For me, friendship is not something that is rooted in the good times. It actually comes to the fall in the bad times. And this was a bad time. This was a deeply challenging time. And when he talks about us having prayed together, we have snotty, dribbling, screaming, wailing, preyed together.
Over this stuff because it was hard.
Hello, loves, I'm Andrea Waters King. And that was David o' yellow old describing a friendship that has endured it all, the kind of bond that doesn't waver even in the hardest of times. Last week, David and Nate gave us a glimpse into their journey, one of brotherhood, faith and standing for what matters. But some stories they can't be told.
In just one.
Conversation two they open up like never before about standing together through public scrutiny, weathering storms no one saw coming, and the power of faith to rebuild what was broken. It's a conversation about resilience, redemption, and what it truly means to show up for someone when the world turns away. This is My Legacy a podcast hosted by me and my husband, Martin Luther King, the third eldest son of
doctor Martin Luther King Junior, and Coretta Scott King. Plus we're joined by good friends New York Times bestselling authors Mark and Craig Kilberger. Let's pick up right where we left off.
What's clear you're building something rooted in deep values. And obviously we talked about legacy here. In creating a legacy and just listening to this friendship rooted in faith, rooted in values. No, David, if I could ask you a question, can you share with us a time that Nate was there for you when you were going through a difficult time and how we helped you.
I've mentioned one of the the profound moments where he did that thing that I think Nate briefly mentioned. There can only be one syndrome, which is very prevalent whenever there's a marginalized group. It's very prevalent around black men and certainly around black people in Hollywood. Once there is a Denzel, that can almost mean that there's no space for anyone else. Once there's an Obama, once there's a
doctor King. You know, I think one of the challenging things for the movement was once he was murdered.
Assassinated, who's next?
If you haven't created a culture where it's a phalanx, where it's a community, where it's a many headed monster, so that when you cut one head off, there's plenty more there to do the work that is incredibly detrimental to a community, and it it is self sabotaging to
celebrate the there can only be one syndrome. So in that moment where Nate not only demonstrated, but actively put himself to the side in order to demonstrate that this is not a there can only be one friendship or atmosphere, that has been incredibly impactful to me because I that's my disposition, that's my.
Aspiration.
I grew up in the theater in the UK, and that is the only way you get a play going. It cannot be that there is one person likes It's just too much of a community endeavor. So one of the things I will point to when we did Red Tales together and our backgrounds, as you can probably tell, very very different. And Nate came from, as he said, an environment where it's get the money. You know, he didn't have like I was very blessed to have a father there to help with his raising. He came from
a more challenged background than me. And what happens with that is that when you get into a space like George Lucas is producing a film called Redtails with this group of young black actors that no one else knows he could easily have and he was the lead in that film. And what happened on that film was that, to be perfectly frank, there were those of us in that group, or there were some folks who had bought into there can only be one syndrome.
And I remember.
Feeling very on the outs as a result, because I didn't subscribe to that mindset. I felt it was going to be detrimental to the experience and to film itself. And I spoke to Nate about it because we were playing best friends in the film, and he shared, uh, my opinion about it.
And one of the beautiful things that.
I remember this we gathered the cast together, and this was early on in our relationship, so you know, I didn't quite know which way it was gonna go, and I remember Nate being he's much calmer now than he was when.
We first met, and Nate being very.
Like, you know what I mean, He was quite rightly upset by I sort of have always had a sort of calmer demeanor, but his passion infected me and I think my karma approach. And we stood there together and we talked to this group of young men, and it was the moment beyond on which it was the first time we were effective as a as a team, as a partnership. And I've never had that before. I had never had someone who was such a kindred spirit despite
being so different from me. And so to your question, he gave me a renewed sense of purpose around that which I feel I'm here to do, which is to gather people with a common goal towards something greater than all of us. And I'd never really had a partner in that who looks like me and who I and this is an important one respect like I respect his talent, I respect his perspective, I respect the way he moves
through the world. And so to that was a gift he gave me in that moment, and we it's never really abated since, and it has help to me with my sense of self and my sense of purpose.
Stay with us as David and Nates share more of this powerful friendship.
David, eight years ago, your friendship faced one of his greatest challenges when an allegation from college that Nate had been acquitted for resurfaced and he faced very public backlash for how he responded. You stood firmly by his side and became an advocate for second chances. How have you seen Nate grow and change since then?
Yeah, that moment eight years ago, surrounding birth of a nation and these allegations, it was incredibly challenging to see someone you know very well going through something as painful as that, something as targeted as that. But also, like I said just before, I have watched Nate from when we first met, certainly to now and even to then,
evolve enormously as a human being. And the reality is, and I say this happily now, who Nate was as a nineteen year old, I don't know that we would be best friends back then, And that's not only to do with who Nate might have been back then, but who I was back then. And yet here we are, and he is like a brother to me. So I'm talking about the evolution and the growth that we go through, and I have watched him grow so in that moment, and I remember talking to Nate when all of this
was happening and understandably incredibly challenging for him. And we've talked about this since that some of how Nate reacted is stuff that he regrets.
Some of.
What I had to say at that time took time to hear, and.
That to me is the stuff that people don't see.
You know, we live in an echo chamber of social media and news cycles and almost carnivorously feeding off of people and their pain and their circumstances. And I know what that looks like. I know what that looks like, even on Selma when we were being accused of inaccuracies tied to the film, and that actually the Selmer March was Lyndon Johnson's idea, not your father or the movement side.
I've seen how people during award season have tried to sling mud in ways that are self seeking and self serving. That's the industry, that's the industrial complex, that is the press, that is the industrial complex, that is the new cycle.
But this is a human being. This is a human being who I know, and so it wasn't difficult for me at all to advocate for him because I know him, I know him, and I know he's fallible, and I see his evolution, and I see that in him, which I know flies in the face of what people are saying. So for me, friendship is not something that is rooted in the good times. It actually comes to the fall in the bad times. And this was a bad time.
This was a deeply challenging time. He had made a film that I truly feel was designed and on its way to having the kind of social impact that was indisputable, and that got derailed. And we've talked about this a lot since then. We've done a bunch of work together because there were mistakes made. There were mistakes made in terms of disposition. There were attitudes that Nate had in the past at that time, even you know that we
had to work through. And when he talks about us having prayed together, we have snotty, dribbling, screaming, wailing prayed together over this stuff because it was hard, and there is so much that this will not be able to give context to. All I can say to you is that this is a man worthy of redemption. This is a man worthy of the platform that he had and
God willing will con continue to have. And this is a man who I have seen evolve and grow in ways tied to not only humility but also real dark knight of the soul stuff Like he talks about the fact that he you know, he's a very private person, and I invited him here today.
We had to pray over this.
We debated long and hard about this, because this is not easy for him in the wake of all of that. And so, you know, I say all that to say that I know this man, and for me there is never hesitancy on the basis of what I know and what I see, because he's.
A truly beautiful human being.
Sorry, we all make mistakes, you know, we all make mistakes. We've all made mistakes. Nate has made his mistakes, but.
He, more than.
Almost anyone else I have encountered, has stepped into a place of ownership of who he was, some of which is to.
Do with.
Environment, cultural circum whatever it may be. But this is a man who is worthy of grace. That's all I'll say. And that's why it never I never feel any hesitation to shout from the rooftops my friendship with him, my advocacy for him, my love for him, because he's a beautiful human being.
Thank you, brother.
What is the most profound insight or lesson that you've gained through the challenges and growth you've experienced.
I'd say the.
Most valuable lesson I've learned over the last eight years of not in my life now, it's been to make room for empathy in every situation, in every circumstance, no matter the backstory, and that you can't have empathy if you're not listening. That was the thing when I constantly think David for his friendship.
It's that part, you know.
I was so caught up in what I felt was being done to me and my innocence and what I was losing, what I felt I had to lose. I didn't recognize the impact that the situation had on so many other people, the epidemic of that situation, how it impacts so many people. We know how it impacted you know, fans, friends,
family members. And it was really David that became a voice of reason for me that and really encouraged me to be still, because sometimes you're in this energy of this isn't their, this is it's it's and that's not leadership, you know. I I don't think I could call myself a leader when you think about the people I've had the pleasure of being able to play. We've talked about it on this podcast. Everyone was service, So how can I be of service to the people that I feel
like I've been called it? Impact through my art, through my work, my family, empathy and listening. David encouraged me to be still to listen earnestly. We did a lot of listening when talked to us a lot of people, to reflect quietly rather in public spaces, to really get into spaces where I can reflect on what I was listening to and how would impact it, not just me but those around me. And then really back to constantly
praying for wisdom and discernment. I think that's the thing that grounds you constantly, that you do not live in an echo chamber, that in this moment, the people who have followed you, the people who have supported you, are expecting a more thoughtful response. And then, finally, and this is really important, to really look for opportunities for growth and focused accountability. Where can I show up and say that I needed to learn this, I need to learn this needs to become a part of my growth.
As a man.
This then needs to be challenged with respect to what I've been taught about manhood or growth. And these are things that at you know, I'm not nineteen anymore, I'm forty five. But these are things that even on a podcast like this, or even in future projects I do, or conversations that aren't public, can really have an impact on the constructs that we have inherited as artists, as
human beings. You know, it says, you know and the Bible good person leaves an inheritance for their children's children. What is the inheritance we're leaving? And the inheritance I want to leave is not a disposition of anger and frustration, regardless of what I deem to be my perspective of my innocence or or what happened, but the impact that all the actions, behaviors, and cultures that we are walking around steeped in have on those around us.
We started this conversation talking about your five daughters. I'm sure that that also had a tremendous impact of growth over the last eight years. And it's nothing like a child and you have five some tr us five different personalities. We have one that has five different personalities, and they will ask you things you know, and they will kind of hold your feet to the fire.
Absolutely.
One of the things we did soon after this happened is we went on a tour of talking to lots of different women, and I called up friends, people who have more acquaintances. We spoke to experts in the space as it pertains to just what women have had to endure in ways that the empathy that Nate is talking about was something that I grew in because we are also living in an environment that, as it pertains to women.
As a man, you take a lot for granted.
In relation to the effect that is being had in these spaces. And so when I talk about his evolution, it's tied to my evolution, is that we literally it's been eight years and there's a lot we could have done to sort of.
What's Nate's come back? What's Nates?
And actually it's work. There's just the work. What's the work. The work is empathy. As you've already said, the work is understanding. The reason I wanted to link my arms with him and go on that journey is I found there are massive holes in my knowledge and my empathy as well, because of the things that we take for granted. We're here as black men talking about the things that we've been denied and the things that we are fighting for. But I think I'm right in saying we had a blind spot.
That's right.
And it took me partnering with my best friend to go, Okay, this is not about let's get the next movie going or whatever.
This is. This is a.
Journey, and I'm committed to you to go on this with you because it's a difficult one and there were doors I could open in terms of I mean, like people who had real resistance to sitting down with Nate to going no, do me a solid sit down with him, because he needs to hear what you have to say.
And you know, without naming names, it's the gamut of people you didn't know, I didn't know very well, to people you did who felt, you know, real hurt in the wake of all of this, And it's been an extraordinary journey to go on that we don't feel the need to publicize because, in all honesty, if it's true, if it worked, if it's real, it will manifest in our children, it will manifest in our work, it will manifest in our character, and that speaks louder than anything that we have to.
Say or he has to say. And so that's.
Why I remain in partnership with him on the business side as a friend as artists, because I know there is real richness that has come through this challenge that is going to God willing be beneficial and edifying as we continue to forge forward as partners in everything that we're doing together.
You speak of if it's true or manifest in our children. I'd love that you talked a lot about empathy, about growth and David, when I look at your own family, you have four children. You have spoken beautifully about how you are in partnership with Jessica and how they ground you. And so what do you hope your legacy will be When your kids think about you, what will they say, not only as a father, but as a human being.
Well, it's what I just said. I have learned that with children, it's not what you say, it's what you do. And the amazing moments are when you see the modeling behavior that you didn't even really recognize or realize. Hopefully it's the good stuff that they were paying attention.
Yes, and.
You know, my wife and I have a two week rule when we were never apart from more than two weeks and That was something we instituted because ours is a very challenging profession for marriages, and you're on set with some of the most beautiful people on the planet and you're away for months, and that's just not conducive for a marriage and a relationship. So it's in my contract I will either on the thirteenth day be on my way back to my wife, or you've got to
figure out getting her to me. And my older kids, you know, two of them are out of the house now.
But they check, they go, it's day thirteen. What's happening with you, guys? Is is Mommy on the way to you? Or are you on the way back?
And you, honest, I've seen so many other actors model the two week rule since Jess and I very naively, you know, getting married at the age of twenty and twenty two. And I remember just before we got married, we were apart for like three weeks and I was ill, like physically ill from being apart from her, and I went, We're never doing that again, And so we instituted the two week rule. We had reps agents managers laugh at us at the notion that that would would be something
we would be able to continue. I then years following in instances where I insisted upon it, have had producers sidle up to me and said, you know what, if I had thought more about my marriage the way you do, I might still be married. And that's in a professional capacity. So to see our kids going what's happening with a two week rule, you guys, is something that is so beautiful because, to be perfectly frank, the best piece of advice, one of the best pieces of advice I got about marriage is.
The marriage is the center.
The kids are a welcome addition because that gives them security to be kids. They are not the reason you're together. They are not the glue. They don't have to bear the burden of well, if I'm not here, mommy and daddy are not going to be together.
Now.
The love I have for my wife, God willing, that is what they are going to aspire to in their life partner, and what will get generationally passed down to my descendants, which is that love is to be fought for. You know, the two week rule is it's a fight to maintain that in an industry where you're constantly away. But you know, to some people it might seem not
that romantic, the notion of a two week rule. But I remember doing a film in Morocco and it was twenty four hours of travel each way back to LA and I flew twenty It took twenty four hours to get from Morocco to La to be with my wife for thirty six hours before I turned round again and flew twenty four hours to get back to set. And my kids have never forgotten that. So that's not a
saying thing, that's a doing thing. And hopefully I'm modeling for them what it is to have sacrificial love within your marriage, because to me, that's what Jesus is, That's what he represents. That is the zenith, the pinnacle, the red hot eye of what He did on the cross with sacrificial love. So as many ways as I can exhibit that in my marriage and my work with my friendships, that's what I hope will be the legacy for my children in terms of how they go into model that behavior.
You're going forward, we'll be right back as David and Nature how they're creating a legacy of fatherhood in connection with their own children.
Nate, are there any particular stories that you could think of seeing David as a parent that could give us just a little bit of a glimpse.
Of him.
And I don't think it's a small thing. I don't think I've talked to him. Maybe maybe my wife, maybe Sarah. But it is a wonderful thing to see one of David's children ask him for.
Some thing.
And to see him become the dad and considerate when he knows he's going to give it to them, but the way in which he thinks about it before he responds, I don't even know if you do this, And I can only assume you get it from your father. I've been at the house, you know, Daddy, Yes, and they come and ask him.
He goes.
As if to measure if they deserve it or not, and just it is the cutest like that relationship as a father of five girls, and in that respect, it doesn't matter if it's you know, I'm not going to say a children's name, but the boys or the girl. But I just love seeing you contemplate and eye them for a moment and then give them what they've asked for and to see them wait for it, to be on the outside looking in, and it's just the way
you do it. It always makes me smile because it's it's to kind of speak to what you spoke to, presence, visibility, seeing your children having spiritual contact. There's nothing fleeting and there's nothing flipped. That's one thing we have in common. You asked me a question, you're going to get an answer, and if you get no answer, that's an answer. You
know why. It is the one thing that growing up where I came from be you know, you're yes as you're yes, your no as you know you look people in the eye if you're saying, or if you're leaving, if you're hired, or if you're you look someone in the eye. And we bring that to our children.
Can you look at this drawing? Yes?
What is the drawing there?
David is like that with all of us.
It's beautiful to watch. But when they ask him for something that they don't know that they're going to get and he just takes a second okay, and then they go off and get it, it is the I don't know, if you know, you probably doing it?
No, I do.
I do, because it's about making sure that you are acknowledging that the relationship is not flip. It's not just okay, daddy, you know, because you know what kids are like.
They'll time out, they'll.
Time to wait wait yet you're distracted, and so that you you can just oh.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever.
Not David, No, no, no, because my interactions with my kit it's about intention, it's about eye contact, it's about you know you, there are no there are You cannot say I love you enough because words are powerful, and I think you're saying I love you by the fact that regardless of whether I give you this thing or not, you need to know that love is part of the equation. Regardless whether it's.
A no or a yes.
I'm looking at you to make sure it's not a flip yes or a flip no. Because again, what you're modeling for your kids is relationship. The thing that I get so much joy from is when it's a no and they can come back, maybe not the same day, maybe not the next day, but they can go thank you for saying no. I didn't really need that thing. Because your kids are constantly testing you. They're custantly testing where are the boundaries, because the boundaries is what makes
them feel safe. So if you say yes to everything, they actually are losing a sense of their boundaries, and there their sense of self and their sense of safety. So the moment that I'm kind of annoyed that you spotted.
Is measuring.
And I know my kids, whether it's something you need or something you want, and I'm there to provide your needs wants, and so it's that as well, and sometimes I'll give you what you want, but just know that's not going to be an all.
The time every day.
Think So it's about intention and it's about connection, I think is the point.
But now, David, have you learned anything in particular about raising daughters.
You know Nay and I because we run a business together. We're on the phone a lot together. We are on a lot of zooms. And the thing I admire the most about him is similarly, no matter who we're talking to, if it's the CEO, if it's a potential financier, whatever it is, when one of his daughters comes into the room on a zoom, excuse me, you guys, yes, honey.
And he will never ignore them.
He will never do that, you know, I've never known him to do that. And it is so beautiful because you can see the faces of the squares. Everyone just goes, Everyone just has that smile of this guy has his priorities in check, and sometimes you forget to push.
The mute button. And it always ends with I love you.
Always ends with I love you, no matter what it is, no matter how trivial or important. The thing they came to ask was it always ends with I love you.
And then he's back to the zoom. And to be perfectly frank, much like the two week rule in that business setting, I actually think it's incredibly impactful for people in a business setting to have the priorities put in the right place of like, all this stuff we're doing, at the end of the day, nothing is more important than that and that because I have to say, I'm not that way in the zoo, on the zoom, I'm the one who.
You know, what it is with daughters, it's so different. You know, as you say, children test you for boundaries, they also test you for hierarchy. They want to know where they sit in your life constantly. And daughters, you know, I have from my youngest to my eldest, I literally have one in every different level of education. So I have one in elementary school, one in middle school, one in high school, one in college, and one getting a master's and they are constantly asking me with different in
different ways, where do I sit in your life? Where do I sit amongst my sisters, Where do I sit in this moment your colleagues? And so my job I feel as as a father to always remind them that they're as close to me as anyone or anything on earth. And that means in a zoom, literally turning and saying yes, I will hear your poem and listen to the poem while we're closing the deal, and I will say I love that poem. I'm going to finish my call and then we're going to talk about it. I love you, goodbye.
I lose nothing, but I gain everything, and she gains everything because maybe it wasn't about the poem. She will leave the room saying I am important, and I am important enough that in this moment he chose me, because that's what it's about. You know, we are in a time where the choosing, whether it be of partners, whether it be of relationships, have has become very difficult with social media and all these things that are constantly negotiating likes,
negotiating self esteem. So and I also say I try my best to treat all my children like their only children, you know, because I learned early on that when you take two to Disneyland, it doesn't count. It just doesn't. If you take three out to dinner, it doesn't count. It's not a date, that's a group.
I learned that from you.
Yeah, I learned the daddy daugh to day from from I mean, I only have one daughter. You literally came to my house last week with Justice and he can't he'd forgotten his bag at my house because we spent the day together, so you had to come back a couple of days later, you came with we worked with your daughter Justice, and they were going out.
For lunch for dinner together.
And I was like, wow, because I do that with my daughter, and it's kind of easier when you have one daughter and you have three sons. It's like the daddy daugh to day is like, of course it's a dad, but the fact.
That you do that.
I was so impressed with that because you specifically brought her to get the bag, knowing that it was just it was her day. And I've been with a Injustice a lot. I have never seen her that effervescent and giddy and just happy. And you know, I have a bunch of dogs in my house. She's petting the dogs, she's dancing, and I could tell it's because you had singled the day for her that day and the way she skipped out of the house knowing that you guys were going off to dinner. But that that I learned
from you, I didn't. I didn't know how prioritis that needed to be a spect and i'm I'm.
My sexism lies firmly in the.
Fact that I do treat my daughter differently than my son's And I don't know if it's right or not, but you know, there is.
I was one of three boys, then I had three boys. Then oh my.
Lord, I had a daughter, which is the thing where I go, you have five.
The effect this girl has on my heart is should be illegal.
I mean is it is just so profit seeing her just it's like my heart is being rebroken every time. And so to see how you have navigated being able to treat them all as a as a as a only child in that way has been really exemplary.
I cry all the time. Now, It's funny where I come from to cry.
There's punishment with that.
You know, what are you crying for I give you something to cry about. You know, it's a Southern thing, right right?
You love too much of that one.
And so I found myself and my older age, specifically around my doors. I cry for nothing at all. My daughter lost her front tooth and she showed it to me. Why is daddy crying? I'm like, I'm not not sad, but it's we don't get these moments back, you know. It's we're getting older, and it's happening fast. We're here, it says, where it's but a mist of vapor and then it's gone. So I'm in, you know, I mean, I'm in a season of absolute and unapologetic investment into
those girls, into my family, into my life. Because before we know it, someone's gonna be having a podcast and we're gonna be gone, and they're gonna be talking about the stuff that we did, hopefully in positive ways, but at that point it won't matter to us, will be somewhere else.
So, David, this whole podcast is inspired by a book that we've co authored called What is My Legacy? And part of your legacy is your philanthropic work, especially in Nigeria, which has inspired us. Can you briefly tell us a little bit about that work and some amazing work you're doing, especially with scholarships.
Yeah, the leadership scholarship we have in Nigeria was inspired by the bring Back Our Goals movement that happened just under a decade ago when the Chiapbok girls were kidnapped in northern Nigeria and what happened in that moment it became a viral moment. Bring Back our Goal became a hashtag.
Over two hundred girls have been kidnapped. But Boko Haram, the terrorist group who had done this, they specifically their goal was to make sure girls are not educated, and that tells you something that tells you that there is
power in the education of girls specifically. I'm also an ambassador for an organization called Girl Rising, and studies have been done to show that the way to end world poverty is to educate girls globally, And when you think about something as lofty as ending world poverty, it just feels insurmountable. But if you can educate one girl and have her consider the notion of leadership as part of her legacy, that's a very real drop in the ocean
of ending world poverty. So I partnered with a foundation called Jinko to start the David A. Yellowell Leadership Scholarship, and long story short, we now have forty five girls
who are paying for all of their education. We find girls who have been dealing with terrorism or socioeconomic marginalization, all of these patriarchy, which is, you know, as much as I love being a Nigerian, it's a very patriarchal society that traditionally can often marginalize women and stymy their opportunities, so that to me is unacceptable.
A lot of it we've talked.
About my daughter at nauseum, but a lot of it was inspired by having a girl all of a sudden and realizing, oh my gosh, do I have a blind spot because suddenly I have a person in my life where the idea that their gender would be the reason why they would not be afforded every opportunity unacceptable to me. So our Leadership Scholarship is a means of doing that. And we are in four states in Nigeria right now.
We've partnered with schools in those four states to basically have the best we can find who would not otherwise get the education they deserve. Plant them in these schools where we will pay for not only their education, but the thing that we really learned is mental health because they're coming out of very difficult situations, so we are we're paying for that component as well.
And makes zero website for people to learn more about.
Gingko ginco dot org uh and and everything's g e A n c o A dot org and it's a foundation and they can find all the information there.
Thanks, thank you for sharing.
Thank you.
I love that because as Corota Scott King said that if the soul of this nation is to be saved, and women must become the soul. Absolutely, and I think that can be said around the world for sure, for sure. And then of course you have a wonderful Apple TV series.
Yeah.
Government Cheese is about a family of four in the valley in the late nineteen sixties, and I play a bit of a ne'er do well who's just come out of prison and is trying to do right by his family,
but he has these encounters with God. So it's a surrealist, parabolic comedy and he's a man who's trying to get back on the straight and narrow, trying to do God's well, but really being pulled back into his past, and the question of the show is can he become worthy of his wife and children all over again, which is the path that God is trying to get him back onto.
But you know, I'm really really.
Proud of that show because it's set in the sixties where we know, certainly at this table, we know we were dealing with a lot of strife and unrest as black people. But it doesn't touch on that. It's just a beautiful celebration of a black family at a time and a place that we very rarely see on TV. And it's it's a half hour comedy and I'm just really proud that we got it made.
And it's very fun. We don't always get to have fun, especially in the sixties.
Definitely check it out.
There to make it. Yes, gentlemen, I love the laughter.
I think it's a beautiful note to end on because we put together this the four of us originally because we wanted to invite people to have conversations about legacy, to listen, to learn, and yes, to have a lot of fun. And I think back at the conversation of how we live legacy. I love the two week rule. I want to shamelessly steal that.
Oh please, thank you well.
I think we want to bring it into our lives, and I talk to my wife about that one. I love the idea of you cannot be what you cannot see. I think it's deeply powerful, but it's also a great call to action for role models out there. Yes, I love your conversation about consult God before consulting the ego. Made your tribute that you gave to David, I thought was beautiful, and I actually going to repeat that one again, Consult God before consulting the ego, because that is profound.
I love the idea you cannot say I love you too much, and it fits so beautifully on what both of you have said, which is you know where do I sit. I always reminding kids that they are our priorities, our family, our spouses are loved ones. And so I look at all of these beautiful calls to action that you gave us today, of how each person can see how the two of you shape your legacy, how you live your legacy every day. So on behalf of the
four of us were deeply grateful. David Nate, thank you for taking the time to share your legacies with us today.
Thank you.
I want to salute you all, and I have never done this in this way before because we always say to our daughter Yolanda, real queens straighten each other's crowns, and this is the first time I've said that. You all embody real kings, straighten each other's crowns. So thank you all for straightening each other's grounds. Thank you forever, Thank you for joining us. We are so grateful to have you as part of this journey. For more information
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