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Motherhood in Black & White

Hosted by Gen X moms, Kaanji Irby and Tara Campbell. These two women- one Black and one White- come from different worlds, but have become close friends through their shared experiences as suburban ‘boy moms,’ working women in male-dominated workplaces, and their love of 90s hip-hop. Listen in as they chat with each other and connect with guests about parenting and pop culture and the tragedies and triumphs of motherhood with honesty, empathy and humor.
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Episodes

A Conversation With Gretchen Carlson

In this episode, we catch up and chat with journalist, author, nonprofit founder, and mother, Gretchen Carlson. You may know Gretchen as a former Miss America and the courageous woman who has been a leading voice in speaking out about workplace harassment. But you may not know what her kids thought about her stance or what she has been up to recently. Listen to this week’s powerful episode to find out more and be inspired by Gretchen’s journey, her resilience, and her courage. Follow us on IG @B...

Nov 15, 202036 minSeason 1Ep. 17

Raising Kidpreneurs

This week we break tradition. We welcome our first kids to the show! Be inspired by both kidpreneurs' desires to share their experiences and uplift others. Meet Madison, a 7-year old author with big dreams and a bigger heart, and Milo, a fearless 13-year old coding expert with a coding school for kids. And meet their incredible moms, Fionna and Sojo, who love, support, and encourage these visionaries! Join us for this fun episode that reminds us to encourage our kids to follow their passions (an...

Nov 08, 202035 minSeason 1Ep. 16

The Mompostor Syndrome

Do you ever show up at work and feel like a fraud? Like you have to pretend your job is more important than your family? And then, when you come home, like you have to be a supermom? This one is for you. This episode Kaanji and Tara get real about facing imposter syndrome, pay disparity, and role modeling authenticity for their children. Clutch your pearls and join us for this hilarious and heartbreaking analysis of the emerging motherhood category, “the Stuck-at-home mom.” IG: @blackandwhitemom...

Nov 01, 202035 minSeason 1Ep. 15

We are Survivors

One in 8 American women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime. This week, runner, mom and coach, Shaluinn Fullove, shares her previvor story and talks about having a Champion mindset. Coach Shal's story of strength and courage teaches us all about navigating sickness and setbacks, and racism and redemption as a parent. We revisit Tara's unhealthy obsession with Zac Efron and learn Kaanji's favorite distance to run. About Coach Shal. Shaluinn Fullove is a mom first. She is a coach,...

Oct 25, 202040 minSeason 1Ep. 14

Talking Politics and Puberty w/ Child Counselor Jenny Gomez

Talking Politics and Puberty w/ Child Counselor Jenny Gomez With just over 2 weeks before the election, the news cycle and social media are dominated by partisan issues and rhetoric — and our kids notice. How can we engage them in positive, meaningful discussions? This week, Kaanji and Tara sit down with child counselor Jenny Gomez to get official guidance on how to talk to kids about politics. Do we initiate conversations or let our kids come to us? How do we give our kids space to find their o...

Oct 18, 202037 minSeason 1Ep. 13

Mommy Wine Culture

This week Kaanji and Tara discuss Mommy Wine Culture and how each of them views the sometimes hilarious, other times problematic messaging that women receive about the role that alcohol plays in their motherhood journey. They each share some of the funniest memes and marketing taglines they've seen, how many more options people have for drinking today, and how Snoop Dogg is such an incredible renaissance man. The conversation turns vulnerable when Tara shares openly about her own journey with al...

Oct 11, 202039 minSeason 1Ep. 12

What We Wish We Knew Before Becoming Moms

What do you wish you had known before becoming a mom? This week, Kaanji and Tara each discuss 5 things they wish they had known before having kids. The discussion runs through a wild range of topics, including how hard it is to keep kids in shoes that fit, the complexity of postpartum emotions, and the importance of those pelvic floor muscles. They also talk about The Four Agreements and how they are each striving to pause and be more present with their sons. Wait until you find out the one thin...

Oct 04, 202028 minSeason 1Ep. 11

Achieving Equality w/ Sabrina Parsons

Sabrina Parsons, CEO of Palo Alto Software, joins the conversation this week. This episode is a mini-reunion for Kaanji and Sabrina, whose friendship goes back to the late-1980s, when they attended the same, all-girls high school in the Bay Area. We discuss the benefits of a single-sex education for girls, the legacy of RBG, and tips on how to live an unapologetic life. Sabrina shares her experiences mentoring female entrepreneurs and advocating for racial and gender equality. If you are enjoyin...

Sep 27, 202059 minSeason 1Ep. 10

Carry the Load (with Julia Dennison)

After a special tribute to Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Tara and Kaanji are joined by Julia Dennison, Executive Editor of https://www.parents.com . In this powerful and engaging discussion, we chat about Julia's parenting journey, the mental load of motherhood, raising race-conscious kids, and our shared love for Ally Sheedy. Julia also breaks down some highlights from her podcast with Shaun T, We are Family. IIf you are enjoying the conversation, please take a moment to rate, review, subscribe ...

Sep 20, 202049 minSeason 1Ep. 9

Clean, Green Living with The Crunchy Mommy (Aaronica Cole)

This episode dives into a discussion on eco-friendly living. Guest Aaronica Cole (The Crunchy Mommy) offers insight and information on why it’s important to be a more conscious consumer and tips on how to start right away no matter where you and your family are in your sustainable journey. And as our conversation touches on healthy living and healing our planet, find out which celebrity both Aaronica and Tara have a slightly UNHEALTHY obsession with Zac Efron (Down to Earth with Zac Efron). Welc...

Sep 13, 202041 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Labors of Love

In a special Labor Day episode, Kaanji and Tara are joined by two very special guests, fellow moms Dominique and Dianthe. All four mothers share their wildly different labor and delivery stories that involve orange juice, epidurals, a presidential inauguration and Dominos pizza! The one takeaway from each story is that when it comes to labor and motherhood, no amount of planning can prepare you for real life. Later in the episode, Kaanji and Tara discuss the passing of two Black icons this week ...

Sep 06, 202047 minSeason 1Ep. 7

Our Top 5 Moms: As Seen On TV

From TV moms that defined their childhood to those that completely altered their views of motherhood, Kaanji and Tara look back on their favorite TV moms. Carol Brady? Marge Simpson? June Cleaver? Did any of these moms make the cut? Listen to this week's episode and find out who made our hosts' Top 5 list. Kaanji and Tara are both anti-racism advocates and members of the leadership team for Embrace Action, an anti-racism advocacy and educational nonprofit organization. You can learn more about E...

Aug 30, 202040 minSeason 1Ep. 6

The Back to School Struggle is Real

Can you really be friends with someone you’ve only known online? Well, meet our guest, La Toya who actually homeschools her children. She and Tara have been friends for over a decade. Do you think it might be time to meet up in person yet? La Toya will provide insight and encouragement for all parents dealing with a changed learning environment. The ladies also discuss Black Girl Magic, as we pay tribute to Kamala 'Momala' Harris and discuss why representation matters. Every week, Kaanji and Tar...

Aug 23, 202037 minSeason 1Ep. 5

That's My Type: What's Your Enneagram?

Get to know Kaanji and Tara a little better this week as they talk personality tests and share their Enneagram test results. Listen in as our hosts discuss why they believe that birth order plays a major role in determining your personality type. Link to Enneagram Institute: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions Let us know your type: https://www.instagram.com/blackandwhitemomcast/ American Psychological Article on Black boys and innocence Kaanji and Tara are both anti-racism advo...

Aug 16, 202044 minSeason 1Ep. 4

Sometimes it's a Goat Rodeo

Yee-haw, Mamas! On this episode, Kaanji and Tara are joined by fellow mom, Teah Kirk. Teah shares her motherhood journey, the challenges of being a working mom, and the importance of finding and celebrating community every day. Teah shares her bedtime routine with her toddler, and gives some pearls of wisdom on the importance of crafting and cultivating her daughter's positive mindset with empowering, daily affirmations. Kaanji and Tara are both anti-racism advocates and members of the leadershi...

Aug 09, 202042 minSeason 1Ep. 3

Guilty as charged

Does it seem like motherhood is a life sentence? In this powerful and raw episode, Kaanji and Tara talk through their experiences of 'mom guilt' and how they overcome this overwhelming feeling. Tara Bio: Tara is a bank executive living in North Dallas with her husband and son. A recovering overachiever that tends to stretch herself a bit thin trying to be all things to all people, she’s learning more and more about how to strive for ordinary. She loves Beyonce, dancing in the kitchen, inappropri...

Aug 02, 202035 minSeason 1Ep. 2

We're doin' the best we can, y'all

In this premiere episode, meet Kaanji and Tara as they discuss the dilemma about face-to-face learning vs. virtual learning for the upcoming school year and their general approach to modern-day motherhood. Tara is a bank executive living in North Dallas with her husband and son. A recovering overachiever that tends to stretch herself a bit thin trying to be all things to all people, she’s learning more and more about how to strive for ordinary. She loves Beyonce, dancing in the kitchen, inapprop...

Aug 02, 202024 minSeason 1Ep. 1

Flaws and All

'FAMILY isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile & love you no matter what.' Welcome to our family. The Motherhood and Black and White Podcast is a weekly conversation with Kaanji and Tara about motherhood- the challenges and celebrations. This momcast is a place where motherhood and cultural learning intersect. This week's episode is an Introduction to the momcast and the...

Jul 25, 20205 min0
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