SMOKE HOUR ★ MINDY J.
A day late and a dollar short, but I will still be finding a way to see Beyoncé. While we're here, let's discuss the Album Of The Year that is Cowboy Carter.
Feb 04, 2025•41 min
Mommy Said a Bad Word
A podcast for loving mothers who sometimes want to get away from their kids. Yeah we're moms, but we're women first. I said what I said.
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Episodes
Are Single Mothers DEI Hires?
All aboard the hot mess express! This week we delve into what DEI actually is (because words mean things), and explore the root of the world's hatred for single mothers.
Jan 27, 2025•1 hr 12 min
TikTok Went To Get Milk and Actually Came Back
The lies we tell and the games we play. After a 12 hr ban, TikTok is back in the States. Based on their messaging, I think they want you to thank Trump really bad. Not to mention, the inaguration is tomorrow. How do we decide who is cancelled for performing there, and who isn't? Happy Birthday Dr. King! Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@Mommysaidabadword
Jan 19, 2025•27 min
Say Her Name
From "Mag" Thee Stallion to a sad tale of an unprotected Black girl, it's another day in America. RIP Na'Ziyah Harris, you didn't deserve that, baby girl. Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@Mommysaidabadword
Jan 13, 2025•44 min
The Ethics of Family Vlogging
As I look to figure out what kind of content I want to make moving forward, here's why my kids will not be involved.
Jan 06, 2025•27 min
12 Green Grapes Under the Table and Red Lace
Happy New Year! 2024 was a "Cranes In The Sky" ass year, ok. May your 2025 be full of abundance and light.
Dec 31, 2024•38 min
The Burden to Be Better
As we know, MVSU is getting dragged left and right. As an alumna of the institution, I have thoughts. Also, don't know if you knew, but Beyoncé has the right to be proud of where she comes from. Let's talk about it.
Dec 28, 2024•56 min
Santa Baby: What Do You Tell Your Kids About Santa?
Merry Christmas! Here you will find the ramblings of someone whose parents didn't teach them about Santa, and what that means now for my kids. Watch on Youtube: www.youtube.com/@Mommysaidabadword Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momsaidabadword/profilecard/?igsh=amV6b2trYWF2YzAw Email: mommysaidabadword@gmail.com
Dec 23, 2024•26 min
"And On That Note" Pieces of Wisdom I Gained Before 30
Hey y'all, welcome back. This week, I'm discussing lessons I learned in my 12 years of being an adult. It takes gaining wisdom to be 30, flirty and thriving. Watch on Youtube: www.youtube.com/@Mommysaidabadword Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momsaidabadword/profilecard/?igsh=amV6b2trYWF2YzAw Email: mommysaidabadword@gmail.com
Dec 16, 2024•39 min
How the Fear of Perception Stopped My Bag
Welcome to the Renaissance.
Dec 09, 2024•23 min
Something For the Hotties
I know, it's been like two years. Trust me, I'm judging myself. If you're still here, let's chat!
May 18, 2024•1 hr 26 min
I Didn't Do It, But If I Did...
When it comes to my kids, I'ma play in y'all face like Tokyo Toni if I have to. From the pissy dating pool to the horrible economy, I can't tell which one is worse. All I do know is that if you want a coparent partner, you can't micromanage. Link to Articles: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/49649255
May 04, 2022•57 min
Tore Up Wallets
Another show, another hot take. As Black Maternal Health Week comes to an end, we talk the importance of choosing a birth plan that is best for you, how to handle the reality of the third coparent & making sure you choose wisely. With me, you're never losing.
Apr 15, 2022•55 min
And It's Really Not That Deep
We can't escape the slap heard across the diaspora, BUT I can give you a hot take. What’s the wildest lie a man has ever told you?
Apr 01, 2022•48 min
Everyone's Body Count Can Be Low If We Just Lie
Between not being ran through and getting our asses up and f**king working, we're tired. BUT there's still time for more Mommy Said a Bad Word. This week, Aaliyah joins the conversation as we talk keeping our body counts low, Black Panther bank robberies and why you should mind the tax bracket that pays you. At the end of the day, would you rather date a dude with a baby mama, or accidentally invite in a squatter who eats all your baby's fruit snacks?
Mar 13, 2022•57 min
Nah, I Say We Talk About Bruno
A bonus episode for all my faithful baby mamas as well as an analysis of sorts when your twins have made you watch Encanto no less than 20 times. Sources: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhtehR9/ , https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhGoP6e/ , https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhtYXF7/ https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhG3eVy/ https://instagram.com/thisisyolandarenteria?utm_medium=copy_link...
Mar 10, 2022•41 min
Gotta Let The Pod Cry [feat. No Offense Tho]
TW: Suicide After Mindy's hair appointment got cancelled for the 2nd time in a row, the best form of therapy is a good pod session. While Chuck The World and Cousin Jordan [No Offense Tho] pull up to discuss "January's Own," the conversation gets deeper as we discuss one of the most difficult realizations as a parent...no matter how much you love your children, you can't always save them from themselves. But alas, I can't see it coming down my eyes.
Jan 28, 2022•1 hr 7 min
Boo, I'm Throwing Tomatoes
Guess who's bizzack. Mommy is back starting the year off right with the return of the pod. This week is straight to the point as we discuss what we aren't excepting from our potential partners in 2022, why the hell does Khloe have us even mentioning Tristan Thompson, and what should you do when your child's father is for spankings and you aren't? One thing about it, if he passing the shisha, he can pass on by me.
Jan 15, 2022•40 min
27 Club [Birthday Episode]
Mommy Said a Bad Word is one! Cheers to another rotation around the sun as Mindy sits down with a few friends of the show to discuss celebrating another birthday and what the year has taught her. This years lesson: you might stumble, you might fall, but just don't f***n' quit! Enjoy a birthday playlist curated by the host: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/27-club/pl.u-Ldbqzmrsxk8ZL2
Nov 03, 2021•37 min
I'm Sorry I Slept With Your Baby Moms, I Just Didn’t Wanna Go To Arizona
Mindy is back riding solo, but the jokes continue to write themselves. As we work on healing our inner child to become better parents to our babies, we break down some of the parenting styles that shaped our adult lives, starting with strictness. Also, what is the appropriate age to let your children decide if they wanna see their parents or not? I mean, Frank Mitchell did more harm than good.
Oct 12, 2021•50 min
I Just Wanna Meet You Halfway
After a couple weeks of scammers and weirdos trying to steal a playa's joy, Mindy is back with another episode. This week we discuss seeing your ex do what they wouldn't do for you with their next partner, why in the hell would someone date a convicted rapist, and the way that missing black bodies are treated in comparison to missing white ones. As a single mother, is dating a man with no kids holding him back?
Sep 27, 2021•1 hr 3 min
One Box of Pizza When He Know You Big
They tried to kill yo favorite b****, but we here! This week, Mindy is joined by friend of the show @taajcrown as we talk emotional incest, growing up fat and automatically getting paired with the ugly friend, weirdo baby mamas and honking the horn on they ass (RIP Gregg Leakes) and the best Beyonce songs according to the coloreds.
Sep 06, 2021•1 hr 38 min
I'll Take One Celibacy, Please [feat. No Offense Tho]
This week, the @nooffensetho crew takes a seat at the Mommy Said a Bad Word table to talk the transition from celibacy to tinder, dating a single mom, and what exactly are you supposed to do when your 19-year-old brings home a 32-year-old. From finding out your friend once got a DNA test on your new boyfriend to not inviting your daughter to your wedding, welcome to problematic’s cabaret!
Aug 26, 2021•1 hr 35 min
I Don't Know Who Needs To Hear This, But
This week Mindy taps into the solo dolo bag as we talk intuition, reflection, and accepting the things we cannot change while having the courage to change the things we can. While we look to understand what each phase of life brings, what I know 27 won't bring is an 18 year old baby daddy.
Aug 20, 2021•48 min
Remember, You Aren't One of My Lil' Friends
Mommy is back. This week we answer the new age question: is being in your adult child's life a privilege? Between a billion dollars and a billion reasons why you should not stay with your child's father when he has a baby on you, you can also count on me to NOT be the one to try and be besties with my man's family. I once saw a meme that said "chicks be having a mother in law and no man," girl leave that boy mama alone!
Aug 12, 2021•1 hr 28 min
Don't Let Your Mouth Write a Check Your A** Can't Cash
This week, among DaBS and DaBacklash, Mindy sits down to talk about the importance of knowing when to admit you're wrong, why teaming up with my enemies will never bring you peace, and the necessity of unpacking your trauma before you very publicly pass it on to your kids. Check this, before you toot your nose up at the next young woman, check how much of a hater you truly are. s/o @breaknbreadblog, @deedeesbutterbar, @tbgbodycare [use code MOMMYSAID at checkout on tbgbodycare.com for 10% off yo...
Aug 04, 2021•1 hr 8 min
I Guess I Got My Swagger Back
Guess who's back! July is Minority Mental Health Month, and baby, the mental health has been mental healthing. But after a hiatus, Mommy is back with a few bad words as she's joined by @chucktheworld_ and friend of the show "agent M" to discuss turning your trolling finsta into a page for your newborn baby, getting thrown of planes for changing your baby's diapers and the logistics of going back to the man who cheated on you with crack. Between lessons in what exactly fatherhood is supposed to b...
Jul 26, 2021•1 hr 27 min
The Death of the Woman I Once Was [Mother's Day Special]
Happy Mother's Day! Motherhood is a beautiful thing, but we'd be remiss if we didn't acknowledge the times you miss who you once were. This week, it's a family affair as Mindy sits down with her cousins to discuss The first year of motherhood and marriages as we mourn the women we used to be and embrace the women we're becoming. What would you do when your baby daddy's gf has made you their surrogate?
May 09, 2021•1 hr 16 min
Skipped the Double Homicide For a Double Blessing
This week Mindy is joined for some funny conversation with Taaj (before her vaccine mutates her into a fish) as they talk potential cult leaders who claim to be healing the hood, what toxic relationships teach you about yourself, healing, and accepting your blessings. Listen up while you can cause we're outside soon.
Apr 23, 2021•1 hr 8 min
I Ghosted My Therapist
This week, Mindy is back and joined by a good friend as they reminisce on their cotillion, life at an HBCU, self realization, and getting into Medical School. I have a confession too, I ghosted my therapist...so don’t ask me how my mental health is today.
Apr 09, 2021•1 hr 3 min
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