Conversations About Baby Mamas

own label, Giant Life for me. Just some solid niggas, like they grew up in the culture, but they're not necessarily on the militant side name from No Game, but they grew up within all his relationship. Yeah, what up? What's up with it? Bro? Dude? What up? Because nobody can't see you back? What's happening? Man? Pass man too long? So Joey, look Mother's Day weekend this weekend? Right, tell me the story about what happened. So, so look, Pete.

They're releasing a song, right, I know right. I saw a comment about it because called baby Mama love right this song was dope. Fucking Remind me alike, dear Mama, makes me keep your head up, like it's it's from this real, honest place, and you know nigga, like culturally, you know me and their baby mama is in our community automatically beef because the relationship didn't really work out. So that's how it comes across. But I funk with Joey right because he tries to keep a real positive

relationship with raising his children. So he was telling me this crazy story. Could tell his story, can tell me? So when you showed your old lady baby mama love, what like, just tell me that story. He was telling me, Oh, keep it because don't get up with his mother because you're gonna get in trouble anyway. Yeah, it didn't really, it didn't really go too deep, you know what I'm saying.

She just I could just tell that she kind of internalized it in a way to where, you know, you gotta tell the old story because they don't know what we're talking about. You have to tell the old story. Oh you mean, oh you're talking about Okay, So how the conversations like how did it start? And how to eat? All the way to tell Pete the story? Guy, give it a bean, No man, No nice guys got out to get on Joey bro because Joey trying to be a nice guy instead of just telling the guy that's

a nice guy. You didn't hear how I threw myself off a cliff for the audience sake a couple episodes and go yeah, because it was it didn't it didn't get it. It didn't like, it didn't get deep like that. It was just what crazy is I because you know, of course I know my lady so already, you know, prior to right now, you know what I'm saying, you know, I she was aware of the record, and she had already kind of expressed like the tight of the record.

She kind of was already expressed like, yeah, I'm not really interested in hearing that. You feel me that has to really listen to it, And I understood, you know what I'm saying. I kind of just laughed it off

at that time. Was it tripping? But uh, as of recent you know, we've been doing low promos and things like that and shooting videos and just so happy that we're about to you know it just it was kind of like the universe is why this single was coming out the way obviously, Yeah, and so we're dipping in the car on my way to uh you know, to go funk with the homie, and she just out the blue,

just like so uh. As soon as she said so, uh, I was like I kind of you know you, I kind of knew She's like, so what what what kind of what major do I want to go with the Baby Mama love song first? You know what I'm saying. And I just was like, oh, well, you know it's it's marketing. I'm pretty much as told it like it was just was the best decision for us to make. It wasn't really the original decision, but yeah, right Mother's Day. Of course, the whole project, we was looking for release days.

We didn't really know how he's releasing it caause we were still trying to figure out like, okay, how we gonna market this still, you know, based on you know, should we be talking about. And I just explained it to her like as Mother's Day, and we felt like it would be a it will be like smart for us to drop it around this time, and it's a you know, beautiful dedication to mother's in general, not alone you know, uh, let alone baby Mamas. So and she

kind of understood, but really didn't really elaborate. After that, she kind of just like okay, and then kind of left it alone at that. You know, we didn't really and I wasn't trying to really get too deep into it after that, you know, answered the question to Kevine moving, do you think she really understood it? Honestly, No, I

don't think she really understands it. I think it's just the whole idea of what the song is saying in the title, and she eternalized it as that and just kind of like that's how she hearing and see it. So I'm not sure if she ever because you know, I only think she really listened to the soul thoroughly to really get what the message really is. Just no, we don't have children. Okay, So pig c wait, hold on, she did you just ask do you think she really

understood it? How would you ask that? I asked that, gud, That's exactly what I asked, because this this why and I noticed is right whenever I talked to Brandy right about like day perception bro about like baby Daddy's and baby Mama's is so like screwed up in our community, dog like, So I'm explaining right to Brandy's cousin, right, Meek,

I'm telling me. I'm like, look, Mika, Like she was telling me she was worried about the relationship her husband shared with his baby mama, And I'm like, they got three kids, you feel me, Like, you know, obviously y'all getting you know, y'all married more than kids, right, Yeah. So she was like, well, why does he have to have a relationship with her? And I'm like, because they have three kids, Because they have three children, and it's about the kids. Yeah, and and no matter what, like

you tied in permanently. And I think this was the hardest part for her understanding. This is why I wish I had a woman on this podcast. This is what's the hardest part for her to understand. I was like, their family. She's like, no, they're not family. I'm like, yes, they are, like literally, and this is before I heard y'all son, right, I was like, yeah, they have you know, they started a whole generation of kids together. That's gonna

create a generation of people. And there at the you know, at the at the root of the tree, like this is how the tree is going up, you know, I mean straight from them. And she found it so hard to understand that they were a family. Just to clarify something really quickly, Joey, you were saying because at first it was kind of a little bit at least vague

to me. So you're in the car with your girl and there's a song about baby mama love, and she didn't want to hear because you she thought it was about still having love with your baby mama from before. I think I think when she hears baby Mama loves, she she thinks of it as maybe it's a song about me expression like how much, maybe like I'm in love with my baby mama still is something like more like to that verss I almost sounded like knocking down your baby mama on the sneak. I was assuming this

only because if that, like, why else would you? Why else? Because you have? Because you have, It's not that and this is women's this is women's life. Yeah, that too, exactly, because it's not. She knows what the song is. She obviously know you wouldn't be in the middle of what you're going through with her if you were in love with your baby mom. It's no way possible she would be okay with it. So it's no way possible she

could mistake what the concept of the song is. But genuinely, and it's funny because I talked to dudes, We talked about this ship all the time. It's like, you know, you really can't like it's weird. How you know, if you and your kids mind don't work out and then you go to another relationship, you're in a situation where they almost don't want you to have a relationship with the kids parents. Yeah, yeah, unless they got if they got stuck up, if they if they could create a

relationship a friendship, then it be cool. But if they don't have a friendship or they don't communicate at all, then that's where and be like, well if she ain't cool with me, then you shouldn't be cool with her.

Mm hmm. Okay. Do you think that's because maybe like okay, and this is something that Mika was saying to me, do you think that is because there's a genuine like still affinity or affection between like the mom and the dad of the child, Like do you think the reason like right, your girl feel that way because it's because because like has she ever asked to meet you know, your kids? Mom? Who are you asking Joe did she

asked to meet her um? She ever said, let me like, right, we together, we need I think they're planning to get married. We're gonna get married one day. Has she ever said, you know what, I need to meet my future step daughters mother. No, she didn't offer that. I kind of no, she didn't do that. I kind of just made that happen, you know what I'm saying. When you know I was ready to make that happen. Yeah, that's more like ship.

We would I curated that like that ain't something she offered, Like, but I know what you're saying, because it seems like that would make sense, Like I dealt with it. If I dealt with that on the other side, I can definitely be like I would be interested in knowing you know what I'm saying. It seems like like we were like right like like yo, Like if let's say, your baby mom's right have like somebody bringing somebody around yo, yo, your son douce right? Yeah, like yo, your baby mama

bringing somebody around your son? You would want of me who the dude is right back? Who is this dude that's gonna be around my son? Dealt with that? And if and if the nigga tripping like he don't want to meet me, then I feel like this nigga is some type of weirdo it has nigga or something. So, but I would meet. I immediately meet the person, exchange numbers. You know, we cool, like you know my my baby mama's um daughter. She has a kid that she had after she we had a kid. So her kids, her

daughter's father, Me and this nigga cool. We topped it up and all that. You know what I mean. We talked, we we we were straight. Yeah. Okay, So Joey, let me ask you a better question. Did joe baby mom asked to meet your girl eventually? Yeah, once she thought of real she said I need to meet her. Yeah, she was. She was comfortable with when she was really ready to meet her, she would wanted to meet her. No, not not wheading. Did she ever press you to like you need to set up a meeting so I can

see who's gonna be around my daughter? Um, I'm trying to remember this has been a few years now. Not like, did you ever feel that pressure, like the pressure you would like, let's say somebody around your daughter? Right? Um? So dude, So Pete, Joey got a daughter. Dudes got a son. Did like when she met a dude right and you realized he was gonna be around you dressed right. That's what I'm trying to figure out, right, because I don't got no kids, so I'm trying to figure out

why are we so conscious as men right now? I can't say this is generalization because I would hope some other mothers would press you, like, who was this nick who was just brought theories? And be careful with the generalizations. Man, you know they'd be tripping. That's why any specifying that ship. But I'm trying to make a fall every time. That's why they're grasping at alibis. They need us a reason to pull out a complaint against you down the road.

So that's that's university. So what's your general theories, Pete? I think because a lot of men have a minority share of time with the kids, that they value their role in raising the kid more. It's a little bit

more of a pure selfless interest. And I think a lot of the women feel that they're saddled with the responsibility of having this kid like of the time or whatever the hell, and they has a lot of resentment, and the and the parenting dynamic becomes a lot more selfish on their side with regard to their perspective a lot because they're saddled with having to do a lot more of the day to day you know, heavy lifting, so to speak, just by nature of the way most um,

what do you call it, custody dynamics are well, I mean, women carry the baby for ten months. You don't even get to be a parent at best during the pregnancy. You could be a husband or a boyfriend, right, you can't be apparent when somebody pregnant. They they women get a ten month hand started being a parent before you

ever get a chance. But you don't think most of it, Pete, comes from the fact that that um that women like outside of the custody stuff, that women literally are parents for like a four ten months versus men not at all, not really, And I don't see how that correlates with them being disinterested with who the other parents are bringing around the kid and being less territorial. If anything, it would it would be the opposite. Yeah, it seems like

it would make you more territorial. Yeah, but they are territorial, right, that's why women tend to selectively. Yeah, I feel like they're territorial in a self serving way more so than territorial in the kids serving way. And a lot of occasions, is that why you never had a get well, I

never had a kid. The reason why I never had a kid was because I'm not going to have a kid if I'm not married and I'm not gonna do all that stuff if I'm not financially prepared to like be able to for sure guarantee that I can provide on a standard that I feel I need to provide on it, like like like to meet the responsibility threshold that I have for myself. So since I wasn't there,

it was never even a question. You would think, right, because you know how your baby mom is, right, they if you noticed, women feel like it's their kid, right for the most part, and you know, they pretty much issue you out kind of how you interact, right you you have to literally fight to get that right, And I get it. You would just think that they would be more worried and concerned about who's around the kid. Okay, Pete,

I got you. Hold up, what about the fact that they know the kid is with the father and the father is a different power dynamic, So maybe that's why they're not as worried. That's true. And I think that women probably have less of a prejudicial concern over other women being predatory versus men looking at other strange men being predatory towards kids. That's probably also real. Sure, So let me ask you a questions. Only when the song come out and she hears it, how do you deal

with if she's gonna trip? I mean, I know this is all all ideally because this is like you move into a different direction and this is a song showing love to the person again you were thinking would make sense. She was like, Okay, she understands the blessing even as a woman, right, she would hope that even if her and her guy right didn't. I don't even think they

think that far it. That's another story. But I'm saying, you would think that somebody would have love for them giving them a child, Like I like, how does this play out? Honestly, man, I'm not even thinking about that at this point. My intentions is pure. It's it's my creation, it's my art, and that's what it is, you know what I'm saying, Like, I haven't really been dripping off.

I tried to ask Elna feel about it. Yeah, I'm not really worried about something I havn't you know occurred at this point, you know, because that should have making my anxiety already bad. So I don't need I don't need to be worried. I don't need to be worried about that. You know what I'm saying. I believe in the record. You know what I'm saying. It's getting great responses from people who has heard it. And what is your bad mama think of the record? And I don't

know if she heard it yet? So you you so the one motherfucker you ain't you made the record that inspired you to make the record. You ain't let that motherfucker here, dude, your baby one record here, No dude, bad MoMA heard the record, I think, so just cam here your record. How many motherfucker's the record besides your baby mama? A lot of people heard that motherfucker. So let me this right. The one motherfucker who inspired the record hasn't heard neither one of you niggas played the

record for them. Man, niggas ain't going out that way to be like, look at the Hey, hey, look at this record I made. You mean you're not going out to your way to show your baby mama looven start at the trouble, the beginning with love. Yeah. Now, I mean my daughter heard it. My daughter took his dope. She probably mentioned it or something, But I didn't go on my way to say shout my ship my daughter in the video. Yea froendsu ship. How I mean it's coming out nig ship and seeing what you got, gonna

see your baby mama the video ahead of time. Man, I'm gonna getting edited still nigga. Yes, like they catch they catch the nigga. Y'all just debuted the video at Crest Grooves. Nigga in front of fifteen thousand people. How to fund your babby? Mama didn't see the video? Well, y ain't ship man, man, Man, that's rough ship. It's nice. Uh, it's rough man. You can't just see your baby like okay,

So what stops you? Is it? Because I think it's one of the situations where just like when they come out, they're gonna get you know, how did you put too much start into that? Either? Like I could send it without a problem. You know what I'm saying, especially now that I got the link where you know it's kind of clearer and ship, Um, I can send it, but I just didn't I want a tripping like that. I know what had come across her radar when it was you know what I'm saying, I'm talking about telling my

daughter to the dentist and ship like that. We didn't talking about videos. You gotta deal with. You gotta deal with why I wasn't in the video and ship, I wouldn't worry about that, but you know what, he might be right. You never know, women are dnist why I wasn't in the video, or under selling a woman's desire to complain about something. It's not a wise you know a way to go. Um yeah, man, they're gonna find

something to complain about the show. So is it. We didn't mention my whole name and the song so obviously obviously right, y'all got kids, We don't got kids, so obviously y'all really grateful for your kids for sure. Of course we love our kids. Which is I mean, you gotta think, man, with your kids. Man, that's the that's really the glue, and that's what the other the other yo, Yo,

your new relationship. You know, don't understand that it's really the kid, because if the kid wasn't involved, then your connection would be less. The song wouldn't exist. What a connection would be less if if you didn't have a kid with your baby mama. You wouldn't deal with your baby mama's as much if you didn't have kids with them, that would just be an X. Yeah. So the song ain't tell my ex I love her, so I mean yeah, and then you know one of them songs like man,

you know it meet some songs like that. Man, it's hard for me to be um like that ship That was Joe idea bro. Like at first, I was like, all right, bro, that's what you're doing. Hi. He was like, no, you gotta get on this. I'm like, and I just did it, like fucking I'm gonna just keep it real with going to get it off the way. How was the writing process for it though, Like you know, like the writing process for throwing the lyrics together versus on the topic. It was just quick. It was just like

fucking just keep it really, keep going. It wasn't really like your big thought thought out thing, you know what I mean. I had to make that nigga get on the song. Man, I nig you don't like being vulnerable? I just told him, well, I didn't hear it, my bad. How you gonna like being vulnerable? And that that is just I don't know, man, I could have been could

have been just a sitit of waste in that hand. Sure, sure, and you know, like funck man, you want me to rap about this ship, but I just said, fucking kept it real. I can't even say, you know what I'm gonna do this ship and after hearing this song right because I felt like my contribution to it would would give you know how you know, you know, you know personally, so you know it gave my character. Yeah, yeah, the interesting story. Man, I'm like, bro, I see, I thought

it was dope. I thought as hearing the song, I thought the nigga did a good job because showing love to the mother of his child. Um, because it was oh you always donna have love for them? Sure, yeah, yeah you suppose. Okay, you know your nerves or weather whatever, you know what I mean. It used to be bad where you're just mother, get the tripping, you cuss their grass out, and then you just grow past it, like you know, what's get to tripping. I'm just gonna hang up.

Or once once y'all move once, y'all move past the concept of being together again. You could coexistent peace. Here's a question, right, is it fair to say that your baby mom is your family? Yeah? Because you got Okay, where on the list of family would they come as priority? Right? Now? Look, let me this is why, because it's a good question, and I was thinking about talking to me about this. So right, you got right, your old lady at the top, right,

and then you got you know, a homie at the bottom. Right, So you keep going, you know the most important motherfucker. Right, You probably got your kids at the top. Yeah, you shouldn't have your kids at the top. That's a mistake. You shouldn't have your kids over yesterday. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but it's true. You shouldn't have your kids over your old day. That's a horrible thing that people do. Don't don't have your kids over your own It's a different top, right, No,

it's only one top. Well, you got here on the top. You know what. That's a difference between men and women, because if you ask a hundred women who's at the top, they're gonna say their kids. If you ask a hundred men who's at the top, they're gonna say that girl. Yeah, that's that's the That's also it depends on the type of woman, like you know, most women don't put they most women won't put their kids over It's like you know what mean they hell, yeah, well women put their

kids over their spouse. On the long sure, it's gonna be the overwhelming majority. We're gonna have to pall this. I don't. I don't think so you think you think extremely confident about this? You think what women would put their kids above their husband? Fu? Yeah, you know what it's like. It's like it's like you got the immediate

family that's gonna like they don't. Really, it's not like positions until a situation occurred, so the position you you kind of divvy it up in positions like right now, my son needs more attention than you do it. Right now you need more attention than he do. And it depends on the situation. No, not and and this is because that's that's too far, right, because let's just say on the on the on the spectrum, right, because really, in theory, if the kid needs attention, y'all supposed to

pay attention to the kid. Right. I got a couple of ideas I wanted to go over. If your babby mom said she needed a thousand dollars and you had twelve hundred dollars saved, is she that much family? No, you're not getting You're not getting the hold. You've only got twelve and she need the whole g Now, I got something on that g Okay needed a thousand and you only got twelve hundred saved? Are we living together? She gonna get the gil already that your kid needed

a thousand dollars. The kid need a thousand dollars. Fun, that's okay, okay. Oh, note, so their dad is playing hid from the Penhouse players. Click all right, sign the ruthless, go do your homework. You you heard of him, You know what it is. Let's say Ham needed twelve hundred thousand dollars and you only had twelve hundred dollars. I got something on that thousand, because that's the same thing he would do for me, Duce twelve, Ham needed a thousand.

I've been on White needed last. I'm saying. I'm saying he's not gonna come to you white need. He just needed thousand dollars. I'm gonna give it back to you. I'm gonna give it back to you in two months. Twelve hundreds. Make it interesting. Let's make it interesting. It's it's a it's a thousand dollar co pay for a medical fact. All. You gotta get that to everybody. Oh yeah, you gotta get that to everybody. I gotta get that to my friend. That's not fair. You got a lot

of money. Yeah, medical coday, like your life. A lot of people. I get that too. I'm gonna have to ask for that thousand then, and didn't get that thousand. I'm so I can still keep that sweat. Okay, so we go, We're gonna make it happen. Okay, So listen, So let's say out of twelve hundred dollars you got saved up right, your baby mama says she needs a thousand. Now, mind you, they don't have to tell you what it's for. They just need twelve hundred dollars, right, i'bout a thousand

dollars out of twelve hundred saved. That's why I ain't gotta tell her all. Your old lady get the whole rap. How much of it would you give your baby mama, keep it a being cause don't get up on your life? How much enough to know when y'are lying? So? How much of a thousand would you give? Let's say you don't give it a whole thousand. How much of the thousand do you give? Right? I got this, I give up five? That's their respectable. It depends on all right,

she what you can do and didn't get back at me. No, she says she needs what you can give her right now. This is in addition to you being on time with all your payments and all your support and all that other ship. Right now, I got folks, not five folks. Okay, what you got for your baby mom? Mac she I need it now due whatever you give me, I need it now. I need a thousand, feel me, But I need whatever you get me right now. It depends on what I gotta do. This is what I'm say. You

got twelve hundred saved up? This ain't got this your savings? This ain't you ain't got to do nothing for your baby mama's transmission. No, don't don't say the reason. Okay, man, you know what? It just depends with me, bro, because I'll be looking at ship, like if you gotta if you got a man or something that exil with like, what does God like? You can't just call me calling her babies? Father? Bro, I ain't tripping what I when? It?

Probably like? I respect your number? What's your number? Duce by about Phoe, He'll be like, here goes your zello over four hundred. Okay. Let's say your pops you need a thousand here, no phoone, now you need six? That's fair. Okay. Let's say your pops leading up, I don't need the whole. They're just trying to see how must take it? Get anyway you're going with that, but don't start with that black cynic ship. Let's take Let's say Pops needed a thousand.

He's not telling you the reason. You know it ain't You know he ain't about to die for he just needed a thousand. How much you giving Pops? I shoot, if I got twelve hundred, shade the pops need thousand? Yeah, I probably sent him six. I give him half. Okay, Okay, dudes, um if he needs a lie because my pops and my mama man probably the own thousand. Bro Okay, okay, because I don't really be tripping, and I'm like, he here if I got it here? Okay, okay, okay. What

about Uncle Freggie Fred thousand Twitter? He ain't telling you why. You know, he's not gonna die if he don't get it. That getting a hunted in fifty, that nigger getting the whole conversation exactly believe that. Okay, okay, hold up, hold up, okay, let's me up out of my sleep with this bullshit man. Okay, okay, break your cousin by the way that okay, so cousin freak, So cousin Freak is good for a buck fifty for you cause nothing. Okay, okay, what about Uncle Carl? But

what about Uncle Carl? Huh what about Uncle Carl? Uncle Carl got he got, he got it, he got something coming, he got probably he got he probably got like three real numbers, man, real numbers, three or four. He'd probably get half. You get half. Okay, okay, what about your sister. She's getting about three or four. Everybody is getting about three or four, my nigga. Okay, what about your daughter. She's not telling you why I just need a thousand, daddy.

She's not getting what you need a thousand. So she's getting the conversation. Okay, okay, okay, okay. What about your cousin You already asked about him? Oh yeah that was U. No no, no, you're right because Fred Okay, I got Fred. Okay, what about what about? No? No, no no, what about cheese? My nigga, I'm gonna give me huh. I'll break bread with cheese, and cheese are doing for me? I'm saying out of the whole he needed a thousand. He's not

telling you why. You know, he's not gonna die. We're like, man, I need a thousand, he get three or four? Two? If he if he called me that okay, yeah, okay, where you at? Who me? Yeah? Uh? Based on me and cheese relationship, I'll probably just shoot him the rack because he's gonna get he If he said he's gonna give me back in two or three days, he's gonna do it. Okay. So Babby Mama falls between cousin and daughter, cousin and kid as family. That's not bad. Yeah, I

mean pretty much. Whenever your baby mama hits you up and she needs some help with something, obviously she really needs that help because nine times out of ten sometime they don't be want to ask for that ship anyway because that thousand eight you're gonna have to look out. That's a good baby mama. I would dispute that precedent because they don't be woting that don't need other little ship. All the talk up dudes, they goes he sit all

the time. So, uh, they asked it for this thousand bro, what about whatever little tools and fused in between time that they need. That's true, That's true. So it ain't like they just that's all they're gonna ever get. You feel me? Yeah? But but but you're moving right that that situation where you look, we'll see. If your kids live with the baby mama, then that's a little bit different because now he's involved, right, So if he lives with you, if your kid is with you, then she

get less money. She don't have to really need some money, but she's gonna have to be fucked up like my son with me. What the funk you need? That's you feel me? And if she got more than one baby daddy, she you want to divvy this ship up. But that's why I thousand. If you give her what you say, you're number one six, no hive. I said she only even needs six. I'm saying, I'm saying five four was your number. Okay, so yeah, she only got got sick,

she got Okay, that's not bad though. That's a respectable number your savings. That's like, that's still a respectable numbers. But that's why I said, that's a respectable number, feel me because of everything, oh you're going through. I can respect that. And it still put them on that family. I was just trying to figure out where amongst the family treat that you have them. And then she is you hoping she come up with like seven fifty so

you can just give up to fifty. You're hoping she discloses she came oh my god, or hits you with that. Never mind, I made it happen. Yeah, that's the worst one. That's what they always anyway. Yeah, I'd rather hear that bullshit and keep the money and be like, oh, I didn't have to a percentage of your savings, my nigga, like that ship, you know, like thirty like because it's not really that I mean, unless they say they're gonna give it back. No, no, I'm not talking about they

gonna give it back. I'm talking about they just tell you they need this. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so you gotta just give them what you really can afford at that time. Got to no, I see it, like I see, I see what you said, Pops. You gotta give him the whole thing. Your old lady gotta give her the whole thing. Already, your old lady already got it. Well, that's what I'm saying. I'm just saying, So that's the that's the ranking. I'm saying. That was dope. That thing was on the family tree.

That's all. She don't really count because she already if y'all live together, it's already herts. You already know how that go. Yeah I could. Yeah, yeah, you don't even have had no kids, you just yeah, that's how she didn't. Yeah yeah, what's George is Hurts and what's hers is hers? Yeah for sure, both ways, both ways that way, but you know always Yeah, that's a that's a great two way street. That that that's a to a street like

a border crossing at an international border. Yeah, man, get interested. I wonder how Winden was fl about that, like if like no, just thinking that way, like do you think yo yo yo, lady, think of your baby mom like that, Well that's his family. Hell no, they're not never gonna together like that unless they become family. Hawever, the way they see it, See, they they already kind of family, but in the state, they ain't given it that type. They ain't giving it that title unless it becomes that

unless they become friends. See, if they become friends, then it's cool. But if they don't become friends, and then we're living in a different day and age where they're not gonna be like my mom and my dad. You know, you don't if they don't look at it like that. It's just so much ship going on in the world.

And they're get on Facebook and ask Facebook what they think about this, and then Facebook get the strangers get to giving them all type of crazy ship and if it, if it agree with anything, if it's one percent of what they feel, they're gonna run with that. My feelings and that ship. You know, if they get their feelings validated. Strange, they're running with that. Motherfucking yeah. Yeah yeah, social media.

But the co part is they'll take that. They use they used the ship of social media right to like, try to use that to life. They try to use it, yeah, to validate their motions. Yeah, it's a validate they ship, but then in real life they don't even really be like that. It just be like that moment that they just need that ship for that moment. They just need to feel good for that little bullshit because they'll, man,

they don't even really be feeling like that. You know how you would tell tell you a woman something or a woman something that in your face they not agreeing with ship, but beyond your back, they spreading that ship and they're smiling when they're telling the next person. They're sharing it all over. But is with women, you know what I mean in general is they're not going to tell the whole story because they don't want really great advice. They don't want anybody They want people to appeal to

their emotions. So that's why people tell one side of the story because they don't want to show their card because they oftentimes feel like if it's something negotiable or something that involves a sharing or an agreement or whatever between you and her, but they're never gonna let you think that. They don't think that they're worth more than what they settled for. What it is is they're gonna have to be accountable and we always talk about ain't

doing that. That is true. I've been hearing that a lot women settled, and it's like, really, if you think about it, no human being really settled or every human being settled at all times. Was I feel like we're the ones hold the ship together, because really the nigger walk away. I mean, women don't usually just leave a man. Well, I've been on records saying a great marriage or a great relationship with a woman for a man is a woman walking through the dark and a man holding a

flashlight to try to show where she's going. That's my oldt. That's really what it is. And if we turn them motherfucking light off, they crashing. Bro. Yeah, for sure, for sure, for sure. I looked at the me and the other day on Facebook. I looked at it me and the other day on Facebook, and it showed a happily married

woman right sitting up there smiling with her husband. It was funny because it's like four means and one and all the means were like these perfectly fit women, perfectly fit women that had three kids, perfectly fit women at this But I thought that was so funny, like y'all, basically, it wasn't real women? Is it just sent ship that

suck me up? What they're doing is so hilarious to me, how they're trying to search for their identity after being on the planet Earth for thousands of thousands of thousands of thousands of thousands of years and they're still trying to search for their identity of what validates them or making saying it's a successful woman. And it's funny to me, right because there was a year this woman who was at her job. You know, she has a good job, she was successful. The one that was happily married, I

guess you know, insinuating the housewife. You know she was happy, Um, the one that And it's so funny to me that they really feel like they have to tell each other this. That'ship's hilarious because I cried, laughed, and honestly, it's so weird to me, right because women are really the ship, like they do a lot of things to make themselves not the ship naturally out of the box. Women are the ship right off the assembly line of gods. To send me a line. They are the ship. They are

created in the ship image. They are the greatest thing smoking and every day they on planet Earth. They figure out a way to ruin it, They're gonna ask some bullshit to it every time. They like, oh God, got it too exactly how I supposed to be. I need to figure out how to make it look like that. It's because the nature of the beasts, evolutionarily speaking, is that I told you this before. Men are producers and

women are consumers. Women are governed by what they want to do, and men are governed by what they have to do. I mean, there's only so much of that before, you know, certain principles start to unravel and certain others tend to hold fast. That's true. That's true. That makes sense. So Pete, let me ask you a question. H and they can do I gotta shape. It's all good. We'll just last question. Let me ask you a question, Pete. Can you imagine having a black child? Because it could

really happens mine, Yes, that's yours. Let's say you can't imagine having a hundred percent black child. It's mind. That is a stretch of the imagination. If yo child got pis with saying black, that's a nigger. Don't ever get to hear you. That's actually that's a funny comedy bit that I was trying to play with like several years ago. But yeah, nonetheless, I mean, yeah, that's that's not a bunch of cool comedy sketches. Pete with a black so I got, I got them all written, I got a

hunt of them. You could just like right every day you can put on on Instagram every day, just all the bullshin you're gonna get yourself into. Yeah, I pray to God you have a black kid. I thought you loved black children. I pray to God you just because I think you would be such a good dad. But I think it would help you see a little bit more of what it's like for us, because I think you do a really good job. Like all the homies love you to death. Everybody I ever introduce you to

love you to death. You seel me. But you know the people who do who I feel like, dude, be like, well, I don't know about Peter is because I tell Pete. I tell people all the time Pete is really a white man, Like Pete is not a white man acting like a nigger. Not none that Pete is really a white man. He just a real smooth, motherfucking person like he you know, he's not ignorant like he he may don't know what it's like to be us, but he's

been around us to know who we are. Right. So I was saying, I was like, if you had a black child, it would kind of broaden your your ship. You'll be like, oh, I see what the mother be talking about? This is some bullshit. Yeah, No, I mean, look, in real life, I do see a lot of what you guys are talking like, Like, I really do a lot of where we verbally disagree, it's usually it's because when I don't disagree, I'm not saying anything because they're already saying it. No, I know, I know you see

a lot of it. But also for you to have a black baby mama would be classic. Yeah, that's old class. That would be the real comedy skids that that would be where I wish he was from the projects to which was close pick it's close. They'd probably be I mean, I'm in Miami now, they'd probably be from Pork and Beans or something like that. Over town are over there?

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