Sex Education ft. Samia Burton (pt 2)

guests back for another week. She is a sex but her name is some Maya and I'm here with my girls. Be simone, pretty be. It's your girl, just in a Valentine and I got some more questions. So we're about to get fighted. So how do y'all masturbate it? Well, all be trying to think you do y'all just be laying on yay. I'd be up in the hood the hood you were talking about. I just I just could do like a little touch. I'm not fingering myself when I do this. I'll just be like I'm like touching

like that hood area. And you know, it's just real easy for me. That's why I can't believe. Like when you guys say you're not sure if you orgasm, and I'm like, the common common women have not ever had Yes, that's what I wanted to know. What have never had an orgasm? But think about it. The first time you get dick, you just know it felt good, so you

settle for that. It's like everything else in life. You get a job to pay you more than you've ever had, so you stop even yes, like people are completed or it might be a great job, but that don't mean that that's it. So eight percent of women haven't had an orgasm, not at all, especially a hetero sexual sex not at all. So that's another thing. So like when absolutely insane. But that's the thing if you if you become a millionaire, right, you have to work just as

hard to keep it right. So you have to keep doing the work. We get dick one time and somebody say they love us, and we be done. Oh that's my that's my baby. This is good, and you just stop. You don't even keep searching. But that's because we don't invest any time or money into our sex life because well, I mean, I got them. Guess what, anything that you get, it takes a lot to maintain it. Yes, to keep

to get better. Like if you don't do, if you stop studying, if you stop doing everything that it took you to become a millionaire, you will be broke that you ain't but broke. You might have made a million dollars, but you that don't make you a millionaire. You're not gonna make another one. That's gonna be the last name. And it's just easier to talk to people about money. Didn't talk about their pussy. But if you just exchange the words, it's the same ship. And that's basically it's basically,

guess what I'm doing right now? Somebody, what's what you're doing? Yes? Playing in your head? Were they with the person? We can do We can't see you something that nobody can see, playing with your busy for you, but be if you haven't been masturbated, and that thing is tight as hell. Forget about the kegles, get to the it's gonna be months. You're good. You're good, you don't need any Get whole new couch. That's good for you. You three our hold what is it? Three? Hold hope for three seconds and

then release. But also doing two to three times a day, that's a really good way to milk the dick though, So like you know, milking the dick is like y'all ever be stroking the dick and y'all feel that vain pop out and oh yeah, he about to come. So you could do that like with your mouth. You can

that with your pussy. You can do that with your hands, but a lot of people don't really know how to do it with your pussy, which is basically like when you're going up on the dick, Like when say you're sitting all the way on the dick when you're coming up, grip it and then she just grabbed it dick. I know y'all can't see it, but you grip it with your pussy and then like when you sit back down,

let go then when you come up right. But a lot of people on the way up and that's why it's like, that's why you should practice like holding it for three seconds because otherwise you'll be real tired, um, And you just practice it over time. You just even if you don't notice it, do it with your partner, like if you if you have somebody that you fucking be like, babe, I'm really trying to up this pussy game for us, right, talk about it. Can you feel me squeezing on this dick? Now? He may say no

a little bit, but just keep practicing. No, but that's cute. Some hot dogs down that I was doing that to him. He's like, you just squeeze on it. Look at her blood ship strong to do that. I can like make oh, never say I had sex. I had sex in the seventh grade. I ain't gonna die. I really feel like I see it. I see how you see how her voice change or her eyes changed, like when she started talking about it, like her whole domeanor change, and it's all like real cute. I feel like I'm a freak

and I never had an orgasm? What kind of stuff y'all think y'all be doing this? Like freaky? I think we should talk about before we get into it, because I want to make sure I apply. Okay, you gotta be certified to be a sexpert. You gotta be certified, or you could just be teaching it ahead and just teaching. You could be um. So it's almost like your master's degree.

So if you're a certified sexologist tech, just like for your masters, you have to have coursework you have to have experience, you have to have a whole bunch of stuff. So a lot of people don't even get certified in sex work until there are years in the game. So they have a whole bunch of classes that you can take that qualify you, just like your master's degree UM to get certified. I refuse to just take any of them because they might not all be dedicated to what

I like to teach. So so far, I've taken UM the Tantra certification class, and I'm a very thorough ass woman. So I like to be really good at something, and I had to retake the class because it was so much stuff to learn, and it's like it really challenged me, like the ship was hard, not because it's actually hard, but it requires you to be still and trust your body. You know what I'm saying, Like tantric sex. Oh my god, what does that? What does that mean? Oh? My goodness?

So Tan Trick, It's like, all right, so bear with me, y'all. Know how like when you go on vacation, you didn't left everything at home, you left them kids at home, you didn't let work, You ain't talking about social media, like you ain't gonna do ship phone, don't do not disturb you smell the ocean, you feel free. You breathe in deep, you take a deep breast of the air like that, let go feeling where you're very aware of

everything around you. That is tantric, right, But our life has a so robotic because we have to get through the day, which is why they tell us to meditate throughout the day because it brings you back to present, which is why people bring plants to their desk to

remind us that we are more than what we do. Right, when we have sex, a lot of us are kind of doing the action because we horny, and there's nothing wrong with that, but it's really great when you can calm down and feel everything your body is feeling because a lot of us have trauma. Right, So, if anybody has ever touched you inappropriately, or if you've ever felt uncomfortable, like even me with men. Men make me very uncomfortable because a lot of them are creepy. At the grocery store,

you don't even realize. Sometimes you'll ask be clinched when you walk past the man because he's making you you don't like. You don't know if he's gonna say something. Sometimes he's looking at you like real weird. Well, that's another reason for the eighteen or forty minutes for four play because when you sit down with somebody, yes, you can feel it, but you really don't even know how you feel it. And you know this, this is a good way to test it. When you go to the O, B, G,

Y N. Do you get horny? No, because you know how to accept when someone is touching your body and when someone is being sexual with your body. And you're crazy if you think that you can just flip that switch on and off. So tear trick practices help us get better at really feeling. It's like being super vulnerable and exposed, but you have to keep yes, and we have to keep ourselves safe during the day. So having tantric practices helps you to let go of all that

hard ship when you're being central, especially with yourself. So yes so and you seem to know like yeah, and like you seem to be so nogural to like just about anatomy of like the men and the women, Like oh, the part you're talking about. I'm like, okay, she knows.

I've been doing this for four years and it is the most liberating and humbling experience because I realized so many people think they cannot get the sex life that they want, and it's because we're scared, or we don't want to lose the love of our life or whatever. And ultimately it comes down to boundaries and confidence. A lot of the women that we see every day walking around that we want to be like, are not actually fully confident. If you deny a part of yourself, how

is that confident? If you're not working on undenying that, how is that really confident? You know what I'm saying.

So really becoming a centual, confident woman has been the most liberating, amazing experience, and it's opened so many doors for me because feminine energy is powerful, as Cleopatra was shutting down worlds with her sensuality, like starting wars over her because she knew how to control her feminine power, and me knowing when to be quiet when I need to be the bad bit in the room, knowing how to care for myself has started attracting people that see how I live and they only want to add to it.

Like even the people that step to me and asked me for things, they don't do it anymore. Because they see how I carry myself. You know what I'm saying, Some like real sensuality and just even sex with your absolute feminine walking to your feminine power. And they don't even mean being girly. It don't mean being greatly at all. It means being confident in having your boundaries. And so one of the things I'm telling women, before you even talk about what you want somebody do for you, what

if they only gave you everything you give yourself. What if they was like, hey, I took this off your plate, so I did everything that you do for yourself this month, what would you have? You know what I'm saying. And we really just have to be more accountable about our sex life. So for me, I went on this journey like in the last year, right, and I got my house and I got to interior decorator. I said, I want my house to look like a grown ass woman,

a central ass room. You know what I'm saying. There is not a lot of stuff in my room, but it looks sexy as Hell's pictures of me in some of my best photo shoots and stuff on my wall that makes me feel so sexy. You know, it's mirrors all over my house. My house smells good as fun. It's candles, extra beads. When I washed my clothes, the plug ins. My car is always clean because it's sexy. It looks good, it smells good. I started making a

little chalkoochie boards by myself. That tastes good, it looks sexy, like I love getting on the gram and making a little picture. They're like, damn where you're at, bitch at home like that? Like, because I'm doing all the ship that I wish somebody would do for me. And then I realized, like, you can start doing that by yourself. Now people are approaching me that already liked that. They

like that too. Now we have something in common versus me not doing anything, and so anybody is approaching me who am I? Who am I? The way that I played with my pussy? If somebody like even when you talk get to know what dude, y'all talk about how y'all are sexually and stuff like that, when I start the conversation with well, yeah, I was just masturbating for our what you do today, I've been changed the whole fucking game. Like, ain't nobody coming to me without half

fast dick? Because I've said the President. You know what I'm saying, life, I really want women and men to like really get in their bag on just learning how to voice what they want, making boundaries politely with other people, and also saying I totally understand that you don't want to do that, but that's not gonna work for me. Yes, I need to hear more about that. So we're gonna take a quick break. Y'all will be right back with some Maya the sexpert, and you don't want to miss this.

As soon as we get back, we're gonna have some Maya put us onto a game with female ejaculations and all the different types. I think we're gonna get into monogamy as well, So y'all keep a lots. We're back with the women a while in our podcast, it's your girl be semone. I got my girl pretty being Dustine and Valentine. We are with the sex experts some Maya and we are talking sex baby. So monogamy does not

work for me. I am not a one person. I love anybody because I'm a person that can connect with this is how you got that way right, which is really dangerous. But now that I've learned to control it. I realized that I love different people for different things.

So like I may have one partner, like at one point I had a husband and a boyfriend, right, so like I had one partner that was these things, and I realized the relationship was just so much better when I wasn't trying to force them to do things or be somebody who they weren't weren't so like I love to read. At that time, that part the main person did not like to read. That's not the thing that like video stuff that I'm just not like that. I

still use pen and paper. I'm old school. My boyfriends, I would be like, oh, do you like to read? Like that's something I want to do. Sometimes I want to get dick afterwards, so yes, like, yes, you can read with your friends, but sometimes I want to read. We have our little book of love and then you

dig me down. And that's that's my progative. That's okay for me and a lot of people I don't know how to voice, or they think they're cheaters or everybody in the world thinks they cheaters when really maybe you were never a monogamous you know. So I help people even explore their sexuality to figure out, hey is what I'm doing. Yes, you only know Western culture. You only only grew up one way, and we make changes everywhere else in our life. Some of us grew up broke.

But guess what we're balling now. You didn't just stick. You don't ever just stick with anything that you learned. If you even when you have kids, you think about what I didn't like about growing up and what I want to make different now. Same thing with your sexuality. And sexuality includes more than just fucking. It's who you would like to date, what your relationships look like. Are you polyamorous or you know? Like I just interviewed a lady the other day. She got a husband and a boyfriend.

They all live together. They find every Yes, they all live together. They find all of them fine, Like do they have other girlfriends? They're looking for one girl I put in my application. I'll let you know how to go. So do the guys hook up as well or just sometimes?

Like it depends on the situation. So in her situation, her partners are fluid, but in everybody's no, like in my situation before, No, they weren't fluid, like I dealt with them separately, but we were all, you know, they all knew about each other, everything, knew about everything, like I've never I've never lied about who I was. And when I started telling the truth because at some point you don't really lie about who you are. You just don't really share it because you think like they ain't

gonna go for this. Well, ain't nobody gonna go for nothing if you don't really explain it to them. And also if you don't walk in that truth, you know what I'm saying, Like I don't have it. You have to walk in the truth. And the thing about it is when I, um, when I was in my relationship, he didn't know I had so much kids, So I said kids, daddy, Ena, I can't let you. I'm over her, lifting to like girl, I'm over here, Like okay, so she got some kids, all right? So are you dealing

with somebody right now? And I I just broke up with someone and I chose and it was like one of the loves of my life. And I separated because I was like, um, I want to focus on me and I'm not getting everything that I want. This is who I am, and I don't feel like you're really supporting that. The best so let's get in some space and if it come back, it come back. Like That's one of the great things about being Polly is that,

like things come back to me all the time. But I don't ever want to force nothing because then I get off my purpose or I'm not concentrated and I'm trying to be a rich bitch, like like I want all my things. Okay, so if my relationship is getting in a way of that, then it's not gonna work,

you know. So I'm also exploring dating a couple. I think that may be best for me next, like a couple that's looking for a girlfriend, because they already have their main relationships so they don't need as much for me. And I'm so busy, and that's usually the problem a lot of people like, damgn you ain't got no time for this, time for that? Well I go and you know,

so yeah, but with a couple, look at things. They already have a life, they already have a relationship, and then I get to pop in and they can support me. And that's another thing. I don't want to date nobody that can't do what I could do for me. A couple got two incomes, they can do for me what I do for. So somebody I have a question about, like um with with like the masturbation courses and everything. I was like thinking about it the whole time while

you were talking. Is there like a success rate would you say of like how many people like because you said percent of women just haven't had an orgasm yet? So when they come to you, is it like are able to learn after that? Never had I've never money back. No, no, no no, I've never actually had anybody to say they didn't when they did, I talk to them. I'm super accessible. So like if you d M me, I'm the one who responds to you. Um. Yeah, Like people hit me

up all the time. I just I have my boundary, so I when I'm busy, I don't answer, but I just always respond back. But anybody that comes to me like I didn't come, I do that conversation we talked about earlier, and they're like, yeah, I I only did it once, and I'm like, okay, we'll do it, like help. First of all, it's a lot of blue check marks in my d M s. Let's start there. Um and yes, and everybody everybody when they do the work, they get

the result. I don't think I've ever had anybody say like, it just never worked for me. Now, some people may not squirt, but they're ejaculating, and that's the thing. Everybody thinks that, oh, I'm gonna squirt data. Everybody's so focused on squirting when squirting don't even mean you had an orgasm. So how about we focus on you having an orgasm term you know, what I'm squirting is the liquid that comes out of your urethra. But they're being already started

with this early. There are four different types of ejaculation. Let's clear this ship up right now. So everybody chasing squirt and ain't even caught a nut. Right, So squirting can happen voluntarily or involuntarily, right, So some people just natural squarters. I am not a natural squirter, but I was like, you have to, I know how to make my body get to that point. There are some people that just know how to press their pussy in a certain way and it just happens. I don't. I don't

got pushed to start pussy, Okay, I don't. My ship is not pushed to start. So having a stronger orgasm ups the chances of you having a like a squirting orgasm or squirting period. But the thing is because they're not even having orgasms, they don't know how to squirt, So it's like you're trying to make yourself squirt. You either are a natural squirter or you're not. So there

are two people about a class. You Either a natural squirter, so you're not taking it for the squirting part, you're taking it for the masturbation part, or either you're looking

to squirt. If you're looking to squirt, that means that you're not a natural squarter, because you would already know you were a naturally squirter, right, So if you're not a natural more exactly so, if you're not a natural squirter, I'm going to teach you how to have a strong gass orgasm and how to make your body naturally do it, and we're just going to confuse your body. I'm going to make you have one orgasm, then I'm have two orgasms.

Then I'll make you have two types of orgasms at one time, like a vaginal orgasm and a clitter orgasm. I'm gonna teach you all the things if you do what I asked you to do, And that's why I asked people. I don't I don't want to talk about how I feel, how you feel, or none of that measurable points. Did you do what I asked you to do? Did you do it as often as I asked you to do it? I'm like a trainer. You know what I'm saying. I'm not gonna down you. You're gonna do

it in your own time. But don't ever come to me talking about what didn't happen when you didn't do what I asked you to do. Yeah, like, I ain't got no ask, you didn't sat, you didn't square that girl. Even still sometimes that ask don't be coming in. But but I ain't been wrong about no pussy yet. So everyone that's game you has masturbated, I mean, has had an orgasm if they talked to me, Yes, there has

not been anything. Yes, That's why I'm like because I was like, girl, what I tell you the first day we talked, I said, girl, if you take the class, now, you go orgasm, not if you want to do I was like, bait, that was a month ago, I said, give me. So this is the other thing. Y'all realized that a lot of us are only chasing orgasm we don't really know what anything feels like. We just are looking for the orgasm. We don't know what pleasure feels like.

Usually getting dick is the only pleasure we feel because it's a consistent going in and out and it's like a massage on the inside. Right, But when we masturbate or play with our pussy, we don't have the same patients. We're just looking like, dang, I ain't come yet. Did you pay attention though, because your orgasms have characteristics, so you know, like I know that when I'm about to come, I'll feel, um. It's almost like a cartoon when a thermometer, you know, it get red red red red, and then

it blows yes like buzz bunny or something. Right, I can tell when I'm about to orgasm because I feel that pressure, like actually starting to rise. But that's because I stopped looking for it. You need to pay attention and slow down to see how your body is feeling, because then when you have sex with somebody, you can recognize those signs like hey, we whoa stay there like you know, like we're getting there, and so it's like, yes, it's not just about orgasm at all, because mind you,

those masterclasses are the basics. If you don't handle that properly, when you get into that Patreon, baby, you're gonna be so overwhelmed, like you ain't gonna know where to start. You're gonna be wondering why stuff don't work because you're trying to skip ship like so impatient. It's so much information. But somebodya what we do before every the end of every single podcast, before we do you talk to us about a lot of stuff. And there was actually a

lot of bombom quotes that you said. But we want our guests to give us a quote like to end with on a positive note. So give us like if you could leave anybody that wants to orgasm out there, beginners, anybody a bomb quote? What would you live in with? So James Clear is my obsession right now about habits right, Um he wrote Atomic Habits and the quote that I've

been hanging on myself, Yes it's an amazing book. Um, is that if you show me your accents, I'll show you who you are as well as who you are is nothing but the compound interest of what you do every single day. So you can lie to me, you can lie to the world, but in life You're going to get what you put in. You know what I'm saying. So you stop expecting people to put more into your

sex life, Your sensuality, your confidence, pour into you. Make sure your cup is full before you start working with anybody else, because then you will actually stop criticizing people as much. You will really see the love that they have for you. If they're trying to feel the cup that you should have been born, you know, like your your regular cup that should already been feeling, they'll never

do a good enough job because they're not you. Only you know what you need and so be more accountable today. I want you to ask yourself, am I doing the work? When is the last time I paid for something that contributes to my sexuality? When is the last time I looked up how to buy a sex toy? What's a good sex toy? When is the last time I asked my partner how satisfied are they? How am I doing

with communication? Does my partner feel comfortable enough to come and talk to me and say, hey, I actually didn't have an orgasm? Or am I walking through this life assuming if you want to have a good sex life, didn't do the work. I'm not asking you to figure it out. I'm just asking you to start. And I got all the answers. I have all the answers. All you gotta do is do it. But don't come to me with that excuses. Ship. It don't work for nothing else in life, and it don't work on this. But see,

I love that period me for you. Um, if you can't hit it like a theme, you could always flick your on. Mean, I love that. We're gonna have to put that on a shirt, could you. I'm a medi, I'm a media huh me, and I got you. Yeah, we'll have like the little bean with his little thing is like this, we got to call this episode bad bitches bus Can we do that? That's cute? Is it a bbll BBB? So? Where can people find you? Give them your socials? Absolutely so. You can find me on

Instagram at sexual centrals all one word. Anything else is a fake account. Um in my bio. Um there's a link and it has my website, it has the master classes and um my Patreon link which is fifteen American dollars. That is how much it costs me to get my eyebrows wext. Okay, so very reasonable? Yes, information, Yes, there are over two hundred classes on their their guests on there, and I know that you're probably don't know how we're gonna get you to be this hot sex machine, but

don't where. I already got to cover its working classes on there, how to take better selfies like in nudes and data ideas. There are guests teachers. There are actual demonstrations with women who have actually donated their pussy to science, which is me. Uh. And I actually performed some of the classes that I'm teaching, y'all. Um, I put the real human. Yes, I had two women bott into their body to me. I went to Atlanta. We covered their face. One woman had never had an orgasm. She left there

with like four orgasms that day. Um and huh. And then on the other woman, the other woman, I felt so bad for her because her demonstration was about um orgasm denial and I showed people how they can use this to their benefit and really change things. So she was like miserable by the time she was done. So all kinds of different things. I teach all this stuff,

um and most of his on Patreon. And yeah, so my website is the Sexual Essentials dot com And hit me up and it's a whole bunch of free information on my Instagram, Like it's so many videos. Yeah, y'all gotta follow her on Instagramy, you don't want to ex positions of the day, all kind of stuff. I've on the position of the day. Yes, I'm looking at the same thing that girl. Yes, you know busting that naked looking come Benamota, let him nut look at us ship nasty.

I love it. I love that for you and for him. Thank you so much to mine for coming through. And I must have to subscribe so I can learn how to squirt. I have no problem master me, but I might want to send him on a waterfall. Night night night, y'all. We're having a bomb ass time this conversation, but we gotta take a break. We'll be back right after this with more Women a While and Out podcast? What's popping? Y'all? What back with the Women a While and Out podcast?

And we just had some Maya a sexpert that's a sex expert find her instagram just scrolling just like people were sending me, sending her page to me because I was saying I never had an orcasm? Got you? Okay? So what do you think about her classes? Are they like, No, they're good. I'm on video number seven, so we're gonna see you when I get to the the end, I might have to sign up. See how menight you need? You need to really finish tonight. I'm gonna try. I gotta

know what i'd be doing. It's okay organs, I'm not whatever squirting and I cannot believe, like y'all haven't ever had an orgasm before. That's just insane, man, I promise you.

I don't know like when I be um, I told her like when I'll be doing it, like when when I used to I haven't had sex in a couple of months now, so like five but literally no four, But um, get your list because I said, I don't I want clarity from to dude, I don't want to keep doing so um right, Literally when I was doing it, like I was like, I'm like something coming out like

a pin or something like, it's something coming out. But one of the beforehand vy did you never had like like legs used to be shaking all that stuff, But I don't know what was coming out. So I was listening to somebody. I don't be able to get put up all game just as well as y'all, and because I don't want him, he just feels always have Nigga's button that though I ain't no one that girl, like you're gonna do it again, We're gonna do it again.

I'm not going to be MoMA to be. Yeah, you're gonna do we can turn not when you got me on my da, I'm on a good Friday. She definitely knows the stuff though. It's interesting to see, like all the parts she was showing, like the hood and the peak comes out the hood and then the labias and what's inside. She has a real model, Like that's crazy to me. You're never like a real human model. Oh yeah,

that when she said she had one live in person. Yeah, even though they cover their faces like work, a little strand of hair is sticking out tattoo cover. I don't wear a mask covered my face. You should only be able to like when you go to the doctor, you can only see a little hole, a little through. That's it. That's wild. I got too many tattoos down there. I can't. She got like a cross, and she got like I wasn't a clock. Yeah, I don't have no tattoos, so

I can get away with it. I'm definitely excited. Beat it like, um here, how you end off on the journey. And she does say that she has a hundred percent success rate, so you can't be her. Yeah, you're not gonna be her only field case. She's gonna make sure she gets you going on only field case. Friend, give me some good energy from Tom. I can't do that. I don't know how to mass. I just I'm excited. I'll be walking around like on that beach. I just came.

I think what she's saying bad bitches bus So, y'all, that was an amazing show. The women while on our podcast, thank you out so much for tuning in. It's your girl be Samon with my girl Justina Valentine and my girl be Hey hey hey, but we love y'all. Thank you a for tuning in and we'll see you next time. We out Peace on the b