Battle of the Sexes feat. 85 South

the mic. We hear y'all a little after after work today and the grind, the grind today is gonna be a great, great, great show. I'm nervous about today. I'm fans, I'm support I'm nervous, crowd nervous because they never stopped. It's gonna be roasting, It's gonna be blackness, men kings. So how's everybody feeling? I mean, you know how we feel like we have a big We have a big show today. Yeah, these guys are just they like the

you know what, I think? That was actually my first podcast in history that I was actually a guest of show. Oh yeah, literally like being on that show. I think that was the first podcast I was a guest of, and um, that was years ago, and when I first met Carlos and Chico it was before. Yeah, I'm so so so excited to see these these iconic brothers, these legendary brothers, these comedians. I mean, they're so so, so so dope, and I know they're you know, they're gonna

come in here and bring that energy. And we're so excited to have Eddie f South. So I said, yes, I mean, you already know how I'm starting for DC, Young Flying Chico being in Carlo Smiller all day every day. So I'm so excited to see these brothers come in and sit with us and chop it up about what they have going on. They've been in the game for a long time and I'm such a fan. So without further ado, yeah, give it up for Eddie five South

shut where? Yeah, alright, Carlos cousin you know Chocolate Black and Caramel. Hey, you just talk Carlos? Hello, Hello, what's heppy? How you you know? You know I got a podcast? I mean you guess y'all been doing it. We've been doing it. So the women of Wilding Out Podcasts, we are here, So now y'all on our podcast, and I was on y'all podcast, the first podcast I ever been on in my life. We discovered she was a hair stylus and then I kept telling every time like you're

gonna blow up? Right? Why? How you know as well as does each other passion. We don't know each other privately. We just know each other each other. Oh you know, we work it well. Now it's cute. We have a lot of the same friends. Because if you don't know these three do DC is not here, but Carlos chic on d C. She go is like he's gonna be more a little more reserved, know you exactly his opinion, the real uncut. This is how I think Carlos ain't

gonna hold nothing back about that ship. She's stupid as hell. And then you know DC is wold. So also if those personalities together, it's just like, yeah, but there's nothing that's filtered on your because you know, sometimes I'll be like, Okay, you don't say that, or y'all don't give a fuck. And that's why y'all are so successful, because y'all are very, very very open that you know, y'all are We're not saying nothing. That's that we will need to apologize for.

I mean to some people sometimes, you know, like when people are close minded. But I'm saying, y'all aren't scared of expressing exactly what is in your mind, and that's what has brushed our your success. In my opinion, y'all are so raw. That's that's the thing. There's no such thing as not offending somebody every time anything. I totally

agree with that. It's no, it's impossible. It's impossible no matter what your opinion is no safe statement or safe opinion to him, especially today, So you can't really concern yourself with people who you know. It's like the rule often. You know what I mean. It's something that I believe in. You know what I mean. It's the Ruler ten. It's going to be three people who love you, three people who can't stay, and four people who don't know who the fuck you ve. Let's play a game fuck Mary kill.

How you go from that? Today? You still you don't know. I don't know what's happening right now. But I have a question you don't want answer. I know, But let's get back to the eighty five and then we'll playing so um, it's a good game. I don't okay, I would definitely like Mary Chico Chico. I don't want to get me read that's the wrong because you will be left at home. Okay, d C, d C depression the best man, so food, I can see me lead me to get killed. No, I tell him to kill me.

You can't volunteer yourself. This little to say. But he said you gotta Mary kill so you were married DC, you're cheeko and kill me? I know I never liked that really kind of changes everything, you know, I do not because I don't even say nothing you did nobody because I get it out kill DC. So who would you marry? No? These people? Who would you Mary out a cheeko? Or Carlos? I married Carlos Bush. I'm dead. You would just have do what you mean that first,

I'm dead. I don't know. I ain't gonna It's like a colored purple set up. You guys go out on. I would just have to do it. Did she go? Don't even play? I don't know. I would to kill you. And I could not do anything with d C. One of my best friends is his baby mama. And I wouldn't even if she wasn't Jesus, she's so beautiful. I'm like, what there you thinking? And then you know, Chico doesn't want to get married. So if I'm married somebody, I was trying to take a risk of being loved back,

so it'll have to be Carlos. I was just this because I don't want to get married. On mean, I don't know how to love love. But I want to get married. But he might suck around and change you rich as fuck. He might marry you, and I got no card, wouldn't bro she got. I don't give how much money she got. You're not managing that ship properly. She ain't got damn fifty six thousand dollar. At the end of the t I want a divorce convenience. I don't know how to look at me. You don't know

how to look at me. I never said I want to kill Carlos. I couldn't do it. Was I married d C, I put Carlos I killed. I'm glad because I wouldn't be able to do it for you, even that you know I want to give you guys, Oh my god, did going down this ship? Don't make no sense? And then you still and she killed your partner. That was a stupid ass game. While y'all never play Mary sucks somebody, Dick? Why you got to be dead? I ain't never did ship to you, right, That's what they

need to change the game to suck somebody did? Okay, can it be married? Married suck somebody, dick? Oh my god, I'm definitely not sucking d C. You mean to marry man? What platform is this going on? I hope you're not putting you on nothing with a network. Now we got to stop right there. We'll be back with more of a woman up whiling out podcast. Let's go, But I want to give you your your flowers. DC is here

and he's in his absence. I wanted to say, yeah, thank you so much for all that you guys have done for the culture, black kings and just strong minded. I mean I was boopsing you up before y'all walk down and just just saying how like honor I am to call you guys my brothers, my friends, um my castmates. I mean I have went to all three of you guys individualis and just had just asked for advice on how I was on stage or what can I work on?

What can I fix and just want to say thank you so much for just everything that you guys have brought in the comedic world as well. So um, I just want to think, Yeah, I just want to say, what do you guys see eighty five show in the next five years? Like what's the goal for eighty five South show? Questions about to be the biggest thing? You think it's big, now that it's not. We're still building it and shaping and really turning it into what we

see it is. It's the next network. Man, We've got so many ideas between the three of us, we just got a big white board full of ship. Yeah, I mean, and me personally, I don't like I've never liked that question, like whether you see yourself in the next step. Personally, I don't think it's wrong with anybody who believes in it, but I just know that you limit yourself to your own thought process when you when you try to create an answer in that capacity, because I always liking it too,

you know. I use the example of if somebody would have came up to me when I was an open mica in the Greensboro Comedy Zone and explained and and and broke down what my career had been up until this point, that ship would have sound unreal to me, and I would have never been able to even formulate my mind to put those type of thoughts out into the universe. So I don't never limit myself to what

I can think. I'll never do that, like I never limit myself to what I believe or what I think things can be, because you, you know, you kind of hinder yourself. It's no wrong, it's nothing wrong with having

goals and aspirations. But I just think that people try to set unrealistic goals to fit a narrative that society thinks you supposed to have when you are successful or in the entertainment industry, and you have a lot of people who short out and you know what I mean, end up feeling like failures because they didn't accomplish some ship that wasn't in their cause anyway. Well, what you're saying at Chico, would y'all rather have success or felt? Uh?

Success or respect? I'm sorry he said success or her respect? Success um, because everybody ain't gonna respect. It's not that ship. Subjective is here. If you're successful, you can only you can just pick and choose to go to all the places that you know you're gonna be respecting the benefits. I don't have to be around your negativity when people respect my mind. Plus when you're successful, there's so many other friends benefits that come with that. That's true. People

want to be a friend. So I got a city girls question the word flu that where that where we know what Karatian Jac said on his song flu that? Okay, So if you if you get flu or anybody whoever t t kk one of your girls when your side checks whoever. I don't want to bust somebody's bubble, but if they get fluid out, are you guys expecting sex with the flood out? Man? Are we so grown at

this point? We don't. I don't even care. We didn't want to sleep on and we slept good rist down Now No, I don't you know, Like you said, it's just different with me. I'm too forward in my you know, communication to ever be in a gray area about what's going on. So I'm not the type of guy that would even take a chance. I was not going to

take That's the thing. I'm not a person that that's going Like when you say flew out, that's a it's a stigma around what that means, Like, um, I like you, let me fly you somewhere to potentially make you like me enough to get me some pussy. I don't play that game. So you saying I'm flying you out, you know I'm flying you anywhere. We've already fucked that never had. How does that work if you meet somebody on social media? I don't like in the world, in the world outside

means the same to me. No, I mean, but it's just, you know, I think it's just it's just get your old as titties ain't even big enough for your back to be hurting like that to you. I'm telling you, it's like like I don't just trying to participat in certain you know, narratives and games that ship don't interest me at all. So it's just certain things I'm not even more subscribed to all that extra unnecessary and I

ain't you know, I ain't mad at nobody. It's kind of like with the strip club, Like I don't think you should be in the strip club if you're not tipping, which is the reason why I don't go, because I know I'm not gonna get you bit just on money. That's just delicious. No, not you, I don't know, I don't know. You don't I don't know if you're strip, but if you don't see, you know what I mean. So it's just it makes life easier at this stage

of life because you you end up. You know, the Internet is always a young man's game, is a super young man's game, you know what I'm say. I've had times in my life where I didn't have money, but I ain't never not got some pussy. Yeah, that makes sense, even that my lowest of low, even when I was damned there on the ground and there was some pussy around, and still was some pussy. And it's so funny we're

talking about this because we talked about relationships. That we had this conversation like two days ago, what about relationships? Talking about girls and questions. I'm like, already, yam sun up a lot of relationships because it's just like you just don't put enough pussy in the atmosphere and enough time you want to do all. See, it's like all this time getting to know a motherfucker, that's the waste of time because I ain't even that motherfucking no more.

I don't even know how to tell you. But and that's I asked women that all the time. What you think you know about the man before you give them some? Yeah, because puss ain't no reward or a treat. It ain't. You can't reward me with pussy like girl, I'm grown, that's a reward? What you mean? What's it? Flat me out? Actually done that before? I talked about that. Y'all Flat me out and figure out if I'm gonna give up this dick And now I'm attracting to ship at getting

I'm glad you said something playing don't fucking y'all. Look you piece of mind is the tree You might mug around and see some ship that make you not even ask for there, Like, hey, I saw that box opening the bathroom. You you cool? Look if you every woman get up and take up purse to the bathroom with I don't even ask for no pusson. I'm trying to find the exit at that point. What does that mean? I don't know what that means. You don't want to

find out. I want to find out she want if you take up her the bad friend, you ain't getting put to make more money. Yeah, we're looking for I want a woman to make way more money than me. I'm talking about a substantial amount, tremous. I'm talking about I go there like I don't care, you know what, I man, get me earth the kid off, bobrang that task nah, because you know it's a it's a lot less. So it takes away not even pressure, because pressure, don't

you know. I'm you know, we're good with pressure. It's not even about the pressure, it's just more so about it takes away that element of being in a situation with a man and a woman where you are expected to be a certain way on both friends. So now we get to really see who we are because that elephant that's usually in every rod is out of there, right And she got enough money to make herself happy. That's what you got. Gender roles are a little different now.

Before it was like the women took care of the household and the men worked. So like, what is the line? Now? Now we work and we take care of the household. And you got to split everything, Like what does that mean? What you're looking for? Split everything? You want to sit? You got to keep him the most expensive time in the world, right there? Get them. They want to hold traditions and values from four years ago, a new house

was sixteen years. I'm saying from forty years ago, the new house was seven thousand dollars for people making lest hundred dollars and they took them forty years to pay that all. And she died and you know what I mean. So payments were hundred and ninety seven years. What right? But the grandpa was making two dollars a week. Three families on two dollars a week, guaranteed. Okay, let's get into it. Can men be monogamous? Yes, if they want

to be. Yeah, that's what you'll understand. Jesus, get that spirit away. Men. Aren't men make decisions. It's a choice. It's a choice. Anything else? Are you? Are you worthy of that? I'm just saying, if we agree to it, I'm already worthy of the truth. That's why she goes perspective. She could be like, what's up, baby, I got about six bitches to the left. You're gonna be the next one to the right, and you like, hell now, alright, nice to meet you, beautiful on the FIP side, my sister,

and he gets on out the way. She goes just up front from day one. Problem, let me sound like motherfucking cat daddy for in the promission era, Like I'm not out here talking to bit just like Duke one version. Let me listen here, get me out here talking like cab callaway me two girls behind him? When are you having a conversation? Like you're sweet Sheba right, you know what I mean, it's smooth and he's honest. I think that's the only problem with this generation, or not even

the generation, just some men in general. They're not honest. If you don't want to be monogamist, just say that at stop asking just to say that. Let me ask. Let me ask you all those women a question. Why do you want monogamy? Um minus? For spiritual religious reasons? Oh my god, ship, you look confused? Why do you want monogamy? What do you mean? Why? Why? Because what's better than building and having a relationship with one person and growing holes? And there's so many things better than that,

what's better than that? You are crazy? But I'm not saying you have to do anything. What I'm asking is why do you want that? Where does that desire come from? Exactly? I think it's from religion. I think extends from the way you're raised. I think extends from personal desires. Okay, So have you ever challenged that frame of thought in your mind and seeing if anything else was d you have? And what made you say that that was something that you didn't want to do when you tried to do

it differently? Are you saying me? I mean, honestly, now I'm at a different place where I'm not actually against it, I'm okay with it. But originally, yeah, but originally I was very deserve. I've been married. I'm divorced real quick. It was it was very simple, but like and that my mindset was definitely I was out. I was done. It was too much. Okay, So what was the straw in the marriage that made you leave? I mean, what

we're saying, be honest. If you're not honest about who you are, if you are lying, if you're cheating, if you're this or you're that or whatever, what's the point. Yeah, what's the point. We should have just never got married, We should have never done any of that. You should have just told me and we could have just kept a movement. I could choose to stay knowing you're that way, or I can meet someone else hoping. And that's what

you get. What I want sounds good, and even there, I know that majority of women who claim they want honesty, don't you just assume you do. You say you want a man to keep it one hunt, but you ain't, never had and keep it twenty with you, so you don't know what that other entails when it comes to a man's honesty. I think you want a hundred percent from a man because the pain of what lies make you feel makes you think that the opposite has to

be better. Halfway through the relationship, but they want now I'm in love with you, and now, of course I don't want to hear that you're cheating on me. Yeah, but that's the thing, Like you, whatever happened in between you fallen in love and him cheating on you, that's a whole that to him, that's the to fall out. Right there, you're falling in love. He over there like

I gotta get the funks away from her problem. Man, Before that man ever cheated on that woman, he told her what he needed, He showed you, he asked for it. You're not gonna just keep asking for what you want and not getting it, So cheating, and it's not cheating at this point. You made the decision to not give me what I wanted, and how you gonna be mad that somebody else did. The question was can man be monogamous? Yes, thank you spirit. Yeah, monogamous. I know that's not what

you said the other day. No, no, no, I believe men can be monogamous until I believe men are as faithful as their options. I don't think it's gonna be monogamous to you because you got so much. You believe so much. Boyshit, ain't no, you're gonna put up with all that? What that should she be doing? What's she doing? That's the type of ship that's gonna make anything like, oh my god, I hit this ship one more time.

But now, I mean, I think I think that a man is as faithful as his options, and I think that every man has a choice to man, as you said, it's a choice. But the messed up part about it is, at least from a male perspective, is the credit that it did. I feel like a man should get for the task of not doing the things that are available to him and not being able to get any of the credit for that. She was like, what you want to cook? Yes, yes, and I'm gonna tell you why

I have a gun and I didn't kill anybody today. Red, It's not. It's two totally different things. Because you can have a gun and not kill nobody. But if you have a gun and motherfucker's running up to you to do ship, to try to make you kill him, and you don't you deserve credit for not shooting the motherfucker. No, you don't get a reward for doing what you're supposed to do. But who who determines what a person is

supposed to do? Like, now, I can understand if we come into an agreement and I say, all right, it's just gonna be me. Is if it's just gonna be me and you at the same time and we make that decision, don't make it seem like the effort that I'm putting forth as a man is diminuted just because you feel like that's what I'm supposed to do. I don't like understand you agree to come to work on time every day? YEA three women and between the three.

So let's just say you've been working for a company for ten years, right, You've never been late before, never been late ten your team. You don't have to do this as long as for these motherfuckers them and them six niggas. You go sit We're not about to sit here and apologize. We're not about to try to help them understand the ship that niggas did to them or none of that. For that. They know what they did. They're gonna sit there and play the victims. They're gonna

never tell you about the ship that they did. That's a bunch of ship you did, and that's that's this ship they didn't got this money and got these successes and sponsorships fashion over. I'm not about to sit here and try to explain niggas better than you. You pick these niggas who treat you all funked up and ship like that, and then want to say, niggas do that. You know them niggas did at that. Men can be favored, Men could be so much ship. That's another that that's

another fun up respective right there. But got married and spent seventy five thousand dollars win and then get divorced over some lines. Girl, you don't sit and toast anybody, everybody you know and say you stay with this person in front of the same guy broke up, right, And that's and that's the thing if you come like I was saying, Oh, you go to work on it on your Tampia anniversary and they was late for two minutes late, and you get five for being at that job for

ten years. Do you think that's fair? But that makes sense to you. Look, no, it's not. It is the same. It is the same thing. I'm gonna tell you why it's the same thing, because you don't understand what the reality of walking outside and being a man un tells. That's right, that's what it was about to say women live longer than men. You're gonna have some years after we did to have another motherfucker, So shut up. You don't live ten fifteen years longer than the nigger that

you love. So ship where he did gonna be slipping it up like I did my part. I was faithful. I only slept with James until he died. It was in my spirit. Shut up her who made that was back because the word megaven say to you when you say some ship, that's I'm the opposite of what they believe. Who hurt you? Now, I'm talking to me that you're right now with this dumb okay, but listen to the are so bad? Why would I beating hurt. I would business because I don't need saying very clear, you don't

mean you can't be the victim. And I need a man for certain things. Maybe not financially, but I need a man. I love men. I do not believe men are bad. I do not believe all men are toxic. I do not believe every man is a fun boy. I don't believe that. Listen to them. You had teacher, what you had with boy, you had a whole ladder anything with said you're my boyfriend. I was manifesting a man and I got one. The whole goddamn campaigning selling juice.

She said she was sucking something. She was supposed to make you lose weight or something. Nothing. That's the thing with You're just saying all of these terms that everybody used now toxic and all this ship. But the reality is a lot of people are subscribed to the ship that they are told every day by the phone and other. Motherfucker you don't even know toxic dicking exists three years

ago when nobody's saying that ship. But now everybody topic that Nigga been doing the same ship he was doing three years ago, that the doing now now you got a new term for so you're putting a new label on the nigga. No, it don't work like that. The reality is most people don't know who the fun they are. So how you trying to make somebody happy and you don't know who you are? You out here trying to

live a dream that somebody else wrote for you. All watching this, keep going, keep laying, don't don't she learned? And I and I as a nigga who tell the truth? Lie, lie stop listen. Take it from a nigga who's ship don't work. Just makeup ship pole scenarios. You act like that. The reality is, as a man, when you come to a woman and tell her the truth, immediately that breaks that wall down of her knowing who you are. But at the same time, you you immediately like it's like

somebody let a pit bull out on yours. You never know who I am. I'm batman. Fuck you tell you everything that ain't me, So when you leave, I can say, hi, that's why you don't know me, and I'm leaving. Question. But now I'm curious, like now that you have a daughter. So if you don't want to get married and you don't want that serious relationship. What are you teaching her so she's not she doesn't grow up thinking I gotta get married and my baby is and how the white

fans like. What I teach my daughter is you don't have to know what you want. You just have to know what you don't want. It's very simple. What you want is very easy? Yes? Is you can? Yes, it's easy? Yes, is you? You know what I mean? That's that's something we all want to do. We all want to have a good time and all that ship. But it's the ship that you don't want that causes you to go

through all the things that you go through. So as long as you established what you don't want to deal with, then everything else you'll be able to you'll be able to figure out, you know what I mean. So my job is to teach my daughter the things that you

don't look for. Women always ask me that when they hear my perspective, like what if your daughter was to me a man like you, great, I would love for her too, because she know exactly what she getting into and if that's a decision that she want to make, I'm raising her to make the type of decisions to where she would be able to be to handle herself in that regard. But one thing that I don't want

to do is get finessed out here. And even though you can't control that, you can't control in his truth, you can't control is thinking about this. Think all the times that motherfucker's got finest and wanted to be wanted to you know, like they just wanted to play the game. And you're gonna go through certain things in life because that's just the way it goes. But I know my baby ain't gonna be asking the same questions that her

mama I was asking. You know the game, because that's what it is out You got to know how to understand and navigate the game. In my opinion, we all get We get our thrills from different parts of the game. Some people don't like to be the players. They like to be the ones getting played right. Some people want to be the submissive one on the one who wants to be led and drove. It's so cute, That's what I'm saying. You said, we spend too much energy on

this ship is really this whole dating ship. Because you like the older you get and the most summers you go out and side you don't see out. Yeah, it just depends on what you wanted. You just start being like everybody I need. I need three things from a motherfucker. As long as they do these three give This mother is an international criminal. If she if she says we're doing this Saturday and we do these three things and we both have fund, we might funk. We might get

too drunk to do that. But I'm have fun with this one. Who gives a fuck what they did and a school and who they used to last so much? Leave a comment below. Don't leave me ship. I don't want nothing nothing. Don't send me nothing. Ship. I'm doing me. Motherfucker's up. Don't don't don't no comment below, don't send me ship. I'm married. Comment but on the weekend, I'm not let me finish my promo. I'm not leaving my wife and eight children to funk with you since they

want the truth so much. Yeah, so keep sending. You should just know I got a wife and eight children, and he has one son, and I practiced that same ship that I'm a pilgrim. That's my religion. Pilgrim shout out to my wife and my eight children. But see, I want something to make a test of us before we go came. We let you'll do the quote. Whatever you did, we answer all these questions. Yeah, and we

ask you a question. Let's ask them question. Okay, we're gonna switch just the women about in that podcast, but now we're gonna take us eight South show. Okay, let's go, let's go, let's get it. Because I was just intrigued. I don't really say too much. I was listening to call us all right, ladies, do you believe that lingerie is sexually than T shirt and pat? No? No, I like a loose booty in a PAS that lace up your ass. My thing is it just depends you when

to say something. Don't you sell a I'm sorry, you need start selling some T shirts? And that's what I was about. I was about to say that for me, like I like to um when I'm in that moment to perform for my partners. If I want to put it on like some I performed, I like to like if it's cute, like it's about. Don't you think lingering is for us? I really feel like, yeah, don't nobody give a funk about the ladies. I'm letting you know. Listen,

ma'am that's the big man. Are important, broke, that's the day. That's who you really are. I don't want to keep you nah, because if you around and fall in love and you roll over and you're looking at my face, ain't got nothing on? That's right, be someone. That's who

you really are. Your eyelashes from the Lord, the one that you Yeah, keep them because you get that get that mink here, put on your You got these big luxurious eyelids, and then you take them off and you come out the bed room and scared the ship out everybody in the n What you doing in my house? My baby? I didn't even know that was you? Not it is not Well, if it's not that much, isn't necessary because exactly you like it. But the thing about it is, do you ever that's my that's a good

question there. How much do you consider what we like in your decision making for what you do? Zero? I got ready, there you go, and I went out there you go, there you go, And then you know why I still you know that you never had a man be like, please take off the but you know and you never know what else never happened, never saw you and be like loas look at that just on that

motherfucker right there. What's for her? You know, personal I'm saying that we are getting dressed in the total opposite, right, y'all dressed for us? No, no, y'all don't do everything to y'all in some way shape happen is that you for him have been based on what everything's been based on the interaction. Every guy I've talked to agree with that have got dressed for me, like, oh, I just thought you were like this. I thought this would be dope for you. I thought this would have I think

for us too, will be cute. But for them it's like, well, we don't ask, we're not asking their opinion, like dressed, they don't even like because women like you you not want to put on that goddamn Lennen to that white party. But he knew that it was gonna be some women in there who was gonna tell you killed him with

the linen, Like that's okay. I got a question for y'all, like, as women, you always hear women say this, like you know about men and all that and this that and the third what what qualities do you have other than pussy that make you feel like you just a man of your own. He said, your own, A man of your own, like a man that belongs. You've been describing the whole time, the Monogi do the night in Shining the Nigger from the Tyler Praide movie that come in.

What do you have? The like? Who wants these type of men? I'm just saying, and jet I'm talking about the fairy tale love story that that most majority of women were raised to believe is entitled to them. Okay, like, what are your core values? And don't I'm telling you it's our turn. It sounds good conversation. We are men. Nobody cares about this ship. No, she's trying to say what she has to offer. Don't know, abo give a funk if you can clean up the bar. Ask a

question and I'll let her answer it. I am. I'm telling you that they're like, okay, we're asking what do you what do you have? This interesting to it? And it's like, no, you haven't said anything. That's like, that's why I said, what are her core values? Let me let me give you a little bit, let me get

you a look. That's a little bit of game from a man perspective of something that you could say that you would say that would make that would peak a man's interest, And I'm going, I'm independent, entrepreneurs, a leader, I am, I'm very loyal, I'm respectful. I have like core values to me, core values. I want a man who was family oriented. Like there's different things that Oh my god, this ship was the ship in nineteen forty six. I mean, so what do you want now? Good? To

shut the fun up? Yeah, we just asked you what do you have? List? Like the cool things and the dudes that that women don't take into account, like for example, like you know what I mean? Like if just figuratively speaking of you, Like, what's something that that makes you think you're cool enough to have your own man? Like it's I got a thousand kills on call of duty. I'm not bad. Do you have a vote in Miami? Can we go party? And that's what you want? Do

you have that fun? That's what's Yes, that's what it is. That's really care about this? You're like, no, we don't. I just I just don't underwear. Like what you just named a lot of words for you was like I'm god fearing, clean and cook three. I didn't say that, but when I'm evil I didn't say not. I said I couldn't clean to make what she wanted to hear,

I don't want to I wanted. You don't want to hear from a girl you were trying to because she was so lost, well me personally, things that I would want to hear from a woman that piques my interest, it's a lot that I don't want. Every man is different because the tip that I desire is different than with most men. Design this regard like, I like a woman who was confident enough to understand that that bullshit

that they have been teaching you it was bullshit. And what I mean by that is when you come into contact with somebody that's like, look, I ain't with the bullshit, and you say, oh, okay, so what's the list? Of the list changes because each woman is different. I'm what I get from you is different than what I get from over here. But what I get from you is not less valuable than what I get from over here. It's just so the stuff she said wasn't valuable. Yes,

that's it could be very valuable. But the thing is you gotta You wouldn't have to understand, but if you do just because just because you got all of these quality characteristics and you do all of these wonderful things that you make possible. Scratch while listening to music that they play at the Olive Garden and the lobby. All that's cool, and I love that when I'm here. But I got a bit who can't cook ship but feel great. But I love to be around her just because I mean,

that's what I'm saying. But that's the thing why, because as a man, I shouldn't have to just if I can. I shouldn't have to just be here if I'm able to. And that's the way I believe, Like women have this long laundry list of ship that a man is supposed to do, and then if you ask them what they like, well, I'm charismatic. You're not with that. But that's what I'm saying, as some compatible as a man, if you need to cook, No,

it don't work like that. Be a moment because as a man, not for me, not for men, not for men, it doesn't work like that because as a man, you gotta ain't no every man different. You don't. It's a bunch of faithful, homeless niggers, but you ain't looking for them. It's a bunch of niggas that ain't got nowhere to state, that ain't gonna never do nothing but whatever you tell him. But you're not paying that motherfucker no attention because he ain't got the checklist of ship that every woman is

looking for. A man, no nigger, gotta have a job, some money, a call. He gotta be able to make you feel safe, protected, make you laugh, make you feel good, insightingly, make you excited, take you places you know to do all of that ship. And then and then you meet a man and he has all of these characteristics and you expect him to stop using them skills because he met you, and you're cookie, Wait, what do you mean? Okay, but we can have three boyfriends about five boyfriends the

same too. So if we have one guy that meets one, that's pretty much you already do waiting in line like in and out just to agree with your lying style. Yes, and I don't meet personally. I have a different perspective on that. I don't I believe if you don't wake up in the morning to wash it pussy, it doesn't belong. I have no desire to. I have no desire to ever try to control what a woman does inass. He just don't about none of that ship. You can do

whatever it is you desire to. Don't have any more questions for us, You guys, have any more questions. You're trying to get us out walked in his mother. That's what the boss is here, you niggas. We got more questions to ask question. But what if a girl just has everything move further none of them? This would be the perfect say you guys, welcome to the show. You know all the time, old rich white man, take care of everything, know anything about me or what I do

or anything, or you just stereotype spice. You've been hugging old nigh. Okay, a pretty v. I think like you. I believe you used to believe. I've been knowing you. You got head. It's both speed and slow head and neck that superhead because it's just like you play so much. I bet when you do get ready though, it gets visious because this box come off and you get to

doing them dance moves. Let's go back envy when you want when she when she come that neck to come Angelica neck your later talking at this knowing that without time she's hot, and then she's sitting next to my fan. The point' is date somebody that believe in the same ship you believe in. Date somebody. I don't want anogamy, somebody wants to be get to know a motherfucker. It'll last a long, a long. You never really get the ain't saying nothing in her head, Jesus the name I

got that nick. Yeah. And that's the thing I know Vida because she don't talk like did she demand very And I just want to say, I just want to give you the flowers if you see being a what they do puss her head nigga, I'm like, oh, what's up beat my nigger? And she got the check too, because she got all this ship. Yeah, man, listen. She asked me the other day about a book, and she

was like should I asked me. I was like, well, bitch, your prices high because I was on my little hood chick house taking the shower, and she had a pretty v speaker and and I had connected to the blue tooth and they were like that motherfuck loud. I went to the little you know how you got to go to the only grocery store, one of the grocery stores to be open like on a holiday. I wanted to want them save a lot to one of them. And

it was the City Trens open. They was coming out the City Trends with that pretty V I'm like and pretty V running. They had a pretty V bag everything. Get your headphones and your speakers still say we know, I got my own show. I got my own speakers, speakers like I'm says, I got my own I'm creating my own sneakers, I got my own perform Coming out

were coming out was some blue on bids. They got me something we can sell, you know, selling toy and then we got mallare to type and ship lip coming out with a kind of books made a million dollars. Be be some on ice cread truck and be some other high school got ice truck? How do you got a ice cream drunk call type of decision? See what I'm saying that fanship, I think money liabilities about asked, Oh that sound meal, But you are owner of a ice cream truck. It's where she got whatever. I don't

know about you getting mad and phone your arms. Okay, that was the question. Card be some her own warehouse. That's the biggest way house in Atlanta. What one of them. Don't tell how she get it. Don't drop the less you stated. Fassage hasn't but it's super big. I'm so proud of my always go. You know we needed to do the toes. I was to do that. Carlo slid it out and Chico, please, what am I toasting to? Something?

Just inspirational to motivate the people that a quote that I live side or you that you know something motivation like that will motivate the people watching. Oh I already said it. Excuse can you just you're nasty? It's not you. You're the only one here and keep your father on birthday. But yeah, this, this, this is this is beautiful. My cup is empty, but my life is full. So always make sure that one of the others always the case. God, God give you so much, so you'll do that on

the duke. You will do that on There's no at that amount. That would be the end of the relationship for me. You'll be giving head. You know what. I'm out of head. Smell like goddamn Fridays. But you just hurt that Jack dang us up with my big out of here samoneam truck. I don't need this ship. I'm out of this stressful chick. Oh my god, oh my god, thank you so much. She alright, guys, this is a Woman of while Out podcast. We'll be right back with part two. Welcome back to part two of the Women

of Bostling Out podcasts. Vina was like not saying nothing. Vina is very spiritual. She over, they're praying in her head. Now. I was just listening. You know, I love when they come through, especially mad DC didn't come to you know, that's my that would have been chaotic. I don't know what doesn't have been chaotic. But you said they were telling the truth about about when they because they said I'm full of ship. They say to you give good head. They said, I give good good. So how would they

know that. I don't know how they know that because I don't know what word should because I ain't eat nobody in this industry, so they wouldn't even know that. You even't had it stressful. Yeah, I don't know how they know. Is gonna be saying nothing, nigga thumbs up, I'm down. So they said it looked like I give because I play all day and I'd be dancing and all that. But in the bedroom, you don't play. You don't do that in the band room. Why you don't do that? You don't know what I do? But do

you play? What I'm asking is when you're about to be serious, when are you goofy performer googling? No, I would never be goofy. What I'm doing? What I mean, that's a performer like I like to put on like I'm that girl, Like if I feel like this is if I could not and not saying being in the character, but I have to like my pleaser role play, role play like I'm that girl. Really, yeah, I cannot see that.

No one could see me doing anything because I'm always I'm having on the table that like libras are freaky women, women are I'm aries and giving head is hard. Yeah, So I just like to like, I like to please my my, my, my, dude, I don't do all that. I think I'm in a music video. What's all? What? Like? Um? And then nothing you see me? Or like what is it? Like I'll be picturing myself like I'm so well, what's the most awkward moment in the bedroom you've ever had.

I've never had an awkward moment, which I've had too many awkward I've never known you be. I'll tell you, I don't do. I have to be with the person I know. You've only had six bodies only have so for me, Like I can't do the a kayaks Like, so if I'm with that person like they know me, we do sometimes things get offered. You've never had an awkward moment in the bedroom. What's your awkward moments? I've just had a few apward moments. Things happen. No, I never,

I mean, I don't know. All my people was just so nothing. Seriously, I don't know. I like, well, I'm a performer. I like to put on I like to make sure they leave and we go to bed, and they get up in the more and tap me again. That's just what it is. But I'm not having sex. It's been four years. What it's been four years since i've sex? You know what? What's the paying Commandment's one

of the commands is thou shalt not what a lot? Yeah, so let me speak the troth it's been four years and get the house years are God knows your heart, he does. I'm gonna be very honest and this is for every you know, every woman out there, every younger and I haven't had sex in four years. Right, March ninth is when I broke that. I was good until March ninth, a couple of months ago. What is it last night? No? Two months ago? Nine? And your dirty egg to play with me? Don't say don't say that

I love him. I love him down but we're friends. We're friends now. But I felt like that I broke that. I was on a roll after four years with the longest I've ever been celebate was two years. That was four in March nine. I looked as Bigbie's birthday. I looked at my body when I said, Jesus texted me today, like where he went wrong? We'll take what we're wrong. Sure, but now we're four years is a long time. I was sellble bo. Have you ever been selbate as a year?

It was real girls. Now it's open, No, it's it's it's that closed now for two weeks because we don't get work. Yeah, well, y'all our opinion on the eight Well, my opinion. Date somebody that has the same beliefs as you, and you won't have to deal with bullshit if you want to be monogamous. Day. Somebody who wants to be monogamous. If you don't want to get married, you shouldn't be dating somebody that don't want to walk down the out. If you are into Polly Polly toxicity, date somebody that's

on the same page. It was good. It was good toxicity. If you want to date somebody on that, then you should be that. I'm not manifesting negativity. Okay, I'm manifesting what I won't, just like you manifest the career, manifest becoming a millionaire, manifested everything else. You can manifest whatever you want in your love life. So if you want polyamory,

manifest all that. But that's not what I want. Yeah, I mean, like like you said before, I mean, what's for you is for you what God has to use for you to keep going and keep strapped otch White. You didn't say all that, but yeah, I was trying to just out here. Yeah, in the mathematics, it was a lot of ship going on. But we're a good girl. Like you said, they told you who you were, and you know that's not you. They told me I give good head. They don't know my business, so they can't

tell me if I give good head or not. They don't even know if I'm punching it around or doing whatever. I don't know. I know my business because I know homeboy, I ain't even do that of so they don't know. They say to how pasta ain't good past and something about the old man. Oh yeah, yeah, no I have not. You know what's so funny is that every single person puts out on me, and it's so annoying. It's like, oh, you have to have one, you have to have it. You can't have your own job. I've never had a

sugar Daddy had uncle that paid my um. I called him uncle and he helped me with my college tuition him and he was not at all. You know, when you go to a college base you gotta get that fast that financially you don't kick in. I needed that fifty. No, seriously, we have we have evolved business owners. We are entrepreneurs, we're bosses. I mean, and this is real, raw and uncut. I think breakfast Club has that end. And I don't want to stop saying that because I've already got sued

for copyright and uncut conversations. That's Pakfast Club. It's something. It's somebody says that venus. So you need to stop. Just say women a while on our podcast where we control the mics. Written on the paper, it's not that was the first day. We raised your glasses, shake gasses, facing up like, Ye, it's gonna be the same I gave me the first day. No, you need to give a different one because this resonates. A delay is never denial. It goes far. Let's go and manifest the life you want.

The life you want. Yeah, well we shouldn't see that. I'm stilling quiet about that. M M. They don't listen to Cheeko or Carlos. They wasn't talking. There wasn't saying, especially not about me. They don't know either. Be quiet, be so quiet. I'm like, I ain't gonna my tea. I give you I talk. You're saying so much now that they're going I was so quiet. But let me tell yourself. But let me tell you what I admire about you. Let me tell you what about be small.

But you held your motherfuck and I like your fucking stall. You took that ship like a g The nigga told you wasn't ship. You said they were jumping me. You watch from the sideline. Yeah, and now what did I say? Though I said she has the biggest motherfucking warehouse, and now that is false. You know you have an ice cream trunk, Yeah, ice creamy trunk. All of these facts you're trying to take my back and none of it is true. You listen to Chico and Carlos even like

that going on. They do. When this camp's go off, we're gonna talk about our friendship. Thank you, y'all. Thank y'all for tuning me in to the Women of Bouling that podcast. I am pretty v I'm full of ship, and I'm dating an old man and they said get good ahead and they don't know my beat. Girl girl, I'm just saying that because you got want nor head complimented. Oh my god. Okay, it's going to bed. What up

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