Conversation About Just Good Conversation Pt.2

been checking foods. Who Look, he didn't got it. Okay, Look he just got into it on Halloween with old from you took that serious he was. He wasn't here to slap the makeup off that nigga face. He was because it's an actor. It's an actor and the nick it's pub like this, that's New York man. They just talked rude. Anyway. He didn't say nothing, no talking about he wasn't he empowering one of them where they act like real ship. Oh my god, no, nothing, No, I

think that go to the man shot too. I'm going to tell you that. Shout out to my boy Bisi Hanni. So look we have came into such a weird place in hip hop where you guys are saying puffs. I did not say puff. Whatever Rare said Puff, you know, apparently he is. Apparently Puff is tough. Why you ain't nobody messing? Not even simple want to listen. I think Puffy, no one's gonna step to him. Who's gonna step to him? Nigg has been stepped between my whole life like Shook

step twin Pox. Everybody talked Picked, that's what that was. I don't see that, Like we didn't know that Park was talking about all this crazy you Puff didn't say nothing. Okay, but he's not really a rapper either, Like I mean, I know he didn't was an artist or whatnot. But he wouldn't you know, what was he gonna say to Supo? You see what he said to Drake? You see what he did to Jacole? Didn't he answer his face? Though?

Then they had an alteration time. They don't want to, you know, disrespect like the elders like he older Puffed. I thought that nigga a bit and said he would do something to that actor. Man he did. He really did break character at all. I don't think Rapp is at a weird place. Think about it, right, you got all of hip hop right, like niggas is talking about the baby. The baby is the realist, letting nigg out of all the rappers the baby. I think so he

shot he killed the nigga a Walmart. Yeah, man, you boy, young boy did not. That's not going to put young young boy'll be talking country and crazy. That's all talk I'm talking about. The baby is the real deal because he shot somebody in Walmart. He killed the name Walmart. Shot the nigga told the police, come get this nigg in his yard. This nigga leaning in my yard. He beat up about three niggas him and his boys. That

nigga is a modern day motherfucker. Now he really don't give ant And then all the modern hip hop hayt the baby. The baby. I'm like, so y'all hate it. I think what it is in modern hip hop you have to seem tough, but not like a nigga was arguing about Drake On. Now the baby was cool, I think like a lot. Just all that ship that happened with his baby mama. I mean, his baby mama was like, no, it wasn't. That was just the fact that he was

like a player. He was just doing too much. He was sitting over here talking about okay, you could get out the same my girl, this and that whatever. I get it. That's fine. You know what I'm saying. You already we heard the song. We know. But all this is you're doing, this is your the mother of your child. Now this is a public He was just doing too much. He was just trying to claim because and he's saying I'm a player for real, But that's not what he said.

That's not what he said. I want to have respected that. When then him he wasn't cleaning her. He's saying, this ain't my bro, I don't under That's not how it starts, not how when it started from this are from now? What was? It helped me? Please? It wasn't. It was something like I don't know. They was on live and once they started arguing, then he came and was just like, you know, that wasn't my girl. That wasn't like yeah.

She tried to throw him out there like she was acting like he was doing her bad, and he was like, man, you're not. We're not like that, and she got an attitude because we're not like that Okay, Look, regardless of however it happened, and whatever happened, I still feel like whatever whatever transpired with that kind of yeah with his you know why because I'm telling you it's the same bitch nigga ever ship. Y'all literally are fucked up socide

this at a fucked up place. It was a nigga argue with me on Twitter, and I wouldn't argue with him. He was arguing with me. He was like, you need to tell me you think Drake got all that money he won't get something done to a nigga. I'm like, so he got money and he's a gangster. Now, I don't agree with that. I do not see Drake as nowhere near as against it. He literally just has a song right now where he's singing to a dude like his homie, saying like, uh I would kill for Nick

or whatever. I don't know his lyrics, but literally I was listening to that up here, like what the fun is going on? So there's no way I would believe that he was. I think Drake really got on explaining y'all sentiments, black women's sentiments. He became like y'all Mary J Block, no, no, like he really became. And then I was like dad with the white woman that ship, I was like that kind of that was just like

he used all the game. Now he wouldn't even to the man telling you all this ship for everybody, not even from he like I an't even from United States. I'm not even that nigger got a knife the dadder in his face because in England ain't no gun. They they stabbed each other all the time. That's why you got that knife right there, stablished it out of each other. They gangster on another level. That's why I won't never say nothing about twenty one and them gangster them they

could be stabbing each other. You're a different nigga. If you're stabbing, Shooting the nigga is easy, Like it's only tough the first two times. Stabbing the nigga, that's tough. That's personal and ship everything. You know. I'm generation the old nigga stabbing in your eyes. It shouldn't be looking in your eyes while that's a nigge the see, that's what I was thinking. That's why I didn't want that guy to get close to me, because I was thinking he can stab me. But that's what I'll be worried

about whack whack, be fu get your ass. Stabbed one for sure, stabbing nigg He looked like his that haircut. He ain't no joke, no sailings classes malon, what's handing? What's going on? What's handing? Kind of bird don't fly, brick kind of bird, don't fly jail bird. Oh my god, bread fresh out? Hey, I'm fresh out man. I don't never first out of jail California dreaming. Oh my god, how was that when you start? We ain't for to keep talking about this, but how was the first step

side of jail? I ain't never going back. You step up like your chests out like I was cold as fucking I was like my girl too. I'm sure. I'm for sure you were throwing the women were women cold? For sure? They rubbed their arms. What are you warming up? Because for sure our body are warming orange up all on your body because they don't feel that colde at

the bottom. It's right, you know what I'm saying, Like, that's nothing like watching the woman go through something because it don't matter if it's hot the cold outside's gonna rub her arms. Yeah, I was doing that's comfort. Hurry up. It took that uber longest time to come to man as the longest wait in my mind. I just wanted to get away. Ober. Just think before Uber, I started to walk down the street because I didn't even want

to be right there. Yeah, like they might come back and get me, give me my I d back going there for ship. Wait right, Wait, so you left your ID they take it from you? They took it. Oh so you didn't get she was gonna slit your wrist with it. No, they know this. The straps on my legs to take your ship because they know nigga's like, you're gonna hang there still out. Yeah, she was gonna get gangster British gangster. Nick. I just don't let people

fuck with me. But so back to the point I was saying, I digress right, like black women being used consistently, and I noticed that's becoming like the game plan all the time everybody uses black women. I'll be seeing niggas who I know for sure don't with black women, be like, yeah, you know, we gotta stand up for our black women. Like how do y'all even buy that? Who do y'all really think is for black women? Like as two sisters like like everybody uses y'all this marketing, right, y'all just

become marketing targets, right. Uh. The Democrats use y'all like that white lady said she had hot sauce in their bag. Like I didn't even say. Nobody ever taught the black men, but they taught the black women. I just wanted to know how y'all feel about that, like Drake pretty much y'all. Kanye and Drake, y'all built both of them up. Makes that both of y'all lass in the back at the end. Damn, Kanye told you all to hold It wasn't really like like that's what I was going to say, Like I

really think that for sure. I was. I was, you know, I'm like he's saying to me like he just understood, Yeah, like he understood as a rapper like who I would think. But later he started hear me it. I mean just just just even as a rapper, like somebody like Drake who pretty much dated like black women. And now you wouldn't catch him dead with his sister over the day like old tennis player. It is, though I've seen him, I haven't seen him with no Nick used to be

he said, what's your name? You'll be talking about Drake, right yeah? Um, I no, no, Serena, but he haven't known Serena. Husband called Serena's roupy me because I remember because used to be at her tennis match. I remember that he called. Yeah he did, he'd be real messy. I just said he was bored. See y'all and this is your problem, y'all thought Drake spoke for y'all. I don't think we talked. No spoke for us. Well, she's a fan, because he didn't. He didn't speak to you.

He spoke for you. He pretty much all his sentiments y'all. Y'all feel like those were y'all sentiments. Even if you listen to that new song where he'd be like, I'm losing friends finding piece. That's some that's some woman. It was when we were kidding called bitches and hose and ship. He slid in there and started singing to us and ship. We was getting called every other thing in the around the way, in around the corner. So he slid in

with that like this is what y'all need. And that's y'all problem, because y'all could be so manipulation, but the build us up, and that's the problem. You don't deserve to be built. That's why we queens around here. You gotta better recognize. So let me tell you why that came across crazy. So I'm gonna break down. You stop putting yourself on pedestals. You cannot stand up there. You don't have the balance. That's the problem. You should start

down here with the rest of us. Because when you put yourself on a pedestal, that's why you get a nigga like Drake, because you, right, Drake slid in like that nigga. Right, So when you and your you and your nigga be going through something, right, that one nigga who'll be sliding in. That nigga is never a good think about Adam and even fit Adam and Eve. Adam and Eve like God. Adam and Eve is like God,

like his bit right his old lady. So he tell him like they don't funk with the food on this tree. This is not cool. And then that side nigga come in and be like, man, that nigga just really hay want you to taste them. If you was with me, I'll let you, man, and then we bring every time and then suck because then right after it's like you look at him like, damn, you are the devil because it's the smooth devil. Bro No, not like that, but he really is a savage. And it's funny because the

niggas who you think like that called you bitches. Them niggas is all married like snoop, This nigg had been married for like fifty years, right, nigga Like Drake ain't gonna do nothing with no sister. He ain't getting none of y'all. We was talking about. Dad said wow, this is I mean, once he had the baby, and I'm like okay, wow, like wow, Sargana was just like okay,

I'm I'm good on Drake. I really was just like not because it was just like I just was really like what no, you did because you would have thought it was like dang, really think about it. Think about it though. She wasn't she like a porn start to yeah, like a horn a white hole. I'm like, wow, that's so.

I'm now I'm not saying nothing bad about Drake. See the thing is when y'all look at the rough edges of black men and the men that come from your communities, they just be rough on the outside because they've been through something with treacherous women. Y'all know how some girls get. So that'll make me and it's like scrappy, y'all. He was crying talking about what he had went through and everything look scrappy from up scrap. He was talking to his mom, mamadeed talking about how he grew up in

the um, in the crack. His mama was a pimp, and he was saying, so I had to deal with um, watching people do dope, people coming in and out of the house, Like I can't even sleep in another room. I sleep with my mom because somebody else in there, like you know. And it was really like damn, you know, because like he said, he said, I can't go to band because shell hard. I can't go to you because you hard. But you but when you've been raising ship like that, you be hard, and then it sucks because

niggas be like why are you so? Like I didn't been through a lot. But so he was really just breaking down like I never like he was breaking down what he has to deal with from his childhood and his experience, and he was really he was emotional about it, you know. Yeah, but but but yeah, that's my point. So y'all be mad because somebody says the word bitch

or they feel like they talk crazy. Right, So you look at that and you'd be like, oh, they mistreat us and were queens, and how dare you eat not knowing Kings really mistreat queens historically, like they have concubines and all kind of ships. Don't Nobody sunk with the queens. Kings don't fuck with queens. So being a queen is really a waste of time because don't nobody respect the queen, not even the king. Remember the king always has side

os every one of them, stories about them, crack ass kings. Everyone, they had concubines, they would sleep with slave, They were choosing everybody over you, Right, So you mistake that roughness right of of of that black rapper and then a guy like Drizzy slides in, Drake slides in, and you like he's seeing all the right things, girl, Because that's what I said, that's what we need. That, that's what

we need. Sound it really good because when you're so used to be whether it's right or wrong, Like if you're so used to hearing this all the time, what about maybe the fact that you were being possibly a bit he came in. I mean, if he was you was, why would you be mad at the rappers saying but I mean even if he say that time, we still gonna be where there wasn't a lot of that going on, and never caught a woman a bitch. I love that he had this time. Everybody, all the ladies love Yeah.

But my point is I'm saying, so he came at a time, right, just like in your real relationship where you feel like it's tough, and he sled up in there with that bullshit and he ruined your life. Now he won't even look at you now. He really gonna make you don't even like yourself. He talked, and what's crazy? Is he talking bad right now on a new album that the honey tell me? He talking crazy to the host? Oh no, he really don't care. That's why I saw

text her like, hey, what's up? What's up with your boy? She said, how he bored? He ain't bored the real him. See, the reality is all of us is like that. The niggas who acted like they're not like that, that's not real. If you came from our background, even Drake, right, Drake and came from our background. But Drake Drake is to me, this is how I look at Drake right shout out of Drinkey. Drake is a nigga who got the pretty girls at school the whole time. You know what I mean,

the girls with the nice hair. Yeah, the pretty girl that you know when he was in high school to be the thin girl with the nice hair. She was a pretty cute girl. He ain't none of the sisters, the one that was stick that everybody wanted. So when he started rhyming, he started just running through them. Johnny Blaze is the all the girls that is popular in high school, that stick that was kind of probably fast whatever.

He just started running through them, and he realized he wasn't cut out for it, but he understood that he had that appeal to them because he was speaking their language. He studied them so bad and wanted y'all so bad for me that he studied y'all and it was so easy to manipulate y'all and mock y'all. He did, and it got him into this business billions of dollars billions

because y'all are so predictable. It sounds funked up. And I don't mean it in a negative way, but everything you'll do become so trendy, y'all following each other, you'll do the exact same thing all the time. If one start wearing our lashes, all start wearing out lashes. If one start making baby here, all start making baby here. So he could literally say one rap. Probably he could literally say one rap and and fit y'all and y'all fight your whole life to be different. It's like y'all

all want to be like, oh I'm different. It's like you all do the same exact thing. I mean, he just came through with that like thing you are not ever wanted to. Yeah, it was going the best I've ever had knowing that's a lie. That was And it was dope though with like because when he was in a relationship with couples, everything like it wasn't just women like we were singing it, but it was like it was very like sentiment. There's no niggas that love Drake.

There's lots of no no nigga love Drake. Hey, they was on Drake at that time when he had came out like y'all, y you're a man, where I said, y'all black men was never on that. Only niggas who were squares Drake. It's a lot of squares because point, that's what I'm saying, because they the same dude. These dudes in real life, y'all wouldn't even give no play too in real life is a corn ball. I think if Asia meant real life, zero zero play, and she would have talked to that nigga two days, she would

have gave some play. Though that's not the point she would give anybody playing theory. That's not in theory. I would not give anybody. So what's the corn is? Maybe you ever dated um corny ship, a nigger who make bad white jokes, because that's Drake, a white guy, oh, a corny nigga. Okay, not a white white guy. White people can't be corny because they white people. White people cannot be corny because the white white people are corny. They on colde. I yes, I dated he was the

corny ist, and you just loved him to death. No you didn't. I didn't. I don't know what you're talking about. We but I date Actually I dated him for a while, but I really was like doing all kinds of ship. You did not it drove me crazy. I don't believe most of these sisters with David person like Drake Nigga. Drake was wrapping his first album with a glove on us to be on stage with a glove one glove like this is my point, Like, I'm not This is

not an anti trade conversation. This is a really worried about black women conversations and their ability to be not everybody is going to talk to somebody like Drake, like you know what, most people not Serena like yeah, I mean because it would be hard for Drake to put you on your place. You probably think you could be Drake up. I don't know. Drake got like could you

know he comes through like he something? If you was dating Drake and y'all got some argument, you think this NI gonna turn around and be like get you or something like that or something crazy the way this album is going. Yeah, I think that he probably would. I was about to say you like, fuck you glasses think square up? What on up? No? That ain't his down, damn Okay, See, I don't know. I I'm just saying I'm thinking. I just think that y'all flying situations where

y'all play the victim all the time. And then like your favorite entertainers are always people that make y'all the victim, Like Mary J. Blige, she always is the victim. I was just bumping her on the way over here. Didn't been through a lot exactly. And it's never at fault. You don't have one song typ about how she's a raggedy woman. Wow, why would she? Why would she have a song saying she's a raggedy woman? So you can't

go and not be raggedy. Eventually, some eventually some of the blame to you be something else but not raggedy, broky doctors, singers, singers, dancers, everything. I just knew about it. Eventually, it ain't her fault, like you don't have no accountability. She might you don't know what she says behind because why she don't sing the songs? But I did that nigga bad, I cheated only I wasn't. I didn't cook. Why you don't never have women that I should? Well you,

I would you want me do a song? My point is, are you raggedy? No? But do you want me to do a song? Is there a celebrity woman that's raggedy that y'all know the celebrity woman that's ragged women. We're just not gonna say nothing negative about women, don't you do to it? But I could think of a raggedy um man. I bet you could. And he has a penis. I bet you can. Sure you can think of that nigga.

I'm actually think of somebody raggedy would have vagina that you could feel honest, you'd like, you know what that motherfucker is raggedy? Like, why is it? Mary J Blige could sing a thousand songs about niggas doing something wrong and she ain't got one song about her doing her doing some ship. Then I could say, yeah, she was raggedy. But I'm just going if I'm going off for just some songs and I don't know as a victim, maybe she's going to victim on her life. How you know?

Come on now, you don't know that, Come on now, you don't know that it's Mary Jacky J blu Let's keep it to being. Mary J. Blige looked way better now that she ever did. I said, Mary, Mary did not look like super shop. When I was young, Mary was like super rough, Like I thought, you fight Mary J. Blige when I was younger now, Mary J. Blige, Like she didn't. She actually is getting cute, like she aging like wine, her ship getting better and better. So you

mean to tell me, ain't no nigga sticking around? Maybe she don't want it? I mean relationships? How long she was married for a while, like two days? Now she was married for three days. That was not three days. It wasn't that much time she was with that man for a minute. Come on now, Mary J. Blige, I'm just asking you a question. When do you ever start to analyze maybe the pedestal you're asking for is not one worthy of you? Like what if I told you that no woman is worthy of a pedestal? Do you

think that I'm sure, no pedestal? Wow? Really yeah, no human being is worthy of a pedestal. But sure you

because you're black woman, you put us up there. You don't have to be because you understand what the pedestal really looked like, and like figuratively speaking, like it's up there, it's very little you know, error, there's very little you know, ship for mistakes, like it's really close so soon as I mean, no one, Yeah, nobody's perfect, and why would you want to be on the pedestal, things that belong

on the pedestal, things that don't come down highly. Why should a motherfucker think highly of you because I would love for you to. Why not? Why? Why do you want those expectations? Do you want to walk around and say, I want you to think I'm raggy? You know what? You know, it's a huge spectrum, it's a huge, great area. But why you gotta be in the great area, just like why can't you just say, okay, I think highly of you? Why why he just doesn't want? Why not

do I think highly of any woman highly? Okay? Well he said any thing about highly? Yes, I don't know if I think highly. I mean I think kyllie of no man neither like I think highly of niggas and Pacific like dre like if dre engineering, and I'll be like, man, nigga cold. But then he might like to slap a bit or something. I can't he tripping me. So I look at every human being as even the greatest ones. Fore me, I'll be like, well, you did do this bullshit,

so you ain't that special. But that sometimes so what's the point of wanting that? Like that's my point? So somebody I think it's better to be. I mean, I never went into a relationship with expectations, at least I didn't think I had, because it's like I don't know. I just do if I'm doing something for you or where I'm doing this because I want to, not because I'm expecting it and I don't know. I guess, like you said, not having expectations like doesn't um you're not

let down, you know. So I didn't know. Maybe it was because of that, but it was just like ship like I'm not expecting you to do this, but then then you get oh, you're a hard woman, like you want to do everything or you do this. Those two don't. That's not what they quite mean. I'm just saying him think that, not that the expectations. No, it's like I'm saying, like I don't expect Okay, you know how we talk

about like the trash or things like that. Yeah, when I'm in it, nobody's gonna call you a hard woman because you take the trash out. No, but they do be like you. I can't. I'm use that as an example, but say like getting your car repaired or not coming to them for certain things or just really. I guess

they feel like you don't need them. But it's just I'm not expecting anything from sure, and that's great, But I don't think they would say your hard because you do that first, right, they would have no problem with then, you know, like, okay, look, if you need this, tell me next time. And I got you a real man. But I've been with men that really was like, that's not that. That's not because they wasn't real man. They just wasn't your real man. Okay, somebody real man. They

changed somebody for you, just not yours. He is he he's just so nice to men. You just you are. I'm not putting. I'm just telling you women, like all women ain't bad, they just might be bad to you. Always tell my partners that like some women is bad to everybody except that nigger. It's that always that one man that he not she not bad too, but she might be bad and dispectful to all the rest of them. You're just not that guy. That's what I'm saying. It's not I don't put men or women on a pedestal.

I just think that human beings in general. Thinking highly of people is pretty much a horrible idea. Like, if you think you know levelheaded of people, you're being a much better space. Right, So I spend my time putting people in obtainable situations. It's like, okay, what kind of obtainable real obtainable realities? And then if they exceed and it's like oh wow, you're at that she falls short, I'm like, oh, dare go give it? Expectations are really

a different kind of burden. So, like, if you want somebody to think highly of you, like, what what about you is highly to think of? I understand want you to think, No, I'm not you mean in a relationship? Yes, I don't mean it like that. What I mean is, you know, what do you think you as a human being? Let me you want to get another answer, okay, let me get something better for it. Um, when you're in

a relationship, right, what do you think you do exceptionally well? Oh, okay, that's a good question, cousin, I do exceptionally well, yes, that's far is in a relationship would you be like, man, you know what? They can't do this like me? And most of the time when women think it would be something pretty much for sure that I think that there's always no first off I don't never not saying I'm just saying so, but you're asking me something like I don't.

I don't go into nothing like that because there's always somebody that can do those things or maybe even better. I think for me, I just I'm a selfless person. So for me, like I'm just, I just cater like I'm just it's hard to explain, like I'm just I just always I always put my due like I don't want to say highly because you but I just always think of him and the things that will make him happy or like um, like the things that I can improve on. And only reason why I'm saying this and

this is not I don't know bullshit. This is real ship because I had a problem with conforming and being in the relationship for a very long time. You could ask her like I just I just this is this is a new me. Hey, we're being real, right, So this is real me. So for now for me now, I'm actually but I'm going all in like I'm it's all You're getting all of me like I'm shit. It's it's hard. It's hard. It is because I've always had always not selfish. It's not selfish. I always did you're

not understanding what I'm saying. Like I'm always I've always done ship. I'nna be real. Yeah, you're right, it is selfish. You're right on it. I always said, I know you know how you think about it later when somebody say some ship like I was, I didn't give a fuck, like literally, if you didn't, if you did not, if you couldn't get with whatever I was going through at that point in time, I was not caring like it

was just by like I just was. Literally I zoned out and I just put my career and my son first and above anything, so your feelings did not matter. I did not. Okay, well, if I couldn't, if you, hey, I can't. I don't even have explain it. That is just ran through and ruin. No, I didn't ruin anyone with that mentality. You don't think you ruined men. I've probably heard of broke a couple hearts, but I'm not. I'm not happy about it. I'm not happy about it.

I can't get right. That's why I can get ready because I'm getting ready. No, not you, that's why they can't get ready. Excuse me? No, yeah, right, you know what's funny some of the most important people. My dad told me a crazy story. My dad explained to me the reason he was so tough with women. He felt like he needed to be a player. I thought my dad was like the super like like just a player. Like I thought that nigger he got his feelings hurt when he was twenty one years old and didn't let

it go for forty years. And that is really real. That happens to a lot of men. Like it's not just men, it's women, because that's what happened to me, Like he said, somebody came in my whole life, and then I was just like, you know what, I don't even hear no more. I'm about to do me. And it wasn't about dudes. It wasn't about just dating. It was just like that dudes in your life and ruin their life. No, I didn't know. Now she really wouldn't let him in her I wouldn't let them in my life.

Did you get him some pussy? Then you let him in your life? But you know what the hell I need that? And that's the thing too, Like it's a lack of accountability, Like you don't get it, and that's the point, Like how do I say this without sounding up. It's just selfish what I'm saying, Like, I know you take that pain and then you're like, well, I'm gonna use this pain and now I'm gonna deal with everybody this way. No, it wasn't. I didn't say it. She didn't deal with it. I just didn't you with it.

I just literally she was giving something some pussy. She thought she might have liked them, but she always went back to that nigger who did that ship to her. No, I didn't. Whenever something happened, he went back in your head like okay, I liked them, and I can agree to that. Like, no, it was it was hard. Like you guys understand that ship was fucking hard. Like you don't think that nobody else been through that. I never said that. I'm talking about myself. I never speak about

anyone else's ship my own. But that's my point. We all go through ship. Okay. I get that, and and I had to learn, like, okay, that's it's not okay. You need to be, like you said, held yourself accountable and just say you know what you want different. So because I want different, I am different. So I give myself wholeheartedly now to my do like I talked to him about a lot of shipping before. I want to tell no, a dude, barely nothing. You wouldn't getting too

much out of me about nothing. I'd be like, I just really will just be like, what's wrong with you? Know? Nothing about my feelings was hurt? I can I'm sorry. Man was savage? I remember? But it's not. You know, you don't want to live like that. Everybody wants someone that they want to grow with or whatever, like you don't. Why do you really want somebody to grow? I want to compare in I want to. I want to. It gets lonely when you get the kids are gonna leave.

Feel me, it's cold outside right now when I want to go home and cut the us to be able to talk to somebody and be able to share those mon friends. And you think about my grandparents and how they just they have their things. That ship was dope, like, I don't want to. I want to be like these bodies. So like my grandmother right now, she's not being. No, we ain't doing that. I ain't doing that. I'm probably

gonna play being because that's fun. But two, don't nobody want to go what what I don't know, you don't nobody want to be that's my thing. Like, but I mean, if you got to do what, she ain't gonna be single at eighty two. Yeah, but I don't think that no one else would do that. But I do, you know what I mean, Like there's always someone out there

trying to take your spot. I don't know if they're trying to take your but no, there's something you know what you know, you've been talking a lot of ship like yeah, like you're trying to do it like nicely and kind of like like like iron is. I swear to god, I don't know what you're really talking about. I really don't talk ship. I'll be there. I'm not talking like everything I'm saying is the truth because I know Brick. I know. I never had to sit back

and tell me her life. I could tell Britt was a selfish, litle asshole when I met, not to me because we wasn't dating guys and I don't even really interact. And you don't think that glasses would notice that, like she'd been through something like that's why she acts like that. So I'm not talking. I've never said a negative about Bread never in life. Never said nothing negative about bread pretty much no woman like I will inform people of the dishes the facts feel me about this person, but

I will tell you where I went wrong. I won't never say, like, if I dated somebody, I won't be like, oh it was them, I'd be like, this is where I was at in my mind. I don't even talk about that person. So what seems like I'm talking ship is more or less just showing you a mirror that I was like, wait a minute, you don't see this right here. You definitely have to lick yourself in. Man, he said, don't nobody wants your spot? Nobody wants your spot.

I don't listen. Don't nobody so like? So right? You think ladies want to actually be with me? Man, I don't believe that. Yeah, it's ladies that want me. Do I think I really believe that? Man, that ship a fleeing feeling. I'm not saying, cut your motherfucking ship on it off. Man, you can't thank them much. It ain't you think it's a dude broad that won't your spot. I don't nobody want to be up in that motherfucker cooking and cleaning for nobody if they would they be

in a relationship. No, nobody won't your spot. See the reality is they don't they want your spot. People think they want your spot, don't. Nobody wanted to deal with the ship the nigger deal with a nobody deal with a relationship. Come on, man, that ship is fucked up. It is not. It's not you know what, You're gonna find a lot of ship. It's but it's cool, it's nice. It's better. You're not lying. It was rough. It's who

want to be cooking for somebody every day? If you thought it, if another lady looking at you, nigga, you think she could be cooking for some other nigga, She ain't want to cook for your nigga. People who cook cook, So if somebody nine almost wind cook for you and she'd be cooking for somebody already, she let her go, then she don't want She ain't cooking for this nigga and unhappy, and she wants your nigga and cooked folk too.

That ain't hot work. You usually only start cooking for the nigga you fucking with, or the nigga you think you like. You're not cooking for all these niggas. You're not suing the cooking the phone, you'll give your pussy what for? You give? Read your recipe? Now how it sounds I'm saying. It sounds like I'm talking like that's a woman will give you some pussy for They will

cook for you. Brother. That's the truth. Because it's crazy because every week, right after we get off the podcast, like I'll be talking to like the honker or something, and I'd be like, Okay, yeah, so you can't you can't fuck him, or you can't do this or like you know what I'm saying, like no, like why are you I'll just be like why why are you wasting your time? Like for what? So I'd be like, damn, you have gave more pussy everybody you might have gave

pussy too. You wouldn't even kiss you, understand how Like think about so it sound sound saying ship, but this is think about how fucked up we as? Then that too much? But that had happened everybody guys pussy to you, kiss you a damn loud no, no, no, I said it didn't happen too much. You know, I know I'm just saying. I'm saying, for sure, if everybody you knocked down your kiss. No, some people you wouldn't even kiss you.

I ain't kissing her really. Yeah, I don't think I've ever outright saying like I it kiss and then gave him something. But man, I guess they do that. Nine out of ten women I've slept with, I would never kiss. Why would I kiss them? That might she might confuse and really think I like her. That's why you kiss somebody, you probably like them. Okay, that makes sense. Kissing is like intimate, like you really gotta funk with somebody to kiss,

because I was I don't want to kiss everybody. But yeah, so it's sound fucked up, but that's just the reality of it. So again, sometimes you'll be thinking I'm talking. I'm never talking like. I never say something to put women or human beings. Damn. I just try to make sure you understand where you're at now. At times, if you put yourself on the pedestal and I talk, it can make you actually come down the pig. But it's not that this because you was never up there in

the first place that Nigga was lying to you. Drake was lying to you. You actually is a bit right now. I'm not saying you're a bit like, Oh, your whole life, you you'll be doing some bullshit. That's bit ship, so use a bit so drake. Putting you up there lining to you is not making it better. He's not coming through to help you. See, he's actually just saying what you want to hear like sounds like that, and that's never a good nigga. Historically, that's never a good nigga.

It's always usually the worst nigga you'll ever come across in your fucking life. That nigga that'd be waiting, he looking even like I can't wait for that nigga to make that mistake shot like he your friend and y'all keep that nigga around, you can't cap that he'd be trying to judge your whole relationship from the side, waiting for his opportunity to slide in. First off, this is

how I look at it. If that nigga can't make it work for you off a show king, that nigga that's in it, he with you every day and can't make it work because women a lot to you, because they will make you feel like, oh, this nigga just on some bushes like nah, you know, on some bushing you not being honest somewhere, you're not obeying the law, the law, whatever that person think is wonderful. You're not doing. They're just not seeing no never because it ain't it ainybody,

because you can't. You really shouldn't see that. I with no think in the first place. I mean agree, you know, like, should always make a nigga thank you're looking up at him, even when you're looking down. Should always make you think. Should always make a nigga think you're looking up at him even when you're looking down at him. See that's where y'all just fall short. Y'all don't get that one simple thing to make a man's ego spectacular, regardless even

if you control it. Women are smarter than me, hands damn. But y'all spend so much goddamn time trying to prove it or trying to talk to everybody like they stupid. That that's the dumbest shit you do. It never works, you know what I'm saying. Y'all always talk to much like they stupid everybody. Yes you do, yes you do, Yes you do. I bet you every nigger that you And I'm not a mean person, but sometimes the ship that comes out of my mouth because you're smarter. Because

you're smarter than us, that's why. But the part of me is a very smart person also understands they can read the room. And that's where y'all fall short. That y'all the worst at reading the room. Y'all walk in and just be like, now, you're actually horrible at it. I'm pretty good at it now, which means you actually have got closer than how far you was in the first place. He said, you're still not there yet. I'm probably not there yet, but I'm getting away. Because women

will never be great at reading the room. It's not your nature. Like you kind of didn't got consumed believing you were the room. No, that's not. Yes, every every time something happened, because the first thing you said is why did you do this to me? If a nigga cheap, why did you do this to me? That's the problem. He didn't do this to you. He did that to her. Everything about it because about you, because you are the room. I don't just say it's nothing, it's him. But my

question is, like, that's a problem. Example, what's wrong with you? What would be wrong with puss? Nothing is wrong with him. You knew why he did it, So why do y'all ask the crazy ass god god like questions? Y'all's questions that God would ask a nigga like at the pearly gates? Why did you do that? Why are you asking me

that God? You know I did that? Women ask questions because that God will ask you the day you die to decide if you're gonna get in heaven, like he already know the answer to the question asking you to see if like you just gonna like you ask questions too bad? No, you don't. You don't really why you think that nigga cheated? I mean, just give me idea. Let's say, any nigga because he was horny wanted to. Some people just do it because they want to do it. So then why would you ask nigga why did he

do it? You just want to know? No, you don't you know already that's some godship. Oh I just want to know. Know you already know, bro? You know you know I don't know, So why I asked why did that? The first day? Question? Why did you do this? I mean, I gott to revisit this now that you know? So what if she says, why did you do this to us. They didn't do nothing to you or us. He did. She might be asking why you us because she's like, I'm done. These are all rhetorical questions to create more

controversy and problems. No question is ever right. No, the question is that it's not no question, it's right. I'm saying you tend to ask questions that you know gonna create more problems. I guess more talking. I guess. I want to know. Just tell me what I want to know. You know the answer already. M What do you think why would the niggas sleep with somebody else? Already? Right? I mean it's other situations where it could be something else.

But for example, maybe they're not getting any at home. That's not that's not why you cheat. But it's not why you cheat because you're not having sex at home. Okay, good's not um and nigga and and see it is it's gonna beniggas who listen to podcast. But you know it's not. It's not nigging. It's not why you cheat nigga because they that's not. Well, it's an outstanding I'm

being honest, because it's outstanding. You feel so special about yourself when someone to give you some pussy, you really think you are special, You'll be like, damn, she giveting me some pussy, I must be special. It ain't. See the way you be yourself from cheating is you realize that she ain't special giving you no pussy like you're not special. It's just your turn. Once you understand that about women, man, I swear to God, you will have

less problems in life. But if you really think you special because she gave you some pussy like ninety nine point nine percent of men do for me, You're gonna have problems for the rest of your life. I'm not special because this girl want to give me some pussy. She gave everybody some pussy. What about the last twelve niggas? All right special getting lighter and lighter every day. What if it's been thirty niggas, I'm especialist. Thirty niggas that's

not special at all. Feel me like, how special are you? I mean you just a step up from a prostitute at that point prot to just pa that's who dude, because you'll be thinking you special because she gave you some pussy. Ship and charge you or you special? Whatever you think you think you special when it's like you're not special. Bro, Damn you know when you special? You when a woman want to cook for you? See the white we treat pussy. We need to treat a woman

cooking for you. That's what I tell niggas all the time. She cooked for you. No, she don't really funk with you like that where she'll not a funk with a man for real. But okay, so what does that mean If a guy does it, he's trying to get some pussy trying if the guy doesn't cook, if you think want to cook for his old lady, I don't know.

Some people I don't know. I'm asking the question. I'm saying, that's the point when a woman to the merchandise, right in, the merchandise is never the pussy they didn't already get that merchant. That merchandise use gift that keep on giving. But trust me, most women, No, it's sound funked up, but it's real. Most women thirty to forty, they have slept with more men than they've cooked for a lot more men. Yeah, I can't see that you're gonna be at the count on a couple of hands as how

many niggas you cooked for that nick special. You don't sit over the store if they've been in relationships. Oh well no, because they weren't. If they were all the niggas. I don't know think about that. I mean niggas you cooked for, because I was just thinking about the how many niggas you actually cook for in your life. You ain't cooked for that many niggers. It's gonna get real thin. Well, hold, nigga, I'm not gonna be cooking for you. Niggas. Cook niggas,

all the niggas come through. I'm a cook fan, was cooking cod. But that's because very few cooking. But you like me saying like, come through, make you a meal. You really gotta like a nigga. You really got we already done cooks already have my chicken out, nigga. You might have came through and got a plate. But I'm saying he's saying, like you, I'm cooking for you. Come over. I'm gonna come cook. Yeah, yeah, yeah, because yeah, I'm gonna cook. At least at least four times we got cooked.

So but that's just because I like to cook. Yeah, but I'm not saying you cooked in the nigga come to get a plate, which that ain't that's what I'm saying. She got kids exactly, but that's she's saying she hasn't. That don't really count to a flat. He cook for your kids and then you get some of that nigga food that's actually not cool. That's the wrong. You already eat the kids snacks and ship God damn brom. But I'm just saying, women traditionally have slept with more men

than they've cooked for from our communities. That's why the rappers talk the way they talk. It's not there. It's not because they just want to be demeaning to sisters. It's not. It's because their experience. It's too traumatized people trying to make some kind of thing work. That really is tough because for me, they've both been through some ship. So you got women trying to use niggas for everything

they got, and that be nigga's first experience. Some girl that's choosing another nigga or trying to get something from you. That's why Rapp come with the word bitch early on. It ain't because women are these outstanding citizens and nigga's just like y'all. Sound like them. People who will be talking about gangs rapping, like, oh, you know, gangs wrapped ruined. The world's like, not the ship that they're rapping about, that's really happened in the rappers men say bitch right

because they've been through experience with bitches. It ain't like they been with amazing women and they just used the turn bitch like it was just the most amazing woman, like yeah, bitch, yeah, bitch. Good looking out for tuning into the No Sellers podcast. Please do us a favorite, subscribe, rate, comment, and share. This episode was recorded right here on the West coast of the USA and produced ay My Homeboy A King for the Black Effect Podcast Network and I Heart Radio YEP