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Men Who Lead

Steve Nam
For men who know “the good life” will never be good enough — you want more. More strength to lead your home and community. More wisdom in your work. More impact that echoes into eternity. This podcast is about living with purpose, leading with courage, and being deeply intentional in the areas that matter most. Marriage. Family. Business. Self-Mastery. Leadership. Straight talk for growth-minded, faith-driven men. Practical, no-fluff insight to help you lead yourself and others well.
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Episodes

When Your Pastor Supports a Politician You Can't Stand

What do you do when your pastor supports a political figure you can’t stand? In this episode, we explore how to navigate political disagreements in the church without letting them hijack your faith. If you’re wrestling with offense, confusion, or the urge to walk away — this one’s for you. (00:00) - When your pastor supports a politician you can’t stand (01:25) - How offense can become your teacher (04:37) - Reclaiming your spiritual focus (05:52) - What government can never do (08:05) - God’s s...

Mar 26, 202535 min

How to Fight When You’re Tempted to Watch Porn (A Guide for Christian Men)

Temptation to watch porn isn’t just a battle of willpower — it’s a spiritual fight that requires the right strategy. If you keep falling into the same cycle, it’s time to expose the lies, arm yourself with truth, and fight back. Here’s how to resist temptation and walk in real freedom… (00:00) - The midnight battle destroying your spiritual life (02:18) - The enemy playbook that keeps you in bondage (03:26) - The fantasy lie that's costing you everything (05:56) - The entitlement deception that ...

Mar 15, 202520 min

Why You Keep Watching Porn (And How to Stop for Good)

Porn is just the surface-level issue — underneath it are patterns, wounds, and beliefs that keep you stuck. When you start doing the inner work, seeking real accountability, and replacing destructive habits with life-giving ones, that’s when true freedom begins. The question is, are you willing to take that step today or will you keep waiting…? (00:00) - The hidden truth behind every struggle with porn addiction (00:53) - The powerful Scripture revealing what God truly desires for you (01:15) - ...

Mar 13, 202515 min

Dangerous Myths That Keep Christian Men Addicted To Porn

Porn is not harmless, it’s not healthy, and it’s not victimless. Every time you give in, it’s shaping you into a man you never intended to be, and it’s robbing you of the life God has called you to live. It’s time to break free and step into the man you were created to be… (00:00) - Why "normal" is the most harmful lie you've been told (01:19) - The health myth causing irreversible damage to your body and mind (02:35) - Why the "reward" mindset is sabotaging your marriage (03:43) - The sleep con...

Mar 09, 202510 min

Critical Mistakes That Keep Christian Men Trapped in Porn Addiction

Breaking free from porn isn’t just about willpower, it’s about getting to the root, setting realistic expectations, and surrounding yourself with the right support. If you keep trying to do it alone or listening to the wrong voices, you’ll stay stuck in the cycle longer than you need to. But when you start taking the right steps, real freedom is possible… (00:00) - The hidden path to permanent freedom from addiction (00:17) - The critical mistake keeping you trapped in a cycle (00:55) - Why will...

Mar 06, 20256 min

Lies Keeping Christian Men Stuck in Porn (And the Truth That Sets You Free)

Lies keep you trapped, but the truth sets you free. The moment you stop believing that porn is necessary, that you’re beyond change, or that you have to fight alone, you begin to step into real freedom. God didn’t create you to be enslaved — He created you for so much more… (00:00) - The dangerous myth about sexual release most men believe (01:33) - Why feeling "too far gone" is holding you back from freedom (02:57) - The isolation trap Satan uses to keep you in chains (04:54) - Why suppressing ...

Mar 03, 20258 min

Exposing 6 Myths About Porn That Keep Christian Men Trapped

You were made for more than this addiction. The enemy wants to keep you blind, but God is calling you into freedom, into purpose, into the fullness of life He designed for you. The question is, will you step into it… (00:05) - The counterfeit pleasure destroying Christian men (01:48) - The health lie that's ruining your body and soul (03:41) - The dangerous reward system sabotaging your life (05:53) - The nighttime ritual keeping you in chains (09:28) - The hidden affair happening in your marria...

Feb 28, 202520 min

The 5 Biggest Mistakes Christian Men Make When Quitting Porn

You don’t have to stay stuck. You don’t have to keep circling the same struggle, hoping for a different outcome. The moment you decide to fight differently is the moment everything begins to change… (00:20) - The root mistake most men never address (01:06) - The timeline deception setting you up for failure (03:57) - The environmental triggers you keep ignoring (07:02) - The lone warrior mindset blocking your breakthrough (08:54) - The dangerous advice from the wrong guides (10:54) - The path to...

Feb 26, 202511 min

If You Believe These 5 Lies, You'll Never Break Free From Porn

The truth is, freedom is possible. You don’t have to stay stuck in this cycle. The lies that have kept you trapped don’t have to define your future. The moment you start believing the truth, everything changes… (00:04) - The physical need deception destroying your freedom (02:28) - The hopeless cycle that keeps you believing you can't change (04:31) - The isolation trap convincing you no one understands (09:17) - The suppression myth crippling your spiritual growth (12:12) - The forever prisoner...

Feb 24, 202516 min

I Thought I’d Never Quit Porn - Until I Realized This One Truth

When you finally step into that version of yourself — the man you were created to be — you’ll look back and realize that quitting porn wasn’t just about stopping a habit. It was about reclaiming your life, your purpose, and your God-given identity… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 23, 20254 min

Stop the Cycle - How to Remove Your Porn Triggers for Good

If you keep standing on the edge of the cliff, don’t be surprised when you fall — here’s how to remove your porn triggers for good… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 22, 202545 sec

Trapped in Guilt and Shame? God's Love Is Calling You Home

If guilt and shame have kept you stuck, God’s love is still calling you home — here’s how to take your first step back to freedom… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 21, 20252 min

Flee from Sexual Sin! A Biblical Warning Every Man Needs

Sexual sin isn’t just another mistake — it’s a battle for your soul. Here’s the biblical warning every man needs to hear… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 20, 20251 min

A Powerful Prayer of Surrender for Freedom from Porn

If you feel trapped in the cycle of porn, this powerful prayer of surrender could be the breakthrough you need… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 19, 20252 min

Pray This to Break Free from Porn Addiction

If you’re tired of the struggle, this prayer could be the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 18, 20252 min

Pray This If You’re Feeling Lost and Distant from God

If you feel lost and distant from God, this prayer could be the turning point you’ve been searching for… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 17, 20251 min

Pray This For Courage And Clarity To Overcome Porn

If you’re struggling with porn, this prayer for courage and clarity could be exactly what you need to break free… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 16, 20251 min

Why You Keep Running Out of Willpower to Quit Porn

If you keep running out of willpower to quit porn, it’s because willpower isn’t the real solution — here’s what you need instead… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 15, 202532 sec

Why Quitting Porn Cold Turkey Rarely Works (And What to Do Instead)

Quitting porn cold turkey sounds ideal, but there’s a reason it rarely works — here’s what to do instead… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 14, 202535 sec

Why Porn Is Wrecking Your Sleep (Even If It Feels Like It Helps)

Porn might feel like it helps you sleep, but it’s actually wrecking your rest — here’s why and what to do instead… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 13, 202539 sec

Why Porn Is Ruining Your Mental Health (And Your Sex Life)

They say porn is harmless, but it’s wrecking your mental health (and your sex life)… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 12, 202531 sec

Think Porn Is Normal? Here's The Danger No One Tells You

Porn isn’t just ‘harmless entertainment’ — it’s rewiring your brain and wrecking your view of intimacy. Here’s the truth no one tells you… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 11, 202536 sec

Suppressing Lust And Desire Won’t Work - Here’s What Will

Trying to suppress lust won’t set you free — but letting God redeem your desires will. Here’s what actually works… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 10, 202524 sec

Stop Hiding! The First Step to Overcoming Porn Addiction

Freedom from porn starts with one crucial step — stop hiding. Here’s how to break free and step into real change… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 09, 202532 sec

Step Into the Light (The Key to Breaking Porn Addiction)

Porn thrives in secrecy — but freedom begins when you step into the light. Here’s why breaking isolation is the key to real change… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 08, 202523 sec

Porn Is Not a Reward, It's Poison (Here's the Truth)

Porn isn’t a reward — it’s poison that slowly rots your life. Here’s the truth about why you don’t deserve it… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 07, 202540 sec

I Tried to Quit Porn Alone for Over 20 Years - Here’s Why It Never Worked

I tried to quit porn alone for over 20 years — and it never worked. Here’s why real freedom requires community… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 06, 20251 min

Don’t Miss the Obvious! Simple Steps to Quit Porn for Good

Quitting porn isn’t just about deep work — it’s about making obvious changes too. Here’s what you might be overlooking… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 05, 202529 sec

Can't Stop Thinking You Need A Sexual Release? You're Fooling Yourself

Feeling like you need a sexual release? That’s just your brain lying to you. Here’s the truth about breaking free… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 04, 202530 sec

Are You Addicted to Porn? Here's How to Know for Sure

Struggling with porn but not sure if it’s an addiction? Here’s how to know for sure — and what to do about it… Watch the video for this episode Follow for more: Newsletter : stevenam.com/menwholead Twitter / X : @themenwholead Instagram : @themenwholead Threads : @themenwholead YouTube : @themenwholead...

Feb 03, 20252 min
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