Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No Sillers podcast with your host and I fuck that with your low blasses, Malone. I grew up with my grandparents, you know, because my mom she got killed when years old. I had to live with them full time and I wouldn't stayed with them, and it was like we was living on my grandfather's income. So he was real old fashioned representation and tradition for me. So he would just come and get my grandmother this check. And I never
understood that growing up. I was like, you're just gonna give her an old check. He was like, yeah, just smiled at you like and then later like as an adult and something. He said, you couldn't see it and you won't understand it because she was a baby. But she say, but when I gave your mama to check, it was it was? He said, when it gave your mama to check and stopped her from looking at things, I couldn't give up because she was aware of what
was really there. It made my responsibilities her responsibilities. So she had to pay the bills. And because she was paying the bills, she knew she may require some black pumps, but to look good when we look good, we feel good. But she may not necessarily have to have read on the bottom. It may not have to be Christian Lupton, the expensive ones, and they just have to be nice black pumps for her to wear. You know, if she knows what financially you can bear, she don't feel deprived
because she can't have him at that point. If you understand where you're at financially, you make the logical decisions versus if you didn't have an understanding, because he was handling things, then you could feel the pride. So again right, starting with this fifty cent thing. Right, he didn't understand why his grandfather gave his and mother the whole check and negotiated his kick back. Yeah, it's the way a sister will respect you contributing everything. And so there's two
parts of that that makes sense. The first part is one, she'll respect your contributions. She she she goes your contributions right. Part two, you will be able to negotiate a better kick back with the same respect. Like I said, Muk. If Muk is giving up, let's say seventify of his check. Because a woman could not see the whole thing, it's
still like, oh well, it's still ship talking. But if he was to give her his whole check and negotiate his kick back his arounds, he would end up with more money and less ship talking from motherfucking the woman. I don't even know if that's guaranteed, it's get runteed. I think that the phrase less ship talking from the woman and guaranteed need to be separated by some sort of qualifier linguistically, possibly the word not. I'm telling you this is really how it is. It makes sense, and
that sounds logical. What you said, it's not logical. That's why it's not really logical. Like women are crazy, right when it comes to relationship finances. They would so this is them without information because they're emotionally they're emotionally intelligent. I mean, they're intelligence is really in their emotions. So they would data man that's giving them a hundred dollars a month and he's making three thousand dollars a month, then data man who's giving who's giving them sixty dollars
a month and he's only making seventy. If they don't know how much is really there. The only way they were respected there is if you come up and you say, hey, I made seventy dollars today? Here is it all? Can I get ten dollars? I'm going to do something. She would respect you a hundred times more. But if if you avoid them of the complete picture, the complete picture, they're going to go with what's more, and they're gonna talk shit about what's more anyway or what's less. Very insatiable,
so it's never enough. How was your household growing up, Pete? Like, how was your parents? I mean, was your dad pretty much carrying the whole burden of all the finances? Um, my mom didn't work till I was probably from when I was really little to like eleven, and she's worked ever since, like still to this day. So like even at that point, they put all the money into the joint account and my mom will pay the bills and buy the food and all that kind of ship. Like
she my dad doesn't spend all the money. He's like dirt cheap, but he's gonna managed like other than buying day to day expensive ship. It's not a nickel moving that. He doesn't bring life by anybody, mm hmm move. What was what do you remember the relationship finances when you were younger? Um? From my mom's end. She was single, so she she did it all. Uh. And when I was at Pop's house, Uh, step mom brought in more money than Pops. He had times where he probably wasn't
bringing in too much. So what I saw was the females dominating the economic side. Yeah, let me as your question, did your dad come give her the money? Yeah? He gave what he what he could when he got it. But I don't know as far as the specifics. Was he giving it all and negotiating um, you know, because you gotta remember also, even if he was doing that, what I do know is he always had cash and
stuff on him. So if he was doing that, she made sure that he had a certain amount on him to look good in front of uncles and families and stuff like that. So he always had some cash and ship on him. So I but I just knew that who was dominating the finances based on Uh. I was smart enough to see the jobs he was having versus
a job she had, you know what I mean. She was working back then at a pack bill and I remember at first, you know, she was going great, uh with him, like GT or something like that, doing that, and then uh, after that, he was even struggling with jobs, and then he ended up getting back on the probably the dominant side when he got with American Airlines m but that was later. I was kind of and didn't matter, didn't affect me. Big Al was a savage Olivia. I mean my dad. When I was real little, my dad
was getting it. He had told trucks, so he put her through school. To some degree. My mom always was don't matter who she was, dad, and it was gonna be tough for them to compete with her because like her drive to get to it. It's different. I think I get a lot of my drive from her Jesus animal, and I have to really strain, how because I will go do a lot of things that most human beings, you know, I won't do to earn revenue, and I have no problem doing it. So I have to really
strain my drive to some degree. But I always start growing up like I would like if I was a pharmacist, I would give my wife the whole check. I would let her deal with the finances, paying the bills, but I wouldn't negotiate my kick back mhm that I would function with through the month. Because at an early age, I understood. Women kind of have to see everything so they can see the whole picture, so they could put respect on what you bring it to the table, because
if they can't see everything, then they will assume it's more. Again, we we all commonly all agreed between the conversation of accountability. They lack that right too. They're also insatiable. Nothing is ever enough, right, but they will put risk epect on your name when they see you giving them everything you got. Believe, yeah, I appreciate you giving me everything you have nowhere near enough, but I appreciate the They won't say say that to you,
but that's what they're thinking. No, they they now see I don't know what they thank you. That's a whole another story. But I don't think they shouldn't have used the word thinking that's too strong a word. They're gonna cull too strong a word. That is, they're gonna murder you. You know what, I'll give them credit. I give them credits that they won't feel like it's not enough. I think they'll make it work until they want the next want and trying to see their friends have the thing
that they don't have. That. Yeah, but it will always be this sense of my man is giving me everything he got. It's a different that's a different floss in two for a woman. It's a different floss in two for woman. Man, I think that depends on the woman. All these new school bitches, so I gotta get out of this bullshit. All these these new school bitches, they don't they're looking, they're watching all these other motherfucker's on the social media. They don't give a funk what what
man is giving them all they got. They're looking at old with it. This man is able to give them this. Yeah, man, these don't agree with y'all. And for what in my life, I actually am finding myself in a position to to defend modern femininity. I think that's a consistent thing about women. It's good their motherfucker's is. I watched it all the time. I think, see, my fucking need a car because another because another motherfucker got a new But now we're feel
to get to some whole instatational ship. But that's about that's what that involves. And I don't think they'll ever say to you. They'll know they can't afford a car. If they're seeing your whole chip, they'll know they can't afford the car, and they'll and they'll deal with it. One thousand times better than not knowing what exactly you have and you're not giving them a car. Hey, okay,
you can believe what you want, I'm telling you. And that way, that's a thousand times better than the first way. It's still terrible. What's terrible about it? You see, she's gonna do something wrong with the money. Let me ask a question. Here's a here's a better question. Here's a better question. Let's say, Pete, right now, you meet some Miami style you, some cold woman that you really fall in love with. Right right, the magic happens for you. I know it's been a while since the magic happen
for you. You're fighting magic. It's not really a twinkle for you. But let's say the magic happens, right. Do you believe because she lives there? Should you guys split the rent or the mortgage? I'm personally, I'm not having that. Just meet personally. If I can't carry the whole thing, thank you, I'll just let her go. You can go. You need to focus on ship anyway. Yeah, so you do. So your goal is to pay the whole thing you have to carry the financial burning. My my goal is
one equity ownership. You just need to be able to tell her his mind. Everything here is mine. You can do what you please. But you know, I think no, no, no, no. See I definitely agree with that. I think that's where a lot of us go wrong. See what happens is I'll use more situations that I was in. That I've been in is my in my brain. I've said, man, the best bet is for us to wait till I can do this, this, this, and this. Let me stay where I'm at. You stay where you're at, and do
what that way. And here's what happens in the community. And and men, we we you know, falling in love with the picture of some bullshit, but we get talked into no, it don't matter. I just want you here all the time, and we can make this ship word list and that. And then you got in that process for dupe for dup for do you get some and you get some pussy? And she really want me here, Yeah,
she just wants me. And I'm talking about I've known better, I've known him where it and I got duped listening to the listening to nuts come out and all type of ship and pussy and liking it and and yeah, funk all that for dupe for dupe for dupe. I see a thing all time on like social media, women saying I just want a man I can build with, but they misspelled the word. They always say b U I l D and what they really mean our ourd. You fucking go No, that's right, because look, this is
the ship. I've noticed too. It's happened all the time. That's why I'm not. I don't give an what he's talking about. Your hud and them just not seeing the rests and this is making dude, once you become involved, automatically they see, oh, well, automatically, I should be able to get this, this, this, and this and this now
period you can give my hunted, this and that. You know what they're gonna saying, you give my hunt They see the whole ship, they're gonna see, well, you know what, he can figure out how to go out there and get more than totally disagree. I'm just telling you it's two against one, so I'm not It's not crazy. I just totally disagree. I genuinely think women think I think women back in the day had that in them I'm talking about even women today. Yeah, and I don't. I
think that's really really, really really old women today. Yeah. How old we go born in nineteen twenty, born in nine, yeah, pre war, pre war chicks, pre World War two, yeah, the Big War, the Big one. Yeah, not pre commonly pre war majority for sure. We think no of them. I think, I think, um, I think men. The homie had a conversation women natural nature, right, is to be selfless. They that's their natural nature. Everything about a woman is giving,
right and naturally. But then every day they are alive in this world, they begin to take and then they come. So once they get into the world right, and then they start listening to the world, then they actually go into a phase to be like me, me, me, I think, I think the world. I think, I think the red you're still vagina is it's me. Yeah. Lets let me
point out an evolutionary approach to this. Since the dawn of you know, mankind, like I'm talking homo habilious, homo erect us, way back when we were just loose packs of mammals like any other pack mammal. Basically, how it is because it takes human offspring so long to develop women stay in. Men go out and bring resources to women. Men produced, women consumed. It's dug into the DNA. There's
only older. There's there's older stories of many women. That proves that that's not true, that that women do go out and do the same thing. But I do wives tales. They created that their old stories and went back to right there, old story. There's no husband's tales. We just call host history and it's out here. He said, there's no old He said, he noticed, there's never no old husband tell There's only old. So listen. So the thing is, when you actually get into the actual part of sex, right,
it's not about giving them me right. You're you're literally they're giving you their body right. And you put a baby in there, and then they give you a kid, and they make a house at home and the couch that no, literally they delivered the kid to you literally bring into this world. They don't bring the kid into this world. How many children you got? I got sick? How many times you've seen this happen? All right? Now,
what the hell are you talking about? Trust me, whatever meet you gave them cannot contend with the meat they pushing out. Man, you ain't giving them ten pounds of meat. No, no, no, no no, I didn't say. I mean, you could be a bad motherfucking but god damn what I'm saying. At the end of the day, they used to receive and ship hands out at all time or something. I don't think that's true period. I don't. I don't. You can not think nothing. I mean because personally I've seen it's
not always like that. I don't think they're always trying to receive. I think society teaches them you gotta think right. Society teaches women, and they teach us that women are special, right, and genetically speaking, that's true to some degree, right, But then the world tells them right to that they're valuable
just because they exist. That's a weird thing. It's like, I think we were talking about this before where we was talking to some lady on the podcast back in the day, and she was like, he should just be happy that I'm just here. So they're taught that, right, and we're taught that, we're taught that they're special, they're innocent, they're great, right, and then every day we're on earth, they prove those things wrong outside because of bias juries.
That's all. That's going on every day we're on Earth. They started showing us that they aren't that different from us. In California, Man, we pay attention to that. We're like, okay, feel me. So that's why I mean, so we we the pedestal gets lower and lower. But again, I still think the brilliant points, the genius points in them is if they know you're giving your all feel me. They are different. Even some of the worst ones like Pete don't. I don't know if Pete, I don't know if if
white Pete Douce got money. I probably imagine because he's not as famous, he might got some money. But does he. I mean, he got white people money. So it's always different, even a wealthy nigga money and better the white people rich money. But whatever little bit he's given Kim right, it's more than enough. She him standing alone of money. But again we're talking about no no, no, I don't talk about that type of ship. No, talk about some
regular smugglers. And we just heard fifty cents right now, right talk about grandfather giving his grandmother the whole check. In her mindset, it's totally different. It's like having a like what Eddie Murphys said, get you a zererra bitch before they become americanized. You're talking about an ancient woman and no longer exists. They don't exist. I don't. You can believe that all you want, and I'm glad you're so optimistic, but that ain't how it's going right now. Man.
So you don't think there are a ton of households where men are giving women their check and they're not complaining to them about finances. No, I think there's a lot of households for men are giving women their check. Yeah. I agree with that part too. That's about it, the complaining part. When you're talking about regular average dudes. We're talking about dudes in the fifties and the sixties of
thousands or forties. Man, most of these bras because they're sitting here and watching all these timelines and all these other people with these red bottoms or all these different cars, all the different ship that they want to be involved in. I don't think you're giving women enough credit. I'm telling I'm telling enough credit. I'm never give them enough credit. They burn right through it before the pace exactly, your credit score is gonna go drop. I don't think so.
I think I think women at a certain way when they're always trying to figure things out. I was in the situation to give sure. I still was unable to pay my own car note, unable to pay insurance sure right, unable to pay cable and check this out. I still was doing it. But again, hold on where I'm getting to exist me hoping that she's gonna give me to negotiate. Sometimes the way I was doing things, it wasn't gonna work that way. If I if I had to wait to see what I'm gonna negotiate, it is to that
to do. You don't You don't have to wait. You can put a permanent negotiation there. You can immediately start us to hell. You know what I had in the pige because I'm gonna give you the whole check. I'm gonna depot hole checking your account, and this is what we're gonna do. I'm gonna take this much percentage to live because I have to drive to work. I have to do these things right here. That's what I was doing. That's the same thing. She didn't see it that man. Listen,
I'm telling you no counts except for the counts. That's also different. You said what that's also different. Yeah, because again, if somebody can see every dime coming in, they have to put a different respect on what's Listen, women just want you to give all yourself and then something. That's what that's in in the situation I'm referencing, is what I was doing. No again, because she can't see you
giving all of yourself. You know what would have happened if she was saw All that would have happened was the expectation to be going somewhere else and getting some more money. You need to don the job. That's it. I thought that was gonna happen. I don't think so. I think I think I got happen. But I think you don't think so. You can't be sure if you never tried. I know you gotta try, man, I don't
gotta try. Ship, I'm telling you right, man, See, when you know the motherfucker's you deal with, you know that certain ship, it ain't it ain't gonna change. I don't. I disagree. I think all of these things are variables right where you If you change certain numbers, the equation can spit out of different So check this out. So here here here's the deal I negotiate. Did this is what I could afford when I was at a job that I was making more money. So now let's go
to logic. When we got men in the room, right, So if I negotiate, Let's say, if I negotiate, all I can pay is this, And I was at a job. Listen, listening, I was at a job that was making more money when this happened. When I negotiated this, this is what I'm gonna pay. Boom, boom boom. Then if I lost this job and got another job, but I was already making less, but I'm still paying the same overhead. See, automatically, that's a part of that. You you're you should automatically
be able to see. Wait a minute, you was at this job and you're paying this amount. Now you're going to this job and I have informed you that I am making less than I was making at the other job, but I am still paying the same amount. That's automatic to go okay, But that ain't would happen because the
respectus still be there going okay. Well, wait a minute, if he was only paying if he was paying this amount when he was making this amount, and now he dropped to where he's only making this amount, but he's still paying this. He's a cold nigger. And I would say the exact same thing if they saw the whole No, see, because me logic already says that if I'm fucking if you, if you're making sixty, thou here and you're paying fucking are they seeing it? Listen, it don't matter. It matters.
I'm when I'm getting to why, I don't because if I was making six and I was giving you fifty, and now I lost that job that was paying me sixty, and now I'm only making fifty, but I'm still figuring out how to give you fifty, you should automatically logically, just nothing about a woman is automatic. But that just what this tells me is at some point then you're an idiot. So if you're an idiot, that's cool. It's like you don't have to respect it, but that you
don't have to respect that I'm giving you fifty. It's out of fifty. That's it's not about respecting, right, it's and it's not just you just said they were gonna respect me more if they knew the whole picture. Yes, So if I'm giving you the whole know now what you're doing is saying the whole picture. I think you can see the whole picture. Then something's wrong with you. No, you're not the whole picture. Said against link here. I think you're talking about seeing the whole number. I don't
think that's really what it is. I think they like to have U the control and the role and the feeling of purpose to where they I'm so integral. I have to be here when he gets a check, I get the whole check, and then I can manage my life, his life, the householdows to give them a scale of purpose and belonging. I think he's right. Yeah, but here's the problem. You said you you said you who me. I've had girls complained about you like that to me. Like They'll be like like, like, what do you want
for me? I'm like nothing? So what am I supposed to do? I don't know, be here or don't, but I don't want or need anything from you. I'll I could cook better than you, I can clean. You don't need to do that. You only to do a goddamn thing. If your presence makes me happy, to just be present and do whatever makes you happy. But they need to feel a sense of purpose and then bothered them being of no consequence spotted them because they live in the
university consequences. I agree, I agree, I agree, you know, honestly, I agree with what y'all what you're seeing g as well as far as giving it to him and then seeing it and and hopefully is gonna open up something in their head. But what I'm telling you is how I'm feeling my cases that I've been involved in. To me, what's the difference in you seeing the exact number or I just gave you the number? A total difference. It's not about the number. It's like white men can't jump,
um hm. It's about the feeling. It's just you really lose. Sometimes when you pay, you really with hold that sometimes hold and sometimes when you right get laid off, you pay and with hold or neither. Ye always you give it a whole unemployment. Yea. So here's the other deal, because now that I'm thinking about it, it is being sold. It was all based on when when you do things together, it got it got saw that way. How when when you when you get a car together, again, that's not
you're doing something what really is or paycheck stuff? Now it's not he's telling you, yes, but what you do not see a number. You're you're trying to find a sophisticated logical way, right, that's simple. It's not. I can tell you it's not about the numbers. So what is it about seeing the number? You know, it's about my number, the whole number of what I get going into the count,
running the house. It's not the number. And that's where we differ at They will take somebody that's making one thousand dollars, he said, Man, I just need a hundred dollars to catch bus to work. She'll be happy and somebody else could have more than her. And now this this could be me being a bit naive to thinking women could be you know, this is just optimistic. Respect.
This is beautiful. I don't know I'm saying. I think they would give you a hundred dollars and be just as proud you're giving them the money, even a modern woman who is kind of the prisoner to social media. And okay, you know the desires of modern day people period, because of what social media the force. Of course, it's exceptions to the rule. And I'm telling you, at the end of the day, the percentage is fucking eight of the brawls ain't doing that. I think it's brads doing it,
not doing it. That's beautiful. Highly disagree because to me, what you just said with giving them the whole check and this and that and that, same woman should be able to see mathematics. If you if you tell a motherfucker, i'm making sixty, I'm giving you fifty. So you so they have no They have no fucking logic, no conversation. We just started the conversation, say women, are you have
no logic? It's not about that. It's if you say you're making if you're smart enough to be able to I've dune my whole check in right, you seeing my hundred percent of everything I'm giving you right if you're smart enough to go, oh, I'll give you. You know you're smart enough to do and calculate. Emotionally intelligent, Okay, I hear you. How they feel is a lot different
than the conversation of intellect of you saying numbers. The fact that she feels that you will commit your whole check to her right shows a different level of commitment. Even if you are getting more back right at that time, even if you're getting more back than you were giving her, it's how she would feel about it. So she can't feel that I'm giving a if first off, if I'm
even if I literally she sees it, you're undercutting. She had to feel like you want the cutting her because I'm doing what Because you're you're taking from her the opportunity to be in charge and to have a role. You're reducing her role. Oh wow, you know, and you know I will agree with y'all on this because I've seen this too. I've seen never mind, go ahead, I'll just you know what we're gonna say. No, no, no, I'm gonna agree. I'm just gonna agree on this one.
I agree. So my my mentality is, and this is how I feel about that whole ship. If I had a regular gig, I would always pay the rent, even if I needed to make her pay bills, I would pay that well. Actually, if I would be more committed, actually that's probably what I would do. Like if I'm I'm married and I'll regularly give I'll give it a whole check and negotiate a percentage myself every month. This is what I need. If I'm making let's say I'm
making three dollars a month. Little what about now, Okay, So I wouldn't negotiate a percentage and give her the whole thing that would make her feel better consistently, no matter what the amount is, because that way I got it. Whatever he was, I got it off from me. If you give her all the money and then she gives you some of your money back, then she's up the understanding that you work for her and that's all she wants. Yeah, that's what you think it is, dude, that's all you
just explained. It's not strong enough a word. That's all you explained. I don't believe. And this is my thing. I don't know, man. I think I think women. Yeah, I genuinely think. I genuinely think women just want to feel like whoever they're dealing with is all the way, and they want to feel that they're all the way in. Yeah. Yeah, like an employee who lives paycheck to paycheck. You can't afford to lose this job. That's exactly now. Now, now y'all make it more sense again, It's all about how
she feels. It's all the same ship. Like I said, at the end of the day, at some point, you gotta have some type of understanding of just fucking numbers. If you can't see fucking somebody giving you a keep speaking Spanish, and then you're saying that not small, you're
speaking English to somebody who speaks Spanish. I understand. We both agree that in theory they should speak English because there are ergan citizens use in words like women and should, back and back, and then incorporating energ these concepts like numbers and lots and things. That is ridiculous. We're gonna listen to a show like this kind of ideas flowing around.
They go burg you on the cross, so they so they can't understand ten dollars giving you eight they don't understand, Just give them the ten and make them give you back to and make them give me back to. That way you count to two, you're still doing the numbers, and they're still in charge exactly. Well, and that, my friend, is why you've probably got a lot of issues in the in the world. Well, it's only issues if you don't want to speak somebody else's language. Women have a
different language than we have. Some of them don't, but most have to start speaking our language too at some point and or not. That's how it's gonna go. Now, that's where I think women have changed. They definitely are a lot less likely to speak our language than ever before. Yes, they definitely have got rid of the concept of bilingual. They are speaking Spanish, they are not speaking English. They like funk with y'all, talk about I'm not speaking no
motherfucking Anglish. I speak Spanish definitely, so they don't care to learn English again. It's also about being a master of everything around you and understanding also right in these relationships. Like I was telling the hommie of how to conquer it. So if you're not gonna pay for everything, you give her a check, negotiate your kick back. That's gonna shut her right up real fast, and it'll shut her up for a long time. She know you've given all you got. Man.
You say a long time, A long time in woman terms is like nine months. That's pretty good. You're talking to calendars, I was talking clocks, you know, about tomorrow. I was like, maybe through the afternoon, you'll be all right. I have a little bit more faith in women than that. That's beautiful, man, But what you said is not wrong. I've proven that to be correct a couple of times in life. But overall, I think that's the catch. They just want to feel like, I feel like you're only.
We want to see your only and they want to feel like your only. Yeah, that's probably true if it goes that women do crave security of life. As weird as that sound, like, I could die tomorrow. How could you crave something that I don't have control over? Again, their goal is to control right as much as they can. Here, here's another statistical fact for you. When when when a woman? When a married couples in married a long time, when
the wife dies, husband follows pretty closely thereafter. When the husband dies, woman don't have another fifteen years, right, they'll find security. That's why they invented the guy next door. So you just have no Do you want to get married? Pete? Wants again? Wants is too strong a word. Would you be surprised if you got married at this point in time? Surprised is also not strong enough a word. Um, I don't know. I mean, anybody can get hit by a bus,
I guess, but I don't know. Pretty hard to do when you're flying on scott Okay, So what would you do? What's your wife finances? Like? Just let's say you got hit by that bus that we call marriage. Look, I've set a poet to contribute any of the finances, She'll be doing none of that. What about the equity, lock, stock, and barrel? In my operation and my motto, as I've said before on this podcast, is anti quote. A good policy is spent twice as much money on the pre
up legal costs as you spend on the ring. And that, my friend, is sound jack this free game and beat. Yeah, if you spend ten thousand dollars in the ring, you better be throwing out twenty dollars on the pre and up legal fees. Have a nice law firm and draw that document of error type and I mean airtight. I literally had this conversation with one of my co workers. I told them, just like this, man, this is a mistake. It is make because they were all in this bullshit
trying to get some pussy. But motherfucker's is supposed to have your ship tight. They need to be coming and moving into Yola court instead of this old let's link up together or they you they already got the spot and you go into the spot. That's where we make the errors, man, That's where that's what happens. Man, And you're getting ruts and you're getting bullshit, you're getting conversations you don't even need to be having talking about throw
your whole hundred percent because they can't see it. They need to see the whole hundred percent. They wouldn't need to see ship if they was coming to YO ship in the beginning. So that's where it needed to go. But if once you made the era, you ain't gotta you don't gotta do that. You gotta step your ship up and get it, get your ship together. But you
need it. You need to do the right thing first, which is taking care of all your own ship, and they need to come move to your core, like brother Pete explained so eloquently earlier, and then they can stay or move or do what the funk they want to do, because they already know that they're coming into a hundred percent is YO ship. Once you start uh fucking negotiating moving in and all this whold other ship, when, especially when you ain't in position to be running it, you
funk yourself, young man. Then you gotta do what this ny is talking about, which is fucking to give your whole hundred percent and negotiate thirty and hope that it's gonna work for no hope. Yeah, it's going it's gonna work. It worked for fifty grandfather, It's gonna work fifty saying grandfather was dealing with a whole another mentality. You keep doing that, but but you're not also told about niggas changed,
like niggas is not consistent, so it's not women have changed. Listen, the best thing to do is have your ship straight, and you ain't gonna have to be worrying about what the fun is going on. And I'm saying, if you don't have your ship straight, just get many negotiate your man sucking kicked back even though you are already doing the distributing the other way. Guys, that don't even make sense. It's not your manhood. It's not your manhood. You really
have a family, right, you can have a family. That's a man has a family, you mean man, You actually should do that if you're doing it. So, if you're doing it and it don't look the way you're saying, it looks you're saying that's a problem, it's not. Look it's feeling. I'm telling you you have to speak Spanish, Okay, Well, if if you're doing the same thing and it don't feel the same way for the same thing. It's the reason you're you're saying it's not the same thing. Brother.
So yeah, you're talking about giving the ex Listen, No, we're talking about giving the same amount of money. Alright, we're talking about that's the thing that is the same. But the process outside of that is not saying. That's what I just said. If you're giving the same amount of money but it don't feel the same to her, that's where the problem is. So what about the man not feeling the same uh, as as a distributor, as as the provider, Well, he ain't feeling the same if
he's giving off. If our whole check this was dumped somewhere else and I'm sitting here, we dump in your house. It ain't in my house because to be in her account so that she doesn't live in the same house. Said for it all to go there, and then I have to wait for her to distribute it back to me. Right, she could distribute it the same day. I'm still waiting card and take it. You can literally have a man
today to have a joint account. Right, he could have a joint account and depositives, whole check in there, go and pull out the Let's say if he's making forty dollars bringing on forty, right, his check every month is thirty was that thirty five, thirty two or some change, thirty three somethingwhere like that. So let's say he negotiates then me roughly six hundred dollars, so you or or seven hundred dollars. Let's say twenty six is going to
the house. He's taking save he can go, walk to the tim and that joint account, take that same honey that he's operating with right there, and it's done. I think if you're not having an account, you're kind of asking for some exactly you said what I think. If you're not, if you don't have a joint checking account in place, you're you're asking for a little You're you're you're establishing a premise that lends itself to a natural progression of a little bit attention. Dude, I'm not gonna
shout I don't agree. My thing still it runs in it is Yeah, all right, man, I'm gonna concede. It's not and we're not debating, right, we're just talking theories. It's not really a debate. It's just theory. This is something that you you've experienced at one time, and men are getting into it today. What out what believe it? Again? The motherfucker still has to be grateful, and it's some motherfucker's that just sound grateful. It don't matter women women
be grateful. They're not even grateful to God for the body they have. They're not grateful to God for the face they have. They literally alter a maka. They're not grateful to God with their height they were healed. They're not grate for to God with this shape they were. This is not a conversation. Somebody like probably the antonym like, uh, insafe strategy. So in the phone answers, y'all in this account negotiated. Both of you guys are sounding a little mule.
I heard. So after you go do all these negotiations and then it still doesn't work, then what you do now you're stuck with a joint account with all your money going to hunderstand that you gotta fun. You can't play a game like you're going to lose. You can't play a game you're gonna lose like I get don't expect to lose. Yeah, but if you're walking into saying, well, what if it don't happen, it's it's it's going to win.
I respect Pete Man. Then I didn't then now now I'm I'm definitely right for not putting a hunter, percing and nothing. Because when you say something like that, if I go into other parts of the finances, I got other I got other things that I could discuss on that. So you're gonna play on the team. You gotta play on the team so the team wins. Not to pack your stats. Yeah, I'm with you. I agree with you have to do all your bargaining independently before you sign it.
Like Peter said, you have to have all your stipulations and clauses pre game, pre take the field. Because if if a dude, let's say, like like talking about Joey right, like let's say pre today, feel mean like if he walks into it he thought I was crazy, Like you mean give him my whole check. I'm like, yeah, if you're not going to cover at a percent of the expenses, just give her your whole check and negotiate the kickback.
If you do that, you will cancel of the problems you're gonna run into economics, and you're gonna have her filling on a different level again because it's also showing trust in her to handle her business like peace saying, giving her purpose, about handling the business with bills. It all works together. Go ahead, tell us and get there's a there is an inherence. I say, have your ship together first, and then that's that way. You don't have to give You ain't got to do this. What's the
problem with why? Why? Why? I have a family? Like let's say, like why give somebody? Why somebody? Why let
somebody bring kids into this earth? Right? And then you share a domain with them and not feel like you should give a bro you should, I mean, you're you're all in, but you already all There's an intending collision that's on on track when they're talking about give all your trust and then that train's coming down, the trust train, and then you say the word money, and then you say the word woman, and and there's gonna be an explosive collision that happens. They're called reality and it's not
gonna be fun. Good looking out for tuning into the No Sellers podcast. Please do us a favorite, subscribe, rate, comment, and share. This episode was recorded right here on the West coast of the USA and produced by my homeboy A King, for the Black Effect Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Yeah.