Conversations About Cougars

tastes good. No, but the lemonade. Okay, So I don't usually drink petrone because I had like my patrone days, right, So I got some patrone this weekend, and so I was like, okay, let me mix it with this lemonade. And so I mix it with the I'm like, this tastes good. It was. It was good. It has like a different The patron does have a different They have a different It has a different taste than like because I had Don Julio like the other weekend. So like,

I'm weekend tequila tastes bad. Maybe to you. I've never tasted tequilla chill tequila depending it does, but not all chill tequila, not all. So y'all lined that tequila tastes y'all saying liquor tastes good. We said tequila liquor. Some liquor tastes good, but cards like rum tastes good. It tastes rum tastes good. You want to try, you can't even because you don't even know how anything tastes right now.

So I don't even know. I just think it's a part of enough people to understand that it's a part of this big lie where everybody just lie for some reason and just be lying, like how wealthy black people lie by how much money they make. It's just lies that the black community seem to just tell some know some liquor. Liquor does not taste good. Rum is sweet, and it tastes good. It tastes sweeter than other liquors.

But favor it's good. You mean it's flavored with other things that taste no matter, it's still liquor taste good on the core. Liquor. Yeah, that's so desperate. Whatever, man, Hey man, you don't want to drink it, it's fine. We like it tastes good to us. You got some in here, somewhere. Hey, I'm not I'm not driving. Why is that what you got from that? Because you're saying it's not how you got whatever? What are you talking about it? I don't why you haven't really realized at

this point, I realized it, trust me. I told you, wait, wait, what are you saying? The lesson in the d D Y was because really, it's not to drink and drive, Like is not to drink. Oh, it's not to drink and dry. To be honest, I really just think that it's just silly that y'all sit around and poison yourself that fun like you poison yourself for a certain amount of time right where it sits around. It throws off your i Q with throws off your equilibrium. Somehow you're

trying to convince somebody that you're having fun. Fucking retarded. It be fun sometimes? What else is spin around the circle? That's not fun? Around the circle? Just start walking around. That's not fun. That's like being drunk. No, it's not. But I don't think to get drunk. I don't drink. I can tell you why because I always look at y'all and you walk like you dizzy. Be that that girl I've it has happened when I was younger, but as a grown woman. No, I don't drink what you

ain't grown enough to be grown to be. Listen, I am grown grown, but you ain't. You ain't that far enough to where you should be talking about when I was a young woman. Oh, yes, yes I am. I can hope. We got one. We got another one coming. We're gonna share this one, y'all. Just a hype. We're a good height, y'all. Just know, because it's just one day.

I want you to just be so honest. And what I'm trying to do with y'all, like the whole point of no ceilings, outside of exploring these caves of conversation with the community, is also to get y'all to actually be real for one day in your life. Oh my gosh, A lighter thank you. But if you really think about it, that's what drinking all is. When somebody poisoning theirselfs poisoning their bloodstream, thinning it out right to be lightheaded, and the observe of all the sugar. So it's it's a

combination of being dehydrated in dizzy. I don't know about dizzy, but I definitely dehydrated. I know why I'd be like some water. So it's like you're saying when you're saying you want to drink, it's like I'm trying to poison myself. And I still have yet to figure out quite a real reason. Because people be like drink to happen. I mean you can drink with I mean there's wine, sip wine, and they don't have to be like not everybody drinks like turn up. Why can't you just relax? Some people

just keep some time? You can't? How the fund can't you relax? What do you mean do you relax all the time when I want to? If I tell my body to really it's my body. You mean to tell me you need help to tell you it's just no, it's just it helps. It's just you like poisoning yourself. I like the feeling when I drink a glass of wine, the way it makes me feel. You can't make yourself feel like that, naturally I might be able to. But the wine is good. It tastes good too. Hmm. It's okay, frogs,

it's okay. Sometimes we just carry your lives, Like why do you date people younger than you? Um, what's that about? Because I brought this conversation to you, like you you dating somebody young? What does that really do for you as a grown ass woman? Like you just grown grown ass woman? I need a little last boy. No, no, why a little very nice to say, because there's a lot of younger men that are doing their ships. So a lot of the men that's doing this ship a

lot of young younger men. Why are you coming out her? Like? What are you talking about for me today? As you are? You just said I'm praying you act like I'm aside, like, hey, where the young is that? I don't want to nobody if he ain't young, I'm not doing this. Said you prefer younger men. No, I did not say that. I said, I just pressed my hand up. When you said we're gonna talk about cougars, I said, that's me. She didn't

say she prefers. That's her. Cougars prefer younger men. So that thing, well, I know for her, she always gets approached by younger guys. She's sure, okay, whatever, but that's who she gets approached by. So that's who she ends up. That's why I get approached by younger guys because I'm short approach you. I don't know what do you mean? Why what they approach because maybe they think that she's younger. I don't just what are you making it about? Listen,

honestly don't know why they approached me. But whatever, it is what it is. But um, do you prefer to dating younger younger guys? I don't prefer it. I feel like you like it though. I mean, it can be funny if you get it. What do you get a kick out of dating younger guys? How young? How young? If somebody how many years? Okay? The youngest I've ever dated that was younger than me was like nine years younger than me. Really okay, I probably can't get right.

I was just thinking she it was only too. I haven't dated that many younger guys, like I've had guys on me that was. But as far as dating like it is for sure for sure too. You mean like in a relationship, you know, we're talking about just dating and it was just just messing around or just talking to him or something. Then they'd be on me, what's up? Grandma? Whoa? They're really aggressive to us, Like, let me tell you, Okay,

the guy that I ended up with that. We actually was in relationship and the first guy ever lived with was younger than he was nine years younger than me. And when I tell you this boy who he pressed me, I was like, no, you're too young, like whatever. Whenever he's like, what are you talking about? Like what the funk I could do x y, I'm like no. I I told him no so many times, so many times he was cool and I like them Fine, yeah it was hellicol And finally no he was he wasn't. My

son was like five years old when this happened. Stop but that was pretty much how I went. But he ended up. We ended up let him take me on a date and it was bomb like, we had a good time. What do y'all, God'll go to see just a little? You date younger women. I date all women, and I no not, I date all women. It's different. I don't have a preference in women. I'm not. I'm not prejudiced towards any woman. All women could be a woman, older women. I don't have a preference. Okay, I don't

have a preference. I don't date. I don't like night skinny girls and dark skinned girls. I don't like skinny girls and thick girls. I like women owners. It's put together the way they're supposed to be put together. Should it works out for me, it's good. Okay, Yet it's too strong, shout out. It's why I'm sorry. I had a long day. So you know, it just comes out no sailings, gl red, what's happening? Read what's happening. So tell me about that day. I went to Tucky Cheese.

We just went to eat and we just had everything McDonald's. And he went to the movies. No, he was not not No, he was not cheap at all. He was holding it hey something, he had this ship together, okay, right, happy didn't play with the toy Listen. It was none of that. So you're trying to make it like I'm dealing with like little babies running around here. Not. No, they're just a little bit younger time twenties and I wasn't. I wasn't early thirties. I just I'm trying to figure

this out, like this whole pride thing. Like, so for guys, I think God's day younger women be because they live vicariously through the approval of younger women. So a man that's forty five, I think he would get somebody that's twenty because it makes him feel like he still got it. What would be your reason? And to day somebody younger, like I saw a lot of talking about. She was like, oh the guy twenty one, And I'm like, live Live

is old enough to be somebody's grandmother. Cheer is not old enough to be yes, like in this day and age, yes she is. But I for me, honestly, it was just funnna be real, honest, like I want to ride a roller coaster, just like they want to go like the like is to be like you want chill, Let's watch TV baby with you. Yeah, Like I don't want to go somewhere. Let's go somewhere, like go ride bike, some some ship like something like let's do something. I

want to ride bike. She wouldn't get out, y'all. Y'all, y'all want to sit up and baby my back, scratch my back, scratch my back. No, But honestly, I would say, it was just it's just um in the sex, man, come on, come on, stop the sex. They'd be ready to go going all right, yeah, ready to go right. When I was a young it was now I would

have not been your old ass by yourself. What I would have had, for sure, I would have for sure I had some younger bitches too, that you add some of your ladies because you for sure at that age where it's like, no, I wasn't like I was still what do you mean what you're trying to say? You ain't quite like twenty? Um, I was quite like thirty. No, no, no, I just don't work. That's that when you got a bad like your thirty in the real twenties different, so

you know some bullshit. No, I ain't doing that. We're not doing that. I'm just saying nine years. That's a big difference. That's like when I tell y'all it took so long. I remember he was like today, that bring so many toys. How did you end up just saying, okay, let's let's get you guys moving in together. They lived together, they got a place together, his toys, toys. All that man did was worked and made sure I was straight and like and he worked out, And all you wanted

to do was just make sure I was good. I'm not talking. I don't want to talk about that. It literally, I'm not about that. No crime moment. Why I did she turned no, because like, y'all, remember what's that song when it it's like it was donell John's song was like when you don't you really didn't want to be Yeah, it's like we had everything like that age. You just don't treat them bad. Oh how I feel so sad now that I want to because but I just need time to see it wasn't for the little movie you

like this type of ship? Oh my god, no, Bobby, don't do it. No, no, no, no, So let me ask you a question. Silly, So you like because you did kind of reference yourself as a cougar and y'all find that cool? Well, it was because it's it's like jokes always makes fun of me about that. That's why I said that. And I'm sure somewhere alone the line you feel like, y'all still god, that's why you know? Honestly, I don't now, yeah you still do. My dude is

seven years I just thought about that. That's a grown ass man right there. Why Why would he why were we? Why were he wet? What? Yeah? What youre trying to say? Mature woman? Thank you, mature woman? What he already listening?

He already got kids. All that ship. We're good like you don't mat I don't get when he had him long as he don't want me to have any So like what I'm saying is I'm saying is when you don't listen, if you don't want to have kids, she don't listen, Like if you are why I mean, he

already got dating a personating a person. What do you mean, young guys, I'm not listen this this this this relationship right here, that ship took that just was like, oh wow, it was It was basically I met him, we talked for a split second, and then like I just got super busy and we just kind of like lost touch and then we ran into each other again type ship. But honestly, he's my best friend, Like I could tell him anything, Like he's supportive, he's just a really good dude. Like,

so ship, why wouldn't I like? And it's hard when you um a woman like myself trying to work all the time and do certain things like if a man don't understand your drive, it's really hard. So when you meet someone, I don't care how old you are, Like if you care yourself in a certain manner and you treat me with respect, and we're we have that mutual liken like, no he's not he's not that ye that not like that, but you know what I mean by that,

like he I'm his queen, like we we rocked. I don't care to say whatever you want, Like if you guys my age or older, like as long as you cool and we have some type of chemistry. I really don't why you don't think you have chemistry with older guys. You don't realize I'm not a I don't flirt I'm the worst. I will sit there and won't know nick if you do not say, hey, I'm trying to talk to you girl, I will literally be there like oblivious. Ask her, she will tell you. So I don't know

what it is. I guess the younger guys have been more aggressive as far as like, hey you that is I won't give a funk. I'm just said. But that's my point is that's probably the change that needs to be made in your life now. Shout out to the Shout out to the young boy that you got right. Not flirtatious, but nobody should over pursue you to get your attention. It's not that good I'm saying, not like

you're not that good, but it's not that good. It's like a relationship is a lot of work between two people. And if you make somebody put the sound messed up because you know, you know what I'm saying, because I'm not putting down saying great is not a wonderful woman, not just ridiculous, outstanding lady. But I'm saying the reason you keep running to the shout out to this little young dude. Got Now you stand up and doing stuff.

Then we're gonna get on this knee eventually. But I'm sure you got to grow up a little bit more. Else that's a little bit more, And I'm cool with that because I'm enjoying this moment right now, Like I'm not sure, Hey, how long? How long can somebody date you without actually proposing? That's a good question, Like one is too long? Thought about that when it's too long?

Would you be like this? Ni is still because I think women are not honest, And what I like to do on those seilings and what I hope to do further is give women a safe space to be honest. Now, I'm still gonna make fun of you personally, but it's a safe space because it's I really do sympathize with the calls. It's okay to laugh at some of our don't see you guys like I don't know, like what

could you like could you be with them? My Let's say it's a good relationship and you with a guy for ten years, then this nick is still don't want to marry me? Damn, I would question it, like how many? How long in between do you think it's time? I dont want to ask you because you in the middle some ship, so I don't fun that nigh up like that they're a low rider, So what's too far? Like how long? I said, at least a couple of years too?

I told you guys, he got that hold up bron like who you don't think of you for two years? He don't think to yourself like there's lots of people that in relationships from over two years and they're you know, good, Like honestly, I would want it to come naturally and want that or he I would want that to be organically like something that he wants to do. I wouldn't not how you wanted to go. I'm asking you with your brain, my brain. I'm definitely not. I'm definitely not

this is my thing. I'm definitely not gonna shack it with you feel like, no, five damn years and you not? Um, Yeah, yeah, I think five years is too long because how long is too long? Were not in your personal situation because how long is too long? Yeah? Where you kind of starting to question yourself where you think three years? I think, yeah, he might not be shirt like what's going on? Yeah, because you should know? Like I mean, I feel like, but when you like, is that why somebody with date

younger man? Like why would why would allalla man? Right, y'all have vagiants y'all y'all both day and younger men? Why would you want a younger man? For real? Now, I could get it if you want a younger man because you want to just have sex. And you got this little little young nigga horny he just always that

makes sense for you or play? But for real whitness like you were just talking to right, You're like, oh, when you get a young boy, y'all go on all these days you go ride bikes and chucky cheese and a real you and a for real relationship with your Yeah. But but what I'm saying is right, So I get it.

When you get a younger guy for fun, right, but you know, as you grow up, even right now, even though it's certain things that you grow up and this ship like cool now, these bikes ain't cool every other weekend. It's real. Ship got to happen round here, championship got to get cleaned up. So it's dope when you're playing. What I'm saying, when ship get real? Like when does it become serious? Like when? Like that's what I don't understand, Like why would a cougar? What are you gonna do

with a young boy? For real? I mean it's like I think you have to want to take care of the time. Most cougars normally, like if they are dealing with a younger guy, honestly is they're not tripping. They trying to get married. They're already over. Yeah, so they're not tripping. They want the good time. They want to be able to just to like have like a younger

guy to look at and ship. You know what I mean, You ain't gotta look at like no wrinkles and ship like hey you know this young guy, come out, take your shirt off and you know ship. I'm thinking about it. Oh lord, stop, but you feel what I'm saying, like you know, I'm glad. Wow, I'm glad you baby all ego, they're older than eighteen, they're illegal. Definitely it should be

over what's worse? What's worse a man that's twenty five year old dating a seventeen year old in California where it's illegal, or a woman that's fifty year old dating a man that's twenty one year old where it's legal. What's worse? Damn fifty praise? They came. We would have to just speak down on a woman. Did you just say fifty, Anthony? But do you really feel bad? Leg They don't matter how I feel about it, but said so, white people approve of it because that's what legal is.

White people approve of it. In the mid and seven, I said, if you're twenty, if you met a twenty five year old man and his girlfriend was seventeen, what's worse that ort three year old woman with a twenty year old man and the fact that it's taking all this it's got to be. I think it's that like the guy in the Only I hate doing this because everybody I date older. No I know girls, I know

we date older. But when you think about all the ship like that we shouldn't have been, we should seventeen, we shouldn't have been because it was like all you want to do is fun, like you like them blows niggers about the teen Well, I don't know. Now it's different a lot of people having seven years seventeen, Like I literally we had just lost my virginity. So I'm not I'm I can't. Really I didn't. I didn't start early kind of the cooler. Yeah, so you know she didn't.

I shouldn't be dating nobody that, you know, sexual experience and older. Most of the time, you don't think the lady that's forty three got more sexual experience. But I'm just saying she may not have had, yeah, but three years probably got it. I'm not something about probably whoa you're talking about? Probably, Well, I say not. Every forty something year old is, you know, experienced in text year old experience. They could be more experienced than a forty

three year old. Listen, I know someone why I don't know what you're looking over there, because let me let me give him an example. Listen, I have I know someone that met her Listen, met her husband at age seventeen. Okay, I know her too, at age seventeen. They got married like about like in the twenties, but they had their first shot at nineteen. She was with that man all the way up until her fucking forties. Yep. Okay, so

now she's starting to date now. So there's certain people that don't have all that experience just because of that. That's what I was thinking about. Why would you say that about somebody seventeen? And what are you talking about? I just literally said a seventeen year old girl, I know, because you can make an excuse for the old lady. I'm not making excuse. I'm just so so why you didn't have the same compassion when I just said so many five seventeen he may go have that much sexual

experience kids too. But the only thing is, I'm just saying because she's she's under age. I'm just standing up in California. What about the Nevada year older year older? And Nevada sixteen more states in the United States of America the legal age of consent every age. Every state has their own age. It's more than thirty states with the legal age of consent sixteen. Nevada is one, Washington is another one. And they're both on the West coast. Damn,

I don't. I don't think anything's wrong with the cougar situation. But I mean, if I had to pick the two old with his young boy, I mean, you know what, that's funny that cougar sugar daddy and cougar. Like a sugar daddy's found on a cougar or some kind of celebrated thing. Y'all just have needed the fuck. Ain't nobody found No, nobody's sugar daddy? That is plentiful. Where is he? I'm just playing stop sugar babies early had a lot of my mind today. I'm sorry, or I'm okay with

double standards. I just would like people to accept that there are two standards. No, I get it. So I just like I said, if a man twenty five and his girls have a team, they're pretty much close to the same as far as um versus they are because men mature much later. Like I think I had this conversation with the Hume girl, and I was explaining to her, women mature faster, but they peak sooner. Being mature for long,

girl to take longer, but to keep happening longer. Like if you meet a woman at thirty eight, you know the same ship at thirty eight that she know a fifty, she'll be saying the same shift thirty eight to fifty. I swear it out. She got the same game, you know, like how you meet the old man. He'll start telling you a nigga sits here, has some old man game that only nigga sees. You know, a woman at sixty

know the same ship she knew at thirty eight, same ship. Girl, you gotta get a nigger that paid them bill, same same ship. They'll be saying the same ship. Men start telling you all kind of like you got to look a little different, sunny, let's start putting that ship. The poems and ship and rhyming. You can't worry about the ass until you get the cash they started. So I think when the mature sooner, but I think they peak earlier. I think me and mature later. But it's a it's

a gradual growth for a long time. For a long time they growing in and uh maturity and wisdom. So I think men, yeah, definitely later, take a long time too. I really I've seen a man say that, I've seen a brother out the mass. Nori Muhammed he said, you don't really become a grown man to you with forty and I just thought, like, man, that sounds crazy. Till I turned four and I was like, oh, I see it is completely different. Have you ever dated a woman

older than you once? How many years? Like a year? That's nothing. She was older, but not like when you were younger. Never older women. Nothing. Women used to fly with me, but I just I'm not into that. Wasn't feeling it now, Like I don't even really like younger women. When I was about thirty four, I was sleeping with the girl I was twenty one, and I mean how you felt about the sex? I was there, but it was like everything is I couldn't stand her. Yeah, I

remember he was talking. I couldn't literally stand her. And it was the sex was awesome, You're thrown and ran and ship that ship was cool, but everything else about life talking to her was hard. So that's what I'm saying. At my mature age or at your mature age, I don't know how I couldn't talk to nobody eight years younger than me. They just wouldn't have the maturity, That's what I'm saying. Like he's just been through I think

it's because he's been through so much that it's not. Honestly, I met women that was full out prostitutes for years and they just don't have enough wisdom and maturity to talk to me, Like it's just my mind is too far along. And don't get me wrong, fucking it's cool, but eventually, man, I mean, you have had the best piso. Come on, man, how much how much better could pussy get? How much better? How much better can? How much better? Can?

Might be some astronomical shit out there? And you just don't have women suck my dick upside down to my women on handstand sucking my dick like I didn't have some crazy I've had white women. You know, white women suck your dick like it is their pleasure, like it is like the greatest thing that you've ever allowed to do. Really, they suck your dick with another passion, like thank you master for letting me suck your dick. It's like unbelievable.

So whatever, the best part of sex is, I pretty much had it without going past the boundaries of ridiculousness. I mean, but you might just be into somebody that's older. Yeah, I'm not saying that I'm just saying, what could what the funk would I be talking? So can we talk about let's talk about some relationships that where there's older people in relationships, because I have one where I'm like, they've been together for a while and so there's something

that's definitely keeping them together. I don't know, maybe she like pushing him on a swing? What but what you mean pushing him on a swing? See? I think see looks at it like they're just they're um, you know, they're just immature. Like you're picking people that are just like super because they're thirty and like fifty. Yeah, that's like the maturity that it's the fifty ye old woman. She's still way more mature to him. A thirty still

got so much longer. Togo in sixty niked forty and sixty the discount at guineas forty and sixty hundred and sixty six. Yeah, I can maybe thirty eight, thirty nine and maybe fifty eight nine. I think that's that couple. I think that the eight year old woman in the thirty maybe like thirty six and maybe like fifty two. Why the funk have my thirties where I wanted? Who is fifty two. That's fine enough at my age that I want right now that I would look at it

like she's fine enough for me to even consider. I don't think I know nobody. No, I wouldn't Honey barely Gold. She's fine for old lady, but she is an older lady. I mean she's older, but she looks good. Yeah, but it's like, that's not cool that older lady when you hurt that. I wouldn't hit Holly Baby. I would not hit Alli Bess overs Over. I missed that. I don't want that age be Oh my god, age, I'm not talking ship. I just don't want that. That David Justice

that ran through that thing eric By beat her up. Now, I want that thing. She didn't meant that. If them see, I'm gonna tell you another thing about glasses. I'm wanted them type of niggas that learned. Like if other niggas keep throwing your way, I know something wrong, Like how Eric but erict go and be high fight he was, but not a thing right, be cussing it everything ages. Yeah, that's like Kim sucking you up. Wait a minute, why is Kim abusing to be certain people? Now? Bobby Brown

sucking you up. Okay, Chris Brown, maybe shout out to see be okay them. Nick's got angry at you. But Kim Maxwell Maxwell is abusing you. You got to be a bullshit bitch. Maxwell abusing you. She dated Maxwell. I'm just like Maxwell. Every They got these somber songs and was the base he you don't know how his first son is outside of the earthly and it's just all nicer ship and she's just doing it. He just gotta be like he had like a problem. So she probably

caught him. And why why sex problems? You know, we gotta sex problem. You don't want to That's what he said. Problem. This was like the whole thing he went to counseling or they were doing the thing that was I don't know what was her. It's not her, it's her eventually. Sometimes it is just them. Sometimes we agree. Sometimes it could to be, but like is she don't get me wrong. I see the women I will sleep with first on Hollyberry. I will not see what Holly Berry at this age, Angela,

I would do it. No, no, no, you're a long no play not Angela. Yeah, because she's fine, she's been You've been fine for forty years. You're just different. That's been been fine forty fifty years. She's been fine for a long time, and being is talking. She is a little buff, but that's because she's still in good shape. She stays in shape. That's why she got that that melon and glow like that hotboy. That that old lady hot.

And I wouldn't be with this lady, but I wouldn'tail her down to the ground one time for the best, for the measure, do you ass for sure? Yeah? The best Mary J. Blige, No, because she would ride a fun up song. Oh guys, Mary J. Blige is still fuckable, man mages own. I'm not gonna say hot. She is like she I wouldn't say hot, but she is a beautiful she's beautiful older woman. She she's got beautiful over time too. She was funked up looking at first, she

looked like somebody. Actually she actually find her now. She ever was like young Mary Jake was like because she had been was like real, like regular. She came out that she was more like back then. She used to look crazy, but Mary j now like Mary j is actually one of the few women in the industry that got finer and older yeah, young married, I want to get young play No, Jada look crazy. They didn't cut up on her face and ships Will. I'm glad we

don't marry her. That was the best thing happened to her life because she was gonna throw it away and she's trying to throw it away now. So see, she wouldn't got to look Trey songs gay. I mean, you know what, didn't really come out that he was gay August. He didn't didn't come out because he was promoting. Why would you promote you gay? Did did it? I don't know? I think did it drop the actual like video because he was premiering or promoting. Why the funk would you

say that? If you're not that's the type of young niggas Jada, We'll be talking to me something like what this probably like his brother somebody is like, I love you, you helped me, like, you know, change my life. How would you even say that? I know why that would say that? It's you got Will Smith? How did you date that nigga? See, that's the type of people I think of when I think of a cougar lady like that. Just don't make horrible decisions. That's a cooler Yeah, that

would be a cooler, but wouldn't talk. I wouldn't give prime Jady. Yes, this j the hell no, no, this Jady gets no work. M hm. So you know what I'm saying that, Like, I was just thinking about that, and I'm like, why would I even put that out there? Like one like girl, you older her life, she just had a hold stranger ship, she just dealt with. She like funk all that. Like, let her have her fun? What's wrong with her? Have a little fun right now? Stop hating ergy fun? Yeah, let her have her fun.

Get trains and one year old is funny? Yes? Why do you have to get a train? Talking about you? Adding on having sex with a one year old is funny? Y'all? You think that's fine for her? If that's what she said, that she her live her life? Did she say twinter? Did she really say twinnes? Young dude? It was she did not? First off, y'all defended. Now y'all thinking like, hold did this really say? You know? So I'm just

going off what you just said. Right now. All I'm saying is I just think y'all just make crazy decisions. I'm not gonna get into the double standards because I think we have to sets of standards. I thought we've always had double standards, and I'm okay with that. So I expect y'all to approve of an older lady dating some young boy and to disapprove of an older man dating some young lady, even though it would make sense the other way, because women mature faster, so they a

woman is probably mature as a man. Most men thirty eight, not me, but most men versus preferred. How much older were they? Seven to ten years? That's not bad. Did somebody old? Um? No, yes, Beijan Nome that he can't get right Beijing. I'm sorry, I didn't know she's talking. No, the old freak, the old freak o ship. So I think he was probably like twenty maybe like that's cold now,

you know what I'm saying. Gives And he was, he was betful, he was he was an athlete, he played in the NFL, So I didn't even know that he was the age that he was. I was surprised, like, whoa, he was like keeping up and more younger than the guys that was my age. I was like, so you know, you know, freak oh freak oh free in the NFL free. He was he got a ring. He really he don't play on, but he did get a rig out hall of fame. The hall of fame got do just stupid

thinking did not say that. Man. Man, Now, I never really dated older women. I've never really been in the younger women. Like I do attract more younger women, but that's because they don't really know me. They then they meet me, then they really like me. But it'd be like, you're not ready for what I would be on. So like younger women attract because of what I do and how I was living my life, So you would attract younger women. But come on, man, you didn't think about me.

I be reading books and ship. Ya gonna do with that? Honestly, if if me and my dude weren't friends before books to the ladies and ship, I don't think. Maybe you're reading books and ship about tooky and ship to hears she like this thing is reading the book. But see, that's why I like dating older guys because they always always learned something like you know, I loved it. So brit don't want to learn, Yes, you want to learn how to swear? You play call of duty? No, I

don't play no video. Yeah, none of that Pizza Rose the baby would if you wanted me to what you need? You need something having fun. It's fun, but no, honestly it's real because because marriage ain't fun and real relationships ain't fun. Let's be honest. It's work. It's not fun. It's not it's definitely work. It's word or so one

is worked. Fun. It's never fun. But I feel like if you that you can have fun with that person, like you have those times where I mean it's a miserable, but fun and miserable are to Okay, it's not bad. The thing about a really dope, real relationship is you start valuing things that you never valued in your life before small things somebody bringing you some food you should women women struggle with gratitude, And I know I just generalized ship, but it's true. Women like are insatiable and

my nigg always talk about that. So y'all struggle with Gratitude's it's never the small things, only the small things that you feel that everybody else know about, which means just a big thing. So I think it comes to a space when or you get into a real relationship, you have to learn how to value the smaller things,

things that you never paid attention to. No, I agree with that, like ship that comes from surety for us, because as I'm getting older, I'm like, I love all the little ship, like I love thoughtfulness, and just like I just love it, but thoughtfulness and it's even more simpler than we even make it. Maybe little ship like little things I love now, like little things I love women. I definitely realized women just don't give a fuck. We do care. It's like that, it's not it's not you

don't care, Like what have what have you done for me? Lately? It's probably the realist woman's song ever wrote. That's like w I s M. What's in It for Me? Radio? Janet Jackson, what have You Done for Me? That's the number one woman song. That's really how women are. So that's why it would be the enemy of gratitude. It's

always about what's now. It's not always about that. You know, you have those moments, moments you have you know you do start to appreciate those small things, you know, as with maturity, because yeah, when you're younger, it's like you don't see that. That's why I really think one of the most immature things women promote to each other. It's gonna sound crazy, it's traveling. What's wrong with traveling when

we want to go on trips? Immature things that women promote to each other, when we go on trips with each other, with our guys, with our husbands, traveling in general. Why it's really just immature when you think about it, really has no doesn't make any sense. What is wrong with traveling? Wrong? Okay? What is immature? Why you about traveling? One place? You never go as museums? I do know you don't. Okay, alright, you don't want to travel to the museum. Most people want to travel to places where

there's other people. Party. No, No, I like, I have children, so I like family trips and yeah, like when I go out of town. It's not about going somewhere like party. I like being. Maybe when you say I don't need to see nobody you ever travel, Barbie as you ever been to the Yosemite Park. You've been to Yosemite Park. Where's your semity park? You haven't been to Yosemiti Park? You ever been to Yosemit Park. I've been to the

Grand Canyon. So that's that's my point. My point is sent my son to Yosemity part So we're not going for educational purposes. Were full of ship. Some people just want to go somewhere and relax. I want to go see. I want to go see. You want to go somewhere from where you were, Like, go somewhere. Different women do go to the fucking museum. We take our kids. You

take your kids to museum. If you don't go to museums that full of ship, why do we all get on the front of white people line to the museum? I bet you fucking did. You didn't specified. I'm just saying I like going to art galleries and stuff like that, like with my with my man, you know, we go look at like our stuff like that. I like stuff like that. I don't know. I just go look at the art and I say, oh, I like that, want to buy that? That would look nice in my head?

I'm so mad as you really think that, I mean only need to travel, don't have to travel travel place as well? He said, so you could go party parties. Why did you either go trying to relax a party the same thing? You never go in nowhere that you can't buy liquor. Part One, even though you buy liquor during the week, and you do the same during the week. You've never went. I don't do the same thing every week. It's a vacation. So vacation, I bet you do the

same things you do when you're at home. No, because like when I went to Philly, I went to go. I didn't drink. You're lying. I didn't drink in Philly. You didn't drink nothing, not in Philly, nothing at all, not in Philly. But I drank when I was in Atlantic City and when I was in Jersey, but not in Philly. I didn't drink it Philly. I didn't like to believe what we left now. It's not that. It's not that, it's just sometimes when you tell the truth, like you got to think, how long I've been doing

this ship that y'all finish? I went to Philly. You're not some kind of it every time that you go on vacation or you go somewhere that it's gonna be too party you to relax or party, Yes, it is to relax. You ain't nothing. You might go when you ain't. Don't send me, you take your kids, because that's why you're thinking. The kids need y'all too. That's why I said, back to the point of immaturity. You know why you take your kids places to learn because you know they're immature,

so you're trying to mature them. You don't do it on your own because you're immature. You take them, like say, if they're learning, like they're learning the lesson at school, then you're gonna take them so they can learn more about that too. But Land, we do that too. So all I'm saying to you is, yes, you're not. You're not going to no place to learn. Ship God damn, I ain't even about to say nothing whatever you say. To Hawaii, I went to the zoo. That does that count?

Got zoos all over the state that they don't have everything. To the Pear Harbi Hawahiti, they don't got everything in WHI tell me one they are different? Um damn them birds birds. Remember I was young. Every time they don't have flamingos on the wire. I've been to that zoo. It was like it was like, you know what else you going to to? What? You went to? The Pearl Harbors? It been. I went to North Beach. Fact here the Pearl Harbor. Listen, I don't know what years? So you

just what's going somewhere? Because to put on makeup and put on my lips. But I don't remember that. But I went everybody hate the truth or whatever. I've been to the doll pineapple factory too. I want factory. You know what's the gross street from the door? Pineapple factories? No pineapples? You know why? Because I was looking to learn some ship. I went to Pearl Harbor. I know when it happened. You know what ship is? You know why? You won't know? Ship? Right there? It's right there on

white Kiki's of the ship. You know why? You don't know? Because it really didn't matter. It just was another opportunity for you to go out and act like you're doing some ship. I don't know why. I don't know why. You you know why? Because I just need to retain the information. Because I did, I was excited about it. I didn't go because honestly, I just didn't. I was young. I didn't go. Hold up, hold up bar? What war? What's Pearl Harbor about? Where did it happen? Which war?

It was? Ward? Ward? Um? Damn, it was the one over there. It was war word three. I don't I'm sorry my mom. Alright, ship over today. Shout out to everybody listen to No Sillies. I love y'all, I love y'all. We out good looking out for tuning into the No Sillers podcast. Please do us a favorite, subscribe, rate, comment, and share. This episode was recorded right here on the West coast of the USA and produced by my homeboy A King for the Black Effect Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Yeah.