Conversation with Eve (from the Bible)

of that other situations going back, we're not. But what I'm saying is if I don't before I ask you something, because I already know, already did my detective work already been f B, I C I A everything, I have the proof I didn't. I got the receipts everything. So if I come to you, which is dumb, if I come to you and I'm showing you every light I'm showing you, and that's a garbage lying, Lying is perfect.

But that's what I'm saying. I'm not gonna ask you something and I don't know that it's true or false. Still like I I deal with relations ships like money laundry. Yeah, you gotta conceal sources and you've got to fabricate channels. You gotta know how to talk to these people. You gotta know how to do things trust me. I'm very slick. I know how to get information. That's why I was going to school to be a homicide detective. Then I was gonna go be a lawyer because I was naturally

and the woman. But the truth is, y'all never ever have enough proof. No, I have enough proof. It's just I'm just like you know, I never have enough proof. I have all the proof. It's just my feelings is hurt today, but I muna still llell you tomorrow. So that's why I don't really care. But y'all never have enough proof. I have all the proof. You know what. You're right. You know why because the proof he really wanted from him. That's not why you don't what that accomplish.

I just feel like you're not taking away my options because, okay, say you heard my feelings. The option is for me to leave, stay or whatever. If you're telling me what I'm hearing because you know I'm gonna leave, I feel like you took it away because now I'm just staying because I believe in what you said that you did right. That's my only my only love. You have to lie the whole time. You can't constantly. You don't telling the woman the truth never got a human being anywhere. Every

time they have is always in the bad. But don't you know when she finds out later, she's still stuck around. So why lie to get caught up later to go through that. You're not ever gonna get caught up. You you already caught up. A woman's intuition, her gut is gonna be accurate. So you deny it the whole time, you'll never have enough proof. Ever, my proof is him being honest. That's why I just don't ask questions. That's

just why you lie, because then you would never have proof. No, I don't ask questions because I'm not going to give you the opportunity to lie to me. So one thing I can always say, you ain't lie to me. You know, you know what they're gonna say. I ain't never let you right because I don't ask questions. Yeah, so you know bad news. You don't ask questions about it. You don't use the information that you know to make decisions. And if you did get answers to your questions, you

wouldn't use that that information to make decisions. I would use both to make my decisions. But what I'm saying is if he's lying to me, he's telling me everything I want to hear in a good way. So the option of me saying said, just say if I call him cheating, and I asked them, babe, did you cheat on me? How did you catch him cheating? It's a whole lot of stuff you can I didn't call people. I didn't set up a hole cheating scandal, catching nigga cheating.

So I know I called you. You ain't never call handed, how much want you never walked in on nigga penis in Vagina. No, I set up the scandal, and I don't mean he cheated. Actually called entrappedment. Oh well, he should have been smart enough. That doesn't mean you cheated and did And that's why at the end of the day, you still I started getting a car note paid here, Hey, you need this before I even mentioned it to him, because before I even mentioned it to him, he already

felt guilty because he saw me. But the point was he was supposed to but I was about to go to his car, but I couldn't put up. He saw me and drove off. Literally, that's some emotional ship to do. So because the nigga caught you you felt he catching him, and so now his relief was let me pay her. His apology was let me pay her bills pretty much. But then I just end up telling him like, bro, like because I wouldn't see him after that, like he kept trying to see me, Like well, then he's like,

how was he paying all of these bills? Because he felt guilty? He was doing little stuff, but now them if you wasn't seeing you, it's called I gave him on the account here to cardinal people call him and put, you know, pay with your credit card so you wouldn't see him. And he was doing that because he felt good. He was doing it because he felt guilty. I know a guilty man would try to pay his way out have a problem. I'm telling you it wasn't the guilt

was bothering him. Was the potential loss he was trying to stave off. It was it was already gone because he thought in the crazy part about it, because I end up letting him know, probably like a couple of months later, and he was like, women, women is this and no, bro, you sat there was texting my cousin. God set it up because he blocks me because I didn't every food joke on him. He got pissed block me, so I text him from my cousin phone. So he's

having a full fledged conversation. So he started going all left field with the conversation, like oh, you gotta ask, and you this and that and you know, let's do it one time. And we ain't never got to tell her to this story. So I'm like, okay, So I set it up just to see what's he gonna go. He went through, like something that's missing in this story. You said, what you just made that one plus one equals two and it's a variable in there because because

what he started talking reckless in the text message. Yeah, I doubt he just started talking reckless. So you're trying to say that they had something going on, you know, something about it made him feel comfortable enough to talk reguless. He didn't just jump off the port. I thought he thought it was me until he started saying certain stuff and then I was like, you know who this is. He was like, yeah, this is such a such step because it ain't. He was like I always you know.

And this happened on like so he was mad about the April one, and this happened on April one. So the whole time thinking like maybe he april fing me back at this point, that's what I was thinking. Maybe he was. He wasn't, because therein't no way in hell you about to just there start paying all my bills. You wouldn't paying all my bills. You don't give me

money here and there. But you wasn't paying car. No, my carnal at that time was as I have been eighteen years old, I had a five hundred out of carnal. Oh so this is no, this is a whole This was before I met now. This was the little high school situation. So you had a nigger in high school. I was paying all your bills. Yeah, you got a job. He was paying my card now and gave me no money. He was a little work on. He wasn't in high school. He was three years older than me. He probably like

six years older than he was. No, he could went to school together when he was in eleventh thousand in the night, So technically he was when you were at first he was the sixth He was two years older than me with two to three to two. No, he was he was because he was a prom with me. You diy ain't let no grown as man go to prom with you. That man was a grown as man. They went to prom with you. They don't even after a certain age, you can't even go to problem with people.

I ain't never heard that rule. It's a rule. It was stage. I don't know the limit. But a junior in college went to your high school prom. No he wasn't a junior. Well, I don't know. You have to be enrolled. No he was. I'm sure you y'all throwing me off with these ages. You were saying that we just listening. I was in the twelve. She was seventeen, he was one. She was eighteen. Why you keep on? I was, I was seventeen, he was nineteen. Whatever. Ain't

no nigga nineteen paying nobody be he paid my car? No, ain't nobody nineteen paying nobody card. Yes he was. That's something that god. I can show you his age. I need to see it. I'll show you. We're going to call him live. And the oldest person you talked to. He liked, let's call this guy about emotional men. I had a guy that lied to me about the age they made themselves younger. I did because I believe that he was forty. No, I was not eighteen talking to

no four year old. He told me he was. He told me he was either I want to say thirty or like something like that. But I think he was older at night. I think later on, no, later on, like as years went by, like later on I found out. I found I don't say, I didn't say see paperwork. But when I was going to this house, I started saying, like little family picture with kids and a girl. And I was like, who is that? He's the Oh no, that's that's my niece's nephew. He was lying to me

by a whole lot. And one day on Crunshawn Imperial. I was going to the nail shop and he drove in with the kids in the car and the girl in the car, and they saw me and he spoke. And then when I was going to the thing, she came up to me. She was like, how you know such and such And I was like, oh, I break this hair. He already hit though, right, we was talking, so he already knocked you down. Yeah, we was talking all right. This is no Ceilings podcast where a high

school girl got knocked down by somebody. She was twenty eight and I was eighteen. I was in college already and you ran into R Kelly. Hey, I was young. He was like he was getting money. You know, back then, I was just all about using people for their money. How would you be about had seen? Because that's what I just always wanted. I didn't have money like that, so I needed somebody's money before besides my natural aid, I needed money. I shocked a lot, I shopped a lot.

So like, but you're not materialistic, I'm not, I said. When I was younger. I was. When I was younger, it was all about buying all of Jordan's and all this and all that, like I need that, I need that. I was a b I would I wouldn't say beggar, but I was more like gimme, gimme getting I wasn't give me, give me, give me a type of person that's a beggar. So why are you trying to not the bad part? The trader's trader? Yeah, they trade you

like stocks in commodity, that's what he said. A bartererer. No, and y'all need to find another word. It's cool for you to be emotional at okay, I'm just saying I mean when you're young in college. You're supposed to live your college. Don't try to college. I didn't get the know when and I was living on camp. You have to live your college life before college and after college after college. I calmed down. I did. I calmed down. So wait a minute, So this is so let's get

this right. You are this is five years ago. So that dude you dated for eight years this had to be around the same time. Yeah, when we was on our off phase, I used to tell when I was when we when you know, I break up with him because I always broke up with him. He never broke up with me. I was always the one leaving, but it was like I was coming back. You had other calls and trades to make. No, y'all not gonna put

it off like that, That's what say. I mean. No, no, no, no, no, no. You break up with your main thing and go find the side thing with a couple of dollars. Let him knock it down. No, because everybody didn' knock me down. It's because you're not about to put it like that. You no, no what I'm saying. This is what I'm saying. A two parties involved did that. We're talking about now. The guy with the family and the kids did. And the other guy you were with, and that was only

I was here for eight and a half years. He was, of course that was five years ago. Yes, that was five years ago. The guy in high school and the guy you saying when he was in college. Okay, both was takedowns. Not at the same time. Ya, it's always now. No, that's what you're not going to do it. No, y'are not gonna be like I just went from one to two to three like back to back. First of all, it was time frames September. No high school that was

before either of the two. The other two the one was Sunday, Yes, the one I went to prom with that was a high school. Of you had the boy that was eight years with, Yes, But the boy I was with before eight years was not in high school five years ago. He got a timeline. He got it wrong. There was a high school, and then when the high school did what he did, then it went to my ex that I met. So I was with him when

we had broke up. The first time I had met somebody and we was talking and we talked, and I left him and went back to my ex. That's how that went high school has nothing to do with So you didn't meet eight years in high school? No, I did not. I told you that. I told you I met him turned eighteen thirteen days after eighteen. I was already in college, dude, I was already in college with the wife and kids. He was both college. They was both college. I gonna need you get that right thing,

like I'm knocking down three people in high school. That's definitely not what I was doing. I didn't even like sex like that. So I used to be like, so you had had it before you had it. I had it, but it wasn't an issue like it wasn't. I wasn't pressed like, oh, let's have sex like I used to, like, do we have to do that? No, I was. I didn't care for sex. I didn't care for saying. I didn't start cantill. I'm just saying, your body counts. I like three in high school. It's not it was one

in high school. In high school, it was three high school did you go to it was for short three? I went to Washington and Garding. Okay, it was three. It was not three. It was two in college and then one. It was that seventeen there was one at each high school exactly. Definitely. Not. I didn't talked to nobody at Gardina. I was. I didn't even have to stay in school long. I was there from first to nutrition, I was out. That's how smart I was. I didn't

have time to meet nobody at Guardina. I didn't because I didn't even stay long enough. Literally but not I'm about to come on here and making me like I was just holing around, just bartering around, then bartering around. How you just split it? Like I just was taking him down, Like September I had him, November I had him. They were both September. No, they were not. There wasn't even the same age nobody has at the same time. Oh lord, or he said he was older than that.

He was older. He lied to me about to say. I knew he was lying, but I couldn't confirm because I've never seen like his idea or anything like that. But as I got older and we were running to each other like here and there every other year, he just looked older for a year, was messing around. We talked for a year. Yeah, but he was a hustler, so like it'd be like, oh, I need you to

drive here, and in college. Yeah, you know, ship, I was wild in college having fun with those two men that she was wild with, because most I was not. I was not wild with you. Man. You said you was wild in college. I was. Man, I couldn't be wold because my ex he was always at my dorm and stuff I couldn't do all that year, even though he was messing with a man for a whole year,

but he knew about him. It's not like my ex. No, I tell him like I'd be like, he'd be like, you're ready to come back, and I was like, yeah, let me break it off with him. That's a lot of self respects right there. That's how That's how I love I was with him. So none of us, wait, what, that's how in love he was with you. I said, that's how in love I was. That you was knocking down somebody for a whole year. So you were so in love with him that you would text him from

the other guy's bed. I had my own place, and do had his own place. I didn't know, so you never saw when I was with y'all, don't create a create a story. Yes, that's what you're doing. Well, the thing is, I'm gonna tell you something, right, So, Charlotte Mayne, I realized something about like, so this is no Settlers podcast, Me, Peter the homegird Nicia back again, right, Nicia Jay So

me and Charlotte Magne had this conversation. I said, the reason our interviews go so good, like our conversations go so good, is because I'm honest, right, I'm always gonna keep it a buck with what I think, so I don't have to remember what I just said. So even when I interact with the opposite sex in general, I'm gonna say exactly what I mean, so I don't have

to try to remember what I said. I'm gonna say exactly what I said because I meant what I said so right now, because you're trying to preserve how you look like as far as like to a bunch of people who don't know you, right, you're trying to preserve how you look, so you're trying to catch yourself up with all of the kind of feeds you tell it. She looks fantastic, by the way, for the non video audience, because nobody's gonna see thank you, but for one. What

I'm saying is like, I have no problem saying what what? What? How? Something was? I don't have an issue because I don't care what nobody said, because unless you pay my bills. You just said this whole time, those are perspective potential bill pairs what I don't I mean, I don't care for it now, I'm not nineteen and twenty anymore. Like

that don't matter. You just said right now, You're not going to make You're not gonna take something that happened or how I'm telling my story and change it into y'all narrative, Like how y'all trying to We don't have no narrative, but you're trying to make it seem like I'm telling you a story like no, but we just ain't no. So we're just repeating back what you're saying to that we're asking, and I'm trying to catch it. And it's like hard because he said one thing and

you're saying one thing that's eighteen. It's at Timber no rease ever you had to that's part of the joke. But again, I know it's about a joke, but I'm just trying to catch on and I'm trying to tell the story. Well, you said you was really wild, and then you said that was really well. I said, I lived my college days. That's what I said. No, we actually have this, so you know we're gonna play this part.

I don't want to hear it. I was wild in college. Okay, my wild probably is different from yo wow, because you're a guy. What was your wild? My wild was just like I was just standing up lady in popcorn. No, I turned up. I went to clubs. I was. I was a club right then. I used to promote because I used to promote for clubs. Who would you promote for this? A little people call money tall? So I used to promote with them all the clubs, like that's

how he used to get in the club free. That's how I met a lot of people because I used to You know, so, what was your favorite club to promote? I want to say, Uh, it's crazy because me and my brother was just talking about this. Oh what it's called? Where was it? It was in Hollywood? It was the club that popped on every Thursday. All the celebrities used

to perform her. Damn, I came in clubs. Something I'm gonna remember, and I'm gonna text you and tell you I remember I used to let that club dialing like the year and the and the block because they changed names about everything they do. They do because one club we used to promote that they it was like called club Sugar Daddy, and then they changed it to like something else and then something else, like every time something happening at the club, they have changed their name. That's smart.

So now we're not trying to catch you up. I'm just listening to you tell me about it and asking you questions. But because you are kind of lined, like not on purpose, you tell them like the white lives because you don't want to look bad and not get what the hell is that's supposed to mean there's no

white lives. I mean I don't. But what I'm saying is whenever I would break up with my ex, I would I would be entanglement with somebody else, you feel me, And it's not necessarily and it's not necessarily that I did something sexually with these people. No, I'm just saying everybody didn't deserve the cookie, got to give it up to them, like literally, but not like It's not like me and my ex would break up for a week

and then I'll be with somebody for that week. No, it wasn't like that because I would break up and still be talking. They're messing around and humping. It's just we not together. Never slept with two people at the same time. You know why I never did that because I was scared. I was always scared to catch something. What's the limit of same time? Always I would for me, I feel like I would go get tested, because I

back then I was I'm always caned. I'm always very what's the same time, what's the space for the same time for me? If I do you to like day, then I go see you tonight. That's the same time to me a weekend, because I need to make sure I'm not pregnant. Ain't got nothing. I got already. I promised that God. The furthest you went was sleeping with

two separate guys three months, I promised. The guy I swear to God, I put that if I help you was humping the boy that she was your ex, and then the other dude that had the family that she was nearly it was three months in between. Every time. It was no. Once I was done with old boy with the kids, it was just no, I was not not what I'm saying is once I didn't hump on

him and then go hump on my ex. When I was done with old boy, I went to go hump on my broke up with X. Three month gap family man, three month gap X. No no, no, no, we know y'all asked me, hold up, no, no, we're gonna reverse. We're gonna reverse. He said, how long is it? He asked a general question. I didn't say, with them too. It was a three month gap between each of them. That's what That's what we're gonna get. Correct. He asked me, what do I consider a lengthy time? I said, three months,

that's just that's just in general. We're not gonna say, oh, my ex and then I went back was a very generous, you know, projection of time anywhere. But I'm just saying, like what I'm saying was, I didn't say, oh, I met him in three months and that I just gave it up and then after three months hit I went back to him. It wasn't like I never dealt with two people at the same time because I was always scared to let my ex catch me with somebody else because I thought I hear talking about to do. I

didn't say we talked about the dude. I said, I would let him know. I said no, I said, he hit me and said, are you ready to come back home? I would let him know I had to do And I said, well, I'm gonna let him know I'm done on him and I'm gonna come back to you. That's what I just I said. I said, no, I want to put my fee on his couch. Yeah, I stopped all over his couch. Know what I'm saying is when he had hit me and said you're ready to come back home or whatever the situation is, I would let

him know I'm dealing with somebody. I never just dealt with somebody and just called him like, hey, guess what. You know? What's up? I'm talking to oh boy. I'm never gonna do that. That's dumb. That's the dumb. Why would I do that? You know what? Let me call him up and be like, hey, guess what, ex boyfriend? I got me a new nigga? Like, who's doing that? Well? Women, But I don't do that because I know how my

ex is. So I wouldn't do that. Like I've just said, before, he knew about him before I took what I'm saying was anybody I deal with. I was always lead them to go back to him. That's the whole situation. That's what it was. And I'll tell people when I talk scared to let him know you was with somebody. I said, to let him see me with somebody. I said, let

him know. I said, see me with somebody, because it's a different with us all three being in the same room versus me is telling him when he asked me, do I want to come back home? It's a difference, a big difference. Do you think men should listen to women? Yes, very, oh, Verry, I think so. I think your life would be a lot easier. What do you think about Eve and Adam from the Bible? I hate when he always goes to that. I mean it's it's like one of the oldest stories

or something. I know, he listened to her. He died, He didn't die. I just pretty much did what he wasn't supposed to do. But I just feel like when it comes to that, like, yeah, he should still listen. So even though he betrayed, you still should listen. Your woman is always right. That's why men have bad credit. No, men have bad credit. Yeah, because women pressure men into making very bad, unaffordable person. That's what that's co signing

on a jack. No. I want to say maybe back in the days that would be that way, but now in today's era, it's definitely not that way because now the women would have bad credit. Listen to him, if he would listen to her, stuff will be on. Women are going to have bad credit anyway because they live in a universe and no consequences to that. No, I have good credit. I can't. I can't go with that one.

Well that's because you had me and paying for yr bill. No, because I I had my credit was messed up because of a dude before. How was his credit? We never used this credit. We was always using me because mine was good. Because he had an ex girlfriend his credit. You know, I don't know how his credit was. You know, everything always wanted my name, literally everything, because all some other girls ship is in his name. I doubt that.

I doubted that. I know for a fact. Wasn't that in his name and no other girl name it was. I have all his credit information. I have a social scurity number everything. What was the score? I never read it, but I have I have that information. I have it. I never like checked it, but I have it. So everything day of birth, everything I have, all that. Of course I'm gonna have it. Pull that up. I'm not about to pull his credit up. I am you're gonna

I'm not gonna get definitely not. Don't have me out here. Did to me because I just personally feel like, listen, all your stories of your of the men you talked to were like super like fucked up. They were because they were. I don't think I ever had a healthy relationship. So you don't think you actually make bad decisions versus listening a man listening to you. No, I don't. I just choose men poorly, that's it. That's not a decision. Nay, women have and I just try to grow the flower

women has no consequences. No, So you don't own the fact that you're making these bad decisions, that you know you making bad decisions. You want the bar of the day. Men lie to women, Women lie to themselves, that's for sure. Truth. Think about it. From makeup, heels, gardos, all the justifications

in the world for anything, eyelashes, eyebrows, nails. They even have slimming mirrors at department stores so that women can lie to themselves in full size, you know, good and fucking god jam well, that is not a true mirror yet it has to be there. But do y'all ever ask your questions why the females do what they do, because obviously they it's not for themselves apparently, So why did evet? I'm just because if you do, you're in

a woman. If you're in a woman's mind, why would you Why why should a man listen to a woman? I'm not really in a woman's mind because I'm like in the middle. I'm half a dude and I'm half yes, I like my mentality is half dude half women, Like literally it is. You know how many people didn't tell me, like I don't know whether to punch you a hug you cause use such a nigger, And that's because that's because your feelings was hurt. No, you made a hard shell.

So that's how you think we are, so you conduct yourself that way. I don't know why she did what she did what she did because you want to do it. I don't know. So why should a man listen to a woman. We're not just gonna go off just her situation, Okay, I don't or if it started, I don't care about it. We're not because we can bring up all these other situations. So what about the fact that you constantly keep picking bad men because there's a whole bunch of bad men

out there, you know what? Let me you know, maybe because y'all disguise yourselves that good good people are good guys. And y'all want to do all this. Y'all do all this lying in the beginning. That's what y'all do. And we believe those lines. We do all of this line and we as in men and women. So are women just stupid? Na? We because you couldn't possibly believe half the ship that they say to you. There's no way

on earth, no smart persons. So you're either lying to yourself. Y'all, y'all sell a good y'all seller, y'all tell a good story. What do we say in the beginning, y'all tell you know what you say? I have no idea what, friend, I know what you're talking about. I know, and I got friends like that. I know exactly what it is. I watch it happen in real time, and I go, holy fun. This bitch wants him so bad he could

say anything and show over for it. It's crazy because with me growing up with a bunch of brothers, like I've seen my brothers in them do it and I'd be like why, And I'd be like, why did you even just tell that girl that? Like you like why, I'd want to know why, and I'll be because I know my brother, I'll be like why did she believe it? But I can see why because you ain't never did nothing wrong, or you never she don't have a reason

not to believe you yet. So you don't think people do these things because they're mutually beneficial, Like you want somebody for money and they and I don't want nobody for money. Now, I mean, I don't know. I kind of I blow you. You is a bit shallow, Like you still think it's about guys that are fine. That's a lie. Every Most of the people I dated were ugly. And you know why because I thought if I dated an ugly person, he would not treat me bad. But they treat you the worst. You are fun and ship

they I promised the gods say that it's pretty. I was like, I was like, man as intelligent as women are the silliest I'm telling you. At that time, I was like maybe the type because at that type, I used to get myself a type like if you're not light skinning, pretty eyes and good here, I don't want you. That's how I was. That's how I was. And now we're like, how light skin we've already bashed on white lives today since we're racist against lies in the studio. Damn,

Like I mean you know yea, yeah I was. I was into the lights, light skins. I was into a light skin and you had everything coming to you that you got for being that shadow. Hey I'm young, what do I know? Don't say it's because you're young. Yeah, I put everything on my age at that time. Okay, So then for you to be a colorist, that's because I wasn't why you look at yellow people. I didn't say it was better. They just to me, that was my type. Why was that person you attacked? Because that's

what I liked. That's me. I always seem to be attracted more to those, not saying that the dark skins was. You know, it was the people they now dark skin and that's the ugly guys. They're not that handsome. It sounds bad, but they were not that handsome. I just said at that time, they were not. At that time, they were not. At that time, they were not. And I don't care what people say, they worry what. No, But now you know, I've seen a lot of cute,

dark skinning guys. I'm like, oh, yes, that chocolate. I thought you said you don't date at that time. Week you said now you don't date you guys, you said most of the guys you gave now are. She was younger, she dated ugly and spent money. She was younger, she dated cute, light skin fine, light skinned guys until they did here a certain way, and then she started dating ugly guys who are now dark because she thought it would be different. Yeah, I didn't see back in those days.

I didn't look at it like that, like, oh, let me go pick a dark skin ugly. I just said I'm a date ugly and just so happy that the first that was your opinion of ugly. No, no, don't get me wrong, Like I said, there are most handsome dark skinned guy, k don't take that personal. She that was a guarantee. What you mean, there are there are, there are. Tank is sexy and he's dark skinned, dark skinned, Yes, he is. Tank is it's not yellow. He's not dark,

so he caramel. It's like a mere complexion. Guys, it's Tyrese handsome. He's cute to me. Excute to me, you know what I'm That's what I'm saying. Like there's every color is every color has ugly and cute. There's no in between. Like there's ugly, light skinned people, the light skinning guy ugly. The silence is definitely because because because it wouldn't even occur to you know, because I don't look at them like not that that. I don't think

how fast you name the handsome dark guy. Everything I watched, he's on the TV a lot, like the things I watch. It's some ugly skin guys on those shows too. I haven't seen watching them. Terrice Howard. I don't think he's handsome. I do not think. But you're not gonna say he's ugly. He's not handsome, but he's not the ugliest. We can get worse, you can get worse in both, but he's not happening because he's the other end of the spectrum.

Can I know it's it's it's no, no, it gets better than I didn't see people on Instagram and I don't know who they are, and they dark skinned, and I'm like, oh, we baby sexy. Of course I'm not saying that because you're light skin that makes you cute, because I've seen a whole bunch of light skined uglies and I'd be like, and they think because they're light skinned that they're automatic cute, and that's not true. That's

not true. There's a lot of people I know that think because they're light skin that they're cute, and I'd be like, baby, no, you're not. Is that so? Okay? Okay, I hear you. Um oh, y'all have made me a colorless on here, a hole everything anything. Hey, anybody, y'all should not come on this because y'all gonna come out looking bad. All you gotta do is don't lie. I'm not lying you for sure, I have not. You can lie, man. I'm like, yo, bro, like, I don't mind you lying

to me. I'm not lying, but do I ossions I'd be telling you the truth. It's just when I tell something you discepted and you try to like pick that at me, like, well, we just we just want to say if I'm giving you a play, the food you're picking through for the onions and like, that's what you're doing. I'm just not You're you're sending us a story post at it, and we just want to know what it's not post at it. I'm just telling you a whole bunch of stories, and y'all trying to pick out pieces

and put it all together as one story. Y'all asked me questions about all these different things, and I'm putting them and y'all just putting them together, like y'all making one ten stories one story. We're not putting you're putting them together. Because every time I stand up, there another question to come, and I gotta explaining. You come like, well, we're putting the questions together. I'll give her that we are putting a question together, ye ask, which is which

is combined? Okay, which is combining my stories together? Because if I could be talking about something that nineteen and then a question you may ask, I'm telling you something about twenty four, but talked, we talked about high school in college eighteen and eighteen you met the boys. See, this is the thing when you talk to people who listen to you, and this is something that women don't do traditionally y'all usually here, my man Low. We talked

about this all time. The clinical definition of hearing is to acknowledge sound. That's why when I say something and you're hearing me, you say, well, it sounds like you said, well, you're you sound like you're trying to say. If you listen right, clinically, you'll just list what I'm saying and end it. So what I do to you is I list what you're saying, and I ended, and then I asked you a question based on the list itself. I'm not saying anything different than you're saying to me. I'm

just repeating it back to you. But that's because, like I said, traditionally, right women, I feel like they need to kind of hide exactly what's the real. And I get why. You know, it's a lot of pressure on y'all to to be, you know, on another level. And even though you guys aren't, you feel me, it's still pressure for you guys to be on another level. So I get it, and I get that too. But when I said eighteen and twenty four, I know we did

not talk about twenty four. I would just just saying, like I'm saying, all these all these conversations is rooted in seventeen and eighteen years old. They definitely, they definitely not because I was the first story was high school in college and so the first guy you went to PRIM with, right, first value was the prom with. So he was eighteen in high school. No, I was never eighteen in high school. Okay, the way my birthday is,

I was never eighteen. So correct. So you're seventeen, yes, right, and you went to PRIM with the boy that was twenty you said twenty, but you said till ye, now you letting it down more. But I've been saying that. I said that twenty one. That said she said two or three. I said, when you hear this back, you hear all the things, cause I'll keep rewinding it now I know. And I said either three or two? I said he first, I said three, and then I said, wait, if I was in the ninth, then he was in

the eleven, that makes it too. You know, was two grades ahead, which he didn't, so he could have been either. He could have been three years on. Yes, that's what I was getting. Okay, So that means if you're seventeen nineteen, right, So then the way your birthday set up because your birthday is in December. December, right, So the guy you was going to problem with, right, who you knocked down? Right? Right? No big deals like were equal? Right? Okay, so you

knocked down? How long did y'all break up after high school? Be careful, I'm not about the line, yes you are. No, I'm not like there's not a lot of room to lie on the it was like October, guy. It was definitely not October because I said I met the new guy when I was eighteen, so it definitely wasn't. I don't know in your birthday. No, I'm just saying we

just discussed it. We just said December. Yes, so we went to prom and what may So after the summer, yeah, I went to the summer fling and then I was like, okay, this ain't a work summer fling. Like you know, like you go through the summer with somebody and then you realize when he's going back to college or whatever, it's like we we fell off before I actually like started college in which because that's when he's you know, got arrested pull some bullcrap. Whoa bullcrap? What bullcrap did he pull?

Just bullcrap? Don't matter. It was bull crap. So okay, you know. So now so we're talking on campus. So we're talking about all saw this Timothy move on campus. Now moved on campus September. I moved in the next year because I couldn't get in right then and the air. Okay, so then you met the guy m right. That was

thirteen days after So that was in December. But me and him didn't initially like Rember And I told you all beginning like I didn't like him like that, so we didn't talk like you know, I wouldn' let him touch me, not not nothing in the beginning. How long was the beginning? And after I actually officially cut off, oh boy? You had to officially already caught off, oh boy, because remember I told you he was started paying my car note. No remember I said he started paying my

car note before I started doing that. Oh yeah, I forgot the same guy the bullcrap. So once once I officiently cut him off, after you Connie got his money, Hey, I feel like you owe me more than that. But he and then that's when I started hanging out with you know, the X. We hang out, hang out, hang out. Then he finally kissed me and then after that we just m and that was how low. I was probably second semester into college. So so second semester, this is

this is in January. No, that's not second semester. That's like second semesters like March, March. Okay, so when did you meet the dude? They had the wife and kids. Because I was at eighteen too, that was like almost when I was about to turn nineteen, so a little before nineteen. So you see what I'm saying, what's wrong with all of this? I get I get what you're saying. But what I'm saying was you was making a saying like I was just taking them down, like, oh, I

took you down today. I took him down yesterday. I did not make it seem like he didn't he he was like September and then November. He said they have days like the times, right, half months or days everything. I was sure, given the bust, no ship. But I'm saying, yeah, so it's not like but I wasn't reading finding a story. I was just cracking joke. You know. I had to clarify. I want to be like, damn, she would trust me, trust me. They're gonna be, but most people hold in college, yeah,

I feel like that's the time. Definitely, and definitely was home in college, but I don't feel no, I wouldn't say I was home nice. That was definitely not that was actually the truth. But I respect as a woman. This is the thing. I respect women, y'all. Y'all really do have it tough. We expect y'all to be better than us, and you guys aren't. Were not. And it's tough because we just geted. We just get judged a lot. Like that's the thing, Like if we whatever we do,

we get judged for it. But it doesn't matter because when y'all get judged, just be like the first name, like, but he a dude, though not if he broke, that's what's gonna say. We could judge on your income. I would rather get judged on my income, Dan, somebody like nobody wants your income. These guys out here want people income. I don't know if that's a man, it ain't that and like that's that's that's somebody who wants to funck you.

And it's like, well, if I can grab an extragram out of it, or some who will he is everything on the broad. I know a couple of people like that, and I'd be like, and she just give it to you, huh, Like have you ever had to do what ever got you before? Yeah? I got got for how long? I keep telling you. It goes back to him, like, oh yeah, it's one person who was the most extravagant purchase you ever got him, got him extravaging my tax money. He was gonna flip it's supposed to and that is a

real thing. Ran off on the plug, ran like literally left, changed his number and everything. I was so hurt. And how early was that in today years? That probably was he was already working, so he was out of college. No, I was working in college. Like that's what I'm saying. I didn't get to the chance to be a hole

in college because I was working. No, not with him probably, but now he was coming on a good okay, so in college probably like we probably was like three years in and he was like, oh, we need your money. I'm yeah, And I'm like, for shore, what was he hustling? He was doing a lot of stuff, and I mean I've seen him. What was his main thing? I don't like, I don't know he was I wasn't was getting girls to get his tax tax Hey, that could have been it. That could have been it, but I was I was

so hurt. I was like, this nid money was just other girls tax I hadn't read off with My money was much money? It was. I gave him four thousand at the time, A few grand in college on the budget is a lot of I gave him. I gave him between because I don't know the exactly I know it was a couple of thousands. I don't know the

exact amount. But I was so hurt because I was like, Brod told me he was gonna flip it and give me money, extra money, and I was counting on that because I don't think I want to go buy something. And I hit him. But I should have known something. He picked the argument with me. I should have know, Like after he had the money for a couple of day, even the argument we got into it, he changed his number everything like and I was so mad. I was like,

oh my god. And this was in the first three years off y'all ain't navier relationships it is and then't crazy party. I had asked him about it to us like, so I was like, so where my money at? You know, you know he told me what he did. He was like, man, I paid up all my my tickets and everything. I wasn't going back to jail. I said, so you took my money? Did he say it was our money? Did I say it was our money? Did he say that like that's our money? No? What do he said when

you told him that to him? Told him that, why are you taking my money? Yeah? You just spent all of my money. I told you. He said he had to pay some stuff off to stay out of jail, and then you paid that anyway, probably would have so he could have just asked for it. Believe that that I would have paid for it. No, do you believe that he paid off? No? I don't think so. What do you think you do? Shot? Shot went shopping? He shot like you Yeah, so he probably spent it. Probably

wasn't mad at me. And because he do stuff like if we get into it here, do stuff to try to hurt me back, like or hurt me more than I would buy a nicer purse. I don't wear a purse. Show he's not about to buy a purse. But like literally, like I swear at one time I had he won. He had sent me a picture of some shoes. He was like, I want these shoes. So I was like, okay, I wouldn't got them. Bottle for him. Literally, I got there was some R red uh, some red like R

red pumas. I guess there was like limited edition and he's seen him. And I was like, oh shoot, because I love red. So I'm like, we wantna give me a pair of too. So I got us a pair. I swear to god. We got into it. So I'm in a living room. We're getting into it. So I go in the living room. This nigga threw the shoes over the balcony and it was like, I'm out of here. And I was like, don't take I was like that. I was thinking, I'm cool. I'm gonna take the shoes back.

Went in the whole the shoe boxes in there, the shoes not in the box. He threw them over the balcony, Like that's the stuff he used to do. That's a broader question, not personal. I'm gonna just throw out the observation women will break up with a guy not to be done. What's up with that? And I agree with that. I mean, it's just more so like you just won't you feel like if you step away from the relationship, are you potentially give that person like you're gonna walk away.

You would hope that they would want to change, to do something, to be like, Okay, I'm gonna be better, because that's why I stayed in my situation for so long. I just faster. You use fear, used the fear of me not being here to something right, because it used to be like because when he had like, oh, I'm sorry, and then he'd be like, I'll go back, He'll do right for a couple of months, like I'm like, oh, shoot,

we're going now. We were dinner and we got a certain day that's just our day and the family day with his kids and stuff like that, and I'm like, okay, that's cool. Then it seemed like when he see that, I'm like, how many kids did he have when y'all met? One where he had a girl pregnant. She didn't have the baby yet, No, it's one. No, she was pregnant when me and he met. She was pregnant. She was like four months, five months something like that. So how

many did he have after day and half years? Because y'all was breaking up. Now he had a baby on me, I think, but it was one of them times y'all broke up. That's what he said. That's what he said, which is probably why you shouldn't do the on and off thing, which is true, but I don't but believe that. I believe we was on. I believe we was living together at the time, and from my understanding, so y'all moved together after I moved in with him to his

mom house. After you start to tax money, probably so boy, Yeah, I mean, now you owe, you owe your place at least at this point. Motherfucker. I hated That's why I would never live with a man, because when we get into it used to put me out. I hated it. I hated it. You know, that's not like a manly thing to do. It's not. But he'd be like, it don't matter what time I'm coming home, you're getting the funk about my house and brother, it's not even your house.

What was his mom called with you? Yeah, she was cool. She was like, you don't have to leave, but I'm like, I'm out, Like that's crazy, Like I'm not about to argue with this man at through in the morning. Wake you up, like I would just leave and then here, blow me up, come back, baby, I'm only like so he would do kind of the micro thing like he would be like, I want to break up for an hour and a half and you would want to break up for a month and a half. I when I

break up, I would my initiate. My my intent was not to go back. That's always every time I would leave them, like, it was never to go back, so that it wasn't for it to be fixable. Yeah, it was never to be fixable. But you know, like with that being my first love, it was just like everything he told me, I believe, like, Okay, you're gonna do better. You're right, all right, I'm coming. Have you ever initiated breaking something off and then tried to initiate bringing it back?

Never neither, I don't think. I think that's more like I wouldn't say more so for like a female, but normally I feel like to me, I feel like guys, either y'all just don't act on your emotions or it's like y'all be like when y'all done with somebody, y'all be doing and they'd be like, are you Like I didn't see it? Happen like you dated this person so long, you've just done and they'd be like, I'm done, and they'd be like, how do you just be out of

your feelings like that? And it makes you question like six months before that? Well, also we may not, like I haven't always been out of my feelings, but my feelings don't run my world. Yeah, that's the probably the biggest difference between the two operations, or should be. Yeah, like, emotions don't run my room and women are emotional creatures. That's just I think human beings are. I think we all have the same amount of emotions, right, maybe even

more for me. But I think the difference is I'll ignore it. I'll be like, yeah, whatever, fuck you glasses, fuck you emotions. I tried to ignore them, but they overpired me. They'd be like, bro, go do something that's gonna hurt him. Do it, and I'd be like, nah, we ain't doing revenge. And then somethingdy like popping the head, like like, damn, that's a good as that it's gonna hurt him. Huh, that's the worst thing you ever did

to hurt a guy, And don't lie. Uh hit him with a car that probably hurt yeah, I probably hurt. That was like a physic I thought you said just because somebody hurt you mentally. In the other podcast, his head bounced off the windshield. That hurt him mentally, and I was so sad. I kind of hurt him too, like he was limping and like I kind of like messing with his ankle. Yeah, I'm telling you it was a toxic It was a toxic relationship. Like it was toxic.

Like his family used to be like leave him alone, like they used to tell me, and he used to get mad, like stop telling her that, because she when we get into it, should tell me, like I should listen to your family. I should have listened. How many kids does he have now? From what I know? Three? How many do you you think he asked, probably a bunch of them. For my understanding, he don't wrap it up.

I asked a question, did you not think at the time that you were going to start to have an involved with a gentleman who had another woman for must pregnant than perhaps this is a character flaw indicator. At that time, I wasn't thinking about that because I had no intentions on being with him, so I didn't care about that. Situation. You didn't think, you know what, maybe I shouldn't want this guy. What do I know? I don't. I didn't like literally when I met him, it was

not like, oh, I'm about to be with him. It was like, wrote illmatic at okay, good for nas. I mean that's I mean. What I'm saying is I didn't care about his situation because I didn't see him as my boyfriend. Like I wasn't like, oh I'm about to get with him, We're about to build. It was nothing like that. Literally, it was more like I see him getting money, and I wanted his money, So I don't care about nothing as long as he give me the money.

That's how it was in beginning. So so somebody introduced you to him. I was not introduced to him. I was both introduced to him. Have you ever dealt with a girl that you know there's a cap on this, I'll fuck her. I might even go grab bite sea. He used to be like that, yeah, okay, And I'm pretty sure that's probably what he in the beginning when he met me, Like he probably thought like I'm gonna just take her down and that and that we didn't.

I don't believe we I can't speak for him, but I personally feel like when we got in that situation, we didn't think it was gonna escalate to how far it did. I don't think if the funk whatever, I don't he's not here, I don't know him. But you met this guy, there was a cap on what you thought it could become, and that was changed or raised right through time. Yeah, that's yeah. I'm just trying to relate on the psyche like I've never had that happen in my life. I've never met somebody and but like

that's all they can be. Oh no, that usual. Like I start off with, they could probably this much find out pretty quickly. That's a downward moving bar. That's not how I was thinking. And I was just like, this is what it is in the beginning, and then it just happened to be more than what it was. And then it just so happened he turned out to be my first love. And then I got real dumb. I got real stupid, like all common sense went and left and went the building like I couldn't find it to

me a long time to find it. But that's just how it was. Like, even every time I thought I was done. I was never really done because I'll be like, man, I miss him, I miss him. I'm missing I'll miss him. And even when somebody was like, well, try to talk to somebody else, and I'll talk to somebody else and then be like, but I'm thinking about him, So there's

no point even talking to you. Question at times when you were taught to somebody else, do you look back and think, man, that one I wish I had that one back. I'm guilty. I go no, no, no, no, I'm trying to think no, no, okay now, because there was full of crap too. Everybody's full of crap. Everybody is not full of crap. It just when you deal with somebody who didn't put you through everything, it would be like the little things, you'd be like, but I'm

not going through that again. I can see you already where it's going, so you don't think that that's probably a problem that it may not go there, like you may be anticipating something that happened that may not be happening based off these minute things. Now, because when females start calling my phone and all that is going there not necessarily true if any takes though, but any there's no way that this woman should even have my contact.

There's no way that she should have I mean, I can't say that the person shouldn't go through your phone because I don't know that it takes time for that to take. So eight and a half years, had somebody calling your phone? Please? He had everything, females came in my car, all type of stuff. Why did you hit him with your car? Again? I don't know the reason. He pissed me off and he just had been stood in front. There was plenty of reasons. I mean, there

was the tax reason, there was I don't know. I don't know the reason there was. I don't know the reason why we got into it. We get so it could have been over the butter. Oh no, for sure, not that it wasn't. Is it not possible that he had put you out that night and then he ran into the driveway while you were backing out. No I didn't. I wasn't living with him yet when he ran him over. Yeah, my cousin was in the car and she was like, oh wait, wait, what's the statute of limitations on something

like that? What nobody died? All right? Okay, I mean, alright, just Loki kidnapping and being and all that good stuff. Will he for that he kidnapped you. That's what it felt like. When you try to tie me and put me in the closet, it takes my transportation away. What you call Why did he tie you up and put you in a got time for something similar than that? So how much you get for that was seven years? But I mean, why do you tie you up and put you in the closet? I don't know. But we

got into it. We always we got into it over something. I don't know what it was. Every week it's if we got into it. It It is always over a female. Literally, it was always by the female. Literally, like when we get into it because either somebody calling my phone telling me they're pregnant by him, somebody different, girls playing on my phone, sending me text messages like it was something.

And I confirmed him about it and went get into it about that and I was like, I'm done and didn't that He said, you ain't going nowhere, you ain't leaving, So let me get this right. So the guy you went to prim with, right is a guy that's about right and nine. Sure, okay, if I'm seventeen, he has to be nineteen, not four years but okay, so right, and you caught him. You set him up in high school, right, You set him up through your cousin's phone and to

nail your cousin. And then once you realize he was trying to nail your cousin, your next plan became to Your next plan became too, I'm going to extort him. No, I never I didn't ask him for anything. He would hit me like, oh, you need your car? No pay of course, I'm yes. Why would I say no? Because you was done next month? I don't know, And I was mad like yeah, sure, dude, go ahead and pay it. Okay.

So it's not like I was hitting him asking him for stuff so he could feel guilty like he started, Like I told you, he he was hitting me off. You knew he was done with him, so but it money. It ain't the money for so you don't think karma fell back on you for that, right? So then after that, right, uh, a couple of months down the line, you meet the future love of your life and take your second to figure it out. But you looked at him and you just wanted his money. No, because after a certain age

that no longer was I'm just saying just right now. Right. So when you met him right at eighteen, a couple of thirteen days past eighteen, it's like, I'm gonna give him a chance because I want his money because what you said, right, and you end up falling in love with him, right, So you set out to want something and then you fell in love with him, and then

y'all kind of have issues initially early. And then you meet the man that was lyned and he was thirty years old, and y'all did with each other for a year, because that's what you said, a year on and off, but the same time, you still did it with the boyfriend, not insistently, but so whatever the spaces was, they were longer than three months, right, And then you cut him off, right because you see him in the shopping center with

his family. And then you go back to the guy that is saying you're done with him yet you know, yeah, I'm done, I'm coming back home. And then y'all come together and a couple of years later, he run off with your tax money, right, and don't have a really good excuse, you know, he paid off some tickets, and then after that you move in with him, no, before you moved in with him, you hit him with your car. Mm hmmm, I hit him in the car before I

moved in, That is correct. And then you move in with him after that, right, and y'all living together and you know the trials and tribulation of a relationship is happening. And after you got out this long kind of situation, right of of whatever, you meeting guys. And at that point you gave up on cute guys, right, fair, gave up on cute guys and realized ugly guys were just as funked up. But I say that because my ex was not cute. Well that was an eighteen, So one

was the cute guys at four geen. No, it was in high school when I used to be cute guy. Yeah, he was for sure, pretty eyes everything. So the ex is the first ugly guy. Yes, all right, So that didn't work out. And now every time you feel a threat, you're like, I'm not going down this road again, because you know how this ends pretty much. And you should have listened to Adam because of what because we gangst us