Conversations About Domestic Violence (The Adam Theory)

got of eyes on a lot of people. So you're a snitch, like a damn snitch. Look like you're about too ready to tell on somebody right now. And where your flash? Like you got to have your flash? Like, No, I don't even be I don't even go inside the like No, honestly, I'm like the eyes and ears of so you snitch for a living? No, she helps them. I'm all telling you, Like I literally I helped the offices say everything I dopid. Yeah that's what I do. It's not about but it will be a lot of

ship you see, So you do be telling. What's the worst thing you told? What you do? Told, what you have told? No, you've never told h oh. Yeah. When this guy had some some bust checks and he went from one place to one place and we could see him. So he let you go go ahead, go to that next one. Go he went there to be so stupid. I'm not mad. Doing your job like bad luck? Right, like bad luck got this song with Polly Esther and like,

do your job, Yeah, that's what I do. What do you do for a living even though you don't go anywhere? Re Yeah, I just got off work. He was at home. What you mean you got off work and I'll be working at home working. I'm gonna claims the jester for the insurance company. Are they the worst people in the world? They the worst people? They are not. We are cool.

I'm cool. I'm cool, and I love cars and stuff too, So i'd be like, you know, sometimes though I'm you know what, I'm better this year since I've been back. I am better this year. Last year I was pregnant, so I think I was just a little bit like okay, what okay? You know, So now i'd be like, I just be cool, like I'm just back more like it's it's fun again, because it is it's fun. You just have fun, but it can be stressful. But I don't

let it get to me. But there are times, and that's why I do miss the office because in our office we had like video games, massage chairs. There was um uh like um what do you call them? Carms and ice hockey and ping pong and um popcorn machines and just all this different stuff that we could do to go like make it exciting decompressed because you have those times like you're dealing with fatalities or multi car accidents, You're dealing with people that's injured, you know, attorneys just

like so it can be like stressful. You know, Well, I hope you got I hope you two are having a fantastic week. I am. I had a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday like that. It was nice. What about you? I was fantastic. Champagne, champagne? How many people? What about twelve people? What's funny is I think more of the joke was because this was my fourth time smoking, So like obviously cripping and selling drugs, you never really get a chance to be like smoked food or like being a rapper traveling,

you don't really get a chance. So I took on smoking you know what I mean. I took it on as a challenge and I didn't get a obviously, can go get a h what you call those pits? Uh? Oh we got a pit boss. No, No, not a pit boss, but uh it's like a smoker. No, but it's it's called a uh like a trigger. And they're like you put the wood pellets in there and the chips. Yeah, I didn't do that. I did at the old school. Well,

charcoal and wood. So I had apple wood and charcoal and you have to balance a certain temperature, you know, by adding wood and charcoal for four hours. Like we said in the group thing like you showing out here, can you really show the fund? No? No, Like it really was that type of challenge. You have to keep it going for four hours and you have to keep it between two and to seventy five, like with just

adding charcoal and wood. Everybody taste the food and they taste the turkey and it was the perfect moist nous. It's moist flavor all the way through. Shout out to my man Manny Man eightboy. Manny really helped me. You know. It was like my fourth or fifth times. So now I'm about to do spicy honey, thighs spicy smoked honey, and then I'm gonna do a try tip so smoking for keeping the fire going for eight hours, you know,

it was a challenge. It's it's not normal. You have to pay attention to it, and it takes my mind away from a lot of other stuff. Like, it's not a lot of things I could take my mind away from music. So the few things I pride myself and enjoy them because it's the few vacations I do get away from thinking about music or creating. So how long did you let it marinate for? I brinded it for twenty four hours and I made this cold Brian. Yeah, it from strategy. Yeah, I thought it was hidden. So

I was like, what you use? Because I was looking for smoke powder and I cann't find it. I just bought some smoke paprika. I got smoked. I bought the smoke paprika. We did a prime rib. It was Yeah, I wanted to do it on a track. I want to buy a tracker and cheat like everybody else, But I felt like I need to earn the right to use wood pellis. I'm not mad at nobody taking shortcuse. But the one thing about glasses, I'm not good at taking shortcuse. I need to earn it. So I feel

great about it. That smoker I'm going now. And it's funny because because on God, like when I was eating, like when I cut it, I let did it rest for like once I finished it for four hours. I let it rest for like two hours. That is settled. And I remember cutting off some of that white meat, and that white meat tasted, I mean, it was moist and flavor for all the way in. I was like, motherfucker,

I got it. I was watching so many youtubes or different barbecue people that ship shout out to Cooking with Ride. This is this kid that could barbecue real good. This man is super dope. Look him up on YouTube Cooking with Ride. But I went to him for a lot of stuff and to really see how to do it. It was dope. So now I'm just gonna be smoking

all year long to the summer. I told Warren I'm gonna convince Warren Z to do the first Sniffing Griffins first annual barbecue shootout because Warren really barbecue all the time. To it, I think, I think for the West Coast and the hip hop saying we don't do enough fun events and it's like too many people that's in the stuff, Like Warren z is super into smoking stuff like barbecue, and Warrengy can really barbecue, like really well. And if you meet Warren though, Warren seemed like a nigger that

could barbecue. Well, you know, just this kind of cool posture, always cool. UM Exhibit is super into cars, like it's not just a TV show. Exhibit got some of the best car exhibited. Mac Tin. I don't know if Exhibit bar but I'm asking, but but his car, him and Matt Tin put some put together some of the best cars I've ever seen, and not just rappers, but even from the streets, like Exhibit got a fifty seven that's unbelievable, and all of those legends do really dope things. But

for some reason, we don't have those extra events. And I'm telling Warren and I'm like, yeah, we need to do this first annual barbecue shootout. Like if we want the West Coast to keep existing, we have to bring the culture into it and do more than just music. Yeah, it used to be Morrista. I mean I remember, like UM was more stuff like the basketball games and the like the dj P but the dj isn't everybody bought the kids out stuff like that. It was more family

friendly stuff to do too. Yeah, so I'm really gonna start pushing to do more events. Oh my god, goddamn man, I'm gonna start pushing. It's not okay trying to stop this geling. It's gonna keep talking. Shut the funk up, No seilings, of course, I'm sucking up. No sailors, g l Red, what's happening? Red? Wass up? So I did alive the other day, shout out to Barbie. Barbie was on my live working as usual, Barbid the interview for y'all came in. She just like Jack of All Trains.

She just went straight to Barbara Walters on me. I was like, so, let me ask you something about this glass. It is minutes. Imagine. Yeah, we should produce Barbara her own sixty minutes. We should call it sixty two minutes. And it's just me. I'm telling you the way she was asked me the questions, I'm like, who the fuck is this? But no, So, look she was on my live because so I was having a conversation and I was telling people, Um, I was talking about the story.

Y'all know the story of Adam and e right, the biblical story, right Adam, God creates Adam, He makes Eve from Adam's rib. He tells him they could eat anything out here, just don't eat from the tree of knowledge. Right. Uh? They agreed. Eve goes off, talks to the serpent right, and comes back, gets the fruit, eating and convinces Adam to eat it. Right. So I was talking about that on my live and it blew me away thinking about it right that. So I had my thoughts, my thoughts.

I thought about it, and I had my thoughts. My first thought was, how did you find another motherfucker to talk to when God just made y'all too, That's some woman ship. You just got something to talk to. He only made y'all, yet you still found the motherfucker to talk to? Found another motherfucker? Because I was about to say, he made that we had to go and talk just when you found the motherfucker to talk to. Don't even

look like you. That's some woman ship, right. So I thought about it, and I sized it up, and I said Adam should have slapped the dog shit out of her. Why you got a slapper though, that's very cruel. So the first piece, the first reason he should have slapped the dog shit out of her, is why are you talking to somebody else? It's only us. God only made us, so you had to go out your way to be talking to another motherfucker. So that was the first thing

he should have slapped her. Asked about. Now, that might be too west coast, that might be too foot on the neck, but think about what it had happened, So it's really not foot on the neck because you gotta really keep your foot on your lady neck because she will talk to a serpent. Right, So it sounds harsh, But maybe that's a little too west coast, too hard, too sugar free. Maybe I heard too much new dog.

So maybe he shouldn't have slapped her for talking to the serpent, But for sure he should have slapped the dog ship out of her for coming to tell him to disobey God, after God just told them not to eat the fruit. Right, so you think that he should she's a slap for that, do you not think so? So that's my point. Yes, I think I think Adam should have slapped her for you to advise me to disobey God. God just told both of us, hey, don't eat that. You can eat all this ship here, everything here,

just don't eat from here. Don't funk with that. Leave that one alone. Why why why did he have to slap her? Like? Why can't he Why can't they have a conversation? She she doesn't do it. If you disobey God, why would I not slap you? What? What conversation? If God told you, the almighty, powerful Creator told you, don't eat off this fruit. Enough talking happened. Yeah, but hand of course he would. He's not no, He's not so you You're no so God telling you to directly this.

You come to me God, Just listen. God just told both of us. So that part right there, that's where, Okay, you decided to eat the fruit before we got to the fruit. I'm not even talking about this nig and the sucker ship. I'm talking about the fact that you came to me and told me to disobey God like he just didn't tell us both He should have slapped the dog ship out of her. If disobey God is not worthy of thou slapping? What is that? So? Somebody

called my phone after the pockets, said glasses. You advocated discipline your kids, but you're not gonna slap the dog shit out of him. She will, yes, she will, Yes, she will. If you haven't, you missed out because they probably needed it. We just don't slap her slapped the skin off her. Ask I'm talking about slap her ass into a circle? You know one of the no so, disobeying God is not worthy of being slapped in the circle.

So you advising me to this? So not only so, not only so, not only listen, Let's say I agree with y'all. Let's say I agree her talking to the serpent is not worthy of a slapping, even though that's just even even though we all know that this is what led into it, you come to me and tell me to this obey God? Right, God right, it's God. I don't know. What's funked up? Is you eating the last bit to my food? What's fucked up? Is you not? You know you you making the food and the food cold?

What's fucked up? This is this is the pretty much pinnacle of bullshit you could do. And so she asked me, that's why are you advocating for domestic violence? And then I thought to myself, like, so if women don't think to themselves, you don't think that you advising me to disobey God. It's not worthy of being slapped, britt for real, disobeying God, the almighty, powerful creator that just gave you life. But still did you say, but still slap the door,

slap her ass in a circle. Yeah, well they said slap that ass in a circle, Slap that ass in a circle. That's God. So whatever he said, it's God. Whatever, slop God for sure with a slapper. He actually slapped you a pain, the idea of it. He slapped you a pain when you childbirth because Adam didn't slap you. So it costs you every It costs you every month instead of that unsignature slap that you would have got if he would have slapped your ass in a circle

and knocked that food. Have you lost your fucking mind? Did you just not hear what God said? If he imagine if he would have slapped her based off religion, you wouldn't have pain with your period. You would no shame, There will be no such thing as evil. That one simple slapping has cost y'all every month forever. So y'all can't find a space in your heart to realize why Adams said the slappy I get that. That's that's one direction. There's another direction. So instead of you slapping her, you're

just saying, no, I'm not doing this. No, no, I'm not doing that is why are you talking to the serpent? You shouldn't be talking to the serpent. That's that's a no, I'm not you diso. You disobeying the almighty Creator is worthy of a slapping. Now should be slapped down to the ground. What do you mean that? I for I the fact that you was gonna eyeball the serpent and then you was gonna reckless eyeball after God told you this rue and you reckless eyeballing them fruit. You should

have slapped your ass eye in the circle. This is ridiculous, the fact that you all don't think. So it came to this conclusion. So so my homegirl called me. She was like, gee, you advocate for violence, And I said, there's a real issue with y'all. This is my problem. Some things is worth you need your ass beat over. And if you don't understand that, we're not being honest. So I get that the term domestic violence that white people created because people have been fighting since the beginning

of time. Motherfucker's fighting. Women in me and fight because there's some misunderstandings we need to clear up, like disobeying God. It's the first one, right. So what I'm saying to you is, you're you're telling me if you read that story right now? You you read that story right And whether you're Christian or not, Black people all grew up

knowing something about the Bible. You mean to tell me you would have been mad if you read the story and when he said thou shalt eat the fruit, and he and then they said, Adam, slap it Eve to the dirt. The fruit flies from her hand. How dares how dares the disrespect God? You mean you would have been mad? Y'all would have thought to yourself, that's fucked up? He slapped her? Well, honestly know. But but I'm saying, would you have been upset? Would you be upset? Would

you read it? Would you be reading it? Would you be reading He didn't have to slap her. Well, if somebody tells you to disrespect God, you mean to tell me that's not worth So again, where do we draw the line with domestic violence? Or abuse. It's a slap. I just say you should beat her up stump out. Yes, we're supposed to slapped her. I mean back hand, you know the back head he supposing. Yes, he was disrespecting God. Is not disobeying God. After couse just told you, why

you can't just smack that shut out her hand? Like, no, when have you ever smashed you? Not? You have my smack? Why are you so scared to be smacked? Why the fun would I want to do? Why the funk would you want to disobey God? I would never want to You are you talking about so I'm saying if he got back to me because something happened. No, that that's slapping about your hands. He slapping you not understand it? Obviously you didn't understand it. Wake up, Obviously you didn't understand.

Slap it out of my head. God told you don't eat it. Now I could see if God told listen, I could see if God told me. I could see if God told me, hey, don't let He said, don't let Eve eat it the fruit from the Tree of knowledge, and then only I knew, and then I slap it out your hand. By God said, don't need that. He told both of us. You was there, you heard because

he said don't eat the fruit. You heard him, was like, for sure, God, you went and talked to another motherfucker that you found and he told you to disobey God. In your mind, you still cannot say that was worthy of Adam. He needed to slap her. It was okay, okay, I get it. Damn, that just sounds so harsh. A slap,

what sound harsher? All the years, all the years of birth pain that you have right now, right every time, every time you have your period, the cramps and seeing your kid you run the rich your kids around, come out acting like you know Chrisian Oh, I'm not choosing, but that's not Bodens. That's probably why she's so angry. Oh my gosh, that ship has shown to have negative effects on infants right now, you're right about that, trust me.

I thought about it. So my point I'm saying to you is if you still like Dane, that's like why you had to slapper and disrespecting God. But I just said, I said, it sounds very sounds harsh. What sounds harsher? You disrespect this, obeying God or me slapping you? God told you God, the almighty powerful that just gave you lives it, So can you admit she needed to be slapped?

Think about this, Think about this, Let's go further, because he didn't slap her right now, outside of y'all had periods pain and childbirth and pain and you know, nakedness and even in shame, you know, which is responsible for half of your issues right as human beings, all of our issues. Right, he was such a whole ass nigga for not slapping her. The nigga had kids and one of his sons killed his other son. Ah, because he didn't slap Eve damn changed the world. The slap that

would have changed the world. Think about that, he would have slapped, she would have never thought, see the thanks. If you hit the fruit out of her hand, she's still gonna be like, well, you know right, No, if you smack her motherfucker face and that should fly out her hands every time she touches that motherfucker's she gonna take a fan. She's gonna be like, whoa, I'm not fit the funk with this. I don't not need this nigga attacking me. M hmm, yeah, no do you wish

you should say? And that's my problem. Like in the back of your mind, you like, man, he just had to slap her, Like that should be your attitude towards Eve, Like, damn, why would you disobey God? What was you think? But you just the slap. The slap is nothing. The slap would have changed her life, changed their children's life, and saved your life. You wouldn't be going through all this parame because this nigga was a sucker. He didn't slap

his old lady. Now I'm not saying, slap your old lady because the coffee hot or the food got cold, fight your old lady for dumb ass ship. But I mean, I'm I'm saying for this o bad God. I agree. I I mean in theory that's like worthy of death. I'm saying he shouldn't care. I just say, in the back of my mind almost like you should have knocked their motherfucking glass out and put her to sleep. She should have been waking up thinking herself like what the

funk was that? It's like, why the funk would you tell me that this obey guy? That's the real problem. But I'm saying a slap because she's a woman. It's not a fair fight. She's not equal. But at some place you have gotten out of control. And this few days we've been in existence, you have gotten out of control. You just heard this nigger tell us to not eat the fruit. Right then you will come over here and

recommend you just sneak off and eat the fruit. You're just you didn't just sneak off and eat the fruit, because that should have you know that at least I could be like, well, now you and go, I got a problem, and he gonna do whatever he's gonna do to you. You came over here to fucking coerce me. You came to ruin my life. And him being a

sucker and not being a staff. I could tell you right now, Adams in the East Coast, that's some ship niggas in the East Coast with the or the South, because them niggas is always catering to the ladies, so they'll let the ladies do everything. They don't really have control over their old ladies like face slept with Pocket, think about it, like all the crazy ship be happening, it's always some ladies from the East coast, West coast. Nigga's not going for that. They put a foot in

your ass, disobey God. You know that's why pims always be talking about God. Ain't playing with God. You know, you know that's that's one of the oldest religions. What uh like harlettree like howen is old women bess selling that thing always professional, old school ship. So so the point I wanted to say, so when I explained it to her, and you just it's the same. You don't got to re up. Just wipe that dirty little thing

off and start that thing out like it's fresh. I mean it's dirty because somebody's been in it, you know, dirty, not like it's like mud. But this nil just use this thing and went through that thing, and you just rinch that thing off and come back it's like new. Just no, just re wrap it up and it's a brand new present. That's something Nigga would be excited about.

It's the wonders of vagina, the gifts that keep on giving. Right, So when I talked to her and she was on me, I explained it to her, She's like, well, maybe I'm like this old being God still means maybe he should have slapped her. And then it hit me, right, I remember when I talked to Angela on the Breakfast Club and we was talking about that. She's like, Las, would you get a woman? I'm like, hell yeah, what she do? And I was on Twitter and it was a lady

was like, how could you hear the woman? I was like, what you do? And I've came to the conclusion that for some reason, women feel like they're above getting hit. I don't think no man breathing air not all women because some women is not going to even test those waters because she don't even want to want that type. Likena, be honest, Like I came from a home like where I it was domestic violence my my father and my mother,

and I saw a lot ship as a kid. So I don't know I personally just I would never want especially if you have children or anything like that, Like I would never want um anyone to witness that or see that or even go through that. Like I do see what you're saying as far as like, Okay, some moments where she like she got online or what I mean by dad is like got me like hit you or something like that, Like I'm not trying to I'm

not gonna hit no man. Well okay, so I'm not gonna hit no, man, do I think you should hear the woman if she punches, if she slaps, you know what, if she I'm gonna tell you the things something like what I don't know. Fucking lamp says a woman hitting me with a lamp. Probably not. I'm not gonna fight her. She slapped me, I'm not gonna fighter now. She hit me with a closed fist, like a punch, like a real punch. I'm gonna ask him, like, hey, like you trying to get down like the fight, because I need

to figure this out. You feel what I'm saying? Like because maybe because sometimes women like my mom was like that. My mom is probably like eight and two. My mom pretty much won every fight as a woman like this lady had hands. I'm talking about this six althms man like she could fight like real hands, Like she had real, real, real, real, real real hands like hurt you, like dangerous hands. I used to watch her put hands on people. So you know,

sometimes people think they can win the fight. Some women can think they can win the fight. So set me with a close fist. I'm going to ask her, Hey, this really what you want to do? And if this is really what you want to do, I'm gonna take you outside in the backyard, get him up, and maybe you win. And I'm your bitch because maybe because maybe you can win. I can't underestimated woman. So she hits me with a closed fist. I have to ask her, is this where you're trying to go? But if she

slaps me, that's a girl I'm okay with. That hurts my feelings, but I'm not gonna She tried to knock me out, though hold ups can be with anybody that can be physical with me, like I just I guess it's because of what I've been through, Like I just can't like, I don't even like. Are you verbally abusive? Yes? Have you ever called a man a bit? Because that's verbal abuse? Just let me. I've had in the past, but not like my dude. But so you called somebody

who didn't love you a bit. It was somebody that I didn't whatever you call somebody for sure that you shouldn't call a bit, somebody that no real interest. That's the interest to making sure you grow old. Listen, I'm telling you that just happened before, but I didn't feel right about it or anything like that. I never did it again. But ship like, like I said, I could not be in. That's time I've been in no no, no hold because because I don't want it. I don't

want to hear that. That part of the victimhood I need to figure out first before we go in the victim. Are you verbally abusive? Have you been calling niggas out there name and talking crazy believing on nigga? Because I remember you did call the nigga can't get right. I just can't can't get right. But I've never disrespected Have you ever told that you called him can't get right? You know that's super disrespectful. You should got right. He still he's still fun with me, he's still funk with

me something. But that's not disrespectful because he just lade me calling that I didn't wasn't walking around can't get I can't get right. You had the nigga name saving your phone is can't get right, and then you told the nigga he was so funked up he can't get right. You don't think that's disrespectful? I mean some reason, Britt, I just honestly think you're a verbally abusive person. I'm not a verbally abusive person. How dare you put that on me? You called the nigga? Can't get right? You

just told me you called another nigga bitch. Listen that one way. Who would you call a bit? Should he have slap you? Then no, I wouldn't say it to his face. Okay, where I was arguing, I was like, whatever he heard you, and you don't think you need to slap you for that. I mean, I wasn't sure because I wasn't ever talking to that, So that's probably I'm saying. But if he slap you, would he be wrong for you calling a man a bit. Listen, I'm just trying to figure out how far we're gonna go

with this bullshit white people say. I'm not gonna say what is right. I'm just well, that's why I want you to. But I'm just telling you that because I know I would not want that to happen to me. Would not call a person a man that. But but I'm saying again, but that was somebody that he had. Yeah, nig come over you're talking about I'm I'm saying, even if you did shoot mater, but I'm saying, was that

worthy of a slapping? No, it wasn't worthy of so you think a woman calling a bit and not get him slap, It's like whatever, So long as you called me a bitch and on the phone, I just said, don't call me no model, this motherfucker crazy. No, but it was like that. I was like, like you like you. I don't want to go on that to that story. But whatever, it was because I knew I'm just keep wondering. It was because I knew I wasn't ever don't that dude again, and don't make it okay. I don't give

a damn. I don't care because you verbally abuse, you are not not like you are a bit like you are closer you have on it. So if you're being a dog out as person, don't do that. Don't put that on me because that's not well. You called him a bit, so everybody heard you called him a bit on the podcast. It was that one time exactly okay. But like I said, I could never let me ask you a questionship. Have you ever called first off? Has a man ever slapped you? Um? Yes? Did you think

you had it coming? No? What did you do? Um? I was leaving no, no, no, no, no, to see that context, leaving where to go out, So he asked you not to go out. No he didn't, but I was young, Like how she just making excises big she'n got to the truth. She don't even there's no you didn't just see what this just happened. I mean she to go out. She thinks she's slick. I'm just growing enough to know better. No, no, no, no no. That

was like I was going out with my friends. I was gonna go hang out, and he just slapped you for just going out. You think you're going to hang out, slap full of ship. You just gonna lie in front of You're gonna line in front of these ten thousands of people that download this podcast. It really was. It was like it was like, you're not going out with you're you're not going out to be with your friends. You're going to go with some niggas. You're about to

go do this and that. No I'm not, Yes you are, and it just really niggas crazy, Like, oh my god, you think that's crazy? Why is that not crazy? I'm going to hang out with my friends. But he doesn't think I'm Why does he? We would have to go down the whole path of why doesn't he think that that's dumb. I was young. I was like, so you was talking to other niggas when you was young that she was. I was in a relationship talking to other nigga. I wasn't, let me tell you. He was so crazy.

He pulled up to the dnny, wait, I want to go buy a Christmas tree. Okay, I want to go buy a Christmas tree. Game. I'm sorry the parking lot because he didn't think that I was sucking buying a Christmas tree because I took too long. Okay, So there's there's one of two things that's going on right here. One. No, No, it's either he is an insecure person who just doesn't trust me too, or you have done things that made

him feel like I can't trust her. No, he just um like was an insecure person that you know, he experienced that like growing like growing up and everything, and like he just was he's a good guy. He's not a good guy. He's a horrible guy. He just slapped you over by the Christmas tree. It now, he's a horrible guy right now, just buried deep down a horrible guy. Somebody getting slapped you don't grow out of slap in

the motherfucker. Somebody getting slapped. I mean, I'm not saying I can just speak for how he is now or how you know you ain't got slap by him and longer. Yeah, you ain't hearing that slapped you since. Okay, so that's wrong now somebody, now somebody slaps you just well, I need to kind of know the conversation. But I'm not somebody who genuinely believes that sometimes it don't have to be physical. I just think human beings sometimes going to

places of physical expression. I think it's up to us to find intellectual place that we can meet that. But sometimes it's not always there. Like if I'm telling you don't go somewhere, you keep talking about going somewhere, I'm not gonna slap you for that, but I'm probably gonna do something. But now I'm going to do something to you, because at this point i'm asking you not to do something. You're determined to do what you want to do. So I'm not gonna physically assault you. I'm going to do

something else. I'm gonna figure something out to make sure. I'll show you what it feels like to not listen to me. So I had somebody bleached all my dresses. I'm not doing that. Now that's some girls ship, that's like a woman. Yeah, I'm not doing that. I'm not going to ruin your clothes. Remember all my clothes, remember he Oh damn, I'm not bleaching nobody fucking clothes. I'm not doing nothing in your car. But when you come back,

I for sure not gonna be there. And when you look for me, we're gonna play this motherfucker out because you need to know what it feels like when I'm asking you not to do something. But also I'm not that insecure, So I got out of that problem. Um. The reason I was asking is do you think, Yeah, that's just crazy. I get the funk up out of here. Um Um, So I'm a little bit weird to asked you this, brig because you don't think this obeying God

is worth being slacked this o bag guy. She's like, well, why you gotta slap me because I disrespect the God? The fruit out of her hand. No, you should have slapped her face out of her head. You should have slapped the face out of her hand. But is there anything that you feel a man should slap a woman about if he loves her? Because you gotta love it because other than you just leave her, because the only reason you should ever get into her what a woman is if you love her. If she is not worthy

of your love, then why you leave? But if it's somebody you planned to stay with, like Adam and Eve, like y'all was bound together for eternity and ship and you was gonna be spawned the generations that birth to earth, that was worthy of the slap, like he like, I can't tell Adam, like I can't go back in time until Adam to leave her. It wasn't no other bitches, what no other women? What's worthy of a slap? What is?

And that's gonna be the hardest thing for you as a woman because now you have to figure out what is worthy a physical aggression? Is there anything you think that's worthy that a woman can do to a man that's worthy of physical aggression? Like physically doing something him, like trying to really hurt him, like like like either finding him or picking up a weapon or something like that. So he gotta be second, What do you mean second?

You gotta get took off on first? No, But I'm just I guess so yeah, I just don't because I feel like men are stronger like you, So, why the funk would you hit him? I wouldn't never hit Mike Tysons. Why I would not. But I'm just saying if Mike Tyson did some bullshit, I'm not gonna fight Mike Tyson. A Mike Tyson. Mike Tyson could do anything to be talking ship Glasses, you're a bit you can bitch ass nigga alright, Mike, alright, bass nigga glasses. They gotta knock

you out. Glasses. I knocked you out, Glasses. I knocked you out. I que out glances. I'm not gonna say nothing. Yeah, Mike for sure now might come over and put his mother fuck hands on me, might go in the body bag. He ain't get no faith. But I'm also not going to start no fight with Mike Tyson later on because my Mike ties in the champ in the world. Why

the funk would you hit me? So I'm asking you so outside that you feel like long is he's second, you could possibly imagine how it could happen, she said, So if he I mean, if she gets physical with him, yeah, like trying to harm him, because like any other time, like he literally could really walk away, like if she really like on some ship won't let you leave and

doing all kind of crazy ship. That's no reason I'm not gonna because she's trying to stop saying but it's something like some type of physical ship where she's really harmy. I just feel like trying to leave and yeah, she's like jump like trying to like I don't know, like I said, I just, I just I don't even like talking about like this. But good on fight, cut on fashion, faith that bothery that Why does a fade body you so much? It's just a fade? You mean, it's just

a fade. You haven't been in a fight. I've been in plenty fights. They so my god, it's so horrible. I can't believe how the fights happened, Like what do you what? But is that different? Why is it different? Wasn't a person or anything like that? So that means you could have just walked away for real? What do you mean if it's somebody that you don't give a funk about, why the funk would you be fighting that person?

I'm saying, why would you fight a stranger? What are you fighting for a stranger you could just walk away from? Was it like I didn't start start. I mean, how did you even get to the place of fighting. You could have just they could have hit you could have just walked away and tear the clubs up. What I'm saying, if it's if it's not a person that you have to exist. She go take what was that birthday? It was? Was it your birthday? Whose birthday? His birthday? His birthday? Okay?

The table's pat kind of all the gifts on. She finds out Violet, this nigga, he's cheating at a little motherfucking um panties and he told me to hold the bags. I go through the bags with my asses nosy, because I'm trying to say, you ain't my nigga some because all this gets at home. So I'm looking like and that was it? Yeah, that was it. What the I told y'all was crazy and it was crazy, and you're so scared him a fight. I don't want to talk

about just motherfucking towards somebody. Fine, establishment up, and I don't want to talk about this little violence. Man, though, what are you talking about? I'm not why are you trying to fight at all? Like? What what do you what motivates you? To fight. She didn't want to fight, So then would you just tear somebody's establishment of it was what came over? I don't know, man, it was just your management. I told you you're freaking management. Y'all

think I'm playing smart. I've grown that lot. Is there a reason read you think that you could imagine how a man could end up hitting his woman? Yeah, give me the one thing. You'd be like, this thing right here? I get it. Yeah, you should have slapped her. Remember they're gonna women gonna hang you on the cross for this, they really are. You make sure you'd be honest. Definitely. Um, I think probably the worst thing that you can do, which sucks is to call a man a bit. For sure.

You should get slaughing that. Yeah, and if this is the man like you love, like this is the person like you're with, like like you love this person like look like calling him a bitch like that ship hurt, that's definitely because then you gotta look at this motherfucker who just talked to you like a bit that's sucked up. Yeah, so you know I had that, but I was drunk, so I don't remember. You don't come you know it should have beat you up. It wasn't you know, I

didn't get me happen your I like, what happened? Man? You're failing something. You failed to tuble down the stairs and I grabbed you and carried you back up the stairs. But I think that's that's bad. Yeah, that that's that's pretty That's pretty much the starter place. That's bad. But that's that's pretty much the starting place. Like that, Like when you walk into the when you walk into the bitch door, that's where you walk into the slap door.

A lot of things is under the bitch door, you know, like like her slapping you, that's under the bitch or heard trying to hit you, pushing you under the door. Her throwing stuff at you is under the bitch door. Her calling you different names outside of bitches under the buch door. It's a lot of doors before you get to that door. That bitch door is some fucked up ship. And what's behind that bitch door is a woman punching you like a man. What's behind that bitch door is

a woman spitting in your face. These are all the things that's other doors. Like, there are certain things for sure that you should get sucked up over, like disrespecting God. For sure, you should have got the ship slapped out of here. Now, I'm not saying you got to beat her up kicker in the face to stomp her out, but that slap needs to remind her every time she think about eating this fruit. This ship could happen, but she should have been thinking about the consequences of what

God said. Women don't think about that. They were fake out last day. They ain't got no last Listen, dude, y'all don't think about the consequences of ship. Asking women to think about consequences and reap because it's ridiculous. We have created this world for you guys to be unaccountable. That's our that's our thing. I don't care about consequences. That's what we do. Know. When y'all be cheating and ship,

y'all just do whatever you said. When we beat what chet got to do with that, we thought it through. Ya wouldn't get and like, oh ship funk, I forgot to the race the damn text or some stupid ship that's the that's not They didn't forget that. They wanted to test to make him feel special. Drug. Do you know how many men? Do you know how many men cheat on their wife so they can go How many men cheat on the wife so they can go home to their wife. I was just I was just making

a point, that's all. But that's not We don't want to be accountable. We were forced to be accountable. We are for ain't no getting out of it. Right Like, right now, if you fun some lady that gave you pussy, you nut, nine months later, some court is gonna hold you accountable. Yeah, if you tell her to get abortion, why she's pregnant and you're like, look, you need to

get abortion and she don't, they hold you accountable. They don't be like, you know what he said, don't do this and it's still your decision, so you don't have accountability zero. So it's just totally different. So what I'm saying to you is if we could come to a place of agreement that there are reasons why men and women may have to fight. Now, I'm not saying because I do think men. There's some human beings fucked me in, human beings that just don't know how to fight, like

people who black out when they fight. I don't like that focused on the ass shopping because people are blackout when they're fighting and then somebody be dead and ship you to start. Like I've seen people stopping somebody head into the street, Like what are you doing because the fight is over. If I drop you with ship and now you all days, nig I gonna push you down the knave. I'm not trying to niggas be stopping niggas out in the head and ship on the streets. I'm like, no,

what are you doing? But that's because he's nigga be black. That's why they get the court and cry at that. The nigga died you to start this head to the payment, they get the court, they'd be good. You just didn't want to shut your bit ass up. You were starping this nigger head. It's always a chance I could hear the nigga and he could just die, So I have to be mindful that. But for sure, I'm not gonna

stop cous head. That's just crazy. So I think you have the type of people that fight and they focus on whatever the intended reason is. Maybe I'm trying to you know, I'm trying to express something that you didn't get with these words. Maybe I think you're trying to attack me. Whatever it is the physical conversation we're having. I'm gonna get the point across. That's it. Now. I'm

not saying men should fight women now. Actually, a full out fade with a woman like I gotta take outside and ask again, hey, this is what you want because she may think yeah, because she may think she could whoop me. Some women think they could whoop you, especially if they're in that situation where they feel like it's they're gonna have all the adrenaline and it's like, okay, they are going and I need to ask for him to stop. What the fun? Just did you you want

to know? Do you? This is this? Go back to a woman slap? Do not punch me with your clothes, motherfucker fists. See I I like women can punch and it don't take number a few pounds of pressure to knocking stupid AS's out. So I need to ask her, Hey, what do you think you're doing? That was not a slap. It wasn't a girl. You just punched me. Now, if you want to go outside, we could deal with this.

And I don't get funk with nobody thinks, because sometimes it's some women that come from some tough backgrounds that feel like I might could take this nigger. So maybe if I show you the first time this ain't what you won't we won't have to do this no more. We won't have to do this no more. But I might have to show you're not okay with that. I've taught people multiple things. What did she win in? I'll be around at my fucking apron cooking fair good looking

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