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148.Together 4 years, Two kids, Deployments & the First Posting

Mar 29, 202350 minEp. 148
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Episode description

On this week's podcast episode, I speak with spouse Chantel about how COVID lockdowns gave her and her ADF partner the time and space to establish their relationship and start a family.

Chantel and I also speak about;

  • How they met and why after only knowing each other for three weeks, Chantel kinda moved in
  • Her ADF partners fears starting a relationship, and the toll deployments take on a couple
  • Why Chantel used time apart as a chance to focus on herself and her own busy life
  • The pressure of being separated while trying to get to know each other
  • Seeing the positives when it came to COVID lockdowns and cancelled away time
  • Moving in together and starting a family early on in their relationship
  • When reality hit and Chantel's partner went away for an extended time post lockdowns
  • Learning to put her hand up for help and accessing the support that is out there
  • News of her defence members first posting away from the location they met
  • Why Chantel made the decision to move to their posting location ahead of her partner
  • The challenge of finding a DHA property, childcare and employment in Canberra
  • Looking after her own well-being and deciding to start a business

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