Conversations About Beauty Standards

I'm fat. You're not easy to It's gonna cut my fucking stomach and cut all this fat out and carve my ship up and carve me a six pack and put pecks in my arm. But it's like, I will never let my insecurities get the best of me. I strengthened what I can and change what I disciplined myself to want to change. That ship is a real thing, h like mail order bride. I guess um, I'm I'm or. It is a real thing, but like people always put it off on white people like and I don't think

I know anybody with a male order bride. I've never heard of anybody having had one. But I'm sure it's a thing. It just seems like an odd thing to do because it's usually financially, if not driven facilitated. So I know of a lot of or have heard of, a lot of like you know, like like single middle aged white dudes who just every time there work vacation window comes up, they bomb straight to Thailand. And it's

no mystery. But I don't know why you would try to order a woman to come be your wife and live with you instead of just doing that or doing whatever else. I mean, I think, Pete, though, you don't really be tripping, but people get lonely because I think you kind of you're okay with yourself, and I noticed people with like well, I don't know that is a special next level of intellect to where you're just comfortable

being by yourself. I think most people to be around think about it, right, Like if you go to downtown that lay and ship, none of the people who live on Scared Road or on the streets that's downtown because none of them lived downtown before they got put on the streets. Like people come from all around California and all around the world to be homeless with other homeless people. So I just think people don't want to be lonely

on their journey and they find people in like situations. Yeah, so like what value you do seem like, Yeah, that do seem a bit weird, Like you just want to be around a bunch of other homeless, broke motherfucker's. I can understand that because you're not gonna you don't have to.

You could be comfortable in your position. You know, if you're the only broke, homeless bum in your circle, you're constantly going to feel inferior socially, Whereas if you're around a bunch of people on a level playing field, you don't have to deal with that or be bothered by it. So the effects of capitalism don't really hit you. Yeah, are just the effects of like societal hierarchies like anything like that. You know, everybody trying to figure out what

they're getting their sand with you from. Yeah, And you can maybe be a person who makes a lot of money, Like you could be a guy who makes ten million dollars a year because you run some giant porno network thing. But people who make two thousand dollars a year is real estate agents who are active in the church or whatever the hell in the Gulf community are gonna snub their nose at you, and you're gonna be lower on that.

You know, hierarchical structure, birds of felling flocked together, absolutely, So why is it? When so, why do a bunch of girls who would consider themselves beautiful pretty hang with that one ugly girl because somebody has to be responsible? No, no silings, g l my boy, Peter, What does the

ugly friend need to be responsible for? Because beautiful women, like we've established that women living in universe with no consequences, beautiful women are the most entitled Richardson, Yes, she used the acception is like the Jesus Christ of women's sins as far as the lack of accountability. But what is it about? So you're saying the ugly friend is usually

the accountable one. Yes, um. If you ever tried to go cold approach a beautiful woman out at the bar or a nightclub, the ugly friend is effectively the hired security guard. She's doing the screening. It's a good decision or a bad decision, whatever else. The good looking woman's used to things being bought toward. Whatever guys are gonna come make the offer anyway. They're kind of like a representation and agent, legal counsel, all those things in one.

Making sure the girls don't get too drunk from all the people buying them free cocktails all fucking night, make sure they get home, or if not to their home, then to a better home than their home. Based off of you know, with whom it is they send them. It's it's a very busy job for the ugly friend. That's why they're usually in an irritated mood because they're overworked and undercompensated. Oh and hence the the theory of taking one for the team. Yeah, you gotta get that

one out of there. You gotta get that one out of there. Somebody's got to go in there like and storm the beaches of Normandy and just get hit coming off the Pompton boat. Somebody's got to do it. It's like saving Private Ryan. Every night at the club. It's gone because for sure, if they get canceled cribs, they was sure would cancel. They would cancel this because it is y oh no, no, no, this is the realest ship.

This is just honest real ship gets you canceled. Yeah, that's true, but we're not just and I think maybe this plays into the theme of this episode, We're not There isn't an established political movement for ugly shaming. You can body shame, but ugly shaming really it's it's so subjective, it's a little vague. Well, there's no anti faith shaming group on Twitter, whatever, hold on, Okay, okay, let me get myself all right, okay, all right, So look, all right.

It takes me back to a couple of conversations we had, like, right, And the reason I was thinking about this whole conversation is I've came up with a few things too to validate my ideas. Um, women, right, So beauty is a natural thing, right, it's it's it's a natural yes, and then everything else should be an extension of sad beauty. So like, right, if you, um, if you're a dark girl,

and you should use foundation that fits your face. But what if you're a dark, scared girl who wants to be a light skinned girl or identifies as a self identifies like as a light that's out though, That's what I don't even bro that that's probably what will make me a transfer. I don't believe in. We get to be anybody we want to be. I think we can change our circumstances. I don't think gender is a circumstance. I just don't think. I don't even know if I've

ever heard it described per se as a circumstance. I just heard it because sometimes that exactly what I'm saying, Like, you're not cursed if you're a male, like you can't feel like a female like because females don't feel the same, and it's just a generic concept, like you can't feel like a girl like. You can't how do you feel like a girl. You can only behave like a woman based off societal norms of how women behave. But in in the realist form that's actually that doesn't mean a

woman has to behave that way. We were just talking about it with w NBA players where societal norm makes the pool a lot smaller for great women athletes and great women stars, but as it gets larger, you'll have

bigger and greater female superstars in sports. Yeah, I think there's a lot of and I think it's obviously a very diverse landscape, is very individually driven as far as the motivation of what makes a person want to do whatever, and in the greater gender gender ambiguity community, because that's that's pretty it's ambiguity. Well, it's a spectrum. You know. You could be like a girl who likes to wear basketball shorts a little bit whatever the hell and not

looks super duper like a regular girl. Or you can be like Bruce Jenner who says, no I fall on, I'm gonna like, absolutely, it's not gonna be murky. You know, I still don't believe that until he chopped off his penis. I'm not right. Well, I say to say this, though, I think there's maybe not a great illustration linguistically say, like I feel like I'm a woman. I think it's more so I would rather be received the way women

are received. And that's my issue right where if I had an issue with it all, it would be because you're not talking to yourself. You're telling me how I should treat you like. To me, that's what it is, and and and back to like like beauty standards, that's to me what plastic surgery represents. You know, damn will, you don't have a big ass, but you want me to treat you like you have a big ass. Absolutely, you know, damn well again, beauty is all an internal thing,

right whoever you are, you're supposed to use extensions. You know, your beauty should be like you know, you should like accent it. Yeah right, So eyelashes, okay, having them feel a little bit more, you know, I mean a little longer than they would be stock from GM. A little longer, it's cool. You know you add an inch. I don't know, that's yeah. Yeah, so maybe like you're talking like this is like, what's that mass scary that should put on

the eyelashes back because you're darkening. I figured out you're darkening your eyelashes to make the white and your eyeballs pop out like it's it's like a highlighter with eyeliner. Yeah, you do that to make the white of your eye pop out, which is like you would think women would

put together the best cars with that kind of detail. Man, I don't thing drives me crazy, which I hate is like I guess use like the expression exotic, like right now, exotics such a thing, but you know multi ethnic kind of perception with that, like that extra little bit of line like from the eyeshadow the women apply uf it makes you look like chiny eyed where they just draw lines out from the outside of their eyes towards the

edge of their eye socket. What in the living fuck you're gonna just pencil on blazing nous into your resume. But what's funny is but what's funny is right, and it's not you could be it could be maybe wage or whatever. I don't know know, But what's funny is like in every other aspect that's not cool. Like if you had a dog that was like a German shepherd mixed with a pit bull mixed with a beagle, that's

called a mutt. Yes. So now these these men today are calling women who are multicultural exoety because like, no, she's a mutt, bro, Yeah, she's a fucking mutt, and it's cool, Like, but don't try to separate it and let them drive the car like that's the problem is it's it's again back to my point I digress. Look, look, you supposed that accent accentuated a little bit, right, just

a little bit more, a little darker, little fuller. You're same with your hair, Like true beauty is taking what your hair is now and then filling it out a little bit, right, a little bit, and then adding a little bit to it um makeup. It should be used as foundation for your natural color and you know whatever you feel like, you highlight the structure in your face. So if you have high cheek bones, if you have whatever,

it is the difference, excuse me the definition. It's like makeup is like an outliner, you know what I'm saying. Like if you draw something and then you outline the actual painting. Cuss like what I'm saying, That's what makeup should be. But what's happening is women are they're trying to draw beauty. Women almost look like they're trying to avoid being identified for having committed a crime on camera earlier in the week. They are the words ship in

the world. Brot is when like they put they lighten up their face so much, right, and then you look at they fucking chest and they chest as dark as a dress album. Yeah, so it's like your face as light as funk, but your chest is dark. And it's like, baby, you are not supposed to be like you could be fine dark. You could be fine dark as feel me dark as who dark is? Who black is a motherfucker.

I gotta go through my phone. Uh oh girl, that was in always Name her she find as a motherfuckerum as in the basset is dark, we Campbell's dark dark, right, So you could be fine and black as Naomi Campbell or bright ass t Sha Campbell in house party, like beauty is like a shade spectrum, Like it's fine women

throughout all spectrums. Yeah, totally. So it just bothers me and and and what bothered me and what made me want to talk about this as I was looking at on Instagram and I've seen a picture of like a transgender woman. Right, this is a guy who became a woman, you know, for sex change and everything. And I noticed right that I obviously they had the wig on, you know what I'm saying, They had the wig on the lace front, but they had these big ass baby hares. Right,

that ship is getting out of control. And and that to me, that's not even the issue being that that that that's a transgender person. I don't like those in general. But but I'm gonna tell you, I'm gonna tell you, I'm gonna connect the issues for a woman and why it's causing the confusion it's causing. So they had these big lace front because huge lace front and these big gass stupid baby hairs. So that's probably one because because I knew girls growing up, because I have baby here,

it never looked like that. Stop, like, bro, stop laying your hair down and curving them like baby here. It's stupid. Like you're exaggerating a concept you don't have to exaggerate. And that's what's happening with beauty standards today. It's being exaggerated. It's like a nigga wearing a hundred chains with diamonds, like, bro, Like,

you're exaggerating your ability to provide. Like I get it in the concept of marketing, right, because everything about marketing is you know, It's why I wear my frame so big today because I get it right. But that's the point of it. It's like, but I'm watching people that just walk around every day and if it's not it's these ridiculous white woman weaves, you know, big, we huge,

fucking big, fucking thirty fucking six in fucking weaves. And they got the baby hair cuse swooping down, they got the part feel me like they're wearing a hair helmet. And then you look at the face cuse, and they face It's like, isn't it hilarious? That the term that they use is beat because that's how I would describe it and in more negative connotation. And so they put all this make up on and they're starting to like

change there. They're trying to change the tone of their skin, the complexion, and it's like, yo, you have to really not like who you are to like, I couldn't imagine me not liking my skin tone. And I was thinking, like, damn, is it our fault as men? You feel me? Because I was like, there's no way it's my fault because I don't like none of that fake ship at all.

Like I don't like it at all. Like I respect people trying to extend their beauty, right if it's personal, like if it's only built for just who your ship, how your ship grows, I'm good. But you got women looking at other women that are not like them, and they're like, you can't if you're a sister as dark as Naomi Campbell, you can't do the same things that a white woman like Kim Kardashian does to her face.

They don't go together, I think now, and I see women of other ethnicities that do now, like what it's just it's like weird it's like white women are doing things to their hair or Asian women are doing things to their hair that black. When we were doing to their hair that, to me from far away, made it look like they were trying to have hair that was more like an Asian or a white lady. And to me,

it's just turned into a giant. And I don't think it's even if you ask me personally my hypothesis, this is not about looks in appearance from a from a aesthetic beauty standpoint. You know what, that's not crazy. What's that English time in England where it's signifying wealth, like the Barochian period period, right, So that's what I think they're doing. I think they're getting caught. They're all status

trying status, like they're trying to create. So instead of understanding that these things are an enhancement of beauty, it's like, no, these represent uh class like economic prosperity to some degree. Like we've like like a girl, I've seen a girl, right, and I'm with somebody, and um, like I'm with who was I with? I was with? Uh? I was with my sister at the time. This was a while ago. I was with you, Lisa, and we was somewhere going

to meet up with everybody to eat. He was hanging and ship and I've seen this girl with this fucked up as we've like it looked bad and she was like, that's a seven hundred dollar weed, and I'm like, well, who the funk cares what it costs if it looked funked up. It's like it's like a nigga putting gold for Giato's six is on a on like a pinnal. I don't give a funk with the wheels costs, you know what I'm saying, Like the car don't fit the

fucking wheels. And again the reason that's fucked up because I agree with you, right, and I'm glad we got to that point. Beauty standards are transitioning into class standards. But the problem is they don't fit on the fucking car. Yeah, no question, Like it's the to me, it's the fault of the Cubic zirconium because now, I mean, I don't

rock jewelry, but I love jewelry. Like if I had a woman or whatever like that that I thought was worth two nickels, which is obviously hypothetical, I would be buying her all the all the jewelry, because I would want to have bought rubies, emeralds, did all the jewels, all that, all the precious stones. Well, now we've reached a point where like zircon became so commonplace that it

now it's about size. Like I could trot out the girl in ten thousand dollar diamond earrings tomorrow and she looked ass naked on her ears because everybody else got such big fake bullshit all over and you wouldn't even see those things. Yeah. Um, but but then again it's

like guys are doing the same thing. Though guys are doing that too, Like I've seen a picture, so back to the point of beauty standard and women, I've seen um, oh girl that Drake had at the Dodger Stadium right, and Drake had took this girl on the date because at Dodger Stadium, and he had rented the stadium and had dinner right next to the dugout, had a nigger servant. It was some like some some kind of like white

people ship, like white people players ship. They really like our kind of players, like white people players, because I'm like, who the fund would take a bit near the dugout, like whatever, like, but that is a that's a that's definitely a big money play because obviously we gotta rent the stadium. You gotta be somebody, so you know, successfully

he was able to execute it. But I've seen abroad right, And the broad came across Twitter and it was a dude who tweeted the broad and mind you, I've been defending men this whole time, like, man, men don't like that fake ship. And he posted the picture of the Broad. It was like, yeah, I see why, I see why he you know, he wasted no time to get with her.

And and this bitch has on what looks like a diaper like her legs because look horrible her legs cause looked like Mike stands and her ass popped out, Bro like crazy, and I'm like, I just tweeted cause back, I'm like, Bro, you think that ship is cool. But that's because some of these niggas are so unsophisticated, even if they present themselves. And that's like, Drake reminds me

of Brian Griffin. Dog, Bro, that's Drake, because the average woman would look at because like a sophisticated man, a male, you feel me like, but bro, look at his standard in taste and style. That's ship, bro. He's as shallow as a fucking wading pool. I think with Drake, honestly, I have a very credit but but I don't. But I don't want to make this about Drizzy because that's not the point Drizzy. I think Drizzy getting all the

bitches he couldn't get when he was just a Nickelodeon kid. Yeah, but I say to say this to Deep on it, I think I don't think Drake really even knows or has any idea of what it is that Drake likes. I think Drake just likes what I think he has been told he's supposed to like. Sure, sure, sure, But that's why I'm saying, like he's like Brian Griffin, like Brian Griffin dog like. It's like this fake pseudo motherfucker that you know, I mean, And I don't want to

call Drake that. That's what I'm trying to say. I'm saying for the type of motherfucker he is, he's picking the worst motherfucking women in history, and it's like he's picking the bitches I should be picking based off of my upbringing and how I came up, And I wouldn't pick them, but I don't know. It ain't about them. The focus is that this woman right looked the way she looked, and I'm just like, now, I think this lady, I don't know she's a white lady, so whatever it

is is European something. Um. But it's like they just like now they want to look like a sister because that's the traditional sister looked this, asked, blah blah blah. But it's just it's just blowing me away. But the niggas are doing the same thing though, Pete, like you gotta niggas wearing a hundred gold chained with diamonds, Like, bro, it's no way this could be real. And I get it right because men, we're supposed to be looked at

as providers. So if you wear all of your your portfolio, it's a simple way to see Yeah, it's a simple way to see your value as a provider. But it's so exaggerated. I don't know how a motherfucking woman could go for it. Like, I don't understand how a dude could see that girl cause and funk with her. I don't know how a do. I'm watching Tristan Thompson, cause who I funk with because Tristan seeming like a real motherfucker. Hello, Lamar older right, who I love as a laker? Right?

Fighting over Frankenstein, bro Like, look at Chloe bro Ice, No, Chloe, Like, how are you fighting over a put together version of this woman? Like I wouldn't be seen anywhere with this lady And I'm not kno gonna because she could be an awesome lady. But something gotta be wrong. I think everybody's insecure and I'm fat. You're not easy to It's gonna cut my fucking stomach and cut all this fat out and carve my ship up and carve me a

six pack and put pecks in my arm. But it's like, I will never let my insecurities get the best of me. I strengthened what I can and change what I just what I disciplined myself to want to change. But I strengthened other things. But to see these niggers in the comment arguing because over Frankenstein is unbelievable. I mean they're arguing over Frankenstein. Bro. That there, and they're like arguing over her, Like I've seen this lady. This lady got

shouldered past because she looks like a linebacker. Bro, she's huge. She's like Ken Norton. And I'm not saying that. Don't mean she's not a cute lady, But she didn't think she was a cute lady, because that's why she went and fucked herself up. Yeah, there was a minute there where she went from being like kind of resigned to the reality she was the not cute sister to then

trying to like make herself look at it. And she looked good for a second, and then she just ran away like she just overshot the runway like by a mile, and went from like, yeah, I'm just gonna take better care of myself. I'm an tone it up to now it's like no, I'm gonna tone it up and then I'm gonna touch it up, and then I'm gonna cut it up and then I'm gonna carve it up. So and I just I just think the beauty standards is

just getting out of control. Bro. It's just and it's so sad and back to the So this transgender female right that I saw, Oh, she looked like every girl today. Yeah, she looked like every girl today. She had this this big, stupid thirty summits we've on with these silly ass baby hairs, with this makeup on that change that didn't match her fucking chest. She had these crazy eyelashes, this lipstick, everything, and she got these titties that set up on everything.

Fear me, look as all that everything like a girl, no balls not she got her ship cut off. And I would have seen this lady and not been able to tell you the difference between her and a woman. That happened. That's how women are fucking the game up with beauty standards. Now niggas can be women because they're exaggerating so far, so far the exaggerating that now men just exaggerate the same and become them. It's kind of like if you were talking cars. Yeah, you put a

cover on your car when you park it outside. If you take the cover, put it over the car and draw the car of your choice onto the cover, and now every car is a Rolls Royce and no one knows what's underneath the cover because all the covers look the same. So the Rolls Royce in ther Cord look the same. Because the cover is a painted the same, you don't know what the And to me, now it's

not even so much that that's the issue. It's the issue that people are more concerned with how much money they spent on the cover and how much money they spent on the car exactly, And I didn't think about that.

Beauty standards have changed into like like class like class like classism, like it's going back to that European Baroquian period where who had the most and then white women cut white people already pale pete, These motherfucker's cousins putting after that picnic, these motherfucker's cousins putting white out on

their face them hose was white. Well, you know why that was right at that time because like now, and this is a transition for white people back and way back when you want to be as snow white as possible, because you're just getting into that point where you had the status to have people working outside for you, so you're gonna stay in doors and your palatial luxury, and if you had any color on you, you must be out working in a field somewhere, so you're not a sophisticant.

Then somehow in the last probably a hundred years or less, it's I have worked for such a surplus for myself that I can afford to go travel and relax on a beach somewhere tropical. So I have a tan because now my tan is a status similar because it shows how much luxury time I can afford myself and travel time I could afford myself based off my work surplus. So beauty, standard and class have been running hand in hand the whole time for a very long time. Yes,

that is fucking crazy. And I got another hot take, and this is probably gonna get us canceled, so you could you could red light this if you want. Okay to me, with what we're seeing now, with the blurring of the line between status and beauty as far as uh superficial acessories ago, I think there's a lot of women out there now who don't really particularly in l A, don't really do anything of value. They don't have any venture that they can use to provide a evaluation for

their own self esteem. So it's basically, do I have what am I worth? What am I worth to a man? Do I have dinner? Pussy? Do I got rent? Check? Pussy? Do I got car? No pussy? What is it? So? If they how quickly do women want you to go pay for it. Then I had a girl say, I wish you could do something. Sometimes we'll just let me know. All you gotta do is buy the plane ticket and and and get my hair done and we're out. This

is real text message. I seen that before. Of course it's very common, but women now want to walk outside. They know, look, oh SUSI Q over there, she got a thousand dollars in hair, makeup, nails, all this other ship. She must be worth a whole lot of money to somebody, you know. And and it becomes now like that's you're

projected status and you're projected self esteem. Like so now you don't want to walk outside, Like, oh my god, If I walk outside, if I haven't paid for my own nails or someone doesn't pay for my ship, then it looks like I'm not worth anything to anybody. Mm hmm. Damn. Ship just hit another level. Grol. This conversation gonna turn into like a five or six parter Bro. That's okay. I will bring a woman in for every single access for you that I don't like. Oh man, I case,

that's crazy. I never thought about that. So they look at that as success. The eyelashes if they get the right ones, it's success. The we've is expensive, the lashes are expensive. Is the makeup expensive? That they have cheap and expensive makeup? They do the nails, No, I've listened to them talk about the nails. The nails are expensive. And then layos gotta be loud so you can see him.

It's not the tasteful, classy French tip no more. You gotta be able to see that motherfucking money from across the street. And you gotta have the super expensive lip gloss so that you can see, Like I personally, in a woman when I'm on a date, I want to know if I have a hair out of place by looking in her lips because they're so shiny, I can see my face in them. Live gloves Macy, I never thought about that. It's a sign of value. And and the handbags ship women. Who the funk cares of women? Got?

Who the funk cares if women have money? Other That's that's the thing. Though. Other women don't look at it like she got money. They look at her as like, wow, she got a guy who got money. She's so great. She got a dude down to spend five thousand extra dollars a month on her that girl got sixty dollars a year, pussy, or she's just a sixty tho dollar a year bitch. Oh they always did tether tether their value to the nearest man or whatever, or at least

the perception thereof. Oh but if they're not proud of the man, that's why they don't show them in the little pictures, like when they take the vacation pictures and they're taking pictures and it's like, well, who was the guy that took you on vacation? They don't show him because he's still not worth or they have paid by committee.

So you don't want to have the nail guy mad that she went on the tie to the Islands with the hair guy, because now all of a sudden, you're gonna be the girl with the hair and no nails next month. Yeah. I never thought about it like that, but now that's scary because men are starting to act like women. Yes, so like so a nigga wearing forty changes, that's some girl ship. Yeah. I feel like it goes back to a great Outcast line it ain't what you make,

it's what you spend. Because I've seen women and heard him like literally, I've been hanging out, bitch about some guy with money, who's cheap? Who's the guy? God damn it, there's there. I hear that all the time about myself. Yea. So it's not even about that. Women are gonna look at some guy and be like, Oh, he makes a ton of money, he's a great provider. No, you do all that ship? What does it say? It says you have a lot of money and you spend a lot

of money. It's like, Wow, that guy spends a lot of money. If I'm over near him, he'll spend a lot of money on me. And then women are gonna see a lot of money haven't been spent on me, and they're gonna think I must be fucking great, because no one gives a funk that the that the little Jewish guy in the back with the conservative little shirt and slacks on has worth fifty million dollars, but the guy with fifty chains on that probably cost ten thousand

dollars is worth a hundred thousand dollars. But it's gonna spend ninety of them and fifty of them on you because nobody else can see it. Because no one can see it, and at the end of the day, if you're the girl, wouldn't you rather have spent on you than the guy with all the money and the five spent on you? Damn, damn. It's all about marketing. It's all about marketing because in social media, that's why. But what are they marketing for? What did they selling? What's

the product they selling? Well, we know what the product they're selling. What we don't know is what the end game is, what's what's what are they really consuming? What's the portfolio? It's it's like a portfolio and disposable value. That's what's so interesting to me. Yeah, if over ten years guys spend ten tho dollars on girl as nails,

she doesn't have ten cents to show for it. She has ten years worth of great nail memories on social but everybody else sees it so that Oh No, I like the word worth and value, even though this is not the true definition. I say worth is a self thing. Value is what everybody else plays on you. It's not true by definition, but it's how I perceive it, right, And so they want other It goes back to the

same thing I was telling you. They want everybody else to treat them like they have it, even though inside they know they're worthless exactly, and maybe at some point they figure, well, if I get if I confuse enough people, if I confuse enough people, if if enough, maybe if the right guy sees me and thinks of me as valuable,

he can change my worth. Even though you only got to change one the right one guy one time, and that instead of living in your studio apartment with all the hair and nails in the world, now you're living in a big nice house doing nothing, just like before, but in the big nice's house with more responsibilities. Maybe maybe not, because I don't think nobody wives have responsibilities. Yeah, but I don't think we do trophy wise in black community. I'll be honest. I don't think so. I don't think

we do. I think that's the white people ship. I don't think. I don't know no brother that got a trophy wife. Every last man I know who stayed married, she's gonna have to do something. Yeah, that could be fair. There's a lot of trophy girlfriends. Yeah, but but that's because you have multiple girlfriends so like, and I never

know who's married anybody. I was dating the girl one time and we stopped talking, you know, what I'm saying whatever, And she told me the problem was she was used to dealing with men that had five girlfriends, so she only had to be one fifth of a woman. It was like, probably the smartest thing I ever heard a woman tell me personally, and it blew me away that she knew that so she used to just having to be a fifth of a woman for somebody. But I think in our community we don't do trophy wise, like

everything has purpose and value. If we don't, we get rid of it because none of us have enough economics, not even puff, not even hold. We don't have enough economics truly to just have, you know, unvaluable assets. Not if you're trying to really get ahead in the world, you have to have things that that worked with you, even if nothing else. She got to be a cold cook, and that the lack of trophy wives is probably wise. Totistically, there are less black marriages in the country than an

other more trophy wife leaden communities. If we aren't marrying him as trophy wives, what the funk are we marrying him for? Half the time