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Conversation About Just Good Conversation

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Glasses Malone, Aja and Britt kick back and have a good ol' conversation about everything under the sun.

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Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No Sillers podcast with your host. Not funk that with your low glasses, malone, y'all just come in with the bullshit. That's what I'm just saying. You're you're not gonna you know why, y'all Just come with the bus shit, y'all as soon as y'all walk in, y'all, it's been a minute. No man, y'all just been sucking around. It's like, man, but on it. It's tough being a woman. It is, it really is. It's actually not it is. It is.

How are you gonna tell us? But I know I don't believe it. You understand, well, I just genuinely believe it's not. Y'all make it tough on yourself as like a species, right as a gender. Think about it, like y'all funk with your eye that. Who cares about the eyelashes? I do? Why? How do you even know that I like my eyelashes? Ever? You know, in life, I was not as a man. I noticed woman is in like when I be in the other reasons, like they getting

longer and longer like bats. It looked like they're about to fly off. You know what right, I don't like that, but I'm saying, you think about this. Five years ago, we never noticed this. How did these motherfucker's notice the eyelash? It's true though, because I was looking back at some photos, I'm like, dang, okay, I just have man, But it's better with lashes. It just enhances. It depends on what kind of lashes it does. It looks like a trashy you look at the girls that don't look like that's

how many times look like natural? No, that's no, it's crazy to talk about that. Like my mama she just had went to my my cousin wedding and she had word lashes for the first time. I was like, Mama, you like they're there sixty years old? Like why you want to put on lad look on it? Was it pretty? Because if it's if, I can't disrespect my mama, you know. But he wished it was like you beautiful to me anywhere. But think about how think about how insane it has

to be. Like God literally put your eyelashes there in a position for you to not notice them. He put them there so you can look right past them, Like I can't see my eye lashes now, even though they in. I can't see my lashes, so then why would you funk with them? I like, I just like it. I think it looks pretty. Why because I think it looks pretty? How did y'all come up with that? Because I looked at the photo of no lashes and looked at the

photo with lashes, I'm like, oh, I like that. They might have saw somebody in the movie and she had lashes on their Like No, honestly, no, I really wasn't into makeup or anything like that. And I got into lashes when a makeup artist did my makeup and she put lashes on my lights, and I was like, as it fresh whatever, it was like that, you're really trying it right now. I'm not telling about the woman gender. What I'm saying is y'all pay too much attention, Like

y'all will stress yourself out. Y'all make a life hard on yourself. You let ourselves go. The first thing y'all gonna say is that we let ourselves go. Listen, let me tell you the truth. It don't matter whether you keep yourself up or let yourself go, none o it matter. But y'all steady rapping about it in y'all wraps, yes all day. They also rap about drugs, right, So you're a bitch if you put lashes on. Listen, let me

fix that. Listen. Okay, the lash is enhanced. It just enhances it enhanced because it just brings out the beauty, It brings out the eyes. So I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you my issue with the bad bitch. You know who the baddest bitch would be based off your standards, based off who standard fake eyelashes makeup like that, right, because that's what's determined a bad bit. Right. I mean Kim Kardashian, a white lady. Like if that was like, she would be the standard of that ship. So like,

why would you follow this white lady? I'm not following her. I didn't look at her photo and say, oh I want to look like her. You looked at somebody else photo. No I didn't. I just I said, do my makeup? So who you said the makeup artists? That was the first time I trusted technically, even with the head, I would take it off. I wouldn't be like, oh, this is too much. I think y'a should start trusting somebody else. Why what you mean just have bad taste, trust me,

bad taste. So you're saying bad taste in beauty like you are the worst in beauty standards. Yes, y'all literally do not understand beauty. Everything about it. For y'all shower though it's all immulated. Y'all all copy each other. You don't have no okay, I said that we copy everyone because I don't even wear like a foot. Honestly, I was sitting in the mirror today and I was like, fuck if I could beat my face the way these

women like they like. Really, it be layers and contouring, all kind of stuff you're talking about, like a car fund to get pain, and it just brings out the beauty. But I don't. I don't bring out the beauty I think it does. You're wrong, And that's why I'm telling you should trust me when it comes to beauty, because y'all are so wrong. Things y'all think look beautiful don't because I don't. You don't care. I don't care about that. You are beautiful, right, y'all? Natural look is beautiful. It

gives you all individuality. Every one of your looks create individual looks. So when you start using Bondo on your face, and filler, and then you put that foundation on, y'all look the same. You know what, I will agree with you because, um, actually, someone when I'm someone, I was looking at their photo and I'm like, damn, like she's starting to look like her. So it does. It does start to make everybody look Ever is a unique thing, like fly is a unique thing. Fashion is supposed to

be a unique thing. If you start immulating what everybody's doing, you are losing beauty. Beauty is unique. There's not one person that's the most beautiful woman in the world. There is certain standards for beauty, and it all be different. They could be a fine ass dark motherfucker find as yellow, fine as anything. Yeah, but rid hairs down. But if you literally, but if you literally do exactly everything the

next woman, dude, you're robbing yourself for beauty. That's why y'all should trust somebody else, because y'all be sucking up. Y'all go get your face done. They put all that bond on them cars, and right now I feel like early I got some men in here. A car with bondo is no good, right, nigga put too much bond, Like a real body man told me, if it's if it's thinner, then it needs to be thinners a sheet

a piece of paper. That's the only way you should have it should be thin as a sheet of paper, y'all. I'll be watching people on its gram put all that foundation didn't consider on their face and that should look like a car bad Chevy then like like when the summer comes, like all the females they want to get the poetic not a poetic justice braves like like with the plants and all that, like because it's like like like come on, man, you know who beautiful in the

business right now? You know what a beautiful person? Ice Spice. That bitch looked like orphan any let me look at her that she's standing out now she's been changing that ship now up yeah, up the marketing, like I mean not not not like that. But she said the Munch song.

She got the Munch ship. Oh that's she has a little curly from I just disc but I just like on the show and she had like a rap like go back to where she was at, Like so that's what I'm saying, like y'all, just that's why she needs a nigger to tell her, like, hey, leave them curls then at least for a year, because that way we could all know you you're bringing yourself. Yeah, she need a nigger or she needs some management or something. Whoever, man,

because horrible, I won't have her getting the rap. You gotta be flying. I wouldn't honestly when I came from Remember, girl, she's going to the seven dollar store and be just you wanted them seven dollars? What's the seven dollars story? When they get the little onesie and everything like it

was a five dollars, I guess it was. It was one on Pico, that's what wasn't like this one is off like with Boulevard and Artia, Okay, was seven dollars and it was seven dollars And the girl be so fine, like like now y'all find yourself trying to be like me and having designer And she's like, what are y'all thinking, Like, y'all don't have to spend that much money to get the attention, like seven dollars, So you're gonna get played

from niggas that's wearing everything. That's because he shopping the rainbow. Nigga is still gonna your pocket for your own bottom. You ain't gotta be a little leak because I wasn't into like designers and like by that. But so no seilings g l in the spot like normal. My motherfucking dog Bread was hading. My dog Red Red was happenings happening, and we got got a motherfucking guess nigga that I've been sucking win the music business almost close to where

I started at me. His older homie he's holding. His homie is one of my niggas. Like hell, he liked the most solid nigga I know, like he's like that type of solid nigga, Like I can't say the most solid they got, know, but for sure he like top ten solid niggas I know, like stormped down nigga. And I met him because that was from the sign community. You know what I'm saying. And what's the deal man? What's going on with and just working around man, trying

to get these women right? Man. I appreciate you, man, most definitely. I'll do that like probably like seven days. We gotta be trying to get a lot of women's right. Man. I'll try to get the man right too, because we need y'all to be right. What do you need men to do. I need y'all to just act right to what is acting right? Okay, let's get to it. Yeah, we want you gotta shower at least two times a day. Of course, that's automatic. Hygiene is always. So what do

you want me to do? What do you feel like me and are falling short in America? Honestly, it's just I don't really think a lot of men. I'm not saying all man, I don't think a lot of men like women right now. You're not really y'all lovable, but you're not likable. Okay, just ask me what I'm no. I'm just giving you. Okay, So why what's wrong with us? You don't know shit about nothing that guys like like you just sit around here and think being pretty is the thing. I think about it? Like your guy is

in the low riding the fund. Do you know about drawings? Have you went and took your time and said, let me learn about droppings? No? But he teaches me. Why don't you go learn on your own? Because I got other things I need to do. But that might surprise him. It show them that like you put you put more like energy into like some day I'm there though, I'm there, I go tipping. I know you know what she's starting.

She's starting. What's tipping is when you out you riding, like you know what I'm saying, Like you guys are out you guys riding, It's tipping. So that's they call it like cruving that So what's the best? What's the best? Dumps? Dumps? Oh fuck you nigger in the load. And this is why I don't know anything about I don't know about the square, but this is a whole other things. So this is why motherfucker's don't like you. Why because I don't know about nothing. They like you like they like

the way you look. That's all you've given him, not the way you feel. It's not have more to offer than my looks and how I smell. You care about what he's into? Of course I did. Okay, So let's say, like basketball, who won the championship last year? But I don't care about it? Who want a championhip last year? He's in the basketball that's a championship national. You know niggas like basketball, And know you was at the sports wark. I wasn't at the sports bar, and I wasn't that

I was Thomas Shaw and I don't know. You don't know because I don't watch No, I wasn't no, I'm literally I just wants me to go. It's not being likable, right, like you said, you feel like men don't like women. Okay, right me and love women. You're not likable, but you're not even like cool. Think about it. If I'm hanging with you, what are we gonna do fun, We're gonna talk about something that I'm really not super interested in, Like you don't really want to talk about nothing that

a guy would be into sports? Okay? So wait, so is this true? Like? Okay, so if I'm not into football, right, but he's into football, and then he has a team, do I have to like for that team? I'm asked. I'm a Raider fan. Now, knowledge is got a little Raider dressed? You don't like the Traiders, football, Raiders, Lakers? That's that's okay? All right? Okay, so then I'm a Clipper fan. So so my point is in Clippers. So

it's so, what do you know about cars? I don't know about cars, So you don't know nothing about sports and cars, but you think a god should like you? But I mean that that's all So how do you connect with the conversation about kinds of stuff like we want about what I went together in the future. What do you say what you want the future? Like where y'all going. Yes, we do have that conversation. Okay, I didn't bring it up. That's because the only way to talk to you is you said, but bab, where do

you see yourself in six years? That's no, that's not how we talk. What I'm saying is, why would you not get into what your daughters into? I agree, I'm into cars. I'm into cars. I probably know I'm learning to charge the battery Instagram. I've seen the post on Instagram, right, and the post was saying there's some African man and was saying, like, you guy should start getting guys. And I thought that was but the girl responded and that was the thing. The guy is just gay. I don't

know how, but yeah, that's just different. And she said, she said, well, you know, y'all don't really like us. Y'all just find your masculinity to us, right, And I'm like, it's not really we don't like y'all. We love y'all, y'all are lovable, but you don't do anything to be likable. You just think you exist and that's enough, and people should like you because you just exist. It's almost the

most entitled thing I've ever seen. Nobody's more entitled than women and children in America, like and and that's because you would have a guy in the sports and you wouldn't learn about the team, like if I like when I go to have a meeting right on some business like right, if I know something about the person, I'll make sure I'm talking about something that he's into or she's into, because the goal is to relate to that person,

and you find lickability like admiration through those conversations without it like where you connecting that eventually if you got the pussy, the pussy just I don't think that has anything to do with as far as like, oh, relationship, I think that's just something you learned, like in life, to say, okay, let me build a report with this person, like Okay, I like them enough to say let me get into or let me figure out what they like.

You're gonna ask questions, you're gonna like you know. And unfortunately my cousin she didn't like anyone, so she didn't ask. She asked ship, but I no, no, but now just like did you like I mean the time, get what I'm saying, Like your guys in the Rod, right, you should know a lot about cars. You should be taking your time at least our day to learn about low Rod. Know what. When I talk to him, I'm be like, bab you need you need to get these piston pump gates.

Let me change your gates out. This motherfucker be doing that. They're gonna be looking at you like a little stuff. I'm like, man, hold on, wait, we gotta you know so I do be so a little bit. But you guys like each other because y'all talk about things. You're having comment Right, if y'all didn't have nothing comment that you have to talk about, y'all think y'a would like

each other as much. Now. So while the funks is somebody like you just because you got a vagina, once you get the vagina a few times, it's kind of like not special a little more. It was already used, got it. I don't mean that negatively like it was used like like I feel you on that like what you're saying, like she gotta know what you like? Like the chick that I'm with right now. It's like she really studies me, and she tells me that, hey, I think I'm deeper in this ship than you. But I'm like,

I'm thinking I'm doing the right thing. But she really liked on point with it, like, Okay, this is this is what you like to eat, Um, these are clothes you like to wear. Um, I know you want to go see this movie. So when we hook up and in this restaurant, like she's really, I do stuff like that. I'm just not into sports and ship. No, she's saying

he's into the stuff he's into. But she's most definitely like she's on top of it, and she's on top of it like no other woman has ever been the shout out to that woman because she's gonna make sure that she is the one, because I all anytime I date someone, it's like I know that there's somebody else that is lurking or it was there. That's not that's not about that, and it shouldn't be done off a threat, right, No, it's not. It's just you. Like, as I said, she

really likes you. Because when you're really into someone like you, do you you really want to like why you don't understand. I know some stuff. Okay, listen, I got the China hunt or the real dayness. You gotta stamp uh No, I don't even know what that is. Um, you gotta uturo what I know? The knockoff? We got a euro on his lack. I don't know that. And you should be got riding roasters run. I should not tell you that if you don't know how, you don't year when

you have a baby. This nig has put his penis in your vagina, nutted in you. You don't know if he got a year row on his catalect. You don't even know if that's what it is. I have to talk to him next time you sit down to talk Red and just scool. He's crazy, y'all. I think she's gonna give it together after this, Yeah, I'm gonna. But I think it's the daytons that metal pieces, the knocklick.

I'm learning stuff, that's the middle pieces, the knockout all this time if you don't knock it off, the babies like three or four months, So for sure, y'all have been talk about eighteen months and you don't know if you got a year own or like I know, I don't know that part. That is I'm embarrassed. I don't even not even know what he gonna be like. You don't know what the yuro is. I know how many batteries. He guys know how to charge life charge the car like not to do that. But I gotta find out

about this baby. You didn't tell me about the europart He didn't tell me. I didn't know the clip on the front. He might have it on the front of the I know he got all the nineties um, the nineties pieces. Oh okay, well that wake up. So the Ziets Cadillac is where the European stuff came for with Cadillacs, the European design of lights and the way the uh, the actual motings and all of the stuff, the fittings

in the everything about it. You put that on the three Cadillac to have a look of the newest Cadillac like that. Oh nice? Okay, you're the pain loss. Okay. How many gates you got? How many pumps? How many pumps he got battery batteries? Okay, how many pumps? I don't know. This man is putting his penis in you over there. Shut that crazy d I'm gonna know though, hold o, man, I gotta get all my spurts. But I know you know probably like basketball, you don't know

want the championship. No I don't. I don't. Yeah, how do you expect the mom with the That's what I'm saying. We're getting there. They're getting there. Trust me, you would be so like you don't understand. You don't understand. I just need you to get that sooner. But listen, this guy like man, so when we first met, like I said, you was was rhyming and ship. If you're on this part, it's just all conversations. But I do want to ask you something. This ain't no end of your question, but

this is the crazy ship. I thought, what's the craziest ship that you realize that was true in the music business? That you thought? What like, what's the thing that's a lot that you thought was true that niggas getting black balled? Yeah, that's not true. Well today today you can't black on nobody. Yeah, because there's social media and like, as long as you you got like real like core fan you know, die Hard, um A Colt following, people gonna funk with you, They're

gonna sunk with you. You know, what I'm saying. But like I didn't believe in a black ball until, like I deal with the artist that I was, you know what I'm saying, managing resupation Slam Army Slim. Yeah yeah, Um so I didn't believe in that black ball ship, but um most definitely was getting black balled by oh type of people right, And it was like unreal, Like like damn, I thought you was friends. What is right? Is? So yeah, you're gonna be black ball but today's virtually

impossible because you could do all your own things. You just don't even know how. That's the trick part what I'm saying. So, what's the craziest thing you realize about this business? He was like, man, this ain't true. And then you getting He was like, hold up, this is real. Ship, I would say this business, I mean, I don't know SI ever so drugs, but like the music business is like some street like shit. It's like really like some

politics in some streets. Like I feel like if I was like selling drugs or some ship, like you could navigate in the music Like it's really like I just didn't listen. You saw the craziest thing I've saw I've I've seen um men uh do things to impress other men. Girl. Okay, tell me, Bret, what's the craziest thing that you realize about the music business that you didn't think was true? What you realize it was true? I realized that's true.

This is a man's gang. It really is right now, like right now, ladies are you know we're making a presence, but it's still a man's gang. Do you really listen to female hip hop? Female rap? Um? Don't lie? Yes, I do a lot, not a lot, but I do. You know why female hip hop doesn't do well because females don't really support female But they are now. So

you see a lot of that now. That's why I'm saying, you see more of her presents because they are trying to whether they like each other or not, they are big. Is big in that, So shout out to meg is like she like, I don't care about none of y'all politics. I'm gonna do songs with the Great, I'm gonna do songs with Nikki, I'm gonna do songs with card They'm gonna do songs with Look Kim, and I think that's

the freshest. For some reason, y'all just don't funk with each other in this business hard the way y'all ship even with sports like women basketball do bad because women don't go like we watch me and basketball, we me and go watch me and basketball. Women don't go watch women's basketball. It's not that though it's some it's the

support of the media and not to know. It's just there's no First of all, so when the last Spark game that you want the last Raiders, I'm talking about the Sparks Spars, I haven't okay, you know why they had you know that right, and she was in the Olympics and all that, you know, and she did a whole lot of ship the media, it's not portrayed like where you want to go to that game. First of all, the takes are so I've watched it on TV, the

takes and just like the whole production. It's different from watching male sports. You don't think the highlight is actually the actual male athlete doing these like physical crazy things. What I'm saying to the woman shooting lay up, So because they can't do it, that's why you're gonna watch it. It's not like the niggas dunk and you like to see that print. Hume, it's not promoted. Why you do that?

You ain't right, You ain't right. It's just not it's just not promoted on the same platform because it's not as entertaining. Exactly, it's not the way the game is. It's slower. It's just because it's not as hype. The comments haters are like, it's not don't blame it. So chick her needs to be there. That probably what are you come back? Oh? She doesn't pass if that one because I already I mean I have been to other games, but I've never been to a spark scan, right, so

you'll have to. I need to make that happen. You know what, We're gonna go to a Sparks scamp. Where's the last time you'll been to a female artist concert that was not an R and B singer, because that's what y'all support. I like that, honestly. I just finished last year. You're gonna see Meg while she was in I saw Meg at the real festival. No, not at a festival. I mean with Meg Sales CT here she has a show. I would have went, though I love Meg,

I would have went. I haven't. I just think y'all just do kind of a weird job supporting yourselves in the business, that's all I think. I think that let me like this. I know for a fact, me and my cousin we've always been supportive of a lot of artists, whether you're male or female, we've always been very So you feel that men is more entertainment because basically saying that you ain't went to a game because it's not that entertainment. So everything that men do, like, we're just

more entertaining. No, I didn't say that there's more men. There's more. There's more men are There's more men artists, more men rappers, more men athletes or whatever. So you have a better opportunity to go see these men first. So do you like, do you buy like food from a male chef or do you go to the women that's baking or do you you you with the dude? That's how do you know? Are you into it? And it comes to supporting, I prefer a woman baker. I have a baker that I like to go to. She

as a woman. Um I did recently try a male baker. It was pretty good, but not as good as the woman baker and shouts out to my cousin Cali Crow. That's why you went ok, but it's good cupcake, so you could shout out. Really know. See, now I'm going to most people that I end up getting baked goods from their women. It just is what it is there women. I'm talking about chefs, I said, you took it on Oh okay, chefs I do. There is a male chef that I like, but I have a female chef that

I like too, so so let me um. I was thinking about something. We talked about it on i G. Like the police chief. UM said that they are pretty much. They confirmed that the i G post is you know what I mean. God rest and peace to p and b Rock that guy even in trouble. Do you feel like women have a problem with social media to serve that vanity to where they feel like they need to post a lot of stuff. I'm gonna be honest with you.

It's not just women, it's everyone. We're in the error right now where everyone feels the need to post every fucking thing that they do. And if you don't think you're not you're not there like they act like you're you're not popping. If you don't post like honestly it's men. I definitely think it's a man, but I'm saying specifically women, I don't think. I don't think that sense of attention could actually kind of like, I'm not, I don't think

it's her fault. No matter what happened, that's not what she intended. It don't work that way, right, It's not like that she didn't know. You know, you can't know. But I'm saying, you don't think that attention that women is. I don't get me wrong. I know there's a lot

of I don't think. I don't I don't think that's true. Um, I have my cousin, UM, her boyfriend is a stature, and the whole thing was like, you know, um, when you're dating someone that is a rapper or something like that, you she felt, because we went back and forth, she felt like you should know that you don't post where you are at that time at that moment, like you're supposed to know theory, that's something you should probably know.

That's what she's saying. So I would say a lot of women nowadays, because there's been crazy incidents of stalkers. I had my own personal incidence or an incident where that happened, So I wouldn't say no, women are just where they have to post everything. I think a lot of women are becoming more aware of like okay, this is putting me in danger whatnot, and they're not gonna post like that. So no, I don't think women have

to post, you know, everywhere where they are. I would tell my mate, like a, I'm not posting you because I got fifty side bitches. I'm not posting you because somebody might try to target you because they want to get that, you know what I mean. So like I had just um, I had a conversation with my mate about that, you know, because you know, like she I

feel like she wants to be posted. Then people I said, okay, I'll let her post pictures of us, But that turns around and bitter than the ask because people start saying, oh she with this nigga, Oh she's working with him, she's doing this and do that. So now they know we it don't even gotta be real. They can just post anything or say anything they want to say about you,

you know what I mean. But you wanted me to post you so bad, so I just let your post, Like come on, man, Like if they can't get to me, they're gonna try to get to you, you know what I mean, So like you gotta like relax on that.

Like if if we in the in this real world, you know my mama, you know my daddy, you haven't been around the whole family, Well, I gotta post you on social media who were trying to prove something too, And I get that, like, and I'm bad with like posting because I had a situation where I was like, Okay, this nigga is crazy, but every in your line, like you're a rapper, you need to post manages but he cared the record manager. But you need to exactly, so

you have to post. You know, it's part of my job. Yeah, but you just don't make it personal. That's that's what I'm gonna say. You don't make it personal to where it's like, Okay, this is and it's my family. And it's hard. It's tough because women look at again back to the eyelashes. Women look at other women, so they're like, oh, what this guy's posting there, and it's like, yeah, but you don't know he played for the clip, do you know. I'll be honest, it does feel good at the same time,

he don't. He don't have to. I feel good. Why you know what it is? We like that? So everybody's on internet. Why you don't have to be on internetsking you? Why? Why is it so important that everybody knows what you know? I just said that it feels good. It's good because we feel you acknowledge. This is mine? Is this person take care of you? Do everything in the world. She's not. I said, res else do this? It is because sometimes like people give upset at me sometimes when I do

this because it don't make sense. And I'm asking you to stop lying to me without telling you stop lying to me. So now I'm asking you to really dig and say why. And it's gonna come down to some sense of vanity. Right, It's gonna come down to some sense of vanity. And you don't want to ride there because Lord knows if you had a thing to yourself. I'm a bit vain, right that you might. Women don't want to say anything negative about theirselves. They do, but

they don't, right. Y'all said thousand things about everything, but nothing about nothing. I mean, y'all be like, oh, I don't like this. I don't like my notes I don't like my eyelashes. I don't like this. I don't like I try not to pick myself on my heart like that, right, but no, but I'm just hey, how on me? I've been on some meditating ship right now, alergy. So first off,

I don't any of that. Yeah, you're right, but I'm saying you have to learn to love yourself and you have to tell yourself that every day, every time you wake up, and you have to take time for yourself and that makes you you're I don't know for me, I need that for clear like that. I like that. I just think that. I think, Uh, comparison is the thief of joy, and I think that's women's greatest problem in life. Comparison is the joy. And you always want

to compare. You want to compare yourself to other women. You want to compare your relationships to other relationships. Women and created relationship goals to look at somebody else that they don't know anything about and assumed their relationship is what you want. You find out this letty be getting their asked what throw a coffee? And you've been looking dumb. I'm Chris Brown and Rihanna was relationship goals oh yeah again. So what I'm trying to get to is the fact

that y'all live in a space of comparison. I don't mean it's negatively. I'm not there's to believe that I don't love when I absolutely adore women. I actually love women. Right, y'all don't got to talk about I can talk about y'all ship m y'all might not like my opinion, but I can talk to you because I care enough to study what make y'all women. I care enough, um, But y'all spend entirely too much time, like rappers and a record business, comparing things. And once you start comparing them,

you it's still your joy. That's why when you look in the mirror, you start saying, oh my, I got too much stomach because you're looking at a skinny bitch. Oh my eye lasses, you're looking at the bitch with lashes. I don't got to be big enough, ass, I'm gonna because you look at somebody big. But it's just you're looking at what you like. Do I like that? Do I like the way that looks? You only build what you like off of seeing other things, because other than that,

you would just see yourself and you would like. Okay, what about if you like your previous self, it's not about anyone else. Like maybe you liked how you look before you had a child or something that having a child said you're gonna change. I get that, But you may want to work harder to get back to it. That's not the point of that's the point of having a child. You will never people never never be that

person working harder. Ain't getting man, I get no BBL Now that's gonna have to work it out, you know what I'm saying. And there was no shade because some of y'all got some good ones. No shade. No, I've seen some good one has good Okay, all right, the thanks y' y'all. Don't pay enohing. I think the bbls blew up not from women. I think it blew up

from men. And I think in the in the entertainment business. No, I'm saying, wanting to have paying to get it done because you no wanting to know what Why would you know what I was with somebody I was dating and I was I wasn't into all that BBL, all that everything. This nigga, it was another bit. This nigga is comparing you to another one maybe, but he was like, oh, you bomb, but when you get this, you're gonna be

he wants to pay for everything right now. I just was like, a woman, let me tell you something, Ladies that I'm like, you tell you something, No, senator, if you listen to this podcast, women, listen to tell this out. If nigga tell you to b b because you need to do something bad to him, bad to him, should no nigga be telling you to your face he don't like you, nickel, tell you you're not good enough. That's

the wrong nigga. Hello, that's crazy. If for niggas telling you, oh I need a b B, oh you need a BB that is I would be that's like a bit telling me I need to lose weight because the way I look like, I can see if I had, you know I got, I'm gonna die from a heart attack that you're telling me I'm too fat, bitch. I like this that life fat nick. But that's the whole thing. But there's these rappers they're like, Okay, yeah, I'm paying I pay for her body. I pay for her body.

And that's that's not really about him liking bbls. What that is is an economic like, that's flossing. That's flexing, like I did that. He paid for a lot of bodies. That's how list that's how he flosses and flexes, right, that's how he flexes money. It's like a nigga right now today niggas is doing drugs, right, They drinking lean and they're bragging about how much lean is in one

shoulda because that's what flex It's expensive. Like I got five answers in this and I met this this young chick you know, a few years back, and uh like phase like like, man to me, beautiful, she's a beautiful thing.

And she's like, oh, when I turned twenty five, I'm and get a BBM talking about that's what happened to I was talking about she's gorgeous and I feel so bad for a lot of right because it was like I don't feel bad for because it bits winning and she's super talented, so it's very talentble let me back that down. It's not natural, no, but but this is

what's crazy. She's like this unbelievably talented person and I understand the pressure she's in the music business because people don't buy talent like the one thing the music industry don't know how to sell today is talent. They don't know how to sell it. I gotta sell something culturally prevalent. Talent is you know that that went out the door Winney Houston, where you could just sell somebody that could sing.

You clean her up, make it looking look clean, don't let her, you know, don't show that she from new work and she's a ghetto for the rest of her soul. But ask the right questions and she just can't blow that time has passed unless you're white, like a deal where and we don't care what you look like. You could sing, but if you're black, you gotta be a dance, you gotta be do all this. Like Jill Scott could probably sing better than the Deal, but you know she

a deal. Singing white is special because ain't that many white people have, right, So back to the point, So a lot of who was just like extreme like and this is coming from a songwriter and somebody that's vested in this whole ship that you motherfucker is incredible. But I realized why she had to sell sex, because that's the only thing. Everybody's buying what they see, you know who, So talent excuse me. You know, so talent is Missy Elliott and you have to be a lot more creative.

She's missing and was going over the video that was good with the right people doing good ideas. So then you can hear a talent because you can see her talent versus you know, a lot of where she's Maybe she's probably gonna start being more involved with her business, but I think she'll look back and you know her as she grows into her grown woman body, because she's young,

it's going to start looking crazy. I knew so when my daughter told me, like, yeah, I don't like a lot, don't know more she went and she did this and she did that and whatever, I'm like, let me check her out. And I'm like, oh she did like you know, she did her body. Don't look selling sex like she's a sweet girl. But she was on the show. Yeah, you know, she was unbelievable. But but I get it why, I get why, right, Um, sex is a culture and so way you talk, the way you walk, foodweet, how

you talk everything about it as a culture. Outfits fashion Togo with its sex is a culture. So when she started selling the coach and she tried to sell the streets. At first, we wanted to solve all that street stuff, but it wasn't working. Nobody believed she looked too innocent, so then she wouldn't got her body done and started to sell sex. And now I was working out for because now you you see her and you listen to

you like, oh, this motherfucker is tough. Motherfucking is incredible. Right, So she was still so she hadn't even grew into her body, your baby, she was on that. I think she was thirteen, on that she's tough, she's like. Then I came across her with I think Blue did a record with her summer, I thought boosting with I'm like what she feels. She's incredibly tough, Like she's incredibly like, she's one of she got the makeup to be the best female IB partist ever. That's how good she's list

is somebody who study hip hop. She's that talented and that kind of a songwriter. So um, but I feel like when we talk about this, that's what I'm saying to where it's it's too much monkey see monkey do in the industry where it's like, Okay, this is the easiest thing versus finding the unique thing. The unique thing

is how you make the most way. They used to do that even before think about it, even before all these girls, remember it was always like a rap group and then they had that one queen in that rapping was like, oh, we gotta get this one girl. But they were all trying to do the same thing or talking about the same things. It's been like, I'm not talking about what I'm talking about, Like rappers is one

of the greatest successes. She came from the food, so what I'm saying, but this is the same thing I'm telling her, the same thing. It came from out of a group. So the belief is that you can't sell anything what you see outside of sex. That's not true. You just have to really get great at what you do. Like Missy where she could come out in the fucking trash bag ring and we're like amazed by because the song is amazing and we're looking at her looking like damn.

So that's real talent. It wouldn't have never been a mea X, you know what I'm saying, ship like that because mea X wasn't selling them, so it was just like she was selling the streets. Yeah, she was selling streets and she was hard and it was believable magas Magan's caught up Magat selling sex at this point, but man got on selling the streets. So it's it's harder, I think, for a woman to sell the streets because you don't look at women as does. But you know who.

I was looking at a movie today that came out, um with Queen Teeth. She was selling power. Yeah, yeah, or something like that, and it was a cool little thriller, a little movie. They wrote it well with ludicrous, but she was selling power and when you saw her, you saw power that yeah, what I'm saying. So I think we yes, I think we're just getting but no, it's what it's what is in front of your face. So for somebody, that's not what's in your face. It's what's easier.

It's what you feel it is easier. That's why they all go right to it. It's like easy. I could do this, and it's easy because I managed the R and B artists, and like, the voice was incredible, you know what I'm saying, um um, And it was like her body is crazy too, but it just wasn't connecting over and it was like to a point like hey, I want you to do this, and she's like compromising. You know what I'm saying. I got to ask. I got all that I looked pretty, but I'm not wearing

nose short shorts and I'm not doing TikTok. Why did you want her to do that? Because I understand it was simple. It makes Yeah, it was simple. It was like that, that's what it was. And it was like like you know what I'm saying. We tried everything else was like look, man, they want God gave you this. Let's but if that's what happened, see, that's what you're asking a question. Also a young exact, but it's a young exact. But he don't know a thousand different things.

He knows what he knows and he's good at what he does. Now, Muther talked up puff or rest of Soult, the boy from uptown um or go talk to Jimmy excuse me, um Gordy for me, somebody that's selling R and B acts for years. They can get another idea. But because simple, like right, sex is the most over so thing that that can we how can we get in without having like the marketing dollars because we don't even had the marketing dollars to just market like that.

But the voice was incredible, but it was like, damn it, it's not connecting with the people because it's like you don't got this many followers like and can do. It's because they don't see it. With change in the music industry, the most is today it's what you see. Like I used to dress a certain way as a game member every day before I start rapping, right that that was just the normal uniform. You just you want to other niggas in gang culture to know you was a game.

Remember that's kind of like inviting the the conflict or the respect, like okay, we you know, you don't go around Hollywood like that, you go to well the game members that And what I realized was that is the culture. So like now when I do more videos, people need to see exactly what it is you are for. It needs to connect top to bottom. And so I think like he's saying sex for a young exact like his

age is simple. But the people who got a lot of they're not that young, like MC Hammer's brothers and they can go pick some mother ship. But I think they took these as route and I think that that could stop her from her true potential. A lot of ship be selling with Lord Hill. So that's how good a lot of is. And it's like it was just like this with like male artists. It's like what we see, like, oh, he really ain't popping because he don't got no chain.

He ain't got this. And I remember when you came into the game, you got that deal for the one point seven million. I'm like, man, Glasses is one of the hardest niggers to me, hardest And I was like, I just tell Liebo, like, man, he should get a he called his ship the beach cruiser. He should get a chain with a beach cruiser, diamd out and this and this because it's but but this is the that wasn't. Yeah, it's an expensive pay to be real, it's it cost

it cost you easy. It's don't let me wrong. Selling sex is easy in the music that you're gonna get instant opportunities. Like if I so well, I would have instant opportunities like every rapper if you said, well, that's easy, that's the easiest thing to do now. And that's why I gotta put a chain on because like me and like when like with me and my my business partner, Slim, we didn't have no jury. It was like, man, people

ain't working with us like this and this. I was like, because they don't consider you start getting jury because it was a part of Brandon. I didn't. I didn't do it because I liked it where jury. People believed in what I said more like they were listening, like the years was open. I was like, shoot, I was because they tell you the same thing six months ago. But but the thing is, that's the point that make it tricky,

right is I I get it? Like I mean, I wouldn't even change it again, Like if I know what I know, like where I'm at in the business as an executive, Like you got to be able to sit out in front of seven eleven and then stow money in your hat. That's how talented you gotta be. If you can't make a hundred and fifty dollars, we can't do no business if you can't sit outside in front of seven eleven and just do your thing for me.

If I got to do too much, I'm not doing business with you because yeah, because if I do everything else, it means I have to work too much. And then you want all of the money like TLC. Whereas like TLC didn't do ship then choreograph no steps, They didn't come up with no fashion, they didn't write no song, they didn't do nothing. They don't make no beach, they

ain't do nothing. But then when the money happened, everybody spend all their money and did all the work and they sold it right because they could sing a little. Oh they got robbed, you know what I'm saying, that ship up. I just feel like it's it's really like easier now, like like with the social media, because if if you like really use the tool, if if you're a dope artist and you just gas gas gas every day,

we didn't. We didn't. We didn't saw it happen. People didn't got deals out of just working Instagram, you know what I'm saying, working TikTok. You know the rustle was like that, the one he did the bat. I had this idea too, to do a concert in my backyard, Like you could sell talent now, but to get to that final level. I agree with him where sex is

the easiest. It's less berries and entry. When you're selling sex, you're immediately gonna get followers because maybe it's just thirsty, so that means you widen up your reach as far as delivering music people. I'm guilty. I watched the videos what's that little thing to be on the side, like the like the promotion ship and it's just number of females shaking the ass when you not is awesome there? What you don't you know? Like on Instagram is um

what is it? Call? Like they basically got as not the reels where it's like it's some kind of promotions of where it's like it's just videos at all. The Explorer ship is like you know what I'm saying, Like you see all I see asked from around the nation, and it's like I'm interested in a man Like I'm not saying that, but I'm saying sometimes it ain't about giving everybody what they like. It's about giving them you like. See the thing is you can give them what you like.

That's a great business, right, that's easy, but it's also very you know, you would be trapped and it may not get what you want, like you make like it's a lot of women who will selling sex and just stopped at the door. Now they ain't they can't get in a lot of them like it's something else. You gotta have something else, you know. I mean a lot of people feel like they're not getting exposure, but really don't have a stick developed. They don't have an idea

to up. They don't know what they said it. They just got regular apple PIDs, Like what makes it special? So I agree with him, that's the thing, right, female artists selling sex and men artists selling wealth. But that don't that don't even make me like pay attention to nothing else they're doing. I just look at the video and I scroll up lyrics and nothing like that. So you have do you have women artists on your roster now? And then you said you had the R and b

um restruction restructions. I'm saying, you know, I still I still managing network with a few women artists. But it's like, you know, it's it's a lot. You gotta put a lot of money into um a female artist. So for a female artist are you looking for would you necessarily say I'm looking for the talent? Are you looking for a look? Or it needs to be I want them to display their talent because like like I was saying, like I looked at videos and just say d w

Flame when he was just gas and freeselling. Then next thing you know, he's on wilding out with Nick Cannon, you know what I'm saying, Like that, that type of thing, like you just really got to use these tools with what they got out here for us now because if we would have had Instagram when when Lebo and Glasses got signed, it'll it'll be a different game right now because these was two of the hardest niggers, you know what I'm saying, And they still like two of the

hardest niggers. So I definitely agree with him on there. But I think that's the cats. I think. I think, um, it's about doing more research, and I think that's the That's what I like comparing about the music business and women and beauty standards is literally there that they suffer for the same issues. It's like, let me take the whole world. It's a whole copycat world versus finding unique beauty.

It takes a little bit more harder work to research somebody maybe in the past that's a unique look or a unique hairstyle or a unique idea. But that's where you really can hit I think you know you're right because I think though the artists, So like Cardi B, Lizzo, Meg the Stallion, these artists that now are are superstars. They are We're always their original there being who they are.

Like Cardi B. She had a huge following on YouTube before she started as far as wrapping, and I don't think she could be so much further than she is um. But again, she just became Nikki, you know what I'm saying. To some degree, it's like you have to kind of like she had a really good thing going, like that whole strip club, that stripper thing, that's a real culture in itself, and then she really dug deep to to explain the life of that culture because she would be

the only person. You know, I think if Cardie Bee would have did um that show that Jocelyn actually did. But even making music, it's the same thing. Like if you make a project explaining the struggles of a stripper, like you do, incredible, But if you just start making whatever catchy wrap so you can make, then you don't have success. But I believe anytime we do something like we do this podcast, the goal is to be the biggest podcast. Ever, how do you get into something without

trying to be the best? How do you get with a guy and don't be thinking I'm gonna be with him forever like or or or trying your best to figure out what it would take. Like if you're just wasting your time going from guy to guy, I mean you just kind of missing. Not on the point of life.

It's about being great every time, like the Um like it was like the girl from Africa, the Team's girl, like her vocals shining through because it was something different for that time, and with viral because it was all over TikTok, it was all over Instagram, like it's this other um female artists. She got the song soon the greatest, the greatest. She don't I ain't gonna say how she looked, but she she stands out, She paints her face, she does all this, but it's stood out. She didn't have to.

She created her niche to where she stood out and she stayed with that like she never was shaking the ass. I never saw no video of that from her, you know what I mean, So it made me like pay attention, like I heard it. I heard it, and I had to find out who she was. So then when I I followed her look at her videos like she's unique to what she is. You know, that's where the that's where the that's where the best thing is that that isn't the most usps, the best us pas, you know,

the most unique selling to. But you've got I know, at least from me, beauty being like Ice Spice. Ice Spice is one of the hottest motherfucker's in the business right now because she looks unique. Definitely that curl here that's due. When I see last night, I just cant you can't really super for real like that shi all right, all right, something that was natural. That's what I liked about.

That's what I love about Meg. When Meg came into the game, I'm like, Okay, she's talking to her ship and as far as I can tell, everything is real, like you're a real woman. I can't see She's like she's I think she's theful. Yeah, look crazy. I don't know about looking crazy pretty style and that got me and I was like, oh, then when I saw it like the freaky little thing, I was like, oh, that's even that's the Tina Snow. You know. She just to me, she just she's a really dope m C. I think

she just needs help with constructing the album. I think she don't have her I never listened to her album besides when she first came into the game. After that, like I just got some joint though. I think that's the only thing that mattered today is climate. Yeah, she most definitely can make a hit. That's that's what she's she's doing at that. All right, Well, we about this motherfucker. Good looking out for tuning into the No Sellers Podcast.

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