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Mention It All

Betches Media
Betches Media presents Mention It All, a podcast dedicated to breaking down all things Bravo. Your host, certified Bravoholic Dylan Hafer, is covering everything Real Housewives and more, including weekly episode recaps and analysis, the latest social media drama, and interviews with your favorite Bravolebrities. For more Bravo memes, commentary, and special guests, follow @bravobybetches on Instagram.
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Episodes

2-For-1 Special (RHONJ, RHOSLC Reunion, Below Deck Reunion)

It’s another busy week in Bravo-land, starting with reports that a Housewives All-Stars show is in the works. Dylan and Bari name their dream casts for the show that they’ve been manifesting for years, and debate some of their more controversial picks. After briefly discussing the unbelievably boring Below Deck reunion, they recap RHONJ, where the whole cast is reeling after Teresa and Jackie’s blowout fight. Then, they finish off the RHOSLC season with the third part of the reunion. Certain feu...

Feb 25, 202139 min

Kenya’s Court (RHOA)

It’s the RHOA episode everyone’s been waiting for, and Bari and Dylan break down all the Bolo mess. What happens in the dungeon stays in the dungeon, but there’s still plenty to talk about. They discuss why Kenya’s search for truth is low-key problematic, and whether her truce with Marlo will last more than a few episodes. They also talk about Brandi Redmond’s decision to leave RHOD, and what role tabloid rumors may have played. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 22, 202127 min

Who’s Craving A Sandwich? (RHOD, Summer House)

Bari and Dylan begin by recapping the first part of RHOD’s trip to Austin, where Tiffany’s standing in the group rises as D’Andra’s hits the floor. They discuss the true meaning of “bullying,” and why no one can talk shit quietly. Then, they discuss this week’s episode of Summer House, where the love triangle debacle has devolved even further. And while Kyle and Amanda’s relationship seems to have hit its stride, Lindsay’s seems to be in serious trouble. Dylan and Bari also react to the Real Hou...

Feb 19, 202139 min

The Teresa v. Jackie Showdown (RHONJ Premiere, RHOSLC Reunion)

Bari and Dylan waste no time digging into the explosive RHONJ season premiere. They recap the shocking events between Teresa and Jackie, and weigh in on what the rest of the cast has going on. It’s a doozy of a premiere, and the Jersey girls are just getting started. Then, they jump to part two of the RHOSLC reunion, where Mary Cosby clears up questions about her marriage and some of her issues with Jen Shah. They discuss the tense dynamic between Lisa and Heather, and where the show’s relations...

Feb 18, 202142 min

The Anatomy Of An Apology (RHOA, Below Deck Finale)

Bari and Dylan are back from an uneventful long weekend, and they jump right in with a RHOA recap. After a few faux pas on the group trip, Kenya chooses to abdicate her hosting duties, but her apology falls flat with the rest of the women. Dylan and Bari also discuss the show’s powerful tribute to Breonna Taylor, and celebrate how far Porsha has come on the show. Then, they break down the Below Deck season finale, where the charter season came to an unexpected end due to COVID. With one last Rac...

Feb 16, 202141 min

Trouble At The Send It Grill (Summer House)

Bari and Dylan kick off the show with some developing RHONJ drama between Teresa and Jackie, and share their excitement about next week’s season premiere. Then, they get into their Summer House recap, with Luke’s love triangle taking center stage. They also dissect the red flags in Paige and Lindsay’s relationships, and discuss why they loved Kyle’s unique birthday celebration. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 12, 202126 min

Roll Footage (Below Deck, RHOD, RHOSLC Reunion)

Bari and Dylan kick off a jam-packed episode with a recap of Dylan’s session with RHOSLC hypnotist Kimberly Friedmutter, and he shares whether her sleeping tricks are working for him. Then, they discuss the latest developments on Below Deck, where Elizabeth seems increasingly delusional about her job performance and love life. Next, they break down Tiffany’s pizza party on RHOD, and assess which of her party rules crossed the line. Finally, they dive deep on the first part of the RHOSLC reunion,...

Feb 11, 202141 min

A Girls Trip Etiquette Lesson (RHOA)

It’s Super Bowl Monday, which Bari and Dylan are salty about RHOA skipping a week. Nevertheless, they catch up with a recap of last week’s hilarious episode. Before that, they discuss the trailer for Lisa Vanderpump’s new show coming to E!, and whether they’ll be watching. They also unpack Lisa Barlow’s bizarre Instagram story about Brooks Marks, and debate whether lip fillers count as “getting work done.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 08, 202131 min

The Most Chaotic Reunion Ever? (Southern Charm Reunion, Summer House Premiere)

Bari and Dylan still have whiplash from the Southern Charm reunion, but they try their best to make sense of the chaos. Is anyone thirstier than Madison? Has Kathryn actually learned anything? And why DOES Craig care so much? Much to consider. Then, they recap the season premiere of Summer House, which featured two new cast members and a whole lot of Loverboy. Lindsay and Hannah are already getting into it, while Luke’s relationship status is a hot topic in the house. It’s going to be a bumpy ri...

Feb 05, 202134 min

Pickle Juice Shots Fired (Below Deck, RHOD, RHOSLC Finale)

Dylan is back from virtual Sundance, where he unfortunately did not see Lisa Barlow. He and Bari return to their regularly scheduled recaps with another packed episode. They begin with Below Deck, where Francesca and Elizabeth are still at odds, and Rachel is having a mahi-mahi meltdown. Next, they recap Real Housewives of Dallas, which takes them back to their pre-pandemic day-drinking memories. Kary and D’Andra are at odds, and chances are they’re both wrong. Finally, they get into the RHOSLC ...

Feb 04, 202140 min

Quarantine Should Be Fun Ft. Carl Radke & Lindsay Hubbard (Summer House Preview)

Just in time for the Summer House premiere, OGs Lindsay Hubbard and Carl Radke stop by to talk about the new season. They look back on their five-year journey with the show, and how the quarantine experience made this season different. Then, Carl shares some insights into his sobriety journey, and Lindsay discusses what it was like entering the house in a new relationship. They give some updates on their relationships with their castmates, and tease what we can expect from new housemate Ciara. F...

Feb 01, 202136 min

Unbothered, Unshaken, Unmotivated Ft. Drew Sidora (RHOA)

Bari and Dylan are joined by Drew Sidora, the newest addition to the RHOA cast. They discuss her process of joining the show, and she reveals how close she came to joining the cast way back in 2015. Next, Drew shares some updates on her marriage, and how she and Ralph dealt with the experience of airing their issues in front of the cameras. Then, they discuss Drew’s relationships with the ladies in the RHOA cast, and she doesn’t mince words when discussing her feelings about Kenya and LaToya. Th...

Jan 29, 202133 min

We’re Gonna Need A Bigger Crystal (Below Deck, RHOD, RHOSLC)

Dylan and Bari give a quick update on all the upcoming Bravo shows, then dive into a packed episode. They start with Below Deck, and give their updated thoughts on Francesca vs. Elizabeth, and share their excitement about the upcoming charter guests. Next, they break down RHOD, and question why Kameron and Kary seem so dead-set on disliking D’Andra. Finally, they get into RHOSLC, where the Jen Shah hurricane has left a path of devastation in Las Vegas. They explore the ever-evolving relationship...

Jan 28, 202138 min

The Madison Mess (Southern Charm Finale, RHOA)

Bari and Dylan waste no time diving into the drama with Madison and Jay Cutler. Do her receipts really mean anything, or is she just thirsty? Then, they recap the season finale of Southern Charm, where Kathryn finally had some real conversations, and Madison and Austen got in one last round of toxicity. Finally, they share their thoughts on RHOA, including PJ-gate and Drew’s newfound messiness. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 25, 202136 min

Snakes In The Grass Ft. Whitney Rose

Dylan and Bari are joined by RHOSLC’s Whitney Rose, who comes prepared to spill a whole Vida Tequila bottle full of tea. She shares how she got involved with the show, and what the first season journey has been like. Then, she gives an emotional update on her father, and what she’s learned about standing up for herself. Next, she addresses her issues with some of the ladies on the show, and responds to Lisa Barlow calling her a snake on Instagram Live. Finally, she plays a game of “Who Would You...

Jan 22, 202134 min

The Chicken Foot Situation (Below Deck, RHOD, RHOC Reunion)

Dylan takes a break from reading Faye Resnick’s book to recap the latest Bravo episodes with Bari. They start with Below Deck, where Chef Rachel is making a lot of enemies, and James is determined to break Elizabeth’s heart. Then they discuss recent developments on Real Housewives of Dallas, starting with why Kameron is so angry at Tiffany. They also share their thoughts on D’Andra’s refreshing new vibe, and Stephanie’s newfound independence. Finally, they recap the first part of the RHOC reunio...

Jan 21, 202133 min

Kandi Kares & Kenya Komplains (RHOA)

Bari and Dylan kick off the week with some important Bravo news updates. Some new tea about Braunwyn is even more scandalous than expected, and friendships have shifted in the Vanderpump Rules cast. Then, they recap this week’s RHOA episode, featuring the return of Noelle the influencer. Kenya can’t help making more digs at Porsha, while Kandi isn’t impressed with everyone’s generosity at her charity event. And of course, Drew is still nowhere to be found as the ladies plan their first group tri...

Jan 19, 202131 min

Get Us Out Of Newport Beach (RHOC Finale, Southern Charm)

It’s a week full of finales, as Dylan and Bari recap RHOC and the first half of the Southern Charm finale (whatever that means). Things in OC are bleak: Gina and Shannon’s relationship is on the rocks, Braunwyn gets yelled at for living in a conservative neighborhood, and Elizabeth tells some more cringeworthy lies. Over in Charleston, Austen and Madison’s toxic breakup spiral continues, and Leva struggles to get everyone to understand what Kathryn did wrong. Learn more about your ad choices. Vi...

Jan 15, 202134 min

A Tale Of Two Housewives’ Closets (Below Deck, RHOD, RHOSLC)

In another packed show, Bari and Dylan start by recapping this week’s episode of Below Deck. With drunk Delores off the boat, James and Elizabeth’s budding relationship is the main source of tension. Next, they discuss RHOD, their evolving thoughts on Dr. Tiffany Moon, and why Kameron needs to do better. After a brief discussion of the RHONJ trailer, they finish off with RHOSLC, where Jen and Whitney are on the rocks after the showdown at Sharrieff’s birthday. Meanwhile, Meredith is back with Se...

Jan 14, 202145 min

Porsha & Kenya Meet Again (RHOA)

Dylan and Bari kick off the new week by discussing some baby news in the Bravo world. They give their feedback on Stassi’s name choice, and celebrate the fact that Dean Darby no longer looks like his father. Then, they dive into this week’s RHOA recap, beginning with why Riley’s college sendoff isn’t your average Housewives kid storyline. After unpacking Porsha’s emotional family discussion, they move on to Kenya’s surprise party, which was chaotic in the best possible way. Joe Biden didn’t show...

Jan 11, 202131 min

What Do We Do About RHOC? (RHOC, Southern Charm)

After the longest week ever, Bari and Dylan return to recap this week’s episodes of RHOC and Southern Charm. They discuss why this season of Orange County just hasn’t worked, what they’re expecting from the reunion, and what casting changes need to happen for next season. Over in Charleston, the episode centers on Madison’s awkward AF beach party, where tensions flare between Kathryn and most of the women. Why can’t she just have a conversation about her mistakes? Finally, they talk about why Le...

Jan 08, 202137 min

Dallas Stars & Open Bars (RHOD Premiere, RHOSLC, Below Deck)

Bari and Dylan take a break from stress-watching CNN to talk about what really matters: Bravo! It’s a packed show, and after trying to come up with a stronger word than “wasted” to describe one Below Deck charter guest, they get into the Real Housewives of Dallas premiere. They’re loving new housewife Tiffany, and after Kameron’s luxury garage sale and Stephanie’s over-the-top pool party, they’re excited to see where this season will go. Finally, they recap RHOSLC, and unpack Whitney’s foray int...

Jan 07, 202138 min

New Year, Same Kenya (RHOA)

Bari and Dylan kick off 2021 (Two Thousand Twenty-One, if you’re fancy) with a recap of this week’s Real Housewives of Atlanta. Bravo quickly breaks the fourth wall once again with the discussions of Cynthia’s upcoming wedding, and Kenya enlists Kandi to do her dirty work. Then, it’s a question of what’s weaker: Drew’s marriage or the Bravo safety protocols. Finally, they discuss the surprise party for Porsha, and Kenya’s response to being uninvited at the last minute. Learn more about your ad c...

Jan 04, 202130 min

Business Is Personal (Below Deck)

Bari and Dylan discuss their New Year’s Eve plans (or lack thereof), then get into what’s happening on Bravo. They discuss Candiace’s cryptic post, and whether she might be leaving RHOP. Then, they recap this week’s episode of Below Deck, and give their thoughts on Francesca and Elizabeth’s chaotic professional relationship. Finally, they share their New Year’s resolutions, and what they’re hoping for in 2021. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 31, 202027 min

Monique v. Candiace: The Last Stand (RHOP Reunion)

At long last, the RHOP reunion has drawn to a close, and Bari and Dylan attempt to pick up the pieces of an exhausting season. They unpack Monique’s delayed apology, the unseen production footage, and Karen’s HR complaint. Finally, they discuss Monique’s announcement that she’s leaving the show, and each name their favorite and least favorite housewives of the season. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 28, 202035 min

Do We Ever Get Tired Of Talking About Reality TV? Ft. Nina Parker

Bari and Dylan are joined by Nina Parker, host of Nightly Pop on E! They talk about what she’s been up to lately, and how life in quarantine is going. She shares how she and her co-hosts adapted their show for 2020, from social distancing to social justice. They discuss her work hosting Bravo’s Race In America specials, and how she hopes these issues will be discussed going forward. They also talk about what Nina has been watching lately, her complicated relationship with reality TV, and what sh...

Dec 24, 202026 min

The Thirst Book (RHOA, RHOP Reunion)

Dylan and Bari begin the episode by discussing Erika’s Friday night sneak attack. They share their thoughts on Mr. Girardi’s alleged affair, and what the texts actually mean. Then, they recap this week’s RHOA, which featured another new face, more marital drama for Drew, and a wedding planning meltdown from Cynthia. Finally, they get into part two of the RHOP reunion, and unpack why they still can’t get behind Candiace or Monique. Headspace: You deserve to feel happier, and Headspace is meditati...

Dec 21, 202041 min

Are Erika & Tom Broke? (RHOC, Southern Charm)

Bari and Dylan cap off a busy week on Bravo with another packed show. First, they discuss the new Summer House trailer, and why quarantine might be a good thing for the Hamptons crew. Next, they share updates in Erika Jayne’s legal scandal, and make predictions about how the drama might unfold on RHOBH. Then, they recap the latest episode of RHOC, which features an underwhelming cast trip, multiple positive COVID tests, and a questionable discussion of white privilege. Finally, they break down t...

Dec 18, 202038 min

Mustard Gas on the High Seas (RHOSLC, Below Deck)

Bari and Dylan brave the snowstorm to recap this week’s episodes of Below Deck and RHOSLC. Captain Lee has a lot on his plate, as he’s dealing with a firing, a poisonous gas incident, and an unexpected departure from another crewmate. Oh, and COVID is coming any minute. In Salt Lake City, it’s Sundance season, which means Lisa and Jen are busy planning parties, and Heather is busy trying to find a man. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 17, 202035 min

In Loving Memory of Giggy (RHOA, RHOP Reunion)

Bari and Dylan begin the episode by paying tribute to Bravo’s most beloved pet, Giggy. RIP, sweet Giggy. Then, they discuss Kristin Cavallari’s appearance on Craig’s Instagram, and debate whether she’s dating Austen. Next, they recap RHOA, and share their first impressions of the new cast members, Drew and LaToya. Finally, they get into the first part of the RHOP reunion, which heated up as Karen and Monique came for Gizelle’s relationship with Jamal. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit mega...

Dec 14, 202040 min
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