she's right here, Like, no, that's not why she's the reason she right here right now. Because her father knocked her mom down, got her pregnant, and literally did things to make sure she was okay. That's why she's here right now, not because she did ship. So she didn't even have to have a day and that she's tired, and that she said that a day off,

and say a day off. I said, you, guys, she made a permanent but I went ahead. And what was I doing last night? What I do was I making plates? Well? No, actually Dad came out the room and I was like, oh, he he made his play. But I was gonna make his play. But the whole point is, my whole thing is you guys are not even like you know what I got this? Do you want me to make your play? You sit down. You've been standing up literally from the time I get up in the morning at seven, I'm

on my feet. I'm tiger. You're the only one. I work a reg I'm not a homemaker, but I'm working. Do you make the house? I make the house? No? Do you make the home or do you make the house? You know the difference? Yeah, I'm oh, yeah, I make the house. So you pay for the mortgage? No, I don't say you don't. Then stop buying in front of these people, these tens of thousands of people listen to this podcast that you make. See Joey, this is home. And I've been saying this to Joey. I mean this

This is the point I've been saying to Joey. I said, look, Joey, I got Joey super big brother advice. I say, look, if nothing else, man, you gotta take care of your old lady. You gotta put the roof over here. You gotta really do more, because without it, they act like they're doing everything. I'm not minimizing a woman's work. That's just ridiculous. I think women in general, honestly, are even greater than men. Right, They're more adorable, They're stronger, like

they can't vince pressed. But the durability, the ability to stretch, come back, put it together though through Paine makes you stronger. What are you a man? Are roses? I'm not with none of this ship you'll talking about. She put out money. I'm embarrassed, Like I'm totally flabbergasted. How dare you? If you if you if you walk, if you walk, if you walked and grabbed the door, I'm offended. But I am different with that, And I'm not saying this is

the only way because I don't. I don't touch handles and stuff, but sometimes I do just wanna buy my person something. I'm not saying there's no crime in that I'm not mad. The foundation of it is okay, roses and ship. Right, So what I was telling Joey was I was saying, Joey, look, man, if your old lady feels like she has she has to work to do anything, she's going to make it the greatest thing that's going on in the house. She's gonna always feel neglected. She

will always be like nobody appreciates me. She's not gonna think of nothing else that's happening the house, but the ship she do that's already women like you already got to deal that with that. Women women automatically as you, as far as putting in money to the household, then she's gonna feel like she's writing No, it don't matter when they leave their draws on the floor and you just cleaned up that tyme of ship like you don't appreciates up everywhere like peck the draws up when disrespect

I don't care about. And that's the point up not listen because he paid the bills. He doesn't just listen. I can do that. The thing about a really good relationship is two people cleaning up behind each other. Don't clean up at all. I'm gonna tell you why. He cleans up. He cleans up in other ways. He cleans up the ship that you get your dumbas self into when you're be doing some bullshit. You got this flat tired because you were somewhere. Ye's being Nigga's clean up

behind yall. Other ways, Nigg's clean up behind y'all own interest rates. Nigg's clean up behind y'all own bad decisions you make on food that cost too much money that you're not gonna eat, that's a huge clean up. Huge clean up is when you say some ignorant because you having your woman moment, he did he ain't tripping. That's cleaning up behind a Niggas cleans up behind you, brick, because you don't know how to apologize. I understand you're

apologizing in anyway. Yeah, because it's really hard for y'all to say, hey, you know what, I'm sorry. I'm working on that. The only woman I've ever met that just said i'm sorry side side is the first persons like, you know what, I'm just sorry. I was like, well, sire, sorry right right, there's I'm sorry, glasses. She was late today. She's like, you know what, I'm sorry, I'm not even tripping. I'm just don't be upset at me. But that's the

first time I had a woman. Just apologize that, but don't say you sorry if you really ain't know I really mean it. And I don't want to fight Scorpio Scorpio. You know they're feistiest motherfucker's breathing. I love hard, but yeah, it's a real thing line between Scorpio. You don't own the same man. Mistake both of y'all fighting. Yeah, y'all both fighting. She turned up. I know I gotta turn down. Go there. It's over to jail. It's over today. People

gonna be dead, So Joey terrible. Do you want to like if you were to get married in the future, do you want to take care of your woman? But you feel like because if you're not making enough economics to do everything at the best level, that's why you want help. Yeah, I'm gonna need some help. But what's taking care of your woman? Uh? Making him feel appreciated, being considerate? All right, don't don't know why. Don't do them, Daniel Joan, No, no, no, what I'm saying, that's what

he wants. Don't do them? Daniel John sometimes sacrificing your own stated. You know, it's all from a Stevie want a lot of things you do, you know what I mean, give me the fucking answer I told you. Yeah. No, I'm saying, she's asking you a question. I'm so Joey is like a really good person. But no, no I'm not. I'm not Barries Okay, fire something like me. So look, I'll be Joey all the time. I'd be like Joey, Like Joey is a great person, but he never really

reaches the potential. Forgive me for talking about you like in front of you. I'm not saying to do it all the time. No, I'm saying, yeah to him, it's all up because he's a great person. But what holds him back is him trying to put on the look of a good person. You're good person. So you're saying, he don't have to put the look on. It's just gonna come out. It's gonna because him. Because I'm gonna tell you why. Because great is not always likable. Greatness

is measuring impact and strong. It's not measured and being good like people spend like you know, looking good or trying to be a good person or a good man in a relationship, it takes energy to kind of present that person, you know what I'm saying. So you're taking less energy away from being the greatest version of yourself to look like the good version of yourself. But what if you're not wasting energy doing that? That's just who

you are as a person. It takes a lot of energy to be fake and to be something that you're not, But fake just carries this negative connotation. Joey, who are you trying to look like? No? No, in his mind, this is my opinion, Like Joey don't want to be He don't want to be what he thinks people don't like. And I'm like, no, I consider what other people feeling

like more so than what I'm feeling like. So I think some crazy ship in my head, like it won't really it won't be as nice, but I won't express you, you know, And I gotta cheat code because I like I could do music so and the different god cuts a bit, you'll in the song versus the difference between me and Joey is Joey is nice? I'm kind? Nice? Is right? Is you worried about how everybody else gonna feel? Kind? Is you do it just what you do. I don't care what you think. This is what I'm gonna do.

I'm nice, kind person, O God, nice is when you consume what other people think. Then I'm kind because kind is when you're doing the ship because this is who you are. And Joey is a kind person, but he presents himself often as nice. So he don't want to say stuff that's gonna bother people, you know what I mean, whether in the relationships, saying go whatever, working relationship, business, anything.

He don't want to make people feel uneasy. And I'm telling him the only way to make and they're like, people will do ship to make it'd be fucked up, literally to set you back. And I'm like, bro, if you don't like grow, like you for yourself. People don't care about how they make me feel, And I don't like,

I don't care about how I make you feel. But but I'm gonna tell you why, Like, I'm never trying to make you feel bad, But I have no issue with making somebody feel uncomfortable, right because the only true uncomfort is measured. You know when you growth is measured, and being uncomfortable you only know your feet getting bigger when you put on a pair of shoes and now they're tight, know what I'm saying. So I will put a lot of people because into spaces that are uncomfortable

to make them deal with a level to grow. Either you're going to grow or get the funk away from me. That's how I see it like, and it sounds fucked up, whether relationship, you know, love interest or business like. It's like when we do music right, it's like, if you're not if I'm gonna give you this much time, if you're not going to be in that window, I'm gonna force you to grow, or you're gonna grow the other way, because you know, we all got to carry about each

other's time. I care about my time more than I care about always time. But I'm not gonna mismanage his time or your time. I'm still gonna act like I got respect that you exist. So so this goes back to the question what is taking care of your woman? Exactly? What do you want to do? What really is take

care of your woman? Not the R and B Danielle Jones perception version of it where they like to hear because it matters dog, because we met that women want Yeah, I wasn't saying that just because I wanted to hear that. I meant that I think I think those things matter. Do you really think that that's what you do consistently? You think, because you know, that's not what being a good man is. Being a good man is not catering

to a woman's face. No, I'm I'm saying, I'm confused being the man you are, But that is who I am though, but sometimes it is. But then it's sometimes I'm not taking care of so taking care of me, it's just gonna be you making sure that my feelings. It's it's all those things. So how are you taking care of me? You know what I'm saying. Consistent, you

know what I'm saying. But it's but as the road like as like you know, like we're talking about taking care of as far as take care of crib and financially and all that, like, yeah, that's something I do want to do. That's taking care of you. Yeah, yeah, I'm with all that, you know what I'm saying, Making sure I just do it on my level, I'm not I'm not trying to. I'm not doing it. Because it

looks like he's saying it looked better for somebody else. No, I'm I do what I can in that moment, I'm saying, most of the time, she ain't gotta pull out no bread. But how would you take care of her? Like? What really defines that relationship role of taking care of ship? If I answered it, yeah, I might have to keep thinking about it because I don't ship. I thought that was it, nig I got a dig deeper. I ain't. I'm trying to think to say, I'm being honest and

we should this Czy. You know what I appreciate the most of considering what it is she's asking for listening. You know what I appreciate the most, Douce mac is Deuce is unapologetically. And somebody asked me about Deuce. You know, why do I why do? What do I think of him? And Joey? They like Joey mcs better like they know I like Joey mc beat. I'm like, now they they pretty much emc the same. And he was like, yeah, I said, what what makes Deuce powerful is his confidence.

He's sure of who is right, and that's really everything in life. You know what, specially if you arm me with information, you know what I mean? That's how I am, Like I realized I learned ship to be confident. My confidence coming what I learned. So this is the third member out of four of the group force him my home girl, Silkie. So what's happening, Silk? Are you so you use your big lady voice? So are you a rolls person or you're a partnership person? Fifty y'all just

do it together? Are you a rose person? I'm okay. So. And the reason why I tell Joey and me and Joey had this conversation is I don't think women respect now, not all women, sorry, because but most women don't really respect like right now. And when I'll tell you that she feels like she does so much, you do. I'm not saying you don't, but the way you feel about it, it's fucking hilarious. You just feel like you do so much and he just do this right, Instead of you

think I didn't say that he just does this. I'm just talking about how I feel. I know that he does. So what about the reality of the world. I know that he does a lot, but he didn't have a problem with it. He's like, you know, I know, I know the fact you didn't let him volunteer that himself

makes you crappy? What and the niggas who take care of everything, they'll be dealing with the same ship, yes, but the only difference is the respect they gotta put on your name when you are doing this ship, when you're playing the role. It's still a level. It's up there. Respect Could you grab it? They drinking round. So it's gonna get crazy, definitely because the respect level. And that's what I'm saying. A woman is gonna give you ship no matter what you do right and right, I agree,

you're gonna need a lot of that silk. It's going to get bad up and this motherfucker's I got. I got like that, do a lot more like on the financial level, way more than I do, and I'll be like, damn thinking how we relate like this? Gonna be women no matter what you do, right, women are insatiable. Agree, they're ever Forgive me. I'm not talking about you when I'm saying this on Olivia, I'm not talking ship rest my mom. So y'all are insatious say that. No, I'm

just saying because I'm not. I'm great, but up, women are insatiable they're at a constant conflict with themselves, not as a whole side. Some women are just pretty much But yes, you guys are right, So there's a difference. Women are always that conflict with themselves consistently, right, and that's why they make war with the world. No, the war. No, we have peace with ourselves. I think that's true. Yeah,

we are. That's why we bring resident because we kind of really impulsive and we'll probably just pressed that red button and blow everything. You know. What's funny, I believe if all women were in control of the world, the war withou end. I think so too. No, I do feel that way because we're very impulsive and the ones who are not, though y'all don't do a great job of getting alone. What's funny is we don't get along, but y'all like get along faithfully, not faithfully faithfully Know

what I'm saying. I mean, yeah, because you just be like, I'm not working with you. No, man, you don't know if I gonna with you. It's not even a question. I'm just not working with you. And that it doesn't mean that I'm going to be disrespectful to you, doesn't mean I'm gonna treat you any kind of way. It's just you're gonna know, like, Okay, that's it for her,

she's not My whole demeanor changes. So so my point is it's like, no matter what you do in that role, right, women are it don't matter whether you fifty fifty or in a row. If they're gonna be like, nigga, you just my roommate, pay every bill up in here too. If you you know, pretty much hand to all the roles and I'm not your slave, you don't own me, They're gonna find some fucking reason to complain for It's literally their birthright, bro. It's kind of like that's how

they survive. That's exactly, Like that's why makeup is in demand, because they're at a constant conflict with themselves. It's like, that's what I say all the time, But what do you mean when you say, do you mean financially total every thing? Like he cooked some time for you. You cook, so not just y'all split the mortgage, but you cook. He cooked some time too, He cleaned, you clean everything. Yeah, you get his tires change, he gets your tire change.

I said I was tired and I wasn't making plates because I work. I have a job too. Now, if I didn't work, and I was a homemaker, does work? He worked, you expect him take out the trash? What do you expect him to take out the trash? Don't matter if he's tired, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if he's tired. Do you expect him to get your oil change? That's his job? Right? So how do you know about job? Hold on, I have my job a regular nine to five, that's my job at home. So

your job nine? How many hours? Does he work? Ten to twelve hours a day? So? So so his ten to ten? Know what that's like? Right? So let's say it's ten to ten, right, and you still want your oil change? Still want to trash? So you so you mean to tell me y'll both? So let me say this. They're going to fit as far as his plate goes. He works Monday through Friday, so I'm cooking his dinner, in his in his lunch, so he's getting his plate

made when he's going to work. So those say that Saturday or that Sunday, I'm tired, I worked all week? Does he not get to take your oil tone that Saturday Sunday? That means he doesn't have to take your card, get all your chance neither. Does that mean I'm not making breakfast in the morning and I'm not doing that? He doesn't. He doesn't get a day off, right, he gets a day off. He doesn't get a day off.

So do you get a day off? Usking for But he's gonna make his plates because I don't want to make taking the day off half So he should take a day off. She's saying, it's just a plate half off. It's just the plate, a little bit of the plate. So he should take a day off. He should find he should find one of the tasks that he has to do together. But you make the kids. I make the man play the kid. Yes, you're wrong, the man first. Kids, we're gonna sit We often know you're gonna sit together.

You just make a man play. Do you not make the little crumbs take some side while you don't make the man? Why you don't make the little crumb snatch and play first? No? No, you make that first off. You got a kid, Your daughter gonna grow up and she's not gonna funk with you. My daughter already cooking. You're missing the point. Let me focus she's gonna find a man, and then whatever you thought you was making that play for first, it's gonna go out the window.

She's gonna make that man play. She's going to the man before you play. She's gonna make decisions for him before you. I don't need her when she grown, I don't. She don't ownly her life, her life. But I'm saying, I'm saying, so why would you think you should dedicate your existence to making her play? First of love? And then it's us. So you think it's whatever is left that's not gonna work because that nobody gonna be like what's left for us? No, it's it's not side, it's

not Stop doing that. Stop putting them a little crumb snatches first, she's a snatching crumbs person. She snatches crimbs. She ain't for the work and go putting nothing on this food. She's gonna snatch whatever crumbs you put on that table. Hey, we love them there, yo, little juniors. You see yourself in them, and that's awesome, But don't mistake it. See the thing is, I think what happens

to some women in these situations. Right, you only have your baby for a while, Right, you have your baby, be y'all, and this be your go to person, so you don't never think some dude is gonna be there because pretty much every situation you had didn't work out. So then your your little mini me becomes your role dog, and then so you really start valuing that person at a different level. We're all doing it wrong. No, No, that's when everybody sit down at your play, make your play.

No that's not how but facet it's a horrible design, but facetyle. So so I'm gonna make sure I talk to hommy and make sure he takes his half a day off so you can really see it. So he should pay like three quarters of the mortgage. Why because that way, because if you feel like you're tired, this nigga worked. I have a job. He has a job, and I'm taking care of the house and the baby. You don't take care, you make a home. He takes care of the house. It's different. Does he get paid more?

Don't count my money. He's getting paid more. It's because everybody pays their fair share. What's the share? But but if I'm making thirty thousand and he's making two hundred thous not fair? Why you at work. What are you doing if you make two hunting but so because so so, because you want to get up at you and that's all your bread. Listen, this is my what we're doing with that. That's a that's a great point. That's a great that's a great point. So you don't. I don't

do what I do. I don't hold the door open as a representation of the type of woman I'm dealing with, right, I would hold the door before a prostitute, right, because it's a representation of Olivia, right, my mom. I do what I do to make myself proud. So if you're not proud by making these people plates, that's your problem. First number one, that it's a proud moment to nurture your family. It's it's awesome. You should feel like the fucking earth like I literally make sure y'all eat topped

the bottom, my fruit come off the tree. Here it is right here. I did that. You're talking about tired. How does it feel like a chore to be a woman? How does it feel like a chore ter nurture? I could never feel like a chore provider. I gotta go to work because I got it. I'm working. But she's having all the time. That's how my boyfriend's grandmother is his grandmother. She's literally like that, like she want to

make sure you eat, go to the play. When the bill come and that bill come, I don't care if that bill is that bill now and took Brandy daughter for me to motherfucking her birthday to bill. I'm proud when that bill come here, it is boom. There you go. That's pride. How don't you have that pride consistently? I have it. Don't mean that it don't mean that you can be tight. I'm asking you you could. Have you ever worked out? I mean you ever got on a

run of working out? Have you ever got on a run of working out when you just worked out for months? What are the best days to work out? The days you don't feel like working out? You ever? You have you ever finished that workout? When you don't feel like working out? You get it done? Like damn good? Take notes, re taken, take notes. I'm doing the workout notes. I'm always tired, so I'm listened. I what do you call it? I go the limit? But there's announcement just in case

these plates ain't made buffets. Now handle your business. I would never do that. I would never I would never buffet the bills. Hey, you know, here's the bill. Pick one tired today, pick a bill. Buffet the bills on the table. You know why because that would not be a great representative of who I am. I am me on purpose. And I felt bad telling them that. But my literally I really did. My man, he was like, how did you say? I was like, say, hey, this is what's going on and check it out or no.

I was like, all right, you guys. After I made places, I said, you know what, I was like, I don't want to bake plates me. I was like, I'm gonna cook the food and everything. You know, I'll sit it out. And you know, my dad's like, yeah, you don't have to make my playing. I mean, you know because and he's like, no, no, no, that's because your dad is a player. You're not a player. You didn't do the player where your dad's plays. Like, I don't worry, baby,

I got you. You should have felt felt bad, but she did mean forever I thought you meant that day, because it's different when people like you know what, I'm tired today, man, I don't feel like making the place. But I made places last night. I mean I made my man last night. Wash the band as you cook too, Yeah, clean up exactly, yes, oh my god, clean up, Oh my god, oh my god. Moving along this guy, I don't want to see them. But this is, this is three days later, this is Oh no, I'm gonna make

your plate. Sorry. This is the point. It's not the problem with the plate is the mentality. That's what That's what roles. Your mentality doesn't understand that we're tired today because you don't get to being tired. That he doesn't. He's not allowed that luxury. And I can know you're tired. See, my job is to know you're tired and to step in. Now you go. But this is don't chip. I'm gonna

get some food. No, I'm gonna cook, don't you. You know why because he's a fucking awesome guy, fucking awesome. He never walked through was like, here's here's the bills. You know why, because he's not fucking like they're sucking awesome. We're sucking awesome. Awesome. That because we're awesome recognized. That's why I'm with him. That's right, no matter what, that's here, he's awesome. You guys are good at The solution is to stop. So this is why so and I'm glad

you asked me. That's side, my name, my dog, I got you. The reason I'm saying this is because sometimes you just gotta do who you like. You do it because this is who you are, and if it's not who you are, stop playing like. This is what I tell Joe, Like, that's what I'll be on Joel. Y'all the time. Be who you are, unapologetically. If you feel like you're ignorant in certain places, find information and then evolved in that place. But be who you are even

if nobody else understands it. But read specifically like in that conversation is that was some bullshit. I'm tired. I made the food. So y'all make your own plates now, can see if they say hold up now moms to me, don't trip. We're gonna make our own places. You look tired a matter fact, make your plate. That's what they're supposed to do if they paticition. But it ain't supposed to be just because you're tired, somebody supposed to look

and want to take that off of you. And if they don't, you suppose will pride yourself in doing it. I pride myself and being a man. I ordered a pizza for you on the phone because you were hungry. I prided myself in ordering that pizza to make sure you got that nourishment to keep going. That's a proud that I'm not looking like, well, you know when you kick your own slices, well, you tip the man. I mean,

I said it nicely. They understood. Like I said, I felt bad, but I had because I feel like every time I cook, I have to make these plates and I don't want to have kill or you get to I'm saying, I'm that's just what I do. I make the play change the mentality, the mentality of I have to make these places. You get to make these places. It is a oh my god. A perspective will save your life though, and just connecting and then I'm gonna

come back and I'm gonna be perspective will save your life. Listen, brick, perspective will save your life. You it. I get it immediately. That's the separation between how I look at life versus how I ever looked at life before. I get to do this for her mentality. How are you supposed to think. So a healthier way to look at it, because if you look at it, you can do it, versus I get to do it. It's just you. That's like some

subconscious stress you put. You don't even understand how detrimental that is, Like I have to do this, like even that even expressing the words when we say I can't, I'm so tired. I can't make your plate. I would love to. It's not I'm not getting Yeah, it wasn't coming from that. You don't literally you're not literally so physically incapable because your arms are hurting, you can't make the plate. You know that. You don't know, by the way, oh my god, how much stuff is on these plates? Hey,

I don't know. You mind tell them? Mother said, making no plates on the way. I have a problem with women that bad. I don't want people in my kitchen, so I prefer to make your place so you're not in my making a mess. That's true. The reality is saying, y'all had these fucked up as ideas all day anticipated They're like, like, nothing about a woman is spurred a moment. What are you talking about? You already knew that. I'll be premiss yeah, there ain't no something. Listen, you already

thought about killing this batch. You don't get me wrong. You women are greater than me, right, And I'm saying this. I said this. People think I'm saying this. I'm not keeping I'm literally dead serious. But the problem is y'all use your power so horribly. I use mine great. You use your power selfishly work out for me. No, but I'm saying women are like, like I had this conversation me and Joey. We're not into abortions, right, We don't think that's like a cool thing. Right now. I'm not

saying I don't understand the purpose. I get it, you know. I mean like, I don't like the concept that you give some pussy away and then now later on you're not gonna let me get this abortion. I think those decisions should be made earlier. And I can't speak for Joy, but for myself, I really feel like my main issue is how we how we're talking about Like when we talk about the boys were like, oh, it's a woman's body, may nobody care about her? Can get bbls, fake Pearson's

ship in their head tattoos? Nope, you never heard no man protesting a woman get tattooed on the women shouldn't be able to get tattoos. That's not what we're not talking about the bike, right, We're talking about the concept of a growing, you know, baby in your stomach. So that's why the conversation should be approached that way. So when you make that decision, you know what I mean, it becomes as heavy as a ship. There's no mistakes. It was on purpose. As a kid, you really don't know.

You don't have any guy ins and you kind of just what if you weren't talking that that's someone man grow without parents and I don't know that they lost. I had a friend that didn't have neither one of her parents, grew up in foster homes, all kind of stuff. She just went on with life as she saw it. So she, you know, she lay down and did her thing. She didn't know. I mean, of course you can look around those the girl, but that's not what I'm talking to. Come on, man, you know who you want to get

some pussy too? You ain't that you really know? Yes, what about your fourteen? Your fifteen? And then you're sleeping with an adult who has to be talking to you about sometimes for real everything. You're talking to me out of it. It wasn't that wasn't me there that night. Okay, okay, so gain you up? So he didn't gain you up. You wanted something because you're gonna do the same dumbass

ship at this age right now, Yes you are. You're gonna find a guy that has some stuff that you want and that's going to determine the decision on where you go with him. Now, I'm not listening, but that's a child. You're gonna have that same child until you evolved. Listen, So again, now we start talking about legal presidents, right, and this is gonna get creepy, right because head, it's not a child's head. This is because you don't want to walk like the girls. The girls at my school.

Just listen. I'm just listen what I do. Of course I do because I was a child at once and I've listened to a girl. So let let me tell you what happens right now. I'm not gonna tell what happens to you, but I'm gonna tell you what happens. So the guys at high school want the same thing the adults want. The only difference is one't got to caring some money. So women are not incapable of making

the decision. They're actually making a quality decision because they're actually saying the best decision will be to don't give nobody no pussy. But the reason the girls when I was in junior and I had a car and girls was talking to older dudes that graduated seven years before that because them Nick has had cars and some money. If that's not an ignorant decision, well, because you're you're

you're already you already see I didn't like that. People around you, older women around you, you see that that's what they're going for. So you think that that's that's it's not. It's not. It's not none, it's not any of that. It's actually, that's a really great decision. The problem is it's an a legal decision that some one person is making. But it's not a bad decision on the woman for making this decision. Like like with R. Kelly, it's not crazy to want to give pussy to R. Kelly.

It's fucking r fucking Kelly. The problem is R Kelly breaking the law taking the vagina. But but but again, to make it, that's how they are, how they were not. Yes, they were how they were treated. It's a lot that go. That's what he's going for people that age. Because you can't do that to the wrong woman. Yeah, I might just want to. Of course our Kelly could do it just because itsion. He would have done that. He didn't do children most of the women he did. Let me

ask you a question at the same time. Here's a question, right, how much pussy you think R Kelly got in his lifetime? Kelly? So? So let's let's let's just imagine a number, a number, say that again? How much are how many pussies has R Kelly put his penis in? I don't know if you had the guests of a numbers about about thousands, R Kelly only a thousand women thousands? Give me a number thousands? How much pussy as R Kelly got his nastiest CAUs was kells was sucking, he was having orgies

and everything. I'm quite sure different women. So how many women have R Kelly not? Now, just give me a number like prices, right, let's see prices right, I'm gonna be humble. Okay, So let's say R Kelly so so a thousand, ten thousand, let's split it right in the middle at five thousand. How many of these motherfucker's you thought was under the team? Maybe most of them, because that's what he aimed for. That's not true, I think. No, I mean, that's not that's what he likes. He liked. No,

that's that's literally part of a marketing campaign. R Kelly. Most of the women in r Kelly's campaign were all of age. Most of the women every more, most of the women in the documentary, but currently the ones manipulated in the way he treated them was all grown, said they were none of the mean that you're grown, you still have a mentality. It don't, it's not, it's not. You're not a victim. And this is my problem. I

never liked that concept for them. They're not the kids that were under the age of Let me tell you. I'm gonna tell you why they're not because they never actually to this day. Let me let me tell you why they're not victims. See the victims. See, there's some things called victims crimes, like now pedophilia. That's a victim a person that cannot make a sexual decision at all.

Right there, Like you know what, you literally take something from them, you're taking their innocence once you literally become of sexual age to write to procreate and not ten eleven. But you know, fifteen sten eighteen women start choosing. Why they are choosing is the question that y'all know that you would never be honest about. We know why you choose, and we're not crazy. You're not gonna choose qualities because you like you think you're a nice guy. No, no,

you choose things that have value to yourself. Right, this person could bring value to yourself. Maybe he has money, maybe as a card, maybe he you know, whatever you make. You start still talking about a child here, we're talking al I'm not saying out. So then that's why there's a crime. There's a there's a charge in place because they're saying she's going to make a bad decision. But the thing is, those little fourteen fifteen girls are not

complain because you know why. You know why. But as as I was fourteen, when I was fourteen, now I dated a guy that was thirty something, okay, and in that moment, I'm thinking this is great. Why was it great? Because he had money? Like you said, he had money, he was paying for everything. But now that I'm an adult, and I looked back on it, I was like he was a predator. He was a predator because there's no way that a thirty year old should be messing with

a child, no matter how. Listen, I'm not I'm not. I'm not saying. I'm saying. I'm not saying. I'm not saying he's not a criminal. And hold up, hold up, hold up, hold hold up. But you're not a victim. He broke the law. You're not a victim because you choose that kind of person today. But I would have never been that I had had guidance, and I had I'm not. I'm not there. I would have never done that. I'm not I'm not disagreeing saying that you would make

a different decision, but the reality is, I'm not. I'm not dising you know. The truth is though all older men want younger woman. But discussing because I don't look at a year old boy at the age I am now. I would never a fourteen year old boy. You know why you're not because you don't have any money? Is right? Even if he did, I wouldn't. I bet you look at the twenty year old Nike that's rich with some money. Ever, I will never. She knows me. I have we go

out and so you never dated. Let me ask you a question. Have you ever dated a guy younger than you? Never? In your life? Never one year or two years younger. That's it. I've never. So I go no, I'm dead. So how old is the oldest guy you've ever dated? Now, well, I'm in a relationship. Now how old is that guy? He's one year? We're what eleven months apart? Okay, Now, for example, when you choose your guys, what are you really looking for? Stability? A man who got his ship

together the same she was looking for a fourteen. But I wasn't choosing correctly. I should have been choosing. You were choosing at my age old. We're talking about listening. I'm Joey, Joey if your daughter, I don't know how, it's not not you. You're missing a point. I'm not arguing why she should be against the law. I'm arguing with you that you still make the same decisions. Now you know why, because I'm not. Again, I'm not, I'm not.

The thing is, I'm not blaming the women. I disagree with you that I disagree with the concept that they're victims because it's a child. You're not even fully developed all the way. It's not that that's not you're not You're not gonna be fully developed at three. You won't even be fully developed your mind till twenty five. This is a different conversation. Let me make my point. Stop

fucking thinking with your feelings. Let me make the point scientifically. Listen. No, they're not actually horrible right now, actually fucking horrible right now because right now, well I feel, I don't care how you feel. Let's let's create a world where we could share. Listen, listen, this is a world where we can share. Let's come into a world. Are Kelly is wrong because he broke laws? Right, there's laws in place to protect young young adults, right, young teenagers from making

grown up decisions. Right, do you understand like how statutory rate cases work. Like literally, you can still have sex with a thirty year old man at fourteen if your parents are proven Yes, and in some countries it's it's legal. No, No, I'm saying it's legal in this country if your parents approved age as soon as you have puberty. That's really true. I think it's like age. You can't record it r Kelly was violated in the United States. It's not the

laws you can't have sex at fifteen. The laws you can't. Your parents have to approve who you have is sex with if somebody's over eighteen at fifteen. That's why it's called statutory rate. Your parents pressed the charge. It's not you that I know. You don't know that you know why because you're too busy fucking feeling your way through life. You don't know. Ship. There's different women are capable of making their own decisions. In other countries. That's younger, so certain,

here's some more ship. In Nevada, that legal age you can it's sixteen, So you could sleep with a fourth of year old man at sixteen legally. So again, we can't talk legality versus morality. This is two different things. I say as a grown as an adult, why would you're asking me why do people like R. Kelly, who can't read it right want to sleep with somebody young? I have no idea because I don't even like sixteen. That's a good question, right, So they probably share the

same books. But they probably share the same books. They probably both reading dr Suits forgive me. I'm praying for you. I'm not talking shit. I'm just saying I'm not talking about the man. I'm telling you the man definitely has something wrong. Let's just remove him from the thing. That's what I'm telling you, so I stop feeling. Listen, the man is wrong, right, legally, he's wrong. Why would a man I want to sleep a thirty or four yeard man want to sleep with eight yeard woman is the

same question to me. I don't know why, even if she's eighteen, Like, why the fund would you sleep if you forty? While if you'll ever deal with an eighteen year old girl in your life. Kids like daughters, cousins. They're horrible, fucking awful. They don't know ship. They think they know something. They ain't a long enough to be good at it. I don't care if they started four years before that. It ain't good at that, Like you

ain't got enough experience. I don't know personally, So as a man, I can't tell you why a man, but I think that's we can all agree that something is probably wrong with him, something wrong with him, But let's remove him from the ship. There's nothing wrong with the fifteen year old girl that found some older nigga with a car and some money. Nothing wrong with her thinking. Women are going to think that way until the day they die. You're gonna always look for that same stability.

The hope for you, Joey, is you provide that stability to your daughter. That's the difference, right, So I agree with you, Like if you have issues a father, and yeah, you might look at it differently. You're like, you don't quite know what it should look like, you're kind of imagining it, Joey. That's the goal, right for a father to provide that look for his daughtership, Like why ain't gonta don't have to go out there and look for

it and another man and another man. But if you have a dad like Joey's up happing, of course she's not gonna end up like that or she's not gonna do those things. But that don't mean But that don't mean Joey daughter ain't gonna try to look for somebody to stable And Joey's gonna be mad as a motherfucker if she comes with his motherfucker that right, But I'm not if she's not going to do it that you no, no, God willing no, hopefully not. I mean I'm sure, it's happening.

It's happened, but I don't. I'm with you in agreements that the goal is for it to not happen. What I'm saying is, it's nothing crazy about their thinking. Like you're thinking even when you was fourteen and you dated the creepy guy at thirty, right, it's nothing wrong with you're thinking. It's nothing because I never did. Because in your mind, you're like, you know why, because but we raise ourselves. But but listen, but listen to the point.

Every guy wants the same fucking thing, whether that nigga is sixteen or twenty six. When you're sixteen, they want the same thing. I'm not judging you the woman if you're like, well, this nigga want the same thing, and I want to give it to either one of them, but one of them got a car and some money and gonna make sure I get to school on time, or gonna make sure blah blah blah. I think women

are thinking rational from a young age. I think men are not thinking rational because I don't know what the funk would you have a sixty year old girls around you? For men have father issues too and missing daddy's I think we all are raised what's right or wrong and just figuring that's why you should listen to me. Men. No, but I think it's it's more coming from perversion, like when they do it that, like when you mess with someone that young, it's not about having someone or a companionship.

It's really just about a sexual thing. She hasn't had many. I'm gonna tell you what I genuinely think it is. And this is the first time I've ever thought what I think. Right. So I've listened to niggas right who look at young girls right, and maybe like man, niggas will try to live vicariously through somebody else. Adults in general, like women right, try to live through their daughters, right,

vicariously youthful life. Right, It's it's kind of normal, like you pretty much gonna get your old sweat, yes, and accept glasses, which is why you should listen to me. Right, I grew all my ship. I'm not looking like right, So so everybody's chasing and it's my point, right everybody for the most part, no nobody care about that. Nobody Nigga's love long titties. I'm telling you the truth behind

closed doors with Nigga say, nigga's love long tipps. Don'tbody care about like, yeah, might care about no. Motherfucking my boyfriend didn't want me to do with that because nigga's like about me. That's what I don't like. Say, oh it's about this, No, it's about what you see your titties. De Lease, No, I see what I Seelease we trust me more niggers looking. I'm telling you, you walk around with them titties in the shirt that she got. I heared out. If you look, you want people to treat

you like you got big teeth. They already did know they didn't They treat you like you got a big as. There's nothing changed, whatever the cases, there has nothing changed. Of course it changes. Of course you can attract the whole different type of nigga. That's like titties, guys. Sure tell people like titties. Some people like that White guys. Now, I don't know why you wouldn't got titties. What was you thinking? Only people who appreciate titties as white folks.

I think that's not true. I don't know Black people appreciate no titties. Have you ever a man? Yes? I have, and it was great you were sick. Let nobody that's wrong with that big hitting your cheir Hey, he's hitting your chin and you're sucking it. As long as no parks are done, everything is nothing is left. You write it up. You write it up. Let the dog loose. I got I got my brand new titties. I wanted

to experience it, and so I asked my boyfriend. I was like, can you He's like what I was like, yeah, just yeah. I wasn't you like it? Right? I was p put you down? And you're just like, I don't work like that's kind of cool. Yeah, what's cool? Right? Little? I don't want to make just like you can see now see red. There you go. That's the compromise. There you gonna you know what, baby, I'm not gonna make your play today. You play tonight, but get titty, you

get you know what. I'm not going to jails, nick, cause I never sat on a girl. Chance to do it. Blue. That just announced I don't know what tonight. That is your motheruck? You know what? That's so high school to me, but that is it's right. Yeah. You just girls right here and I hit you in the chien a couple of times justation I was going on, and he squatted over me. Yeah, and then he just just he and I'm like, how was your face? What was it like?

I was like, yeah, she was looking I'm looking at it. That me in the head was out of a right right there, bam is happening on No Sillings today. This is like the first real episode of Yeah, hello, what the funk is going on? We grow the hot dog in the bun? Yeah, yeah, titty fucking is like the hot dog in the bun. Oh. This is the worst episode in no cling like it's like this. This is the first real episode where it's just No Silling saying all kind of crazy ship now so okay, so yes,

really wrong. I don't care how tired you are. Right, the goal is to always be grateful that you get to do your job as a as a woman in the family. It's a blessing. The motherfucker couldnot bear the moral trust me your cry if you can't make their play and gratitude, that's always a solution. That's what Joey was saying right there. He was saying. The difference is instead of saying like I didn't be like man, I got I have to be at the studio today to

record force him. It's like I get to be in the studio to record for us, and it really matters, you know what I mean, because if you if you really enjoy the benefit of that concept. But being human, you feeling funking with people, it's a blessing to be around them, what I'm saying. You get a chance for new energies, new ideas, new concepts, especially people that are talented, like I'm not one of them kind of people that I don't. I'm not working with people that ain't talented.

They have no purpose in my life. So if if I'm saying like I'm going to funk with you, it's because I believe there's something there, right, so I get to be a part of it. Definitely. It's but we're not gonna do that rap ship. We're gonna focus on y'all making the plates. I don't too much conversation on that. And and I understand where red point is. I was at work all day and today I did I was tired, took too much no no, no, because but it's not

really about the plates. It's about this what we're saying right now, the mentality when it comes to rolls. I don't feel like I have to open the door. Let me, let me go, let me, let me, let me. I have to open the door for Red because she's gonna know. I get to open the door for Red. I get to do these things. I get to share. Look right now, I get to share a podcast space with you. I have a podcast that's going with Pete and I get to do it with you. If I don't treat it

that way, guess what got to take it away? That's that's that's look at. Yeah. So but yeah, that no matter what you're doing, women are gonna treat they're gonna trip bro, whether whether you go fifty fifty or you do roles right, because we're learning at this point, we're gonna move forward and it's not it's not it's your birth right though side to complain, it's just what you do. And you actually are one of the few that don't complain. I get you, like, you're not a super I know.

I saw you that day when you was on My Live, was at the video and you started acting funny for no reason. Yeah, he was like, he was like and then people on live was like, she's crazy. I'm like I know you are, and I appreciate the honesty of being drunk. Yeah, And and honestly, I have my mind goes like a million mouth for our Sometimes I can't even speak because my mouth and my brain and what I'm thinking and what I want to say. They don't go to it, don't don't. They don't need together. It's

going too bad. Is going to be like yeah, and I have to try to bring it in and figure out what am I trying to say? Okay, So the point whether or not you like fifty fifty where y'all just split all the responsibilities. There is no gender roles and the relationship that's fine long as you're grateful about it. And whether you're in the roles relationship right and you feel like you know whether he's going to work and

you blah blah blah, you work in your hours. Just still you still expect him to be happy to do his job. Right, You still expect him. I mean imagine him like you need your tie that don't feel like doing it, like you would be so disappointed if he does it once. And let me tell you something, if somebody does it once, I ain't gonna lie to you. I'm keeping it a being. I'll be like motherfucker because d n, it makes me start to think about it. But it's not that it makes me start to think

about like, damn, is that what we could do? We could just do what we feel like if that's how any relationship works, you can't help it. I'm super emotional just because I don't use them that. I mean, I don't have them. Yeah, I just don't use that. I have a ton of everybody, the kids. Yes, but that's why we learned how That's why we learned how to because if we said everything we feel or tripped off everything we felt, the world to be. I think y'all

king standards now. I know that's why I get my anger. Like I go off on Mike and then I leave, hurry up and leave. I talked to and I leave. It's actually got a master. They can respond like I said it. I'm glad y'all came on the podcast. Man folks work wherever, motherfucker. I'm gonna give you all one thing I never did for nobody else where. Can motherfucker's find you? On social media? Miss up, Miss Sylvia J,

Miss Underscore Sylvia J. On Instagram. I am at the glory page all written together th G L O R y E. Alright, I think I'm Silkie Johnson one two three four, Yeah, Sylo Joey for the first time, and you're like, where could they find on social ne score Joey west Side. She felt like, how you should wasn't name of your group l A J. That's the name

of the page. The you already know Underscore Giants, right, No, No, it's straight the straight and y'all know what to find me Brittain read were here every week, were just like that. No Sillers looking out for tuning into the No Sellers podcast. Please do us a favorite, subscribe, rate, comment, and share. This episode was recorded right here on the West coast of the USA and produced by my homeboy A King for the Black Effect Podcast Network and not Heart Radio. Yeah