Complementary partners

I thought it is important to clarify this matter. I have been talking of complementary partners and often surprised when people claim to be my complementary partner. Relationships are not an often thought-about aspect of everyday living, even though we interact with people because of relationships or in tandem with relationships. It may not have been possible to examine each relationship, unless they affect some aspect of lived experience in a manner that is unhealthy. This PODcast (Point Of Discovery cast) is an effort to bring this aspect of relationship - the 'me' aspect of relationship. It is what 'I' do that then, either comes around in a way that is beneficial to me or in a way that is adverse to what 'I' would prefer.

Karmanye vadhikaaraste maa phaleshu kadaachana translates roughly to what goes around comes around (do your actions per time in such a manner as to not have to think about the results...because how you take actions here and now is what gives rise to the results..and the results could be many, not just the expected one). Given the potential multiplicity of known and unknown results from your actions, wouldn't you rather do what makes your actions better this moment..doing the right things to the best of your capacity at this moment in time with a commitment of making things better as you show up regularly to practice doing the right things?

Maybe you are your own complementary partner - the feedback giving first customer to what you dish around, and wondering 'why this happens to me?' 'why am I dealing with the same patterns?'