¶ Intro / Opening
Welcome back to my Spoonie Sisters , and today oh , I'm excited about this we are bringing Shira Haid back with
¶ Welcome to Lemon or Lime
Lemon or Lime for part two . Hello , Shira , Jen hi , Hi . And Linnea , the co-host , is back as well . We have so much great stuff to talk about , so I'm just going to dive right in Now . Recently , you launched Lemon or Lime , which I love the name , and when people get to see the video version of this , they get to see your backdrop , which is amazing .
I love it . It's so cute , it's so cute , thank you , Can you tell us what inspired you to start this vlog and what has the response been like since launching in January ?
Yeah . So once I was finally diagnosed which took three years to get diagnosed , I would you know . Whenever I went to a doctor's office or my parents had to get together , I would start telling people like this is what I have and this is what I'm being treated for .
And what I kept finding over and over again was that people were really curious and they had a lot of questions and generally everyone was pretty interested in the topic . So when I would be talking to a nurse or I'd be talking to one of my parents' friends or something , whenever the conversation ended I always felt like there was more .
I wish that I had more time to tell them everything that I thought they should know . And I kept thinking if only I had like a website or something that I could say here if you want to learn more , go to my website .
So Lemon or Lime started as a website and I was working on it for two years and then finally , a friend of mine was like what are you doing with a website ? Just put yourself up on YouTube and you're done . And I was like , yeah , that would be easier . So that's how Lemon or Lime ended up a YouTube thing . I'm just launching the Instagram account .
Now there's been a lot of that and I'm really glad because this isn't just for people with tick-borne illnesses , this is for everyone . I've had a couple people say to me you know , I would love to share your video , but I don't know anyone with Lyme disease .
I always say it's better to learn some of these things before you get sick and to prevent getting sick , because understanding about ticks , understanding their habits , where you can find them , those sorts of things that will keep you and your family safe from getting one of these awful diseases . So this , the channel and everything is really for everyone .
You know I love that . That . It is for everybody , because so many of us chronic illness people like to be out hiking and it's so important even for us to be aware of the tick-borne diseases because it could make our already current chronic illnesses worse . So I love that you're getting that information out there .
Yes , and I agree with that , because even if we don't see the ticks , it doesn't mean they're not there . Oh my God . Yeah , I mean , I grew up in Idaho . I now live in Washington . They're there . Just because I have had the luck of not actually seeing one doesn't mean they're not there , it doesn't mean I don't need to put in precautions .
So that's something we all need to be educated on .
Even in Arizona . When we say we're in Arizona , you think desert , right , we are campers ,
¶ The Mission Behind Lemon or Lime
we are hunters , we are in the forest , there are ticks . We are doing checks all the time because it doesn't matter Wherever they can breed , they will breed , and Arizona included . People don't realize that .
Yeah , I'm so glad you mentioned that . I actually have a couple of friends in Arizona and one of them always says to me you got to come , you got to come , move to Arizona . There's no ticks here , but there are .
There are . Maybe not in Phoenix , where it's 150 degrees in the summer . Right , there are ticks here in the higher elevations . It's not yeah I get annoyed with people you might have to do with thinking arizona is just desert , because we actually have different climates and so we do have ticks , flagstaff , sedona so yeah , what are ?
What are your goals for lemon or lime and how do you hope it will impact the chronic illness community ?
Really hope to be a place where people can go to get answers , to get complex concepts explained and broken down , because there's a lot of , a lot of different topics within the tick-borne disease umbrella .
You know , if I imagine how I was when I was first researching all of this stuff , if you Google what is Lyme disease or what is Babesia or what is Ehrlichiosis , you're going to get millions and millions of answers and it's going to be difficult to weed out what is accurate and what is not .
And there's a lot of information that's out there that even from agencies like the CDC and the NIH that are outdated . You know CDC is still saying that a tick needs to be attached 36 to 48 hours for you to get sick and that's not true . That's not true at all . It can be a couple hours . Something like Powassan virus can be transmitted in 15 minutes .
So the fact that the CDC says , oh , it has to be attached for 36 to 48 hours , that's not true . It really the clock starts ticking once the tick attaches and the tick can attach pretty quickly if it wants . Let's say you are hiking or something .
A lot of times they say stay in the middle of the trail , don't rub up against the grass and the foliage on the side , that's true . But even if you're in your backyard or your front yard gardening , they can be there too .
One of the main vectors for or , I'm sorry , hosts for Lyme disease and a lot of these other illnesses are white-footed mice , and mice tend to be around our house because they're attracted to garbage and food and things like that . Even if you're not in a wooded area and you're in a subdivision or something , there can still be ticks in your yard .
I know it's creepy , it's super creepy . Even after all this time , ticks still gross me out . They do . But we have intentionally left our backyard kind of blank . I would love a beautiful garden , but it's just . I always think about my dog off leash and running about and she may put her face in a bush trying to find a ball or something like that .
So we have left our backyard blank , just so that ticks don't have a place to hang out and wait for either me or my dog to brush by , because that's what they do . They can wait , you know , and they do this thing called questing Like .
Think of a little kid who is putting their arms up asking to be picked up like that Ticks do that on the very tip of a blade of grass , like that's all it takes wood just to de-stress . And I said to him I said you better watch it , because ticks like to hang out in wood piles , it's good shelter for them , and he kind of like , eh , whatever .
But these are things that are important to know so that you
¶ Tick Facts and Prevention Myths
can avoid these areas .
Just by listening to you , I have now given myself more and more permission to no longer mow my yard . There we go . Yep , this has been my task for I don't know how many years . Ever since Linnea met me , I've always been the one to mow the lawn . My husband sometimes works long hours . I thought it was exercise . He's now doing it .
I think I'm going to leave it that way Because I've got enough health concerns . I think I'm going to leave it that way Because you know I've got enough health concerns . I don't need to add to the list .
Yeah Well you know what Cutting your lawn regularly actually helps to keep your property clear of ticks ?
Okay Well , we do one twice a week .
So that's good to know , that's amazing . Then that's amazing . Then , like I don't know about you , but my dog , she's always rolling in the grass and stuff , but if the grass hasn't been mowed in a while , you know , freak out Like don't roll , don't roll .
Well , and that's why we don't let our cats outside . We have indoor cats , because he's just like you know what . There are way too many things these cats can get , you know . Let's just keep them healthy . They're staying inside the house . Right , right , and it was enough for our dogs .
We have right , yeah , because we , we , where we live , is just rock so we have so we but we have pine trees still . We still have to be careful of the trees and on the pines , even though our backyard is safe , we still have pine trees in the area . Yep , yep , we have one pine tree too .
Yeah , yeah , the ticks will kind of grab onto just about anything . So , and when they are baby ticks , which , if to give you a frame of reference , it's like one poppy seed or a half a poppy seed , that's the size of them . So you really , when you if you think , oh , I'll see it , I'll see it if it ever gets on me , you probably won't .
And another thing that I really should mention is a lot of people have heard if you get bit by a tick you're going to get a bullseye rash . It's important for everyone to realize that only 20 to 30% of people with Lyme get one of these rashes . So that means 70 to 80% of people never got one , never get a rash .
And that's one of the reasons why it takes a while to diagnose , because if the rash doesn't show up on somebody , you're kind of guessing .
Yeah , and my guess is that you never noticed anything .
There was never a rash for me , and that was both times . And , by the way , both times cats were involved and when it comes to some diseases other than Lyme disease , there are other blood sucking vectors like fleas or lice that can transmit many of these diseases .
I'm giving you the creeps . I just hate bugs in general , and so the more we talk about this , I'm just like , oh , this is why I hate them , I just do .
I know , and if any of your listeners I'm over here going yep , yep , I'm good , I know , and if any of your listeners enjoy caviar , I would suggest to not Google what tick eggs look like . If you like caviar , don't do it , because they look like caviar .
Yeah , I'm so grossed out right now , yeah .
I know I wasn't eating caviar anyways , I'm really not eating caviar now . Yeah , I know I wasn't eating caviar anyways , I'm really not eating caviar now . There's my real excuse for never touching it .
Well , I don't go out of my way for it , but there have been events where they sprinkle it on on some kind of thing that they're walking around with . You know , they're walking around and they're giving you all these things and you're like , oh , I'm one of those people , all these things . And you're like , oh , I'm one of those people .
I'm like I'll try everything once .
I guess Not me , and now , I just ruined it for you .
Close my eyes , it's not there , right , my husband struggles to get me to try things .
That's going to be one of the things I will never try , never try , yeah , yeah , right . So a couple other things about tics , though , because I think it is important for everyone to know a little bit about ticks , because the more you know about them , the better you can protect yourself from them .
One thing that I think everyone experiences now is less harsh winters .
Certainly , in the Midwest here , we haven't had winters kind of like the ones that we had when I was a kid Like I remember it being freezing for weeks and weeks and weeks on end , but it doesn't do that anymore , and one of the consequences of that is that when the temperature goes above freezing , ticks come out and they're active again .
So they're still around . They're still around from previous seasons .
And now I'm thinking of all the people out there hunting linea .
Yep , sorry , okay so I will have . I will tell you are . We have a very certain way we dress when we hunt and how do you ? Dress reasons . Well , other than it being camel and really heavy , warm , my overalls have elastic that go around my boot so nothing can come up into my pant leg .
Okay .
Okay , we wear layers of socks , then we have layers of other stuff under , but our main pants that go over all have elastic where it goes around our ankles , around our boots , because our boots come up over our ankles . That way nothing can get up in there . It's like our sleeves are elastic around here and then they velcro .
That's not only to keep our gloves in our sleeves for warmth ,
¶ Protecting Yourself from Ticks
it also protects anything from crawling , because I sat in a blind last year for my elk hunt . So I'm sitting in woods covered by wood and leaves and everything , and I'm sitting on the ground on a heated thing . It heats up when you sit on it . It's a hunting thing . It's really cool .
I really should show it for chronic illness people because it heats up as you're sitting on it . So in the forest , that's what I said . But there's still chances of tick , because there was a few days of . It was really nice , it was in the 70s , guess what . Everybody's out , everybody's riding .
Those ticks are now really , really moving and they're on the deer , they're on the elk . So we're very careful . I will tell you , none of our elk have had ticks on them when we Okay , I would recommend we're very cautious , we spray , but I don't think hunters and hikers understand the importance of how they dress when they go do that kind of stuff .
Yes , I mean , I know that you're in camel , but is it if you're in darker colors you're less likely to see something if it does crawl on you ?
and you know , even if you're you want to shake up , we will shake off like okay normally it's like 30 below . It feels like up there , so it's cold . This year it was warm , so we were more cautious about the bugs and the snakes and all the fun critters that come out when it's warm . So normally in hunting season , it's cold .
And hopefully you're helping each other . You know , checking each other , brushing each other off and stuff .
Yes , yeah .
Yes .
It's just important . Yeah , definitely , tick checks for other people , tick checking your dog , if you have a hunting dog with you .
One thing that I like to use during the summer last summer I went to a couple concerts where I was going to be outside with a picnic blanket and all of the clothes that I plan on wearing in something called permethrin , so it is a tick repellent . So I treat all of the clothes socks , jeans , sweater , everything in this permethrin .
And then I get there's this . It's almost kind of like a lotion called Picardin and that's safe to put on your skin . So those are things that I use and those are specific to ticks of actual tick repellents . Yeah , absolutely , absolutely . And I also recommend you absolutely you can drench it . Yes , it is unscented and it does last for more than one wear .
So if you , if you do your hunting gear , you know , soak it in permethrin , it'll be good for you know a few uses , it'll be safe for that . Like , yeah , and like you , yeah , and like you said , long shirt , pants , closed toed shoes , tucking your sock , your pants into your socks , socks , those are all .
Those are all good preventative measures that you can take now you're starting to connect with more groups as your health has been improving . How has that sense of community helped you in your journey ?
it has helped a great deal . At first , again , when you're in that deep dark place , you think I don't need anybody I'm fine of . When you're in that deep , dark place , you think I don't need anybody , I'm fine , of course , you're anything but fine .
So the community that I found is online , because a lot of people with tick-borne diseases are homebound or bedbound , so we're really not out and about .
On top of that , the fact that there aren't really a lot of in-person support groups that are easily accessible , like something like breast cancer or Parkinson's things that you may be able to find in your community . The online community is where I have found people . The one that I frequent the most is , of all places , on Reddit .
I've kind of become a Reddit head since then and if you're not familiar with Reddit , reddit is literally anything that you can think of , whether it's you like funny cat videos or you like politics , or I love the show Friends , so I'm on a Friends subreddit .
There is a subreddit for everyone , and so I found people with Lyme disease and other tick-borne diseases and it's really nice . I think . For the most part , everyone is pretty supportive and helpful . Of course , there's going to be a bad apple here and there , like every community , every online community , but people , you know people go on there and they vent .
People say you know I don't want to be here anymore , or this is too hard , or you know I have to ingest a disgusting drink . How do you guys do it ? You know asking for advice , and so it's . It's really nice to be able to talk to other people who are going through the same thing as you .
I could not agree more . And that's actually how the podcast started . We started out as a community and then , next thing you know , it's a podcast and it's a blog and now we're on YouTube . I mean , that's just how it grows , because there's a need out there and we need to fill it and people need that support To go with that .
We don't always want a place where it's only complaining Sometimes . We want a place where , yeah , we can vent about things , but we want to hear tips , tricks , support and guidance , and to me that sounds like what you're doing and that's great .
I'm definitely going to be trying to cover a lot of the nitty-gritty stuff , like you know , what is Lyme at a microscopic level , or what is good prevention , like we were just talking about but also talking about mental health , which I think gets pushed down to the bottom of the priority list when it comes to tick-borne diseases , you know , because we're dealing
with all of this physical stuff that a lot of people don't understand , so mental health does kind of get a backseat in the conversation , but all of it is so important because all of it makes up our healing journey ?
Absolutely , and it all blends together . We need to take care of every aspect of ourselves , not just one or the other . Yes , now , do you prefer to see Lemon or Lime becoming a profession or keep it more as like a passion project ?
I mean it would be nice to have it become a profession and earn a living doing this , because I don't . I'm on disability . I've been on disability for several years , so that's the only income I have , and so it would be nice for this to turn into something bigger and to be the place to go to get information and to connect with other communities .
Like you guys . That's what I'm hoping for , but right now it is a passion project and so I'm fine with that .
Absolutely . I think passion projects are needed . I don't know about you , but I can tell that you glow and your excitement when you're talking about it , and I always worry once we move out of it being a passion and to more of a job , are we going to lose that same excitement and vibrancy that we have ?
Yeah , I did think about that and I even told when I did launch , I did tell my treating practitioner that you know , oh , my YouTube channel is up . And she was like , can I be honest with you about something ? And I said , of course . And she said I'm worried that by doing this vlog , by doing this
¶ Finding Community in Chronic Illness
channel and having this you know brand or whatever , that it's going to become your identity . And she said , and I don't want this to be your whole life .
So I said to her I hear what you're saying and I understand where you're coming from , but the way that I see it is , I'm helping people , I'm being what I needed when I first got sick and there is a need for someone to be out there explaining these things and someone who's been there and is still there . But I did tell her .
I said I promise you , if it does become too much I'll let it go , but the way that it is right now , there are so many things to cover . I mean , I have endless lists of these are all the things that I want to do on Instagram and these are all the things I want to do on YouTube .
It's like I made sure the years before I actually launched that there was going to be enough for you know to talk about , because I wasn't sure Like what if I you know I've run out of things to talk about Turns out it's endless the amount of things , because there's also continuing research and things like that , so there's always news , absolutely I agree , and ,
like you said , it's ever-changing .
There's more information coming out , and sometimes it's okay to even bring back the same material and bring it up again , because sometimes we need to drill it in our own brains and in others , and so they might need to see it in the same material in multiple ways . If that makes sense , yes , oh no , it totally does . Now .
What does a successful day look like for you in the now ?
So I still deal with more bad days than good , like the way that I look right now probably don't look sick . Whatever sick is A lot of people you guys get this . Oh , you don't look sick all the time , right , all the time so , especially when I have my makeup on . I got my contacts in , I got my hair done , but it is still a struggle .
I haven't really found a good schedule yet where I'm able to work every single day . I actually got off of several weeks it was about a month . All of March was a flare-up , so I couldn't get anything done and a good day for me is filming or researching or writing . I've also been trying to complete .
There are these two conferences One is a Lyme and Associated Disease Summit and another one is a conference just about alpha-gal syndrome , which is a kind of a meat allergy that's emerging . That's one of the co-infections that is gaining a lot of traction lately because it's spreading , so I wanted to learn more about that .
There's always something to do , but I'm still at a place , health wise , where I'm just not able to work every day , so I just work when I can that right ?
there is a great segue , because now what I want to ask you is what's one thing you wish people understood about living with tick-borne illnesses and chronic conditions in general , and I want to bring up co-infections , yes , things that I wish people understood was that these diseases are serious .
This is not like a cold , this is not the flu . These are life-altering diseases . These diseases handicap people , make them disabled . I couldn't speak , I couldn't walk , I couldn't walk . I still have trouble being on my feet for more than 10 minutes , and that's in contrast to the way I used to be ,
¶ Serious Impact of Tick-Borne Illnesses
which was I was on my feet all day as a clinical massage therapist , all day and I never thought anything of it . And it's not until you lose the ability to do something that you start to realize how much you miss it . But these diseases are serious . Tics are everywhere .
I mean , unless you're on a vacation in Antarctica , there's going to be tics near you , you know . And there's people who go overseas thinking , oh , there's no tics here , it's just in Connecticut . They're over there too . And I don't tell people this to scare them . I tell people this to inform them that all of these ticks carry different diseases .
And when you look at a tick , you can't tell what it has , and it's not until it starts feeding that it starts to inject the contents of its belly into you . So I kind of call it tick roulette , because you never know what the tick has . It's kind of a gambling situation . And another thing I mentioned earlier is a rash doesn't happen to everybody .
Not everybody gets that classic bullseye rash and a lot of people don't get a rash at all . Some people also sometimes get a rash and it looks like something else , like hives or an allergic reaction , kind of spotty .
So if you go to a doctor , they'll say , oh , that's not Lyme , because that's not an erythema migrans rash , that's not a bullseye rash , so you must have something else . What I also wish that I knew earlier was that the average doctor doesn't really know anything about tick-borne diseases .
I wish they did , and that is one thing that needs to change and I hope I can change it by bringing it to everyone's attention over and over . Yes , yes , co-infections are a big part of what makes people with tick-borne diseases or Lyme disease have persistent and chronic symptoms . It's a big part of the picture that is very misunderstood .
And co-infections are two or more pathogens in one patient . That's what a co-infection is . And so , let's say , you get Lyme disease from a tick . You also , like me maybe , started playing with feral cats just because they're cute , you know , and you don't notice any ticks .
You don't notice any fleas or lice , you know , because all of those bugs are very , very tiny . Or you pick up the cats and I literally have a picture of my 2014 infection and of course , I didn't know at the time , but I have pictures with the cats . I was visiting a barn and these two cats were following me around and I'm an animal lover .
So towards the end of my little tour of this barn , I knelt down and started petting the cats that had been following me and weaving in and out of my legs , and I picked one up . I don't know how many weeks or a few months later that I started getting symptoms , but that's all it takes and it's really crazy that you know , I got three things .
I got what's called the three Bs Borrelia burgdorferi , which is the Lyme disease , bartonella and Babesia . Babesia is considered a parasite . Some of these co-infections don't just come from ticks Ticks . Usually , the Lyme disease is pretty much always going to come from the ticks .
That we know because , apparently , ticks' bodies are better equipped just the way that they're structured . They're better equipped at transmitting Lyme disease as opposed to like a mosquito Mosquitoes , for instance , have been found to have Lyme disease in them but because of their body structure and the way that they suck blood , as opposed to ticks .
They're not transmitting the Lyme disease like the ticks do , but something like Babesia , or , yeah , babesia , for instance . This is a big co-infection and a big issue . That isn't just from ticks . People are getting Babesia from blood transfusions . They're getting Babesia from organ transplants . So it's not just ticks .
Even mother to baby congenital transmission is happening with Babesia . Now the government knows they are aware that blood is in their blood banks and some of it has Babesia , some of this blood . So imagine for a second you are sick , you are on a transplant list . You finally , finally get the call that you have an organ waiting for you .
You get the organ transplant and then you start to get sick . Imagine that . I mean how awful , is that ?
Yeah . And then I'm over here thinking , weighing the cost right Is it worth getting this organ or this blood because it's going to help X , Y and Z ? Is it worth the risk of getting this and then trying to heal from it ? Yeah , yeah .
I mean , you know , and a lot of these blood transfusions and these organ transplantations , these are life-saving procedures that are happening , right , and I think that it's different by state .
Some states are more vigilant with their testing of the blood in their bank or the organs that are , you know , waiting to be transplanted or whatever , but it's in the literature and they know that people are getting Babesia this way . Yeah , and most people are not aware of this .
Okay , you had mentioned earlier about meat . Is that one of the ones that is found in meat too , or is it another one ?
So the meat . One is called alpha-gal syndrome . Alpha-gal is you may have heard of a red meat allergy , but it's not technically just red meat , it's mammalian meat and mammalian products . So when people get , it's oftentimes the Lone Star tick that does it . There
are many , many different species of ticks . There's over 900 species of hard and soft ticks . They come in two categories hard and soft 900 species and there's about 100 species of ticks in the United States . So the lone star is the one that they're finding is prominently transmitting this alpha-gal syndrome , transmitting this alpha-gal syndrome .
So what happens is they develop almost like an allergy , but it doesn't behave exactly like an allergy , like if you're allergic to nuts , for instance . The reaction comes almost immediately right . That's usually what a food allergy is . Alpha-gal . On the other hand , it can take hours for the reaction to happen and people are getting anaphylaxis .
People are dying because they suddenly get this allergy and maybe they're not aware of what it is . So it's not just red meat , it's mammalian meat and also mammalian products . So collagen or gelatin think about how many medications and supplements have gelatin in the capsule . People who get alpha-gal syndrome cannot ingest those things anymore .
Some people are saying that it's curable . Some people are saying they're not sure . So I think the jury is kind of out about alpha-gal right now . Okay , and then I have a note here 70% of medications have some form of mammal ingredient in it . So if you get alpha-gal , that limits what you can take .
This is crazy to me , but I'm not surprised . I mean , there's so many crazy things out there and none of them amaze me anymore .
Yeah , I know , I know there's just yeah , and it's , and it's . It's just truly incredible how much this teeny , tiny little bug messes up people's lives .
Wow , too bad , I can't do something good .
I know I know , Like , why can't it ?
like you know , make it so that sandwiches make me lose weight , you know ? Or chocolate . Or the cure to cancer , right , I know , yeah , yeah , that'd be great Looking ahead . What are you most excited about , personally or professionally ?
Well , professionally , I'm hoping that this , like I said earlier , can become a career . I help bring awareness and make it so people can protect themselves , and it would be great if one day nobody gets Lyme disease again , again . And there are so many things that need fixing and I'm hoping that I can bring some change so that patients have better lives .
Now one of the things that I would love to be able to do is influence maybe med schools or nursing schools to educate their students , educate med students , educate nurses , so that
¶ Future Goals and Opera Singing
when someone comes into their office they know what to look for . If I had me and millions of other people , if we had been diagnosed early , we would have been fine . Diagnosed early , we would have been fine . Yeah , exactly .
And if we were taken seriously instead of being accused of doing drugs . Now , this is a whole side note , but I had this epiphany take it or leave it . You need to become the Lemon or Lime YouTube opera singer . That's what it needs to be . I'm picturing this whole , like these video clips of you singing opera , to teach people about Lyme disease .
Man , maybe I should start writing my tick-borne disease opera .
Yeah , I mean it could be some fun songs . I mean , I don't know if you're into singing other kinds of songs , but I'm just picturing these . These could be some really fun , different , because that's what we need more of is a fun way of educating people . I can make like a wrench , but with Lyme disease .
Yeah , instead of 525,600 minutes it could be these six medications I have to eat all day .
Yeah , I mean the opportunity that is there . The idea is endless .
Yes , yes , see , now you planted the seed . I'm going to do it . I will be the first one to watch .
Yeah , you'll be in the front row . Where can people connect with you and follow along ?
So I am on YouTube Lemon or Lime , and I just started on Instagram as well . That's also Lemon or Lime and Lime with a Y .
Yes , that's very important . Remember it has a Y . Yes , it's not a lime you eat , it's L-Y-M-E . Well , thank you for your time today and all this extremely helpful education that you've brought to light . I really hope that everything that you've had to share really helps someone out there .
Me too Me too , Thank you so much for having me . It was really fun .
It's been my pleasure . I hope we stay in contact and have you back sometime I would be .
Yes , I would be totally willing to come back .
All right . Well , thank you again and listeners until next time . Don't forget your spoon .
