In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Rowan Thomas, an educator, artist, and poet. Rowan is working on their dissertation on "Identity Battle Fatigue," a cumulative result of an identity-related stress response to distressing mental and emotional conditions. They talk about growing up in Houston, Texas as a "queer man in a woman's body."
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji sit down with Shelley and Nick. They chose to celebrate their 9th anniversary on our show, discussing their first steps into the Ethical Non-Monogamy Lifestyle. They talk in-depth about what they want from each other and some of the escapades they have gotten into.
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji have a riveting conversation with Chris Wellman, a stand-up comedian who has boldly intertwined his humor with kink and BDSM. In this episode, Chris delves into his strict upbringing, a stark contrast to the liberation he found in both the comedy scene and the kink community. Discover how Chris's journey through these seemingly divergent paths has led to a unique blend of entertainment that challenges taboos and tickles the funny bone. Fr...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome back onto our show, The Property Dominator herself, Kiki Stone. We blow the doors down with a deep discussion about Kiki's strict upbringing and religious indoctrination. Finding enlightenment through education and self-love, she broke free of her shame and found happiness and success. She also talks about her business networking group, Bizbonobos, and why we should be less like Orangutans and more like Bonobos. Listen to find out...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji sit down with Quiver Ambassador Saatcha Foxx. She talks about her monogamous upbringing leading to divorce and discovering the kink community and, by extension, the Quiver App. Her desire in the lifestyle is to educate and inspire new people to find the lifestyle but with better tools. Join the Quiver App Today
Justina and Kenji welcome Ti Murray, a Therapeutic Kink Practitioner, to Monogam-ish Podcast. In this episode, Ti discusses a community center in Seattle that caters to kinky people. Also discussed is Ti's performance piece "A Kink in the Cure," which focuses on sexual trauma, Kink, and BDSM. BDSM and Kink are therapeutic, but they do not replace therapy. Ti also talks about his experience at Burning Man 2023 and why the rain blessed actual Burners. Visit akinkinthecure.com to find out more....
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Stella Harris, a certified intimacy educator and professional coach. They talk about pleasure rituals, how important masturbation is for your personal sexual development, and why you must be patient with those new to the ENM lifestyle. Learn more from Stella Harris here.
In this episode of the Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji converse with Jamila, who identifies as a unicorn, and how her journey began. Jamila explains why she values her space and describes how she expresses her love through food and much more. Curious about Ethical Non-Monogamy? Join us at the Share Event on September 29, 2023, at Tracks Night Club in Denver, CO. Sign up For the Event Get your Tickets for the Share: Non-Monogamy Ball RSVP For the Event Get your Room at CatBird -- Hosted by...
In this episode, we discuss the journey to re-open a relationship. Whether you're new or have been out for a while, this episode is for you! Joining them are Sante and Vera, the co-creators of Share: A Non-Monogamy Ball —an event tailored to the ethical non-monogamous community. The hosts catch up with Sante and Vera, discussing what has happened since their last appearance on the show three years ago and the new dynamics they have explored. Sign up For the Event Get your Tickets for the Share: ...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Sex Coach and Author of " Living Your Erotic Potential ," Mark Casey. He also talks about the importance of breathing and how it can affect your sexual performance. As an adult, Mark was a business coach, and when he chose to become a sex coach, he discovered those skills were still applicable. Mark felt he had a lot of erotic energy flowing through him from an early age but had no constructive guidance until much later in his lif...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji continue their talk with Ray, Rae, and Lei. Ray talks about how his father's absence made him strive to be a better man to his children. Rae talks about when she came out to her family and why she was hesitant about it. Lei tells us about her pressure, setting an example for her younger siblings. Want more Monogam-ish Podcast: https://linktr.ee/monogamishpodcast 🍍🍍Going to a Play Party? We recommend these items for your BYOS Bag 🍍🍍 😎...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to a beautiful throuple whose names sound like notes in a solfeggio, Ray, Rae, and Lei. Ray and Rae are a married couple who met after Ray got out of a messy relationship; Rae had a child at a young age and only wanted a casual hook-up. Still, they caught feelings for each other and dedicated themselves to building their relationship in the lifestyle. Lei had only been on in a few relationships, up to that point, before she met Ray a...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Duane Allen, Director of Colorado Center of Alternative Lifestyles ( COCAL ); Duane is a retired, disabled veteran and a self-described "hedonist." He has participated in alternative lifestyle communities for the last two decades. Duane tells us how he got curious about kink from when he saw Hellraiser the first time and when a friend dared him to go to a stranger's house for a naughty engagement. He also speaks about how he navig...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji speak to the insightful "Pleasure Priestess," Erin Berry. She is a certified Love, Sex, and Relationship Coach that holds regular online coaching for people all across the globe—helping people discover their deeply held trauma so that they can heal from it. Erin also talks about her own experience with being monogamous and finding the joy of ethical non-monogamy after a failed marriage. Erin is holding two upcoming events. Tantra for Self...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome back to Trisha, Producer Drew's Wife. Trisha talks about how she viewed compersion and shaped her relationships with her husband and boyfriend. She also talks about how she discovered the pleasure of using a strap-on to play with other ladies and then other men—that and more on Monogam-ish Podcast. Want more Monogam-ish Podcast: https://linktr.ee/monogamishpodcast 🍍🍍Going to a Play Party? We recommend these items for your BYOS B...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Brenden and Danielle about their exploration into the Lifestyle. Brenden came from a traditional Christian family where those rules suffocated him to the point he needed to escape. Danielle was the black sheep of her family and refused to be shaped by her family. They both discovered their paths to the Lifestyle through trial and error. Listen more to find out how. Explore more: https://linktr.ee/monogamishpodcast
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome onto the show Yvenne and Genesis. Both girls have gone through tremendous hurdles throughout their childhoods. Yvenne had been dealing with her gender identity since high school and the aggravation that comes from that. Genesis grew up in a broken family that revolved around staunch catholic values and denial. From that, they grew to become better and loving people. Listen to find out more! Follow the link to view more Monogam-ish...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome onto the show Chanel Bee. Chanel is a content creator, web designer, and marketeer. She tells us about her upbringing, early relationships, and how they shaped how she wanted to be treated later in life. Find out why Chanel is the exception to the rule of never entering the lifestyle as a way to fix your relationship. And why it is always hard at the beginning of exploring the lifestyle. Be sure to check out Chanel Bee at her link...
In this Episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome an extraordinary guest, Ken, and Danyell, the owners and operators of Summit House Parties. They talk about how they first started running a Bead and Breakfast and throwing house parties and how vindictive and envious people in the lifestyle community attempted to shut down Ken and Danyell's parties. That and more. Don't forget to visit our website to see their Open Letter to the community.
On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Nathan Travis onto the show. He is a part of a seven-person polycule and will be appearing in the Netflix show "Sacred Spaces," involving him and his polycule. Nathan tells us about his early days in polyamory, while he made every mistake he could. In doing so, he cultivated enough wisdom to teach those curious about polyamory and guide them. Don't forget about his Couch Confessional seen on our Patreon! Listen to his episode toda...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Erin and Lucas onto the show. Erin has been a primary care and gynecology/obstetrics practitioner for six years. Lucas owns his security company. Before she met Lucas, Erin had been in the lifestyle for many years. Listen to the episode to learn more.
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Kris and Lisa to talk about being demisexual in the lifestyle. Lisa and Kris met while Lisa while working abroad in Canada; Lisa explored the scene while up north and ran into Kris on more than one occasion. Early in their relationship, they decided that jealousy was a waste of time and energy, and they did not want that anywhere near their relationship. That and more on this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. -- Support us on Patreo...
On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to a hardcore hustler, AJ Fox. Growing up, her exposure to abstinence-only sex education led her to believe that her sexual desires were shameful. Despite her staunch conservative upbringing and teen pregnancy, as soon as AJ turned eighteen, she began doing sex work. Her main clientele, at the time, were gawky college kids that had little-to-no confidence but wanted "practice." After turning out virgins, she harnessed her skills and ...
On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Mistress Saskia and Mike Charming to talk about BDSM and running The RACK room here in colorado. Mistress Saskia graces us with her decade's insights being a professional dominatrix, like how to remove someone who's passed out on a cross safely. Mike Charming tells us of how he started in DC and brought his experiences to Colorado. Make sure to check out the RACK Room by visiting their website here.
In this compelling episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Ella Barnett onto the show. Ella tells us that she didn't like being monogamous when she was younger and believed it was a defect in her character. After two failed marriages, she gave up on having any hierarchical relationships and concentrated on herself. Being a full-time nanny was how Ella supported herself and her kids; however, the pandemic hit. Ella being the sexy exhibitionist that she is, turned to OnlyFans. No...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji sit down with Sasha to talk about her adventure into the lifestyle as a single, Solo-Poly woman. Sasha started her journey when she realized that she needed to break her cycle of abuse from her former partners. After two disastrous relationships, she discovered the lifestyle and has never been happier. She tells why she only considers people in the lifestyle and goes for partnered people. Listen in for more! Want more Monogam-ish Podcast:...
In the Season 3 Premiere of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji welcome; Helen and Roy are onto the show. These two sexy beasts talk about their journeys to the ENM lifestyle. Helen hails from a small town in Colorado, rife with conservative, abstinence-only sex education, and became the "Virgin Slip Collector" to many boys. Roy, also coming from another small town, was told repeatedly by his mother that he would have multiple girlfriends, which culminates in Roy losing his virginity in a thr...
On our Season Finale Episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji welcome Michael and Bev onto our show. Michael and Bev are both famous for hosting the "Raven's Nest" house parties in Colorado. Michael had been active in the San Francisco swinger scene for years after discovering his innate need to have sex with multiple people, or as he puts it, "He was Multi-Sexual." Bev, on the other hand, discovered her newfound sexuality after a butt-dialing incident with her ex-husband. When the two ...
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji sit down with Urvashi and Kama, the owners and operators of Spark Erotic. An Erotic Film company that specializes in making high-end, cinematic, erotic films. What started as a fun hobby of shooting erotic photographs soon became a full-fledged career producing sincere and sensual films. Kama shares his personal philosophy on what makes his films different than porn made today. Kama and Urvashi tell us about the documentary series they ar...
Justina and Kenji, welcome to the show, internationally-renown sex therapist and clinical psychologist Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb, to talk with us once again. Dr. Rhoda tells us about her experience as a sex therapist specializing in AB/DL, Adult Baby/Diaper Lover patients. and how she coaches them in accepting themselves and easing their partner's worries. Also, Dr. Rhoda tells us how the pandemic and the rise in mental health advocacy has made for a busy year. Visit Dr. Rhoda at her website here ....
