Spicy Life pt. 2

Hello ladies, Tonight we're gonna have the women a while in podcasts on the Cars, y'all, we are back to the women on our podcast, Part two with Spicy Mighty Gang Gang Gang Gang Gang My Girl Bretty a Girl Pretty V. We had a really good conversation in the last episode, so we just asked her, could you please stay another thirty forty five? Pretty had some questions. But before we get into it, if you guys did miss the last episode, please watch it um and catch up.

But if you decide not to, I'm gonna let you introduce who you are. Yes, I love EV. Thank you for the intro. I am a Spicymody relationship expert, Magnetic Matt Maker, founder of the Spicy Life Relationship Consulting Firm, where I provide relationship coaching and of course matchmaking UM.

I provide a ninety day five phase program based off of my Spicy Method, which is self passion, intimacy, communication and learning to say yes, I hope you just enhance and use the power of your passion to attract your purpose mate. And if you are with your purpose mate, I hope you guys grow, strengthen the relationship, and hopefully lead to marriage. And then I when I have a married couple comes to me, I'm hoping them through some of the challenges so that they don't get a divorce.

So I said this in a previous episode, but I love when you say my purpose is, what is your purpose? My purpose is I'm looking to restore the family unit. My mission in life is to break generational curses and restore the family unit. I want every single person to believe back in love, not to date and operate from a place of fear or hate anxiety. I don't want any of those negative emotions associated with our relationships. And yes, we all are irving of love, but first we have

to believe it, so it starts with our belief. And I help you guys with the belief. Yes, and what do those what do those behaviors look like? Asked me that one of the first times we had a conversation. But when I was first started dating Chris were like, are you operating out of fear. I was like, absolutely not becauld you like, if you get if I get hurt, I just get hurt. I'm not going to go into the mindset what if he does this. Look, I'm going

in acting like none of that can even happen. And if it happens, we go from there, but you don't go into it correct operating out of fear. And what I also appreciate about your relationship to is that, yes, you are a confident woman, but he contributes to that by doing things that make you feel secure. And when we address that Chris has done something that may not make you feel the safest, he is like, Okay, let

me overcorrect, let me solve for that. And that's a sign of a healthy relationship versus the man who's going to be like you're to blame? Is you you're insecure? Yeah, he will take accountability and that's a great sign. So I was like, I can work with this couple. I know you guys are purposes. But basically had an audition for her walk and she's like, how together wasting no time? This is not she told me, like one of our

first conserlations, she's like, this is my purpose. I do not deal with people who aren't willing to grow, who aren't willing to change, who aren't who are going to waste my She's still be on my ass, like you don't miss three sessions just I'm taking you don't pay me for this month and don't talk to me to your I'm like, I'm ready. She's like, if you're not

gonna take yourself growth serious, you're wasting my time. Where if my mission is to bring generational curses and you over here replicating things that aren't healthy for the relationship, or what are we doing? Why are why are we here? Yes, it's just like it's more than the money for me. It's about my clients, like excelling and achieving their goals because they are I do take a personal their reflection of me. And so if they're not doing well, okay, well well how do I need to show up better

for them? And maybe I need to be more in her ass? So I need to I need I have to govern each couple or each single based on what they need in order to be motivated and get the message and be needs a lot. I have a question, please do ask spies sexes? I used to roxy I think for me my question. I don't know if it's a question, but I think it is. But someone, you know, guys come in your life, you know, to just be for a season, for the season of love, season of

being kind and protect you at that time. Um, but like why is it like is it just like that just person is just there? I mean, I don't know how to explain it, because I know I have guys who've been in my life just not forged to be with me, but just to help me maybe just learn, learn, figure some things out. Yeah, so our relationship shape us. So I'm a firm believer that each person is put

into your life for a reason. Now you can learn from that reason and it be a learning lesson, or you can see it as a loss, and that's when you feel like I took an l was a waste of my time. Why did I mess with him? Oh my god, I'm so heartbroken. But if you look at it from that perspective, you're not gonna grow with that perspective. You have to look at it from the Okay, what mistakes did I make? Why did I choose him? What

was it about me that chose him? What did he offer that I want to keep are we were we in alignment? Did he cross my deal breakers? Like that's when you need to start assessing the core values and deal breakers in a relationship so that you can govern. And then if you can look at it from a learning lesson, what am I going to do differently next time? What am I going to accept and tolerate? Where am I going to bend? Where do I need more flexibility?

You're more likely to have better relationships moving forward. Each relationship should be elevating. If you're going backwards on each relationship, not even stagnant. I want growth only, Like yeah, yeah, they should not be this. They should not all be the same, treating you the same. You shouldn't be settling for the same things. Like there's some self worth things going on if you were experiencing that. And so oftentimes it's not the man. It's not that there's not enough.

It's who we choose and why we're choosing those people. And it's so crazy because I prayed and I say, you know, father, bring someone to love, and that's going to just you know, treat me right. You know, one of these days I want a kid. You know, what do you think I did? Oh my god, God always shows up and he's always showing me. You know, I'm just asking a little bit of questions, just talking to somebody. But what she already expressed on numerous episodes, um, it's

very new. They dated previously. But he is so sweet. I love that. And she is just so like guarded and scared and like hold on, give me a minute. And she's taking our time, which I understand. Good, take your time, you know. I'm like, man, I was on FaceTime with him. I was like, oh my god, he treats you just laugh at all your stupid jokes. I'm like, that's not even funny. If he treats you like a queen, I'm I'm here for it. We should not be sleeping when anybody who does not worship us, that is a

waste of our time. You get to a certain place right when you're young. Okay, fine, get it out of your system. Learn from that. But at this point, if you're looking for a healthy relationship or something real, don't waste your time for anyone with anyone who doesn't worship you. I only take worship like my time of compromise and community service that was in my community. One of her makes us build this pizza. I'm gonnat her explain it. So I want you to build a pizza and breed

to build because I would be able to in my session. Okay, we're gonna don't be scare. So this is a good exercise. Ladies do this at home, and gentlemen, it will help you when it comes to navigating who you should be with and who you shouldn't. Right, there's so many things people will tell you make a list of this, a hundred things, and you're like, I don't know how to navigate this. The pizza is simple. So we have the crust.

That's the foundation. What is his character in order for him to just be a good person and us respect him. We're not talking about anybody, just man in general. The next layer is the sauce. How does he have to treat me to make me feel good? And then the next layer is topings? How does he have to look for me to want to rip his clothes off? So

we're gonna go crust first. What's the foundation? Give me the five qualities that you need in order to believe he's a good person, just a good human, not your man, just a good human and respect him. Um one um, spiritual okay, spiritual to um, loving his mother? Um. Three, I would say very attentive okay um for um someone who cares about guys, don't Is that the same thing as being attentive? No, he can be an attentive man. He's not gonna intentive man to you because you don't

know him. Just his chrust. You're talking in general to respect him. Um. Yeah, definitely loyal okay, Um. Trustworthy okay um, that's five, because loyal trust were there are two different things. Okay, so you said you're five. Now you're gonna give us the sauce? How does he have to treat you? So? Now I've found this man, I said, Hey, I got a good person for you. He's a he has a good heart. Here he is. Now, how does he have to treat you for you don't want to be with him?

How does it make you feel well? I mean I would go by just the queen like I want you to dude. In general, we can't just say do everything. I say, what do you need? What does what do you need? In order to feel good with this person? I definitely want to be loved on. I want to be affectionate like I would like affection action, it towards me. Um, hear me, you know, listening to listen to me, communication, um, um, support me, um, pray with me. Um. I need one more.

How does he treat you? What's he do for you? How does he make you feel? Um? I mean I think just being a positive person. I think. I don't know if that's something positive motivation, your motivation. Okay, I don't know if that goes with the support, but positive motivations like affirmations and just like speaking life, speaking life in to me. Okay, beautiful, now you get feeding me. That was the crust. We got the crust and the sauce. That was the foundation who he is. And now how

he treats you? Last part of toppings. How does he have to lock in order for you to be sexually attractive? Part physical? Let me be very honest. I you know, very masculine was the dark skin. I always say more was chest masculine, dark skin, those two different things. Yeah, so that's just what I That's what I loved. But I knew when I ran into those type of guys it was more so playing a game, you know. Um, But you know, very mask and that's one masculine Um,

gotta be good looking. I don't know, you can't just I don't like Yeah pretty of course, Um muscles, that's masculine the same thing, or that masculine is not necessarily muscular, that's fit two different things us. Yeah right, pretty pretty teeth. I'm not how to dre I gotta know how to Yeah, fashionable? Um, one more, how's it looking? Nice? Smile? Okay, that smile? Okay, So we take that pizza. Now, we don't date anyone

who's not that pizza. However, the toppings are interchangeable because if it's got the crust and the sauce, is still a good freaking pizza. So we can compromise the toppings, right, because you're still gonna get fed, you're still gonna get nourished. So we don't date, and we don't keep people in our lives after we've experienced them who's not the pizza, because if not, we will not respect them because you just wasting times? Not spiritual? What am I doing? Yeah

you just told me? Yeah, why are we still lingering in this relationship? And one more? He has to no music. Music, that's just that's one of my biggest things. You have to know music. I'm talking to this guy and he told me future was an army singer. Slam gona slap my six and you know people got one little hand. Yeah, little pinky tellers you want to put in there. But I love that it makes it easier to navigate when we get to confuse. There's too many options out there.

This is how we narrow it down when you're looking for your purpose, when you're looking for your one, this is how you narrow it down. Don't be doing this with situation ships and you know if boys and all like, this is just when you're in that zone of I want something real, use your pizza. Yeah, And I don't know, I keep not I keep thinking about groom hard worker comes to you. It can change right now. We put you on the spot, so come, you know, thinking off

the top of your dome. But these are things that you should know, because if you don't know these are there's a million other things. Yeah, these are the things compromise on. Yeah, and you know you can revisit it and edit it. But don't go out there dating blindly and then like, I don't know why I didn't get him, Well, you didn't know what you wanted like, so this helps, this helps you actually build out what you need. And then following that manual, so it's called my Little Spicy Pizza.

It wasn't that bad. See, But now you're thinking, like, Dan is the guy I'm talking to this good bye? We keep him? Yeah, and what I'm thinking about him, it's like, yeah, he's everything on the pizza. He's everything on everything. If he's everything on the pizza, you better behave at an act according We don't. We don't message alright, y'all All right, y'all not know, we'll be right back. When it's the pizza. We stand up straight, we act right, Okay,

we don't play. X will come back, people will like try to get our attention, will try to come in. Yes, he would definitely come and try to do some things. A girl, I don't like pizza you no, no, no, alright? The crest. The five things you need in order to respect him A good person, um well obviously like being able to distribute respect in general to people and families. Um, someone that's hard working, hardworking, someone that's is probably committed, and that can be in all forms kind of um

committee of someone taking pizza. You can't have pizza girl. Um, not someone that can actually communicate, communicate emotions aside emotional intelligence. Yes, okay, doesn't that count as different? It wouldn't that be my five if I feel like it's that's different. That's not about communication is a healthy Communication is a part of emotional intelligence, But there are different thing It could be a great communicator, but not it tapped into your emotions

or understand others. So that makes it harder to communicate. But professional communicator. So we're gonna keep that. We're gonna keep communication and emotional intelligence because there's two variants of that. Okay, now we're gonna go to your sauce. How does he treat you so you just want to date with them? How did he make you feel? What does he do for you to keep you satisfied? Um? Conversation conversation? Um? What does it mean? What do you by conversation conversation? No?

Like real conversation? Yeah, like not like how is your day, how's your mom? Whatever? I know, like we need to like can we sit here and really have a conversation at dinner? Or is this surface level bullshit that I could could just go talk to you about whoever? Um? What else it Why has it makes me feel? Um, I guess like comfortable. Okay, you're comfortable with him. I

feel like for me. I usually I'm like I sit and I wait, and I watched people before I decided to let my wall down to be comfortable to really like, you know, get into that. What else? Um, you get three more? Ship? Uh? It makes me feel huh yeah, like opening my door. I don't see that ever, girl, I don't know where you're hanging out. Okay, okay, I mean I feel like that would be great. Um, someone

that pays attention, like to detail into small things. Um, Like I had someone order for me and I was like, how the hell do you remember that we came here five months ago? Love that? Um? You get more? Make me feel like like safe in the sense that I can trust you in a situation as a human, friends, family or whatever. Trusting. Yeah, And then the last thing is topping. So you're gonna give us what does you have to look like in order for me to work on this my damn self? And guys that are not

attractive at all? Um, And that's okay if they treat you amazing, but if they don't dreat you amazingly. Yeah. Yeah, that's where I was like, hold the hell, I gotta go. Um, Okay, I will say definitely smile for me, I feel like smile smile. Um. Tattoos is a thing for I don't know what it is. I was on here yesterday something that tattoos. It usually means you're a problem in your trouble. I love. I just want like supermanly gotta be like you know if it fits, so definitely fit someone that

could come and share that with me. Um. I wouldn't say tall, but I think you get two more? Um what they look like? What they look like? Tell her eye? Skin tone like dark? Okay, chocolate and then bless you get one more? Come on chocolate ship like one more? I guess Really it's a smile on the teeth for me, I feel like that's you can just choose. You just want those four. You could just choose those four. Okay. So you have your toping, you have your sauce, you

have your crest. Whether you're considering marrying again or dating or even letting someone inside of you again. He needs to be the pizza. If we can't trust him, why are we sleeping with him? So if he can't communicate. Why are we sleeping with him? If he's not chivalrous? Why are we sleeping with him? Like? What are we doing it for? What void are we trying to feel? So when you have your pizza, it helps you and

directs you down. Okay, you're a keeper or I'm gonna throw you back to the sea, throw you back to the sea. And sometimes we gotta throw them back because it's about knowing, like if you're just supposed to be a lesson in experience or my lifetime, and so this helps us dictate that. I do have a question about that. So what's the difference? We were saying? Purpose? Purpose mate? Purpose mate? What about twin flame? What about Like what are this? There's so many twin flame and this purpose?

And I think there's one more twin flame I heard from a psychic and it's scared the hill. Why what does it mean? Because she just like grabbed me at a pumpkin patch and I was like, why, who are you? What are you doing? And like she went into this whole thing and started telling me all these crazy details and she just freaked me out. What's the twin flame? Though? Your twin flame is like someone who you have this deep burning connection with, you might me ne them in

another lifetime. They feel similar to a soul mate, except for your twin flame. You may not necessarily end up with them or belong with them. So you guys may go your separate ways, or something pulls you back together. Um like old girl over here who said she met him six years ago and back with him, and I'm putting on the spot, but I'm just saying, like it could be. But she was saying that it's scared the heck out of her, and I'm like, well, it shouldn't

be scary, but somebody, yes, he does. But when someone to come out you with real details, like specific details that we sometimes we don't always help with our twin flame, they're not always like the best person was definitely such a deep connection that they keep pulling us back, and sometimes you have to know when to walk away, like any relationship from someone, but those are going to be

a little bit harder than, of course, any any other one. Yeah, and I think building has a friendship to you know. That's why even with you know my friend that I'm you know, Yeah, I just think to you when you're in that right place at that time, you know, so you when God brings you you and you're back together, it is he the like Spicy said, to be the friends you know or y'all just go you know, go ahead type of ways. Or timing is so important and

that's a part of compatibility. If you meet a great person, looks great on paper and makes you feel amazing, and unfortunately they don't want a relationship, it's bad timing, Like you can't want what they don't want. You guys have to be on the same page. And that little time thing you're talking about that the lady does say it like one thing is to like when you do all that, sometimes the enemy come to destroy a lot of stuff too,

so you gotta look out for those things too. You gotta be like is it for my is it healthy? Or you're just coming to knock on my dought and call some drama that's all you really want to talk to. That's where it got me because when she came to tell me, I was messing with two individuals at the time, and I was like, oh fun, she's in my head and I don't know which call I made. Because at the end of the day, I was like, I don't know if that was the right choice. I don't know what.

And then you like revisit it and you're like, okay, well, technically the definition of between flame is not ideal and these situations are not ideal, but yet that's more ideal for me that I feel like you're more ideal. So it's like that weird and you're like okay, and I'm lost. Say you had to decide based off of like who's more in alignment with the relationship goal of your goals to be in a healthy relationship? Okay, who healthy? Healthy? Who treats me the best? Who makes me feel the

loved and the most safe and secure? Who is my pizza? Because both of them, I doubt are identical in the pizza, so like they probably had two different things that you liked about them. Usually one gives us a lot of passion and the other gives us a lot of security. And so we're trying to battle on jugo. Should I be with the person who's gonna make me feel safe, they support me, they take care of me, they're gonna

be there forever. The person who gives you butterflies? The person who I want to slash them tires for, like what do you say if a guy was like, um, so, what makes you feel like you deserve commitment? Why are you so special that one guy should be committed to only you? First of all of us women in the human species, we are special, We are good people. The question is not what makes us so special that we

do commitment. It's about the man, right, It's about you being in alignment with someone who values commitment as well. And so we have we've got to just find somebody who wants commitment. Yeah, but we've got this argue with a man who wants polygamy. Right, We've got the idea that we have to earn commitment now because society is trying to tell us there's not enough men. If we look at the world population, right, let's not break it up ethnicity, but we look at the world population, there's

more than enough men to go around. Based on the challenges that we don't want to step outside of our type and our comfort zone to be with what's healthy for us. A lot of us want to eat our candy when we should be eating our vegetables. So we're compromising so that we can net what we think, what we want versus what we need and so men will try to convince us like, well, I should be with you know, twenty women, because you know I'm this, you know,

superior man or value man. And the truth of the matter is is if he's not in a linement, if he doesn't have enough self regulation, if he doesn't value commitment or believe that you are worth the commitment, why are we compromising our values for him? He's not enough like he and we would never be satisfied if we compromise that for some unless we want that for ourselves. If we want to swing, if we want open relationship,

go for it, go for it. Don't do it because the guy you like is doing correct, Do it because that's what you desire. I'm not going to compromise cheating. I'm not gonna compromise lying or honesty or all the I'm not gonna compromize any of these other I'm not gonna comproize communication for him. Like, if these are the core values that we need in our relationship, then why are we compromising these things? We're gonna be unhappy all the time. So what about the man that says we're

just wired this way? I just this is the way we are. We deserve to have multiple women. And la la, la, la la. I feel like I hear this all the time. I said, you ain't wired in no way like Okay, my sex drive could be highed too, and higher than hers, and yours could be higher than his. But what do

you mean you get? That's a social construct that society telling him, or him wanting to emulate his father or the father that wasn't there, and him feeling entitled to certain things that he feels like I should have, I should overindulge. But what happens when we overindulge with anything that we overindulge in too much of anything you can get you feel late at night. Usually we're doing these

from a place, from a void. There's usually something within him that he can't operate from self control because honestly, us as women, we want to sleep with a gain of people too. If I accepted every offer and every dick that was thrown my way, my marriage will not work out. Because let me tell you, even pregnant can still get that, can still get it. But the point is that I operate with self control, and as humans,

that's what makes is different from animals. That's why we're the superior species because we can govern ourselves and the world is our oyster. But what are we going to take advantage of and what are we going to with thrain from in order to get our needs and to get to our goal. Twenty women are going to distract you from becoming the best version of yourself. If you're a man who's trying to just be out there and put your dick in anything, it's not that's not God's

purpose for your life. I'm sorry, simple be with somebody who agrees with your lifestyle and value. Yes, it's too many bitch bitches, too many beautiful queens that want commitment, and you're dating a guy with twenty other girls, and you know that just date a guy that wants commitment. It's too many guys that want girls that don't want to swing. And it's like they girls who want to do that, but men have convinced us that because there is that there's a deficit, and so because of that,

we're acting from a place of hunger and desperation. Like when we think there's not enough food to go around, we're gonna we're starving to take whatever we'll take. And you also got to know too, who's uh, who's masking themselves as well? Would be good in the beginning, and then that's when I'm beating stuff happening at the two in the morning, and you start whatever that nice stuff says happen. The doors will be open for so long.

But it's a lot of people, even friends and everyone, they mask themselves until it gets deep, until you get comfortable, you're started living with each other. It just depends on who you are. You go slow, though, remember you said in your relationship you're going slow right now. It's you develop first the friendship. If you're not a good friend,

you can't be a good lover. I'm sorry. If you're not a good friend to me, and I'm seeing how you treat your friends, how you treat your family, how you treat the world, how you treat your job, your colleagues, you're not gonna be good to me. At some point you're gonna turn on me too. So either you're an honorable person or you're not. And we can't move so quick into intimacy physical, emotional. We can't throw all of our eggs in that basket until we know what we're

signing up for. And that's why I am moving slow. I'm moving slow, and I'm taking my taking my time, and I have been trying to proclaim. She's trying to I love it, but you and I'm just saying, if he's your husband, he needs to prove it. Yeah, and that's why we're taking prove it. You anybody that when a man says that he wants to be your husband, or I'm gonna take care of you, or I'm gonna show up for you this way, prove it, always something, prove it. I'm about action, baby, Yeah, and he's all

about that, Gussie. He got some big shoes to feel now, because I'm gonna come back and be like, Okay, where's the ring? Yeah? But um, any last words before we wrap up? Another question? You know, so um spicy. She got to her quote. What we do an inspirational quote before you have to give us the quote? Okay, my favorite is oh glasses and yeah, ask and you shall receive, Seek and you shall find, knock and the door will be open. Thank you. I contact contact or is bad sex?

Is bad sex? I'm like, I'm still trying to have some good sex. High contacts or bad sex or seven mm hmmm, alright, you guys in a while on our podcast. We're gonna take a break before we do. Spicy tell the people where they can find you. You guys can always play with my Twitter or stroke my Instagram at Spicy Moody s p I c Y M A r I or go to the Spicy life dot com and

clicking subscribe go listen to my podcast as well. Um a schedule free consultation with me, um, but the next one will be paid guy after Yeah, we just wrapped up with Spicy Mighty relationship expert. Please het her up if you have any questions. Consult is free. After that, you gotta pay, baby taking all my money because she helps me so much. I love her so much. Thank you so much for that, Spicey. She done drop some

gym from gym. She's so educated and she has a degree in communication, so she's not just talking from BS. She's talking from experience research and you know, and I love with someone about God. Yeah, that's talking about it. So that's what we need. Know you. I'm so happy for you, though. Are you taking the time to master and organize your relationship? If you want to be good at anything, you have to focus on it. Yeah, if I want to be about it. Now. I gotta practice jokes.

If I want to be getting rapping, I gotta write wraps. I want to be good at relationships any nobody. I asked my dad this and my grandmother recently, I said, why did no one in the family ever sit me down and say you're gonna date one day? This is how you I did. I learned that from my friends who was in toxic relationship. I learned from TV. I learned it from just doing it. Nobody in my family actually set me down and said, Okay, you're gonna be a young lady one day when you go on your

first date. Crossed your legs, he opened. Not one person ever talk to me about And then sometimes they don't know and they know, good luck because I'm times. But now you can never you can. Now you can do the self working at and like you said, whatever you want, if you desire to be um, just have a life partner. And I think that's beautiful. Just the beautiful part is finding somebody that wants the same things that you. So I think whatever you want, you deserve to have that.

Whether it's polyamory, whether it's being single forever, whether there's marriage. But you know the fun part is when you're getting with somebody that don't want that, you know, and you're deceiving them and all that. So just some old school find somebody that wants what you want and everybody will be happy. Hip. I am old school. Shoot, one person can be committed to you and that's who you want. And that's where we're gonna slide with up and down

ugly bad. You know, it's never gonna be peachy. You may have a water bottle that's gonna get flown over and like you, I'm going up stairs, you know and shut the door, slamming water bottle, you know, or something like I want that the baby shot flying over like I didn't sold you that I didn't want to eat that. You know, it's gonna be up at that or get a twist era. You may have to go, you know, you may have to go outside and this being ever

gonna be perfect. They're just gonna throw a water bottle at you still, like maybe just at the wall because I'm sorry, I'm frustrated and I'm angry. I thought we were gonna get married. You won't be like that. But marriage is not always perfect though, I'm talking about you

throwing stuff. Oh, I mean I may throw like I'm still got and I'm saying I may throw like you know, that's just not at him, but it may be out of anger, and I may have to make myself in a situation center myself to say, you know what, that was wrong. Let's talk about it. That's what it is. Because you're not to throw it, you're at it, because if you're with me, you I ain't gonna edge. I'm having sex with John. I just threw a water butt fo episodes Who John? I don't know who? That's the

baby's name. Yeah, I don't. I ain't going on. I ain't run sleep with nobody. At least you could do was just hear me out and take a second doctor it after the water bottle after not mad alright, I don't tell you to pat the tax on the car wives late. Oh I was out there, Okay, just no, you're not going to go through that. Well, you know, things do happen. So in the midst of you having spicy to be your merit, your your relationship council, things

are gonna be up and down. But you have to in your mate has to come as one as a union to figure it out. And it's not gonna be just this conversation or talking. You may have something that's yo, but all right, baby, I love you. When I fight with my people's or someone I loved and that person sent to me, in my mind, I'd be like, oh, I want to yell at you, but then it's just like,

all right, cool, Like I get you. You know. I got that situation where you know who and we were talking and I was like, I'm mad, and that dude ain't even just he didn't come back at me the attitude. He was like, I love you, have a great day. Come when you're fine. So that's the that's right, And that's too like you ain't cool. You let me and then you ain't gonna say that absolutely not girl, And it's like no, no, I'm not gonna say nothing. So

you know, stuff happened. My uncle and my aunt been married for so many years, you know, and I've seen them argue, but I also seen oh yeah, you know um and they had up and down. But what he did, he loved on her even in an arguments. You know, I love that fifty years and holding your wrinkled hands. What they do famo. Any last words and the last word. Who's doing the toast? Well, I do it. I actually have one today. Okay, all right, This above all should

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