Jealousy in the Lifestyle - A Couples Conversation Join John and Susan—plus special guests D and J—for an honest, in-depth conversation about jealousy in the lifestyle. From pre-lifestyle insecurities to discovering compersion, this episode explores how trust, communication, and confidence shape your swinging journey. In This Episode: The difference between jealousy and compersion in the lifestyleWhy having a solid relationship foundation matters before you startWhen "disrespect" becomes jealous...
Apr 12, 2026•51 min•Season 2Ep. 12
Join John and Susan as they tackle a listener-suggested topic that's been causing confusion in the lifestyle: What's the difference between hotwifing and stag/vixen dynamics? Spoiler alert—they're NOT interchangeable! J and S break down the distinctions, share their own experiences, and explore where they fall on the spectrum. In This Episode: * Understanding the key differences between hotwife and stag/vixen dynamics* The role of power, control, and compersion in different lifestyle arrangement...
Mar 01, 2026•23 min•Season 2Ep. 11
New Year, New Play - Lifestyle Resolutions for 2026 🎊 Join John and Susan as they head to IPG's New Year's Eve hotel takeover in Scranton, PA! But before the party starts, J and S get real about their lifestyle resolutions for 2026—from being more outgoing to better communication at events. Plus, they hit the party floor to ask other couples about THEIR sexy resolutions, and the answers might surprise you! In This Episode: 🎯 J and S's Resolutions: Being More Outgoing: John admits he can be a w...
Jan 25, 2026•54 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Ghost of a Chance - Why Ghosting Hurts the Lifestyle 👻 Join John and Susan for a real-talk episode about one of the most frustrating experiences in the lifestyle: getting ghosted! From no-shows at planned meetups to communication that suddenly goes silent, J and S break down why this behavior is so damaging to the community—and share their own ghost stories that'll make you shake your head. In This Episode: 👻 The Ghosting Epidemic: John and Susan's personal experiences with being ghosted—not j...
Dec 12, 2025•26 min•Season 1Ep. 9
The Hello - Breaking the Ice in the Lifestyle 🎙️ Join John and Susan for an honest conversation about one of the most crucial (yet often overlooked) aspects of the lifestyle: simply saying hello! Fresh from hosting a meet and greet in New Jersey, John and Sue break down why that first introduction matters so much—and why some people struggle with it more than others. In This Episode: 💬 The Power of "Hello": Why the simple act of introducing yourself is the foundation of every connection in the...
Nov 09, 2025•19 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Playing Catchup - Our Most Recent Adventures 🔥 Join John and Susan as they catch up their listeners on their most recent adventures in the lifestyle! From club takeovers to hotel takeovers, these two are spilling ALL the tea on their experiences as they bounced from Connecticut to Pennsylvania and back again. In This Episode: 🎮 Sweatpants & Leggings Party at Wicked Fun Club: John and Susan hosted My Secret Seduction's cozy-yet-sexy party at the brand NEW Wicked Fun Club in Connecticut. The...
Oct 28, 2025•42 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Hotel Takeover Takeaways: Essential Tips & First-Time Lifestyle Couple Experience Join J and S as they share insider tips from their recent New Orleans hotel takeover experience! Whether you're a seasoned lifestyle enthusiast or curious newcomer, learn what to pack, how to navigate clothing-optional amenities, and handle those awkward moments when you need to contact the front desk while half-naked guests fill the hallways. In This Episode: Essential packing list and preparation tips for lif...
Oct 01, 2025•40 min•Season 1Ep. 6
New Orleans Heat & Sultry Revelations J and S venture into the steamy heart of New Orleans, where jazz flows like honey and desire hangs thick in the humid air. Their destination? Colette - the Big Easy's most exclusive lifestyle sanctuary. But did the legendary club ignite the passion they were seeking, or did reality leave them wanting more? This episode dives deep into the intoxicating dance between fantasy and truth. We all paint vivid pictures in our minds of how our most anticipated mo...
Aug 25, 2025•30 min•Season 1Ep. 5
You're on that particular website, and a specific picture on a certain profile catches your eye, leading you to think this person is someone you need to get to know better. So, you reach out through Messenger — but how would you present yourself? In this episode, S shares her five simple rules for how to talk to people you've never met before online to make a connection. (And it's more than a simple "hey" or a dick pic.) She also discusses the follow-up to that first contact, which many in the L...
Aug 10, 2025•30 min•Season 1Ep. 4
Communication, communication, communication. You hear it from everyone about how important it is to be successful in the LS. J and S share their experiences regarding communication. There's communication leading up to getting into the LS. There's communication with yourselves and with potential play partners before each party and event. There's communication during play. There's communication after play. J and S break down what they do in each of these areas. They also share their experiences fr...
Jul 06, 2025•35 min•Season 1Ep. 3
J and S are back with a new episode, talking briefly about getting into the lifestyle later in life. They share their experiences from the Silver and Spicy event from June 20-23, 2025. Share your experiences and thoughts with us by writing us at jandsexplorers@gmail.com. Find us on SLS - JandSExplorers SDC - JandSExplorers Fetlife - JandSExplorers Saints and Sinners - JandSExplorers Wicked Fun Club - JandSExplorers Club4Play - JandSExplorers Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more inform...
Jun 22, 2025•22 min•Season 1Ep. 2
A Swinger Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 26, 2025•21 min•Season 1Ep. 1
