Confronting A Bully

women have always worked. Black women unless you white and not even know, black women have works his slavery ended. Black women have works in slavery, and slavery ended because they ain't never gave black men enough money, feel me to do anything outside of that. So this ain't nothing new to you. Just somewhere you just decided you want to be a man as well. I don't got nothing to do with what is what is wanting to be a man as well? What is a woman wanting to

be a man in? What is a woman wanting to be like call the shots in the relationship, running the house, all that kind of stuff. That's pretty okay. No, but we have an audience. Also, it was just a smart question question no, because I don't want to I don't

want to be the man. But I am opinionated as far as you're comment where you're like, oh, the bet the perfect place to see a woman, or where you like to see her as watching the clothes, I was just kind of like, Okay, that's the that's where you like her the most, Like I want to see the natural her. I know, I know, I know, I know. Most women in the world are not getting dressed up to go to the laundry mat. They're not going to throw on lashes to go to the laundry. So he's

actually talking about the way she's gonna look. So you think about something, But this, no, this is what we're talking about men and women. See you already was ready to defend it and deflect, defend and deflect, and I'm talking about some simple ship. I want to see exactly who you are because now I see you. Now when I engage, I'm engaging because the person the surface is already cool for me. The surface is already straight in

the fucking laundry map. You's know what I'm saying. But see you thought I was on some whole other ship. You thought you thought she thought I was on something not supposed to be washing and doing it. No, no, no, no, I want to see any laundry, Mac, because I know you're not You're not you're not You're not getting up. You just don't like, you know, dressed up, just chilling. I don't mind dressed up, and I don't want to.

I want to see the normal. I want to see what you're gonna do when when nobody's watching, when you don't give a fun That's what I want to see because that's what's gonna engage, because I already know when you get laced up, I might not know what the funk you look like when you take all that ship off. Who you trying to happen? It's happened in real life where I don't even know who the fucking what he is. Literally, motherfucker told me in life before, hey man, you know me?

And I said no, I do I know you? And they and then they tell me where are you going from this house? This is that? And I was like, oh, ship, yeah, you had too much going on that day and I was faded, But but now you've got too much going on, it's bad news. But mine is that what's wrong with liking to see your old lady watch clothes? I mean, if that's what turns you on, that's what turns you on. But I'm saying that what's wrong with a woman being

barefoot and pregnant? I mean, is something wrong with a man coming home with callis on his hand and pregnant? Okay, great, but you know if we don't want to do that, then they want to be basketball players, they want to be analysis, they want to be mechanics. So is it's

aligned for both sides? Should should me? Should women be justice attracted to niggas that want to do the same, that have a right to because it's it's talked about for men to not actually like if you don't think that's attractive, like me personally, Oprah having money don't mean nothing to me, Like I don't. It don't make me want her. I don't care a rich woman. That's so what who cares? Like? What does that mean? What You're gonna buy me something? I'm your I'm your I'm your girl.

That's how I feel. But what I'm saying to you is, if you feel like a man should be attracted to a woman because let's say we take away all the societal norms and it's pressure. Like if I say, right now on this podcast, and I don't like women who who think working is everything, I want my woman barefoot and pregnant, it would be lashback. But the same lashback be to a man of saying I don't want to work and I just want to take care of the house.

What wants to do that? And we you be attracted to that man the same way you want me to be attracted to you based off of your desires to go out and conquer the world right and go out and successfully make beings of dollars and you know and all that. I don't know what you want to make beings of dollars for. I mean, maybe you want to take care of your family. Maybe you want to provide for your husband. I doubt it, but maybe you do. Okay, I'm not attracted to a man that wants to sit

in the house and take care of the kids. There are women. There's a lot of niggas at home right now that ain't working, that's not doing a motherfucking thing, and they still with them. So there's a lot of women that's okay with there. That's more in spite of them, because of first off, first off, this is no Sillings g L. And this small fucker, my nigga, Pete, I got, I got toxic masculinity. Just so you know, this ship is toxic up in the small is real masculine energy

going on up in here. Ain't no ain't no compromising, no no backbreaking, ain't no buck breaking, none of that. My boy moved, moved. And uh, one of the one of my favorite women I know, Asian right who the Cousins podcast, who kind of made me think about podcasting. But she very much is a feminist. And this conversation ain't even about that. This really is conversations about cowards.

That's what I want to talk about. But I feel like being brave is standing up to women about how y'all constantly keep trying to overdo what the hell y'all got going on. Y'all got everything, and that's not true. There was no man that's respected that is a housewife. You can't tell me one man that is literally a centerpiece of society that's a house man. He's respected and

they show him love. Yet women want to be respected for being whatever they think men or like I said, if I just told you right now, if you say to me, if I say, man, I like my woman barefoot and pregnant, I want my old lady barefoot and pregnant, I'd be frowned upon. But if a man came on the same show and said, man, I'm really good at taking care of the house and take care of kids. I want to cook for my family every day. You

go out to make the money. So that same society that y'all like don't exist, feel me, will frown on him. There's no like glass mop conversation for men like the glass ceiling. So I so starting off this, you know, conversation is about cowards. I'm standing up to you and women. First, your motherfucker's is out of line and you need to check yourself. You can't have it all your way. You can't be us and yourself every motherfucker to have to make a living. You ain't no man just because you

go out of work. And I'm not no woman just because I that the house and clean up. But we can't. We gotta stop preaching this equality because you don't want no man that's equal to you, and you don't want to be equal to no man, So I wish y'all stop that. You don't want a man equal to you, Jesus, you want to prop him up on the level to make him feel like he's stronger and he can go out and deal with the presses of the world. You

don't want no man that's equal to you. What if a man walk up on your faith, he tells you take your own faith? Are you you got that? I respect? I think what got lost in that whole woman's independent push. We got lost in that whole independence woman's pushes. You were fighting for equal pay for doing the same jobs, not to be equal to a man, And that's what it became. Or I'm equal to a man. No, you're not. Who said who is equal to a man? Or? That's

the problem. When you use general terms like equality instead of focusing on equal pay, you have made these men soft. A men's batas. They full of ship. They cowered, they're scared of y'all. They won't tell you what they think, none of that. They are fearful. Niggas is worried about being castled. All of women coming together, Now, I beat all the motherfucker's up. You know what Claricia sells too.

She is a professional boxing with major hands. Congratulations to her because she just did something that no fighter and the hittory of fighting. As ever, I still beat her up. She's a boxer. She's the baddest box of the everlas of gloves period me and or woman. Yeah, she cold. I tip her up, goddamnit. In a real fight, not put the body gloves. She had probably beat the dogs

out of me. But in a real fight, I maler. Yeah, we can grab us all the type of other ship we can do, but let me get to the point because I got lost bringing back Man, bringing on back Man. So I've seen Oh, shout out to King King, back in the house, Final was Gone, Happy Birthday, bit dog may Ye, Prince Bad, Prince Bagy, failure, I've seen Judas in the Messiah. I haven't seen that yet. So it's a movie that chronicles um the rise and death of

of from Chicago, Black Panthers, Chicago. He was a cold brother. He was united the streets in the in the movement, Panther movement, you know, And it chronicles his rise from the eyes of the person who was used to take the movement down Okay, you know what I'm saying. Um,

it was a brother who was uh stealing cars. He was acting like he was a Federal agent, going to bars and saying that somebody's car was stolen, and he would come in and handcuff him and take him out and and then get the keys of their car and drive off in their car. And he got caught on one of the on one of the moves, and uh, the Fed used him to infiltrate the Chicago Black Panthers.

That's how much of a threat Fred Hampton was that they used somebody to infiltrate the Chicago Black Panthers because they felt he could unite the streets, so they used him to infiltrate the Black Panthers. He moved up into the ranks, providing all information to you know, get him shotting all kind of ships, and he end up poison in Fred Hampton and it kind of left him in a vulnerable situation to where the police, the Chicago p D came in and murdered him and straight murdered them.

Right like the city end up being civically liable. I mean, they shoot the city here for like two million or something. So we're close to that. So a nigg of life is two millions, right, and George Floyd family just got twenty seven. So I think for happing, I think they wanted seventy million and something and end up settling for

a long time. So I wanted to talk about cowards like that that brother right there in that situation, you know what I'm saying, and like a rat, like like like Danny Hernandez, the Rapper, the little mess kid from New York, No Rapper, the little snitch. I didn't know that was his name, No nyd catch this dude. He's he's not nobody that this dude is. But Little Daddy told him. What he's doing to the world is he's

he's parading around like he was brave. And it's like so he's telling everybody, Hey, you know this person is you know, um, oh, well, you know what was I supposed to do? Was I supposed to go down for a bunch of people that did me wrong? Right? And the problem with Little Danny situation is he wasn't supposed to go down for other people, Like he wasn't charged for what they did. His charges was for what he did. He put hits out on rappers. Um, he did all

of these things to these people. And when the police said, hey, let me take you to jail for your crimes. But these people are talking about doing something to you, we have charges on them too. So if you want to avoid your crimes and those penalties, just tell them you can just inform us on their part in the crimes that you orchestrated as well. Yeah he did. Real, that's coward ship. Okay, your coward, we'll use coward. You know what I'm saying. It's yeah, it's all good coward ship.

And and that's my point where people so so there's no such thing. It's bravery and absence of fear. So like standing up to women in today's time, it's very brave because women have enough power today to crush you. Wow. Right, it's a movement, me too movement. It's a lot of women, a lot of power and women where they could crush you. So when I step out and I say what I'm saying, I understand that this is a fear Like, Okay, these people can come together and blah blah blah, but this

is crap. One thing that does about being a crimp that I'll honestly talk about my experience. It taught me how to be okay with things against me. They stacked against them, It's okay. So at the same time cripp and called me. It taught me courage. Didn't give me somebody to call when something went wrong. My first situation when I moved to Lakewood and and and the ages can't busting that it's a tripping and ship. I called my home and like they get your gun to get

the shooting by driving way over there. So I want to thank my hommies for that. Feel me. My mom taught me about not snitching. That's courage in the first day, Like if you're gonna do a crime, be held accountable for your own crimes. But you got to see the movie Dog, and it's today when such a time of people being a coward, that's like what's in Wow, that's what's saying. Point where men are scared to stand up to women totally me and won't stand up to women.

Jesus Christ. I'll never forget. I had a conversation I did the breakfast club right and I was talking to Angeli Angeli. It was probably the second time it was right around the Rey right situation Angie was like glasses. I was like, well, I understand how this man and this woman could get into a fight because sometime I get drunk and it's my fun trying me for me. I'll mix her ass up, he said. She said, I can't believe you said that. G would you hit the woman?

I will slap the dog ship out of a woman. I believe. I truly ain't had to hit no woman because every woman, no, I will slap the dog because that's another thing. It's like I think we have mentioned before, women live in a universe with no consequences. And that's

why I wanted you here. That's why I wanted That's why I wanted you here really not only to get you back into the podcast of Space because you're part of my inspiration, but because I wanted you to be able to speak for the for the bully, for the bullying that women is doing today, because today women are

truly bullying men. And I wanted to make sure because this conversation is about cowards and Mook saying this, are you really brave or are you at this point now where they're like women as a movement, Are you at a point knowing that nobody can do anything to you no matter what you do. Like right now, if a woman is punching a man to the ground, beat him up, if he hits her one time and she knocks her down, people are gonna be mad at that man. So tell

her move. What you said about women, Well, I said a lot of ship about him. But uh, I'll just go on the accountability ship. You know, at the end of the day, these bitches is moving around this motherfucking country in the world and not having to be accountable for the ship they do. They get to they move riverdently like kids. They kind of like kids. They just get to do whatever they whatever the funk they want. Uh, nobody has to Nobody reprimands them for the ship they do.

And at the end of the day, that's really illegal. In my brain, it is illegal. It shouldn't happen. So what I what I would like to know? Go ahead before you say that, though, Do you really believe that women don't have any sense of accountability at this point? I don't believe that. No. Oh yeah, I need to here. What is okay? When is it okay for a man to hit a woman? Okay, So I have a son and I definitely don't think that men should hit when stop right there, stop right there. I didn't ask you

shouldn't man be able to hit women? I ask you, when is it okay? When can a man? When is it okay for a man to hit a woman? M okay? So I think that if a woman is hitting on a man, I think that she needs to understand that you're trying to talk around this one. Don't do that. It's a question because as an interviewer, Yeah, because we're going to stay focused. Well, we're not gonna do is. We're not gonna politic out of this. You're not gonna Joe Biden me, not gonna money back Joe me. You

feel you're not gonna Donald Trump me. It's always you're not going to do any of that. So when I asked you a question, because this goes to the sense of accountability, when is it okay for a man to hit a woman? And if you think there's never a reason to say, there is never a reason. I think if a woman hits a man, I think that it's okay for a man to hit a woman. That's the first time in life I've ever heard that. It took a lot of that means. So I didn't take a

lot of thought. It was just like, Okay, I don't I feel like men are stronger, and I mean that we're different, We're not. Let me ask us a couple of too little, small, nuanced follow ups. Do you think, I don't know how well? Have you ever hit a man? I have? Did you do so because you thought that on sheer force of collision that you were going to come out on top, or because you thought that you were not going to be hit back? I swung on

him out of pure frustration. That's a subconscious thing. It was just that's something that I think women can't even describe. I think subconsciously, she believed, since she was taught since a little kid that men don't hit women back, that she can hit a man. She was not never it exactly.

So she wasn't going to get hit back. She wasn't going to get hit back, which speaks to which speaks to you didn't think you're to hit back, because there's not a scenario in the world, no matter how emotional I get, where I would go up and hit a man without assuming there are is going to be more than simply man. At that time, I'm not thinking about if he's going to hit me back, because you don't

think it's going to happen. No, because I'm just like, I'm pissed, and so I'm I'm ready if if at that point when I was at that point when I hit him, I was ready to just fuck it, take me out, let's do we gotta do? Like, that's that's what I was thinking. I don't even want to know what you're thinking, like, he's not gonna hit me. No, I'm preparing, Like what are we doing? Do you prepare to get beat up? That's what it sounds like. I know I'm gonna lose. Yeah, I'm frustrated. That was That

was the whole in my head. I'm like, yeah, you don't even know what. You don't even want to know what. That's all I wanted. That was that last part. I kind of figured like if I wanted crazy enough, he was gonna be like, you know what you actually wanted it. If I attacked Muke, I would not expect him to not rough me up that much. I would expect it to be the best man wins, and this might go for a very long time until I don't know how to go he might kill me. He might kill me.

I just don't know. It was at that point where it was like, you know what, I'm gonna just I'm gonna just um take my chances. Fuck it, Like, what chances did you have? Have you ever want to fight with a guy? No? So what chances did you have? I mean a chance that he ain't gonna you know, oh, that he may not hit you, not that he won't hit because I know you didn't think for yourself you had a chance to win the fight. I wasn't even

thinking about winning the fight. That's a universe with no consequences. That's a verse because it's not like you weren't thinking about winning. You weren't thinking about losing. You know why you never robbed the bank because you don't want to go to jail. You know, you know that ship is bullying to man. You provoked me, and I can't do ship to you. And then I go past that threshold where I'm not thinking because you did something to me, you might call the police on me because women doing that.

You're gonna do that, you know what I mean? You might want to call your brother. You You're gonna put me in a position where I'm going way further than I wanted to go because, like he said, I can look at any man in here. It's like, yo, it's gonna be a problem if I do this. But me hitting you was going for the further than what I wanted to do. But you kept provoking, you kept doing the things that was like at this point, I'm like, okay, you need to walk away like he he needs. So

this is the bullying woman the man. But the man always have to make the right decision in these situations. So we can't be emotional. Man, you can be emotional towards me, and I still have to be like, but if I'm telling you to leave, so no, it's not just ill. So I gotta do what you're telling. No matter what the situation, it always come back to being a man's fault, even if I cheated on you, Right, you have an option to leave, You have an option not to yell or throw some ship at me. You

have all these options. So you make an emotional decision that it's gonna lead me to no matter what idea room. Now I'm defending myself. Now I'm in a position where all these other things are gonna happen that did really need to happen. And that's what we're talking about, the bullying because you know that you know that if my big guys grabs you, it does anything. You've shifted the power to our knew the cheating't was gonna hurt me,

So leave me, leave me, okay. But in the interim of that argument, I mean, what's going on, m is going on? What is the argument happening? For the argument happen?

Are you arguing at that point? So I gave her the right to do everything that was doing because she figured out she wasn't a special upset and she has to defend her own fucking honor at the point at the fact that she has she in her brain she has wasted her time with a nigga that have shown her that she wasn't especial as the funk she thought she was. So now since I've done all this, I have to trip because if I don't trip, something's wrong with me. And you know, see that's the difference with me.

The problem that I get is they tell me that I don't give a fuck because I don't. You want to go and do what you need to do, by good bye. That that situation where where I swung it didn't have anything to do with cheating or anything like that, exactly saying you don't give a bull. We got we gotta know something. What happened? Why did you? Why did you start a fight with somebody you know that couldn't fight you back? Why were you being a bully? So?

Um this had to do it was I was sexually frustrated. Um hm, I was sexually frustrated. So let me get this right to me. Just it wasn't It wasn't during like during intersext. What happened was is that it was some type of connection. It was off like we weren't having sex. We weren't having sex. There was just like a disconnected Yeah it's a mother. That's not true. That's

not true. I think that I realized about all of that is when you first start having sex, right outside of the concept of procreation, it's really for men, I think it's more of a conquest of like I conquered you, and for women it's a it's a sense of intimacy because I think women crave intimacy and I think men, you know, we we crave conquests, right, which is to conquer but when you already you can't reconquer something that

you conquered daily, right if that makes sense. So, like I think that's what it is, right, So I think for y'all, it's intimacy. So what happens is the girl with different colored hair. That's what they'd be thinking. They tell you that too. They'd be like, I could be another woman, if you want another woman, I could be whoever you want to be. No, you kick because that thing is the same thing, and it was never about the thing though you feel me like it's more to it,

you know what I'm saying. But I say that to say intimacy. So when you get into a relationship with somebody, there are so many more intimate moments, intimacy being closeness, Like like a level of closeness you share with this person doesn't have to always be sex. But so so when you're in a situation with somebody who's intimate with you consistently and then it stops, it don't always mean a man is cheating, like it means also that he

you're supplying you. Guys are have an intimate prom example, right, I add, for every man in this room, men they land up watching TV with no woman he don't like you, Remember this, This is how serious this. I'm not laying up watching no movie with you if I don't like you. That's an intimate time. I'm not doing nothing that will get us closer outside of sex if I don't like you. So think about the guys who just knocked you down

versus the guys that got close to you. The ones that just knock you down, they weren't trying to get close to you, but the one who actually did things that provided closeness watching TVs with you, ask you questions about your kids, your family. That person wants to just say, well, I'm gonna have to probably sit through this movie to have sex for this woman. Nobody's gonna sit through the movie like no man is just I'll say this much.

If I come through and you want to watch a movie, and I'm assuming I'm coming through for another reason, and you and all that happens is a movie, that is certainly the last time you've ever heard from me, exactly. So, So what I'm saying is so that person, right, that person could you guys could be having a lot more intimate moments And and two women's I blame men and

women for this. But there's a false sense of intimacy with sex in two thousand, you know, in our times, because everybody just fucking no, nobody trying to get close. You're just knocking them down, and that just provides a false into intimacy. So then we only connect intimacy with sex. But then it's more like land up watching TV with your girl, um talking to her, laughing and making a joke with her. No, no, no, no, no, that was very big. That's what I was about. A dude wanted

to have a conversation. If I want to hear what you have to say, feel me that special. That's big because men are if the conquest is the desire, even during that time, you'll be able to start telling. You'll be able to tell because they're gonna focus on the conquest, like let me conquer this. But if if somebody is intimate with you consistently feel me, a change is the dynamics.

But then this goes back to the point I was saying as far as women wanting to be in a relationship and date, but it's it's a newness that makes dating work right, It's just an intrigue. I have no idea who this person is. So getting to know this person is what the dating process is all about. Once you have a good idea of who this person is, why the hell, why the funk are you dating? And y'all don't put those two together because that was never why you were dating in the first place. You were

never dating to get to know the man. You already felt like you knew him, and now you're just confirming things. That's why you wanted to keep going even once you're inner relationship. Yeah, what are you talking about, like going out going on dates? Just a date? Yeah, we should go on dates when we're in a relationship. Focus not listen, run this by your games because you just got this blind and you have a blind desire that don't really

make sense. Men, because it's two people dates, man and a woman, so you have to care about one person paying. It's seventy five percent because we pay. So we're going on a date to get to know you. Okay, So once we've decided to go into relationship, we feel as if we have an idea of who you are, like we know you. So when you're saying we should keep going on dates, notice why we're going on dates I'm done now, I know you see you see women don't

get that. Women don't get that. That's a very key component. Well that's the so then you don't have to call it a day. That's just being intimate. But we're going somewhere for sure. Why what do you mean? Why? Because because we're not sitting in the house and we're going to spend time together, we're going out. Why I can spend time in the living room. I want to go out, So we're going out. If you ask somebody, you'll get

the real answer. Because you want to go out. So she already if she already answered up, because I want to go out? And why do you want to go out? She doesn't even know, she doesn't know. Yes, I want to go out because I want to spend time with you out the house. Why because I like spending time with you. But you can spend time with him in the house. But that he does. But you don't give a funk about that part of you don't give You only care about your temper. Your temperacent is more important

than this fucking ninety and why not? So unless you be honestly this is the problem for y'all. You don't be honest. And if you be honest, even as bad as you feel like you would look as a bully, it's okay because you can get to the root of why you bullying me in because you are why. You'll start realizing you like to go out. Once you realize why you like to go out, it will make you reassess everything. Because I want to go out? Why because I like it? I want to go what a restaurant?

Some money, spend some of his money. It's not just spending his money. It's about going out. It's a different it's a different scenery. It's like, okay, we're going on a date. Like we're always I don't want to just always be in the house, Like why are we doing that? We could chance and the scenery is does it speak to a lack of common interest, objective goals, projects, whatever?

That the only way that the two that you and whoever can engage is on some little many excursion rather than being like, hey, we're home, we've got some time. We were trying to look into X, so let's go spend some time doing a you know, deep dive into our dream to go get us a second vacation house and or whatever. It is else what we're doing instead of doing that for five hours while you're cooked together and explore whatever it is that you have a connection together.

But you have to go do that because there is not that connection together. No, that that is awesome. I do want to spend time with you in the house. I do want to cook, I do want to explore other things outside of the house. But we definitely need to go on dates, like we should go focus on focus on you're not exploring anything, why you're okay? So if I've never been to Jamaica and now we're going

to Jamaica, now we're gonna go experience Jamaica together. That's why what I want to take a girl to Jamaica. What do you mean why wouldn't you the Reas because it has Jamaican women all over it? Why do you vote it so predating? Right? Let's say single, why do you go to a club? Because just to tell you why you like to go out to dance? You could dance at home. That next one better one? Really to go to hear music music? Like there we go? You know to dress upwhere starting there? So you dress up

so other people can see you. Now, if you don't be honest, which is what the lie you keep trying not to say about going I would amend and everything we could actually really get them with. That's wrong with them say you want everybody to see I want other people to see us. That's not it, though, Is it not part of it? It's not. No, it's not a part of it. It's not part of it. It's not wanna dance, but you can dance people. You play music at home, you can dance at home. You can get

dress at home. You can eat that especially a sofa, and you can eat at home, eat at home, ship that you know you can cook good. We're standing up to the food from the place you want to go home back home. Well, I mean we've been in the whole pandemic, so that's what's been going on. We've been getting food and going back. And I'm saying I'm saying before, I'm saying before a virus and the government decided that you needed to stay home. I'm asking you, why do

you like going outside? Because I don't want to stay inside. Why not I like going out? Why I want to get dressed? I want to be cute. I want you can get dress and beat you and go sitting that living. You could do that with your men at home. So what use I'm entertaining myself? It's entertainment, That's why it's entertainment. Why how is it entertaining? That doesn't even make sense. It's entertaining that don't even make sense. Who's entertaining you

when you go? It's entertainments. When we go out, we're entertaining each other. Were you can entertain each other at home? But we're not at home. I'm asking you why? What do you mean? Why because I want to go? Why do you want to go? When I want to eat? It's because I want to fulfill a hunger. When I drink water is to fulfill a thirst. Why do you want to go out? Sure, I'm hungry and I want to go. You can make food and eat what you're man at home. So you're lying and you're avoiding the

answer on purpose. What is the answer? You don't want to tell me, So I'm not gonna my thing is because I want to go out to tell me some other things? You just want to do, just based off why you have no idea? Why you want to do? What? Fiction? What? It's a fair question. I'm not asking you anything. Yeah, I'm not asking you something crazy. And the only reason you're struggling is because you're just you don't want to be honest. And I understand what comes with being honest.

What comes with being honest is a look in the mirror. And that's a tough thing. That's a tough thing, but you gotta be honest with yourself. The one thing I respected about Aisha Curry is she's being honest with herself. She's openly that everything that y'all think in y'all brain. I do want attention from other men. I do want other men to see what my man has. You can't say it here. That's what I was gonna ask her, But she's not gonna say it because because you know

how scum baggage it sounds. Yeah, when you go out with you, dude, every other dude we see you every day, we know what we know you find, and you want us to go out there so everybody else can see you find because somebody else, that's what it is. You got dressed up so so and you probably some of these women hope that it makes me feel a certain way too, Like, oh, if he feels this, he might want me even more. That's a qualifying question. Do you care how your man presents himself when the two of

you go out? Yes, okay, yes, yeah, showing out? I mean I want them to look good, of course. I mean, I mean I think he looks good with whatever. But but the rest of the restaurant does not. I don't care about the rest of the restaurant. But do you think he looks good with whatever? I wouldn't care if he like if if he if it was just us in the restaurant, it doesn't matter. Like that's you that could beat and we do hang out at home something that's not that's kind of like, And I'm asking you

why not? What what's your fear of monotony? What's your fear of consistency? Like, what's what's your desire to change things up? I don't know. I just like I I don't want to do the same thing all the time. If you were married, would you let your man have three sums? Would you let your man sleep with other women? Like? How how much do you want him to be consistent when it's to your benefit? Or the things that you can control? These an honest questions. I'm not asking nothing crazy,

I'm not. I'm asking because I feel like I keep telling you. I consistently have realized women are bullying men today. Men are cowards today. They don't ask the hard questions. They don't and you know they don't. You can run over a man. And what I'm saying is and you know it's true. The one thing about me is I'm not gonna black how women say they don't ask questions that they don't really answer to a lot of men don't either, especially not this. So I know why you

want to go out? Why do I want to go out? That's you. That's for you to answer. You tell me why do I want to go out? I'm not gonna get into it. You have to answer it. And you know you didn't. You didn't say, you just said because I want to. I want to go out. I want to get dressed because of my walls. Why because it's there and I can't. So why not? That's not an answer? Why not that you hate you? So I don't. I'm just trying to help. I'm just trying to figure out

where you don't like to. Okay, so why do you? So? Why do you go out with your friends? Ask him? Why I'll forced to tell the truth. I want to be with my niggers. I want to see bitches go and spend focus on what he just said. Listen that he finish because he taking time to get to the real answer. Yeah, we all have the real answer locked and loaded, but he's being po I want to see him and we respect that. Yeah, I mean yeah, we we we we we appreciate him easing into it. He

just slid into the puss. He gotta get it wet first. Yeah, that's the ultimate. But he's gonna give you every answer leading into the to the real answer to get every last man goes out looking for some to bus bros. Yeah, and so that's why y'all don't want your dude going out, because you know that like by itself with his own and ain't none of us out for nothing different. Ain't none of us out to go listen to music or fucking dance. None of us there to listen to music,

to dance or get dressed. There do you receive attention from other None of us go out to dance, listen to music, or get dressed or drink shitty drinks. So the reasons you're saying you go out and the reasons we're saying we're going out. There's a fundamental difference if you are not taken into account where you're going. If you're going swimming, be aware if you're swimming the shark tank. So I'm asking you again, why do you like going out?

And you won't give me the answer because the reality is what she likes the feeling a piranhas biting at the me even though they can't have it. She likes that feeling, and she can't say that going out by myself or with my men, you can't even say that. You see what I like. What I like and what he likes, and what mook like and whats p like and what King like is the same in a relationship

or the relationship. You don't become somebody else different once you say you like somebody and y'all sort of relationship. Why are you like going out before? It's the same reason you're like going out now. So y'all try to act like there's two different dimensions. You're going to another realm. I know to turn this off, you don't. The reason you like going out single is the same reason you're like going out in relationships. I want to point and be involved in all this ship that's out there. So

stop front like it's a different person. Women kill me with that, y'all kill me when you think you get these dudes who busting a lot of brails, you think they feel be somebody different, that's who they is. They're not doing this by pressure. They like this person. So when that person kills himself to be with you, listen

what he said. When that person is what when he kills what he likes, when he kills what he likes, killed his own motherfucking person for you, for you, you're serious, when he kills who he is, you're saying, this is why he liked going out. Ain't no niggative history of niggative ever went out to say, I want to hear music. Dad's with my friends. Boy, he ever said, he wearing everything to make sure he feel to get a girl. That's what that best. A man is gonna go because

it's the homely birthday. He might not want to go because it's his birthday and it might be some holes there. Yeah, and a man will buy a woman drinks to funk up her judgment and increase his odds. Yeah, yeah, I need you to make bad decisions and you guys, yeah, I'm not paying for better judgment, doesn't mean that. But see, this is what you don't understand. Is that cheating? What you mean accepting attention from other men when you go out?

If someone buys a drink, accepting if I take it to pau that on a car and then just bounce with the car on the deposit, would you say that's ethical? Just no, you gotta talk like this. This is what they gotta understand because they don't understand it any other way. Because any other way she would have had a comeback. I don't know if she's heard the word before. Women don't know ethical. Women are the bullies of today's time,

and we're tired of you guys avoiding. No longer will I allow masculinity to be a coward in front of me, No longer. If you are not willing to ask your woman, why bro you a coward? This guy's like Patrick crip Henry. If you not look second, Wow, Look, we know why we like to go out, and we'll all tell you openly, proudly. You can't tell us. None of us in this room said we like to go out because we're just like going out. You don't even go out. I used to go out for a living for a living, and you

know why I don't like to go out. You know one thing about me that's the honest to god truth. I'm not always trying to bustle woman. I don't need no more headaches in my life. I never liked the headaches that they provide. It ain't never just been simple, so always complicated. See, I don't see the joy that other men seeing women. Damn are you suggesting that I don't see I see a complicated person who's not quite

sure who they are. And at that point, I'm going to have to be okay with joining the journey of her finding her. That's how I see it. That means I must be willing to hold the flashlight while this crazy motherfucker's trying to figure out who she is. That is a lot, you know, That's what the relationship is. A relationship is a man holding a flashlight with his woman, trying to let her figure out who she is. He's gonna make me cry at the same time, right at

the same time we already got our own problems. Wow, You're about to make me sputter, tear