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Based on a piece of guest writing that has been featured on the wiki and mentioned several times recently by people who have emailed me as being important, I decided to turn this into a podcast episode. It's a simple-by-step process on how to teach your partner. While I didn't create this it's ossibly one of the most important things I've ever published because if it's broad applicability, and ability to simplify and otherwise confusing process into extremely approachable and simple to understan...
Beginning as a conversation as to why scripts are deeply important for ensuring high-quality output as early on in the learning process as possible, this episode then diverges Into a bit of a rant about the importance of questioning dogma. I discuss the wide prevalence of dogma within hypnokink and why it exists that way. I also present clear solutions to the prevalence of dogma and how to overcome these factors inhibiting the growth of the hobby that we all enjoy. Find the Episode Notes at the ...
Designed to make effective absorption of quality brainwashing content (of a positive nature, obviously - always control your inputs it's critically important) approachable for as many people as possible. I outline simple instructions and sources on how to create an audio-only brainwashing device for yourself or your partner. I also outline effective usage practices for in-person relationships and cover long distance relationships as well. Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( thewordsmithspea...
A bit of a rant, I offer an analysis of some of the structural impediment to the adoption of hypnokink by differently abled people, and present clear and effective solutions addressing each of the points that I raise. Further input from differently abled people is welcomed, please email me at thewordsmithspeaks@pm.me Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes ...
PLEASE SHARE! - one of my most important and significant pieces of work, which I hope will redefine how subject skills are thought of and developed, leading to massive increases in possibilities, intimacy and connection. I present a simple definition of subject skills, and explain how to cultivate and develop each of the four distinct areas in your own relationship to produce the ideal subject. I present the four major categories of subject skills, along with a list of defined MetaModifiers. To ...
An extremely important episode, possibly one of the most useful I've ever produced. A common question - how do I teach my partner to actually make me feel supported, by actually supporting me, solved in simple, direct language with a process that has been extensively tested by dozens of people and proven to work. As always, any feedback can be emailed to me. Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Pr...
Discover the simple "Tits and Teeth" cue for instant posture improvement and learn why other common cues often fail. This episode provides a holistic guide to correcting posture, covering essential strengthening exercises for the lower back and core, recommended resources, and the often-overlooked impact of footwear. Understand how to address underlying weaknesses and achieve biomechanically correct, relaxed posture through a systematic approach.
Hypnokink Pickup Play (basically doing mental play with almost-strangers) is quite dramatically more intimate, generally, than more physical play. I've recieved a large number of emails from people over the last several months with questions and concerns about this topic, so this is my attempt to give you permission to opt-out of something many people disagree with, but find hard to speak up about. Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Addition...
Making simple recordings of your voice for your partner is one of the kindest things that you can do for them. When you are together, they can drift off to sleep to the sounds of your voice, soothing them after a stressful day. You can be there for them even when you are working or travelling away. You can create positive, mutually agreed upon effects, and the benefits of recordings of your voice extend beautifully even to long distance relationships. They are something you make once, that someo...
Recently several people have contacted me about having problems with "making suggestions stick" with their partner. Additionally I have observed many people struggling with this topic, with many subjects stating that permanent changes are highly desirable to them. I will present several methods for making changes created with erotic hypnosis permanent, including: The importance of CONSENT and CONTEXT to maximising intensity Variable Responses and appropriate compensatory mechanisms Discussion of...
I examine the nature of consent and explain a simple system for ensuring that you establish your scenes and relationships on the right footing to ensure success. Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloads. Definitely check it out.
My attempt to distill my thoughts into a single idea - creating simplified training goals for your submissive partner. Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloads. Definitely check it out.
Furthering my research into the simplest most effect relationship agreement, is the examination of the simplest form of what dominance and submission actually is, and practical models on how to realise it. Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloads. Definitely check it out.
Critical information for anyone wanting to understand the modern submissive, is understanding their mindset. There are three primary motivations, here they are outlined and examined in detail as well as how to utilise them. Find the Episode Notes at the Website (thewordsmithspeaks.com) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloads. Definitely check it out.
Furthering my research into relationship design and my attempts to simplify its structure while improving its effectiveness. This content will be superseded by the Contracts 3.0 module, coming out soon. Find the Episode Notes at the Website (thewordsmithspeaks.com) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloads. Definitely check it out.
The person in control of a scene or relationship is the single person who decides. There is only one Captain of a relationship, and many have emailed me regarding their frustrations with their partner claiming the benefits of being in a Ds relationship while not actually transferring real authority, and I discuss this as well, and mitigations. Tags: Ds, Relationship Design Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( https://thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, C...
Prefacing your formal scene with a simple fractal representation of the scene produces extremely deep responsiveness in your subject during the second scene, and accelerates the process of conditioning and responsiveness. Tags: Scene, Conditioning, Hypnokink Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( https://thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloads. Definitely check it out....
Restricting yourself to using a single tool or rope tie for the entirety of a scene is a effective way to build a deep familiarity with all of the possible uses of a tool. I discuss this idea in both hypnokink and other examples and also the idea of standards of progression for hypnokink skills. Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( https://thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloa...
Aftercare can be used to reduce the effect of a scene, or intentionally to escalate it and increase the intensity. I explain the difference, when and how exactly to go about this. Tags: Aftercare Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( https://thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloads. Definitely check it out....
I discuss the use of three Role Playing Game (RPG) character creation systems and how they map onto Ds roleplay - specifically Dungeons and Dragons, The Elder Scrolls and Fallout's S.P.E.C.I.A.L System. Tags: Ds, Role Playing Game, RPG Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( https://thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloads. Definitely check it out....
Large Language Models (LLM's) can provide an excellent starting point for roleplaying, scene creation and immersive experiences with your partner. I'll explain in a very simple way how to install and access uncensored LLM's and provide several example prompt structures and ideas to create your scenes and maximise intensity. Tags: Ds, AI, LLM, Large Language Model Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( https://thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Te...
Traditional Kink Negotiations are impractical, give a false sense of safety, encourage evasive behaviour and tell you very little if nothing about shared, common desires. I will present a radically more effective approach to simplify kink scene and relationship negotiation, facilitate massive connection and the creation of shared meaning, and make negotiations actually fun and enjoyable for a change. Tags: Ds, Tool, Negotiation, Hypnokink Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( https://thewordsm...
Get more of the play you want, with the people that are worthy of you. I present The Menu, a simple tool for connecting and explaining your interests, effectively and effortlessly synchronising your desires and leading into fun and intense connection, while providing a clearer structure to both Doms and Subs. Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( https://thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as...
"If you can't be happy without them, you can never be fully happy with them" and "If they can't be happy without you, then they will never be fully happy with you". I provide clear advice to inform the healthy selection of a worthy partner and to avoid common pitfalls in Ds partner selection, as well as highlighting risk factors for dependancy and present effective mitigations. Find the Episode Notes at the Website ( https://thewordsmithspeaks.com ) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scrip...
More of a major rant, really. This one was an audio message to a personal friend, which starts off fast and doesn't slow down.It's part of my (larger, more thorough) criticisms of the mainstream hypnokink "community" (it's in quotes because it doesn't really exist, I'll explain why in the episode) and I present some of the simple solutions to these deep, structural failings. Find the Episode Notes at the Website (thewordsmithspeaks.com) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, ...
There is some content on this vitally important topic, but not nearly enough. This is a part of a conversation where I discuss a piece of a system I've been developing to massively improve the responsiveness of Submissives. Theres some good concepts here but it isn't a complete system, keep an eye out for that on this podcast in the future. Find the Episode Notes at the Website (thewordsmithspeaks.com) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and fu...
I have a lot of female friends, and they often struggle to find high quality male partners so over the last few months I've been testing a system to fix that. Basically, it's "how to date, for submissives". This audio is a small part of it, the complete system will be released as a series of episodes later, but enjoy this for now. Find the Episode Notes at the Website (thewordsmithspeaks.com) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast...
This one is a weird one and I'm not entirely certain it's the most useful form it could be in. Take all of this one, as with all my work, with critical thinking. It's essentially a stream-of-conciousness conversation I had with a friend who is going through some things at the moment. Find the Episode Notes at the Website (thewordsmithspeaks.com) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloads. Definitely check i...
I address some of the common problems that occur that can cause a breakdown of communications between a Submissive and her Dominant, and provide simple solutions. This is not a comprehensive analysis of this topic, I am working on that. Find the Episode Notes at the Website (thewordsmithspeaks.com) in the Resources Folder. Additional FREE Scripts, Classes, Templates, Printables, PDF's and full podcast episodes as audio downloads. Definitely check it out.
The episodes content has been updated in the episode 073 Basics of Brainwashing Class. HOWEVER this episode is different in two major ways - its application is broader, covering material on concious habit design that has been removed from the class. It also has a LOT of content on the last two thirds of me talking about problems I've overcome and mistakes in my relationships that I've made. Deeply candid and personal. Find the Episode Notes at the Website (thewordsmithspeaks.com) in the Resource...
