Conversations About Body Count

off how many dicks she took. I'm not so sure that's how it works. I'm one seventeenth sure that's not how it works, right, Yeah, because I have I have slept with true slut or two. Yeah, and some of the vagina was the greatest thing that has happened to my penis when it comes to actually just feel itself. Oh oh yeah. Why do you think guys think that? Like what is it about? Like it's metaphorical. Went into sex thinking to myself like, oh, she fucked a lot

of people. I think that's what most guys think. They think like, oh, she slept with a lot of guys. The vagina is not gonna be good. I'm not sure that that's really what they think. I think it's more metaphorical too. Oh, this woman slept with a lot of guys, so the you know, social credit value of me having knocked it down as inverted. No, but they don't really think that that's what that's what that's what the better

minds think. Most guys think the vagina changes. I think that there's to some extent there might be some minor elasticity issues there. But think about it this way, those same guys are taken down girls who've had two or three kids. That's a lot bigger than a male appendage. Yeah, but even then, I don't think it's true at all. I wonder how true is it, Like, I don't think it's true at all. It probably I'll say this much.

I remember in college there were girls on my track team who would say, like over the course of like if they weren't getting knocked down for a while, like during training, that afterwards it would be super tight. Mm hmm. That's true. So uh but also all parks girls were cause I knew him, and it probably wasn't gonna remain that way for very long. I'm just saying some of the craziest horns. I remember sleeping with a girl man that was like super out there, and I remember not

trying to sleep with her. This girl they're doing porn. She was like a prostitute to some degree that she had to be. And like I did a lot of things to not sleep with this girl, Like I went out of my way to not sleep with her. She she was trying, Like I became her target, Like I knew god she slept with and I'm like, like, yo, like I'm not sleeping with you, you know what I mean. Like she was a beautiful girl, I mean, she attractive,

had a couple of dollars whatever that means. But I was like, when I'm not sleeping with you, like you sleep with everybody, And she just wanted to give me some pussy so bad, and it just really was weird. So I pretty much steered clear away from the pussy for years, you know what I mean. I kept a cool relationship with her because I thought she was a really good friend. And the way she like we end up sleeping together, which was crazy, you know what I'm saying.

It was almost unbelievable when I think about how it happened. It happened at a Kid's Pop Warner Football like a Snoop League football game. Snoop was actually at the fucking games and it happened in the parking lot. Oh, I thought it was gonna said it happened in the middle of the field like a halftime show. No, it happened because in the parking lot got you and um when I tell you that pussy was incredible, it was almost crazy, like you would think a motherfucker that then took that

many dicks, it's no way. That's why I knew I would think the opposite that wasn't true. Why what do you think that a person with a broader spectrum and deeper volume of practice would be worse at something? I don't think I thought she would be worse. I actually believe so there's nothing she can do to to mask the damage done with all the skill repertoire. Well, I mean it's not the experience. I think the experience works out better for women. You know what I mean that

the experience. But I thought the actual you know, immaturely thinking that it would be warned like time and that that's how I realized it wasn't Truebe think some of these other girls that ship not true. And then I slept with a girl that was a virgin that's happened to me twice, and it was like, don't get me wrong, the sex was great, but it was like you thought she'd been sucking all the time, got you? Yeah, So

I don't know. I mean, because I thought that there was like some uh validation to the like Cagle exercise kind of theory, you know what I mean, I don't know to what extent that holds water? Mm hmm. So first off, no ceilings, Jail PB and Peter Bosh, are we going to change the name of the podcast for this particular episode from no ceilings to no walls to no feeling? Yeah? So what's your issue? Does body account

really matter? What's your issue with body count? So if it's not, if it's not a physical thing, what's your issue with how many women? I mean how many men a woman that slept with? It's it matters reputationally speaking, and that's our reputation or your reputation both because her reputation then it's tied to your. It depends on what you what the end game is, whether you know, if it's just like, well I've got some time, it's only

two o'clock, then it doesn't matter all that much. If it's like trying to be seen around with this woman, then that's when it starts to matter a little bit more. You know what's funny culturally speaking? You know, I have been saying prejudicially, I've been very prejudiced when I said this that it's almost like white people, coach really just don't care about that, right, because you would take something that is the farthest thing. I would say the absolute

complete opposite. What's funny is though, because when I think of people like right, um the harmy that run, no jumper, real good dude, Adam, Right, Adam sided, but Adam like he's dating like a porn star, Like I think they're ever read this something? And I'm like, he don't even care. He's one of those alternatively white people though, Like here Rebel and Ship so white culturally, it does matter. If you brought home afore and start, your dad would look

at you grazy. The list of things that my family and like my old circle of friends and all that ship would would be like the cringeworthy things is significant and it's unforgiving. Mm hmmm. And that was true all the way back through high school, through whatever. We're just like brought up kind of that way. Yeah, m hm. You know what I realized too. I was watching Forest Gump the other day and Forests slept with Jenny when Jenny had HIV. That's correct. I'm not sure Forest knew

how to spell HIV, but it was unfair. It was fair for him a little bit. So his first pussy was HIV pussy. Yeah, that's rough. It's probably a whore. Yeah, the filthiest back to the point. Um, I just thought about that. Um, that's an interesting one because I didn't know where you. I was like, boy to tie Forest com through this conversation. This has to be really creative. But I forgot about that part of the movie. No,

I had COVID. I had COVID, and so I was just watching movies and reading books, and I was like, damn, this is Jenny was a real dirt bag. Yeah, but her pussy was actually more like Forest than Forest because it just kept running as it is. I had to do it. I couldn't avoid it. Do you think body counts shouldn't matter? Like our is God, our guys being ridiculous at this point, Like like is it really ridiculous this to care? Is that really an estimation of character?

Because I think that's where we both I think we both agree at the point of what we we both know physically, how many penises she had probably doesn't really affect, you know, the actual greatest feeling of the vagina. And so if it's not a physical thing, are we being a bit ridiculous? I mean thinking outside of the normal thinking of how we judged. Like I think my fear is the soul of her, Like her soul is being compromised over and over again. That could possibly be true

in a vacuum. There's an argument that com be made that like the locality of the bodies matter, you know, like if you like it, Like I'm in Miami, right, I could go start dating some check from the Dominican Republic who ran through two in the d R. I'm never gonna see those people. But the skill set, you know, came through customs, so I'm kind of winning. True. So

there's that. So is it? So let's say if she was a whore in Puerto Rico, yeah, and you know nothing about that or you've heard about it, but she's not a whore in America or in Florida. That's yeah, I think to a degree, that's a different conversation. It's kind of like if if if a pussy drops in the forest and nobody is there to hear, it doesn't really make a sound like a little like confucious ask type of take on the matter. What's the fear? What's

the fear of the high body counts? Like, let's be honest, like, what's the fear fear? I don't know. I mean if we're just talking to fear, I mean like, yeah, if you my minus you, you could take the pussy getting checked out graded grating. I think it's purely reputational. I think there there is a certain capital on getting on exclusivity. It's it's it's almost sort of like a supply and

demand perception even though it's past supply. Sort of strange in that regard, But also like practically speaking, do you want to be like you ever saw that movie Best In Show, the comedy about the Dog Show. No, I

never saw it. It's it's a very very funny, like it's an excruciatingly white comedy, but it is very funny, and they're making fun of like weird people who are like weird white dog people, and one of one of them features like a wife who's like a burnt out slut and her nerdy husband, And everywhere they go her name is Cookie. They go to the store of the cashier, Oh Cookie, Yeah, hey, what's up? Remember that time we got busy at the fair on the ferris wheel. And

then they go somewhere else the electrician. Oh oh hey, Cookie, Hey remember that time back behind the math building at the high school. Like it's everywhere that they go, And that's not probably the greatest. Like you could also have a mathematical likelihood that you're gonna bump into somebody that's really piste off because she because he's still wants her. I mean, like, who the hell knows. Yeah, that is a really weird feeling. Nothing is like being in the

room with another dude that slept with your girl. It's not it's not great. Yeah, and especially first, I don't know what quite the feeling is. If I think about it, if I investigate, I don't quite know what's wrong. It's because it just credits I think what exactly it is that you have, Like you want to think that you have something very valuable. Another person walks bhind and goes,

I had that not through with the trash. It's not that valuable, bro, It's deflating because the only way that you can have been ridiculous because in the sense that like we have her, it's gonna be corny, Oh God, like you have her love right? You you she's fucking with you, right, he might have slept with her, right, because I don't feel the same way if if I have a car, like right, if I my Malibu wagon,

whoever had it before? If he see me with it and it's all fixed up, clean and last thing and now it ain't got the six center that was in it, good pain on it now, good interior is nice. I don't feel the same when he's in the room with my car, and I don't want to compare it. Well, it can't be comparable because I don't feel like that. If I mean, it can be comfortable, like if your girl was like I don't know, who's a girl that really upgraded herself visually, Like that's a public figure um

of note. I don't know, but like Susie Q look kind of like mediocre or whatever. In two thousand and eighteen, then all of a sudden she's she's in the gym, she's eating right, she's got to do job, she's dressed great, everything's to the nines. And now you were there. Now it's like, oh, yeah, I had her. But then there's also like, but I couldn't get her again, you know, so that sort of changes things like buying a used card.

But like, I don't think if I made a girl and I knocked her down and I had my way with her, and then she lost forty pounds and she looks better, I'd be thinking to myself like, oh I couldn't get her again, I would still look like I had her. Yeah, Like you might want to think to myself, what really bothers me? If I'm in the room with the guy who had the woman that I'm with, it might have some degree be doubt and knowing could he won't, won't. Once he's been there, it's easy to be there again,

you know. I don't think that's true though, I mean, well, not with me. I don't know if I'm insecure thinking like, oh, we can have her again. I mean, I don't think so I'm thinking. I'm thinking, I'm thinking, I'm thinking, do I really feel that way? I don't. I think the public perception that creates this like climate of the way it's viewed is like a cocktail of all these things.

It's like, well, that guy might have had her and not wanted her, and then I she stumbled down onto me, or maybe she still looks over at you know whatever kind of winks or something or whatever. It could be any of a so you think rudy and insecurity potentially, I think it's I think it's rooted more so in

the I got the backdrop for it. I think that might be foundational to what it really has to do more with like that innate competitive nature among men, you know, and that you part of why you want a super good looking woman and dressed up take a round, because hey, I got the best woman in the building, you know. Like that people feel like that though of course they're

called there's a term trophy wife. It's not something that you have the trophy it so people see the trophy that you have, But do they really feel like that. I don't think I've ever thought of it like that. I never thought a girl I was dealing with was the best woman anywhere or whatever, or just like a better reflection of you or not you know better than the other one. But it's certainly like societally, that certainly exists. I would be pretty shallow to think that that's I

don't think I ever felt that well. I never think I ever thought like, like you know, you you always heard that thing with women say I want to be I want him to make me feel like I'm the only woman in the world. Like that just don't make sense to me. But that don't I never see why would you want to feel like a lie? Like women? What if I made her feel like she was my woman and she was the best thing in my life?

That makes sense. What don't make sense is having a woman that you think is the finest woman in the world when literally there's no such thing. Like I don't think there's a woman I could get and I don't think that she would be the finest woman in the world, Like I don't even know who the finest woman in the world is. I don't think that's a realistic, very subjective,

very subjective. Uh yeah, I mean, like to me personally, I just need you to look good enough for me to not want to cheat on you when you aren't there. I don't even know if that's possible. Yeah, yeah, because once you sleep with a woman, bro like how she looked, changes was special about the way she looked. The more you sleep with her, that goes out the door. Yeah.

But like my personal calculus is, like, if I'm gonna cheat with this chicken with that one, I gotta risk the potential that I'm that's gonna blow up my face. I'm gonna lose the first one, so I have to be prepared to get stuck with the second one if that's what I want. If I'm a relationship type of guy, I should your relationship type of guy, but a relationship type of guy to the less. But even then, is it really? Is that really something you think most guys

worried about? Is the way the one looks? Statistically? Probably not, because evidence would suggest otherwise. Yeah, Yeah, I just I don't know, Like I don't think. I think when you you know what I mean, when you don't cheat, the motivation is not the cheat is, yes, you don't want to lose something, But I don't know. That would be pretty crappy for God to be worried about how a bitch look and that's why you're worried about losing her, Yeah, like you would have to really be a slave to

some like lane, Ship. But one thing I have realized is guys. Guys are the the cheapest standard in beauty. Like you can do anything for a guy, and a guy, you know, a guy sees beauty a lot easier than a woman does, right, but let me see it a lot more mechanically, like where it's like how long your eyelashes are? Silly? Ship? But I was just thinking about that, why do we like what's really the issue? And body counts?

And I was thinking about that ever since I saw that post, Like, well, you know, I obviously know it's not you know what it is. It's the fact that you think she doesn't have morals and she will cheat if that's also a factor, that's what I think that that's what I would think if she's so loose. But I also think, the same motherfucker you are single is the same motherfucker you are in a relationship, you know

what I mean? I don't, I don't. I always tell my home girls it's like, if you gotta nig of that, like if you gotta men that like sleeping with women, that's his thing, that's what he likes. He doesn't like

because he single. What about what like the really impassioned woman who's all head over heels in love with the guy and the guy cheats on her, leaves her for another girl or whatever the hell, and she goes through a slutout phase and then finds another guy a couple of years later than she just loves to her dying day because she's just a passion individual and that's just how she coped with being that heartbroke. And it's just like a hardcore slut out because that happens all the

time dealing with other people. Yeah, it's like drinking alcohol or doing drugs. It gives you a temporary relief of the thought of that person, but then once it's over, feel me, you'll be thinking about that person. So then it becomes a drug, like a high. You just changing it over and over again. I do think that happens a lot. Um. I could name some names, Okay, but is it wrong for me to think that? Am I

wrong by thinking that? Like if a girl was super duper loose as a single woman, that she probably likes sex too much or she likes men's company too much, either which way? Um, the one usually manifest. The latter manifests often into the former. But I think the idea of being wrong by assessing past behavioral patterns to predict future behavioral patterns, it's tough to sell that as being wrong.

You know, it's foundational for so many things. I mean, background checks and credit checks are based purely on that, which we could have some sort of Pico index for these women. Wouldn't be probably terrible scoreful little vagina. Yeah, like equipus, I call it right. I called it like when they were the cars, they called it the car facts. Yeah, cat facts can't fact. Would be great. I wouldn't mind a yelped page. We could get at least some reviews

on quality, a yell pay for the pusson. Yeah, that's a great idea. I saw this man, you should start that. I saw this thing on next mostated man on Internet. For sure, you'd be the most hated man on the Internet. And we had a yell page for vagina for women. Could you imagine what that would do to the pussy market. Like we talked about pussy inflation before, imagine if your pussy goes down from four point one to three point six, you'd have to funk your way back into the forest.

But it could be some and you'd have to do so with a very serious intent to throw it back like you. That could be all right, but they could also include what she cooks? Well, does she clean up? Well, that's in a different app, my friend. No, that should be on the same yo, because then the quality of

customer can change. The quality of customer can Like let's say, if you you're like the head is bad, right, which takes points down, but then he Lacaronian cheese is fire like I still would like because I'm not super big fan of head, like, that's not as important, but I enjoy macaroni and cheese. I feel with I still could see myself patronizing their business. So in a straight up trade cheese for head. Yeah, okay, at least it's the rest of my life macaroni and cheese and head macaroni

and cheese, okay and hands down cool? Cool? That's yeah, that's that wouldn't be a bad Yeah, I'm not mad at that. Like, have you had really great macaroni and cheese with brown the top? The cheese and brown that I live without? That you know where the best macaroni and cheese I've ever had in my life. Was there was a Trinity restaurant in Long Beach that was owned by a family of like Indian people from Trinidad, and they made the best mac and cheese I have ever had,

I believe it. And the poor place went out of business. It was a shame. They made great food, macaroni and cheese. That's fun. Um So, But am I being ridiculous? Like, sure, I agree with you, right, Like that's how credit works the same way. But am I being ridiculous as a human being? I would say, no, you're not, because if you're gonna look at a woman who's like, doesn't mean that just because she was what if the thought of

she was single? And it was like, I hate the thought of them saying I'm just having fun mhm right, Like fucking is fun. Fucking you know, forty niggas is fun. Fucking forty men is fun, right, And it's fun. That's just because cooking fun. Right, So I have forty I have forty men. I'm I'm thirty seven years old. I have forty men on my account. I've been fucking since I was seventeen. I'm thirty seven now, I have forty men, So over twenty years, I've had sex with it on

average two many a year. Yeah, is it fair to say? Should I really be judging that woman? Thinking to myself like, oh yeah, she really cannot be a righteous woman moving forward? I mean the more ideal scenario would be, is there a cheat index there of the forty or five of them, you know, cheat on in a relationship? Whatever? Private? What

what if? What if she was she was in a relationship from high school the first with her boyfriend from UM until she was in two and then they broke up and a twenty three she had her wild summer. She slept with six guys, you know one year, you know, she was just trying to be single, you know what I mean. Then she went out and had sex with six guys in that one year, and then after that it was three guys the next year. Then I got

with the guy. We was together for years, so we just slept together, and you know, that number became one to three per year, which is probably the more I think about it is actually unrealistic. It's like women body count gotta be high because nigga, like, because men as fucking men getting some pussy, like all my father pussy, so somebody fuck it. I cracked into a phone one time the guy left in my possession, and I was like, what's what's what's going on in the female lifestyle. It

was brutal. It's brutal. So I don't know. I think, I think you'd have to have a little bit of willful ignorance or some sort of delusional sense of arrogance to think that, if that you're so special, you know what I mean? And I refused, Yeah, same, So unless you're there, there's there's a conflict, like it's it's you

have that propensity or you don't. And if you don't, I mean other than like there's probably some realistic age arcs, you know, like they say like men, for example, are more impulsively violent until they're about like depending on the guy, between thirty to thirty five. Then it tapers off radically in in in occurrences. So I don't know if from

a brain development, hormonal whatever the hell. There's ebbs and flows in that with women where you can say, well, yeah, she was Looney Tunes from twenty to twenty six, but she's thirty five and her whole perspective on everything and priorities are radically different. Okay, Now, if you're statistically that holds water. Mm hmmm. So what's too many women for a thirty five year old woman? Is there actually just a number that context doesn't matter? What would be the

number that Kyle man? I think the reality is it's gonna be really hard for me to assume that a woman has been single all that time, you know. And a lot of women like to do that cute thing where they say, well, we're together, but we're not officially together, so I'm gonna go get piped down here and they're

on a sneak like in their own heads. They love that too, so to me, and to be honest, if we're if we're like getting up into and beyond like the twenties, I'm gonna have some questions because I know that you were in a relationship for probably most of that time, because we're gonna just sitting stupid, deadened relationships

for long periods of time in general, you know. So it's like, well, when you're on the market, you're wild or do you like to walk that line of officially being on or off the market and try to play with that to your advantage and I don't women like

to lie and play with reality to their advantage. So m hm, so twenty at thirty five is a bit too much over yeah, and it also kind of depends on like Again, another thing is that that also does depend on how local that is, because like, if you your life's path, you moved to four cities whatever, typically you life operates in a first choice, second choice, third choice, fourth choice, you know, succession. So if you ran through twenty people in your neighborhood, you're probably just waving and

anybody passing by. Okay, who that's in Hollywood, you know, very conservative town. Thank you. I'm not going to ask you this ship. No ask away in Hollywood. Who's had too many? Oh you mean celebrities? Fun? I don't know, I don't um. The issue is a lot of the time with life celebrity women, it's like they'll have had three four guys, but they're all really high profile, they're all in very close proximity, and it does matter me.

I've got back for a girl, you like Pete, like she had twenty four guys mm hmm, but twelve of the guys are NBA player or NFL players over twenty years. I think that to me personally would matter less than if I knew them personally from around. Like, because you you're an athlete, you know, you ran track to some you know, high level, so you fit her type of being an athlete. But you know, she she dated Katie, she slept with uh Dame Lillard before, she slept with

Bradley Bill before. But it's over twenty years. Here's one that's a little bit different. For Like, I'm not gonna care so much about that because I think it more of it matters too, because those people I don't know,

I'm not gonna bump into, you know. I think where it matters with celebrities is like and again, like I don't keep tracking celebrity gossips, so I'm using some names pretty haphazardly here, But like I know, like Rihanna has been with numerous high profile people in the same industry, same niche of the same industry. So that circle, now you're painting yourself into a corner in the room. You know. Yeah,

that's fair. And I have known girls that been with a lot of NBA players, and there's that's also a close fraternity, So there becomes some issues there for a guy if you're the fifth NBA player that supposed been with for the NBA guy that tried to be in the relationship with her, his his, his journey is gonna be different than you, who's not gonna be in those circles per se. Yeah, I gotta see the guys all

the goddamn time. So there is an issue with seeing guys that slipped with the girl your dainty, yeah, and just the communication network in general. Like I'd be willing to bet like if you're some you know, money hungry, blonde, whatever the hell girl who likes to hang out at the hottest happy hour near the giant Century City law firms. Like if you're at what Xavier's over there all the time trying to pick up attorneys from Century Park East, we're just gonna get around and and and you could

be a big time monster litigator. But if you just knocked down Kimberly, well, Kimberly just ran through shorts, shorts and shorts last summer, that's not a good look for you because everyone's gonna be laughing at you behind your back because you just party, huh at the Christmas party exactly exactly, and all of that. There's gonna be eggnog all over your face, not eg Well, the expression is egg on your face, so eggnogg on your face at the Christmas party. We gotta do it. We gotta do

it with that. So I think that that kind of a thing. What do you think about these situations where like, um so, like g Herbo right is a rapper from Chicago, his baby moms you feel me or it was just I think I think they have a child together. I'm not sure if that's his child, and I can't say it, but his girl right. It's always weird for me when I see somebody like g Herbo's baby mom, who now is kind of popular for she don't really have talent,

but she's kind of popular. And next thing you know, the boxer Tank Davis is dating her and the only reason she's famous or has any familiarity is because she was g Herbo's girlfriend or his baby mom, and that's why you know her. And then next thing you know, Tank David's is dating her, and then next thing you know,

money bag Yo is dating her. M hmm. What do you think about guys who look at, you know, like, out of all the women, they find the woman that was the local woman in your town that was Yo, bro, is that a weird thing? Like weird guys? Do you think that's a guy? You put value on a woman because of who she slept with, Like, I don't do that, Like I think all women are the same unless the right. Yeah, but I've never looked at a woman more valuable because

this guy slept with her. That's not a thing for me, Like the the only way that that would even be a thing because if I was, like, well, ship this last four boyfriends that this girl had all had twenty five million dollars a pop. Now she's dating me. This is on borrowed time. But like, other than that, I don't personally here and I'm not out there trying to head hunt chicks to try to one up a guy, because I think, how are you even one up? And the guy he already like ray J had a hit

song suggesting the opposite. Yeah, Like, I don't think there's any situation where I feel better because like automatically, it turns me off. That's my problem. If I know somebody who slept with one major problem I have And this might be a bit arrogant, I'm like, you gave him some pussy like That's how I feel. I would feel like, damn, like you gave him some pussy, like and I felt like this over Brad too have slept with like they might have slept with a famous person like mad Way

more famous than me, but he's a fucking clown. And I'm like, you would get that clown as nigga some pussy because he was famous, you feel me, or you would get this suck ass nigga like I've never like. I don't think I would feel better if Michelle Mama gave me pussy. I wouldn't be like, oh you fun,

but I'm like, man, you're fucking nigga. I didn't even know real nigga like that, Like I would feel like and I don't know if it's me or if it's arrogance, but I remember I was on a no Jumper and I was talking and one of my homies like from from from Us, from Uh from Parou from ray J Neighborhood, got at me about something I said about ray J. He was like, man, you try to play the hommie. I'm like how he said, you know you was talking about Kim kardash and he was like, if she'd give

ray J some pussy. You feel me that I could suck her. And I remember telling that nigga, like, I think what you're trying to say, because like I ain't like I'm nigga, I'm for really need streets with this ship nigga, Like I'm a real like I'm something like Niota held my own at every level, you feel me,

I'll survive this life. I've been a man like you think I shouldn't feel like I'm like a cold and nigga and ray J. Now I'm not saying I have more j as a as a wealthy man, a really intelligent man, a thousand things, but like we talk out really being that nigga out in the life, mhm, like being a nigga nuts on the table, like you don't want to think of myself at a high level when it comes to that, you feel me so And I was explaining to him and by the end of the

conversation's like I feel you. I'll see what you're saying, like and I had to listen to them. Is that really playing ray J down? And it's like, no, I'm just counting myself where I'm specialist. I don't let the world dictate why I'm spared. I don't let the world tell me because I don't have more money than ray J that I'm not as special or more special as a motherfuckering nigga than ray J. That's not like a solid nigga. I met him great dude, really could dude.

But I just thought to myself, like, nigga, I'm a man. I exuberate masculinity more than ray J or or most motherfuckering niggas. So I think that's attractive to women, you know what I'm saying. So that's why I'm like, I'm a nigga, I'm a masculine man. Fuck my my money. They're like if if if if it's me and you somewhere, if me and a girl somewhere and ray J and this girl somewhere and some nigga start tripping fee me. I like my chances better than ray like his chances.

I think that's fair, you know I'm saying here like so, And I think that's where being in a relationship really comes down to. Like I can provide enough. I couldn't provide a life that's as great or as fabulous as ray J. Ray J is a very successful person and really talented and underratedly smart. What I'm saying, but ray

J could put you in the mansion. But if it's four niggas coming right here to trip, you want to be with me because these motherfucker's gonna go, these hands gonna beet cracking, feel me, ain't gonna be nothing, but on back up, let's do it for me. So I think as a protector, I value myself. Yeah, and and and that's like, and I could provide, like I can't give you. I mean, I think ray J can give you a ten bedroom house, but I mean I can get you four or five bedrooms. Yeah, you know, I

can get you four or five bedrooms. I can get you a if I've really tried, I can get you a a little bit struck, you know what I mean. I'll be mad as a motherucker, but I can get that. But I'm saying, if we scale back and I put you in four bedrooms and get you that new kid, that stinger or that K five, you feel me, then your life is luxurious. There's no pressure. Every day is good. Mhm. You know what I'm saying. So I was just thinking about that body counts, Like why do I trip, and

I think it's a fear. It's a fear within about what type of woman she is, you know, I'm saying that's what my be. What would be fear and the body count thought of a woman mine, It would be purely I'm as sorry as it is gonna sound. I'm not even gonna lie to you. It's just purely external perceptions, purely external perception. So that's what it is, you know. I don't I don't need eggnog on my face. Good looking out for tuning into the No Sellers Podcast. Please

do us a favorite, subscribe, rate, comment, and share. This episode was recorded right here on the West coast of the USA and produced by my homeboy A King, for the Black Effect Podcast Network and not Heart Radio. Yeah