Welcome to the Women a While in our podcast. You guy, baby girl, Hobby body, your girl be yall, she go pretty yall. We're back to your girl just being a be with pretty d and be someborebody can anybody can? You'll show lay Tonight we're gonna have the women a while and the pod casts all acrost. What's up you guys, it's your girl be samone and welcome back to the Women of Wising Now podcast where the women control the mic.
I'm here with my beautiful co host Pretty TV and just being a Valentine Baby I miss y'all says, hey, going on, so you know what, I've got an icebreaker, Let's get back into it. Our boss is having another baby with with a host that used to be on the podcast with great Hey, b baby, you know that's a boyfriend number two? She baby and mama number fifty seriously and bring up there on the win while picture frame. I'm like, she's up there. I love you break breat
so sweet. That's probably why she couldn't do this season. She was like, I'm busy, but I'm pregnant, right, I'd be dollar baby my stomach. You guys have a great literally and they're having they're having a boy. Congrats, so beautiful, so pretty, she's so pretty and me and got it. She has to get to know her, like doing the podcasts, the real sweet girl, so beautiful, hustler, she works. She's an entrepreneur. Also, she does real estate and all that.
So you know, I don't see why any man wouldn't want to knocker it right, you go, congratulation to the bossman. I tried to be his baby mama too, but he was like I was already sent him with dicks. I said, you could have read it on me, honey. But okay, you know he want a few more. You want, Chilly girl, probably two more, because he probably wants at least ten. I thinks, just a nice round number, he said, at
least he can't keep going till right. Well, you know, it's so crazy when you look at him and you see how and when he dropped them draws. It's a whole different situation. And you seen it. I've seen it. You did backstage. Oh you've seen the print online? No, oh, you seen it. You've seen it. And I wish you ill can see me. I can't see her. She's holding up the mic and direct, I said, old boss, come on, bos's next. Next it will be like cut that section out.
He's gonna be like, just clip. I don't care. That's true, especially you're saying it's big, So yeah, leave that trailer. So that means you gave him head because if somebody whipping it out, you gotta do something. How didn't do nothing with it we got, But y'all, I got a guest for y'all that I wanted to introduce you'all too, because I came across her on social media when I told my close friends. Because y'all know, I don't tell
everybody everything. I just told my close friends. So if you want to get on my close friends about my instagram, but I told my close friends I had never had an orgasm, and somebody like referred her to me and gave me her Instagram, was like, you need to hit her up. You need to talk to her. She's a tex expert of that. I'm like, okay, I'm gonna do it so I don't pay for her class on masturbation and squirting. But I ain't done it yet. I'm scared. I still think Jesus is watching. So but her name
is some Maya. Hey, some Maya, what are you doing? Thanks for coming? Twa. Guys, it's how are your kay? To Maya? Everything is good. I mean might smell a little this morning, but I'm just I'm just serious. I'm just kidding. I'm not serious. We need to talk about if you don't say nobody when you could you be off?
I was gonna take right, Yeah, gets older, you could be super your pussy you can smell off and so and it could be like based off what you ate or something what you eat asparagus, you first of all smelling crazy? How you smelling like pissa? Not the shitty piss that you was talking about, but like pissy. Right, But tell them a little bit about who you are. Because I found you on social media and you were like, girl, I can have you orgasmum, orgasmum, I can have you
orgasm by tonight. The minute I was like, well, I'm scared, she was like, I'm a she didn't even know me from a candapign y'all. She sent me a package of toys that are still in the box. Um, samya, I'm gonna do it. Give me a minute. I just started the course two days ago. She's been on my ass. I started the course. I'm watching the videos and I'm actually making progress. First, I'm watching the elms. Let me get myself comfortable, so tell them a little bit about
who you are and what you do. And you know, so I make bad bitches less but so talk that so no real real talk. I um. I teach hands on sexual education classes. So people consider me a hands on sexual educator, which means you can learn about sex on YouTube and everything else, right, but I show you I apply what I'm talking about. We're talking in layman's terms. I'm like your sex best friend in your head. So all the uncomfortable things, I have no shame. I feel
like that's what God put me here for. I have no shame doing my part to save the rain for us. So I'm teaching people how to suck, dig, how to eat pussy, how to do different things, how to ride properly, how to have a vaginal orgasm, how to squirt, how to you know, have your orgasms longer, how to get more essential and sexy and be confident like not and not just women but men too, because men, men will come and they'll have orgasms, and you know, as women
will be like, well, at least you called a nut. Like, but if you talk to them, what they think matters too, and every nut is not a good nut. So I teach them how to have stronger orgasms and really kind of like bridging the gap between men and women, men and men, women and women, whether whoever you fucking or yourself, so that way you can have a great sex life, because we're great. There's so much other stuff, but we put absolutely no effort in making ourselves have orgasms. When
it's a whole part of you. If you don't know, if you don't know, it comes out in your sleep, you know what I'm saying, Like it's a part of you, like literally like think about it, wet dreams, you remember when the little you know, boys growing up and everything else. Literally your body has to let that out. And so truth there's a lot of us learned about sex from our friends or we either learned how to not get an s TV or we're told don't get pregnant. Are
a lot of our sex journey started. We don't do this and don't do that, And that's do you know what I'm saying, Like, it's not it's not realistic, it's not realistic. Not at all. And everything I was told not to do, I did, not telling you why they're just telling you what not to do. And a lot of it is because it's what they did or the Bible says, and that's just not realistic and it really shuns our sexuality. And I really with that ship. So have you had an orgasm? Address? Hell? Yeah, but you're
talking about an orgasm in my life. Yeah, I have an orgasm every time I have sex. So here's how I do it. So I start on top because I liked so um. I start on top because that's how I just know how to control my orgasm. I could orgasm and six got in you on top because it's one to three, get me off. Oh no, I'm I'm a soccer player, so I got strong guy. I could, really I could. I could bump it and bounce it, so but I'd like to go slow top I get
my orgasm. I could literally get in sixty seconds. And then I start bumping the bouncing like the energizer bunny because the more a bump A bounced, the Mormon make it, you know, come out quicker for him. Yeah, orgasm every time I have sex, every time. And see that's the thing for the women. Yeah, I feel but that's why, b I feel bad for you, and you need to start with maybe the nails are too long for you, that you can describe yourself first of all, who's doing
it the acoustic way? Right? Sold carpet and fat fingers. I need some vibration in my life. I have time. I'm a busy woman. I'm trying to get in and get out period. But getting on top is a great way to have an orgasm for a woman, just because you can control where the dick is in the g spot and all that stuff. But when we look at everything, we have to make sure we look at the duality. So what your partner is getting on what you're getting and a lot of them. I guess the chair scoop
feels good. But after that, cha, how can you can you show us the chair skeiop like a chair scoo when you're on top, like you doing something down. It's a little itch. But at the end of the day, like even when you think about how women ride did they don't even be going up and down on the whole thing. They kind of just do like this. That means that you only get like one or two inches. Actually,
are you supposed to go all the way to the top? Yes, Like, think about if somebody was every listen here first, don't be don't be acting like this. We've been We've been all right, I'm sorry, I'm gonna I'm gonna go to but look here. Think about it. So say, say somebody sucking you right, and you know how they do that lttletise They put their head in and pull it out. You're like, like, come on, van, don't be playing with me.
When you get on top and you only kind of moving a little bit, it feels the same, and that's kind of why they'd be taken over from the bottom, like girl, let me get out, let me do this ship myself, and they'd be throwing you up and down. But it's because you own the ride, so why you're on the ride. It feels like you're moving hellas and
you know you're moving like all of the edge. Hen when you sit on the dick, do yo yo couci and the balls and dick should be touching, but it'd be like a space because we can't even squat down. We're not stretching like it is just no care. It is no care. Or effort actually being the masturbation class. I'm gonna big riding class next. Yeah, I'm not gonna you bring I cannot wait to see that. Alright, y'all, we gotta take a break at your girl be small,
pretty be just being a Valentine. We got our girls some Maya the sex expert. We will be right back after this with the women a while in out podcast. Welcome back to the Women of Whiling Out podcast. You should girl be small with my girl pretty being just seen the Valentine. We got the sex expert, s Maya. She's going to teach us all about orgasms. Have you had an orgasm before? Girl? I don't know what I
did here? No, no, no, I don't know literally like you know, I mean, I'm a little freaky diggy and all. I like, um, but I don't know. I just literally be like I don't know, like when I'm like, oh, I'm wearing a lot of wet nets, come out thinking like that, like okay. The funniest part, like V I could just imagine you like in bed, like you're probably just so like such a clown in bed, like just doing different personalities voices like I can't even really see
you being free. I can see you just be here like just crazy. It's a whole different ballgame. Like I don't take all that extra stuff in bed, like I really be me. So it's just like and you know me, i'd be dancing and stuff. So I think for me doing splits all that stuff, because you know that's why I like that's rough. I gotta rough, Like I don't ever rough extra stuff. You said you'll be doing the
extra stuff in bed like my personality. Yeah, okay, okay, I was like you peanuts mama bed very like X see I love like I love that, you know, so you like a different person. Yeah, like you gotta be you can't go on. It's like yo, pick up, like come on, you drop the jools like I got dad and be like what's up? Like you know, and I don't need to get drunk to do nothing. So I'm just you know, and then they can still pop. But you'll be you don't know if you ever had an orgasm.
You never had that if you had a lot of young women, a lot of women say like, I don't know if I've ever had an orgasm. It is so sure, like it's like taking a ship on yourself. You're very sure if you shot, if you shut yourself, you would know. So I know. So when okay, let me think. So when like a dude having said with you right, and like he just keep going he boom boom boom, like you laid out like this, I don't know a position.
It said, be laid that and he like did he And it's like, oh my god, like my lag like just shaking, like, oh, I gotta go pee? Is that what it means? Like I'm gonna do it? Did you let whatever happened happened or did you stop? You know? Like but Pete, are you sure you like until you squirted? There we go. Let's let's get into it. I was waiting for somebody to bring up the magic word her on before we before we getting this is parting and
all that because I took back, took the course. It's four ways a woman can ejaculate, you see, I wanted video trying to start out we talk about how did this start for you? Start us from the beginning before we get into sparting and all that. How did you get into this? Okay? How did you start? So after I had my son, of course, you know, after we had kids. We'd just be talking to other people that got kids because it's like this whole little so right.
So I was talking to other moms and I found out that a lot of them got pregnant but didn't actually have an orgasm when they made their kids. Now, for me, I got biggest hell. I game forty pounds t start hitting them, ankles, stretch marks, stuff was hurting. It didn't hurt before. And I was like, bitch, I know you're lying. I know you're not telling me that you did not catch ing up for all of this. Like I'm not saying I'm not a bad bit now, but there was a different level of pre baby body
that was going. So I was like, damn, it's hell of people that's in marriages, in relationships with the love of their life and they're putting sex on the back burner or acting like it doesn't matter simply because they think they can't get what they've seen on the movie or what they dreamed about. And I'm like, well, why why not? And I'm just like that, I just asked these questions, and so I was like, I'm gonna start
a blog. But then I was like, we can't really have a blog because then people bound these cheap ass dollar store sex toys and then they're gonna suck up something. So let me pick out the toys. And then I was like, well, even if I talk about sex, it has been doing that, Like I need to show them what's up. I was like, but I don't really want to do pooring nothing against it, but it's just not my thing. And so I was like, well, I'm gonna just show them how to teach, because that's not poem.
Teaching is not poem, and it's not And so I started doing classes, like so, I see three master classes, right, And these three master classes are a mouth master class, which is a dick second class, a dick writing class which is writing yeah, and a master squirting class, which is about yes. And that's the one I always tell women to start with first. Um, it's about teaching you how to properly play with your pussy, to have stronger orgasms, more frequent orgasms, how to squirt if you'd like to,
and just understanding how your body even works. And that has to be the basis of the foundation when I teach, right. So then after that they go to my Patreon and it's over two hundred and something classes. That's when we really start, you know what I'm saying. The master classes are just to make sure that we all on the same page when I'm talking. Yes, but it's so much
stuff in there that people don't know. So like even from eighty five South, when I was talking about the eighteen or forty minute orgasms, I saw the comments everybody like, girls, something wrong, worry they don't take eighteen forty minutes. First of all, it don't take a lot to do a lot of things. You know what I'm saying. You could say that you make money by going to McDonald's and working every day, no shade, But that's not what I'm
talking about. I'm talking about making money, you know, making moves like you you you're doing it. They don't mean you're doing it great. They don't mean you're doing it the best. And so I'm always encouraging people to like take your pride out of that ship and stop acting like you know every fucking thing, like, think about something that you learned. And he was like, damn, I know that before and how I had changed your life. Why
don't we do that with sex. It's just like everybody wants to have popping ass pussy I did not always have. It is great over here, I'm not back flipping, I'm not sweet. Look here, and then the masters trying to get back The massivation and scarting class was also really great because my pussy was broke after I had my child. That ship was drying the mother. It was baby powders to really see if target was gonna sell some more like who was going to deliver my new one? None
of this? And so I realized, your body is made to heal itself. But if you're not having orgasms, how are you gonna naturally keegle your way back to the size. How are you to get that lubrication back right? Or even when we are having sex, is with somebody is good? Why is it we not really trying to make it better?
A lot of us been sucking the exact same way since when we started sucking shape or something like that, or either loving somebody a little more, But we don't really be honest, we don't know how to have these conversations, like it was a whole bunch of nasty shower. I wanted three sums, I wanted I wanted a lot of things. So it was like, how do I bring up this
in a conversation? And then it was a lot of people like, well, I want to do all this stuff your time out, but I haven't been faking orgasms all my marriage, So how I do that now? So then I had to teach them, Hey, this is how we had them conversations and so it's everything. It's just we We literally be everywhere telling people ain't scared of nothing, I'm next, I'm a bad bitch, bad bitches bus okay, which means that you have set your boundaries, you have
spoke up for yourself. You're a hard worker, meaning that you don't mind trying something until you get it everything that it applies in every area of your lives. Why are you neglecting your pussy not doing it with sex? That sound interesting? And so when men it was like the other part, which was they like they feel like they can't say nothing because if I say I want to threesome now, I ain't ship. If I say, oh, can we do something different, I just get told well,
at least I busted nut. They have things that are concerned as well. But a lot of this is just us getting hurt and not really checking ourselves healing and then and then like we don't really want to get better for anybody would just be like no, because this happens to me. One time when I was in the fifth grade, I asked Leon to kiss me and he said no, So I don't even kiss dudes. No. Mother, Like, it's like, what this is all old? You know what I'm saying, Like we're done to make sure that this
doesn't happen anymore. People give up. They don't care about this. They only want to be sexy and central when they fucking, and that's why they're not. Do you think to Maya that like different women have different like g spots and different things that make them orgasm, because like when you were describing before about like they're going all the way up and down like on the d It's like for me, like my like, uh, stimulation really comes from like more
like the clip, like the front. It's not so like I have the whole thing in me and just be moving a little, but I'm stimulating like the front part of the clip, And that's what makes me really, I mean, it's more than one way I could come, but that's what mainly makes you know, I agree, And so I want to talk about something, to explain what it is that you're talking about that's happening for you. So this, um, I know y'all listening to this, but I'm showing them
the clearest. This is a clarist. This is what your clip looks like. A lot of us only know it for that little diet that's at the top of the little being. You know that we could see right, Um, so that's right here. Yeah, the little no, the pink I thought she's that pink. No, she said, whatever above the little the little the little bean part. You know, you got your list slits and opening, but at the top there's a little nugget there. That's what most people
are like, Oh, that's my clitters. Well, I hope that's what you're saying, because it is. But this that's only one tiny, tiny little part. It's I'm just like saying, like, oh, this is my eyeball. Well, technlo, this is just a piece. There's a whole level of balls inside your head, you know what I'm saying. So all of this is the clitters as well. A lot of women are not having vaginal orgasms because they're not stimulating this first. So all of this energy and orgasms and all of that pumps
all this up and then this gets swollen. These these legs here, it gets swollen. When it's swollen, then when you go in it's tight. It's super gooshy and tight and everything. And now it's still feel you gotta give head first, stop going straight to the penetration. Oh my gosh. Yes. And so when you start having oregonasm is here, it's a good indicator that you're ready for a vaginal orgasm because keep this. If this is your clearter is guess
what a vaginal orgasm is. Nothing but a deeper clitter orgasm. That's all that it is. And that's what a vaginal orgasm is. So after you've stimulated the clearter is like just this little being point over and over again, it gets swollen, it gets swollen. And so now when you have sex, the odds of you have an orgasm go way up from your partner and it's way quicker. You see what I'm saying. So now y'all on equal playing fields, and y'all probably coming just as fast, and you're super
gushy and creamy and everything else. It's like it really gets it really stirs the Pope so that feeling that you're feeling, um is you know, you're you want stimulation here and then you feel it on the inside. But that that that makes sense. Let's have a question yes night. So like you know girls maybe ay you know, and the couple and all that stuff, and they'd be grinding like on each other, like maybe grinding on their legs or like grinding on the poompoom Like what like what
does that? What does it do for them? Because it's not like, yeah, they're using something in the bed and women with each other. Yeah yeah, like y'all just kicking each other poopoom, Like, oh what does it do? Like this technically when you let me ask them because it's like, so I have another pillow, but I always when you when you have girls, they scissoring. So you kind of like this right because y'all, you know, y'all over each other,
so we coo. So you like this and I'm like this right, Well, if the if y'all clips are bumping up against each other, it's the same as when you rub your own clips, you know what I'm saying. Just like this and if you do it long enough, the thing is is that you're brushing up against that cliteral hood. Clteral hood is like your eyelids. You see how your eye closed to protect your eyeball. That's what your clarteral
hood is. A lot of people go straight for the clitterest, which is this and it it it comes out of the hood when it's engorged and you're aroused, but usually it's hidden under this piece of skin. That skin is just as sensitive, if not more, as your click. And so when you're wrapping your couch against hers, that's why
you gotta grind so hard. That's why it looks so good when women be coochi bumping, because they really have to grind in there like scratching almost like scratching and rubbing their clips together, you know what I'm saying, Almost like lips, like you brushing your lips against hers, and when you do it long enough, you naturally come. It's just like it's like playing with yourself with your fingers.
So they'd be all up in each other's hood basically really yes, yes, and them two little things hanging that's the lady is right, the two things that look like loan right on this pillar. These are your inner and outer lady. But on this on this one. This is what's on the inside of your body. You can't even see this. This is what later underneath this, the skin covering you enough why you see coochie lips and everything. But eight seen or forty minutes. It is not just
for women, It's for me and too. Alright, y'all, we gotta take a break. We'll be back right after this with more women a while in out podcast. What's up, y'all, We're back with the women of whiling Out podcast. It's your girl just in a Valentine. I got my girls be Simone pretty v in the building and we have a very dope guest today. Her name is Samaya and she is a sex bird that's a sex expert. So we're breaking down how to use this poutang. What's a good what's a good amount of time to have sex?
Because I like long sex. So maybe it's because I'll never come gotta be it's the accountability for me that's real. So it depends what you consider all the sex. I like the whole I considered the whole thing, right like, so from starting from four play to the end. Technically,
it don't take me long to have sex. If we did the four place stuff right, because by the time if we did all that stuff right, and you've got my cluci all swollen and pult sating and stuff, as soon as you stick that dick in me, I'm usually able to come instantly because the first three inches of your vagina is the most sensitive. Like that's right, That's what I think about it when it did go in what you say? So I am let now, I am my Christian woman, look at her Christmas becoming. I've had
first ladies of video. Tonight, I'm gonna do what you tell me to do. I'm masturbating tonight is to night. I really don't want to interrupt you, so I'm I'm gonna text you in the morning because I want to interrupt you, like damn bit, I don't want to be like I want to be a missed of it. Well, I think I have something that you can. First of all, I see all the things I studying society. I'm studying the one is around. I try to see a billionaire's pussy. Okay,
what's up? Some people to look like what's up? So you would need some pictures be like are you looking at like do you have anything to get you in the mood her video you're saying, well, well, like just like even like a guy like you like like pull up some of like emails, picture, go to his instagram, like you need to scroll through something. So that's a
good idea, like get in the mood. You know, never come, I know what I want her to masturbate too, because she's a she's a major manifesto, right, and so one of the classes that I teach on the Patrion is called masturbation and manifestation and so yes, and it is. It's so addictive because anybody, I mean, anybody is following be someonone knows that like she's gonna make that money, she's gonna win, she's gonna figure out, she's gonna make
a plan, right, and it the goals push her. So when you started working out, when you started saying that waste get get get smaller, right, that the stummy get flattered, got easier to do, right, that they got a little drawline. Now, Okay, so now it's addictive because the ship looks good. Right, So it's not even hand this workout because bitch, look
at me, right when you manifest an ad masturbation. So for example, say you read rich Dad, poor dad, right, read a couple of pages, so you're trying to get on your money ships just starting whatever. You read a couple of pages, right, and you envisioning like this is what I'm gonna do or got out of die or even with like your your your new condoc right, so before you got the condo, picture what it looked like. Damn,
I know I want to have it. I know you probably have a little Pinterest board what you want to have on right, but you want that ship. You want to be successful so bad. I want you to think about that. I want you to ponder that. I want you to look at that that board, and I want you to want it so bad that you like, fuck like I want to masturbate to this, and I want you to masturbate and think about those things and think
about having the life you fucking want, like everything. So then when you come, guess what, Now you've tied the biggest amount of pleasure you'll ever receive physically, because like having a child is great, but that sh it hurt, you know what I'm saying. So it's some pleasure and pain. There is no pain when you're having orgasms, like Swater gosh, But then what if I can kind of addict and then I turned into a hole. That's my biggest fear.
I promise you there is nothing in you that would turn into a hole, because good sex is not with everybody like you know, damn, everybody cannot fuck you good when you start getting orgasms, you're that's another thing. A lot of people fuck anybody because now you baby bag, you get peaky because down the things that you want, you only don't people that, and you only gonna want to sun with people that can give it to you. You You don't want blue pussy all the time like blue balls.
You know we're gonna walk on like, yeah, I could bust now busting up like you can't. You can't even touch me. I can give myself five squirting orgasms back to back. What do you think you're gonna do for me? Like it's crazy? Can you bust too much? Somebody? Can you bust like too many? Like? Is it bad? Like if you bust like I don't know, absolutely not, but it is bad not busting No, no, no, actually actual factual, you will lose part of your pussy if you don't
use it. So I'll need to start she's like white, white, white. Ain't say nothing about that, baby, nothing about that. So women are multi gas, do y'all like actually know what that means, like to be multi orgasmic? Tell us so she don't let me up out here. But so most orgasmic like with women, you know how like when men bust a nut, they did go soft every now when then you meet one that don't. But ultimately that's the refractory period. That's when your body refuels and then it
takes a little minute and then it can get hard again. Right. Well, with pussy, it doesn't work like that. After you catch your nut, it actually revs up even more and it only takes a few minutes if that, to go back into it. And you can just keep doing that over and over and over. Now, I know a lot of people get really sensitive, but you're just adjust the pressure or either masturbate or stimulate like the hood instead of like the actual clip. You can keep orgasming as long
as you want, over and over and over. But when you don't do that, when you catch your nut, you know what you do. You gotta sleep because you're not used to your your body is exhausted because you're not using the functions that it came with. And also it takes you long or to get wetter when you don't have orgasms, because when your body is having an orgasm, it's an actual bodily functions, not like we tricked it.
It's supposed to be doing that. The more orgasm, the weather you are, the more you orgasm, the quicker it will take you to orgasm. Again. Think about when you go to the gym for the first time and it's been months. That first week hurt like hell, But after that it gets a little easier. You know what I'm saying you, The muscle memory returns. Your pussy is muscle and it has muscle memory, you know. Okay, well, I'm just on video three. I'm on what I did the
keego video. Now I'm on the only video. How do you feel like you have the ladies that you work with, like you have the ones that like, I ain't do it. I can't. I mean, you show me these videos, but I still ain't calm. I still will be a trying you know how sometimes but it depends. I asked for the full story. A lot of people will give me. I have asked, Senaire, you right, which is why I watched the videos and then I did it and I ain't come one time because you're over there yelling at
the kids. You that, and then you talk about one time you did something one time, and that's what you're talking to me about, Like, don't don't do that. Don't. First of all, a lot of people want to hold you to a standard that they don't even hold themselves to. You haven't done anything sexy for yourself. You did not even make space. You put a time limit on it. You gave yourself ten minutes, and you ain't dusted the cobwells off that COUCHI in years. Don't don't do that.
Don't don't do that. Like have you even watched the class twice? Did you have a proper toy? But every time I've asked somebody, they didn't do what they were supposed to do, meaning they probably gave themselves ten minutes and got tired. If you're sitting there like all right, when it's gonna happen, that's like watching water boil. It's not gonna happen because that's not even sexy. Right. So another thing is I tell people don't force it, Like even when he was like, you know, I haven't done
it yet. I'm not even worried about that. Once you start, not even mad, because eventually you're going to get there. But you have to start, like show me your habits and I'll show you who you are. And a lot of people have not done the work. So ain't nothing since in your house dirty you ain't. You ain't bought no new draws in years. You don't wear no fucking lingerre unless you gotta nigger around here? Like what what what do you want me to do with that? You're
not doing any of the work. You don't feel sexy. You're masturbating in the exact same position every single time. You're uncomfortable. You ain't putting no pillows under your knees, like you ain't got no candles lip. You ain't done nothing. And you hold your breath. Are you trying to catch a nut thinking that your body gonna come? Are you supposed to breathe? Absolutely, you probably need to breathe to
so a lot of people underestimate. So y'all know what it's like when you when you're about to catch your nut, or you're like your body is trying to choose between life and an orgasm. Why should I your body he is greedy, it's going to try to do both, and so you're gonna cheat yourself out of orgasm every single time. But if you understand that arousal, which is like your COUCHI being wet or your dig being hard, arousal is
nothing more than blood flow going to your genitals. Well, your blood needs oxygen to move, which is why when you take a deep breath you feel so good, right because you're moving the blood or your body better. So there's orgasmic meditations, like there are literally ways that you can breathe just alone, not even touching yourself to make yourself orgasm because they hold their breath, they wold their breath and it's like it's I mean, the ship feel
good as fun. But also you know once you come for real, after you take the class too, you're gonna be looking just like that bad so I don't even worry about it. Oh yeah, you've got to be looking at ugli as here and that's sexy. That's sexy, Like dudes don't want you look It's like going to the gym with makeup on. It's like we're just doing what you need to do. I'm not looking into my eyes when you come look at me, maybe like I mean, I mean, one of my eyes gonna be overheard and
then I'm gonna go overhead. Thank you so Maya for being on the show. We are going to have to do hard to next week, so make sure you guys tune in.